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People of both genders prefer to be liked for who they are, rather than being liked for successfully performing gender role expectations. Some of the traits associated with gender roles are universally positive, but there are also those that some people genuinely hate performing. Being liked for your job, or worse, income, is also not particularly flattering, unless your job is a huge part of your identity, which is relatively rare now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 08:39 PM
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What's the difference between between being "appreciated" and being "rejected" by society? As someone who is supposed to be "rejected" by your criteria, how is this supposed to affect me?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 07:39 AM
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It has nothing to do with male fertility. Birth rates decline because technology turned children from assets into liabilities. In agrarian societies, children start contributing to their households at something like four years old and generally for the rest of their lives. In modern societies, children are completely incapable of producing value until they go through 12-20 years of education, with parents having to pay for their living costs the entire time, and after they are done with that, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:30 PM
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Absolutely nothing. Just like no amount of science will make me want to marry or have children as a man. I can't imagine any sane person changing their whole life goals for a few years of life expectancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:33 AM
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The problem with MGTOW is that the label itself is doomed to be attached to people no one likes. Men who are actually going their own way are going to be busy doing whatever it is they are doing and not going to waste time watching youtubers who bitch about women or post on internet forums dedicated to the same. The only men who are going to stay in MGTOW-related spaces are divorced losers and blackpilled teenagers. A place like r/financialindependence, despite having most of its user base marri…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 05:20 AM
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I think my last name is kinda mid and I wouldn't want to subject another person to having it. Aside from that, I can't imagine caring about something I didn't choose in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 04:43 PM
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If it wasn't, everyone would be a Casanova. It's not (just) muscles and money. Figuring it out is easy, performing it isn't. There's where we disagree. That particular effort/reward calculation is always up to the individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 11:53 AM
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It's not about making sense of it. It's not that hard to figure out what women find attractive in men. I'm just not willing to be a monkey in that particular circus, the juice is not worth the squeeze.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 11:44 AM
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Dating has always looked like an absolute shitshow to me, so I never even tried. I'm perfectly fine being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 11:32 AM
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32M, never been in a relationship. I'm actively against RP. Misogyny aside, I wouldn't want to be anywhere near those people, the vibes are way off in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 02:03 PM
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As a 32M virgin, I have never experienced it. Regardless of how much dating as a virgin sucks, outside of that context literally no one cares how much sex anyone is having.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 07:15 AM
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I'm a non-western man. My main problem with passport bros is mostly that they are delusional. They think that western women are extremely materialistic and corrupted by feminism or whatever, and that by dating in other countries they get access to uncorrupted virtuous women. The reality is that women almost everywhere have been completely westernized decades ago, and what they are getting aren't better women, but women that treat them better because they perceive passport bros to be higher statu…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:53 AM
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The difference between the two is just a matter of degree of introversion. The closer to the tail end of the normal distribution you get, the higher the energy cost of social interaction, and the less enjoyment you get onto it. At some point leaving the house completely stops being worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 11:46 PM
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<image> Not masculine, not feminine, just straight up no personality lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 09:59 PM
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No. I agree about women gatekeeping sex part (mostly because men want sex more than women), but women largely gatekeep relationships too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 09:53 PM
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Since I work from home, I can use anything I want as long as I can maintain a reasonable appearance of productivity. Which is not particularly hard in my specific position.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 09:44 PM
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I don't care either, but I'm still allowed to consider certain behaviors cringe because it's usually done by the kinds of people I don't generally like. They are allowed to live their life however they want, and I'm allowed to silently judge them for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 06:31 AM
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Your cousin is based. Like, I personally think that older men who exclusively go for women in early 20s are extremely cringe (and so do most women those guys hit on). But like your brother said, when everyone involved is an adult, they can date whoever they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 06:09 AM
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Extraversion exists on a standard distribution. Most people are pretty similar whether they fall to the left or the right of an arbitrary line that sorts them into introverts or extroverts. But you have to remember that people at the tail ends of the distribution exist too. If you are somewhere in the bottom 5%, then then forcing yourself to socialize with strangers is a massive pain in the ass even if you don't have any kind of social anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 07:17 PM
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Or maybe fragile egos are common in attractive men that date a lot of women. A minority of men can create a large fraction of recurring experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 03:14 PM
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If men you date consistently have fragile egos, to me that just sounds like you tend to select for men with fragile egos because they tend to have other qualities you find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 03:08 PM
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No, I don't believe that an average man will get cold approached by an attractive woman and regularly get tinder matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 09:22 PM
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No woman has expressed any interest in me in my entire life. I never put any active effort into dating it, seems like way too much of a pain in the ass and I'm fine being single. However, my point is that if you are actually average as a man, nothing woman-related will ever happen to you unless you actively look for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 08:05 PM
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Among other things. I don't like socializing with strangers. I don't like most activities people do on dates. I would hate to spend time and energy on my appearance, like maintaining a hairstyle that isn't a buzz cut, shaving regularly, or getting into male fashion. I would hate going to a gym (I'm not fat but there's zero muscle on me).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 02:04 AM
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I never tried. It would require me to do way too many things I don't enjoy, so it never seemed worth the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 01:18 AM
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I would consider her batshit insane for trying to have a biological kid at 47. If she succeeds, that kid will be playing a defect roulette with unfavorable odds. She should adopt. I don't understand why she'd want to subject herself to being a single mother on purpose, let alone her kid to fatherlessness. It will also mean she'll be nearly 70 when the kid reaches adulthood. So also relatively insane to me. The age gap is weird, but they are both adults so whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 01:02 PM
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Even in countries with by far the highest child benefits, those benefits aren't anywhere near covering the costs of having children. They exist mainly to prevent poor people from being unable to afford basics like groceries. If anyone is having children for the sake of benefits, it's because they are bad at math, which is, to be fair, not uncommon among the demographic that gets them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:39 AM
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I didn't mean anything being given away for free. The main causes of housing shortage currently are artificial zoning restrictions, parking minimums, and NIMBYism. If it was legal to built apartment blocks where it's currently only legal to build single family homes, the problem would go away relatively quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:15 AM
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I even hashed this out with AI and it said, essentially, the same thing. LLM providers have an incentive to prompt them to behave in ways that maximizes user engagement, and that generally involves glazing the user and agreeing with everything. Getting an LLM agree with you is not an indication of validity of anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 05:01 AM
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Unlike with relationships, you don't need a building's consent to live in it. Housing shortage can be solved just by building more of it while fairly compensating everyone involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 03:24 AM
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Just a few generations ago women didn't have equal access to education and jobs compared to men, and financial dependence on men was normal. Now that workplace equality is mostly achieved, the kind of men who used to be valuable because they were providers, now have nothing to offer because women can provide for themselves. This means that in the current year, a man needs to be attractive enough that his presence improves a woman's life compared to staying single, and a big chunk of men just don…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 04:07 PM
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No, absolute level of attractiveness still matters because men now compete not just with other men, but also women's ability to stay single. All men being better would mean more women would be able to find a man worth dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 03:12 PM
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Pretty much none. I get so little out of social interaction that it has never been worth it for me to seek out new relationships or even maintain those that were formed spontaneously.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 08:48 AM
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Whenever I tell incels that “incel” now means a man who hates woman To be entirely fair, the worst "misogynist" already exists, and turning the word "incel" as an insult with the same meaning was entirely unproductive. Now we have a millions of non-misogynist involuntarily celibate men that can't reasonably be called incels, but we have no other word for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 06:57 PM
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I don't agree that there's an abundance of good options, if a good option is someone who will improve a woman's life compared to staying single. Obviously there's a huge number of men who are faithful and not abusive, but if they aren't at all attractive, what's the point of dating them in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:46 PM
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Besides being sexist bullshit that mirrors RP, down to the part where "it's not actually all men/women but you have like like they all are to protect yourself", it's also just wrong. Any individual is fully capable of rejecting the values of society they grow up in. You can be raised in a religious society and turn out an atheist, you can be raised in a nationalist society and turn out a cosmopolitan, and you can be raised in a sexist society and turn out an egalitarian. Once you stop treating p…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 10:36 AM
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To be entirely fair, women do things a lot of things that have zero impact on how attractive they are to men, like inconveniencing themselves with long nails.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 12:14 PM
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If I cared about attracting women, I would follow advice from the kind of women I would want to attract, but unsolicited advice from random women I don't care about wouldn't be welcome. If I had a partner, I would be willing to change my appearance to match her preferences as long as it's something I don't hate. But since I'm single and planning to stay single, everything I do to my body or wear is for my own comfort.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 11:53 AM
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It's fairly simple for me. If I like someone enough to want a relationship with them, I like them enough to value my friendship with them and would prefer to continue to spend time with them. When you would rather be a stranger than a friend to someone you wanted to date, it simply reveals how little you valued that friendship, and it's completely reasonable for that person to be upset about it, without any entitlement involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 11:44 AM
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Why is it fake just because you want to be closer? Because if it wasn't fake, they would have preferred to stay friends over cutting contact.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 11:04 AM
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The OP was talking about "being shamed", which to me means the impact on your reputation in daily life. Getting rejected due to having no experience is obviously a thing but to me seems completely irrelevant to the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 12:19 PM
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No periods. Vasectomy is way less invasive than permanent birth control for women. It takes way less maintenance to be presentable as a man. Short hair takes way less time and effort to take care of. No makeup. No inconveniences like high heels or long nails.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 11:29 AM
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Men aren't shamed for failing at sex, they are shamed for annoying behavior. You can be a virgin without ever being shamed for it if you just don't act like a weirdo, which is not particularly hard. Your N count doesn't exactly float above your head. And men certainly aren't shamed for succeeding at sex except by a few terminally online weirdos that you have to go out of your way to discover. In any case, it's a nothingburger issue, especially since women get shamed for both having sex and not h…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:07 PM
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I don't deliberately avoid women, but I don't interact with women my age mostly because I don't interact with people in general. I work from home and don't go outside except for groceries. Work meetings I attend are usually 100% men because it's almost all men in technical roles at my company. Since it's this to avoid women even without meaning to, I don't see anyone doing it on purpose would have any difficulties. Approaching and dating do seem to be a massive pain in the ass, but even if that …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 08:55 AM
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I look at the stars and see like five of them across the entire sky because of light pollution ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:58 AM
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I fundamentally don't have an issue with it, though it's worth noting that I live in a homogenous country so I haven't seen either men or women act like this in real life. To me, it It would only be a problem if the immutable characteristic in question was the only criteria by which I was selected, and she didn't care about my personality and interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 08:25 AM
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Arousal is the physiological part, sexual attraction is psychological. You can have the former without the latter. Like in that example of a 10/10 I know nothing about, may dick may get hard from looking at her, but that won't make want to have sex with her. I need to be familiar with a woman and like her personality before my brain can consider her a valid target for sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 01:54 PM
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Maybe biology plays a part? I’m a heterosexual man that wants to give, whereas women receive, so they have to feel comfortable? Idk….I really can’t fathom that. People experience sexuality differently, and there's way more variation in that between individuals than most people think. In general, heterosexual men tend to conflate arousal and sexual attraction because most of them tend to experience both at the same time, but that isn't the case for everyone. For example, in my case arousal works …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 09:03 AM
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Morally, I agree that a man shouldn't have to pay for a woman's choice to carry a pregnancy to term. Consent to sex isn't consent to parenthood. However, when you live under a legal system where you could be on the hook for 18 years of child support regardless of your consent, then wanting to rawdog it without getting a vasectomy is entirely a skill issue. I have zero sympathy for people this stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 08:40 AM
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I'd say that was true a few decades ago, but it has been getting increasingly more common with young people. To me it looks like dating now requires better social skills than before, while those skills are generally declining as increasingly more people are terminally online.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 10:40 PM
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I wouldn't consider dating "basic human interaction" because you can have enough social skills to function perfectly fine in all other social contexts you need in your life and suck exclusively at dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 09:58 PM
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Never occurred to me to ask why anyone relies on terrible fast food. In my case, I'm not rich enough for eating out or food delivery to make sense, and at the same, I don't enjoy homecooked food enough to spend the necessary time in the kitchen.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 06:51 PM
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I'm one of them. Besides that, being a nerd with a lot of male dominated hobbies, I know a lot of other nerds similar to myself, who have progressive views and are not attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 09:24 PM
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Plenty of men who see women as equals are completely unattractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 09:07 PM
