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| 1 | Prejudice in the familyI’m not against gender roles. I’m sick of being held to them when the reciprocal gender roles aren’t. Like, the hell you mean you want me to be a traditional man, meanwhile you’re a fiercely independent woman who goes clubbing every night. | /r/MensRights | 28/04/26 05:18 PM |
| 8 | More Relationship NonsenseThe hell? Therapy doesn’t work for everyone. Men and women have different brains, different ways of solving issues. It just so happens talking about things doesn’t do it for most guys so we don’t seek it out. ‘Emotionally outgrown’ talking about your emotions and letting them run rampant isn’t emotional maturity. Women do not want partnership by and large, they actually rank marriage as one of the lowest desires. If I don’t pay for the date, I don’t get a second. Not even joking. If I don’t put … | /r/EverydayMisandry | 18/04/26 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Do women's stated preferences actually contradict what they're biologically drawn to? Genuine question, hoping I'm wrong.I feel you exactly on the ‘I don’t want to be a cold, detached person’ dear god. I want to fall in love, not restrain myself from getting too attached… | /r/MensRights | 14/04/26 06:01 AM |
| 1 | Do women's stated preferences actually contradict what they're biologically drawn to? Genuine question, hoping I'm wrong.Yea, the simping was genuine love/care for them. It was just my natural instinct, which I now thankfully restrain. | /r/MensRights | 14/04/26 05:59 AM |
| 1 | Do women's stated preferences actually contradict what they're biologically drawn to? Genuine question, hoping I'm wrong.It wasn’t that I was putting on an act. I’m genuinely romantic and was genuinely in love with some of those women, especially the one who cheated on me. Me not being romantic/as nice is more putting on an act. Like, I’m deliberately choosing to restrain myself from being a romantic/nice and it works/gets more success. | /r/MensRights | 14/04/26 05:58 AM |
| 13 | Do women's stated preferences actually contradict what they're biologically drawn to? Genuine question, hoping I'm wrong.When I was younger and just figuring out dating. I lavished attention and romance upon the girls I dated. Tried to be everything they said they wanted. I just ended up cheated on, used, and disrespected. Several damn times till I wised up. Now I treat dating as an accessory to my life, barely give the same level of attention, and for some reason am leagues more successful than younger me. Genuinely feels like the worse I treat women the better I get treated… I hate it. I’m a romantic at heart un… | /r/MensRights | 13/04/26 05:14 PM |
| 1 | I see an increased amount of "white men" being used as a categorisation on hereAccess to healthcare is a class privilege/first world country privilege. The argument collapses when you look at a country like Japan or s Korea. Likewise with school, food security, etc. Do they have Asian privilege because they’re a first world country? Or is that just class privilege? Bad argument. Yea, being the default race in western countries to which my people are indigenous/majority isn’t some moral failing. That’s why I brought up ‘Arab privilege’ in middle eastern countries. Do they h… | /r/MensRights | 29/03/26 05:22 AM |
| 1 | I see an increased amount of "white men" being used as a categorisation on here‘So - it’s just more convenient to ignore the experience of others’ yea, that’s what you’re doing to me and every person who denies it. Pot calling the kettle black. It’s just a bad argument. I’ve not had a single advantage based on my skin color. Honestly had some disadvantages due to dei discrimination. I can talk about that if you want. ‘Ignores the reality and nuance of life’. This is my argument against white privilege. Conflating class/economic privilege and being the majority with skin co… | /r/MensRights | 24/03/26 02:07 PM |
| 12 | I see an increased amount of "white men" being used as a categorisation on hereNo. Identity politics are cancer, it’s one of the reasons for all the misandry that gets highlighted in this community. Why would a community, partially built from reacting to the consequences of identity politics, ever support a different branch of identity politics? It’s nonsensical. I deny the very idea of ‘white privilege’. It’s like ‘patriarchy’, a convenient narrative to justify privileges going the other way instead of just supporting equality. | /r/MensRights | 23/03/26 08:57 PM |
| 4 | Serious: what’s with women hating men?It’s a narrative that is foundational to their identity. They’ve been raised with the narrative of oppression, patriarchy. Men being evil. Lesser than them. There’s a funny subreddit called menkampf which basically takes rampant misandry and switches ‘women’ in posts for aryans and ‘men’ for Jews. Without fail every post comes out rampantly horrible. Their ideology is exactly as dehumanizing as a certain mustache man… and they’ll never understand that lest they invite cognitive dissonance. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 23/03/26 02:18 PM |
| 10 | Feeling disgusted of women latelyThis isn’t the healthiest. But I get it, I’m 21, been there. You’ve had your entire perspective on the opposite sex shift from ‘women are wonderful’ to ‘holy shit they really suck as people a lot of the time’. But, just keep in mind, they’re people too. People are flawed. Part of it can be cultural, or baked into psychology we can’t help. There’s no point in being angry at something for acting within its nature. You’ve reached the important part of being more aware and losing the benevolence gog… | /r/MensRights | 22/01/26 05:04 AM |
| 63 | oh yes because Female writers don't do this to male characters too<image> | /r/EverydayMisandry | 11/01/26 09:36 PM |
| 17 | Accused by (ex?) girlfriend, I’m scared and don’t know what to do (NSFW)She’s not your girlfriend anymore. Even if she wanted to be, have some self respect. You can’t trust her. Outside of that, cut contact. If she wanted to pursue charges or anything of the like, it will turn into a he said she said. It’s unlikely imo. But since she went to your place, are there any cameras like a doorbell camera that shows she willingly stayed/entered with you? Write down the encounter so you don’t forget details, but outside of that, there’s nothing to be done. Don’t panic. I had… | /r/MensRights | 12/12/25 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Am I a horrible man for being paranoid about marriage. I 32M, She is 24F and pregnant.God that’s horrifying. So glad I chose to live on this side of the pond since I’m a halfie. You’re not paranoid, you’re prudent. Marriage is just really unromantic from a my perspective. My mother advised me to never get married if I can help it. Just live together and have kids together without marriage… Granted no girl will ever accept that, but it’s an ideal, and way more romantic imo. I hate that I’m already strategizing how to keep all my hard work over years as premarital property. I’m a y… | /r/MensRights | 11/11/25 02:53 AM |
| 1 | She will lie, then lie again and then lie some more. Especially if you're the best she will ever getThat’s actually what I’ve been doing. Been dating a girl I don’t see as marriage material for the last few months, hence feeling guilty/regret. I basically gave up trying to find someone I considered marriage material, hence my current relationship. It’s been effective confidence wise, but definitely makes me feel guilty. What sort of pua stuff did you find most effective/best to learn? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/10/25 05:02 PM |
| 1 | She will lie, then lie again and then lie some more. Especially if you're the best she will ever getOh for sure I’ve got mental issues. The way I think about count is, and I’m definitely aware of it. I think I’ve got a pretty solid libido, the issue is I just get turned off by promiscuity/casual sex. Some part of me is just disgusted by it, even if my libido is really high/she’s the hottest woman ever. I had the chance once to go out with a solid 9/10, exactly my type physically. But just the things I knew she got up to/her personality turned me off. I think I just need to get over it through … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/10/25 03:26 PM |
| 3 | She will lie, then lie again and then lie some more. Especially if you're the best she will ever getI totally see what you mean, I understand feeling disgusted by promiscuity is going to just leave me completely unsatisfied/unhappy in dating. But I’m not the type of guy who can do hookups/casual sex, I’ve had opportunities, but I just can’t do it. I’m not sure why honestly, it just feels wrong/uncomfortable. I think regardless of if I engage in hookup culture, I’ll still be unsatisfied and unhappy with dating. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/10/25 02:22 PM |
| 0 | She will lie, then lie again and then lie some more. Especially if you're the best she will ever getI’m only 21. Age matters a lot, the standards range depending on age. I have a 22 year old friend, same masters program. I distinctly remember, a year ago, this man complaining that he couldn’t find a girl with a count of less than 5. Even the religious ones(since he’s more religious). My experience has been pretty similar, promiscuity is rampant. In an ideal world, I’d find someone with 0-1. I have 1, and I mildly regret the whole affair, I’m just not a guy who can do sex/hookups casually, desp… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/10/25 02:01 AM |
| 12 | She will lie, then lie again and then lie some more. Especially if you're the best she will ever getAccurate. I went in a few dates with a girl who claimed to be a virgin. But her background, her behavior, consistent small lies I caught her in, told me it was all a lie. I fled rather quickly, and I’ve only grown more certain. I dated a different girl for a while. Around me? She would dress all conservatively. And then I would see photos when she was at home, out with her family/sister, and it was like this conservative girl had disappeared and wanted to show off a lot more. Extremely bizarre. … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/10/25 01:04 AM |
| 1 | What do you think about paternity test?I’m all in favor. If I ever get married/have a kid. I’m getting a paternity test. Unfortunately, given the way women seem to take that, I’d probably get it secretly done through my brother/friend and offer them the same. Better to secret assurance than blow up your relationship/marriage. I can’t help but remember that one study about genetics/lineage I heard about, where they needed an extra 8% participants or such because they weren’t related. Fraud is a lot higher than people realize in my opi… | /r/MensRights | 27/10/25 12:41 AM |
| 2 | Men, specifically Gen Z guys, how many of the women you know in real life are misandrist?Forgive me if I'm wrong, but I've only taken a few business law classes. Dobbs returned power to the states about abortion. This doesn't prevent congress from trying to federally deal with abortion. But states generally have control over health and safety stuff, no? The constitutionality of a federal abortion ban is immediately put into question. "Congress may only enact legislation under a specific power enumerated in the Constitution, and cannot act beyond the scope of its powers to intrude im… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Men, specifically Gen Z guys, how many of the women you know in real life are misandrist?I'm not gonna dox myself, it's a small program where I live so doxing is possible if I give a name. But it's basically accounting. I can read SEC reports(and have for many projects), know tax shit given I've worked in tax firms, and understand economics/finance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 06:28 PM |
| 15 | Men, specifically Gen Z guys, how many of the women you know in real life are misandrist?I’ve never met a misogynist. Sure, some funny jokes about it. But never a real one. Some guys with religious beliefs tho who might qualify like my dad. So idk? Maybe 15-20% or less if you want to get technical about traditionalists? As for misandrists, they’re everywhere. My sister is a “kill all men” type progressive unironically. Progressive ex was as well. Nearly every girl I’ve dated tells me, “men suck and are all x”. And hold some rather misandrist beliefs. I just nod and disqualify ever m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 08:12 AM |
| 1 | The problem with the paternity test debateI’m not arguing for prisons??? You literally cant prevent cheating/paternity fraud with better education? Doesn’t work like that. It’s about culture/upbringing if anything. People are selfish for things that benefit them, men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/24 04:38 PM |
| 1 | The problem with the paternity test debateYea, im not arguing for mandatory legislation. That’s not realistic, 50% of the population at minimum would vote against it. Just maybe make it more common for guys to do secretly. “Why not choose a healthy relationship?” Am I to somehow exclude the 50% who are willing to lie to their partner about paternity? Is there an easy way to tell if they are that type? Point is you can’t. Just like you can’t tell if your partner would be the type to cheat on you most of the time. See, first girl I dated … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/24 02:48 PM |
| 2 | The problem with the paternity test debateAccording to a 2004 poll of 5k women by the Scotsman, HALF of women would be willing to lie about paternity to their partner if they wanted to stay. It’s not that actual rates of fraud are 4% in best estimates. It’s that your partner is willing to lie to you at a 50% rate because they “love” you. Put yourself in the shoes of fathering a child that isn’t your partners who you “love”. Do you tell him even if that means the end of the relationship? 50% said no. And that’s fucking scary as a man. It… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/24 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Is sex a product of a good relationship or is it a pre-requisite to one?Monogamy without sex is simply celibacy. Because monogamy is two parts. a) you agree to not sleep with anyone else. b) you sleep with each other. Missing either part of these two makes it not monogamy. Moving on, I think a good sex life is required to have a good relationship. Ever browsed the dead bedroom subreddit? These people stay because their partner is “perfect” in every single way except sex. But are driven mad by the lack of it. Those aren’t good relationships, no matter what those poor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/24 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Watching porn is not cheating and it is controlling to stop people watching it.It’s not controlling, it’s just a stupid boundary. I agree with the overall message, but you aren’t arguing this correctly. Men are usually way hornier. If you aren’t willing to provide explicit material or take care of your partners needs, then you shouldn’t complain about your partner managing their libido as long as they are not sleeping around/being unfaithful. Applies to both men and women. It’s just a dumbfuck boundary of trying to have power over your partner through denying them/being th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 06:06 PM |
| 7 | Obsession with “visceral attraction” is self-sabotage and not consistent with how people really behaveLust can be and IS meaningful since it’s part of love as I’m trying to establish. From both women and men. It’s not virtuous, but it’s not a guy only thing. I despise how male sexuality is looked down upon by people like you. Women are just as bad about it, it’s just accepted and not seen as a bad thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 05:47 PM |
