DissidentNeolib Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	When men are unable to get a wife, ultimately they will resort to betraying their tribe, this is how Ephialtes betrayed spartans, it is because he couldnt get laid. No, I’m just an American who believes in truth and has zero tolerance for those who peddle lies. Just pointing out that the report Republicans have been getting their panties in a twist over for the past 2 years didn’t even say what they think it says.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 05:04 AM
1	The fall of Afghanistan: an analysis of gender relations between men and women in Afghan society pre taliban take over and its consequences on societal integrity This guy forgets it was still called the “Islamic Republic of Afghanistan” from 2004–2021 🤦🏾‍♂️	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 04:50 AM
1	When men are unable to get a wife, ultimately they will resort to betraying their tribe, this is how Ephialtes betrayed spartans, it is because he couldnt get laid. What a random place to see this baseless drivel brought up. As someone who lived in his district for 10 years, I feel obligated to point out that for whatever qualms you may have with his policies, this is false. You can read through the exclusive report in Axios where this was first reported.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 04:36 AM
4	More female hypocrisy. You’ve been posting nonstop, please find a job	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/22 07:33 PM
2	Dégénération Yeah, that’s the one. Thought I recognised it; super catchy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/22 11:59 AM
5	Call them males. Both are weird; you’re right about consistency. “Male” and “female” only make sense as adjectives or when talking about evolution. Side note, but your post history is amazing. It’s refreshing to see takes that aren’t completely braindead on here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/22 11:55 AM
3	Male science/philosophy vs female emotions. All good dude. Take care!	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/22 11:43 AM
1	“Have you ever had sex with a black guy?” Chaim Chadwitz 💀	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/22 11:19 AM
1	It’s not too late to change Ain’t no way Tory Lanez actually shot her; that trial was rigged as all hell. It was almost certainly her former friend Kelsey who REFUSED to self-incriminate on the stand. (Obviously, that’s her Fifth Amendment right and shouldn’t be evidence of guilt in a court of law.) Tory was dating Kelsey, fucked her friend Meg on the side, then watched Kelsey shoot Meg once he got caught. He was an idiot for saying “dance, bitch, dance!” and offering $1M in hush money, but no witnesses testified to him sh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/22 11:07 AM
3	rule Yeah	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/22 10:59 AM
9	Female will never stop being hypocrisy. I wouldn’t be surprised if it was MORE often. That said, there’s obviously a difference between LibFems and RadFems. I despise things like misandry and transphobia from the latter, but the former is much more inconsistent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/22 10:59 AM
2	Female will never stop being hypocrisy. I honestly don’t think they would. They hate men so much they just stay single or date other women (which is fine).	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/22 10:57 AM
1	There is no more hope for Gen Z. I find most people in general to be uninteresting as close friends, as much as I like socialising with people and learning about their lives. This isn’t just women. Male and female intellectual interests do tend to differ as well, hence why intelligent men might see few women in their space and assume “ooga booga woman dumb.” Men are much more likely to be interested in politics, philosophy, history, economics, mathematics, physics, and engineering (except civil and mechanical); women prefer bio…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/22 10:40 AM
10	Male science/philosophy vs female emotions. Excuse me? Don’t shoot the messenger! This is just something PPD does every year, apparently. I think it’s cringe; I wish it was just a relaxation of the rules so people could be more mudslingy in debates but now it’s basically anything goes. The knee-jerk reflex of calling me an incel is so childish your partner should be on the sex offender registry. Your impulse control needs work. One look at my profile would tell you I’m a staunch progressive. Nevertheless, it’s good to see a fellow DGGer o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/22 10:32 AM
14	Male science/philosophy vs female emotions. I’m personally more concerned on a societal level, given concrete outcomes like a plummeting fertility rate and abstract outcomes like increasing animosity between young men and women. I know online echo chambers amplify toxicity, but virtually every Zoomer is visibly polarised on gender issues. The sort of stuff you’d find on TRP 5 years ago that’d be unacceptable to say anywhere else is now common discourse on mainstream social media platforms like TikTok, Instagram, and Twitter. I’m not sure …	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/22 10:26 AM
8	Male science/philosophy vs female emotions. It’s Purge Week. Reporting won’t do shit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/22 10:17 AM
1	Gender Equality Totally fair. That’s a real shame; women who are open to dating men who have jobs but don’t earn as much shouldn’t have to deal with the same bullshit from the other side.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/22 08:19 PM
2	Gender Equality Thank you! You have a wonderful night!	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/22 12:57 PM
3	Gender Equality Oh, I’ve got someone. And I didn’t just pair up out of desperation; we actually really liked eachother. I meant that in the sense of “don’t hold off for too long wasting time because you think you can do better.” I agree with your sentiment that people need to focus on themselves. If they’re living a good life with vibrant social circles, they’ll naturally meet someone right for them so long as they have their own life in check. It’s much easier to date a close friend whose company you know you …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/22 12:40 PM
3	Gender Equality I don’t think that’s true. Most women are willing to pull their more weight when it comes to money once they’ve decided they actually like the guy enough to date him. They just see the first few dates as too risky to pay for when they might not like the guy, even though the man is taking the same risk on her. Maybe some women are demanding when it comes to gifts, but you’d be hard-pressed to find a dual-income couple that isn’t splitting bills. I’m not discounting your personal experiences; you …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/22 12:38 PM
0	Gender Equality I don’t know why you’re automatically taking this as a personal attack. We know hypergamy is real because the data overwhelmingly indicates that to be the case, and it’s relevant because the self-imposed constraints on eligible bachelors appears to be making women unhappier as a class. If it doesn’t apply to you, that’s great! Keep it moving. You’ve got the right mindset and are probably happier for it. You’re absolutely right that many men are intimidated by women outearning them; it’s not just…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/22 12:35 PM
2	Gender Equality This study only surveyed adolescents though. What you said may come into play later, but I don’t know for sure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/22 12:17 PM
2	Gender Equality No, I’m going off of data. The reality is that people stop maturing in their early 20s for the most part. I don’t see the women I know who are in bad shape now changing their ways any time soon. Façades may shift, but substantive changes in attitude are rare. That goes for men and women; I just don’t care what other men do since I only find women attractive. I’d advise young people like myself to pair up with someone reasonable as soon as they can. If you wait too long, you’re fucked once all th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/22 12:17 PM
2	Gender Equality This is because I’m young and it’s totally anecdotal, but at 21, most women in my age cohort absolutely want to be pampered and provided for. Watch what people do, not what they say. Let’s also not forget the data (as if we needed it) showing that men have to carry all the weight in the early stages of a relationship, as well it comes to taking initiative in the bedroom. Oh, and a woman earning more than her male partner being the biggest predictor for divorce. It’s “equal and loving” until it’s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/22 12:01 PM
2	Gender Equality I really don’t know why this would be, especially given that we’re talking about adolescents. Maybe women are quite fulfilled in their friendships whereas men need a female companion to feel complete, so more equal societies where teen dating is acceptable makes boys happier? Who knows.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/22 11:52 AM
5	Women who are married or in a LTR; were you "keeping your options open" when dating your now-partner? Wait... you’ve been FWBs for 15 years? Is there no romantic component whatsoever?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/22 09:56 AM
7	Gender Equality The common response is that women feel saddled with more responsibilities since they’re now expected to enter the workforce, yet still do the bulk of housework. While that is true to an extent, it’s also incredibly reductive and totally disingenuous. The people hurt most by this sort of deflection is women themselves, even if they don’t realise it. The truth is that regardless of how much messaging we do regarding “female empowerment,” a large number of women do prefer to take on a more traditio…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/22 09:54 AM
0	Q4W - Were you actually really attracted to the man you made wait for sex? Exactly. What she said only applies for women with more restricted sociosexuality (which may very well be the case for her and the women she knows). They tend to, by definition, be averse to hookups anyway. What’s more likely is that when they hook up, they do it with the kind of man they want to date seriously and the relationship starts more casually. On the flipside, women with a less restricted sociosexuality will actively hook up with men because they enjoy it. These women find aggression h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/22 08:37 AM
1	Human behavior is consistent across multiple domains(from jobs to seduction). So rejection isn’t personal. It’s human nature It’s a snap judgment, which is what makes it all the more exhilarating (for better or for worse).	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/22 05:55 AM
1	Dating is about proximity perception, through and through. The Internet has changed the game. That’s exactly it. It’s also why social circles are the best way to meet women (though you shouldn’t make friends for that sole purpose, let it happen organically). Just because every girl can get a million dudes in her DMs doesn’t all of ‘em do or are even interested in that sort of mass attention. They’re also more difficult to find because they’re detached from the spaces people usually meet dating partners.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/22 07:48 AM
1	Dating is about proximity perception, through and through. The Internet has changed the game. Exactly. Guys with money who know how to use it, status acquired through noble means, etc. aren’t gonna mess with women who aren’t of equal quality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/22 07:47 AM