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It's not "women not putting up with shitty behavior", it's "women not putting up with mediocre men who don't have anything to offer". In the past, women were financially dependent on those mediocre men because they didn't have the same access to education and job opportunities. Now that's no longer the case, the problem of invisible men is that they are competing against women's option to stay single. And losing. Which is entirely a skill issue. Most of those lonely men are perfectly fine people…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 06:44 PM
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To me "never approached a woman in person" sounds like it doesn't exclude finding women on dating apps or other online platforms. I don't think all of those 45% are virgins, but probably around half are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 09:56 AM
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Yes it's obviously fair to say that. It may be way easier for women to get casual sex compared to men, but it doesn't mean that it's easy for women to get into a relationship that's an upgrade from being single, considering that a bad relationship can easily make your life much worse. And some people also just aren't good at social skills needed for dating, especially when it comes to young people, many of whom don't get much real life social interaction at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 10:36 AM
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where she would promptly get westernized Women are already westernized almost everywhere. Everything that happens in the west happens in other places, maybe it takes a couple of decades for some trends to go through language barriers. A lot of non-western women now are just cheap knockoffs of western women from 20 years ago. The part that's important in relation to passportbros is that you don't get virgin tradwives on tap anywhere. Passportbros aren't getting any unwesternized women, they are s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 11:38 AM
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There are certain styles of clothing and makeup that are instant boner killers for me. It's not just about how those things look but what the person tries to signal by wearing them. I don't like massively impractical things some women wear like high heels or long fake nails. This stuff is uncomfortable to look at.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 08:09 PM
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Sounds like blue pill with extra steps. (You can write whatever you want in your flair)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 06:21 PM
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No, and I find this kind of behavior from women cringe. Women have equal rights, and I prefer when they act like it. I don't want children, so there's no reason for my partner to earn less than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 10:03 AM
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It's not. A potential partner's finances should be one of the most important things about them, regardless if you are a man or a woman, and whether you want children or not. Any man who marries a woman who has credit card debt is regarded, nothing such a woman can offer will be worth the financial situation she will spend you into. That being said, it's fine to call a woman shallow if she expects her man to make six figures while she herself has no chance of ever earning anywhere that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 06:49 AM
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I think most people will have better mental health childfree than otherwise, considering the work and stress involved in raising children. I don't believe that there's any psychological need to have children built into humans, evolution simply doesn't work that way. Nature tricks animals into reproducing by rewarding sex, and it works on anything, ranging from things too dumb to reason about future to humans until we invented reliable birth control. There's no reason to think that childless wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:29 AM
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Family and children, when stripped of the economic advantages they had per-industrialization, are greatly overrated. Not that many people enjoy family life so much that it's worth the time and money sacrifice it requires in a society where children are a 20-25 year commitment with zero return on investment. I expect even more people to stay unmarried and childless in the future as social inertia from earlier times fades. Women, besides taking a greater financial hit due to having to take time of…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:44 AM
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You can sustain yourself with less total effort by going to a college and getting a well paid job, and then retiring early on money you don't spend.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 08:42 PM
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The fall in fertility rates isn't caused by sexual liberation, both are caused by technological progress, and it's universal regardless of culture, religion and marriage traditions. I have a hot take that throughout history, most people had children for entirely pragmatic and selfish reasons. Not because they enjoyed parenting or wanted to continue their lineage, but simply because they had sex, and because children were seen as investments. In agrarian societies, it didn't take particularly lon…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 01:23 AM
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Absolutely not "mostly west". By population, nearly the entirety of Asia lives in countries with fertility rates under replacement, and with global leaders being Hong Kong, Singapore, South Korea, China and Japan, and the rest are getting there. Countries like India, Bangladesh and Nepal went from a fertility rate of 6 in 1960s to 2 in 2020s, and the trend is not showing signs of stopping. Besides a couple of -stans, the only countries with high fertility rates left are in subsaharan Africa. Reg…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 11:10 AM
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To me, it's not logical at all. Crushes come and go. You'll get over it. If you don't value your friendship enough that you can't bother to tolerate some discomfort to maintain it after getting rejected, I think it's logical to conclude that the friendship mattered very little to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 06:46 AM
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No idea why you are bringing US into it when I was talking about the developed world in general. I live in Europe so I know the living costs. 1250 SEK per month probably doesn't even cover groceries for that child in Sweden. Googled Netherlands, their child benefit is pretty much the same, €280-400, depending on the age, per child per quarter. Again, this makes a significant dent in the expenses, and helps lower income families, but it doesn't qualify as an incentive. My entire point is that saf…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 02:05 AM
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Child benefit in Sweden is 1250 SEK a month per child, which is like $110. Housing allowance also caps at around that much. Even if you have six children, you're look at like $1200 per month in total. Measures like parental leave, free public daycare, free higher education, and that child benefit help preventing parents from falling into poverty but this absolutely wouldn't be enough to motivate anyone to have children. I think they would have to pay at least 5x as much to qualify for what I wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 10:22 PM
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Everything that government’s have at their disposal—parental support, tax incentives, sticks and carrots—has been tried and failed. I don't think it's true that everything has been tried, or has been tried hard enough. This is going to be a hot take, but I think that only a minority of people, both now and throughout history, ever enjoyed having children for the sake of having them, as opposed to practical benefits like free labor or children being their retirement plan. As societies develop, pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:39 AM
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I've heard of cases in East Asia (China, S. Korea, Japan) where streaming is big, of men sending thousands of dollars to a streamer so she will mention their name online It's not an asia thing, exactly the same thing happens with a decent chunk of western female streamers. A lot of them deliberately toe the line of what's within terms of service so they can provide sexual content while retaining access to huge audiences twitch/youtube have, or just to funnel people from those platforms to their …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 09:03 PM
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Question for men, how do you actually feel about makeup/surgery? I don't care about surgery as long as it looks good. Don't like piercings, indifferent about tattoos that aren't tasteless. I don't like flashy makeup, but like you said, I prefer how women look with some reasonable makeup compared to none. And out of curiosity, if a woman has had plastic surgery, should she be upfront about it? Just like I don't care whether she had it, I don't care whether she tells me about it. I think a lot of …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 12:12 PM
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Women don't have unrealistic standards. It's perfectly rational to prefer staying single over being in a relationship with a mediocre partner. Now that women aren't forced to do it to survive, they don't. A relationship doesn't automatically improve your life, even ignoring the possibility of abuse, it can just involve more work and inconvenience than what you get out of it. Hypergamy isn't even necessary here, simply the fact that more women than men are happy to stay single, creates an unbalan…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:18 PM
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Yes, but Iraq was at 7 fifty years ago, and is still on a consistent downwards trend. Israel is the only country I can think of where religion managed to stabilize the fertility rate above replacement, and it's in quite an unique geopolitical situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:43 PM
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I think every country that currently has a high fertility rate will eventually end up where the west currently is. It took India 60 years to go from a fertility rate of 6 to 2, and it keeps dropping. I don't think there's any place that will be uniquely immune to this. Also, many of the unjust socities aren't doing any better. Iran is at 1.6, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:33 PM
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Fewer children being born due to a more just society is a win-win as far as I'm concerned. I'm an antinatalist. But also, I think that society would need to figure out a way to incentivize childbirth anyway. The more advanced society gets, the more education it takes to create a productive member of society, and the cost of raising a child to adulthood keeps increasing, while the benefits of free labor that parents used to get out of their children disappear. We are already at the point where ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:22 PM
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As a productive member of society, I work a normal job at a medium-sized company, so I work with both men and women all the time. I see male-dominated and female-dominated roles, but I don't see any difference in competence between men and women. Besides, most businesses aren't big enough to get infested by DEI/ESG/whatever, and they would just avoid hiring women if they were less productive. I think you should focus less on the culture war brainrot and more on the real world in front of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 10:23 PM
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The proportion of jobs women hold due to merit vs DEI is like 99/1, and that 1% is in a few very desirable male dominated fields. Don't get me wrong, I hate affirmative action in any form, because I think it's both unfair and ineffective, but you have to be taking crazy pills if you think the majority of women don't deserve the jobs they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:05 PM
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Just because it's not perfect doesn't mean it isn't better. I don't care how individual families split responsibilities between partners and who pays who in case of divorce. It's a minor thing compared to the fact that at some point women couldn't get the same education and jobs as men, and now they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 02:40 PM
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I think it's primarily a consequence of better gender equality (mostly education and workplace), the dating market just took a few decades to fully catch up with all of the the consequences of it. With women not needing men to provide for them, men have to compete not just with other men, but also with the the advantages of staying single. And since women are less horny than men, more of them are satisfied staying single, and fewer men clear the bare minimum bar of being worth dating for women, …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 08:59 AM
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Doesn't bother me. Obviously would be nice, but absence of it doesn't negatively impact my quality of life. And being a guy, if I'm not willing to put a massive amounts of effort into it, it's not going to happen, and the juice is not worth the squeeze.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 08:40 AM
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Exactly the same thing happened to fertility rates in USSR which was not capitalist and where women gained equal access to education and employment significantly earlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 07:09 PM
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I don't think it's a capitalism problem. Capitalism doesn't make children a financial burden, technological development did. Back when children quickly became net contributors to the household, people had a lot of them, and that behavior was just as mercenary as what modern people do. Now children are useless until they are mid 20s because it takes a lot of education to contribute something to society that can't be automated. The cost of getting them said education while also providing for their…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 06:06 PM
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"More likely than not" is not good enough. Enough exceptions make the rule useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 11:42 AM
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Safety is on the bottom of the pyramid, but plenty of people put themselves in danger unnecessarily. Or, you know, commit suicide. That's just the first things that come to mind where people prioritize higher levels before lower ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 11:39 AM
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https://youtu.be/O7FIiYsVy3U
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 09:05 AM
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I'm a guy and my social media feeds are entirely free of OF stuff. That being said, I don't use instagram.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 01:20 PM
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People act contrary to Maslow's hierarchy all the time, so I don't think it's particularly scientific.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 10:36 AM
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I think it's fair to say that Americans self-segregate by class and social status significantly more than most other places.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 04:10 AM
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A hermit. For me, having zero social interaction is better than having social interaction with normies. Talking to normies at best just drains my energy (and I don't have a lot of it) and at worst kills my faith in humanity. The most social I ever got was in college where most other students were also nerds. I can "mask" as you call it well enough, but I see absolutely zero reason to be around people that make it necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 12:46 AM
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If my parents attempted to normiefy me, I'd grow up a misanthrope.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 12:30 AM
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Most abusers are manipulators so they easily slip past all radars I feel like they only slip past radars of their targets. Most dudes will easily see the red flags in a male manipulative asshole because they know how men act normally.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:46 PM
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I see nothing wrong with this
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 06:45 AM
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If I was ever in danger of having sex, I'd get a vasectomy first. A nonzero chance of pregnancy is unacceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 05:31 AM
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I dropped BG3 despite being interested in the story because the game is too much of a pain in the ass to play. I have this issue with a lot of turn-based games, having to input actions and then wait for animations to play out, especially in encounters where I'm not really make any decisions. I put it in my after-early-retirement backlog. I will be able to play this once I'm a NEET.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 10:41 PM
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Not attractive. Yes, she won the genetic lottery, but her mannerisms, the way she dresses, and the way she talks, give me the male version of ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 10:34 PM
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I don't have any relevant education or read any books on the subject. It's mostly logic for me. Nature manages to make all animals reproduce, including those that are far too dumb to be capable of pattern recognition or long-term planning. There's no reason to think that nature would need any kind of backup to the fuck incentive, considering that humans are the only species in existence that ever managed to circumvent it, and that only started happening a few thousand years ago (so no time at al…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:50 PM
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You are missing the point. There's a biological urge to have sex. There's no biological urge to have children. The distinction is important when birth control exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:29 PM
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We also have a biological urge to reproduce cause we are a living thing. There's no biological urge to reproduce. The nature tricks animals into reproducing by making their brains reward them for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 10:43 PM
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IQ is not just about learning things with less effort though. If you take someone with an IQ of 80 (as common as 120, around 10% of the population), that person will struggle with even with some of the simplest jobs available today, and no amount of effort would make a good accountant or a technician out of them. Similarly, you won't find a lot of 100 IQ engineers or scientists. IQ doesn't guarantee success, but it's necessary to have the ability to do some things at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 07:46 PM
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Women currently outperform men in education because most teachers are women, so they run classrooms in a way more suitable to girls than boys. Female teachers are also biased towards girls, male students will often get lower grades for the same academic performance, or teachers will grade based on behavior. Girls are more likely to follow rules and obey authority figures, which is highly valued by teachers but isn't an indication of intellect. And the reason most teachers are women is that teach…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 07:29 PM
2