| 6 | Obsession with “visceral attraction” is self-sabotage and not consistent with how people really behaveI mean, that’s an all human thing though, not just a guy thing. The amount of times I’ve seen my sis/mom/prior gfs gushing over a hot guy on tv is insane. They do it out loud comparatively. Men mainly just look at attractive women in my experience. Anyways, are you suggesting that being attracted to people who aren’t your partner cheapens it as an aspect of love? Do you accept it’s an aspect of love to begin with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 04:02 PM |
| 16 | Obsession with “visceral attraction” is self-sabotage and not consistent with how people really behaveYou don’t understand male psychology. For men, part of our love for our partners is visceral attraction. It’s what starts the process of love at all for us. It’s just an integral component to begin with at least, i can’t explain it well. In our minds if we date someone we aren’t viscerally attracted to, we’d feel dirty. Like we’re settling for them. Thus, when dudes realize that such attraction just isn’t present for them from women, it’s the feeling of being unloved. Typically, the language you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 07:32 AM |
| 14 | Men, why won't you commit?When you give the pretense of a “good relationship”, I’m conflicted. Men who are happy with it don’t have commitment issues. Maybe a good relationship from a woman’s perspective isn’t from the man’s. I’ve had this experience dating a girl where I told her I didn’t think things were going well, and she was genuinely shocked because she was really happy with me. Not a surprise honestly, I’m extremely high investment into anyone I date. From my perspective it was like, ‘no shit you’re happy, I’ve a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 01:07 AM |
| 2 | Why do guys stay in the friendzone if they know they're in it?Look, what’re you trying to argue? That a scum bag you don’t know didn’t cheat? That I’m full of shit? She was a pretty religious girl, the no close guy friends type. Yet, she purposely initiated close physical contact, got me gifts, etc. All the things that for her, and given her opinions, were ‘girlfriend stuff’. I think I have a pretty firm grasp of a girl I knew for years before we even dated. Just to be super clear on the timeline for you. Close friends/led on for 2 years(I was a dumbass, b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Why do guys stay in the friendzone if they know they're in it?Re read my first comment. I literally can’t fix stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 10:01 PM |
| 3 | Why do guys stay in the friendzone if they know they're in it?Yea, I asked her out, she said yes. Then texted me later backtracking. A few months later, and she asked ME out. Then we dated, and then she cheated on me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 09:38 PM |
| 2 | Why do guys stay in the friendzone if they know they're in it?Bro what? She literally asked me to be her boyfriend and we dated for a bit before she cheated on me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 06:56 PM |
| 7 | Why do guys stay in the friendzone if they know they're in it?My first girlfriend played games with my head for years when we were friends. Oh, when mutual friends mentioned us dating she’d literally go “ew no” right in front of me. But when alone, she’d literally cuddle with me, invite me out alone(just us), etc. literally all the signs she was in to me. I asked her out, she said yes, but backtracked to no later over text. We got along awesomely personality wise(bickering married couple), so I just shrugged and stayed friends. Few months later she started… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 03:30 AM |
| 1 | AmbitionAmbition just means money, let’s be real. I’ve had girlfriends say they like ambition, but in the next few sentences as I discreetly asked, it was always about money. My career has the potential to make loads of money, but it’s high stress and very long hours. I’ve been upfront that I want a simple, but good life. I’m not going to stay in that environment longer than I need to(experience wise) in order to get a good job with the wlb to actually be a present father. I’m absolutely going to sacrif… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/24 06:55 AM |
| – | ✨️🧚🏻♀️Why are lads personally offended over what a lady does with her body?🧚🏻♀️✨️I’m saving myself for the right girl, that being a girl whose doing the same. You can imagine how many that eliminates(most) given I live in America. I’m just frankly disgusted by most of the behavior I see, plus the double standards in still expecting more traditional treatment. It’s just the degeneration of meaningful relationships, promiscuity on both sides that is. Like, I’ve not worked for years to be a good partner/man to settle for a girl who gives me the proverbial ‘ick’. The shame is mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 06:00 AM |
| 12 | It feels like 90+% of young women in the US hate men, and society cheers them on for itI always help out friends in uni since I’m the nerd. I’ve had multiple girls just use me for study help, at least the dudes actually became my friends after I helped them. The girls just dropped me, one feigned interest to string me along for a summer fling after I got a little more attractive. But it is what it is. You’re not a person, you’re an it. Sooner that’s accepted the better tbh. | /r/MensRights | 01/02/24 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Dating advice, therapy bait-and-switchHit the gym, invest in skincare, get a new haircut. Look into men’s fashion, get yourself some new hobbies. Improved looks will get the dates, hobbies/interests will keep the dates interested. If that doesn’t work there’s no hope in your current dating market, at that point move to a more favorable one.(majority young women city for instance like NY, or foreign country) The therapy line is just a fuck off line, plenty of broken people date just fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 04:57 AM |
| 3 | Should late bloomer men insist hard on "starter girlfriend" status or not?Hah, this brings me back. My first girlfriend introduced me to the term. I was a late bloomer, knew her for years before we started dating. She was scared that I’d go for a younger girl since she was years older than me, and that I’d treat her as a starter girlfriend. I thought it was weird at the time since I couldn’t understand it. She was the girl I loved after all. Anyways, she ended up treating me like shit despite my best efforts, 50/50 whether she cheated, and things ended. Unironically h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 04:32 AM |
| – | Question for RedPill about households where each spouse works full-timeI’m setting up my career that we both work full time till it’s time for kids. Then, hopefully, the kids are raised by the mother till school aged(or permanently if she wants). I’m young enough that it should give me enough time to get some promotions in my career which promotes very quickly(yearly at start). Downside is I’ll be worked like a dog for many years. Plus is I should be making decent money off a single income. I’ll have some wfh, but that’s still working full time and would result in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/24 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Modern dating strategy: Dating multiple people before being exclusive - Are males against this?I always dated 1 person at a time. If the first date went well, I’m not seeing anyone else already. No talking, nothing. I always thought it was the respectful thing to do. It always made me uncomfortable not doing that, and at the same time it makes me rather uncomfortable knowing the same isn’t being done for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 02:56 PM |
| 2 | Is it true that a good amount of women want alpha males to have some beta qualities?You’re satisfying both ends of the spectrum for your girl, those other dudes aren’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 05:46 AM |
| 2 | Is it true that a good amount of women want alpha males to have some beta qualities?You’re thinking about this wrong. What do women’s romance books always have? A strong, powerful man. And the main appeal? This strong, powerful man woos/pursues/submits parts of himself for an ordinary girl. The billionaire playboy gets on his knees and asks Becky from accounting on a date/for forgiveness. So yea, other guys are more dominant. And to an extent that’s attractive for women because dominance is seen as a masculine trait. But they want you to be dominant/mean to others, and sweet to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 03:49 AM |
| 3 | i’ve seen this idea tossed around that women are more susceptible than men to social trends - both genders are very susceptible to trends, let’s stop pretending its one sidedI’m going to give you the most compelling argument. Where does the advertising money go, and who is responsible for most consumer spending? Yes, both genders fall for social trends. But where does most social trend advertising go to? There wouldn’t be a disparity if there wasn’t a psychological difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Can men give some concrete examples of being emotionally vulnerable to women, and women reacting negatively?Yea, my dad is alive. Honestly out of my siblings I treat him the most normally, I respect him for giving me a good life/start. Funny thing is her dad is a lot like my own and she's pretty close to him. I don't plan on perfectly concealing my weaknesses, I do plan on never purposely exposing them if that makes sense. If stuff's going to be used against me, I'd rather not hand out the weapon myself, since that would reflect on my own stupidity. I'm essentially avoiding self sabotage, even if in y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 04:16 AM |
| 0 | Can men give some concrete examples of being emotionally vulnerable to women, and women reacting negatively?Well, comparatively we’ve not fought yet, so I’ve no idea what she’s like in a fight. I’ve just set my boundaries and dodged the one time she asked somewhat about trauma/weaknesses. Compared with finding a unicorn who won’t use stuff against me, it’s just easier to deal with keeping my mouth shut. Besides, I’m not done evaluating this girl since it’s just been a few months. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 12:42 AM |
| 15 | Can men give some concrete examples of being emotionally vulnerable to women, and women reacting negatively?I really don’t want to be like my dad when I grow older. He has anger issues, and I quite honestly just don’t want to be a man like that, how he behaved/behaves. I told my ex that in confidence, that I sorta had daddy issues from that, but I was using it as a blueprint for the kind of guy I absolutely didn’t want to be. From that I developed my boundaries, that I won’t raise my voice in arguments, I’ll never say stuff with intent to hurt, and expect the same back. Of course, that behavior got me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 06:36 PM |
| 3 | Perspective of a grandfather who married and had a successful wholesome relationship with a foreign women and how it’s shaped my view on the passport bro movementI got a better story, I’m the product of it. My dad is now retired American military. He was stationed over in Europe, and his American wife refused to come with him. She eventually accused him of infidelity(projection, the man is super blue pilled in a tradcon way), and went batshit crazy racking up credit card expenses before they divorced. So my dad got himself a European girl, my mom, who had traditional values. She moves with him, they marry, becomes a sahm, and raises the family. And while… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/23 04:31 AM |
| 6 | "Only 2% of SA allegations are false. Trust victims!" Bullshit.You forget the ones that never enter the legal system. I have a friend whose Highschool sweetheart accused him when they broke up because she was the pastors daughter, and they didn’t wait till marriage(her idea he told me). She didn’t go to the police, she just made sure his friends abandoned him, made sure he got kicked out of his church, and made doubly sure to humiliate him. Dude was suicidal for nearly a year. Glad he pulled through honestly. | /r/MensRights | 23/12/23 06:00 AM |
| 2 | To 35+F, what do you think of men 35+M who went on strike against you?She was technically a foreigner living in America like me, just from a different central European country. But in retrospect very Americanized(starbucks etc). Currently dating an American girl who is better so far, but still not great at reciprocation. I’m sticking with her since I’m the first boyfriend, which counts for a lot given the lack of baggage in my opinion. It also makes me a little more forgiving about the reciprocation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/23 02:41 AM |
| 3 | To 35+F, what do you think of men 35+M who went on strike against you?Yea. Unironically was a pastors daughter. Knew her for 2 years prior so I thought I could trust her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 10:10 PM |
| 1 | To 35+F, what do you think of men 35+M who went on strike against you?Shit, I’m like a younger version of you, already cheated on with my first relationship(vetted for a religious girl with good values). I try to act like the best guy a girls ever been with, that’s always my goal. I’ve never met a girl who actually reciprocates my effort in the slightest, so I feel like I’ll die alone. Earnest and sincere intentions mean nothing if some other random gives more attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 04:14 PM |
| 2 | If the man doesn't like the woman more the relationship will never work out. Youtubers and red pill men need to stop telling women to pursue men. Men hate to be pursued and feel uncomfortable with a woman thirsting after him“Men hate to be pursued” Are men human? Yes, we are. We enjoy being pursued just like women, even more so since it’s rare prolly. I’d argue it’s a balance, with the woman needing to be somewhat more interested for it to work long term. There needs to be reciprocity for me to continue my pursuit. Men aren’t wellsprings of confidence and perfection, show interest and act like you give a fuck too. Honestly considering breaking up with a really great girl who has most of what I’m looking for because… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 01:59 AM |
| 7 | How do you explain your dating struggles to your parents?My dad was rather happy when I, a late bloomer, got my first gf(ex) at 19 after 2 years of college. I heard he raved about her in a call to my brother about how well she fit in. Brother(10y+) had also been concerned since he was much more successful at my age. Luckily he understood somewhat that dating is hell for young guys. My mom has some strange ideas about dating tbh. She was unconcerned, because her dating experience was casual and not caring about finding someone serious before marrying m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 06:51 AM |
| 1 | “Nothing is more unattractive to women than low self confidence”Aggressiveness. 2. Risk taking behavior. Confidence isn’t flipped on and off with a magical hormone. It comes from experience. Aggressive and risk taking men outperform more risk averse men. That makes sense. But acknowledge that both of those types of men start at the same spot, no confidence. Because they both start with no experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 01:49 AM |
| 1 | “Nothing is more unattractive to women than low self confidence”Testosterone does not increase confidence. It increases aggressiveness and risk taking behavior. Like faking confidence. That plucky 18 year old virgin who’s never kissed a girl has the most testosterone he will ever have in his life. Despite being at his testosterone peak, his confidence with women? None. It’s gotta be developed, he needs experience, and the way to get your foot in the door is faking it for a little while till he knows what he’s doing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 01:35 AM |
| 1 | “Nothing is more unattractive to women than low self confidence”How else are you supposed to develop confidence? If you don’t have it, and can’t get it because you don’t have it. Are you just supposed to never date? Stay in a hole and die? Fake it till you don’t have to is the only sound option for dudes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 01:28 AM |
