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| 1 | How keep coming up with conversation topics out of thin air at a barAt least in my country roads are made of asphalt, and that's such a malleable material that even though it is already dry it can change shape due to the constant friction caused by big vehicles, just like a bus constantly stopping at the same spot of the road. Because of that, the new infrastructure is different, they are simply made out of cement, which dissipates the breaking energy from a bus more equally, keeping the shape of the road, instead of deforming it. | /r/seduction | 08/12/24 02:04 AM |
| 0 | How keep coming up with conversation topics out of thin air at a barWhere does your genuine interest lay down? For example, I am curious about things that most people don't care about that much. So if there is a pretty girl around me and I feel some kind of desire, this feeling is often accompanied with some personal observation about the environment. Last week I was at a bus station and a blonde curly haired angel came by. Some time passed until I made my desire for her conscious and at the same time I remembered about a talk I had with my father about "why is … | /r/seduction | 07/12/24 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Is inviting someone over on a first date a bad move?It's your game, your strategies, your rules, your fail and your success. Play accordingly to your strength. Inviting someone over to the first date might be exactly your best environment. This way you might be able to filter the kind of woman you have a better experience and feel more confident. There is no strategy that works with and for everyone. Play your strength, minimize your weakness. Personally I am used to the medium term game, engaging with fewer girls (3 at maximum) while knowing the… | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 05:16 PM |
| 1 | "Just be yourself"If, in order to achieve what you want, you need to be someone you are not, is your achievement really yours? Or is it from the character you built? And how long can you take being someone you are not? How long can you act without consequences? What are the consequences to live a lie? If you suck, try to work on your strength instead of paying that much attention to what you supposedly lack. Be yourself or be someone else, is that really the discussion here... ? | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 03:41 PM |
| 1 | How would you pick up a girl that works in a grocery store?Oh... My mistake. Thank you for the new perspective. | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 01:12 PM |
| -9 | How would you pick up a girl that works in a grocery store?I would go there every day and buy something really simple (like a lollipop, bottle of water, an apple) just to be seen by her. After doing that for a while (5≈7 days) I would say something like "You know what... I can't even eat lollipops, but your beauty is so powerful that I can't stay away for longer... That's a matter that concerns both of us, so how can we solve this?" Perhaps in a playful tone while also provocative, due to the "fact" that she is causing all this problem. | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 10:59 AM |
| 1 | For a price, I can be your wingman in NYCAnd an Asian dude that suffers from racist woman (just the basic due diligence) | /r/seduction | 18/08/24 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Promise to self - approach 20 girls every weekThat's both funny and wise | /r/seduction | 16/08/24 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Standards & being satisfiedThat's it 👆 | /r/seduction | 16/08/24 06:04 PM |
| 1 | first time getting laidIn my experience it could hurt just if she is a virgin and with a closed type hymen (not just the common ring, I am considering you know there are different types of hymen), which is hard af to put in and could potentially smash your penis, because it feels like pushing your dick against a wall. But don't worry, these kind of women are reeeeeally rare. | /r/seduction | 16/08/24 02:45 AM |
| 4 | first time getting laidDo you know how to spread butter on the toast? You get the knife full of butter (the more, the better) and then you start spreading it on the surface of the toast. You might already know what the knife means, the butter would be HER juice and the surface of the toast... Well you got the idea. Dip the tip of your knife on her butter cup and slowly spread it on her toast. Do it a few times in a way that you are trying to aim at the hole of her butter cup, but at the same time not being too pushy a… | /r/seduction | 16/08/24 02:13 AM |
| 5 | Having very few matches - and can't "convert" them into dates.Someone recently posted that he managed to get 1.000 matches in a year, but only 22 converted into dates. It seems to be a low conversion game, so don't bully yourself. | /r/seduction | 12/08/24 12:28 AM |
| 1 | HEELP PLEASE! I am 20, and I might have a chance to have it with MILFLet her do almost all the work. Just be sure to give her the space necessary to get to you. Chances are that she will escalate things by herself, so keep the positive enforcement. If she is a MILF looking to have sex with a younger man, she might already expect that it's up to her to make things happen. | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 05:36 PM |
| 2 | How do you make a female give you a kiss me signalYeah... My head was spinning while trying to come up with a sufficient answer, that's why I just said "build sexual tension" and went away 😆 It's indeed hard to explain and at the moment I wasn't in the mood to fully answer. I will just keep the vague idea of "build sexual tension", because that's what the dude asked in the post, and I hope more seducers gather around to improve the quality of my first comment. Overall: building sexual tension is about increasing both the % of your actions that … | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 12:40 PM |