6	Human behavior is consistent across multiple domains(from jobs to seduction). So rejection isn’t personal. It’s human nature Rejection is personal because it’s an assessment of your whole persona, not just what you bring into work. Furthermore, no one is attached to their job in the same way they are to potential romantic partners. It’s why I, as someone with a strict preference for LTRs, have only ever asked out women who were close friends of mine I was reasonably confident were attracted to me. I’m not going to put myself up to a vote to some random girl and inflate her ego at my expense. I’d rather confront someon…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/22 07:45 AM
1	Q4 High N Women - What is your lifestyle like? I’m not talking 40-y/o, I’m talking 25-y/o. If a man is past college age and still a virgin, people wonder “what’s wrong with him?” You just proved that by saying “they’re weird” without addressing the possibility that there could be any number of factors at play. That assumption that someone who hasn’t been chosen yet must be broken is the definition of preselection. You aren’t representative of every woman; don’t take this broad commentaries on society as personal attacks. I believe you when y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/22 07:50 PM
9	Men do not inherently like women but women absolutely love men. You have no idea what you’re talking about. I definitely have women in my life I care about solely platonically. It’s almost impossible with straight women though; I agree. But lesbians are still women and it’s nice to get female perspectives on life without the underlying tension inherent to the usual male-female dynamic. The friendship is authentic and not tainted by sexual desire. And even when it comes to straight women, most men don’t necessarily see a woman as worthless just because they h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/22 10:30 AM
1	Q4 High N Women - What is your lifestyle like? Why wouldn’t those two examples contradict what you say? You might allege the possible confounding factor that a man who can already pull a girl is probably attractive enough to pull multiple, but it doesn’t account for the widely-reported experience of women immediately being turned off when a man admit to a lack of sexual history, or women who showed no interest suddenly perking their ears when they hear he’s got a GF. Hell, even when hitting on a guy, girls will literally say shit like “You m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/22 05:06 AM
2	You need to consider the pitfalls of being a successful person in the current market I agree with you! But most women don’t question that. If the guy is hot enough, they’ll throw whatever principles they have out the window. I cringe at the alpha/beta dichotomy, but TRP is right when they say “women set rules for betas and break them for alphas.” Of course, straight-up saying “let’s fuck” isn’t gonna work on most women no matter how attractive the guy is. But a hot guy with a lotta money/status is gonna have much more success sleeping with a girl on the first date, whereas the s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/22 04:58 PM
1	Q4 High N Women - What is your lifestyle like? That’s fair. But it’s also totally true. You don’t think women like a man who gets a lotta women? It’s rare that someone is like you and thinks a “high-value men” is one who has options he doesn’t exercise. For most women, it doesn’t mean squat without results. That doesn’t mean they want a man-whore per se, but they do expect that he has some relationship/sexual experience. Think about all the late-in-life male virgins who say it’s a turn-off for women (to the point where they’re advised to str…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/22 04:42 PM
2	The Y-Chromosomal Bottleneck Probably Wasn't Caused By Extreme Polygamy Arranged marriages were largely confined to the upper class, with the exception of handful of cultures like my native India. Unless you had powerful business interests and/or were nobility, there was no incentive to marry your child off to anyone in particular. Courtship has been the primary mode of pairing in civilisation since its dawn. But let’s talk about the present day, when women DO have equal opportunity throughout the West (and as we’re seeing with college graduate numbers, perhaps even…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/22 02:20 AM
3	Q4 High N Women - What is your lifestyle like? When’d I accuse you of anything? You’re the one who replied to my thread implying something about me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/22 02:16 AM
1	Q4 High N Women - What is your lifestyle like? I’m not a redpiller. And even TRP says women will select for money absent other facts that attract them in the short run. Regardless, promiscuity is bad no matter who’s doing it. We’re just talking about women right now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/22 02:15 AM
3	You need to consider the pitfalls of being a successful person in the current market Men being in the dating market and happy to have any options at all doesn’t mean they’re “scrambling to be with any random woman.” There are a multitude of reasons a man would filter his options. We just don’t have the same luxury women do to have incredibly stringent standards. This is coming from someone who has incredibly stringent standards and found someone irreplaceable by dumb luck. Once again, arrogance and entitlement. If you honestly believe women don’t have it easier here, you’re just…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/22 02:14 AM
2	Q4 High N Women - What is your lifestyle like? Glad to hear you agree!	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/22 09:32 PM
1	Q4 High N Women - What is your lifestyle like? We’re talking about women in aggregate. You’re the exception that proves the norm; promiscuity is rampant in our culture. Promiscuous women wouldn’t mind dating him despite his sleaziness, because they’re one and the same. Bit weird you think men are more valuable for their resources than loving companionship, but I digress.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/22 09:29 PM
1	Q4 High N Women - What is your lifestyle like? I’m basing this off of my observations of male/female friends/acquaintances who have prolific sexual histories, and what they tell me about their relationships in confidence (I have a reputation as a good dating adviser). This also aligns with common sense. If you’re obsessed with instant gratification, want immediate sexual pleasure, and are able to readily distance the physical and emotional aspects... that’s not a good formula for relationship material. You clearly don’t value the unique aspe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/22 09:27 PM
2	Q4 High N Women - What is your lifestyle like? I’m not a redpiller. I’ve always solely valued LTRs, which TRP explicitly warns against. I’m also a romantic to a degree someone like Rollo Tomassi would recoil at, yet it’s worked out fantastically for me. Don’t lob random accusations. You don’t know what you’re talking about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/22 09:21 PM
2	Q4 High N Women - What is your lifestyle like? The women on PPD, by the very nature of this community, are likely to have a less feminine hormonal profile, neurology, etc. (hence the lower agreeableness that leads people to enjoy debate). Thus, oxytocin plays a lesser role in pair-bonding, and promiscuity probably doesn’t affect them much (at the same time, their sociosexuality is less restricted to balance out this effect). That’d partially explain why the women on here saying they’re happy genuinely are. Don’t trust the narratives of peopl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/22 09:19 PM
1	The Y-Chromosomal Bottleneck Probably Wasn't Caused By Extreme Polygamy Ever hear the phrase “It takes a village?” Ironically enough, women actually “didn’t need no man” back then to raise their kids, because the tribe as a whole looked after them until they reached puberty. A widower with kids WOULD be more of a catch BECAUSE he’d marry a young bride. I’m not talking about single mothers. That’s something that’s remained constant throughout history—it’s much likelier a man with kids would marry a childless woman than vice versa. Hypergamy is one of the few things T…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/22 08:53 PM
3	You need to consider the pitfalls of being a successful person in the current market If you unironically believe women’s options are disproportionately comprised of “poison,” I can’t begin to fathom how arrogantly entitled you are. There are a roughly equal number of toxic men and women, believe it or not. Having more options is invariably better, because your odds of meeting someone suitable goes up. What, did you think all women are wonderful and a man should count his lucky stars for even one to date him?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/22 08:42 PM
6	The Y-Chromosomal Bottleneck Probably Wasn't Caused By Extreme Polygamy The source is given in the post. You were disputing the claim that the men were all exterminated. The only alternative explanation if they were enslaved is that they were denied the opportunity to reproduce. Both would result in the destruction of an entire Y-chromosomal lineage. Who’s to say the women had a choice? Rape was rampant and I’m sure some women were so traumatised they committed suicide because of it. Even if they chose survival over dying with their husband, coercion ≠ consent. Hype…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/22 12:20 PM
11	You need to consider the pitfalls of being a successful person in the current market Oh boohoo, someone with options isn’t mature enough to make a decision and be grateful! Someone call an ambulance! When I saw the title, I thought you’d address actual problems like wealthy men needing to dodge gold diggers and attractive women trying to find someone who genuinely values her personality independent of her looks. No one is complaining about having their pick of the litter. Rational choice theory tells us more options can only increase your utility, not decrease it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/22 11:47 AM
12	The Y-Chromosomal Bottleneck Probably Wasn't Caused By Extreme Polygamy If the men and boys were taken as slaves, they were likely deprived of opportunity to reproduce. This wasn’t like chattel slavery in antebellum America where slaves were sometimes forced to reproduce so plantation owners would get more labor for free. Yes, this is effectively polygyny. That said, it’s not due to hypergamy (which is by and large a function of civilisation), which is the point of this post.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/22 11:43 AM
11	The Y-Chromosomal Bottleneck Probably Wasn't Caused By Extreme Polygamy People died of all sorts of reasons beyond human control at the time. Disease, menstrual complications, etc. Even if she died because an animal ate her, who’s to say her husband wasn’t out hunting to take care of the family? If he was a total bum, she’d’ve left him. Even in very traditional societies, women had some recourse (especially if the man was so unproductive he’d earned the ire of society).	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/22 11:41 AM
9	The Y-Chromosomal Bottleneck Probably Wasn't Caused By Extreme Polygamy If not for the fact that English isn’t your first language (but still very good!) then I’d think you were being sarcastic. 17-to-1 is an INSANE ratio. I don’t think people fathom what that means when they throw out numbers like that. Females may want only the best genes due to limited reproductive capacity, but there’s a point at which a male has too many mates and can’t provide enough parental investment. That’s also bad for their offspring and compromises their reproductive imperative. The clu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/22 11:38 AM