Nothing I can think of.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 04:00 PM
2

No difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 03:51 PM
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I'd feel absolutely nothing about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 03:17 PM
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All MGTOW spaces I've seen mostly consist of bitching about women. I'm someone who is technically MGTOW, but I fail to see the value of manosphere communities and MGTOW specifically to a man who is happily single. The only people who congregate there are those with an axe to grind.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:16 PM
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I thought they were all angry but some here are chill Majority of them have always been chill, it's just that the media had no interest in talking about them back they were just boring sad dudes. It's only when the radicalized ones started showing up that they become news material.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 10:45 AM
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Conservative values are what causing the conditions that make people not want to have children. Same with South Korea, but even worse there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 01:20 PM
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Big agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:46 PM
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I agree with this definition, though mostly because I'm one of the people who fits it. I do think that this definition is used mostly by the asexual community, but if you restrict the definition of asexuality to what normies imagine it to be, then only tiny number of people will actually fit that definition and it wouldn't be very useful. Despite the "lack of sexual attraction" part sounding relatively vague, it's pulling a lot of weight. A lot of things normal men say about women and sex (or la…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:27 PM
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I'm 31 and been living alone since 19, but I still feel like a teenager, just with money.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 10:44 AM
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No, I'm saying that people who call themselves christians are christian, regardless of how "unchristian" they act.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 11:40 PM
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Religion isn't what written in an old book, it's what people of that religion actually do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 10:27 PM
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its one of the biggest refrains on this sub that men should be assholes to get women This sub is a small number of terminally online weirdos, and even the entire manosphere put together is in the grand scheme of things inconsequential. I personally think it's a bad idea to do this even if it works. just like men's preferences affect women To a lesser degree, since men are disposable as far as natural selection is concerned, and fewer of them reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 07:43 PM
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In a lot of cases, this is willful blindness on women's part. Men like this are completely obvious to other men, the act isn't fooling anyone who's not attracted to them. And if men with their lower emotional intelligence can spot this, so can women. They just choose to ignore the red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 06:22 PM
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Vast majority of men don't act like assholes deliberately for the purpose of getting women. Redpillers and PUAs may but they are a tiny fraction of the population. Most assholes are the way they are naturally. Even if absolutely zero men acted like assholes on purpose to get women, women's preferences would still affect men as a whole. “Men are one long breeding experiment run by women”. They get to choose who gets to reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 06:17 PM
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If women consistently choose men who exhibit toxic behavior over men who don't, they can't exactly be called wonderful, are they? I mean, they have free will, they could just choose to not reward bad behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:40 PM
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There's no confusion. Toxic excesses of attractive traits (like confidence and decisiveness turning into being a cocky asshole) are far less unattractive to women than any expression of lack of those traits. Erring on the side of expressing toxic masculinity gets men better results than what men themselves consider respectful behavior. Things would be very different if women treated cocky assholes the same way they treated boring shy guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 08:51 AM
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Most, no. Some, yes. There are certainly some coomers whose entire lives revolve around women, successfully or otherwise, but most dudes place limited value on sex and relationships, and if dating becomes too much of a pain in the ass, can decide to not engage based on cost-benefit analysis.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 01:43 PM
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Absolutely no one is born religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:14 AM
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People aren't born religious though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:00 AM
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Some people need to grassmaxx.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:23 PM
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It would make me want to check if she's a menhera or something. If it's not a result of BPD or something else, someone being enthusiastically into me would be a good thing. That being said, all other dealbreakers still apply. If she's a normie with no interests, wants children, or doesn't have her shit together, I wouldn't want to date her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:01 PM
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Houses in cities are expensive because they are an extremely inefficient use of land. Housing would be affordable if it was actually built. However, western countries for some reason will do absolutely anything other than remove their insane single family zoning restrictions, bulldoze the McMansions, and start building shit people actually need. Y'all need some fucking commieblocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 11:58 AM
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I consider it a yellow flag if the age difference results in people being at the different stages of life. It's weird when a college student is dating a high school junior, even if the 4 year gap is technically okay/legal. For the same reason I consider it weird when 30 year old dudes try to date college students even if they pass /2+7 rule. Like, it's fine if you just met randomly and clicked, but when dudes deliberately try to get much younger women, they probably have something weird going on…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 03:34 PM
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As a woman you can't trust men with the same secrets you trust your girl friends, you can't talk to them about menstruation or how your body is feeling awful or how you boobs are bloated or how this man you're talking to did that thing because you'd be making them feel emasculated or making you see your body in the way a man looks at a woman in a romantic way. Maybe it's just me, but as a man, I wouldn't talk about my dick with my male friends any more than female friends. For the same reasons, …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 08:15 AM
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I'm not going to date a normie. A bare minimum requirement is that she would have overlapping interests with mine, and all of my interests are very male-dominated. This means that women I'd be interested are both very rare, and have a lot of better options than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 07:12 PM
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I'm asocial and I have unreasonably high standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 05:56 PM
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30M, zero romantic or sexual experience. That being said, I never tried. Never seemed worth the effort. My lifestyle is incompatible with meeting women naturally, and I'm not willing to change it. I'm perfectly fine with my situation though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 02:44 PM
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"want to be friends" why do that ? For the same reason you'd want to be friends with a man. Friendships are fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 09:57 PM
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I don't see how that logically follows. When you are this famous, even if vast majority of women find you disgusting, if 1% of women who know of you are willing to fuck you, that's more women than you can ever fuck in a lifetime. That doesn't mean you will do well if you emulate this behavior as a nobody.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 12:01 PM
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The 20% gap is just the difference between average gross earnings of all men vs average gross earnings of all women. When controlled for profession, level of experience, and hours worked, it narrows down to under 3% Feminists will obviously only use the measure that produces the biggest number.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 05:23 AM
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why does the manosphere The manosphere is a tiny fraction of the population that needs to touch grass. Everyone who even knows about it is dangerously close to being terminally online.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 05:10 AM
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People who read or participate in manosphereare are a tiny fraction of the population that needs to touch grass. You need to be terminally online to know about its existence in the first place. Domestic abusers, cheaters, and assholes in general exist in large numbers in both genders. I fail to see how accidentally dating a redpiller/4channer, which is unlikely due to how small of a fraction of population they are, would be significantly worse than dating one of the normie assholes or abusers, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 05:19 PM
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If you consider places like France becoming majority muslim with a small minority of actual Frenchmen a solution I guess, if it doesn't cause civil wars or breakup in these countries eventually. That's a problem with how specific countries do immigration, not immigration as a whole. Basically, it's usually a mistake to import a huge number of people from a single culture. If there are enough of them in once place, they will be able to get away with not integrating and not learning the local lang…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 05:11 PM
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Despite below replacement fertility rates, very few countries actually have declining population. Even South Korea with meme-worthy 0.9 children per woman still has increasing population because a low number of births is still more than enough to offset deaths from old age. In Russia, Ukraine, Belarus, Lithuania, Latvia and a decent chunk of other countries in eastern Europe, the situation is much worse. They have roughly double deaths compared to births, and negative net immigration. Their popu…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 02:36 PM
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Average age of marriage among Ukrainian girls is only 22. There is a lot of cultural pressure to settle down quickly. Wikipedia article lists first marrage age as 26 for women and 28 for men in Ukraine, which tracks. 22 sounds like bullshit, especially for someone who's familiar enough with Russian/Ukrainian culture. Marrying early (before mid-late 20's) is just as weird in Ukraine as it is in the west. There's usually no pressure to marry unless your family is deeply religious, which is as unco…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 02:19 PM
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I'm not interested in becoming a father because I see exactly zero upsides in fatherhood, only negatives. But aside from increasing number of people like me, more people are concerned about being able to afford to provide good life to their children than they are concerned about things like divorce and paternity fraud.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:28 PM
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If they were looking for personality, they wouldn't be on OLD apps. Also, far more men than women use those apps. What about women who don't use them?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 06:48 AM
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OLD shows what women that use OLD, use it for.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 06:12 AM
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I don't think it's exactly fair to make it women's fault that men have no standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:56 AM
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Height: Anything within two standard deviations of the mean is fine. Income: Must have her shit together. So enough income to support herself and no revolving debt. Race: Moderate preference for asian, don't care otherwise. Body type: Not obese or anorexic, overweight BMIs are fine as long as hip to waist ratio stays reasonable. House/no house: No preference Kids: No kids, not negotiable Your age. 29
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 01:43 PM
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I'm talking about long term relationships, not sexual attraction, since that was the topic of the original post.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 05:30 AM
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Not exactly creepy, but a yellow flag at the very least.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:49 PM
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Yes, I'd still feel the same way, because I can't imagine being attracted to a 20 yo, and the amount of money I have doesn't really change anything in that regard. There's absolutely no reason for 30+ man to go for 20 yo over 25 yo. Both are still physically in their prime, so that can't be it. It's either about the man being so immature that he considers 20 year olds his peer group, or he has some kind of fetish for that particular age group. You have to be weird to value a 18-20 year old highe…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:45 PM
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As a 30 year old dude, I would consider another 30 year old dude dating girls under ~23 to be creepy. A 30 year old dude dating an 18 year old would raise alarm sirens. Like, even if he has no ill intentions whatsoever, the fact that he's capable of finding people so much younger than him attractive means there's something wrong with him. People mature a lot between late teens and early twenties, so regardless of the legal age of consent, I get suspicious when people cross that age barrier. Like…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 02:02 PM
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It’s easier for women to form social circles and get support. A woman can post about having a bad day on social media and get flooded with support. A man will be told to man up and get over things. It's kind of true, but mostly applies to interactions with complete strangers. Yes, a woman can post a sob story and get a bunch of updoots on reddit or likes on twitter from people she's never interacted with. I don't think it's particularly valuable or meaningful. If you become a part of smaller onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:31 AM
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"The wall" as the concept of people becoming less attractive with age is trivially true, but TRP tends to greatly exaggerate the difference in how much it affects women compared to men. A balding man with a beer gut is his 40s is in no better dating situation than a visibly aging woman of the same age. Being able retain your looks with age is combination of generic lottery and taking care of your body, and while gender contributes to this somewhat, I consider the TRP narrative on the issue to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 10:55 PM
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29 year old man, same take.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 10:31 PM
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I'm this, but I work the bare minimum in a well paid job so that I can hoard enough money to retire early.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 11:10 PM
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I don't recommend projecting your needs onto everyone. Industriousness is personality trait on a scale. Some people always need to be working towards something to feel satisfied with their life, others have never felt the need to do anything useful in their entire lives (that's me).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 11:07 PM
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As a man, I consider it unreasonable. Real friendships last way past the time it should take you to get over a crush. Examples like this Think about it, you will be there the next time this person has a significant other, who is objectively deemed to be better than you. You’ll have to smile and laugh at their jokes, etc. make no sense to me whatsoever since if you are an emotionally mature adult, you would naturally get over unrequited affection after a few months and see her as just any other p…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 06:34 PM
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I'm someone who fits neatly into your category #1. 29 year old software developer. I have normal libido and my arousal works the same as for normal heterosexual dudes, but I have never experienced the desire to have sex that is targeted towards a specific woman. Masturbation completely gets everything sex-related out of my system, and my sense of self-worth is also completely disconnected from it. The asexual community considers people like me asexuals, but it's understandable that most people i…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 01:05 AM
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Omg I haven't talked to anyone in 2 months Im such an introvert UwU. No that's not introversion that's social isolation and social anxiety. People like you forget that extraversion is a scale with a normal distribution, not a binary. Most people, whether they call themselves introverts or extroverts, are close to the mean of that distribution, and aren't hugely different from each other. For those people, not talking to anyone in months would be an issue. On the other hand, if you pick somewhere…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 08:23 AM
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What "opposed", they had exactly the same culture only 30 years ago, and since then they barely diverged.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 06:15 PM
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Yes, I have female friends, and no, it doesn't affect anything. I don't treat my female friends differently from my male friends, and in general, I don't treat individual people differently based on generalizations about their immutable characteristics like gender or ethnicity. That being said, I have no interest in interacting with vast majority of people of both genders. I'm a weirdo and so are my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 03:17 PM
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You aren't doing any favors to children by having them, especially on this hellhole of a planet. Having children is always about satisfying your own ego, there's nothing selfless about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 01:34 AM
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For me, children seemed like a bad idea from the first time I thought about it in early teens, and now that I'm approaching 30, I only got more reasons to not want them. I have no idea how little self awareness one needs to have in order to ever change mind on an issue like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 08:21 PM
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"Afraid" is a weird word. I'm not afraid of responsibilities, I hate responsibilities because they make me feel awful, so I avoid them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 06:19 PM
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I'm probably weird, but I have a lot of financial deal-breakers. My goal is financial independence, in a sense that I want to have enough money that I can sustain my lifestyle entirely with passive income that money generates. Any partner who would be in the way of that goal (either by earning too little or spending too much) is not worth having, since I value my free time way more than I value relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 12:36 AM
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If it's unethical to abort them based on consent, it's also unethical to force them to be born.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 11:22 PM
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Your entire comment was about fat people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 04:20 AM
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Being fat has nothing to do with not exercising though. You can't out-exercise poor eating habits. Being thin does not prevent me from hating exercise with passion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 04:13 AM
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The server doesn't get the phone number. Discord does, the server doesn't. It's a security measure that makes it harder for bot accounts to access the server.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 04:00 AM
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I'd rather just grind a high-paid job to early retirement instead. I hate work on a fundamental level. It doesn't matter what a specific position involves, having an obligation to be somewhere and do something on someone else's schedule makes me hate my life. I like video games but I'd hate playing them if I was paid to do it. I will never do anything I like for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 02:39 AM
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Not being overweight is not about doing something, it's about not doing something. Eating, specifically. You can't out-exercise bad eating habits. It takes 10-15 minutes of running to get rid of calories from one cookie. Exercise is an objectively shit way to lose weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 02:20 AM
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Hating physical exercise (any form of it) and not wanting to spend time on it are completely valid reasons. Having to go to the gym alone is more than enough of a downside.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 02:09 AM
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Suburbia produces nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 12:08 AM
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Post-WW2 boom was never sustainable in the first place, for reasons that have nothing to do with women entering the workforce. And suburbs themselves that emerged during that time have never been financially sustainable either. The tax revenue from suburbia can't pay for the maintenance of its infrastructure. Suburbs themselves are also desolate and miserable places to live in, which also causes quite a lot of psychological damage. There are generations of kids who grew up being completely depen…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 11:44 AM
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The problem with MGTOW communities is that they tend to attract very few of the former and a lot of the latter, for the simple reason that single men with fulfilling lives have better things to do than discuss being single on the internet. MGTOW communities naturally self-select for losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 11:02 AM
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OLD is completely voluntary and optional. In fact, I'd say it's a bad way to look for a partner. Not that it's impossible to find a good partner this way, it's just unlikely and wastes a lot of your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 01:45 PM
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I believe in acting-according-to-your-gender-role-privilege. A masculine man gets access to male privilege, a man who is not masculine does not. Same applies to women. There are situations where it's advantageous to be a man, and there are situations where it's advantageous to be a woman. How much perceived privilege/discrimination you will receive will depend mostly on which of those situations you find yourself more often. Men in primary education have it way worse than women in tech, for exam…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 01:19 PM
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Weird take. I would consider tattoos more medically invasive than vaccines. The process involves quite a lot of damage to the skin, and can cause actual issues. In any case, it's a matter primarily of freedom of association. If someone doesn't want to interact with people who can't prove that they are vaccinated, they should have the right to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 10:24 PM
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I fail to see how that's different, from let's say, tattoos. For example you are free to get a tattoo on your forehead if you wish to do so, and people are free to not associate with you based on that fact. And a tattoo is something that doesn't even affect other people directly, unlike being vaccinated.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 09:18 PM
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You should be free to decide to vaccinate or not, but since it affects other people, other people should be able to know about your decision and act accordingly. Basically, I'm in favor of vaccine passports.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 08:30 PM
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There's no biological want to have kids. It's would be completely unnecessary. No animals other than humans have the capacity to understand where children come from. They still manage to reproduce just fine because nature tricks animals into reproducing by rewarding sex. There's no reason to think that humans are an unique exception. Humans only figured out how to reliably circumvent the causal relationship between sex and children less than 100 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 04:16 AM
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You are basically saying that you are forcing a new human to live on this shitty planet just because it satisfies your ego. I fail to see how that is anything but vain, narcissistic and superficial gratification.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 04:07 AM
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You really don't know anything when you're in your early 20s, and they are often not reversible. Having children is not reversible either. For some reason I hear this being said to people who want permanent birth control way more often than to people who want to have children. I personally decided that I never wanted children when I was around 10, and I'm still of the same opinion at 28. Ultimately, I think that people should be allowed to make decisions about their bodies no matter how likely t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 03:57 AM
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No one ever does anything unironically anymore. The concept of irony is obsolete, everything is both ironic and unironic at the same time. That's why people do "cringe" things without reservations. Are you doing it seriously? Are you mocking people who do it? No one knows. Not even yourself. Besides, that doesn't mean they conflate real life and anime, they are just not reserved about being weebs openly. Doesn't mean that they conflate real life and anime, it mostly means that they don't give a …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 02:20 AM
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Neither gives anyone any unrealistic expectations. People watch anime because they like it more than real life and live action content. Being unrealistic is a desirable feature of anime that people deliberately and consciously seek out. Both genres portray ideal situations for their target audiences. Harems show multiple 10/10 girls fawning over a loser but getting along with each other, while reverse harems have multiple 10/10 guys chasing an average girl and fighting over her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 12:06 AM
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Not even weaboos. People watch anime because it's different from real life and live action content that imitates real life. If anything, some women who get unrealistic expectations and bad ideas from watching live action romance shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 11:49 PM
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If not having a job means you'd have nothing to talk about, that's a way bigger problem than not having a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 02:20 PM
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Female privilege goes way further than access to sex though. OP may not notice that since that's the only thing he cares about.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 03:22 AM
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It's engrained into most people to desire children. It's not. The only thing engrained into people is the desire to have sex. Children are just a byproduct of that, at least have reliably been, until humans figured out birth control. No other animal is even capable of knowing where children come from, yet they all manage to reproduce just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 02:43 PM
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How do you know all animals feel pleasure out of reproduction though? They wouldn't do it otherwise. Wolves reproduce and protect their young. So do penguins. Some species have an instinct to protect their young, and some don't, depending on the reproduction strategy (quality vs quantity). Both strategies work for different kinds of animals, bigger animals take more time to mature and require more protection, so they tend to evolve parental instincts. This instinct is completely irrelevant to re…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 12:17 AM
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There's no "biological programming" to reproduce. There's no need for it to exist. Nature tricks animals into reproducing by rewarding sex. It works despite the fact that every animal other than humans have no idea that sex leads to reproduction. There's no reason to believe that it works any differently for humans, especially since it worked reliably for the entirety of human history except a few decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 04:21 PM
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It's not worth dating average or below average people of either sex. If your options only consist of average and below, staying single is way better.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 09:12 AM
1