| 5 | Is swimming classes a good place to meet women (in your early-mid 20s)?Why don't you go there and see for yourself? That seems to be such a specific question that we wouldn't be able to tell you, for sure, the answer. Go there and try, the worst thing that might happen is some old lady hitting on you because of your swimming skills (which between us isn't that bad lol) | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 01:43 AM |
| 23 | How do you make a female give you a kiss me signalBuild sexual tension | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 01:38 AM |
| 29 | Has being super obvious about your interest ever worked?Look... It's about learning your own game and mastering it, not necessarily about a script. When it comes to making a strategy there are certain things that most people simply don't talk about and it's important to be aware of those points. The target is a big portion of your strategy, so don't be naive thinking that one strategy is going to work all the time, and also don't be discredited that there are no women looking for what you want to provide. And if we are talking about targets, we are a… | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 12:26 AM |
| 11 | Should i cold approach if i am overweight?For sure! Charisma and confidence always wins. One of my friends used to be significantly overweight and yet that mf was the master when it comes to approaching girls. He still went to the gym because he wanted to improve his health, so nowadays he is in shape which 10x his results. And if you don't manage the same results, at least you are building the habit of approaching women, while developing your social skills. Don't put conditions to do what you want. | /r/seduction | 10/08/24 05:14 PM |
| 2 | Best way to contact a girl you haven't talked to in a yea?I saw YYY and it made me remember AAA about you. | /r/seduction | 10/08/24 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Help me M16 get out of the friend zone!I think you should move on... That seems too risky and low rewards... I wouldn't jump into my friend's ex. | /r/seduction | 10/08/24 02:56 PM |
| 24 | How to show interest in a guy?Be cute and, while with him, act in a way that is unique, showing that he could receive a special treatment compared to how you treat others. Don't be afraid to share love and that's the kind of advice for everything in your life. Share love in every way you can, just remember that the kind of love you share with him needs to be unique. I wish you the best. P.S.: if he is taking too much time to say something, but he is clearly enjoying the way you treat him, you should talk openly with him in o… | /r/seduction | 09/08/24 09:31 PM |
| 0 | How likely is it to go from Dating to Relationship?Well... I am constantly showing sexual intention so it's either a clear "no" right at the beginning and I just move on, or she reacts with a good response and it's just a matter of going out and having a good time (while still feeding her with sexual intentions), until I feel like we can go to my place and actually go all the way. Don't be afraid to be sexual. Engage with courage and confidence. In my experience girls react nicely when you properly scale the tension. Start building this tension … | /r/seduction | 09/08/24 02:09 PM |
| 2 | There is this girlWell... That's a great question, we tend to take things as granted and rarely stop to think about them. Overall engaging in life as a game is kind of the 21st century philosophy. It's the development of a new perspective which is unlocked when you get a good grip about a lot of things related to the same subject. For example, some people work their asses off to make money, while others have such an amazing understanding about this sector, that they start to realize it's nothing more than just a … | /r/seduction | 09/08/24 01:46 PM |
| 34 | Why is it that the answer to a man's inceldom is, 99.9999% of the time, to "just work on yourself bro," even if its for the next 50 years, "just work on yourself bro?"You are simply frustrated, which means "it's time to change the strategy". Perhaps look at the world with a different perspective, you are easily filling yourself with what you already think, so every new information is going to "justify" your beliefs. Why is it wrong to work on yourself? The thing here is: spending energy making yourself better FOR yourself; attracting women is a matter of your confidence and self acceptance. If you dislike yourself do you truly believe that women are going to … | /r/seduction | 09/08/24 01:21 AM |
| 0 | There is this girlYeah, could be cringe. I just don't think that's a problem, at least not if my behavior was genuine. "Hey I've seen you around [...]" Seems just too cold for me (personality) I prefer to embrace the cringe (if that happens to be the result). And I completely understand your position. | /r/seduction | 08/08/24 11:53 PM |
| 1 | There is this girlWell... Do what feels right in the moment. Pay attention to her reaction and act accordingly. I like playing the medium term game, so I would probably just walk away and let her think about what happened for a while. After that I would try a different approach, perhaps more playful and casual, just aiming to keep feeding her with different sides of me in order to build mystery. This strategy works pretty well for me, I manage to develop deep (and yet short) relationships with girls that really f… | /r/seduction | 08/08/24 09:52 PM |
| 1 | There is this girlJust say to her what you just said to us "Words are far from being a problem when it comes to initiating a conversation, but girl... Your beauty makes me forget how to speak and there is no word good enough to describe you" | /r/seduction | 08/08/24 08:56 PM |