53	The Y-Chromosomal Bottleneck Probably Wasn't Caused By Extreme Polygamy Solid post. If I’m not mistaken, 40% of men and 80% of women are believed to have reproduced throughout history, meaning the effective population size of women has historically been twice that of men. This is because men were more likely to die young (whether while hunting or in battle with warring tribes), whereas the women would be taken in by another man in the tribe or as you mentioned, a conquering tribe. The modern-day phenomenon illustrated by the difference in effective population size i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/22 11:25 AM
3	Would you ever date a fellow PPD user? Most heterosexual relationships are like this. Forget the red and blue stuff. Men tend to be slightly more callous and women tend to be more naive (in this context specifically), because men are more likely to have had to fight tooth and nail in dating. And yes, I prefer if that way as well. There’s this girl in my life (we’re young, it’s complicated) who is super assertive/argumentative, logical, and somewhat out of touch with her emotions. She has a really solid balance of conventionally mascu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/22 11:12 AM
4	Q4 High N Women - What is your lifestyle like? They hyperbolise, but you’re the exception that proves the rule. Notice how you said “the fever passed.” The reality is most promiscuous men and women never grow out of it; they settle down out of necessity (desire for a family, financial stability, etc.) and don’t truly value everything that goes into a relationship. That’s why it’s so common for couples to just break up instead of working through their issues together—their brains are fried from years of “no strings attached” arrangements with…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/22 10:32 AM
3	Q4W: Would you rather have casual sex with an average in his 20's, or a fit, handsome man in his 40's? Congrats on understanding Simpson’s paradox, which anyone who paid attention in high school Stats knows. He’s either got room temp IQ or is just in extreme denial. Either way, a CAT scan is in order for that bowl of SpaghettiO’s he calls a brain!	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/22 05:43 PM
1	Q4W: Would you rather have casual sex with an average in his 20's, or a fit, handsome man in his 40's? Dude, you OOZE insecurity. I believed that you “do OK” until you started sperging out over a man half your age on the Internet 🤡 Sorry to burst your bubble, but my sweetheart doesn’t like crusty oldheads with ED. Try keeping it up for 2 minutes before you pretend you’re John Hamm 👌🤣 I never accused you of creeping around college campuses, but if you’re gonna self-indict like that... still doesn’t make you an archvillain. Just a weirdo who can only pull damaged women with severe daddy issues. Ta-…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/22 05:40 PM
1	Height preferences are not highly biological as you think You’re going off of anecdote. Your personal experience means nothing. When you say West Asia, I’m assuming you’re in the Caucasus or Middle East. The culture there might be different so as to not value height so much, and I’ll get back to that in a minute. Height preferences are absolutely biological, but not because “being taller means you can better protect the woman.” Universally, women prefer powerful men. How power projection is perceived may vary; in the West, height is undoubtedly seen as…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/22 05:27 AM
13	Q4W: Would you rather have casual sex with an average in his 20's, or a fit, handsome man in his 40's? This jamoke is “almost 50” (check his other comments) and seemingly “does OK.” If we’re to believe him on that, then he’s only asking because he’s concerned his luck may run out soon. I’m 21. I’m not the most attractive guy in the world, but put a gun to a 25-y/o woman’s head and force her to pick between us (as the question demands): 9 times outta 10 she’s coming home with me. It’s a very small but vocal crowd clamoring for “DILFs.” I do still think he would be more successful bedding 25-y/o wo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/22 04:52 AM
2	Question for Men: Would you rather marry a 20 year old who looks 30, or a 30 year old who looks 20? I do believe in soulmates. Not because of some sort of cosmic ordination, but because sometimes two people cross paths and are just so tied up with eachother it can never be the same with anyone else. Believe me, I know. All the way down to comparing everyone else with one special person and being frustrated when they don’t measure up. Notice how I never said you shouldn’t reach out to him again. I’d advise you to write and send him a heartfelt letter to update him about how you’ve been doing be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/22 02:26 PM
2	Question for Men: Would you rather marry a 20 year old who looks 30, or a 30 year old who looks 20? Let’s not pretend like cultural norms don’t play a role. Don’t believe me? Try being a woman, wearing the sort of clothes you would on a hot day in America, and walking around alone in the Middle East or South Asia. Obviously it’s not everyone, and it should never be used to stereotype. I’m merely comparing prevalence. We’re shocked at how many men are attracted to underage girls because we’re applying American cultural standards. It’s wrong, but not every culture sees it that way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/22 02:15 PM
3	Most average men would be happy with a healthy weight, average looking women. America’s obesity rate is upwards of 40% now. Mean BMI has likely crossed 30, but that doesn’t mean the average American is obese (we have to look at the median for that). Upwards of 75% of Americans are overweight (including obesity). The median American likely has a BMI of about 29, which is almost obese. Our country is fucked.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/22 02:06 PM
1	What is more important in the relationship market, freedom or responsibility? Responsibility, 100%. Look at what “freedom” has done. Now I’m not saying we should go back to how things were before the Sexual Revolution within rigid societal norms and strict gender regimentation, but most people really need to be sat down and told what actually matters. I’ve always been a pragmatist, even as a teenager crushing on girls back in high school. I just knew intuitively there are more important things than being the hottest (or having the most money, etc). As I get older, I’m inc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/22 01:53 PM
2	Question for Men: Would you rather marry a 20 year old who looks 30, or a 30 year old who looks 20? That’s wild. I’m 21 and I can’t even see myself dating an 18-year-old, unless we were really close friends and I’d already fallen in love with her. 18-year-olds are fresh out of high school; I’m barely still of college age. People’s appearances do change slightly during that time even though puberty is over. Unfortunately not an uncommon experience. Too many pedos on the loose. Stay safe!	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/22 01:41 PM
1	Question for Men: Would you rather marry a 20 year old who looks 30, or a 30 year old who looks 20? She also appears to be from a foreign country. Who knows what the men are like there?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/22 01:38 PM
3	Question for Men: Would you rather marry a 20 year old who looks 30, or a 30 year old who looks 20? I’m glad you got rid of him. It’s not your fault; you’re both adults but he clearly manipulated you and has a thing for child-like women. That’s textbook grooming. I skimmed through your post history and saw that you’re missing a friend you could’ve had something wonderful with. Allow me to give you a bitter dose a reality no one else will: Your chances of reconciliation are slim. He went above and beyond trying to rescue you from an inappropriate relationship. Despite being hurt seeing you with…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/22 01:36 PM
2	Question for Men: Would you rather marry a 20 year old who looks 30, or a 30 year old who looks 20? No, it looks 100% real. Read her post history as well. She was groomed by an older man, lost a really good friend who wanted her (and she now realises she likes him too), and is in a really bad headspace because of it. I hope things look up for her soon.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/22 01:26 PM
2	Question for Men: Would you rather marry a 20 year old who looks 30, or a 30 year old who looks 20? I’m 21. I’d go for the 20-y/o who looks 30. It’d be a bit weird at first but I’d get adjusted to her looking much older. There are more important things in a relationship. If I was 25 or older, I’d go for the 30-y/o and thank my lucky stars. TL;DR: Chronological age matters more than perceived age.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/22 01:16 PM
2	Question for Men: Would you rather marry a 20 year old who looks 30, or a 30 year old who looks 20? Saw that and did a double-take myself. She must be from the Deep South.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/22 01:14 PM
5	Do men or women feel more pressure to “keep up with the Joneses” when it comes to dating and marriage? Women, absolutely. For starters, women are generally more collectivist and men more individualistic. We often don’t care what others think, and even actively encourage eachother to do whatever works for us. Most women care very deeply about what other women think, and even when they say “Live your best life, girl!” everyone knows that really means encouraging her to live the lifestyle they think is best. There’s also the fact that relationships are seen as more integral to a woman’s identity, wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/22 01:01 AM
5	How do people here feel about Ectolife Artificial Womb project? You know people don’t care about that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/22 05:42 AM
6	How do people here feel about Ectolife Artificial Womb project? I’m not going off of the latest reporting from ill-reputable outlets. Artificial wombs have been in development for quite some time, with increasing progress. That said, the de facto 14-day restriction you mention will likely be lifted once the concept of artificial wombs becomes part of the public consciousness and demand for it rises. There’ll be too much lobbying from biotech firms, reports from government agencies, etc. for legislatures not to repeal this restriction. Development will accele…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/22 04:17 AM
2	How do people here feel about Ectolife Artificial Womb project? Given the negative societal impacts of plummeting birth rates, governments in developed economies around the world will start subsidising every stage of child-rearing, from fertility treatments to universal daycare. There’ll also be patriotic messaging campaigns urging people to have kids to serve the nation. I expect that the distribution of women having children will become bimodal as opposed to unimodal: many women will forgo having children altogether, and many women will have at least 3–4 k…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/22 04:06 AM