Libido has nothing to do with it. Jerking off works perfectly fine for many people with high libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 01:17 PM
1

More people should be pickier and be willing to stay single forever as opposed to settling. Being in a bad or even mediocre relationship is way worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 08:36 AM
2

There are fewer women than men who share my interests and who I like talking to, but those women who I do like in those respects matter to me as much as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 11:33 AM
1

I spent four years in another country for college, and there are around five other countries that I spent at least a week in. Aside from the process of travel being a pain in the ass, I absolutely don't understand what's appealing about being somewhere else. That being said, I don't like being outside in general, I haven't even been to the tourist traps in my own city.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 03:45 PM
1

For me, friendship with women is no different compared to friendship with men. My first real friend was a girl, and that friendship has a profoundly positive effect on my life, as someone who had social anxiety at the time. That being said, this is coming from my position as someone who would never date or have sex with anyone regardless of gender. I do think that some horny single men would be too bothered by their attraction to have a platonic friendship, but it's nowhere near all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 07:36 AM
4

The biggest problem with MGTOW communities is that they end up being a magnet for misogynists precisely because their members don't have anything in common other than having an axe to grind with women. Most men who never intend to marry or cohabitate have better things to do than post on the internet about not wanting to marry or cohabitate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 07:39 AM
1

As a general rule, don't ruin your existing relationships based on shit you read on the internet. Just don't put yourself in a situation where you get screwed if she changes her mind about you. It doesn't apply to only relationships with women, simply never give another person enough power over you to put you in a bad situation.
/r/MGTOW215/03/20 05:56 PM
2

My birth is not a good thing, why would I celebrate it?
/r/MGTOW212/03/20 03:41 PM
1

Do not do this now. Wait for a recovery. Now is nearly the best time to start investing. Most of the time the market is near all time highs. When everyone shits their pants and the market is down, it's a sale. Even if it goes further down from here, you are still getting a better price than average. Besides, it's impossible to tell when recovery starts. Any upward movement can be a bull trap, any downward movement can be a bear trap. Trying to predict anything for a retail investor is pretty muc…
/r/MGTOW212/03/20 03:05 PM
3

No plays. I'm going to keep dollar cost averaging as I've been doing for years. I'm not going to pretend that I can outsmart the entire market combined.
/r/MGTOW212/03/20 11:38 AM
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This is why due process exists anyone who advocates for vigilante justice should get shit beaten out of them for something they didn't do to make them understand why it's a bad idea.
/r/MensRights11/03/20 09:20 AM
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You can't choose your preferences to be whatever you want. If it happens that you have unreasonable standards, just stay single. Shitty relationships happen because people settle instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 01:47 PM
3

I don't see anything tragic here. If no one who you can date meets your standards, staying single is obviously the better choice. A bad relationship is way worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 01:34 PM
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men with standards I don't think those exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 11:46 AM
1

Do whatever the fuck you want. It's your life, no one knows what's best for you other than you. I personally think that meaning is completely overrated and deliberately pursuing it is futile.
/r/MGTOW217/02/20 07:38 AM
2

I personally prefer to save most of my income to retire as early as possible and not worry about employment. When it comes to jobs, you always have to consider your own strengths and weaknesses, and pick the highest paid one out of those that you are capable of doing and can tolerate. There's no job for everyone.
/r/MGTOW212/02/20 01:48 PM
2

Vortex Race 3
/r/MGTOW208/02/20 03:04 AM
11

I prefer to keep my mancave practical too. https://i.imgur.com/eM5DBqT.jpg
/r/MGTOW207/02/20 04:54 PM
1

A man has very little chance of getting anything out of the justice system unless the mother is abusive or extremely unfit (a drug addict etc). Nothing will get done if child support is being spent on luxuries for the mother or anything else that does not benefit the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 01:44 PM
1

I would, though I'm asexual and that might have something to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 09:37 AM
3

Women misuse child support all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 09:30 AM
2

Shit tests are designed to pass sleazos. Women just don't realize this when they use them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 09:26 AM
2

This sub was made in the first place because people wanted a place to discuss MGTOW, without being drown in posts bitching about women, which is 90% of content on /r/MGTOW. If you remove that rule, there's no point existence of this sub. You can just go to original sub instead.
/r/MGTOW201/02/20 11:08 AM
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For men, you are forgetting: More severe punishments for exactly the same crime compared to women. No reproductive rights. Even victims of paternity fraud are forced to pay child support. Certain professions are practically inaccessible to men due to prejudice. (not desire, need) Not a need. Craving, maybe. But it's something one is perfectly fine without. They have to work hard to get things so that are freely given to women (mainly intimacy/sex and attention). It's easy for women to get attent…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 01:27 PM
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It's not that the body matters more, it's just that most men have no standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 08:31 PM
1

I'm 26, 6'1", 145 lbs. Never kissed, never been on a date, or ever had female attention ever directed at me in general. That being said, I have never sought female attention. I'm perfectly fine alone, and the cost/benefit of pursuing relationships does not look appealing to me. To me, it looks like you won't have any success with women even if you fix your weight. Your personality is a way bigger issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 07:46 AM
2

This comment is one big no true scotsman fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 09:03 AM
0

You can't fix a personality trait you are born with.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 10:24 AM
3

Obviously, most women are not attractive at any weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 04:36 PM
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A somewhat overweight woman can be attractive if the weight is in the right places. Hip to waist ratio and all that. Being obese is a complete turnoff though. It's not only physically repulsive, but also serves as a visible expression of personality flaws. It takes a lack of self-control to become and stay obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 03:20 PM
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A 'perfect' man isn't a manipulative psychopath with a massive ego. A perfect man would have just enough of those traits to be confident and be able to get shit done, but not be abusive or antisocial. It's just that a manipulative psychopath with a massive ego incomparably more attractive to women than a shy nice guy who can't hurt a fly. Women find toxic expressions of masculine traits to be better than absence of masculine traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 03:02 PM
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and that equals they have low status in society and not valued and accepted through all life Your social status as a man does not depending on having relationships or sex. You will have low status in society if you act like an incel. If you act like a decent human being, no one will know or care that you don't have sex. And all women can and have many of sex, and have very high status An ugly man can improve his social status through achievement or income and become desirable to attractive women…
/r/MensRights24/10/19 12:21 PM
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She's a moderate lefty who has a youtube channel dedicated to shitting on other kinds of lefties, as well righties occasionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:59 PM
2

trufemcels is not banned yet, and female incels are as entertaining as male ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 01:37 PM
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shoe0nhead (in the picture) made the picture to mock the #ResistCapitalism hashtag (original). Then some boomer took it unironically and made this shitty meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 01:28 PM
1

Russian, Latvia, 26
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 03:24 PM
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I know you can do this. But the system isn't designed for that, and no one actually does that with big 5. You can't find any material of common emergent traits of people who have the same traits on big 5. MBTI was designed with the purpose of categorizing people into types. So people use it for that purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 12:34 PM
4

You seem to define sex in a way that includes masturbation. I don't with your definition, and I don't think most people will either. This ignores a few important distinctions. The important part is that hormones don't care whether you jerk off to women, waifus, or sunsets, or actually have sex with a woman. Meanwhile, most men do tend to care whether they have sex with a woman or jerk off, to varying degrees. That's the psychological part.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 12:21 PM
2

Show me a list of 25 types based on big 5 personality traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 12:05 PM
4

Water has a lot to do with hormones. There are hormones that are synthesized when the body is close to dehydration.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 12:03 PM
1

People use MBTI primarily because it provides categorization. Big 5 does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 12:01 PM
2

I drink water, this doesn't make me obsessed with water.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 11:53 AM
4

It doesn't really matter how scientifically rigorous MBTI is. It doesn't need to be to scientific at all reflect reality in some way. I could replace MBTI parameters with anything. Instead of introversion/extroversion etc. the dichotomies could be red pill/blue pill, weeb/weeb hater, android user/iphone user, STEM major/humanities major. No matter how you look at it, a typical RWAS would be very different from a typical BHIH. The thing that I pulled out of my ass, can, to some degree, categorize…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 11:49 AM
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Hormones don't make you value sex. You can have raging hormones and indifference to sex, you just jerk off more often to fulfill the physiological need. Obsession with sex that involves other people is almost entirely psychological.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 11:43 AM
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Overall, they are very introverted, but introverted in a sad and troubled way. In a life-denying way. There's no such thing. Being introverted is not about lack of social skills. It's about not being able to enjoy social interactions no matter how good you are at them. You mentioned dance music. A club is pretty much the absolute worst place for an introvert to be. It involves all the kinds of social interactions that introverts hate and none of those that they can enjoy. You should stop project…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 07:00 AM
1

Definitely ace, probably not aro.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 03:50 AM
2

My gender has relatively little impact on my life either way. I'm not masculine, so I don't get to benefit from male privilege, and even if I was a woman, with my personality I wouldn't be good at utilizing female privilege to my advantage. I also have no interest in sex or relationships, so it doesn't matter to me which sex has a harder time in the dating scene. I prefer being a man, since men don't get periods, and it takes way less time and effort for a man to maintain socially acceptable app…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 07:20 AM
3

when you look at all the bitterness in the MGTOW community You have to differentiate between the MGTOW community and MGTOW men ("perpetual bachelors" in normal language). The kind of men who care enough to go to places like reddit and discuss how much they hate women/marriage are bitter. The kind of men who are happily single and don't plan on entering relationships in the future, have better things to do with their time. A lot of MGTOW men are bitter because they went through a bad divorce. Tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 06:31 AM
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But men feel a need to contribute. A need to prove themselves and be accepted for providing or being something of value. That's mostly a projection on your part. This is a trait that exists in both men and women, and it exists on a normal distribution, ranging from a person being completely content while providing nothing of value to being miserable unless doing something useful almost 100% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 08:52 AM
1

I personally adopt a gender-neutral version of MGTOW and I think that all relationships should be avoided. It's never a good idea to give another person significant power over your life, regardless of their gender. Sure, you could argue that women are riskier to deal with, since they currently have ways to hurt you that men don't, but being in a relationship with a man that turns out to be a shitty person is also a risk not worth taking.
/r/MGTOW206/08/19 11:33 AM
1

I'd rather have an easy life. Red pill rage is for people who bought into the society's bullshit. There's no rage if have always realized how fake all of this shit is.
/r/MGTOW202/08/19 08:44 AM
1

South Korea already has an already impressive fertility rate of 1.0 (replacement rate is 2.1), and this is going to make things even more impressive. Those women are right to reject the tradcuckery though.
/r/MGTOW202/08/19 08:20 AM
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Most people who know about MBTI know that it's not entirely scientifically rigorous. However, the important part is that it doesn't need to be to scientific at all reflect reality in some way. I could replace MBTI parameters with anything. Instead of introversion/extroversion etc. the dichotomies could be red pill/blue pill, weeb/weeb hater, android user/iphone user, STEM major/humanities major. No matter how you look at it, a typical RWAS would be very different from a typical BHIH. The thing t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 01:43 PM
1

X/0 I have no interest in sex, but as far as romantic attraction goes, I'm only capable being attracted to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 01:19 PM
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Yeah,sorry I'm calling bullshit.Testosterone makes us REALLY want sex Hormones don't make you want sex, simply jacking off works perfectly fine as far as hormones are concerned. When you have a need to put your dick into an actual woman, that's not a testosterone thing, that's mostly psychological. You also have to understand that sexuality does not work exactly the same for all people of the same sex. Don't project your preferences onto everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 03:53 PM
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Both sexes are visual, it's just that men want visuals for the sake of visuals themselves, while women also put a lot of importance into visual signs that indicate man's capabilities and status.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 12:59 PM
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Humans have no biological desire to have children, only biological desire to have sex. In prehistoric times, and until very recently in general, sex meant children for all fertile women. Now we have contraception, so everyone is free to scratch the reproductive itch without actual reproduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 08:50 AM
2

Because neither are attracted to each other. For instance, look at the mutual hatred that male and female incels have for each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 08:45 AM
3

If you want to know what kind of character Belle Delphine is, just open her instagram or something. She's pretty much a walking meme, and she is self-aware. She most likely did it to get free publicity from the media, including discussions like this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 06:25 AM
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Before the suicide forest, no one other than kids knew who Logan Paul was. In any case, I think it's on parents to raise their kids to be financially responsible. Failing that, on kids to have a brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 10:23 AM
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Most people have only heard of Logan Paul due to the forest incident and have no idea about everything else he does. That incident alone is enough to have a negative opinion of him. Similarly, most people have only heard about Belle Delphine due to shenanigans like selling bathwater. If I have to compare those two things, posting a video of a suicide victim's dead body for ad revenue and entertainment is definitely incomparably worse than selling bathwater (which I don't even consider a bad thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 09:28 AM
1

By your definition of interacting, I haven't interacted with women around my age in years. I don't socialize in my free time, and at work there are no women in my department. That being said, it's not that I'm not used to interacting with women, it's just that since I graduated high school, there hasn't been any place for me to regularly interact with them. Work is a sausage fest, and so was college.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 07:57 AM
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Empathy gap. Both men and women are more likely to help women than men, and the reaction to a woman being in distress is always stronger than reaction to a man being in distress. There's also a matter of perceived agency. Men are attributed more agency than they have (as in, they are supposed to deal with all their problem on their own), and women are attributed less agency (and need to be helped).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 10:49 AM
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While I don't consider fetus a person, I think that even if you consider fetus a person, mother's bodily autonomy trumps the rights of the fetus. Bodily autonomy already trumps sanctity of life. For instance, you can't use organs from a dead body to save lives without that person having consented to be a donor.
/r/MensRights18/06/19 12:35 PM
1

I never had much respect for authority since early childhood. I went along with it because I didn't have the power to make my own decisions, but it has always been obvious to me that a typical adult isn't significantly more mentally mature than most teenagers.
/r/MGTOW213/06/19 07:56 AM
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Maybe if there was no stop button for either party, then there would be fewer accidental pregnancies, fewer men’s lives ruined, and everyone would think a little harder about engaging in an action that brings an innocent life into this shithole of a planet. People who have unprotected sex generally aren't good at making responsible decisions. There would be the same number of accidental pregnancies, but more children born to them. Children that would not only have to live on this shithole of a p…
/r/MGTOW217/05/19 08:26 AM
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Men get women pregnant. And when they do, they have no control over whether or not it turns into a kid which the state will then force them to work and pay or go to jail. Then get a vasectomy before having sex with women. It sucks that men have no reproductive rights, but that's not an excuse not to protect yourself. Not sure where you’re getting way more than women from, patently false, single women have more sex than single men. Because it's easier for them to get sex, not because they want mo…
/r/MGTOW217/05/19 08:01 AM
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Ur dumber than a friggin rock I can say the same about people who claim to be MGTOW but still care about what women do. This sub is getting infested with /r/mgtow-tards.
/r/MGTOW217/05/19 07:19 AM
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I don't see how any of this is relevant to this discussion.
/r/MGTOW217/05/19 07:12 AM
1