| 1 | “Nothing is more unattractive to women than low self confidence”Improved self esteem comes from success. Success comes from confidence, derived from improved self esteem. It’s a loop. You aren’t born with confidence. You can’t develop good self esteem without interaction and validation. Women have no patience for a lack of confidence, so fake it till you make it and don’t need to fake it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 01:18 AM |
| 1 | “Nothing is more unattractive to women than low self confidence”As a guy, the only way to date is to de-personify yourself. Don’t have great confidence? Fake it. Behave without shame, you aren’t a person. The self doubt you only allow yourself in privacy. You are selling an illusion because women don’t look for people initially, they are looking for products. The finished made man, with stellar self confidence(purely fictional unless top % looks). They’re not gonna give a shit, so don’t act like a person, act like a product. It worked for me, and I don’t hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/23 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Let's say there was a reliable test to see if your male partner had ever cheated or would ever cheat on you. Would you use it, and would you judge other women negatively for using it? Also included in the test is if they've ever abused a woman in the past, or will abuse you in the future.You executed this in the wrong way. You brought up paternity tests, which put them in the defensive mode to justify their positions on paternity tests, even if that doesn’t match what they would actually want to do. Try this in like a month without mentioning it and you may get more accurate results. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/23 05:31 AM |
| 2 | The narratives pushed in this sub are not representative of the average dating experienceThis exactly. Went from a thin nerd with a bowl cut, to more filled out build and better haircut as I finally grew into my facial features(still a nerd tho). Of course, the moment I ‘glowed up’ is the moment I got my first girlfriend/date in college. First girlfriend was someone I was friends with for years, my personality didn’t do shit, my glow up moved me from friend zone to more as she was the one who initiated the relationship convo. Then after she became the ex, I was exceedingly surprised… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 02:23 AM |
| – | How Important Do You Think Your Romantic Life is to Your Happiness?My career, my ambition, my years of studying, most of my major life goals are all for my love life. I want a fulfilling love life, and from a young age I knew it was a requirement for a family down the line. I have a gf, so somewhat of a success I guess, but I thought that before so I’ll see in a few months how it goes. I enjoy other things, but for lifelong fulfillment and happiness? Nothing else holds a candle from what I’ve seen. If by a certain age I haven’t gotten that yet? Just replay the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 11:26 PM |
| 2 | Women don’t hate men being vulnerable. These men claiming so just don’t know how to act like adults or date emotionally unavailable women.I genuinely like this framing. But I see how it can also lead to a rather depressive or egoist mindset, because everything is your fault. I agree with core point 1, but I cannot fully agree with core point 2. I say this because if you believe in core point 1, you must believe that all others are also responsible for themselves. And if all others take ownership of themselves and their actions, then core point 2 cannot be correct in many instances. At some point, it can be the failure of another. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 05:09 PM |
| 2 | Women don’t hate men being vulnerable. These men claiming so just don’t know how to act like adults or date emotionally unavailable women.I frame it as used against me in a manipulative way because that’s what happened. One of the main reasons I broke it off. It’s one of my firm boundaries that during fights, I’ll never raise my voice, use vulnerabilities, or insult. I expect the same back. I’m not sure how you get a lack of emotional control from sharing what kind of man I don’t want to be like. Weakness I can agree with, a lack of emotional control I can’t, given that was the learning experience from my dad. I am interested in w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 04:47 PM |
| 2 | Women don’t hate men being vulnerable. These men claiming so just don’t know how to act like adults or date emotionally unavailable women.I opened up about not wanting to be like my father(anger issues, etc). That falls under your ‘appreciate’ list i would presume. Guess who I got compared to in the next fight? Never, ever got an apology for how she used the shit I was vulnerable about against me. She’s now my ex, but my real life experiences track that if I’m vulnerable, that stuff will be used against me, hence me not being vulnerable with current gf. And that seems to be a working strategy so far. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 03:28 PM |
| 1 | The quality of women’s dating app profiles in Europe is far superior to the profiles of women in USA.This, gf was from bumble, her opening line was a question. The conversation was relatively high effort that set her apart from my other matches. It wasn’t even all that much effort tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/23 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Guys with girlfriends, How did you land them?I think my looks are along the ‘good enough’ minimum, alongside how I act.(I’m rather affectionate and romantic with partners). Essentially, if a girl describes ‘husband material’, I’m roughly along those lines. I really need to develop some ‘bad boy’ traits, since I’m pretty sure most women find me boring at my age. I have absolutely no fucking idea how I got my girlfriends though. One used me as a fling, so right time and place I guess. The second also seems like a right time and place because… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 02:44 PM |
| – | The relationship zones video explains why women are self-sabotagingI really wish he didn’t have to name himself hoe_math. It removes his credibility, and most obviously aren’t watching it because of that. However, he is obviously not a normal redpill or blackpill, cel type. It’s like he takes the correct aspects of each pill ideology, and boils it down into a coherent and simple visualization. The guy is profoundly awesome at explaining dating/relationships. As a guy, I instantly realized how accurately he described our relationship zones. And how he described … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 02:27 PM |
| 1 | The reality of dating for menYea, but I think it’s very much the exception tbh. Not even sure if it’s going to work out long term tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 05:35 PM |
| 1 | The reality of dating for menCurrent gf was from bumble. Had the app active for 2 days before I froze it. She’s the shy type, and I’m reasonably certain I’m her first bf. Quite literally an OLD unicorn, got us off the apps pretty quick because I feared competition. Don’t know how long she had the app tho. Not sure if my conversion rate was good, but I got about 24ish likes and about 4 matches.(was pretty selective honestly) Got 1’s snap, it went nowhere though, another put no effort so unmatched. Current gf offered me her n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 05:15 PM |
| 7 | Women are the Problem in the Dating MarketThat’s sounds incredibly rare and im inclined to agree partially, I’m happy for you! For the younger generations, I don’t think we can count on finding somebody like that when we get older though. Social media, OLD, baggage starts young. | /r/AllPillDebate | 14/11/23 05:24 AM |
| 17 | Women are the Problem in the Dating MarketLook, I'm saying this right now, you have to find love/a partner young if you don't want them to be affected by the overabundance in the modern era. This applies to you too though. My current relationship is with a girl who I suspect I'm her first boyfriend... which to be honest, is amazing. No entitlement yet, no major red flags, no trauma. I get to spoil her and actually be appreciated for it. She's given me more gifts than vice versa too... My ex, who was older by a good 2 years, had plenty o… | /r/AllPillDebate | 14/11/23 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Giving Chances is Low ValueIdk if my experiences apply, since ex used me. But I definitely learned from my ‘starter’ girlfriend what the hell red flags are. High maintenance women are simply red flags for a high effort guy like me. Entitlement, and lack of appreciation/reciprocation are the main things. It’s funny those men somehow find successful relationships after high maintenance women who try to ‘train’ them. Almost like the guys weren’t the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 03:57 PM |
| 25 | Most men today don’t date in college, or in generalMost guys I know who try struggle immensely, but I mostly know decent, average guys. I also know a literal chad who has no interest in dating. Didn’t quite understand it tbh, the guy could easily get a gf, but he seems under the impression it’s more trouble than it’s worth for him right now in school. He just really hates his options… as a chad… which I think says enough about the quality of options around. | /r/AllPillDebate | 09/11/23 05:15 AM |
| 1 | As a male you won't know your true league unless you quit online datingSee, I have a pretty bad rbf, so I’m not totally approachable I guess. So you still gotta do half the work for women to approach though, even for top tier guys? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 04:20 AM |
| 1 | As a male you won't know your true league unless you quit online datingMy friends advised the exact same thing. Still have no idea how I’ll ignore my eyes, but I’ll try! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 12:03 PM |
| 9 | Men, how much do you care about a woman’s personality?One of my friends termed the largest red flag to him as 'ego'. The type who wants you to serve, put her on a pedestal, thinks she's all that, yknow? And while I'm perfectly happy to do that for someone I love, it seems to be really bad for the narcistic types who will then treat you as beneath them. I realize my ex definitely had that, and it is something I try to filter for now. I want someone who is willing to give just as much as I do, or at least a little. After I find someone cute, personal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 03:46 AM |
| 1 | As a male you won't know your true league unless you quit online datingThank you, I appreciate the sentiment, but idk man. I'm not exactly masculine enough to be a gigachad. Average height and pretty lean for my size. I think its just the framing on the photo, I look a bit funky in normal lighting and there's definitely a reason that was the leading photo. Hope your night is going well! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 03:18 AM |
| 3 | As a male you won't know your true league unless you quit online datingThank you, it's probably the best photo of me tbh. I'm not very photogenic most of the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 03:14 AM |
| 2 | As a male you won't know your true league unless you quit online datingLol, that would be very amusing even if I don't see it. Has my flair updated? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 09:08 PM |
| 1 | As a male you won't know your true league unless you quit online datingHmm, that's an interesting thought. I was 50/50 on this being the first photo since it was at night, but I guess it worked out. Thanks for the comment, that's definitely something interesting to think about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 07:33 PM |
| 2 | As a male you won't know your true league unless you quit online datingThank you? That's a pretty unique description lol. Don't think I undersold myself though, I've not had a lot of success with women. It's my impression that particularly good looking guys get active interest. I'm just above average from what I've seen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 07:28 PM |
| 2 | As a male you won't know your true league unless you quit online datingThanks! Yea, I'm working on growing bigger. I'm decent without a shirt, but I just look tiny wearing normal clothes. I'm about 170 5'9ish, I'm thinking around 185ish I'd actually look decent in a shirt. Idk about the IRL thing, I never had great success or garnered a lot of interest. My ex was the only other girl I dated tbh, and that really blew up on me, drove me to RP and everything. Anyways, have a great day bro! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 07:16 PM |
| 2 | As a male you won't know your true league unless you quit online datinghttps://imgur.com/HsZxIsh This was my pfp | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 06:56 PM |
| 2 | As a male you won't know your true league unless you quit online datingYea, honestly not sure what a girl like her was doing on OLD. But then again, her photos weren’t the best tbh. They gave more of a rather cute vibe vs literally drop dead gorgeous. Her photos made me think we were looksmatched, but then irl she was way better looking. I was ‘what the fuck’ing internally on our first date. I would have never asked her out IRL. I don’t think I’m under-rating myself. My understanding is that once you are 8+ looks wise, girls ask you out or show interest, which I’ve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 06:49 PM |
| 7 | As a male you won't know your true league unless you quit online datingI might be an exception here. My ex who I met in person was a 6-7, and the girl I’m dating now who I met from OLD is a solid 10 in my eyes. Like, if I had described a girl with my ideal looks, i would have described her pretty much. 3 dates in, and she’s got a great personality on top of everything, no red flags. I think I might’ve stumbled on a unicorn, not too much experience dating, etc. Thank god we both got off the app pretty quick. I’d rate myself a 6-7, so I thought I was looksmatched wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 06:29 PM |
| 2 | How does a woman's social media use affect your attraction to her?I used to be cool with it… now nothing disgusts me more. My ex was very social media obsessed, tik tok, Instagram, etc. She went on a family vacation, said she was turning her phone off. Well, she pulled shit that made me concerned before she left, but I gave her the benefit of the doubt. I tried addressing it in a call, nope, very dismissive. Tried writing it out, how she was being dismissive in a nice way, since communication is important. This girl made sure I was serious about her, and we pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 11:42 PM |
| 1 | If you ever got a real match on dating apps that means you were a chad in that woman's eyesDamn, went on bumble for a few days, was incredibly selective for perceived values and tbh, what I found cute. Prolly liked about 12-15 girls profiles? Day 2 had 4 matches, put it on snooze afterward, 23 likes. 1 barely said anything, another ghosted after snap chatting, 1 seemed eager to meet me(who I’m now dating, having both deleted the app after a few dates), and 1 seemed decently interested in our conversation, but I didn’t really feel a connection so I didn’t end up asking her out. I’m not… | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/10/23 03:01 AM |
| 3 | Women create "red pilled" men regularly.Man, im sorry that happened to you. If you ever wanna talk to someone, let me know. I’m really only able to date because I’m still young and stubborn. It sounds like you’ve gone through and survived much, much worse. Praying for you bro! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 04:49 AM |