9	How do people here feel about Ectolife Artificial Womb project? People need to relax. Is there something wonderful about seeing the baby bump grow, feeling a more personal connection from the kicks and ultrasound, etc.? Yes. Women who want to experience natural pregnancy will still have that option. That said, it’s not just a matter of convenience for women. Pregnancy comes with incredible health risks, some of which are irreversible. Men seriously underestimate how difficult it is and I don’t fault women at all for cheering this development. The only real c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/22 03:39 AM
2	How do people here feel about Ectolife Artificial Womb project? The point is that this breakthrough in medical technology means artificial wombs are coming and cannot be stopped. If not for this generation, then the next. It’s worth considering what a future where artificial wombs are the norm would look like. I’d bet this hits the market no later than 2040, and reaches mass adoption by 2050.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/22 03:32 AM
2	If the age of consent was 14, do you think it's acceptable for an adult man to pursue 14-17 year old girls for dating and sex? There are some things that’re universally wrong because they violate foundational moral principles. That’s the whole basis behind the concept of human rights. Not everything can be written off under the guise of cultural relativism. I’m curious: What would you state your political inclinations are? I myself am a staunch liberal, and people on the Left are notorious for the “it’s just their culture!” talking point. For instance, they were mocked in 2016 for uncritically defending Islam when a goo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/22 06:29 AM
1	If the age of consent was 14, do you think it's acceptable for an adult man to pursue 14-17 year old girls for dating and sex? That guy’s a sicko! I’d raise an eyebrow if he was any older than 19, but I guess we can make an exception for 20 or 21. A 10-year age gap is just TOO much. Was this in Europe or North America? At least in Europe, people are raised to be essentially be adults by the time they’re 16 (e.g., being allowed to drink, finishing compulsory education, etc). In North America? Hell nah.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/22 06:25 AM
1	If the age of consent was 14, do you think it's acceptable for an adult man to pursue 14-17 year old girls for dating and sex? How do you feel about traditional Muslim societies considering girls marriageable upon menarche? That’s just their culture, right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/22 06:23 AM
1	If the age of consent was 14, do you think it's acceptable for an adult man to pursue 14-17 year old girls for dating and sex? How old was he?!	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/22 06:22 AM
2	If the age of consent was 14, do you think it's acceptable for an adult man to pursue 14-17 year old girls for dating and sex? It’s wrong. I’d also say anything more than a 5-year age gap while under the age of 21 is bad (at which point people are definitely mature enough to consent to any age gap). That said, 18 is a solid age of consent as far as the law is concerned. I don’t see any reason to penalise people for having sex with 18-year-olds, even when there’re situations in which we frown on it. The focus should be on preventing exploitation, not adhering to rigid lines in the sand. Of course, certain boundaries have…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/22 06:22 AM
1	CMV: The average man's contribution to civilization exceeds the average woman's contribution by leaps and bounds. Will bear in mind.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/22 09:42 PM
1	It seems like a lot of people on here are so afraid of being fucked over that you’re missing out on the dating experience Hope things look up for you bro. I don’t wanna give you a false sense of optimism, but you probably know everything you need to if you browse a community like this one. You’ll know when to strike when the opportunity presents itself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/22 10:54 AM
1	CMV: The average man's contribution to civilization exceeds the average woman's contribution by leaps and bounds. TL;DR: You’re an illiterate fuck	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/22 10:52 AM
6	CMV: The average man's contribution to civilization exceeds the average woman's contribution by leaps and bounds. The average man is absolutely not capable of domestic duties as much as the average woman. Look at the average single man’s apartment and the average single woman’s apartment. They aren’t worlds apart, but the women are doing significantly better on this front. Now imagine that on a macro scale. Women have been complaining about their boyfriends’ “weaponised incompetence” as of late. Unlike a lot of buzzwords that have no salience, this one is actually true: It’s the manipulative tactic of delib…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/22 10:34 AM
4	CMV: The average man's contribution to civilization exceeds the average woman's contribution by leaps and bounds. You’re right; I let my emotions get the best of me. I just have a very low tolerance for stupidity. Forgive me. I never mentioned pregnancy or childbirth even once. Only that men and women tend to play different roles and people wouldn’t truly understand and appreciate the importance of the opposite sex unless they were forced to take on those roles. Most women would be screwed without men doing manual labor; most men would be screwed without women doing domestic work. I understand that’s reduct…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/22 09:18 AM
1	CMV: The average man's contribution to civilization exceeds the average woman's contribution by leaps and bounds. Okay bro, if getting back at an Internet stranger through a screen helps you sleep better at night, I’m happy to help!	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/22 06:31 AM
1	CMV: The average man's contribution to civilization exceeds the average woman's contribution by leaps and bounds. I’m not tryna change your view. I’m telling you you’re being a pussy-ass bitch.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/22 06:19 AM
1	Age gap relationships are generally shamed by bitter older women I read that part. I still maintain that the 5-year age gap maximum, from a moral perspective, should apply until both parties are 21. There are factors beyond cognitive development (namely life experience) that make a difference. I’d find it equally reprehensible if a 30-year-old woman had sex with a 18-year-old man. Let’s be consistent with ages here. Even though the 18-y/o female brain is on average more developed than its 18-y/o male counterpart, the environmental factors play a role. 18-y/o …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/22 05:42 AM
1	CMV: The average man's contribution to civilization exceeds the average woman's contribution by leaps and bounds. Men can’t live without women; women can’t live without men. The only reason to engage in these cringeworthy diatribes is a) in response to someone unabashedly hating on the opposite sex (like you are) or b) if they’re just bitter. Any time I see some dumb shit like this (e.g., women advocating for female separatism), my first thought is “These people need to get their wish and be forced to live in a single-sex society.” Regardless of whether it’s a society with only men or only women, it’ll coll…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/22 05:20 AM
1	Age gap relationships are generally shamed by bitter older women Almost 1000 comments and it hasn’t even been 24 hours. This, and the overdone debates on body count, are quintessential third rails on this subreddit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/22 05:15 AM
2	Age gap relationships are generally shamed by bitter older women You’re right about people misconstruing science but I’m laughing my ass off at you being a self-identified “libertarian” given the subject matter.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/22 05:14 AM
0	Age gap relationships are generally shamed by bitter older women Bruh. You were right until that last line. You’re fucking weird for that. Even OP clarified in an edit that this doesn’t apply to “teenage” legal adults. As a 21-year-old myself, I can say with utmost confidence the overwhelming majority of people do not become “adults” in a developmental sense until their early 20s. Nobody should be genuinely concerned about someone at least 21 dating someone 10, 20, even 50 years older than them. We absolutely should bat an eye at someone between 18 and 20 dat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/22 05:13 AM
1	Using a fictional example you can all relate to, let me show you the difference between perfectly alpha, way too beta, too alpha and slightly too beta to be attractive. It’s. A fine balance. I have never watched Star Wars (with the exception of Episode VII at a friend’s house 6 years ago, of which I remember nought). OP isn’t wrong that we all understand this fictional example, certainly if you’re American. Case in point: One of my best friends from high school is a HUGE fan of the franchise. I hold conversations with him about it with ease. I’ve known the guy for 9 years and he still has no idea. (This post is just weird though. Just don’t be a complete doormat or a complete douche…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/22 02:11 AM
2	Using a fictional example you can all relate to, let me show you the difference between perfectly alpha, way too beta, too alpha and slightly too beta to be attractive. It’s. A fine balance. Relevant. EVERYONE here, take notes!	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/22 02:06 AM
5	It seems like a lot of people on here are so afraid of being fucked over that you’re missing out on the dating experience Of course there’s always that risk, and you’re right that happy marriages are rare. I also won’t deny I sound arrogant as a young guy, and that sort of blind confidence can be disastrous. That said, I’ve had plenty of time to screen her for red flags and there haven’t been any yet. The only thing I’d change about her is being more in tune with her emotions. I’ve never had to deal with the things so many guys will put up with because “that’s just how girls are.” Hell, there’s no bigger green flag…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 02:51 PM
7	It seems like a lot of people on here are so afraid of being fucked over that you’re missing out on the dating experience Not even a “I hope it works out for you?” Aww, I’m so hurt. On the off-chance you’re right, I’ll be sure to stay awake at night about how u/business1996 was vindicated on Reddit that one time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 02:38 PM
1	It seems like a lot of people on here are so afraid of being fucked over that you’re missing out on the dating experience I’ve always been the one warning others about red flags. First they get mad at you for dissing their girl, then they regretfully admit you were right all along and that they should’ve listened to you earlier. I take no solace in being vindicated here; I’d rather be proven wrong for their sake. That’s why vetting is so important before you catch feelings. Red flags can pop up at any time, but if you can identify character traits that have to do not only with how good of a partner they are right n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 02:31 PM
1	Women have more to offer than men If it really is a troll account, it’s a damn good one at that. Poe’s Law.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 09:33 AM
1	Women have more to offer than men I had an aneurysm trying to read that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 08:50 AM