Enlighten me, why should I care who and how often other people fuck?
/r/MGTOW217/05/19 07:11 AM
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Women want to whore around with no responsibility. So do men. It's just that they don't get pregnant. I don't see why whoring around is a bad thing.
/r/MGTOW217/05/19 06:52 AM
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It's true that western countries have fertility rates below replacement, but it's also true that those countries are extremely wasteful, and westerner having a child has more global impact than someone from a developed country having 5 children.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 10:31 AM
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Not changing the surname after marriage is perfectly reasonable. If woman not changing the surname to yours is a big deal to you, this smells like tradcuckery to me. The paperwork is a pain in the ass, and that's a good reason alone not to do it. On the other hand, the reasons she gives for not changing the surname are a red flag, so you should run.
/r/MGTOW211/04/19 10:23 PM
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I think you mean this thread. /r/legaladvice/comments/5gexji /r/legaladvice/comments/6nm05m
/r/MensRights10/04/19 02:47 PM
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You really don't want to get into fights, it's easy for them to end poorly for you even if you are at an advantage. When it comes to things like domestic violence when someone uses violence to control you, hitting back is reasonable (as long it doesn't lead to you gettig arrested), but in cases when someone actually intends to harm you for the sake of harming you, the safest choice is almost always to run.
/r/MensRights10/04/19 10:12 AM
1

When it comes to weight loss, gym is mostly irrelevant. You can't outrun your fork. It takes half an hour of exercise to burn the amount of calories in one donut. It's way easier to not eat it in the first place. I personally recommend intermittent fasting. It's easier to eat less when you eat once or twice a day instead of three times a day.
/r/MGTOW202/04/19 12:36 PM
1

To me "chemistry" is just compatibility of personalities that allows two people to be close friends with each other. It obviously exists. In my opinion, any worthwhile relationship should have it, I would never date anyone I'd wouldn't want to be platonic friends with if a romantic relationship was impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 06:39 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 03:39 PM
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I find parties extremely exhausting and not enjoyable in any way. I can't enjoy social interaction with a large number of people in the same room, even if I like all of those people individually.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 03:35 PM
1

This is only true if spending money is required for you to enjoy life. For me it's not. There's nothing that I could buy that could make me significantly happier long-term. I personally find that converting money to dopamine is mostly a waste of money. Hedonic adaptation is a bitch. Once you get used to a lifestyle that requires constant high expenses, it stops being any more enjoyable than your previous cheaper lifestyle. Reducing or eliminating the need to work, on the other hand, is one of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 11:33 AM
1

There are good reasons to spend as little money as possible that have nothing to do with fear. For example, saving for early retirement so that you can actually live your life the way you want to instead of being a wageslave. Besides, past a certain point, spending money is pointless since it doesn't make you any happier. You enjoy whatever you bought for a short time and then your brain reverts to the baseline level of happiness, except you now have less money. It's better to be careful and del…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 08:18 AM
1

Extraversion is a scale. Most people, both introverts and extroverts are reasonably close to the middle of that scale. Someone on the low end of extraversion scale never goes out (at least to bars and parties) because they never want to, even if they are completely used to social interaction and have no disorders like social anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 08:09 AM
2

Everyone knows about their past, etc I have literally never heard those names before.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 08:40 AM
1

No. I'm neither traditionally masculine nor particularly feminine, so gender roles have no significant positive or negative impact on my life. Especially since I don't date. The culture I live in is also relatively egalitarian, so there are no significant downsides to being a man. If I was the opposite gender, I wouldn't be able to take advantage of female privileges, so being a woman wouldn't be worth the downsides, like monthly periods and having to do makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 02:08 PM
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It's fair that women get to decide what to do with their bodies. It's not fair that women get to make men pay for their choices. It's also not fair that women have all the power to decide what happens to the child after its born without father's input.
/r/MensRights12/03/19 07:13 AM
11

So one woman gets constantly approached = all women get constantly approached?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 10:31 AM
7

I'm saving for early retirement. I invest 2/3 of my net income. If things go according to the vague plan, I should be out of the rat race in around 10-15 years, though this is just a ballpark estimation. Precise calculations aren't worth the effort when both my income, prices and returns can change a lot in 10 years.
/r/MGTOW213/02/19 09:33 AM
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If being MGTOW is a core part of your identity, you are doing it wrong. You are supposed to be independent and ignore existence of women, not be one of the one of the /r/MGTOW bitches that can't shut up about them.
/r/MGTOW213/02/19 09:14 AM
1

I don't think there should be real-life consequences for saying either "kill all men" or "kill or women", but I personally just don't like being around people who hate others for being male, female, black, white or any other immutable characteristics.
/r/MGTOW206/02/19 08:10 AM
3

Short nails are perfectly fine. For me personally, excessively long or brightly painted nails are a turn-off. As long as hair is recently washed, everything else about it is irrelevant. When it comes to makeup, it shouldn't cost $40 of it to go on a date. I prefer the kind of look when it's not obvious the woman is wearing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 12:41 PM
1

You don't know that. A woman may plan for the divoice long before she even plans for the wedding. Gold diggers do. But they are minority of women. Most women believe bullshit about true love and other shit that makes them disappointed in real marriages. Wait, that's not what you do when someone asks you to back something up. It's your claim that in case of equal incomes and no children, the court would still award women money. It's a positive claim that should be easy for you to back up. Men pay…
/r/MGTOW205/02/19 06:26 AM
1

No. It means they have something to gain. If there's a gain to ending a marriage, it was a shitty marriage in the first place. You mean if they were psychic? Yes. Women don't want a divorce before they enter the marriage, they want it after they enter it. That's what women always claim. They never can back it up though. Can you back up your claim that divorces of couples with equal income and no children result in favor of women? Laws on the topic are gender-neutral. Men lose money in divorces b…
/r/MGTOW205/02/19 04:18 AM
2

Women overwhelmingly initiate divorce The fact that they initiate divorce means they aren't getting what they want out of that marriage. I imagine in vast majority of cases, women would prefer to no have married in the first place if they knew the marriage would end in divorce. Deliberate gold-digging and divorce-raping doesn't seem like what most women do. It's just what happens to stupid men who marry women who earn way less than them, or worse, stay at home parasites. When there are no childr…
/r/MGTOW205/02/19 03:10 AM
8

I personally go my own way in a gender-neutral way. I think that relationships are as bad for women as they are for men, and women who avoid them are better off, even if they do it for the wrong reasons, like the thoroughly debunked 1 in 4 rape statistic.
/r/MGTOW203/02/19 11:28 AM
1

Not if it's for a family of 3. Single people can definitely live on less.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 03:12 AM
10

MGTOW communities seem to naturally attract misogynists. This sub was made because 1 became a cesspool of hate, and the same thing is slowly happening to this sub too. I think this is just a consequence of the fact that a large part of people who have an active interest in the topic tend to have a bone to pick with women. Most people who fit the definition of MGTOW have better things to do than discuss lack of women in their lives on obscure subreddits. I personally think that people who throw i…
/r/MGTOW202/02/19 10:50 PM
7

There's no need to use obscure internet terms. He can just say that he's not interested in relationships.
/r/MGTOW202/02/19 06:12 AM
2

FIRE (financial independence/retire early) - getting enough assets to produce passive income that can cover your expenses until you die. LeanFIRE is the frugal version of that, generally for people who want to retire as soon as possible. Usually means post-retirement expenses of $40k/year or less. There's also FatFIRE, which means retiring with high passive income, even if it takes longer on more risk to achieve.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 07:47 PM
1

For practical reasons, I'm excluding women outside of 20-35 age range. Most women I see on the street are old, so low percentage wouldn't say much. Anyway out of women inside the age range, probably 10% at most. Hard to say since I don't actually rate people when I'm walking outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 02:58 PM
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The combination of thinking with their dick, lack of self-awareness, and having no idea which qualities women find attractive in men. The first two are understandable if you are a teenager. The last one is a problem with what parents, authority figures and media teach young men. The way parents and teachers want boys to behave is not conductive to any kind of success in the real world, be it academic, financial or social.
/r/MGTOW229/01/19 09:21 AM
9

So yeah she has 0 responsibility for her an actions 👌👌. You could say that if she killed someone, survived and got off scot-free. We don't know what she would be convicted of in that case. Regardless of what the woman is guilty of, the guy is guilty of letting a drunk bitch drive the speedboat. This wouldn't change if the drunk bitch was a man.
/r/MensRights25/01/19 02:00 PM
12

I have uBlock Origin installed on all browsers I use, including the one on my phone. I don't watch TV or listen to radio. My phone is rooted and I use AdAway to block ads in apps. No good ever comes out of ads. You should never believe things said by somone who wants to sell something to you. Besides, ads are really annoying. I have no idea how people can even tolerate them at all, not to mention the amount that a regular person gets.
/r/MGTOW216/01/19 03:56 PM
2

They ban people for saying stupid misogynistic shit, they don't ban for being male. /r/TwoXChromosomes bans people for commenting on subreddits they don't like, regardless of the content of said comments, and whether you have ever participated on 2X. I have no idea about about /r/AskWomen in particular, but a lot of feminist-leaning subs are extremely ban-happy.
/r/MGTOW208/01/19 03:01 PM
9

Doesn't make a difference as long as you don't think with your dick.
/r/MGTOW208/01/19 09:03 AM
3

Latvia
/r/MGTOW208/01/19 09:01 AM
11

when the sub clearly states that this is about living an independent male life Being an independent male doesn't mean you never talk to women. If you don't like posts/comments by women, you are free to not reply to them. If you think that women are inherently evil and that their presence alone will automatically destroy the sub, then /r/mgtow is probably a better fit for you.
/r/MGTOW208/01/19 08:56 AM
4

Vast majority of people are no one's first choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 02:58 AM
1

https://xkcd.com/605/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 06:25 AM
3

Human population won't grow exponentially. The main reason why population keeps growing as fast as it does is due to the fact that the fertility rate is slightly higher than replacement rate, while at the same time, not many people are duying. People born in 60s and 70s haven't started dying yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 09:56 AM
11

[...] statistic commonly cited by feminists is misleading In other news, water is wet. Aside from "not proven true" argument, it's important to point out that a false rape accusation doesn't need to actually be filed, a woman could tell everyone in her social circle that a man raped her and that man's reputation will be ruined just the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 07:08 AM
1

The sentence won't make sense if you change it to something like 'tolerate'.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 01:13 PM
1

Which one exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 01:03 PM
1

It's about a word, it's the entire meaning of your comment. Being alive doesn't mean enjoying life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 12:54 PM
3

If you enjoy your life which you do because you didn't suicide One's outlook on life is usually more than just a binary value of either being perfectly happy or unhappy to the point that they go through with suicide. Plenty of people are in kind of a limbo where life doesn't bring them enough happiness to be worth living, but isn't bad enough to warrant wanting to kill themselves. Besides, plenty of suicidal people that are utterly miserable can't bring themselves to actually do it. Some because…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 12:32 PM
1

Maybe not for everyone, some men seem to be unable not to think with their dick and admit to being unable to be platonic friends with women they consider attractive, for instance. For me personally it doesn't matter. I can't guarantee that I would treat an attractive and an unattractive female coworker exactly the same other things being equal, but I would certainly not treat a reasonable coworker poorly regardless of gender and attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 12:10 PM
2

Purpose and meaning are overrated. You should get used to a completely meaningless life. Your motivation should come from what you want to do, not what you are supposed to do.
/r/MGTOW230/11/18 07:39 AM
2

You can't point to subs with similar topic but vastly different sizes and complain about only one of them being targeted. RPW is tiny. Sure, it's "technically" a double standard and selective enforcement, but it makes sense from practical standpoint.
/r/MGTOW228/11/18 11:17 AM
9

I don't think that there's anything to be sad about. Relationships are overrated and plenty of people would be happier if they stopped caring about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 03:28 PM
3

I'm not interested in location-independence, primarily because I don't want to work on a laptop (moving a good setup is completely impractical) and I'm not interested in travel anyway. I'd rather work remotely if I had the skills and balls to do that.
/r/MGTOW224/11/18 04:00 PM
9

In the modern society, the only skills that I consider really essential are: Financial literacy. Spend less than you earn. Don't borrow money for bullshit reasons (payday loans, credit card debt, financing a car). Have an emergency fund and invest long-term savings. Find good rates on loans and investments. Computer/information literacy. Be able to pick devices that will work well and last you a long time. Be able to maintain your own devices. Don't be one hard drive failure or one lost device a…
/r/MGTOW223/11/18 08:23 AM
5

This sub isn't some transcendental haven, but it's also not nearly as bad as 1, and I'd like if it stayed that way. Your post is specifically the kind of thing that I hate about 1. Besides, they would probably like it. It's not "basics", it's bullshit. My reasons for going my own way have nothing to do with women.
/r/MGTOW215/11/18 12:54 PM
5

This sub was created in part to have discussions about MGTOW without posts like these (as in, bitching about women, among other things). This posts belongs squarely in /r/MGTOW, not here.
/r/MGTOW215/11/18 12:17 PM
4

Go to 1.
/r/MGTOW215/11/18 10:20 AM
10

People are figuring out that social interaction, relationships and sex are overrated. Good for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 08:19 AM
7

Problem glasses check out.
/r/MensRights07/11/18 07:15 AM
1

The fraction of successful marriages is fairly low. And by "successful" I mean it's a mariage doesn't end in divorce, and both partners are happy with it long-term. Plenty of marriages last until one partner dies, but a lot of those include marriages where both people don't like each other anymore, but neither can afford the divorce. "Trying" until you find the right person is not a good idea, considering that one bad marriage can ruin the rest of your life. Marriage is just a bad idea, period.
/r/MGTOW225/10/18 09:12 AM
0

Here's a perspective on this issue from an MtF https://youtu.be/fD2briZ6fB0?t=1112 (for several minutes starting from 18:38)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 10:43 AM
5

