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| 1 | What according to you is the real issue why so many men can't get dates/sex in this modern eraby that logic, a over weight balding broke fat guy is on the same level as a rich 6 foot ripped dude. It’s only subjective if you want to feel better about yourself. That was your first reply to my simple one liner: Levels are subjective. So tell me, are you not talking about outliers and extremes there first to basically say that anti-thesis of what I was saying I.E. that levels are objective? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 02:56 AM |
| 1 | What according to you is the real issue why so many men can't get dates/sex in this modern eraOne assumes having a female in his profile photo as female. Typical. I’m a 36 y.o. cis-gendered heterosexual male. I guess that you like making assumptions that suit your narrative. That’s a confirmation bias. You my friend, are pulling out outliers to justify your ‘levels are objective’ argument. And you are totally debasing my argument by saying something is objective, when it’s not. That is the root argument. Who is OP to ‘assume’ that he is on a higher level than his date? That’s an overly n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 02:53 AM |
| 0 | How the internet destroyed datingJust some good ol’ natural selection at play. We don’t have to deal with lions, tigers and bears these days. Or famine and war (depending on where you live). Instead it’s everything you mentioned above that needs to be overcome. Ultimately, it’s a new adversity that needs to be understood and mastered if you want to successfully carry on your genome this day and age. Adapt or die. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 01:57 AM |
| 1 | What according to you is the real issue why so many men can't get dates/sex in this modern eraWell, we’re working on hypotheticals here. OP could be totally delusional as well. But, to entertain that notion, if we did get a bunch of people together and have them collectively say that he’s out of her league and she was completely not interested, it just goes to show that it’s 100% subjective, because ultimately dating and courting isn’t a zero sum game. And that resulted in OP thinking he was ‘hot shit’, being put in his place by the universe, by showing him that this girl he was dating, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 01:41 AM |
| 1 | What according to you is the real issue why so many men can't get dates/sex in this modern eraLooks aren’t subjective. I think you need to google ‘subjective’. Looks are 100% subjective. I get there’s objective features that define an ‘aesthetic’ face, I.E. cephalometric norms. Nice smile etc. But the old adage ‘beauty is in the eye of the beholder’ is one you should add to your repertoire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 01:28 AM |
| 1 | What according to you is the real issue why so many men can't get dates/sex in this modern era*My argument totally flying over your head because it’s too far down the ‘victim hole’. 🕳️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 01:19 AM |
| 1 | What according to you is the real issue why so many men can't get dates/sex in this modern eraHonestly, I’m not sure if you guys are aware that you’re providing straw man logical fallacies into this debate. I did not say that there are and aren’t desirable traits. I did not say that there’s no concept of levels. Obviously there’s ways to stack the odds in your favour and increase your chances. Most of which, individuals are too lazy to work on improving I might add… I said that levels in dating and courtship are subjective, not objective. If you guys want to understand what I’m trying to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 01:16 AM |
| 1 | What according to you is the real issue why so many men can't get dates/sex in this modern eraMmmm, you’re using extremes to justify that ‘levels’ are objective. But using extremes just proves that it’s not objective. Because there’s a spectrum for body composition. A spectrum for wealth. A spectrum for all of these things. And on-top of that, different people value different things and have different perception of these spectrums…Your version of skinny, might be anorexic or still too soft for someone else. So, you end up with a totally FUBAR map per se of what attracts who to who. It’s … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 01:07 AM |
| 1 | What according to you is the real issue why so many men can't get dates/sex in this modern eraExactly. So it’s not black and white is it? Therefor it’s not objective. Obviously there’s a a winning formula generally, but we’re talking about human beings here. Not fucking robots. Pun intended. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 12:54 AM |
| 1 | What according to you is the real issue why so many men can't get dates/sex in this modern eraIt was a hypothetical to illustrate that your concept of ‘levels’ is flawed on so many levels and you really need to adopt a more diverse and fluid understanding of ‘value proposition’ when courting. Your red pill mentality isn’t doing you any favours. For your own benefit. I’m not surprised you didn’t fuck. Nor did you progress past the first date. Females are far more intuitive than males. She probably vibed your pompous bullshit instantly and you were completely oblivious to that. Sounds like… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 12:52 AM |
| 2 | What according to you is the real issue why so many men can't get dates/sex in this modern eraPlease don’t think that this is indicative of how all males think. I’ve called him out on his narcissism. Nice to see a female pulling him up on his binary and self centred perspective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 12:45 AM |
| 1 | What according to you is the real issue why so many men can't get dates/sex in this modern eraYes. Obviously weight, height and what not are objective measures. That’s the not the argument. The argument is that ‘levels’ are subjective. Not all people want a rich partner. Not all people want a skinny or fat partner. Or a tall or short partner. So how can you say that I’m on a ‘higher level’ than someone else? Just because you value an objective metric like financial position, or height, doesn’t mean the person you’re seeing does. So for one to say I’m on a ‘higher level’ than the person I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 12:41 AM |
| 3 | What according to you is the real issue why so many men can't get dates/sex in this modern eraAnd I mean, honestly… Do you think she was perceiving you as ‘better than her’ and on a ‘higher’ level than her, and therefor she should’ve been acting like an obsessed fan girl? Maybe you were a bad fuck? And therefor, regardless of all the things that made you think you were a ‘catch’ for them. Those seemingly ‘objective’ XP boosts, evaporated into thin fucking air. Just you in your own little world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/24 09:11 PM |
| 1 | What according to you is the real issue why so many men can't get dates/sex in this modern eraAn* Yet we live in a world where some men prefer BBW’s? I’ve rated girl on a night out a 10, and a mate would rate them a 6. So, attractiveness and value is obviously subjective. If you want to go straight to a binary approach, or to end range extremes in order to say that ‘levels’ when applied to courting is not subjective, then you my friend, are a lost cause. And it is you yourself, who is trying to make yourself feel better by constructing some linear model for who should be dating who. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/24 09:03 PM |
| 1 | What according to you is the real issue why so many men can't get dates/sex in this modern eraPlease, extrapolate how you perceiving female partners as ‘less than you’ as not subjective. This should be entertaining. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/24 08:57 PM |
| 1 | What according to you is the real issue why so many men can't get dates/sex in this modern eraSo cringe. 🫠 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/24 05:16 PM |
| 1 | What according to you is the real issue why so many men can't get dates/sex in this modern eraI think it’s important to have sub-categories of single. I.E. Single and looking for a ‘long-term’ partner (actively dating), or say Single and not looking for a long-term partner. Being single can be a lifestyle decision. Obviously. So, that’s kind of a vague metric to be looking at to ascertain what’s going on in the courting landscape? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/24 04:51 PM |
| 1 | What according to you is the real issue why so many men can't get dates/sex in this modern era‘Level’ is subjective. Get over yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/24 04:48 PM |
| 5 | What according to you is the real issue why so many men can't get dates/sex in this modern era‘Ran through’. ‘Low body count’. Really bro…C’mon man. Grow up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/24 04:46 PM |
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