1	Q4W: If a random guy asked you to make onlyfans content with him how would you respond? When was the last time you talked to a woman who isn’t related to you? The overwhelming majority of even the most promiscuous women would never do sex work (though some will argue being bought meals/drinks is the same thing). That’s Option E. Even on platforms like OnlyFans, the top creators are women doing stuff on cam with their boyfriends/husbands. That’s Option D. Option B is straight-up studio pornography. Options A and C don’t happen on cam. That’s just hookup culture.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 08:49 AM
4	Thoughts on this tweet/vid? Only a moron would in their heart of hearts deny what’s really going on here. Most people will deny it publicly because it serves their interests in some way. Ladies and gentlemen, don’t settle for someone who isn’t giving you their best and doesn’t desire you wholeheartedly. That’s all one needs to know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 08:43 AM
0	Women have more to offer than men Look at her post history. She really is just bitter.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 08:29 AM
1	It seems like a lot of people on here are so afraid of being fucked over that you’re missing out on the dating experience 100%. Rose-tinted glasses are one hell of a drug. If you’re smart and surrounded by friends who have your best interests at heart, you’ll jump ship and won’t waste your time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 08:16 AM
3	It seems like a lot of people on here are so afraid of being fucked over that you’re missing out on the dating experience If you’re saying both the sex and romance were bad, then aren’t you reducing “dating” to just getting to know a ton of acquaintances? I’m a very social guy and can relate to “seeing how people really operate” being interesting, though I’ve never wanted to date anyone who wasn’t already a close friend. Until a certain point, my “dating” experiences had literally only been making friends with a girl, falling for her, straight-up telling her how I feel without asking her out, and then taking the L.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 07:56 AM
3	It seems like a lot of people on here are so afraid of being fucked over that you’re missing out on the dating experience I want to say that plenty of people find the love of their life after decades of bad experiences (which is true) and that you shouldn’t give up hope. It’s also really easy for me to say that as a relatively young guy who’s been extremely lucky to have found (who I’m almost certain is) the right person so early. So I won’t be condescending about it, on the contrary, I’ll readily sympathise with you. Hell, if things don’t work out with who I’m seeing now, there’s a good chance I’ll just throw myse…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 07:48 AM
1	It seems like a lot of people on here are so afraid of being fucked over that you’re missing out on the dating experience Let us know when you find your QT314 GF, even if you have to travel to Southeast Asia and find a girl who wants you for your Green Card. Safe travels 🤣🤡	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 07:35 AM
0	It seems like a lot of people on here are so afraid of being fucked over that you’re missing out on the dating experience You’re welcome to discard what I said about the nature of DV back in the day, if you’re also willing to discard what I readily acknowledge about DV today. Let me put it this way: How many Amber Heards were running around back in the 1950s? That Tweet you linked isn’t the fun little story everyone thinks it is; you’re right. For what it’s worth, I think women should have the self-respect to have a problem with running into a girl from her man’s past as well (though as we know, they tend to be les…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 07:24 AM
2	It seems like a lot of people on here are so afraid of being fucked over that you’re missing out on the dating experience That’ll never happen. It’s in our most primitive instincts to be promiscuous, hence why civilisations on succeeded when that was kept in check. The sexual liberation of the past 50 years or so has obviously caused its fair share of issues (though laws restricting bodily autonomy are not the answer). As much as we seek to reduce wanton sexual behavior (which should not be construed as giving men a free pass, or excoriating LGBT people), there’s only so much that can be done. Besides, you’re propp…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 07:16 AM
3	It seems like a lot of people on here are so afraid of being fucked over that you’re missing out on the dating experience It was LEGAL back then. You quoted what I said, did you not? Don’t be so disingenuous. I don’t have exact statistics, because DV was seriously underreported. I’d reckon a majority of women were treated in ways we’d count as DV today. Hell, a significant minority of relationships even today are plagued by DV. It’s just that unlike in the past when it was the stereotypical man beating his wife after coming home late from work smelling like alcohol and another woman’s perfume, nowadays DV is back-a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 07:11 AM
7	It seems like a lot of people on here are so afraid of being fucked over that you’re missing out on the dating experience It definitely sucked for different reasons. Women were beaten by their husbands and it was legal because she was his property. While this is far less egregious (and women have benefitted from sexual openness as well), men should be happy women are down for way more than just missionary for the sake of having children. Everything has its tradeoffs. No such thing as a free lunch.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 05:46 AM
2	Nothing makes a woman more wet than being powerful. Men do not care about power in women. This incentivizes men to do whatever it takes to become powerful Are you seriously reducing this argument to fucking influencers on social media? Go outside.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/22 10:19 AM
8	Nothing makes a woman more wet than being powerful. Men do not care about power in women. This incentivizes men to do whatever it takes to become powerful I’m not referring to people hating their politics. Do you honestly believe most Republican women would sleep with Trump, or Democratic women would sleep with Biden? The only prominent exception would be those in their age cohort. I do concede that’s a bad example though, because in this case power and status are essentially one and the same. Also, Obama and Clinton were incredibly charismatic middle-aged men during their presidencies (which definitely also helped them get elected). Either of tho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/22 07:34 AM
34	Nothing makes a woman more wet than being powerful. Men do not care about power in women. This incentivizes men to do whatever it takes to become powerful You’re confusing power with status. The head of an “unknown” punk rock band doesn’t have power. It’s the carefree lifestyle that’s attractive, as well as the general promiscuity in that subculture (go to any music festival). They have status in that space, which may or may not align with power. Joe Biden, by the virtue of leading the only hyperpower in human history, is inarguably the most powerful man in the world. How many women are lining up to sleep with him? And don’t tell me it’s about age…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/22 07:12 AM
1	Study: “Women who are regular exposed to semen are less depressed” That could be placebo, or the fact that sex is inherently intimate and bonds people. Anecdota also isn’t evidence. You may not necessarily be wrong, but the only way to test it scientifically is to isolate these compounds, administer them to a large sample of men, and observe their brain activity in the regions associated with emotional intimacy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/22 11:59 PM
1	Study: “Women who are regular exposed to semen are less depressed” I’m not invested one way or another. But you know not everyone is going to click the link, hence why your lack of specificity was misleading. That’s the same reason bad sourcing is also a problem. My only investment is in discourse on the Internet more broadly being rife with misinformation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/22 11:57 PM
2	Study: “Women who are regular exposed to semen are less depressed” Vaginal. The conclusion is that absorption through the genital membranes may have a positive effect on mood.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/22 11:52 PM
1	Study: “Women who are regular exposed to semen are less depressed” That’s one specific region of the brain; don’t mislead. And if you’re gonna talk about studies, link to the actual publication instead of a fucking tabloid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/22 06:29 PM
5	Study: “Women who are regular exposed to semen are less depressed” That means it has nothing to do with semen and everything to do with the closeness with your partner. She’s right; there’s only one way to test this experimentally. Good luck getting women to sign up for that one!	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/22 06:25 PM
6	Study: “Women who are regular exposed to semen are less depressed” That’s literally what they measured. Way too many of you don’t actually read posted links and pretend like you’re qualified to discuss.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/22 06:23 PM
5	Study: “Women who are regular exposed to semen are less depressed” All of the women in this study were sexually active. The difference was between whether or not they used condoms; the more likely correlative factor is whether or not they were in LTRs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/22 06:23 PM
2	Study: “Women who are regular exposed to semen are less depressed” bruh	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/22 06:21 PM
1	Study: “Women who are regular exposed to semen are less depressed” bruh	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/22 06:21 PM
-1	Study: “Women who are regular exposed to semen are less depressed” The inverse correlation between promiscuity and pair-bonding (in both men and women, albeit lesser in men), as well as the existence of gender-skewed dating markets, has long since been established in scientific literature across multiple studies. While causal links can’t be ascertained due to the ethics surrounding conducting experiments on this; quasi-experimental data from longitudinal studies indicates a link pretty damn close to full-on causality. Of course, people on here often misinterpre…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/22 06:20 PM
2	Study: “Women who are regular exposed to semen are less depressed” Both of you are wrong. Men can’t have sex as easily as women because women have much higher standards for men than vice versa. Her implication that women aren’t as sexual as men is also false; they might not enjoy it because their partners have no idea what they’re doing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/22 06:16 PM
1	Study: “Women who are regular exposed to semen are less depressed” n=300 is sufficient. Self-reporting doesn’t compromise the effectiveness of the study either; “do you use a condom or not?” is unlikely to elicit false responses. This absolutely does not establish a causal link though, since this isn’t experimental data. The obvious correlation is that women in LTRs are less likely to use condoms, and emotional intimacy increases happiness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/22 06:14 PM