I feel exaclty zero pressure to follow the LifeScriptTM, and I have no desire to marry or have children at all. I've been telling my parents that they aren't getting grandchildren since I was 12. How my friends and acquaintances choose to live their life is not a concern to me. If you do actually want to have children (because you want it, not because of social pressure), then definitely wait until you are financially stable. At least for the sake of your child. Growing up in a financially unsta…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 01:13 PM
1

I'd say that shit like this greatly depends on variations in local culture, on all levels (country, city, neighborhood, specific company). Like you can find varying levels of bullying across differnt schools, you can find varying levels of gossip in different workplaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 01:44 PM
1

If this is the kind of shit that goes at your workplace, I have to conclude that my coworkers are simply more mature than this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 01:08 PM
1

Then there's no difference between them doing it and not doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 12:49 PM
1

Not sure what kind of morons you work with, but at my company no one gives a fuck about relationship status of other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 09:54 AM
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/r/justlegbeardthings
/r/MensRights01/10/18 09:39 AM
2

So if I read fantasy, play video games and watch anime, am I a triple incel?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/18 04:36 PM
2

100 years ago someone probably said exactly the same thing about books.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/18 04:31 PM
1

I don't consider myself particularly in shape (sedentary lifestyle), but at least my BMI is 19. One of the main motivators for me is saving money. Regular expenses like food add up to very significant amounts of money over time, especially when you overeat. I try to get good value when grocery shopping, never eat out, and avoid food high in sugar.
/r/MGTOW203/09/18 08:45 PM
1

I'm 25, and I started working less than 2 years ago, so I'm just starting, relatively speaking. I'm going with the standard /r/financialindependence plan of saving as much income as possible (~60% in my case) and investing it in index funds. If things go according to plan, I will be able to retire in about 15 years, +/- a few years depending on the state of the stock market at that time.
/r/MGTOW224/08/18 10:01 AM
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but do you really want to live in a world where adult women greet such a thing with an indifferent shrug? Yes. People at 18 should be mature enough to handle this without other people interfering. In any case, maternal instincts, if left unchallenged, can be quite damaging to their children and society as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 07:16 AM
1

I don't think /r/incels ban has anything to do with the state of /r/MGTOW. Well, it may have gotten worse since then, but it was a complete shithole even before. I have never seen anything other than bitching about women there.
/r/MGTOW218/08/18 07:09 AM
2

As far as I know, I have never even talked to a lesbian. I have no opinion of them. I have never been in a relationship. Who doesn't? I think that all humans, regardless of gender, aren't trustworthy. More in this comment. I don't think that women were suppressed "by men". Both men and women were oppresed by human biology and society. In the same way that a woman couldn't do what a man could, men couldn't step out of their role either. Women enforced gender roles as much as men did. I also would…
/r/MGTOW217/08/18 10:00 AM
1

I disagree with AWALT too. In my opinion, there's no "female nature" that makes women fundamentally untrustworthy. Humans in general, on the other hand, are. I don't believe there's any good reason to give any single person significant power your your life, regardless of their gender or yours. You can't trust anyone other than yourself ot act in your best interest. There's always a chance they'll act in their own self-interest at the expense of yours, or just make stupid decisions, forcing you t…
/r/MGTOW217/08/18 09:07 AM
1

I hate any kind of "a man must" rhetoric. It seems like some people do need to be productive to be happy, but if that's they case and they don't recognize it, it's their own problem. I have no sympathy for anyone who doesn't recognize what they actually want. I personally hate all work, and my only goal in life is to escape it.
/r/MGTOW217/08/18 08:04 AM
1

instead of be happy now I can't be happy if I have to work to pay the bills. Having any job automatically ruins my life. Well - leave your job and live for a year or half doing nothing using your savings and see if it really is what you want. I dont think man can be happy doing nothing for long, long time. I've had around a year of NEET life during college. It was the best time of my life hands down. I never have any desire to do anything productive, I only do so because I'm forced to.
/r/MGTOW217/08/18 07:57 AM
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I neither have the desire to have relationships with women, nor the desire to "create" anything. The only reason I have a job is that bills won't pay themselves. If I didn't have to, I wouldn't do anything productive ever. My only long-term goal is early retirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 07:40 AM
1

Not sure about other men, but regardless of how much of a winner in a genetic lottery a woman is, I can't percieve her as attractive if she acts in certain ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 12:39 PM
11

You live in your own alternative reality where everything is stacked against you so that you don't have to put any blame on yourself for your situation. Your view of men is almost the complete opposite of the real life. Looks and personality are the main things men care about when it comes to attraction. Lifestyle issues like money, family and life goals come into play when they start planning long-term relationships. Men don't care at all how popular a woman is with other men. Women, on the oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 08:17 AM
2

I suspect that those men have stereotypes based on subcultures in their own social circles. They may be right when it comes to women where they live, but things like this can be very different from place to place. To me personally, it's a non-issue besides aesthetics. High-quality tatoos with a coherent theme covering a large part of the body - ok. Bunch of small mediocre tatoos with no coherent theme sprinkled all over the body - bad, but not a deal-breaker. More an indication of poor taste tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 10:43 AM
1

I'm not an american either. I personally think that gun ownership by itself is not a problem. There are plenty of countries where semi-automatic weapons can be legally owned by civilians, and while this can allow an occasional nutcase to kill some people, the amount of deaths caused by them is statistically insignificant. Hell, aparrently 10% of people in my country own a gun and I have never seen one. I also think vast majority of people who own guns for the purpose of self-defense are either d…
/r/PussyPassDenied21/07/18 09:53 AM
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The so-called "assault weapons" (bullshit term) are used in a small fraction of murders perpetrated with guns. If you want to prevent deaths, you should probably focus on handguns. But in general, the problem in the US is not with the guns, it's with the culture.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/07/18 08:35 AM
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Am asexual. I personally find it great, SMP seems like literal hell, especially for someone as introverted as I am. Being able avoid it entirely without negative psychological consequenes (like inceldom) is very convenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 01:19 PM
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I fit the definition of a MGTOW exactly and I'm not touching /r/mgtow with a ten foot pole. There's simply no reason for me to discuss women and relationships since I don't have those in my life. Meanwhile, that sub seems to consist primarily of bitching about women. I also don't subscribe to the idea that marriages are a bad idea because of women. I think that humans aren't trustworthy enough in general for marriage to ever be a good idea, regardless of your gender and sexual orientation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 07:53 AM
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He fired everyone because they refused to work.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/07/18 12:43 PM
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I think it's easier for men to spot players and for women to sport golddiggers. Partly because being on the sidelines allows you to see things more clearly without brain chemicals getting in the way, and partly because it's easier to spot pretentions behavior of your own sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 12:39 PM
2

I consider the term nothing more than an insult. One person could potentially clearly and reasonably define it, but that's just be that one person's definition. Almost everyone else will just keep using it as an insult as they always have. I don't think that this word is in any way useful in meaningful discussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 02:43 PM
1

I'm 25M who has never had any romantic or sexual experiences in my life. Are they developmentally behind? Depends on the reasons they never did it in the first place. Does this lack of experience stunt them socially? Depends mostly on social cirlces you want to belong to. For me, not at all, and I don't have to hide it. Do they have some catching up to do? If they want to have sex or romantic relationships, they will have to start with a significant disadvantage. If they don't, it's irrelevant. …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/18 07:07 AM
8

A man has no options if a woman wants to keep the child and force the man to pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 07:00 PM
1

By MGTOW definitions, I'm MGTOW, but when it comes to people that call themselves MGTOWs, I don't want to be associated with them. I don't see why would anyone want to participate in a community that at its core is about not doing or being something. There's just nothing to discuss. And for a communities that are about not having relationships with women, there's way too much discussion of women among MGTOWs. It's like, I don't know as stupid as something like /r/dogfree. Those are just pointles…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/18 11:53 AM
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"I'm really into sports so am looking for someone active" is just a polite way of saying "no fatties". If I wanted to exclude specifically fat people, I wouldn't word it this way. People don't become fat because of no exercise, they become fat because they eat too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 09:14 AM
3

I'd gladly work half the hours for half my current salary, but it doesn't seem like employers in my field want part-timers.
/r/MensRights13/05/18 07:35 PM
4

I don't want to marry or have kids. That being said, I'm not interested in relationships in general. In any case, the more committed a relationship is, the more potential damage can happen at the break-up, and it's really impossible to predict how long a relationship will last. Therefore, it's understandable that men err on the side of caution when choosing whether to commit to a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 12:35 PM
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I am a male virgin with high sex drive and it doesn't bother me at all. The whole "drives you up a wall" thing is highly dependent on an individual and is separate from sex drive, which is purely physiological.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 06:07 PM
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I'm a virgin at 25 and I stopped caring about it by the time I was 18. It just doesn't seem appealing to me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 05:48 PM
1

"just be yourself" and if you're qualified for the job they'll hire you. This is certainly not true in all fields. You aren't always interviewed by people who have any degree of competence in the field that you'll be working in. A competent bullshitter can easily pass interviews like this, while a competent but unprepared candidate may not. It's a popular thing among recruiters to throw canned questions at candidates that tend to be highly technical/academic and irrelevant to what they will actu…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 09:37 AM
3

I've had a decent idea about everything described by the movie, since I've been on the edges of the manosphere for some time, but I appreciated new details on those issues presented by the movie.
/r/MensRights14/04/18 04:25 PM
1

As an asexual with libido, I can tell you that it's not the libido that gives women power over you, it's sexual attraction. Libido is a purely physiological thing that is completely satisfied by masturbation. It's the psychological part of sexuality that is bothering you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 05:15 PM
3

without screwing the male (the one that wants the baby) That's not screwing. Screwing is forcing a man pay child support for a child he doesn't want or forcing a woman to give birth to a child against her will. Alternative screwing methods include giving a baby up for adoption against the will of the father that wants to parent it. all I see in modern feminism is the ‘her body her choice’ movement which seems to undermine the other party by saying we should have no choice in anything Well, moder…
/r/MensRights27/03/18 11:22 AM
3

Then how is that not a double standard? It is, but forcing women to give birth against their will is a greater evil than that. The only reasonable solution is to allow both sexes to opt out of parenting, not allowing both to screw the other party.
/r/MensRights27/03/18 10:42 AM
-2

I see comment chains where pro-lifers get upvoted.
/r/MensRights27/03/18 10:27 AM
2

but i mean like 20 hours of pain to bring a wanted person into this world should surely happen Childbirth is a process that significantly affects life of a woman for majority of the term, not just the birth itself. It also makes permanent changes to a woman's body. No one should go through this against their own will. Fetuses are cheap, doesn't take that much effort to make one. If a man wants a baby, he can go bang a woman that actually wants one.
/r/MensRights27/03/18 10:25 AM
1

I'm not though.
/r/MensRights27/03/18 10:07 AM
2

Me too thanks.
/r/MensRights27/03/18 10:06 AM
-1

Ah, so you're one of those people. A fetus is not a human baby, and a fetus is not a person. It's like saying that every time you jack off, you commit a genocide. Rights of people are more important than rights of some cells.
/r/MensRights27/03/18 10:04 AM
0

if the female is not in danger and the male wants the baby HE SHOULD HAVE A CHOICE Forcing someone to give birth against their own will is 100% immoral, and I can't imagine why you can't see that.
/r/MensRights27/03/18 09:51 AM
1

I fall under the strictest definitions of MGTOW, but I don't see any reason to form communities over that. It would be like non-owners of cars discussing it how much it would suck to own a car. You can't really discuss absence of something. I think that most men who would be happier alone already made that choice, without the help of internet communities.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 04:23 PM
8

It's more of a protest against institution of family in its current state.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 04:07 PM
1

I'm asexual ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 11:51 AM
2

In this reality, 10/10 is simply not possible. I'm not capable of being "happy", "content" is as good as it gets. I experience very little positive or negative emotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 12:37 AM
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25M, single, no pill. 4/10. The only negative thing in my life is work. I have no problems with my life, I don't need much to be content and I have those things, the only thing that ruins everything is that I have to work. The only thing that keeps me going is the fact that if my current situation continues, I will be able to retire early off the money I save and finally not work anymore, at which point I expect my life to become around 8/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 12:33 AM
2

In Russia (and some other russian-speaking countries) there's 23rd of February (Defender of the Fatherland Day), which is in practice celebrated like a counterpart to the woman's day.
/r/MensRights08/03/18 08:22 AM
1

As a 25 year old virgin, I don't really experience this. That being said, it can be explained by the fact that I just don't interact with people who would virgin-shame closely enough for them to know I'm a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 02:05 PM
1

The right word for what you are describing is asocial. Antisocial describes behavior of people who are willing to harm others for their own benefit. I think you are ignoring the fact that video games, at any point on the spectrum of difficulty and competitiveness, can be insanely fun, while being available at home and being one of the cheapest pastimes in existence. There's nothing about video games that inherently attracts 'losers', video games attract people who have free time and prefer to sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/18 10:17 AM
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I don't think that you can ever measure work ethic in school, since every student is aware that all "work" they do in school is an utter waste of time and effort. Of course, many jobs have pointless bullshit in them too, but there's also work that actually matters and needs to be done, and there's no such thing in school. In general, it's just an endless cycle of bullshit that people seem to enjoy pushing on each other. When you have classes that students won't need, the actual problem is that t…
/r/MensRights28/12/17 08:22 PM
1

I never understood this whole "who will look after them when they are old" meme. Nothing guarantees that your children will want to be anywhere near you when you are old. It also doesn't make sense to condemn yourself to suffering during ~20 years of your life that are supposed to be the best ones so that the end of your life is slightly less shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 01:37 AM
1

The spectrum still applies. Some people are completely fine without any meaningful interpersonal relationships, while others end up on /r/foreveralone and /r/incels, and also everything in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/17 09:29 PM
4

I personally just see it as some people projecting way too much. Some people assume that everyone experiences sexuality the same way they do, while both physiological and psychological effects of sexuality vary between individuals. I mean, /r/incels does exist, but only a small part of guys who are virgins in their adulthood are like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/17 11:11 PM
1

Every time I hear about affirmative consent, I'm reminded of this video: https://youtu.be/Rc_E9JtM_ss?t=244
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/17 08:14 PM
1

I have never experienced loneliness. The less I have to interact with people, the better I feel. There were times in my life when for months I didn't have to interact with anyone other than cashiers in supermarkets, and those were the best parts of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/17 02:12 PM
1

boys who’ll rather stay indoor to play video games, watch porn and read anime than face the dangers of the outside world Hello, that's me. 24 year old male who spends his entire free time not that I have a huge amount of it, working a full time job playing video games, watching anime and shitposting on reddit. The reason why I never leave my apartment in my free time is simply that there's absolutely nothing of interest in the real world. And even if there was, traveling to wherever that is is e…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/17 01:44 PM
2