| 10 | Women create "red pilled" men regularly.Yea, I think you're interpreting correctly for the most part. I never really liked the whole rp 'take advantage' mentality. I think I could be the f-boy, I got enough going for me, but I want to build a life with someone who wants me, yknow? Bit of a romantic in me I guess. But as much as I dislike that aspect of rp mentality, a lot of what they say unfortunately resonates with my experiences. So I just bottle up the pessimism and try to be aware of it/lookout for it. I really hope I found that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 05:32 PM |
| 15 | Women create "red pilled" men regularly.This tracks, but is more internal skepticism of women’s intentions with me. After getting abandoned by my previous relationship who made sure I was serious about her, even though the new girl I’m dating is amazing, I just have this internal skepticism that it’s to use me or somesuch. Doesn’t help that I think she’s out of my league. Idk, I kinda take pride in the way I treat those I’m dating. Sure, I’ll repeat ‘it’s just your turn’ in my head, but I generally try to be the best guy they’ve dated… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 01:39 PM |
| 8 | romantic relationship is a privilege not a right, i think understand that would solve a lot of issues between men and womenLet me tell you a story I once heard. “Once upon a time there was an average joe called bob. He was a normal man, had a normal job, physique, face, and was generally a good person. Bob goes to work with his coworker Jeff. Jeff is a known adulterer and abuser. Jeff does not save any money, nor spend it responsibly. Still, every week he seems to have a new woman on his arm compared to Bob who struggles. Bob doesn’t think he deserves a woman, but he sure as hell thinks he should be doing better tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 12:00 AM |
| 4 | Women are actively repelled by genuinely kind men no matter how attractive they are, and rather consistently go for toxic men who mistreat them. This entire issue has been hijacked and obfuscated by them fabricating this bullshit “nice guy” narrative.Treat a woman very well from the get go and you will be treated like trash. Unfortunate reality I’ve experienced | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/10/23 06:46 PM |
| 5 | be careful with LTRs if there wasn't attraction at first sightHoly shit this matches my experience with ex, but I’ve not really experienced someone actually attracted. The whole “grow on someone” leads to horrible results for the guy down the line, even if he ‘gets’ the girl. | /r/AllPillDebate | 05/10/23 03:57 PM |
| 1 | be careful with LTRs if there wasn't attraction at first sightEx said she was attracted to my brain, as if that was a compliment. Really made me wonder if she even found me attractive. Made me rather uncomfortable at the time, though I couldn’t place it. It was more of an, “I like you for your attention and how you help me with my schoolwork” in my opinion. Of course, as soon as she was at fault for something major and I withdrew a bit, she ditched me after treating me like trash. | /r/AllPillDebate | 05/10/23 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Whats keeping you aliveNaive hope that everything I’ve experienced is wrong and I’ll find someone. Plus, it would make my family sad. They might not treat me as a human, but I still am one and I’ll live my life. | /r/AllPillDebate | 03/10/23 10:56 PM |
| 1 | What would you say are the chances of being falsely accused of sexual harassment by a woman?One of my best friends was falsely accused. His ex never took it to the police(cause it was fake), just socially ruined him from his church and friends. I know what some women are like after messy breakups too, so personally I find odds are way too damn high. I consider myself lucky I have the nuclear button if my ex ever tried something.(tax fraud to report to irs) Honestly, the best thing to keep in mind is that you gotta avoid the crazies, either gender. Men for SA, women for false accusation… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Q4M do you agree with following statements?I wouldn’t say average, but I wouldn’t say uncommon either. Prolly a 40/60 split maybe? Who knows, anecdotally its a lot. My two closest friends and brother have similar stories. One older friend was planning on proposing to gf of 5 years, she broke up with him suddenly. Guy is real sweet too. Like, the kind of guy to drop out of med school to take care of his dad. He started coping by working crazy hours, not sure if it’s still eating him up inside. Other guy was like middle school sweethearts,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 02:32 AM |
| 2 | Q4M do you agree with following statements?2 happened when I tried to communicate 3 was wrong, that I wouldn’t accept being treated like trash. Was always giving so much of myself up until that point, but eventually had enough of the disregard. Got abandoned/ghosted after I tried communicating you couldn’t just… not care, drop the relationship at a whim, do less than the bare minimum. I tried communicating it respectfully, tried everything, but the clock was ticking when she had to accept accountability that her behavior was shit. Her be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 12:00 AM |
| 3 | When was the last time you were vulnerable with someone?Yea, last time I opened up to someone they used that against me. Told her about my issues with my dad, how I aspired to be different(anger issues etc). “Didn’t you say you didn’t want to be like your dad?” Me-“I’m not” “I don’t see it”. Told her my greatest fear was being abandoned by people I care about. Instead of breaking up normally saying she wasn’t interested, after making sure I was very serious about her, very invested, she decided to abandon/ghost the relationship, completely blindsided… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 12:05 AM |
| 2 | Life as a single man vs a single womenDamn, I’m thinking of starting a gym myself. Any tips? Do you cater to women for the gym as well, or is that a bar/entertainment exclusive thing? I’ll prolly be starting it around the Cleveland area in the states, I’m hedging my bets about the area. Is it realistic to do a full time job and run a gym in your mind(my plan at first)? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 02:22 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Most of the incels here just want StacyI’m not a bad looking guy, I’m actively working on self improvement/fitness and am pretty lean already. I’ve got a good future career set up mostly, and I’m not a conversational bore. My stickler? I have standards. I’m not chasing Stacy, I’m looking for someone with similar values around my lookdmatch. That means thin, more traditional leaning, no promiscuity, etc. I literally hold what I am looking for to the same standards that I hold myself too. Doesn’t work too well honestly. | /r/AllPillDebate | 24/08/23 03:27 AM |
| 0 | A post i saw on the sub of my country about girls dating multiple guysYea, I wouldn’t do that as a guy. One girl at a time, no excuse for women to have it different. Because at that point, how can you be expected to develop a long term mindset for a relationship when you are in shopping mode? Definitely something to remember to ask as a huge red flag trait. | /r/AllPillDebate | 24/08/23 03:07 AM |
| 2 | When you’re married and have children, what will your financial situation be?Both until kids. Then kids, I try to pick up more hours, she stops, goes part time(eventually). I’ll have a hybrid job, so I could definitely help as well and make that part time possible. Honestly, my career path should end up with me being able to support alone, but every little bit early on helps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 03:38 PM |
| 2 | Would you give up video games for sex?What are your favorite books? I have some time off before I’m working full time in the summer, so I could slot something in. How’d you come upon your catch phrase btw? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 02:23 AM |
| 21 | Would you give up video games for sex?I like that advice, I really do. I think society has this unhealthy fixation with the shaming of virgins, especially men. I’m glad it helped you! I struggled with similar thoughts for a long time before reaching the conclusion myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 02:21 AM |
| 73 | Would you give up video games for sex?Correlation does not equal causation. Fact: men who play games daily 50% less likely to have casual sex comparatively. Correlation essentially. Now, are we incorrectly attributing the cause to games? Or is it that the men who can’t get casual sex as easily find other interests to spend their time on? Is that why you are asking this question? Similar to the violence in video games thing. Do video games make people violent, or are violent people more interested in violent games? My answer is no. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/23 09:21 PM |
| – | If you stay in the friend zone hoping for action, it’s on you.Flirting, touching too much, not shutting it down when a guy starts showing interest(which you have no intention of reciprocating). Essentially letting someone think they have a romantic shot with you, when they don’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 10:18 PM |
| – | If you stay in the friend zone hoping for action, it’s on you.I've never experienced that stuff with other dudes at all, especially all at once, combined, and suddenly, so maybe that's influencing how I think about it. I suppose that might be a gender difference? I have noticed women tend to have closer friendships. I'm cool being friends legitimately. I suppose I am uncomfortable with the whole 'bff' treatment as you call it. I would much prefer going back to being, yknow, ordinary friends? As I originally intended I suppose. I just don't think her behavi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 09:41 PM |
| – | If you stay in the friend zone hoping for action, it’s on you.That's how I'm taking it so far, platonic physical intimacy. It's just, given her upbringing, it very much is a more romantically slanted activity if its non-family and with opposite sex. But it never used to be like this as normal friends, its a very recent development in combination with other classic interest signs you read about(compliments + being nicer, wanting to spend time more, touching me more(hugs, playful slapping, back massage)). It's just a mindfuck honestly, and one I intend to st… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 07:53 PM |
| – | If you stay in the friend zone hoping for action, it’s on you.Yea, I asked her out a while back, before the cuddling and physical contact, she initially said yes, but then backtracked, said she didn't really have the 'time to give you proper attention' was the reason, too busy etc. I just took it as a polite way to say not interested in me. In Uni, same major, same progression level so far. We get along rather well, so obviously friends and I don't have a lot to spare, not the most social guy. Had some conversations where I specifically asked if she liked … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 07:43 PM |
| – | If you stay in the friend zone hoping for action, it’s on you.Yea, in cases where nothings there I get it. But honestly the most complaining about friendzones I get is when the chick clearly leads the guy on. Gives him romantic hints in private, but nothing in public around friends. It’s wild to see a chick literally cuddling a friend, but then when a friend insinuates them dating goes ‘ew’. Those are the guys I sympathize with, especially somewhat awkward unsuccessful dudes because in that situation you have no fucking clue what’s going on and it only rea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 04:18 PM |
| 3 | No, men are the ones who are white supremacists.I’m a white guy, is it wrong for white guys to like white women? Honestly, I remember hearing about this study where men were more open to diverse partners than women. Or were more open minded about it or somesuch and women preferred of same race more. Can’t for the life of me remember where it was tho, so disregard it until someone finds it. | /r/AllPillDebate | 01/05/23 09:53 PM |
| 3 | Why do higher body counts make women worth less than those with lower ones?I view that as absolutely a good thing. Probably won’t affect much, but eh. Actions should conceivably have consequences, and shame has a place in enforcing ideal social behavior. | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/04/23 05:07 AM |
| 7 | Why do higher body counts make women worth less than those with lower ones?Yea, I don’t like ignoring the data, and this is something really easy to find. I think promiscuity should never be encouraged, I just think men have the ability to get away with it to an extent cause preselection. | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/04/23 03:43 AM |
| 8 | Why do higher body counts make women worth less than those with lower ones?‘Nothing physiologically changes’ wrong. Pair bonding changes. Relationship happiness is correlated with lower body count. If you want to be happy, the lesser is better for both men and women. The reason for ‘chads’ and ‘roasties’ is purely the difficulty. Chads must have value to sleep with many women. It takes genuine effort and time, while being difficult. I hate to phrase it like this but it’s legitimately an accomplishment. By being this successful, it doesn’t increase his value, I’d say it… | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/04/23 01:26 AM |
| 3 | Genuine question, do men love women as much as women love them?Thanks! Hopefully I helped the OP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/23 11:02 PM |
| 6 | AF/BB, Women lying about their body counts.Ain’t no way reported body counts are accurate when in my Uni I overhear the way women talk and watch how they act. Very redpilling attending college | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/04/23 10:48 PM |
| -1 | What advice do you have for women to avoid being pumped and dumpedPerfect comment here. Offer more than sex to those who want more than sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/23 10:25 PM |
| 55 | Genuine question, do men love women as much as women love them?Men have higher sex drives, that’s true. But we’re not really all driven by lust, the media definitely plays it up. But men and women definitely have different love languages, perhaps influenced a tad by sex drives. For me at least, sex in the bounds of a relationship is an act of love and intimacy. It’s why sexless men feel unloved, even if the other intimacy may be there, just take a look at the dead bedroom subreddit. The partner with the higher sex drive, despite having other intimacy, feels… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/23 10:11 PM |
| 1 | CMV: "Ownership" Explains Some Victim Blaming-Adjacent BehaviorI think there is more nuance here, not that I disagree. I think it’s more that women are infantilized away from this style of self ownership. When I am around my female friends, there is the explicit expectation I would defend them so they could get away. Not that they would help defend themselves. A bee flew in the car my sister was driving, I was shotgun. She stopped, jumped out of the car, and I had to deal with it in the passenger seat. It’s very disrespectful in a manner, as if they can’t b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 01:30 AM |
| 2 | How important do you think teen love is?I think there is a learning experience in everything. If you think there is nothing of value in them, well, you just learned to avoid everything you did. It’s all very subjective. But at the end of the day, you at least gathered some experience compared to peers without the same opportunity. It gave confidence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 01:17 PM |