| 7 | How to get rid of my fear of initiating conversation with woman?Start talking to unattractive women. This way you won't feel the pressure of rejection, while building the neurological path to initiate talking with women. Try being spontaneous and soft with the lady cashier, or the waitress, just aiming to get a genuine smile or laugh, and have a great small moment. From there you could try to escalate and approach prettier waitress or cashiers, trying to achieve the same thing. Once you feel good doing spontaneous small talks with every kind of woman, jump i… | /r/seduction | 08/08/24 05:46 PM |
| 1 | 3 dates then ghostedDoes it matter? | /r/seduction | 06/08/24 10:15 PM |
| 13 | How do you respond when you get hit with the I have a boyfriend line"Me too" while walking away with pride. | /r/seduction | 05/08/24 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Asking a girl to tutor meIt's better than nothing. Make your move. Try and error > nothing at all Be bold. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 13/07/24 12:00 AM |
| 2 | I've failed had honestly, I feel so pathetic and lost.Unless you got yourself a triple A hooker, do not kiss her. With that said, go pay for sex, that's the best way to clear your mind from your own negative thoughts and finally take this weight on your shoulder. Peace of mind is everything. | /r/seduction | 11/07/24 09:55 PM |
| 2 | Fantasme du pompierЯ не коммунист... | /r/seduction | 11/07/24 03:30 PM |
| 6 | She's down for a hookup but dont have a place to meetIt seems like you don't have money to spend with any kind of hostel room... So find a bathroom somewhere or any kind of crazy place to fuck. I once did it on a tree, so you can find a better place. | /r/seduction | 11/07/24 03:28 PM |
| 8 | First taste of female attractionWhat kind of steak was it? | /r/seduction | 11/07/24 02:22 PM |
| 3 | Bad vibe when approaching solo. Help?You are probably fighting against your nature and that's causing you this distinction between your true energy and the one you present yourself. Perhaps try changing the goal to "have fun", instead of "making positive interactions", and let that be the consequence. Or try not to abruptly initiate interaction, let people around you either approach you (I assume that if you are true to your nature this could happen spontaneously, or I could be wrong, but you lose nothing trying new strategies) or … | /r/seduction | 11/07/24 01:55 AM |
| 2 | I am really worrier,i am 22 and i never had a relationship or had sexI was 18 when I first had sex, the thing is I was always very good with girls, but I suffered a lot from 13 year old to my last day at school because I used to be very poor, and it was enough to be completely ignored in that environment. The moment I step out of school I meet a girl and we became fuck friends for a long time. I would say that feeling confident in the kind of environment you encounter yourself is very important. If you manage to feel confident in every possible scenario, then you… | /r/seduction | 11/07/24 01:48 AM |
| 15 | Day 75 of no-contact with my ex and I’m wanting her to reach out back to me.Preferably to anyone else. Try not to rewind those kinds of moments with her. | /r/seduction | 09/07/24 08:57 PM |
| 15 | Day 75 of no-contact with my ex and I’m wanting her to reach out back to me.Jerk off (that will magically make this temptation go away) and keep the no-contact strategy until you stop caring about her. Then go meet different people. You already know she isn't good for you, the thing is that you can't stand being alone. So jerking off is going to keep your energy low which in this case might prevent you from humiliating yourself for her. Once you don't feel like having her back, stop jerking off, get your energy back and go talk to some different women. | /r/seduction | 09/07/24 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Matched with a baddie on hinge and it looks like we'll be hooking up this weekend. Need help to not mess it up.Great question. I would also like to know the answer. | /r/seduction | 09/07/24 06:11 PM |
| 8 | Man FUCK I keep getting nauseaous before datesFind something to force this bitching behavior out of you. Go to an MMA gym, challenge someone, get your ass beaten up like a champ, and every time you get anxious about going on a date try remembering when you got your ass kicked and what is true fear. It might be a joke, or not, you choose. | /r/seduction | 09/07/24 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Hitting on a cute Chinese girl in the gymNice man, how did you approach her in this situation? Congratulations, enjoy your date. 👏 | /r/seduction | 09/07/24 03:09 PM |
| 5 | Dating influencers isn't all its cracked up to bePerhaps we are doomed to face the whole pain that comes from this behavior and yet I am positive that we can put our foot back on the ground (I don't know when) and set our roles back. Maybe we are living an era of denying all the principals that lead our society here, but once we have enough "data" to analyze what is happening to us, and why, people are going to start popping up to fight against this. We are in the phase of segregation, with all that agenda from both sides (feminisms, lgbt, the… | /r/seduction | 08/07/24 04:25 PM |
| 15 | Dating influencers isn't all its cracked up to beThere is some truth in your comment, and I think we should take in consideration that we are talking about women with lots of experience taking control over men. Once their tide goes low it will become a massive run towards marrying the nice guy, while those girls keep running their game on their husbands back. When people lose their mind they can put everyone around them in danger, and this speaks for men and women. The narcissist females can destroy others life, sense of worth and purpose, by … | /r/seduction | 08/07/24 03:39 PM |
| 1 | İ feel insecure about looks | /r/seduction | 07/07/24 10:59 PM |
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