I don't like either. My current plan is to live my current life for ~15 years and then retire on money I'd have accumulated by that time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/17 04:30 PM
1

There's no such thing as addiction to anime, tv series, video games, music, or any other type of digital content. There's nothing preventing me from not consuming it other than the fact that I want to be entertained in my free time. Those things just happen to provide the most entertainment for the least amount of effort involved. If there was more good anime coming out every season, I'd watch more of it, and if there was less of it, I'd watch less. Same with video games and tv series. I keep an…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 04:43 AM
3

My first real friendship was in my teenage years, with a girl, and an attractive one. That friendship is probably the biggest reason why I have a relatively average self-esteem instead of non-existent one. I think that people who find platonic friendships with attractive women impossible are just thinking with their dicks and are projecting that onto everyone else. I mean, if you admit that it's impossible for you, that's totally fine, but it makes no sense to generalize.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 08:48 PM
1

but I'm a total pleb that only watches socially acceptable anime Normie get out ree. On a more serious note, there's way more than 100 anime series that are both good and socially acceptable, but to assemble a list of those one would need to have experience in navigating shit and degeneracy to get to them. I just happen to have enough free time and utter lack of concern for my social standing. And you also need to know how to sail the seas because plenty of good titles aren't on any legal stream…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 08:03 PM
1

I started watching anime (as in, specifically looking for and downloading it) at an age of 14. I've been watching ~100 anime titles per year since then. You can have a list if you, are interested, but I doubt you are. Did you use them as a guide on dating and what did you learn? I never attempted dating, partly because of anime, but mostly because I'm asocial. That being said, anime made made me perceive vast majority of girls IRL as unattractive, due to most of it having female characters that …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 07:06 PM
1

I think that sexual/dating climate today is toxic to everyone involved simply because humans of both sexes are on average not trustworthy enough for the commitment that long term relationships require. Most people who weight costs/benefits stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 06:55 PM
1

Adults don't need it either, but it would be silly to say that it's not their choice to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/17 06:46 PM
0

but adolescents watching porn before they've had any real experiences and letting it shape their sexuality cannot be a good thing. You can't do anything about this though, unless you want to encourage adolescents to have sex with each other instead. Teenagers have sex drive, and need porn just like adults do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/17 06:34 PM
2

Those people are the reason why it looks like Trump will get a second term.
/r/MensRights13/08/17 09:23 AM
1

I know that people can change, I just wouldn't date someone who at that particular time has had a high N count in the recent past. Not because of the count itself but I'd probably not find them someone I'd want to spend time with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/17 05:08 PM
1

I would not marry any woman. Anyway, I'd not have any relationship with her, since even though I don't have any issue with the physical aspect high N-count (with conditions mentioned) at all, I just don't think my personality could be compatible with someone who is capable of having that high of an N-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/17 11:36 AM
3

Why is manosphere supposed to be treated like some monolithic entity when every part of it that you listed is completely different form others and most of them hate each other? You need to examine each of those communities individually.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/17 09:34 AM
2

I find her appearance to be somewhere between 4.5 and 5.5 depending on the particular picture. It doesn't have any major flaws (eyebrows are fixable), but it completely lacks any appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/17 09:05 AM
1

Any desire for a romantic relationship, sexless or not? Would be open to trying it with someone I find sufficiently attractive, but given my unreasonably high standards and near-zero RMV, I consider this actually happening to be improbable. Lack of them causes me no discomfort, so I'm not willing to invest any effort in actively pursuing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/17 04:47 PM
1

No. The way I would describe it, the process by which you dick gets hard and the process by which you get the desire to stick it in whatever made it hard are separate things. The former works fine in me, the latter doesn't. I just don't experience certain things that "normal" heterosexual people often describe. And I'm perfectly comfortable like this, while I imagine that a lot of "normal" kissless virgins frequent /r/incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/17 04:35 PM
1

I would, many people would not. On a physiological level, I'm exactly like a heterosexual. Sex drive present and fairly high, get aroused by women's bodies. But I have absolutely no desire to have sex in real life whatsoever, and I'm incapable of finding any women IRL sexually attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/17 04:24 PM
2

Somewhat anti-blue, red-neutral. Virgin, planning to go celibate for life. Male 24.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/17 03:57 PM
1

Can't say anything about hollywood and disney since I never liked anything that comes out of there, but anime worked pretty well in terms of making me unable to find any real women attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/17 08:02 PM
2

I have absolutely no problem with going celibate for my entire life. Apparently I'm not normal, but I don't get why lack of specifically sex is uncomfortable. Also, prostitution is legal and regulated in my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 09:41 PM
1

As far as I can tell, no, but I was never diagnosed by a professional.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 01:11 PM
1

I'm just asocial and happen to have a kind of asexuality at the same time. Those things aren't that rare on their own, I just rolled both of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 07:43 AM
2

according to Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs I don't think that this hierarchy is entirely accurate, or at least not all of the time. At the very least, it's not hard to think of examples of people going for self-actualization without having some of the lower needs fulfilled. What is your sex, gender, and pill leaning and do you believe sex is a need or want? I'm 24M (straight), and to me it looks that all of it is on a spectrum. I personally have no need or want for sex at all. I also don't have a …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 07:40 AM
3

I'm a virgin (though not in any way an unhappy one) and I cringe at shit on /r/incels. Both because of their views on women and how relationships work, and the way they talk in general. I understand that a large part of why they are like that is a result of a vicious cycle, but I can't excuse the lack of self-awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 07:13 AM
1

Homophobia has nothing to do with gender. I live in a culture where homophobia is more normal than lack of it, at least among other people, and it's exactly the same in both women and men. They even use same shitty arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 06:44 PM
2

No sex here. 24 years of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 06:02 PM
1

We're selfish creatures, and while empathy/sympathy are a hallmark of intelligence, it only goes so far. The point is that as far as empathy goes, men receive way less of it compared to women, both from men and women. And it makes sense from evolutionary standpoint, as women are incomparably more valuable for reproduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 07:46 PM
2

It doesn't make me feel anything. Women can like whatever they want, I doesn't affect me in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 07:39 PM
2

I mean, people like Karen Straughan do exist. They are rare, but they exist. It makes no sense to think that they are pretending, seems like way too much effort for no tangible benefits. This kind of biological determinism that "women can't care about men's problems no matter what the context" is false In terms of generalizations, it's more of "no one cares about men's problems" than "women can't care about men's problems". As in, both men and women are biologically wired in the direction of car…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 07:32 PM
1

You can't expect code to be explained to you. At some point you will have to deal with code that is more than ten years ago and the guy who wrote it having left the company long ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 04:35 AM
1

I never see anything about MGTOW anywhere but on Reddit There are plenty of MGTOW youtubers that have communities around them, and they range from completely gender-neutral ones to slightly woman-bashing to outright misogynistic ones, with audiences to match. /r/mgtow is as far as it gets when it comes to the latter, but it's a fairly small part of MGTOW as a whole, since sane people tend to avoid it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/17 08:54 PM
5

People who care more about who their colleagues are than what it is they are doing, are not suitable for programming in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/17 08:38 PM
5

A lot of people would rather not have sex than have sex with partners that are potentially available to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 05:21 PM
1

Can't say anything about him, but I like this life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 04:44 PM
2

Single men are very clearly trying to get laid; they're not going several months between sexual encounters by choice. Majority of them probably not. I personally find that getting either sex or a relationship is in no way worth the amount of effort it would take. Especially for someone as introverted as me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 04:02 PM
2

I'm not him, but I'm personally simply unable to enjoy any social interactions that involve more than ~5 people. So parties are generally the exact opposite of where I want to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 08:40 PM
4

I'd say that traditional gender roles make negative consequences for women who lack confidence less severe compared to men. And I don't think socialization is the only issue here. To me it looks like being confident is extremely important for men to be attractive to women, while women can get away with not having confidence without major issues. Society also has different expectations for men and for women in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 11:07 AM
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I'd say that there are a lot of overconfident men because the society encourages that on multiple levels. Being overconfident is way less bad for you than lacking confidence, even if that lack of confidence is justified. When you are average and act like hot shit, that generally gets you more success than acting like you are average.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 03:48 AM
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A lot of people disagree on whether the same things are equality of opportunity or outcome. I'd say that things like free education and universal healthcare are necessary for equality of opportunity, but I've seen plenty of people who disagree.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/02/17 11:16 PM
3

everyone in college now was raised on TV I just recently finished college and I was raised mostly on the internet. I've had it since I was 12, and I don't think I've watched TV voluntarily in at least 10 years.
/r/MensRights23/01/17 10:58 AM
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It's a huge moral and financial responsibility, they consume a huge amount of your time and I can't think of any reason whatsoever to have them in the first place. There's nothing better about having children than not having them.
/r/MGTOW18/01/17 05:31 AM
2

Care to provide a short summary?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 11:37 PM
2

Well, my point was that instead of going with single payer, the US government decided to force people to pay for private insurance which to me looks like a clumsy attempt at reducing government involvement that ended being the worst of both worlds.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 10:24 PM
1

Weeaboos think that because they watch anime that Japan is like that and a perfect world This sounds like a strawman for me. I have never seen people like this, only people ranting about them. Any competent weeb will watch enough anime to see those that illustrate major issues with the Japanese society. Meanwhile, most anime is unrealistic enough (in terms of character appearance and behavior) that it would never register as "this is how things are in Japan" for anyone who isn't retarded. Well, …
/r/MGTOW06/01/17 09:33 PM
1

Get a debit card then.
/r/MGTOW06/01/17 09:26 PM
1

and are actually more free market in many ways then the U.S. One of the reasons why US has issues with free markets is that some of its attempts to keep government out of things spectacularly backfired, most notable example being healthcare. They have some of the highest rates of alcoholism and anti depressant users in the world. I don't see how that in any way matters. No one forces to you drink alcohol or kill yourself. and their citizens hold some of the highest consumer debt in the world Sam…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 08:15 PM
1

I'd say it's mostly nature, and most social constructs are a consequence of biology in some way. It'd say existence of transsexual people clearly illustrates huge differences between how male and female brains work with what happens when you brain of one ends up in the body of another. Additionally gender differences are also more statistically significant in countries where external conditions for men and women are more equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 07:33 PM
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That's a very low quality strawman, mate. I'm not him, but I prefer the Nordic model. Good things from both capitalism and socialism. I'm extremely libertarian when it comes to social issues, but I don't possess the hatred of taxes of government that libertarians have.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 07:08 PM
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I don't understand why do you even associate with your family. Just cut them out of your life.
/r/MGTOW01/01/17 08:14 PM
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No, I adopt a gender-neutral version of going my own way. It's not women that I have a problem with, to me looks like humans in general aren't trustworthy enough to engage in intimate inter-dependent relationships with. I'd be going my own way even if I was gay.
/r/MGTOW01/01/17 01:11 PM
1

Well, I personally just recently joined the workforce, and I'm really not a fan of the whole 40 hour work week thing. And since my expenses are low and I have zero debt, I really don't need to work that much to have everything that I really want. However, I don't really mind sacrificing a few years of my life to get some extra money, and if I get paid well, may as well wage slave for 10-15 years straight and then just retire with that money.
/r/MGTOW01/01/17 08:01 AM
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Those are two separate issues that shouldn't affect each other. Being able to back out of the marriage easily should be a thing, being able to financially destroy the other party should not be a thing regardless of who filed for divorce, or who was to blame.
/r/MGTOW31/12/16 06:55 PM
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Everyone needs to be loved You shouldn't speak for everyone. Everyone is different. Though that also applies to OP. Not everyone can live comfortably without being loved. It gets you validation and keeps you sane Not really. I got my 'validation' back when I met my first real friend. Being appreciated by someone for who I am (or more accurately, was at the time) allowed me to gain normal level of self-esteem, confidence and social skills, which I severely lacked before that. However, after I got…
/r/MGTOW31/12/16 05:55 PM
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Well, on the other hand, it's really impossible to justify lack of a no-fault divorce. I can't imagine any reason to continue a marriage in which one party doesn't wish to participate anymore, regardless of whether the other party did something to justify it. How the assets get split is a completely separate issue.
/r/MGTOW31/12/16 05:36 PM
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There's no reason to try to fix marriage. It's obsolete and pointless on a fundamental level.
/r/MGTOW31/12/16 04:59 PM
1

Jojo makes fun of characters of both genders. Also, considering how often Jojo characters get beaten up, this scene is literally nothing. And those those scenes mock specific characters, not men in general.
/r/MGTOW31/12/16 04:53 PM
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Well, why aren't you at home listening to Spotify then? I personally checked out of any and all celebrations as soon as I moved away from parents.
/r/MGTOW31/12/16 04:37 PM
3

Whatever floats your boat I guess. I personally see very little benefits to living in a house, and they are considerably more expensive, as well as harder/more expensive to maintain. An apartment fits my needs better.
/r/MGTOW29/12/16 12:34 AM
1

I consider recreational drugs of all sorts to not be in any way worth the trouble and/or their price, and I don't like the idea of altering my consciousness in general. Though I personally see smoking cigarettes to be way more stupid than weed, and the fact that one of them is legal and the other not to be extremely hypocritical and counter-productive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/16 04:48 AM
2

The solution (skip to 4:13 if the link doesn't work for you)
/r/MGTOW27/12/16 03:34 AM
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I'd say considerably less likely than an average woman. Well, that does happen, and there are some stories on that sub about women sabotaging contraception. Or just lying about being childfree in the first place, hoping that the guy changes his mind later. If you are a man, you want to have sex, and don't want to have children, just get a vasectomy. It's a no-brainer.
/r/MGTOW27/12/16 12:43 AM
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BUT are these women good to interact with? How would you feel about asking one of them on a date Well, I don't date. Though I'm also an MGTOW in a gender-neutral kind of way, I think that humans in general are not trustworthy enough to enter intimate relationships with, regardless of gender. knowing that they oppose spawning Since I myself hate the idea of having children, in case I was looking for an LTR, that would be a requirement.
/r/MGTOW27/12/16 12:36 AM
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I'd say that /r/childfree gives off a kind of going-their-own-way vibe in terms of how it protests the same kind of shaming tactics that are used against men who don't want to marry. As for women there, well, good for them.
/r/MGTOW27/12/16 12:05 AM
1

Nothing in particular, for me life in general just doesn't have enough going for it to justify effort required in order to sustain it.
/r/MGTOW25/12/16 09:27 PM
1

but are we really as men going to stoop to the feminist thought process that murdering your child is ok? I described the reasons why I think murdering fetuses is completely fine in the adjacent comment branch. To me it's not a matter of 'feminism' but basic human rights. Advocating abortion only encourages the slutty, cock carousel riding whores to continue that behavior as they'll always have a way out. If they wish to do so, that's their prerogative. No need to "women up" and be a unicorn. Wom…
/r/MGTOW25/12/16 04:10 PM
1