1	A core issue with promiscuity and poligamy is that they are not sustainable. Conservatives having more kids is largely driven by religiosity, of which devout adherence comprises a fraction of the Right’s base. How many Mormons, Amish, Mennonites, Hasidim, etc. are there in total? The factors you mentioned surrounding single motherhood all play a role, and we need to take measures to counteract that for the sake of women and children. That said, there’s also no denying that children need both masculine and feminine role models. Ideally the counterpart to the mother is the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/22 06:02 PM
1	A core issue with promiscuity and poligamy is that they are not sustainable. Temporary tumults exist; this is about the broader trend. Biden is undoubtedly more liberal than Obama, Trumpism has been thoroughly discredited, and young people are voting in greater numbers as the elderly die out. On an international scope, populism has had a larger lasting impact, but there are few countries where it truly reversed the liberalising direction of their society: Poland, Hungary, the Phillipines, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/22 05:58 PM
1	A core issue with promiscuity and poligamy is that they are not sustainable. I don’t know your political inclinations, so I won’t theorise on that. What I will say is that this particular drivel sounds like a right-wing fantasy about conservative irredentism. If anything, technological agglomeration will only accelerate society’s liberal turn, hence why some on the Right advocate for a return to agrarian communalism à la the preindustrial era. Alexander Hamilton, the most prominent liberal among the Founding Fathers of the United States, was vehemently opposed to Thomas …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/22 05:56 PM
1	A core issue with promiscuity and poligamy is that they are not sustainable. Authoritarianism is fundamentally illiberal. If you consider liberals/progressives to view human rights and economic growth as deities, then by all means, call me a zealot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/22 05:39 PM
2	Do dark triad people (male and female) have a negative aspect in their lives? It doesn’t change the fact that they do it anyway. Even abusers (whether or not they have a personality disorder) reportedly feel guilty after hurting their partner/child, but do it anyway because it’s like an addiction. That said, remorse is the first step to reform. It’s important that we don’t stigmatise those who are trying to be better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/22 05:34 PM
1	A core issue with promiscuity and poligamy is that they are not sustainable. Of course there’ll be setbacks, but the general direction has been towards liberalism. The most obvious example is the consistent rise in the number of democratic as opposed to autocratic states.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/22 02:08 AM
2	Q4W: what type of money is more attractive for you in a partner? That’s good! I’ve always found the subject fascinating and was exceptional in school, but pursuing it in any substantive capacity becomes a lifelong endeavor and I have more compelling interests. I do wish I could’ve gone beyond what’s covered in lower-division undergraduate courses though. Let us know when you win the Fields Medal!	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/22 10:58 PM
1	Q4W: what type of money is more attractive for you in a partner? I’d be careful saying “no women.” Maybe 20% actually value fiscal responsibility, and that’s a sizable number. Obviously there’s levels to it though, and I wouldn’t fault anyone for not wanting to partner up with someone who is not just frugal but stingy. What most men don’t understand is that a hyperfeminine woman is not going to value stability the way they think. Hyperfemininity only means “tradwife” when society mandates it, otherwise they become gold diggers who have their cake and eat it t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/22 10:55 PM
3	Q4W: what type of money is more attractive for you in a partner? You can see archived posts/comments by replacing “reddit” with “unddit” in the URL. 1, and it’s not even close. $250k a year doesn’t mean much if you’re spending the majority of it on new cars, vacations, clothes, etc. https://www.newsweek.com/42-percent-us-earning-six-figures-live-paycheck-paycheck-survey-1680333?amp=1	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/22 10:45 PM
1	Q4W: what type of money is more attractive for you in a partner? By “everyone,” I meant “an overwhelming majority.” I should’ve been more specific. You have a fiscally responsible mindset to the extreme. It’s OK to relax a little, but as long as what you’re doing makes you happy, that’s what counts. The real problem is people splurging on unnecessary quantites as well as racking up little expenses they don’t need that add up. That sort of financial illiteracy is plaguing our society.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/22 10:44 PM
3	I was looking at the list of 48 Laws of power and realized it's just stuff that women do. It's basically 48 laws of how to act like a woman. True. Our society would unironically be better off if everyone was well-versed in Machiavellian principles. Nobody would be able to get away with dishonesty. In a society like ours where most people are naive and we’re taught to trust blindly (because people have it all backwards and think raising kids like that is what makes them good people), anyone none the wiser can be taken advantage of. Those who know how to manipulate others wield the power to do wrong, and not everyone is going to refrai…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/22 10:24 PM
1	Q4W: what type of money is more attractive for you in a partner? Kidding, of course. Pre-op trans women are still women and if you want to date one, it still doesn’t make you gay.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/22 10:19 PM
1	Q4W: what type of money is more attractive for you in a partner? 🤨	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/22 10:18 PM
1	Q4W: what type of money is more attractive for you in a partner? I’m 21. The answer to your question is “a lot of women my age.” I realise now what I said is informed by my own experiences; of course women would by around age 30 shift towards valuing stability. At age 20 though? Girls just wanna have fun! That becomes extra true when you notice that OP’s question never said you have to stick with that partner for life. I know a ton of people who’d readily admit “Date Option 2 until he crashes and burns, then marry Option 1 (and possibly divorce him).” We know…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/22 10:18 PM
29	A core issue with promiscuity and poligamy is that they are not sustainable. The future will not be conservative. We have only continually liberalised over time, whether from the Right (majority of history) or from the Left (communist states that collapsed). If you think conservative parents automatically means their children will adopt their politics, you’re incredibly naive. That doesn’t happen in practice now, and if anything, those kids feel more compelled to rebel. Also, conservatives aren’t necessarily having more kids. The cultural paradigm of delaying childbirth …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/22 10:10 PM
6	Do dark triad people (male and female) have a negative aspect in their lives? This is it. It’s also not impossible to exhibit both dark triad traits and their “light triad” complements. Use the former to protect yourself; indulge in the latter around those you can trust.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/22 10:04 PM
5	Do dark triad people (male and female) have a negative aspect in their lives? They don’t really care about establishing any sort of connection though. They’ll extract as much as they can from someone before spitting them out, rinse and repeat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/22 10:03 PM
3	Do dark triad people (male and female) have a negative aspect in their lives? There’s a difference between being a bully/asshole and a full-blown psychopath. The former can still experience emotional depth that complements their life (even if they hurt almost everyone else), whereas the latter doesn’t have that at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/22 10:02 PM
5	Do dark triad people (male and female) have a negative aspect in their lives? When interviewed, they openly admit their lives feel empty due to their lack of emotional affect. The only sensation they can feel is the fleeting rush from manipulating others, which gets more boring over time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/22 10:01 PM
2	Do dark triad people (male and female) have a negative aspect in their lives? The complement to the dark triad is the light triad: humility as opposed to narcissism, transparency as opposed to Machiavellianism, empathy as opposed to psychopathy. Very few people are exclusively dark triad. Even fewer exhibit both dark and light triad traits strongly whenever necessary. Most people are born innocent and naive, adopting dark triad traits over time as their life experiences teach them to be on guard to protect themselves. I’ve been fortunate enough to mature rather quickly to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/22 10:00 PM
-1	Q4W: what type of money is more attractive for you in a partner? Calling it now: Most women will say Option 1 but go for Option 2 IRL. This isn’t an attack on women exclusively; it’s a reflection of human behavior more generally in a consumerist society. Everyone says they want to be fiscally responsible but can’t resist material spending. That said, under the parameters of the question posed, Option 2 might actually be better. If you say “they can” afford to spend frivolously, that doesn’t necessarily imply they’ll crash and burn because of debt. It’s risky …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/22 09:35 PM
8	I was looking at the list of 48 Laws of power and realized it's just stuff that women do. It's basically 48 laws of how to act like a woman. No, it’s not just women who do this. Anyone who’s ever read The 48 Laws of Power knows it’s descriptive of those aspects of human nature people like to pretend don’t exist because it helps them conceal their own power. It was literally inspired by the social dynamics of medieval noble courts, which were exclusively comprised of men. Besides, Machiavellianism is hot. Two Machiavellians can never manipulate eachother, so it’s actually beneficial for both to just be honest and transparent. They bot…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/22 08:58 PM
0	Q4ALL: Why do you only attack one sex? I answered your question already. People specifically attack one sex because they conflate any sort of skew with a false dichotomy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/22 04:11 AM
0	Q4ALL: Why do you only attack one sex? Because it explains why people go off on women for it; this is relevant information. It’s riskier for a man to LTR a promiscuous woman than vice versa. If a female friend told me she’s dating a guy who’s been around the block, I’d warn her to be cautious for infidelity but if he’s willing to commit to her, then it’s probably OK. Whereas if a male friend told me the same about a girl he’s dating, every man around him with a brain would advise him to run for the hills. I wonder if you keep this sa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/22 07:06 PM
-1	Q4ALL: Why do you only attack one sex? The effect is present in both sexes, but less pronounced in men. It has everything to do with oxytocin; women release more of it during sex. This is because the role of oxytocin in men is largely vestigial, whereas women need it to induce uterine contractions during labor and successfully bond with their children. Experiencing that oxytocin rush with too many partners blunts one’s ability to pair-bond with a life partner. For the record, I vehemently oppose hookup culture and have a strict prefe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/22 04:35 PM
