| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | Cold approach isn’t as bad as men here make it out to beThat’s one hell of a stretch to jump | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 05:46 AM |
| 4 | Women mostly get “the ick” over perceived shortcomings of masculinityWaiting to get someone’s attention in a busy restaurant is “passive and feminine?” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 06:20 PM |
| 11 | Women mostly get “the ick” over perceived shortcomings of masculinity“Just be confident” well, there’s another nickel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 06:18 PM |
| 1 | The misusage and misrepresentation of the word "confidence" has destroyed modern dating advice and competence/skill should be more heavily emphasized.He seems pretty confident to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 07:30 AM |
| 2 | Will men be shamed in the future for bit wanting to date "soft" sex workers? (OF models, sugar babes etc.)Yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Asking that women be with men they are not attracted to has never, is never, and will never be a remotely plausible solution to anything.They mostly look like and act like tools but congrats, I think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 04:13 AM |
| 1 | Maybe the issue is the extreme bitterness toward womenAnd women will rarely ever give the average guy a chance there because the sheer amount of people who swipe right on them is huge. Agree. The desperation of other guys is making it worse for all of us. It allows women to have a flooded neverending inbox where they can swipe without any kind of thought. If they had fewer likes it would be force them to be more selective, even the playing field, and give everyone a better chance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 06:26 PM |
| 17 | Maybe the issue is the extreme bitterness toward womenA very long winded way of saying the tired old “it’s not your looks, it’s your personality” thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 06:04 AM |
| 3 | Would you rather be a tall, good looking (high functioning) autistic guy or a short unattractive neurotypical guyThe first. Because autism is such a spectrum there could be so many people we don’t know are autistic. I follow a woman on social media who lives in LA and looks like a model who is autistic. You’d never know unless she had told you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 06:03 AM |
| – | How do women honestly feel about guys that are genuinely going about improving themselves but still can’t get laid?I don’t think anyone should be “lowering their standards” and settling. If they don’t find some attractive, don’t have sex with them. Ain’t gonna start forcing myself to have sex with fat women out of desperation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 09:16 AM |
| 2 | Looks will get your foot in the door, but these days the door is on the top floorThe way you write it makes it sound like he had to compensate for being unattractive by plying her with gifts and money to win | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 09:06 AM |
| – | How do women honestly feel about guys that are genuinely going about improving themselves but still can’t get laid?Unfortunately dating apps have reduced the experience to that. Going on dating app subs, help websites. Everything tells you to treat your profile like a resume, you’re trying to “get an interview.” I’ve always found it to be cold and impersonal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 08:50 AM |
| 1 | I'm convinced that about 5-10% of men ruin it for everyoneThis is why unless you’re a particularly attractive guy you won’t do well on dating apps. It’s like 3:1 men to women and like you said, guys will try to bang anything. Which means your average women will have wayyy more matches than a man, which allows them to be extremely selective and have the strictest standards and still do well. Guys with no self respect ruining it for the whole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 08:45 AM |
| 5 | You are responsible for your orgasm. CMVSo when the guy can’t get an erection it’s his fault, but when the women isn’t sufficiently wet or turned on that’s also his fault. That doesn’t sound very equal-genders progressive. Women should be responsible for themselves and the man, if the man is to be responsible for himself AND the woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 11:04 PM |
| 1 | You are responsible for your orgasm. CMVBig doubt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 11:02 PM |
| 1 | How to get over how easy it is for women to have sex?I appreciate that plenty of men are willing to reciprocate pleasure, but they are still approaching for their own benefit, not hers. So even when you concede that men do reciprocate, you immediately turn it into “well they’re not actually doing it because they like it” Incredible. How many men are randomly approaching women to offer cunnilingus without getting their dick out, y’know, just for her? 😂 Not RANDOM women but I love to do it. I enjoy giving it more than receiving and I’ve always maint… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 10:26 AM |
| 84 | You are responsible for your orgasm. CMVSooo many times I see on the sex subs when a woman feels bad about a guy not coming, the comments are like “he’s probably just nervous, ED, he’s watching too much porn, death grip, it’s not your fault” etc etc. And when a guy complains he can’t get a woman to come, it’s “you’re not doing enough foreplay, you need to turn her on more, you’re not doing it right, you need to learn how to do __” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 09:34 AM |
| 1 | Men, delete your dating profiles IMMEDIATELYWell if you were trying to make a point about women specifically why did you bring up one that pertains to both sexes? I’ve seen giggling groups of women play these types of games with guys they know and I’ve seen the inverse as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Men, delete your dating profiles IMMEDIATELYFuck marry kill has been a game for a long time now that everyone plays. I’ve seen the pages here on Reddit. If we’re talking about pages objectifying people, there’s also women centered pages for lusting after men. And how prevalent are these groups exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 03:03 PM |
| 0 | Men, delete your dating profiles IMMEDIATELYOkay well that’s a drastic age difference then, I thought you meant they just had out of date pictures. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 02:49 PM |
| 2 | Men, delete your dating profiles IMMEDIATELYWait do you actually think men do this beyond talking about a girl they dated in their group chat of friends | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Men, delete your dating profiles IMMEDIATELYRight but we don’t typically have localized police-style databases | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 02:45 PM |
| 2 | Men, delete your dating profiles IMMEDIATELYComedy purposes or safety purposes, which is it? One of them is fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 02:41 PM |
| 2 | Men, delete your dating profiles IMMEDIATELYSo in theory, men should also have their own group for this as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 02:40 PM |
| 0 | Men, delete your dating profiles IMMEDIATELYBecause they post old pictures of themselves? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 02:38 PM |
| 1 | What is up with "Small dick energy," and why is that ok?Regardless of whether there is an actual penis it still reinforces that small = bad and big = good | /r/ExRedPill | 09/01/23 10:04 PM |
| 1 | What is up with "Small dick energy," and why is that ok?See, I keep seeing this same take regurgitated over and over again and it keeps missing the point. No one actually thinks that BDE/SDE are referencing the persons actual penis - as you said, men and women can have that energy and Tate might not actually have a small penis - but that’s not the issue. By linking it to specific body parts, you are reinforcing the idea that small = negative and big = positive, regardless of whether the person in question has a penis, and regardless of whether it act… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/01/23 10:02 PM |
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