I would have wanted to be born even if I was unwanted. And I wish that I was never born even though I was wanted, my parents are good people and are financially successful. I don't see what makes it okay for you to say that it's okay to force a life on someone who may not want it, especially specifically in cases that they are most likely going to have a bad life. Expectant mothers call the fetus "my baby." And other pregnant women call fetuses parasites. I don't see your point. As I said, fetus…
/r/MGTOW25/12/16 03:38 PM
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what is there to do? You put the kids up for adoption. You do know that their life will be terrible if they don't get adopted by a decent family? Your willingness to subject humans to suffering is worrying. Your statement that killing a baby is more humane than a difficult life is illogical and evil. I consider your statement that it's better to subject a potential person to a life of suffering than to prevent said life to be immoral and evil. You care more about arbitrary rules than people. The…
/r/MGTOW25/12/16 02:38 PM
1

People that I see espousing views like yours rarely mention what they are willing to do to ensure wellbeing of those children after birth. If you just force their parents that don't want them to give birth and raise them, chances are, they will wish they were never born in the first place. Abortion is often more humane.
/r/MGTOW25/12/16 05:06 AM
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As far as I know, there are safe haven laws in the US. Even from completely selfish perspective, why risk committing murder when it's possible to surrender the child legally? What goes through heads of women like this?
/r/MGTOW25/12/16 12:12 AM
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and have no value for human life? Well, I personally don't get why people automatically assign positive value to yet unborn life. This particular universe is a shitty place, and chances, are if you get born into it, you are going to have a shitty life full of unpleasant and painful things. In majority of cases (if you count the entire world), it's better to get aborted the fuck out of it than live it out, and even in the first world things aren't exactly sunshine and butterflies. Like, being bor…
/r/MGTOW24/12/16 11:50 PM
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I'd personally prefer being aborted to being raised by that kind of mother. So she did at least something right. Though I don't envy the girl she will eventually get pregnant with.
/r/MGTOW24/12/16 11:07 PM
3

Me too thanks.
/r/MGTOW24/12/16 01:24 PM
3

The fact that you can't imagine how can one feel aroused without feeling sexual attraction just proves how different asexuality is from normal sexuality.
/r/MGTOW21/12/16 11:39 PM
2

Asexual does not mean you don't have ANY sexual desire. I don't have ANY desire to have sex with other people. I'm just not capable of experiencing that. I do experience arousal from same things that straight heterosexual men do, but I don't want to have sex in real life. And, well, the reason why it looks 'snowflaky' to you is that asexuality is mostly an umbrella term for a huge variety of conditions, which have one loosely defined thing in common. However, even if you take my experience as an…
/r/MGTOW21/12/16 10:55 PM
1

May be an unpopular opinion, but ignoring this whole edgy feminist thing, I like her new appearance way more than old one.
/r/MGTOW21/12/16 10:05 PM
1

Fuck her or don't, but make sure that the guy is aware that she is cheating or is willing to cheat. Not hard for you to do, but could potentially be life-altering for the guy.
/r/MGTOW21/12/16 09:47 PM
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Well, depends on your definition of "sick". I personally lucked into asexuality, which I wouldn't categorize as sickness.
/r/MGTOW21/12/16 09:41 PM
2

You shouldn't project that much.
/r/MGTOW21/12/16 09:27 PM
1

Microaggression is basically anything that can cause a person to be uncomfortable, no matter how completely innocuous it is. They literally consider the question “Where are you from?” to be a microaggression.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/16 10:13 PM
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As you can imagine, the kind of feminism that I see while not being a feminist is a vocal kind. I don't know how big part of feminism they represent, but I see what I see. Things that I don't like about what I see: A huge number of double standards in regards to what is acceptable for men/women to be done by them and to them. For a movement that should be about gender equality, they don't seem to care in any way about issues that only affect men, male side of issues that concern both genders. Ra…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/16 09:39 PM
1

Well, this is a relatively common thing in anime communities. There's plenty of ironic and unironic shitposting about 2D > 3D.
/r/MGTOW15/12/16 11:14 AM
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Colttaine has a video on this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JI23KDq6Wak
/r/MGTOW14/12/16 02:13 PM
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I have never been a fan of the whole family thing in the first place. As soon as I started thinking about it, it was obvious to me that I wanted to be alone. Also, they way families were depicted in media never made any impact on me. Now that I live alone, I realize that back when I lived with parents, what caused discomfort was the constant invasion of my personal space. I absolutely don't want to tolerate other people telling me what to do and when to things when I'm at home, or indirectly inf…
/r/MGTOW14/12/16 01:51 PM
3

It's not about lack of friendships itself, it's about lack of qualities (mostly confidence and self-respect) that cause friendlessness in the first place. Someone with those qualities, but without any friends (like, when they moved to another city/country) will have no issues developing new friendships. And since friendships are extremely important in nurturing those qualities, it can become somewhat of a catch-22. I've been there myself, though I lucked into a friendship that happened to fix th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/16 06:37 PM
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Absolutely nothing could. And that doesn't even have anything to do with the child not being mine, I just don't want anything related to children in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/16 02:23 PM
1

I never took the pills. I opted out of SMP/relationships altogether so the whole thing is fairly inconsequential to my life, but as far as I can observe other people, neither red nor blue pills seem to accurate describe the reality as I see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/16 07:40 AM
2

The best solution is just not to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 11:48 AM
2

I don't see abortion as in any way a bad thing because I don't automatically assign positive value to new life. Especially when it comes to lives of potential children from parents that consider abortion. Abortions simply prevent suffering, both for people already alive and unborn ones. I can't see how they can be something to feel guilty about. If anything is regrettable, it's lack of proper usage of birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/16 03:17 PM
1

I don't watch movies at all, partly because I have never seen a movie that I strongly liked, and partly because I find 90-120 minutes to be insufficient to deliver a decent story in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/16 03:05 PM
2

The word makes perfect sense to me, and I can think of examples of people or beliefs that can be correctly described by that word. However, due to the word being misused almost every time, when I encounter it, instead of "a person who is prejudiced against women" I think "a person who disagrees with an SJW".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/16 08:48 AM
1

Well, for me personally, it's more like "no girl I would want to sleep with, would sleep with me". I don't have any issues with that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/16 05:29 AM
2

I prefer tomboys.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/16 04:31 PM
1

Before you decided against it, did you feel a strong desire to have sex/romantic relationships with other people? I did have some desire, but not particularly strong, and I'm not sure whether it was because I wanted it, or because I thought I wanted it because it was normal to want it. I hope this doesn't come off as rude, but as the female incel poster was asked... What's wrong with you? No idea. Maybe I have some kind of personality disorder. In any case, I like being dead inside. Makes my lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/16 03:50 PM
1

Well, I'm 23 and I have never had anything related to romance in my life, and obviously a virgin. I completely stopped caring about those things by the time I was 19. Whether you'd call me asexual would depends on your definition of it. I do experience sex drive, but it's not aimed at any real people. Masturbation completely fulfills all of my needs in relation to sex. I also have no desire for emotional intimacy. That being said, I have never encountered anyone similar to myself in that regard,…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/16 11:05 AM
1

It really depends on an individual. Some don't care at all, for some it's certainly worse. I personally stopped caring about being a virgin when I was around 18, and no amount of shaming will ever bother me. Not that it would even happen, since nothing prevents me from just not announcing that I'm one. It's just a matter of being confident in yourself. A confident person will shrug off such bullshit, while ones that are not will start hating themselves more because of it, and it has little to do…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/16 02:21 AM
1

/r/talesfromthelpguy needs to become a thing
/r/PussyPassDenied04/06/16 11:07 AM
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Just FYI, GG and BestOfOutrageCulture hate each other, mostly because latter is one of the SRS satellite subs.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/03/16 07:47 PM
2

I don't see these kinds of generalizations to be useful at all. While you can probably conduct a study that would find that on average one sex needs another more by X%, it's not that you could do anything useful with this information. and men also need women because of their almost crippling sex drive (women like sex, but in my experience don't feel they "need" it as much). I don't like this generalization either, since I don't feel like I need sex at all, and I doubt that I'm alone in this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 07:10 PM
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I'm one of the 'unconcerned with fun' guys. I am incapable of experiencing fun in the way that 'normal, healthy and well adjusted' people do. The only case where I can get enjoyment out of interacting with humans is in one on one or in a small group of people I know well. And it's never good enough to bother get my ass of my chair for, so I spend 99% of my free time alone. I can't absolutely in any way enjoy anything that involve more than ~5 people at a time. And I'm not socially awkward or any…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 01:24 AM
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Usually: lack of confidence generally timid and risk-averse personalities, which are just not popular with women severely below average social skills and small circles of acquaintances they are usually picky about opposite sex to the point that no one they consider attractive would even think about dating them I'm a virgin, but I don't consider myself an incel since I know what I would need to do to stop being a virgin, it's just that there's no way I'd ever bother doing it, in effort vs reward …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 08:05 PM
2

Three hears? Being a nice guy made me not have a single date in my entire life. Coincidentally, I'm also starting my fourth year in a university.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/15 04:05 PM
3

I am a typical nice guy. Not a NiceGuyTM that gets his messages screencapped and posted on /r/niceguys, but a boring one. So, here are typical traits of people like myself: acts nice, as in, is generally willing to help people without expecting anything in return more so than an average person. (That being said, acting like this around decent people usually results in those people being willing to help you too) has no idea whatsoever on how to approach women. Usually tries to start a relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/15 08:45 AM
1

I'm a guy and I find her unappealing. It's like her face has no noticeable flaws, but there's absolutely nothing to like about it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 12:39 PM
1

/r/Rateme Well, that's as far as looks are concerned. When it comes to personality, that's harder to quantify.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 10:50 PM
3

No one ever implies that. When people say SJW they mean specifically those people and not actual social justice advocates. One consistent feature of SWJs is that they never do any actual good. They only ever whine about non-issues and break lives of people who disagree with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 10:43 PM
1

1. Male 22, Europe. 5/10 2. No pill. Egalitarian, anti-feminist (because I can't be anything but anti to the bullshit that I see feminists say). I believe that on average men and women tend to be different (both physically and mentally) due to differences between sexes, but I beleive that everyone should be free to live their life how they want without other people forcing them to accept traditional gender roles (like consiervatives) or reject them (like "progressives"). When it comes to my pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 11:46 PM
2

I'm 22. I don't have any desire to have sex on a psychological level. To me it's like a hobby I'm not interested in, like skiing or football. I also consider the price for entering SMP to be way higher than what I would consider bothering with. I'm an introvert and I really don't like socializing, and you can't really meet any women if you don't. In addition to that, I have standards so unreasonable that there can't be any overlap between women I find attractive and women that would consider goi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/15 10:52 PM
2

I decided not to play the game. My SMV is below average mostly due to my personality, though looks are lacking too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/15 09:44 PM
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People defending feminism too often try to hide behind the dictionary definition of it, forgetting that majority (or at least the vocal part) of modern feminists don't fit the dictionary definition. If real feminists have a problem with being associated with radicals, they should vocally condemn radicals instead of vocally condemning people who dislike the word "feminism" because they dislike people that call themselves that. If they don't do that, I imagine that all sane feminists will have to …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/15 12:05 PM
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I like your line of thinking. I think that if industry stops producing good waifus, there are already enough of them to last a lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/15 06:47 PM
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When it comes to relationships, I really doubt that there's any person that I can cohabitate with without it causing me more headache than providing benefits. Being alone has never caused me discomfort, so I can't imagine this suddenly changing one day. It seems to me that at that age if you don't have a partner or kids it would feel like you have nothing to live for I find the whole notion of life needing a purpose to be ridiculous. Well, my life is already empty and I can't actually imagine an…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/15 04:53 PM
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i think its very sad that RP can't imagine a legitimate reason to care about women's rights other than to get laid. Well, that depends on what brand of feminism we are talking about. There are people who call themselves feminists, but hold views that are pretty much opposite of gender equality, there are slacktivists who complain about first world women problems, and there are feminists that actually solve real problems women face, as well as many people who are mixes of above three in different…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/15 03:50 PM
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I have a better example of a white knight. https://twitter.com/arthur_affect/status/580823401993912320
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/15 03:46 PM
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Can someone define MGTOW for me? Several times, if there are several popular definitions. Whenever I google the term, it seems that each definition conflicts with other ones. Let's say that I decided to never pursue neither long-term relationships nor one-night stands, and I have never read any TRP. Am I MGTOW?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/15 03:08 PM
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10/10 quality high-effort post
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 06:08 PM
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Okay, so the initial part of it, which consists of insights into actual rape cases from someone who worked at a rape crisis center, is completely reasonable and provides a useful perspective. However, later the article slowly devolves into author's thoughts on sexuality in our society, and finally, into collection of feminist buzzwords and talking points (that being said, a more sane one that I have ever seen from that particular brand of feminism). Strawmanning of any disagreement with feminism…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 05:56 PM
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25% in, so far I find this reasonable, interesting and well worth reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 04:37 PM
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If it's not close friendship, it doesn't really count. I'm perfectly comfortable being forever alone, so it's not a big concern to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 04:01 PM
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Actually, if you fix the case (I copied article into Word and converted it to sentence case), it reads like absolutely regular ordinary article, other than referring to oneself in third person. Well, at least a few paragraphs in, where I am. http://i.imgur.com/ujI3HNb.png
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 03:57 PM
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The model of "strangers to friends to romance" is their way to approach, as this is how sexual attraction formed to them usually, and it can be reasoned with "if friendship doesn't work, then there would be no hope for the relationship to work either" It's that way for me. That being said, I don't expect this to ever work.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 03:22 PM
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I think that malicious nice guys are extremely rare or non-existent. Amount of naivety required to be a nice guy doesn't mix well with bad intentions. However, entitled ones certainly do exist. It's also worth mentioning that nice guys are nice guys because they simply don't know any other way of approaching women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 07:53 AM
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I'm not lumping anyone together. Majority of people online don't care about feminism or TRP-related stuff. But people who do care (mostly radical feminists) generally successfully ruin reputations of whoever they don't like using their influence in the media.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/15 12:18 PM
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I honestly really do think that they are wrong when they say that even if the rest of the red pill were moderate like them, they still wouldn't find more support. From what I've seen so far, I'd say that even of 100% of them were reasonable moderates, they'd still be called a misogynist hate group. You can't disagree with the doctrine of modern feminism on any point without being called sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/15 10:26 AM
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