| 2 | Why aren't other countries Passport Bro-ing over to the west?This is an odd post. I think you need to establish the why of your statements. Like, why does this make sense? What makes western women more desirable than those of their home country(the ones who attract western men). I think you have some rather different thoughts compared to most guys on this topic. For instance, what men value is usually seen as easier to get by passport broing, it’s why the movement exists. But why would non-western men have such different values that they choose foreign wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 06:00 AM |
| 59 | How important do you think teen love is?For guys at least, I thinks it’s very important positive reinforcement. You learn mistakes, what you dislike, what you like. You learn how to act in that context. But most importantly, it helps build your self confidence to eventually continue and achieve romantically. Without that positive reinforcement, you are more awkward, fumbling, less likely to succeed as your peers gain experience and you trail behind. Women dislike inexperienced men, the longer you are one, the worse it gets. I firmly b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 05:32 AM |
| 10 | Why do women set up their sons for failure?I don’t think it’s intentional. Parental love is the only unconditional love. A mothers rose tinted glasses will naturally see her son as worthy of attracting women as long as he’s nice. Most women don’t really have the awareness of dating difficulties. Besides, never attribute malice what can be attributed to mindlessness. It’s not intentional, they just come from a flawed perspective, one of love(hopefully). | /r/AllPillDebate | 23/04/23 02:59 AM |
| 2 | As a woman, getting married before having kids is a better indicator that the man will staySo what is your opinion on the testing being forbidden unless going to court for that? It has been a while, but if I remember most countries laws correctly, in many countries even if the kids aren’t yours, if married you still pay for them after separating. I don’t see how having a faithful and good partner is a benefit of marriage? Is that not the minimum in a partner? What do you mean by preventing him from creating fatherless homes? Why is that a benefit, I’m not sure I understand. Children a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 06:11 AM |
| 1 | As a woman, getting married before having kids is a better indicator that the man will stayI understand that this makes sense for women. Commitment before bigger commitment. As a guy I’ve always been conflicted on marriage. There isn’t a lot protecting me as a man in a marriage. As a French resident yourself, are you aware of the dna testing laws? Divorce courts etc. Personally, there are no advantages to a marriage as a man, only risks. It’s really only solidifying your responsibility to provide else it’s financial abuse. Ideally I’d desire to have a life partner and family with a pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 05:31 AM |
| 1 | Women when they see a basic 5’11 white dude: 👁️🫦👁️. Women when they see me after putting in work in the gym, maxing out my personality, getting nice clothes, and getting my social circle up:Ohio, the meme state. If you ever do visit Germany, just remember playing the dumb American always works. Brother one time didn’t pay for a pass(ticket) on public transportation. Inspector asked to see pass, handed him his passport, then expired ticket. Dude was so frustrated at him with his dumb nodding smile he left. Works best on limited English speakers though. | /r/AllPillDebate | 19/04/23 05:10 AM |
| 2 | Women when they see a basic 5’11 white dude: 👁️🫦👁️. Women when they see me after putting in work in the gym, maxing out my personality, getting nice clothes, and getting my social circle up:Most Germans wouldn’t admit it with how much they shit on Americans, but they find non-overweight Americans attractive. Everyone likes Spaniards too, so you should do fine. Darker more Mediterranean complexions do well, but I’m not sure on too dark complexions. My dads US military, and he got a German wife so there’s some appeal for Americans at least. Honestly though, German women have become very westernized like their American counterparts. My mom straight up is that classic traditional Europ… | /r/AllPillDebate | 19/04/23 02:56 AM |
| 0 | Women when they see a basic 5’11 white dude: 👁️🫦👁️. Women when they see me after putting in work in the gym, maxing out my personality, getting nice clothes, and getting my social circle up:I’ve never experienced any advantage on account of my race tbh. 5’9, maybe above average face. Im 100% certain it’s mostly just in group preference of the majority disadvantaging minorities from being able to pursue majority group women. I’m not sure about your celebrity statements though, aren’t some African American celebs seen as sex symbols despite having mid faces as well? | /r/AllPillDebate | 19/04/23 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Women when they see a basic 5’11 white dude: 👁️🫦👁️. Women when they see me after putting in work in the gym, maxing out my personality, getting nice clothes, and getting my social circle up:Nah, I’m 5’9, dead average height, maybe above average face. My bad, I have a disability in relation to humor(German). This place has gone to hell kinda, should find Dante. | /r/AllPillDebate | 19/04/23 02:28 AM |
| 6 | Women when they see a basic 5’11 white dude: 👁️🫦👁️. Women when they see me after putting in work in the gym, maxing out my personality, getting nice clothes, and getting my social circle up:Tell that to the droves of young white dudes turning to rp and the other pills. | /r/AllPillDebate | 19/04/23 02:26 AM |
| 8 | Women when they see a basic 5’11 white dude: 👁️🫦👁️. Women when they see me after putting in work in the gym, maxing out my personality, getting nice clothes, and getting my social circle up:Where are you all getting this basic white dudes slay crap from? I’m a white dude and don’t experience this crap | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/04/23 11:54 PM |
| 2 | Male beauty standards are far worse than womensTo some degree, I see both sides of this issue. I do think women have it more shoved in their face because they tend to care about appearance more(fashion, makeup, etc.) But as a man, I straight up know most dudes want 2 things physically. Thin(enough, bit chubby is mostly fine with a great deal of men) and a decent face(which most women also have). The only thing women really need to do to meet guys beauty standards is to eat normally and move around normally while having average genetic luck. … | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/04/23 12:30 AM |
| 0 | how women are even supposed to debunk some statements hereIt’s hard to debunk someone’s lived experiences. You can claim that you debunk it through your lived existence, but most of us have had it proven through ours. What initially drives people to this stuff is trying to explain what they are seeing with coherent ideology. For me it was just watching my friends, then experimenting myself. Why did x get girls, and y not? Why did my female friends act like x, but then y. Ect. Redpill/blackpill just made sense, they explained it, and even predicted thin… | /r/AllPillDebate | 15/04/23 03:21 PM |
| 5 | Warmer weather makes it impossible to avoid the blackpillHonestly, it does get a bit ridiculous how much skin is shown. Had to get my work computer fixed by the IT building in Uni. This chick was training a new guy and she was not wearing a shirt nor bra, just a bikini top. Like, by the front desk training the guy sitting there. Super inappropriate. I could not understand why she did it unless she wanted the attention of all the IT guys. I would try shifting your mindset a little. Self hate is good for self improvement, but don’t over do it. Understan… | /r/AllPillDebate | 13/04/23 05:03 AM |
| 4 | Do the odds favour the average guy if he opts to date trans women instead of women?You’ve never talked about dating with colleagues? Friends? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 02:07 AM |
| 6 | Do the odds favour the average guy if he opts to date trans women instead of women?On the internet sure, in real life? No. If I ever said something similar in public, high chance career is ruined. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 01:51 AM |
| 6 | Do the odds favour the average guy if he opts to date trans women instead of women?This is something a lot of men won’t say out loud that a great deal agree with. Simply because it’s an unpopular truth. My thanks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Whats ideal female body and face for you?I find most women of healthy weight attractive tbh. While normal faces are alright, I have a slight preference for sharper ones, Lighter complexion, lighter hair color. Somewhat taller as well I suppose. Again, none of these are hard lines in the sand tbh. If I was extremely pressed on body, I would state a preference to minimal upper arm fat/size to breast size ratio. Don’t care about butts as long as not too big, hips are more important. I do like decent legs/thighs. Hourglass shape doesn’t ne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/23 05:21 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of the notion that Men get friend zoned and Woman get sex zoned?Holy shit is that leading on in private shit accurate, then public dismissal. That matches my experiences to a shocking degree. Used to leave me so confused till I wised up to the manipulation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 03:38 PM |
| 6 | Honest opinion about porn, sex, and relationships.This is a bad premise. No man wants to watch porn in a relationship. They would much rather go to their partner. The issue arrives when they cannot release their pent up desire with their partner. Are they just supposed to stay needlessly horny with no recourse? Men are visual creatures comparatively, so just masturbation without visual stimulus is more difficult/time consuming. Porn is a tool, an addictive tool sure, but a tool nonetheless. I don’t think women have the right to complain about p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Explain it to me like I’m 5I have never chosen what I am attracted to. I have never laid eyes on a fellow dude and been attracted to him. I can appreciate beauty, but visceral attraction is something I’ve only ever gotten from women. I literally can’t choose since it’s beyond thought and in the caveman portion of my brain. I think you have a predisposition at birth which can be influenced by experiences, for instance childhood trauma. But attraction and from there sexual orientation are beyond thought, beyond choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/23 03:36 AM |
| 2 | I hate to say it but a lot of the ideas you have about finding partners and relationships is the result of being chronically onlineA lot of the complaints I read here match what I see in my Uni, in real life. So our experiences differ on that front. Hell, my family and friends all exhibit those traits as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 02:12 AM |
| 2 | women are cold and emotionlessOne of the nice, good kind women in my life has just entirely flipped. So much of her niceness and politeness makes much more sense from the perspective of using me. I’ve suspected for some time, but very recently it seems to have confirmed itself. | /r/AllPillDebate | 23/03/23 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on women who are loyal, selective (eg: low body count) contribute to their relationships and make them worthwhile for their partners, but want to be child free?Was rather sure I could have pursued a woman like this, but I asked a lot of questions about her goals in life over the course of our friendship and discovered she didn’t want children. Very similar aside from that. I tend to do this with people I am considering as I want to figure out compatibility long term. It’s just something I’m not willing to compromise on. Out of respect for the both of us I chose not to continue/escalate as we gradually moved apart in Uni. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 02:33 PM |
| 4 | Where have all the good men gone?I come from a decently conservative area, some more so than others. I don’t see this at all. Most conservative honestly great women I know have standards through the roof. Worse than non-conservative/traditional women for some reason. Their equal will just not even catch their eye. Women, especially young women, do not go for the boring stable good guy typically. At my Uni, there are men like that aplenty, and most single. Talking to them is depressing, because in some respects I see they are be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 02:57 AM |
| 2 | Men who want to move abroad to find love - why?I’m a mutt, and women abroad are just better in the eyes of most men. Not as abrasive, not as demanding, better mentality and yea, more feminine. So when they go abroad, normal men who can’t get normal women here suddenly do well for the same effort. My dad did it before it was cool, met my mother, and I see why. The foreigners I meet in the states are just better prospects as few as they are, to the point where It’s laughable. As much as I love America, I simply don’t see myself with an America… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 02:24 PM |
| 4 | Signals it's overYea, as soon as the “kid” part comes in it’s over. All my dating prospects available are older than me just due to how things ended up(like 1-2 years older) I try to be fun and a bit immature on purpose too since I think it’s rather positive/makes people smile. As soon as those words leave someone’s lips I know from experience it’s just over. You’re no longer a man, but a boy. It’s depressing especially when things were going well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 03:28 AM |
| 9 | Why do men feel like no one care about how they feel?Because nobody does. Family? Couldn’t give a shit, and can’t trust them anyways. Friends? The image in their head of you changes irreversibly. Romantic interests? Straight nope. The moment you don’t act masculine/stoic is the moment you are irreversibly seen as a little lesser is what I’ve noticed. I mean, hell, I realized one of the people I thought actually cared about me was just lying to me discreetly out of politeness. Can’t really confront them, but I know. Still friends because I literall… | /r/MensRights | 01/03/23 04:29 AM |
| 12 | Is raw confidence only an aphrodisiac if there's already a fair level of attraction?Exactly. They don’t like false confidence, or bluster, but the confidence earned from success and knowing what they’re doing. It’s just another method of pre-selection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 05:25 PM |
| 2 | Female women, do you too feel that pressure to act a certain way for men to like you?Was the advice asked for? Sharing unsolicited advice is kind of a ‘better than thou’ move. It already assumes your superiority. This sounds very similar to a reverse situation I recall hearing about as well. That being, don’t try to fix a girls problems when she’s complaining to you, but listen and express validation. A sympathetic ear etc. Considering your experiences, it goes both ways and I suppose is an interesting psychological quirk of humans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 06:13 AM |
| 9 | Female women, do you too feel that pressure to act a certain way for men to like you?I think it’s the fault of college educated snobbishness assuming they are more intelligent. People don’t like arrogance or attitude/abrasiveness. You can tell when people think they are superior and look down on you. Same people who claim men are ‘intimidated’ by intelligent successful women I bet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 04:32 AM |
| 1 | What do you think has lead to a decline in men "putting themselves out there"?When I get someone, I just get used. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 05:28 AM |
