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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	I left my number for the cute waitress and she texted me "Heyyy". What do I do? Well yeah maybe but it’s just a template he can adjust the wording accordingly. As an experienced woman, I wouldn’t read this message as inexperienced. If someone approached me in my workplace I would like the angle of no pressure but each time their own.	/r/seduction	27/06/22 10:25 AM
22	I left my number for the cute waitress and she texted me "Heyyy". What do I do? “Thanks for messaging. I’d love to grab a bite or drinks sometime if you’d like? Something low key, no pressure and just have a chat. If you’re down, let me know whenever works for you and we’ll see if its doable. Have a good one.” Don’t let her know you are inexperienced in dating straight off the bat as it might make her feel worried about leading you on or you being too needy. Just go with the flow and don’t try to overact. She seems open minded and optimistic.	/r/seduction	27/06/22 07:34 AM
2	How to stop flakers You shouldn’t be investing in anyone that doesn’t give you a clear sign of interest. Keep your options open. If you don’t have many options right now, don’t let them know this. After several rearrangements on their side (you decide the cut off number) you make it clear what your intention is (if you haven’t already), indicate that the ball is in her court but also that you will be investing your time elsewhere until something materialises. This adds subtle pressure that she might be missing out …	/r/seduction	26/06/22 09:01 PM
3	I see girls with several sexual partners as unfit for being gf material Damn that last line. You are one of the good one’s. Really like your outlook. The trouble for inexperienced/those choosing to wait is indeed that 9 times out of 10, the other party just sees it as a nut to crack. A trophy to claim and there’s always little regard to thinking about what actually happens to the person post claim. To them it’s often merely just a talking point, a boast amongst pals, a moment to capture, a golden opportunity not to miss but to the virgin (particularly those who choo…	/r/seduction	22/06/22 11:49 PM
3	I tried shooting my shot and It didn’t work - now I feel worthless. It’s possible he accepted not based on what you looked like but thinking he knew you, accepted went through your roll, realised he didn’t and de followed. It may be nothing to do with what you actually look like. I do understand how men seemingly just wanting our bodies does affect the human psyche after a while. To many it should be the ultimate boost but it does dent confidence in those seeking more of an emotional uplift. My point is, there are so many women (and men) that feel utterly worthl…	/r/seduction	14/01/22 02:15 PM
15	Does crying in front of your girlfriend/partner destroy sexual attraction? No it heightens the attraction! The only way it would put a dent in attraction is if it was excessively so, without cause. Then I’d think it was more a hormone issue than authentic. Or if it was like Bruce Willis crying in friends. We love a tap but only if it can turn off. Generally if a man cries in front of me it conveys a deeper level of trust and signals he is in touch with himself beyond how others think he should act. Raw vulnerability is super attractive as long as it’s not excessive. If…	/r/seduction	12/01/22 11:26 AM
2	Everyone should watch the movie Hitch IMO the motto of the story is, all these preconceived ideas of how men should and shouldn’t act are, in the end, solely up to the individual traits of a woman. Yes getting confident at dating, practicing key social skills all help you get to the 3rd date (and help you in general life) but ultimately changing your personality to get there isn’t what women want. It’s not about changing yourself in itself but enhancing what skills you already have and finding the self assurance to be you, in whatev…	/r/seduction	15/11/21 02:49 PM
1	It seems like a lot of people view sex as something valuable that women give to men, which men then have to make up for in other ways. Maybe I’m naive but I’d much prefer to believe a man that buys me dinner does this because he genuinely likes me not as a means to getting his end away but maybe that’s why I tend to go halves because there’s an underlying guilt that if I don’t, there’s pressure on me to perform. I don’t view men as creeps simply for having a healthy appetite for sex. Where the issue can lie is how they go about it, not that the drive is there. I’m not against men that send sexualised messages of their intent bu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/20 01:47 PM