3	Q4ALL: Why do you only attack one sex? Traits aren’t exclusive to either sex, but sexual dimorphism is real. Male/female is the fundamental distinction among human beings, and there’s been selective pressure for millions of years for males and females to embody different traits in accordance with what’s most conducive to their reproductive interests. This is largely due to differences sex-hormonal profiles, though differences in neurology also exist. (Side note: This is why transgender identity is valid. The male and female brain are…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/22 04:29 PM
3	Q4ALL: Why do you only attack one sex? Exactly. Not to mention, the question is geared towards people who think they’re promoting a harsh reality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/22 04:13 PM
1	Which celebrity embodies you physical "type"? I can’t name any celebrities. Also, I don’t really pay attention to a woman’s body anywhere near as much as her face. Furthermore, the importance of appearance is to me quite limited. I’ll just list off my expectations: – healthy weight (models tend to be underweight, but being overweight is also unacceptable) – no weird hair colors – subtle tattoos/piercings at most That’s really it. I’ll say I do have a preference for women shorter than me (I’m 5’7”), but it’s not particularly important. Her a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/22 02:47 PM
1	Which celebrity embodies you physical "type"? Anya Taylor-Joy scares the hell outta me. Uncanny valley type shit. Don’t get me wrong; I’m not saying that’s a bad thing. She’s obviously attractive and a great actress. But the roles she takes on are somewhat typecast by her femme fatale appearance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/22 02:40 PM
3	Which celebrity embodies you physical "type"? This the one	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/22 02:38 PM
2	Online Dating's Significance Has Been Somewhat Overstated I’m in the same boat. All of my friends IRL are male, and virtually all of my female friends online are lesbian and/or trans. (I have plenty of female acquaintances I’m on friendly terms with, but friendship itself is a very high bar.) I’d imagine social networks are as diverse as the number of people in these friend groups that are in relationships. Furthermore, a social network isn’t necessarily just comprised of friendships. My network includes a good number of women, even though we’re not es…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/22 02:37 PM
1	Online Dating's Significance Has Been Somewhat Overstated Gotcha. Long post, so I didn’t catch the disaggregation by location. I agree that pornography is an epidemic we aren’t taking seriously enough. That said, the effects tend to be more on relationships; men who expect their partners to meet unreasonable standards of appearance tend to take whoever they can get initially before imposing their expectations on their unwitting partner. I was correct to assert that male bitterness and toxicity from online discourse is how OLD affects dating IRL for the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/22 02:30 PM
3	How many here are still virgins in their 20s? What is your reason for that? I implied time/emotions for the right things and people. Good mindset.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/22 02:14 PM
3	Online Dating's Significance Has Been Somewhat Overstated The biggest counterargument comes from within the data you cite. The significance of OLD is only increasing over time as Zoomers take over the dating market. Let’s focus on the demographic most significant to the discourse on this subreddit: ages 18–25 in urban areas and their immediate suburbs. None of the data you cite disaggregates as such. If it were to, I’m confident the numbers would undermine your position. It appears as though unless you’re fortunate enough to meet someone through school…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/22 05:37 AM
3	Online Dating's Significance Has Been Somewhat Overstated Yep. The only difference is that you actually have a chance to get to know them a bit first and can get your foot in the door without having to be preselected by the other person. Social media is what dating apps pretend to be; it’s all under the aegis of online dating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/22 05:25 AM
3	How many here are still virgins in their 20s? What is your reason for that? Good on you for staying true to yourself and reserving your time and emotions wisely. I’m sure it’ll pay off!	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/22 04:24 AM
3	How many here are still virgins in their 20s? What is your reason for that? I respect your positive attitude. Hope things look up for you; your efforts will pay off! Just make sure you choose the right person and don’t get taken advantage of.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/22 04:20 AM
3	Natural Sperm Donors: Men who donate sperm the natural way, free of charge The fact that they’re mostly from foreign countries probably benefits him tremendously. Most of the horror stories we hear about sperm donors being on the hook for child support are from the United States, which has a federal court system and a notoriously litigious culture.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/22 01:55 AM
1	Natural Sperm Donors: Men who donate sperm the natural way, free of charge The problem isn’t that the father “wants casual sex.” He specifically said he “wouldn’t choose most of these women as sex partners” if not for the fact that he makes money donating sperm (and he only chooses to do it “naturally” because he donated too much to sperm banks). I agree that it’s bad for the child to be born in a household where the father is absent and the mother can barely make ends meet. Single motherhood is the #1 predictor for various negative qualify-of-life outcomes, including …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/22 01:54 AM
5	Do you think that male “pick me’s” (aka simps & white knights) on the Internet have caused dating to be much more difficult than it otherwise would be? It’s Thailand. The girls you’re talking about have dicks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/22 12:18 AM
8	Do you think that male “pick me’s” (aka simps & white knights) on the Internet have caused dating to be much more difficult than it otherwise would be? It goes both ways. Women willing to have casual sex made dating harder for women who detest hookup culture and want long-term relationships. Men willing to indulge women’s requests for provision (including paying for their meals) made dating harder for men who reserve it until after the relationship has been established.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/22 12:17 AM
1	Who would you rather be with? I’d rather be with someone who isn’t sexually attracted to me and strike a deal with her: open the relationship, except she has to help me sleep with attractive women. We all know coupled men get hit on far more often than single men, due to the social proof from preselection. Might as well take advantage of it!	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/22 09:30 PM
3	Relationship with the " Bad boy " is labeled as toxic only cause the woman invest more in the relationship He’s obviously not referring to 20-y/o women; don’t be disingenuous. He’s referring to women in their late 20s and early 30s who want to settle down because their biological clocks are running out. Secondly, it’s not about being “defiled and sullied.” Very few men care if their girlfriends were in long-term relationships before them. The problem arises when women who wouldn’t have given their husbands the time of day when they were young and sleeping around settle because the men they desire mos…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/22 05:01 PM
4	Relationship with the " Bad boy " is labeled as toxic only cause the woman invest more in the relationship It’s the prime example of Red Pill being vindicated. I say this as someone who isn’t even a red-piller.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/22 04:55 PM
0	"Having sex in order to see whether there's compatibility" is sort of like "Eating in order to see whether you're hungry" - It's reverse order and pathological And people can’t have mature conversations about these things before just jumping into bed with someone? Not to mention that anyone with a modicum of intelligence can generally surmise how one tends to be in bed (namely dominant vs submissive, but this holds true for a number of other relevant traits). Specific fetishes are a whole ‘nother can of worms, but broadly speaking, you can guess what someone’s into with a reasonable amount of confidence. People tend to gravitate towards personalities t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/22 12:35 PM
1	Why do people call natural bodies fake Notice how you said “pro bodybuilders.” Genetics plays a huge role at the highest echelon of weightlifting. For the overwhelming majority of people, genetics is hardly a limiting factor in developing an aesthetic body. Steroids can be used by anyone, but again, are most common in niche pro bodybuilding circles. “Better than average” may not have been the right terminology, given that average in America = overweight (70% of Americans are overweight/obese). What I’m referring to specifically are m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/22 12:33 PM
3	"Having sex in order to see whether there's compatibility" is sort of like "Eating in order to see whether you're hungry" - It's reverse order and pathological I agree with you, with one major caveat: You’re not attacking the crux of their argument. They’re referring specifically to sexual compatibility (i.e., if they’re “good in bed”). There’s a lot that goes into it which can be assessed without getting anywhere close to sleeping with someone (e.g., attentiveness, communication, energy, etc.), but people don’t think that way. The fastest way to determine this is by “taking them for a test drive,” as much as I think people are better served by getting…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/22 11:03 AM
1	Do you enjoy being friends with someone of the opposite sex? All of my close female friends are lesbian or trans and I met them online. That’s the only way to prevent anyone getting the wrong idea. Also, straight women can be really annoying in ways that their LGBT counterparts aren’t (e.g., LGBT women will readily call out straight women for misandry, because they know best that women can be bad people too). It’d be nice to have the unique perspective female friends provide, but it’s also not practical. I don’t even hug women anymore (as opposed to shaki…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/22 06:44 AM
2	Why do people call natural bodies fake It makes an impact, but any man can attain a physique far superior to the average (even if he has to work harder). The limitations come up at a point far beyond what most men are at right now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/22 06:38 AM
0	Why do people call natural bodies fake If you look good, you’re probably healthy. There’s a reason we find healthy people attractive. That said, I’m talking about women who’ve overcome obesity, as well as women who go really hard in the gym (athletes). There’s definitely jealousy between men, but they don’t lie about it being anything other than a function of perserverance. They’re jealous BECAUSE another man worked harder for what they want, not because they’re under any delusion that he was born muscular. That was your question, ri…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/22 06:37 AM