| 3 | Even after a lot of self-improvement and personal growth, adult single men are increasingly entering the dating environment with a lot of resentmentHi bro, I know your comment is about something else, the outcome independence which I agree mostly, but I wanted to ask about another portion of the prompt. How do you deal with the fomo this almost delayed approach entails? Ie. Focus on self improvement while young at the expense of dating. I tend to think that without some prior success, it ends up being a deal breaker down the line. For instance, some dude at 27 who’s never even held hands with a girl. Won’t know what to do or say despite bei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 05:10 AM |
| 1 | Why women think their Degree/Money/Career of their own is importantI agree lol, was just playing devils advocate. But it doesn’t just buy proximity, it should ideally buy education too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 03:34 AM |
| 0 | Why women think their Degree/Money/Career of their own is importantA degree won’t attract a dude, correct. Hell, it might scare them off since it gives women different mindsets and values a lot of the time. But it will buy them proximity to dudes with degrees/of similar income class. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 09:02 PM |
| 6 | Green card marriages are for true love, right guys?If I am to provide, I would like to provide for the highest quality match, or at least a decent one. The west does not make many of those. I’m half American, and foreign women are just better on average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 01:18 AM |
| 1 | What’s the most disheartening thing you’ve seen in your local dating marketIf you’re not top tier, women don’t seem to respect you as a person. I’m decently smart, and like to help people do well/study together. Twice now had someone who faked romantic interest to string me along, the second being much worse, straight up laughed at the prospect to friends in front of me(after saying they liked me) and continues to act nice to me(including scheduling shared classes). I personally know dudes going through severe depression over cruel shit, and another dealing with a fals… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Where did this idea that younger women make better partners come from?A great way to think about it from more of a supply demand perspective could be unemployment. At any one time in a snapshot, the majority of unemployment is long term. People who aren’t really great for jobs, or aren’t that interested in finding a job. But that’s because most folks who become unemployed bounce back in a shorter period of time and don’t get measured. Essentially, you could have 90% of people bounce back in a few weeks after getting laid off. But that means when you measure it, yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 12:15 AM |
| 14 | Where did this idea that younger women make better partners come from?Yea, younger women are prettier. That’s valid. Less baggage also leads to higher relationship happiness, that’s pretty valid. Lastly, I haven’t seen this mentioned. It’s that as you age, the good matches get paired off and married. Specifically family values. Say you want to start a family, By say 30, most good family minded women will already be paired off. You have to look for younger women not already paired off who match your values since that’s when they aren’t taken off the market just yet… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 05:14 PM |
| 3 | better rules to replace "don't hit women"Nah, I prefer hooks. | /r/MensRights | 01/12/22 05:48 AM |
| 1 | That's just evilWhatever will we do without our selfless internet jannies? | /r/EverydayMisandry | 22/11/22 03:35 AM |
| 2 | Women want patriarchal men.Hits deep and accurate. You would think life’s a joke, but jokes have meaning. I just don’t trust anyone but my brother. Don’t really trust my mother or sister with emotional vulnerability. Dads a lost cause with vulnerability. | /r/MensRights | 19/11/22 05:14 AM |
| 0 | [CMV] Plausible deniability numbers game is the ideal strategy for most menI’m sorry but this is just bad advice. Men don’t get anything by being passive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 11:17 PM |
| 1 | [CMV] Plausible deniability numbers game is the ideal strategy for most menThis sounds depressingly similar to my goals in life. Any tips? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 06:10 PM |
| 2 | Men would be better off having female friendsIn my experience having platonic women friends is that there is an understanding gap. I’ll mention my lack of luck(naturally in convo) and it’ll immediately get dismissed. “Oh I’m sure plenty of girls are interested in you”. It’s painful sometimes. It’s not just limited to that one topic either. They don’t seem to understand male problems a lot of the time, and thus i prefer having those deeper level conversations with other guys. But this limits how close I can get in my friendships with women.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 05:58 PM |
| 31 | Fasley accused of sexual harassmentExactly, unless you’re getting fucked anyways, which it didn’t sound like it. | /r/MensRights | 25/10/22 06:15 PM |
| 68 | Fasley accused of sexual harassmentWhy did you plead guilty? Should be no evidence against you. Witnesses in your favor. | /r/MensRights | 25/10/22 05:56 PM |
| 5 | I believe a lot of women tell each other not to make moves on guys because of internalized misogynySo using that same thread of logic, looking down on men for not following certain norms by other men is misandry? This is an interesting perspective. Would an equivalent example be men looking down on other men as chicken(or not masculine) for not asking women out being misandry? Thanks for your time! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 06:20 PM |
| 3 | I believe a lot of women tell each other not to make moves on guys because of internalized misogynySo you acknowledge it’s mostly women who perpetuate it. It’s a double standard not enforced by men, but mostly women. Specifically the idea that it portrays women in a certain manner. Sorry, but how is that misogyny if it’s women who do it? It doesn’t make sense conceptually for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 05:58 PM |
| 6 | I believe a lot of women tell each other not to make moves on guys because of internalized misogynySo… how is this misogyny? It’s not supposed to be a catch all label for everything wrong, it dilutes the impact of the word. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on the Piers Morgan/Andrew Tate interview?I watched it. The gist of the argument is this, piers was trying to argue it’s misogynist when it’s not, “being against any woman is misogyny”. really more ageist than anything since he wasn’t even arguing on the basis of beauty but rather baggage. The only thing Tate said was that if he were to say it again he’d maybe phrase it differently since that was the original intent. Through that, piers was trying to get an admittance of misogyny and apology for a statement Tate still agreed with. In es… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 03:10 PM |
| 22 | Getting Fuckzoned is worse than being FriendzonedI’m sorry, but the idea of having intimacy, despite it being limited to just being casual is still better than getting NO intimacy. There is no comparison here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 12:22 AM |
| 1 | why is it when a man can't do something it's "weponized incompetence" but when a women can't do something everyone turns a blind eye?To be honest, as a boy, I was a little guilty of this. No kid wants responsibilities so I just didn’t do my job well for stuff I disliked, and thus wasn’t relied upon for them. I was literally incompetent on purpose sometimes. But there was also an undercurrent of just unwillingness to teach. Ie. Putting stuff in the fridge wrong(constant complaints it was never in the right place, but never showing me where that was). This notably included cooking where I was always shooed out of the kitchen, b… | /r/MensRights | 02/10/22 09:03 PM |
| 1 | What would you do if you discovered you were dating a Feminist?Unrepentant | /r/MensRights | 27/09/22 06:49 PM |
| 2 | What would you do if you discovered you were dating a Feminist?It’s alright buddy, it’s not so bad. Could also lose the game. | /r/MensRights | 27/09/22 06:13 PM |
| 2 | "Is Misandry Real?" Debate at CollegeResearch, research, research. Present the case well and hopefully change minds. | /r/MensRights | 15/09/22 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Is it hard to admit that you weren’t dateable when you were younger?I listed those as obvious negative qualities. Not that they get women. Sort of like despite having these bad things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Is it hard to admit that you weren’t dateable when you were younger?I’m young and not undateable by literally all standard metrics. I get no interest. As men age, they typically accrue wealth. If they suddenly only start getting interest around that time, it’s not surprising that it breeds resentment. I mean, I literally get to watch in the sidelines women pick other men. “Tony wasn’t a great guy. He was divorced thrice already, a felon, and a known abuser. Despite this, he never failed to get women. Now Matt isn’t expecting women to throw themselves at him by s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 11:37 PM |
| 1 | If could use just 1 (one) argument to convince someone from the opposite pill about the validity of your own pill, what would that argument be?As a man, most advice outside of rp is just plain bad. Not to say all Rp advice is good. But nothing else even acknowledges guys issues. Be emotionally open! Kills attraction. Be nice, respectful! Won’t get you your foot in the door. Rp at least tries to help men improve their bad position in the dating market. Even if it’s just emotionally affirming their experiences instead of gaslighting. Everybody else just doesn’t care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Why do you, romantic men want romance in lifeI always dreamed of being a romantic. However, it is my firm belief that men are emotionally abused somewhat by society. By that I mean their emotional intimacy needs aren’t being met. This all goes to the primary question, don’t worry. Compare womens in group preference and intimacy with each other. There is no boys club, we don’t trust random men to aid us by sheer virtue of their manhood. We don’t have a bond with those of our sex. For most men, the daily experience is that of being ignored. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 05:55 AM |
| 1 | I hate the government of my countryThis may sound weird, but as a potential draft dodger you’re fucked. Asylum is basically what you want, but you have to find a weakly guarded border to get out, then seek asylum from war. Go out at night or dress as a woman to do essentials shopping to avoid the forced conscription. Also I recommend only traveling at night. Gather your passport and other legal documents. Get a map, and scope out a way to get out. I imagine some ones on the border might want to throw you back, so be careful and u… | /r/MensRights | 14/08/22 06:45 PM |
| 9 | what age should you prioritize marriage?Fucking exactly. Don’t sign a contract where it is likely you will get fucked for little benefit. Have kids outside of marriage folks, don’t fall for the scam. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 12:31 AM |
| 53 | Seriously, being a woman means you get special treatment + privileges in the eyes of law…“Partner of three years” she was 18, an adult, and got with a 15 year old. Holy shit man, red flag instantly. | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/08/22 09:22 PM |
| 1 | People are always talking about men and locker room talk. Is there anything to this that is specific to men?Most I’ve ever heard in relation to dudes and locker room talk was just talking about how a girl was pretty. Never lots of details and shit. The stuff I’ve heard from women though… like in front of dudes too was straight up on another level. I think it’s a projection myth tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 01:41 AM |
| 312 | is it just me or does it seem like there's no point in dating as an average man in this day and age?Just based off me and my pals experience in college, I’m prolly gonna give up dating and being a pursuer entirely. Ill likely date if pursued, but fuck doing it anymore as a guy. I’ll likely die alone but hey, at least I’ll die respecting myself doing what I love. Only you have the right answer, and if you can look yourself in the mirror and believe you made the right decision, you’ll do fine. | /r/MensRights | 02/08/22 01:21 AM |
| 42 | The bar for men is low. Men who have zero success with women are doing something really wrongDude, have you ever just been invisible to the opposite sex? And nothing you do changes it? Because I doubt you have, and it’s the common experience for dudes. Every dude I know struggles, and we’re all in college, surrounded by women. I was like you at first, “Oh, I must be doing something wrong like these other men who struggle”. So I got in shape. Nothing changed. “Oh, it must be personality.” So I forced myself to develop charisma, got student leadership positions and loads of friends. Actua… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 02:09 AM |
| 15 | The bar for men is low. Men who have zero success with women are doing something really wrongI always look for your comments dude. You’re appreciated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 01:51 AM |
| 1 | intelligence is inherited from the mother?!Ah, my bad. Thanks for pointing this out! I looked it up again and it’s just get married, not have more kids. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/attraction-evolved/201711/intelligent-men-more-likely-marry-and-stay-married?amp Couldn’t find anything about having more kids, but probably not. | /r/MensRights | 25/07/22 07:29 PM |
| 10 | what exactly are the standards for an average man ?I’m just pointing out that the “rock bottom standards” are still above average, because yes, the average isn’t all that appealing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 01:17 PM |
| 27 | what exactly are the standards for an average man ?Every chick I’ve met(anecdotal ik) has had high standards. And cool, more power to them, but as an average man(in my opinion) the bar has never been even close to low. Consider average attractiveness. Typically, it’s on a bell curve, but most dudes are considered below average looks wise.(old study). Which is dumb, because that makes no sense when thinking about averages definition. So from the get go, most women already perceive the average as more attractive than 80% of men. Now, sure, attract… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 04:17 AM |
| 15 | intelligence is inherited from the mother?!This makes no sense biologically speaking, because higher iq women have less kids and are less likely to get married comparatively. It’s the opposite for higher iq men. So if intelligence was only passed down through the mother, yet it is a negative trait when it comes to partner selection for women, we’d all be reaaaallly dumb. | /r/MensRights | 24/07/22 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Do you care less if you're cheated on by a woman with another woman?Cheating with a woman triggers a different psychological reaction for men. For one, it’s not emasculating because she is cheating on you with something you cannot provide. So, it doesn’t really trigger that visceral disgust reaction or insecurity. Hell, some men would find it hot and ask to watch. However, if she is willing to cheat on you regardless, dump her. Once a cheater, always a cheater. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 09:23 PM |
| 6 | would a guy really be too nervous to make a move?Because we tell men to be emotionless and stoic all their lives? Idk, most dudes just face rejection most of the time and it takes a special type of mindset to just not care. Keep the perspective of, “That person is human like me.” With everyone in life and it works surprisingly well. Idk, what do I know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 01:53 AM |
| 1 | would a guy really be too nervous to make a move?Disclaimer, no bad tone meant, it’s how i write sometimes. Guys come in a range of personalities, some shy some not. Like, especially the average guy who has never really had any romantic interest thrown his way, he isn’t going to know what to do. On top of that, scenarios such as being a coworker could really fuck him if it turned out non-reciprocal. The entire premise is kinda wrong as well. Just because you’re not asked out doesn’t mean you aren’t liked. Would you force yourself to ask out me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 01:46 AM |
| 1 | i don't think fat/ugly women are any less invisible than fat/ugly men. society treats undesirables of both sexes badly.Sounds good man, it’s cool. Just be aware of dishonest and flawed use of peer reviewed studies next time. But since you can’t be bothered, I’m not gonna bother with your crap. Don’t rely on the logical fallacy’s of ad hominems and ultimately flawed appeals to authority(which I helpfully pointed out!). Have a great day regardless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 05:51 PM |
| 1 | i don't think fat/ugly women are any less invisible than fat/ugly men. society treats undesirables of both sexes badly.Dude, quit it with your ad hominem's, its a logical fallacy that hurts your credibility. For the record, I eat two meals a day, no snacks, typically. This is because recently, I've been much more sedentary and want to keep the weight off. As for your video, it does prove that the CO, does vary(I have admitted that, it can be harder for some, I'm just arguing to what extent). But it doesn't vary greatly like you say. Consider the graph at 1:57 for resting metabolism, the range of that, as point… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 05:10 PM |
| 3 | i don't think fat/ugly women are any less invisible than fat/ugly men. society treats undesirables of both sexes badly.I feel this, I’m not disciplined with what food I eat or how much, I’m disciplined in how many meals I eat often just having 2, usually no snacks. Mostly just water with some juice mixed in(half cups). Cico is a great way to look at it. If you’re eating the same but you’re in shape and they’re not, it means they’re more sedentary or somehow actually eating more. Parents, on the huge issue(lol, love it), have the potential to really instill bad behaviors. It’s definitely where a lot of this start… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 03:42 PM |
| 7 | i don't think fat/ugly women are any less invisible than fat/ugly men. society treats undesirables of both sexes badly.“There are just as many fat people who struggle to lose weight because of genetic of medical factors” “Nowhere did I say do fat people not need to take responsibility” You are actively encouraging a line of thought that takes the consequences of their choices and pushes the blame onto factors they cannot control. You are aiding a line of thought in which the responsibility is avoided through blame on other factors. “But losing weight is not as straightforward as people who have been fit their wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 04:39 AM |
| 2 | What made you wanna stand up for mens rights/join this sub.Got depressed and listened to Jordan Peterson and other anti-woke ideology voices when online schooled to pass boredom. Too much made sense with what I experienced and have seen that I kinda just landed here eventually. | /r/MensRights | 22/07/22 03:59 AM |
| 15 | i don't think fat/ugly women are any less invisible than fat/ugly men. society treats undesirables of both sexes badly.You are absolutely wrong. The whole genetic argument is a pseudo scientific one. Your genetics play a role in fat distribution, maybe a tiny amount of how quick you burn, but any individual no matter their genetics can lose weight, it might be a little harder for some. Why aren’t we as fat as our medieval malnourished ancestors, don’t we share their genetics? Medical factors affecting weight gain, such as hormone issues, are rare. And nowhere near as common as you suggest. This line of thought t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 03:47 AM |
| 21 | i don't think fat/ugly women are any less invisible than fat/ugly men. society treats undesirables of both sexes badly.Yea, everyone could be nicer. But shame has a place in society to disincentivize bad behavior or sloppy behavior. Because ultimately, being fat is a choice and not a condition for the vast majority of those who are fat. We judge peoples choices all the time, see a dumb haircut? A dumb tattoo? Someone who smells? It’s a way of telling people you lack discipline. And thusly, people get judged. But yea, folks shouldn’t be dicks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 01:29 AM |
| 6 | Debate: I would much rather be an average woman in an America than an average man.In the text, it says to watch the video. I dont think you read it if you missed that. Cliff notes for you, RvW was abortion legal until viability, 22-23 weeks. Most European countries allow up to 12-14 weeks(quote from video), Some countries you have to request it, or can’t even request it. The overturning of R v W(Dobbs vs Jackson’s)was influenced by a Mississippi state law that banned it after 15 weeks(literally better than most of Europe). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Attractiveness and getting matches on dating sites (DIY Interactivity Inside).I don’t think I have a baby face, my face is pretty well defined.(i think) I’m probably just socially retarded with women(I’m good with dudes). But damn dude, near perfect. I’m real curious what you look like now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 12:37 AM |
| 4 | Attractiveness and getting matches on dating sites (DIY Interactivity Inside).I got a really good score. 9.1(tested it twice, got the same). Sub-20 bmi around 18-19.5. This was without my glasses. (Dm me if you need proof). Age it only got once, it was spot on. Guessed I was a dude accurately. The problem is, not a single woman has every given me the slightest signal of attraction. Like, ever, I’ve tried, only ever failed. So, my objective view is that the ai is kinda crappy. I’m not great looking. Bmi might be right though, I try to stay fit/slim, but I don’t watch what … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/22 09:27 PM |
| 1 | My wife abused me and the police acted like I was at faultExactly, if it comes down to it, the burden of proof, despite being the accused, is always on you. | /r/MensRights | 18/07/22 12:44 PM |
| 7 | My wife abused me and the police acted like I was at faultIf your chest isn’t fully healed, go to a doctor and have the bruise documented if there is one left. That is extremely important. Point out her own lack of injuries as well if things go to shit. But cover your own ass first. Document everything, the drinking, drugs, mental health issues. Any evidence you could think of. Her own responses if she does any. Basically act like a military officer with adhd who’s superior officer is up his ass and the officer is trying not to get fucked. Next get sup… | /r/MensRights | 18/07/22 12:33 AM |
| 1 | "The Boys Are Doing Just Fine. A smaller share of college-goers are male. So what?"The irony is, this just ends up kicking women in the butt later on. Hypergamy and all that means typically, and equal or better partner is desired, especially income and education wise. So, we’re looking at a future shortage of such candidates. | /r/MensRights | 15/07/22 04:35 AM |
| 2 | TRP, Blackpill, and feminism are all symptoms of patriarchy.Give me a single example of how patriarchy benefits young men in the west. There is simply no evidence for it existing in the west to my understanding. I say this for a simple reason, if the lens which with you view reality down to its base ideas is flawed, then any conclusions drawn from it are likely bad and misguided. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 12:11 AM |
| 3 | Man changed name on his CV to a female name and got 870% more responses for an interview.Honestly, yea, I’m seeing this all around me too. Ich bin nur halb deutsch, aber es ist nicht so schlimm wo ich bin in Amerika. Ja, ich muss mehr und besser arbeiten, aber ich kann auch gelt machen. Mein deutsch ist eigentlich schlimm, und ich kann English besser Schreiben. Currently I’m in university, but there are so many advantages women have in finance rn. They get their own organization, “women in business”, there is no men in business. Special scholarships, all other business clubs prefer … | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 04:59 PM |
| 13 | Why do a lot of women make fun of male anatomy?My personal experience, most men are way more reserved and careful about what they say, most women are more crass. I’ve got a brother and a father, and they don’t talk about how pretty or sexy they find women out loud. My sister and mother on the other hand… I’ve found that in general, they don’t have the same social consequences since society isnt hyper aware of their comments. It’s honestly seen as way more normal, even I’ve caught myself subconsciously ignoring it when women do it when I’d fi… | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 12:39 AM |
| 4 | The reason that the disparity in sexual privilege between men and women is so obfuscated not because there's any real doubt about it, but because of the solutions it impliesAcknowledgement IS the goal. Consider, that mainstream society dismisses the issues men face in dating. It must be something they aren’t doing, they just need to fix it, just be yourself! Lots of terrible advice that never works. TRP and everything only exist because men realized the way they were raised and taught how relationships/dating/women work doesn’t work for the vast majority of men. Essentially, acknowledgement eases the mental burden(frustration at no results), and potentially backlas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 03:39 AM |
| 2 | Misandry -- the mediocre cartoonist's first refuge...I eat soup too much in winter and porridge that when i lift a spoon to my mouth like when I eat cold porridge(it’s a thing, shut up), I instinctively blow on it even though it’s cold. I’ve caught myself doing it and feeling really dumb. | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/07/22 12:32 AM |
| 2 | I never knew how bad the obesity epidemic has gotten until I lurked the 18-22 age demographic on Tinder today vs 5 years agoI’m a fit young dude, my area is not too bad actually, but I’d be surprised if I could get someone who brings what I do to the table. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 11:05 PM |
| -2 | Video pretty much says it all 😀😀I’m not deserving of love | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/07/22 03:54 AM |
| 2 | Do Tall Woman Struggle as much as much as shorter manNot usually, you’re right, but it highlights how men find most things about women attractive. Like, people don’t realize men can find a wide range of features attractive. No dude is going to reject a woman due to height, usually it’s for different factors. Fuck man, aren’t models like tall? Doesn’t that highlight how height is seen as desirable? Long legs? Etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps make misogynist menExactly, it’s really limiting and holds consequences. People don’t realize social circles aren’t all that large and not everyone parties and meets new people all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps make misogynist menI don’t practice game or pua. Fuck man, what brought me to trp and later ppd is my lack of success doing it the old fashioned way. “Be yourself” “be nice” “become friends first” “join social groups”, “shared social experiences”. I’ve done and tried all that, never worked. If I got even the slightest bit of interest, I’d still be doing it, but I never did. Basically realized that shit either didn’t work for me, or didn’t work anymore. I don’t disagree on the dating app thing; but it seems to be a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 02:19 PM |
| 11 | Do Tall Woman Struggle as much as much as shorter manThere is a fetish for tall women. Typically, is it men or women who have the height requirement? My conclusion is this. As it has always been, men take what they can get, height is unimportant for most men. Never heard a dude say, “she’s pretty, but she’s just too tall”. Think about the inverse, you’ve probably heard that before. Height being linked with masculinity is also a different point. You should’ve instead focused on that. Do masculine women struggle? It depends on some factors, but In m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 04:38 AM |
| 2 | Roe StrikesEw, only thing good about France is their energy policy. | /r/AntiFeminists | 01/07/22 02:02 AM |
| 16 | Dating apps make misogynist menIt’s different nowadays dude. You can’t really approach or fuck it up without major social consequences. People you know have the greater capacity to hurt you after all. I knew a guy who got labeled as a creep and had his social circle grow distant. You have to be willing to sacrifice stuff on failure. I’m a pretty sociable guy, and not once have I gotten the slightest inclination a woman was attracted to me. Kinda sad I guess, but I wish I lived back then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 01:05 AM |
| 6 | Why her history matters, as it relates to marital (un)happiness and divorceOP->dump of facts regarding the hookup culture and how it affects marriage. No personal stuff. Straight facts. You-> “Waaaah, I’m offended on behalf of sluts. Let me insult you personally because I can’t fight your position. I hope my wife’s boyfriend will let me watch because of this comment” | /r/AntiFeminists | 01/07/22 12:43 AM |
| 28 | people blaming man for crimes in post about a poll on woman only city where most didn't supported itCity wouldn’t be built since most jobs that hold up the infrastructure are filled with dudes. Governmental system in new city would fail since women take more out of the system than men do, and they don’t get to tax dudes. | /r/MensRights | 30/06/22 09:26 PM |
| 8 | Roe StrikesHonestly, just realizing how stupid the average person is and then realizing half are even dumber. Then seeing real life examples of pure idiocy is the best argument against democracy I’ve ever seen. | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/06/22 07:11 PM |
| 4 | Roe StrikesMines purple, but has the heartbeat rule i think. But like, they aren’t even going to the state capital or government buildings to protest, instead protesting traffic in bumfuck nowhere. | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/06/22 07:09 PM |
| 25 | Roe StrikesSaw a protest on the side of the road in my town during my commute. Literally drove right past screaming women. What I couldn’t understand was what were they accomplishing? We don’t decide or have influence in things statewide. No government buildings around there. Essentially just protesting to traffic which didn’t care. | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/06/22 02:56 PM |
| 9 | Women are attracted to men with social intelligence, which is why you can't understand women's strugglesMost men catch flirting. The problem is that they can’t distinguish it from friendliness, and nowadays, if you aren’t a really attractive dude, it’s dangerous to act on it. Say a woman is being friendly and showing signs she may be flirting. She’s a friend, and you act on it only to see disgust and later social isolation, getting fired if it’s a coworker. Men aren’t sure, and see the risk as higher than the reward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 05:46 PM |
| 5 | Do you think in the next couple of decades MAINSTREAM discourse will be "don't encourage average/below average men to expect or seek sex, love and relationships"?Yes, they are disconnected, by people like you who think a man’s value lies in his ability to attract a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 05:36 PM |
| 10 | Fake flattery doesn't feel like a "privilege"How would you like to never ever be complimented? Never have any effort you put into your appearance acknowledged? Fuck man, I’d take fake flattery any day over literally nothing all my life. I got complimented on my sweater once. I was so stunned I scrambled to come up with a reply and regret not complimenting the dude back because he walked away too quickly. A friend said they liked my unremarkable eyes. I knew it was just an off hand conversation thing. That’s two, that’s it. Aside from kid s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 03:48 AM |