1	Why do people call natural bodies fake The equivalent for men is guys with money and status. They pretend every man with wealth is a trust fund baby and get jealous of those who clawed their way up the ladder. Crabs in a bucket.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/22 05:21 AM
0	Why do people call natural bodies fake People are just jealous. And by people, I mean women. Men know that a man who is buff worked hard for it, and any effect genetics has is negligible. Women make excuses all the time for their weight, and they enable eachother’s delusions because it makes them feel better about themselves. Women who actually put in effort to take care of themselves, as well as those who actually have impairments they can’t control (e.g., amputation), are FURIOUS about this “body positivity” bullshit. We need to am…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/22 05:18 AM
7	Women: Can you expand on or give examples of men not "getting it"? True! It’s unironically most pervasive among Indian women in the United States, to the point where our own mothers are pissed about it. I thank my lucky stars my family’s been Catholic for generations; lack of religious compatibility means I have to date outside of my race and get to avoid all of the cringeworthy gender politics. Most of the drivel from everyone else is Terminally Online. I’ve never really felt disadvantaged in dating due to my ethnic background. A lot of that is probably attrib…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/22 03:37 AM
5	Women: Can you expand on or give examples of men not "getting it"? That’s different and you know it. If you’re already in a relationship with a guy, particularly if you chose him while you’re in your prime, the negative connotation obviously doesn’t apply. When most women say it, it’s because they see the man as a good provider. They might also find him sexually attractiveness, but nothing in that phrase implies it from a woman who isn’t already dating that man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/22 02:56 AM
12	Women: Can you expand on or give examples of men not "getting it"? Seconded. Crime statistics shouldn’t inform how people judge individuals. But if we’re going down that route, my demographic (Indian) commits the LEAST crime in the United States. But because I’m dark-skinned and a handful of men in India commit the most violent rapes in the world, I’m seen as a threat. I’m sympathetic to women who feel fearful because people can’t control gut instincts, and the risk of being complacent is far too high. But I’m also apathetic insofar as it’s not my problem; I’m …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/22 02:04 AM
6	It feels like women are actively avoiding spaces where it's socially acceptable to approach them. In practice, people are just trying to impress eachother in these environments instead of fomenting authentic connection. The content of the conversation isn’t as relevant as the intent behind it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/22 02:36 PM
4	It feels like women are actively avoiding spaces where it's socially acceptable to approach them. I’m talking specifically about hookup culture. My position on casual sex is similar to that on prostitution—people should be free to engage in it without judgment, but it becomes a problem when it’s too prevalent in society. It’s not productive nor fair to demonise individuals. I think it is worthwhile, however, to have honest conversations about how very few people actually enjoy it in practice. That said, you’re right about mutual friends and social events being the best way to meet people for…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/22 02:31 PM
7	Girl posts me vs the girl he cheated with and it backfired on her, people (largely men) defend the bf cheating “Fault” implies moral responsibility. No one said anything about anyone being culpable. It’s a descriptive statement, not normative. It absolutely is an overreaction. Just as “man-hating feminism” is an overreaction to a handful of misogynistic men. Acknowledging that these cycles exist isn’t about casting blame on anyone in particular.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/22 08:12 AM
8	Girl posts me vs the girl he cheated with and it backfired on her, people (largely men) defend the bf cheating She’s talking specifically about dragging people’s appearance through the mud for no damn reason. Nobody is honest about how someone looks; they say what they want based on the reaction they want to elicit. However, women will generally call a man attractive or ugly based on what they think of his personality, depending on whether they want him to feel good or bad about himself. Men will just say whatever the hell they want if they think other men will hype them up for it. Hence, men’s comments …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/22 08:09 AM
-1	Girl posts me vs the girl he cheated with and it backfired on her, people (largely men) defend the bf cheating Don’t be disingenuous. The “women are wonderful” effect clearly refers to the fact that any woman can find someone to love her unconditionally, while most men will struggle to find love that isn’t overtly conditional. It never meant that every man will love every woman unconditionally. Interpreting it as such almost comes off as entitled.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/22 07:54 AM
0	Straight male opinion: Men are better looking than women I’d contend there’s more variation in women’s appearances, whereas men are more likely to fall within an average. There are more attractive women than attractive men, but also more unattractive women than unattractive men. What you’re pointing out is the fact that unattractive women have options to enhance their looks that unattractive men don’t. Technically speaking, neither men nor women are better looking if you compare averages. But if you define “better-looking” as how many especially good-…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/22 07:47 AM
16	It feels like women are actively avoiding spaces where it's socially acceptable to approach them. True. At the very least, through pursuing a common interest/hobby. There has to be something that actually connects you to eachother.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/22 07:42 AM
37	It feels like women are actively avoiding spaces where it's socially acceptable to approach them. Women aren’t actively avoiding these spaces. To suggest that’s the case is to fundamentally misunderstand why men and women would frequent these locations to begin with. Generally speaking, women would come in groups specifically to spend time with their friends. They’d be open to going home with a man, but rarely would they go out for that explicit purpose. On the flipside, men would almost always show up specifically because that’s where the women were, even when showing up with a group of fri…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/22 07:41 AM
3	What can South Korean Population collapse tell us about the future of gender and dating in the West? As per the exact numbers, it looks like the fertility rate was at replacement in 1965 when Ceausescu took office, and did not fall back to replacement until when he was deposed in 1989. What have the lasting effects been? I’m aware this exacerbated the issue of poverty during the Communist era, as it to be expected with a sudden spike in the population of dependents. That said, has the 25-year period of high fertility had any positive impacts, or was it all for nought?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/22 09:02 AM
11	What can South Korean Population collapse tell us about the future of gender and dating in the West? Banning contraceptives/abortion doesn’t even work. Romania tried that in 1967 (Nicolae Ceausescu’s Decree 770). If you look up a graph of Romania’s historical fertilty rates, there’s a spike around 1970 followed by a plummet as people easily found ways to circumvent the ban. It’s not good to have birth rates below replacement either. Labor is a key economic input directly tied to population. Immigration helps, but it doesn’t resolve all the issues wrought by a population that refuses to have eno…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/22 07:29 AM
1	Bumble doesn't work because women HAVE to message first and they still WANT traditional gender roles It’s interesting that you’re comparing Bumble to Hinge, which has perhaps the best reputation of swipe-based dating apps. I’ve never used them since I think there are better ways to meet women, but I’ve talked to enough male and female friends to have a strong, nuanced perspective. You hit the nail on the head with Bumble. Even when women message first, it’s usually “hi” expecting the man to carry the conversation first. That’s because it ultimately comes down to numbers, and women have far more…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/22 06:22 PM
1	Would you call yourself a "feminist"? What are your thoughts on trans women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/22 02:41 AM
2	Women often complain about lack of male friendships and getting "fuckzoned". But the truth is, women generally just aren't as good of friends as men. You’re not wrong about men being less expressive in our own friendships and how we talk more about things going on in the world as opposed to us as individuals. u/dbreveard hit the nail on the head though—we value our privacy more than women do and will rarely share specifics (e.g., think about how many women share intimate details about their sex lives, compared to men who do the same). That said, I was specifically referring to cross-sex friendships. With rare exceptions (e.g., childhood frien…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/22 06:32 PM
4	CMV: The idea that women "share" the most desirable men is perfectly plausible She’s obviously talking about women being more content being single than men are. That checks out, especially when you consider how men are far less close to eachother than women are. That’s on us to form fulfilling friendships that fill the void for human connection until we find someone worth dating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/22 11:44 AM
18	Women often complain about lack of male friendships and getting "fuckzoned". But the truth is, women generally just aren't as good of friends as men. Yeah, this post really just stated the obvious: Men and women (usually) can’t be “just friends.” He wrote all of that just to complain about how women aren’t good friends to MEN. I say this as as a man who is on friendly terms with a lot of women, but only consider them acquaintances because “friendship” requires a higher standard. Specifically, there’s a degree of vulnerability and emotional intimacy I’m not willing to engage in if I’m not dating someone. That doesn’t make women bad friends; it…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/22 11:37 AM
2	How do you think the dating game would change if body count was public information? Dating wouldn’t change much. The men who care already know how to sus a woman’s sexual history out (both from how she carries herself and from what others say), whereas the ones who don’t know wouldn’t care either way. However, infidelity among women would plummet. Also, women with lows or zeroes would be especially sought out for marriage and leverage that accordingly; women with high numbers would be hounded for hookups will also facing more misogynistic attacks from random people (men and wom…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/22 09:12 AM