| 1 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......Point 1 is naïve. Men are the majority victims of violence, not women. You live in a first world country, crime is naturally low, you fundamentally don’t understand that your point is only valid outside of the first world and even then only partially. 2. You control it, sure. But a lot of men don’t like that due to shyness or constant rejection/self esteem issues. This is just a personal opinion of yours based off personal values. It’s not really applicable as an advantage for all since it’s wha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 03:49 AM |
| 2 | How do people on this sub view queer and gay relationships?The red pill is based off the experiences of dissatisfied straight men seeking to explain their experiences, learn techniques, and generally figure shit out. The blue pill is the counter ideology. The entire pill thing is just based off of an inherently straight issue, though maybe some points could be extended. Spare me the virtue signaling and understand the fundamentals of the discussion in place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 03:15 AM |
| 2 | Do you give a flying fuck about anxiety over paternity uncertainty?If ya read my previous comment, you need the mothers consent. So effectively, peace of mind tests are banned. I think I know my own countries rules lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 01:41 PM |
| 3 | Do you give a flying fuck about anxiety over paternity uncertainty?France(like previously mentioned) and Germany are the main ones I know about since I’m German. Also duh, freedom land has freedom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 03:37 AM |
| 12 | Do you give a flying fuck about anxiety over paternity uncertainty?Countries, especially western developed ones like France, criminalized paternity testing to try and keep ‘families’ together. You can go to prison for getting a test without mothers consent. It’s insanity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 11:22 PM |
| 2 | Do you agree with the right to have financial abortions ?"devolve into insulting my opponent....like a child" - lol. You managed to do exactly what you say you dont do...all in the same sentence." Yes, I did, do you see how it made you upset when I didn't deal with you respectfully? I was careful saying, "I don't have to" implying that yes, I just did, but I *don't have to! You don't have to either!*. I never said I don't do that. Namecalling and insults get us nowhere and only promote both parties to get upset instead of productively discussing. "You… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 07:28 PM |
| 2 | Do you agree with the right to have financial abortions ?"You are under the impression that you are in a position to make demands of me. You're not." I apologize, I was under the impression you wanted to argue or debate our positions in good faith like adults. My only demand was you deal with me in good faith, but you are correct, I am not in the position to make such a demand. "Id consider answering your ignorant take had addressed my entire argument instead of cherry picking." "You sound like an angry child - life isnt yes/no." Alright, tell me what… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Do you agree with the right to have financial abortions ?It’s a yes or no, none of this dancing around the subject. Address what I said. Do you believe sex is consent to parenthood? If yes, no abortion of either kind except in extreme cases. If no, abortion of both kinds. Unless you want to posit another question, you do not have a firm standing for your position. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 05:01 PM |
| 0 | Do you agree with the right to have financial abortions ?So you agree that sex is consent to parenthood yea? Then no more abortions, after all, by having sex you are accepting the risks and have made your choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 04:03 PM |
| 0 | Do you agree with the right to have financial abortions ?Sorry, 18 years of indentured servitude is still pretty bad. We’re taking a full quarter of someone’s life. 25% of your life in servitude for someone else’s decision in which you didn’t get any say(rightly so of course), and if you don’t agree tough luck, guess it’s prison while the debt piles on. I’d rather gamble away all my money then kill myself than be a glorified slave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 03:02 PM |
| 3 | Is It Just Me Or Does Society Not Expect Anything At All From Women Anymore?Such a mic drop. Yea, you guys got representation without the government being able to call you up to die whenever it wants. | /r/MensRights | 11/06/22 06:44 PM |
| 2 | I got accused of rape at schoolFirst, find your few supporters. It won’t be school officials, might not even be your friends, but get support. Find out what the falsified evidence and story is, that way you can find out if you can keep it from devolving into a he and she said through a confirmed alibi. Like, if she says it was x night, but you are confirmed doing y at that time in a completely different location. This stuff can follow you, legal help or someone knowledgable would be helpful for legal consequences. Reputation … | /r/MensRights | 10/06/22 03:59 AM |
| 1 | how confident are you with your body? does it affect your sex life?As a guy, yes, I’m insecure about my body. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/22 01:56 PM |
| 2 | I keep seeing we have enormously high standards but like what exactly are they? And why does the dating world not reflect said absurdly Hugh standards most women have?Exactly, nobody likes to bring up the obvious consequences. I see people talk about high standards, or dismissing them as if not existing. But we have very real consequences in the form of these movements. These just didn't exist previously, and are actively fueled by lonely young men when looking at membership. Fuck, I don't even think any of this red-pill blue-pill stuff would exist if there wasn't this level of dissatisfaction among young men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/22 02:07 AM |
| 2 | I keep seeing we have enormously high standards but like what exactly are they? And why does the dating world not reflect said absurdly Hugh standards most women have?Best of luck out there man, I believe in you! You're more than your ability to get someone. Feel free to reach out if you want to talk about life. I've tried to adopt the moto of Brahm, Frei aber froh, in regards to my lack of success. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/22 02:03 AM |
| 1 | I keep seeing we have enormously high standards but like what exactly are they? And why does the dating world not reflect said absurdly Hugh standards most women have?"If someone agrees to date me, are they really out of my league? What decides leagues? Like who is in my league?" Yes and no, people date outside their leagues constantly. It's not always a deciding factor. We have a term for people dating below their perceived value, "Settling". Ultimately, its just a categorization system based on subjective value. Others decide your value just like you decide theirs and your own. It's as much introspection as it is anything else. "What type?" Above average he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/22 01:58 AM |
| 3 | I keep seeing we have enormously high standards but like what exactly are they? And why does the dating world not reflect said absurdly Hugh standards most women have?Preface: I’m a young dude, lots of friends, so more anecdotal experience than anything. I’ll try to cover your points as you list them. The high standards are dating out of your league. Most women go for a tiny statistic of men. Basically, not enough supply to meet demand and a lot don’t realize this. This conclusion can be both reached through statistical data(how women rate attractiveness, etc)(others in the thread are prolly giving links, im lazy) as well as real life experience with family a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/22 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Women love "high value men", but it's not actually that hard to be oneI meet all these traits, and then some more. I am not a HVM. I’ve not even been looked at, instead looked over.(I’m below average looks) You have to understand, HVM are nearly instantly discernible, you don’t have to talk with them and find out they are a good person(which most qualify as). Your HVM traits are all things you discover after taking time to get to know someone. The problem arises with the foot in the door. My HVM traits differ because you first have to get the attraction, that init… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 02:53 AM |
| 3 | Pro-Choice women, is there a flaw in my argumentation for financial abortion rights?I like the way you structured this. If sex is consent to parenthood, then neither men nor women should get the choice of abortion.(pro-life argument) If it isn’t consent to parenthood, both should get the choice of their abortion(financial or otherwise)(pro-choice). Neither sex should have an advantage or force others like is currently the case. We should be equal, if you disagree, then your logic is inherently flawed and you do not believe in the legal equality of the sexes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/22 11:32 AM |
| 15 | I just wanted to leave this here, see what you guys think.Perfect name for a discussion about rape, touchy_the-rapist | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/05/22 10:19 AM |
| 2 | Scientific Proof of Alpha Fucks / Beta BucksYep, but are the French really human? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 08:44 AM |
| 2 | People in the manosphere are deeply ungrateful and victims of their own mindsYea, I don’t think you’re in touch with most mens experience. Again, maybe ask some real people. Literally every dude I know, even the good looking ones are struggling. My cousin, literally fucking washboard abs, aviators sunglasses wearing cool dude, fucking top tier dude definition, can’t even get dates with women his age, have to go 10 years older. My brother, literally does iron man’s for fun and built like a truck, struggled dating. My friends, real smart and average guys, none of them negl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 08:42 AM |
| 6 | People in the manosphere are deeply ungrateful and victims of their own minds“There might be a small number of men(and women) who struggle finding a partner.” You’re a woman. That one sentence told me. Why? It’s because you don’t realize the majority of men struggle, the minority don’t. You just don’t notice, maybe ask some average or below average dudes? Maybe look at how women rate attractiveness for men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 11:42 PM |
| 2 | Scientific Proof of Alpha Fucks / Beta BucksThis is reasonable. Cheating is never acceptable, but it comes from somewhere, and that has to be addressed. Good reflection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 09:22 PM |
| 8 | Scientific Proof of Alpha Fucks / Beta BucksCountries, keep in mind modern first world countries, have literally banned paternity testing of children without mothers permission. The stats are stupidly higher than reasonable for men who do check when they can. Countries with falling birth rates are scared of this infidelity because single mothers are more expensive plus men would marry less/less children. We have literal laws in place to protect women in this case, child support, etc. This simply explains what we literally see in society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 09:19 PM |
| 6 | Do single mothers get a bad rap?Disclaimer, this is takes a while to address the point. Why are they single? Bad guy? That indicates bad ability to choose men, maybe high n count. Abrasive personality? If widow, my sympathies, but that is an extremely low number. The amount of good women ltr wise who are single mothers is low, it’s usually indicative of a red flag. You’re never the priority, the kids are. It’s understandable, but ultimately undesirable for men. Beginning a relationship takes time, they don’t typically have tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Dating for men is not that hard as you make it seem to beI’m in college, mildly fit(always had a thin build that made my small musculature obvious), average attractiveness(maybe slightly below, rbf and all that), became confident, did well in classes, got involved in leadership, got a job, have goals, very social, lots of friends including many women. Not Fucking once has a glimmer of interest been thrown my way. Im not clueless either, I’ve asked others regarding it. I’m fucking invisible romantically despite attempts. I’ve developed my social skills… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 12:45 AM |
| 4 | Can we agree all genders have issues that need solving?Yes, all groups have problems. Both sex’s have problems. We all have different ideas on what are problems though. If you bother to read this I’ll give an example through going over yours. 1 Yes and no. Roe wasn’t on solid ground. I’d prefer if they made a new case on solid legal ground so it couldn’t be challenged. Or maybe actually make it a law/right, and not just an overturnable legal case. It should be legal, but in my opinion societally discouraged. Much like my views on drugs. 2 Yea, men a… | /r/MensRights | 10/05/22 11:43 PM |
| 1 | What are the professions of the men on this sub?Sprich deutsch du hurensohn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Men here complaining about promiscuous women while refusing to pursue girls with higher education ?It’s simple, women and men want different things. The normal man does not care if his partner is educated or wealthy, it’s not what he looks for in a partner, this includes the top men. It’s fair to say he looks for agreeableness and looks in my opinion. Women don’t tend to date down, either wanting equals or higher status and wealth wise. Nothing wrong with that, but it means they severely limit their dating pool since dudes don’t care about education and wealth as much. Think about all the ric… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/22 05:08 PM |
| 8 | Women privileges“HOW CAN SHE SLAP” Indians are simps, it’s all about the bobs and vegane | /r/AntiFeminists | 16/04/22 03:33 AM |
| 4 | Some thoughtsMen are expected to redefine masculinity and give up these “toxic” traits, but the responsibility and expectations upon men remain the same. | /r/AntiFeminists | 10/04/22 10:31 PM |
| 1 | MAN, I have lost a little bit of hope for humanity GODDAMN. (Go to my profile and click on the post I made on tooafraidtoask THE COMMENTS ARE DISGUSTING)“How about you sit down and LISTEN when people tell you there’s rampant sexism somewhere” the fucking irony is palpable. | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/04/22 05:18 PM |
| 19 | Feminism teaches women that their actions have no consequences: Behold the first of hundreds of thousands of women waking up to cold fact that men find being your "Plan B" Stepdad-analog repulsive.There is no clearer marker of a persons character than their past decisions. Sex for women is easy, they are the gatekeepers and must only be available. To have a high body count illustrates a lack of self respect/control and a red flag to most men. It is the consequences of one’s actions, you can’t party instead of studying and expect an A+. | /r/AntiFeminists | 04/04/22 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Pretty girl looking for r/roastme attention, not just denied but shredded and set fire to afterwards..How the hell do people find those lips attractive? They’re kinda off putting. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 23/03/22 02:07 AM |
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