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Inner Game DistinctClass4042/r/seduction12/05/26 03:24 PM
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Inner Game DistinctClass4042/r/seduction31/07/26 12:44 PM
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ConversationDistinctClass4042/r/seduction10/03/26 09:02 AM
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Inner Game DistinctClass4042/r/seduction02/06/26 04:26 PM
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Inner Game DistinctClass4042/r/seduction21/05/26 03:15 PM
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Inner Game DistinctClass4042/r/seduction11/08/26 07:24 PM
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Field ReportDistinctClass4042/r/seduction27/04/26 11:00 AM
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Fundamentals DistinctClass4042/r/seduction18/08/26 02:38 PM
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Inner Game DistinctClass4042/r/seduction02/06/26 11:04 PM
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ok so when I approach with the goal to get rejected (and I guess to get desensitized to rejection), what am I supposed to say? How do I approach when almost no woman is even looking at me.
/r/seduction19/08/26 08:17 PM
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i cant just go up to strangers and ask them on a date? I need to introduce myself etc right? I need to start small I guess. I need to start doing something now. My goal is finding a woman who just wants to go for a coffee and looking for a hookup and not a serious relationship.
/r/seduction19/08/26 02:11 PM
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what is the solution to this self esteem/ distorted view problem then? instead of just critizing me
/r/seduction19/08/26 02:09 PM
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what are you talking about what self esteem issues and what distorted view? please elaborate
/r/seduction19/08/26 12:26 PM
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I am not approaching in Sweden, no. Especially stockholm. I have lived in the south of sweden and there ut is a different story. I have talked to new women there when sitting on a bench or just women in my neighbourhood etc. nothing happened though I got ignored in the end. So anyway. how do I start (cold) approaching? And yes my "friends" and relatives approach and flirt with women more and so on. they also have more friends to go out with which makes it easier for them to go out in the weekend…
/r/seduction19/08/26 12:04 PM
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My worth is not only tied to women. Its just that life feels incomplete and meaningless without meaningful connections and female companionship. Seeing other men have female companionship easily and having many female friends and girlfriends and even being so abundant with women that they can even cheat on their girlfriends, whilst I can barely get a hello greeting from a woman, all of this makes me very frustrated. For me its more the insecurity that no hot woman ever has liked me in a romantic…
/r/seduction18/08/26 09:50 PM
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Well the most success I've had interacting with women has been through "warm approach" meaning situations where somehow the girl gives me choosing signals or sits close to me and we start talking naturally then we have friendly interaction. but even if I get the social media or nr or what ever in the end they ghost me. thats why I was thinking about showing my intent from the get go and have a "man-to woman" type of dynamic/tone from the start and not "friend-to-friend".
/r/seduction18/08/26 09:24 PM
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I was writing about Sweden where I live and where i am born and not denmark. Danish women are a lot different even if its both scandinavia. denmark is not as messed up due to the feminism which has fucked up sweden with their misandrist beliefs
/r/seduction18/08/26 07:01 PM
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Of course its best to experience sex without condom within a committed serious relationship and not a one night stand. But still I cant stop wondering how amazing it will be to experience that raw feeling. Why I call myself a loser is not only for the fact I dont have a girlfriend. Its also about the fact that why am I unable to get a girlfriend? If I cant get a girlfriend, it means something is wrong with me. Evolutionary, if a man could not attract a woman, it would mean his genes would not be…
/r/seduction18/08/26 06:43 PM
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Both. and why are my goals messed up? I am not approaching because I rarely if ever get choosing signals, and I have immigrant ethnic background so I feel even more paranoid to approach and to get ridiculed by some crazy woman with man hating feminist beliefs. I am scared that the women I approach will give me a weird reaction or treat me as if I am weird or something.
/r/seduction18/08/26 05:11 PM
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what do you mean poor mindset? please tell me how i should start approaching?
/r/seduction18/08/26 03:53 PM
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tänker inte outa mig men föräldrar från utanför europa iaf. vadårå?
/r/seduction12/08/26 07:02 PM
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not a bit more feministic its a looot more feministic. everyone says hookups are easy in scandinavia but I have never been with a woman in Scandinavia despite being born in Sweden. Matter of fact I have only gotten lucky in central europe, where hookups/casual sex apparently are less common. How strange is that
/r/seduction12/08/26 01:14 PM
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Sweden is fucking shit. I am born and raised in Sweden. I have never been with a woman in Sweden. Never had a girlfriend. I have only fucked women in central europe, because those other countries are not as ruined by bullshit ideologies and that no one talks to one another like Sweden. I've heard Norway is quite similar to Sweden but I have never actually visited Norway. Denmark is the best scandinavian country. I have been to Denmark a lot and its an amazing country. Danish women are more down …
/r/seduction12/08/26 01:10 PM
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how the fuuck is stochkolm good for cold approaches? no one talks to strangers here
/r/seduction12/08/26 01:05 PM
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care to explain? skill issue how?
/r/seduction12/08/26 01:04 PM
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why do you think I need therapy and what makes you think I am full of entitlement and all the other stuff you wrote?
/r/seduction12/08/26 01:04 PM
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How do I give the bad circumstances in my lige control? My frustration is valid. how is my attitude destroying my life? what do you mean that i have to make something of myself and accept the tasks ahead?
/r/seduction12/08/26 01:03 PM
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I rarely if ever cold approach in Sweden. I have only talked to women in Sweden through warm approach. Sweden is super feministic and this has made me paranoid to even talk to swedish women without them giving me a lot of eye contact or other signals first.
/r/seduction12/08/26 01:00 PM
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around 1.85m or 6ft tall
/r/seduction12/08/26 07:41 AM
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how will things better? how do you feel my hurt?
/r/seduction11/08/26 10:21 PM
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stockholm is the biggest antisocial shithole. Malmö the best city in Sweden
/r/seduction11/08/26 09:31 PM
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they are open for chad and tyrone but not for a handsome, tall, nice guy like me
/r/seduction11/08/26 09:31 PM
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about your last sentence in your comment: i have traveled to other countries and I have only gotten laid in central europan countries, outside Sweden. Stockholm is the biggest shithole in all of Sweden regarding Sweden and Sweden in general is shit for getting a girlfriend/meeting women in general.
/r/seduction11/08/26 09:30 PM
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exactly
/r/seduction11/08/26 09:23 PM
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I eventually will but until then i want to change my situation in my own country where i live right now
/r/seduction31/07/26 01:40 PM
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lol I have female friends, even gone on instant dates with women I met through warm approach. its just none of them want me romantically. you know nothing about me and stop insulting me and my character
/r/seduction27/06/26 11:08 AM
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so how the fuck do I approach without choosing signals in a feminist country like Sweden?
/r/seduction26/06/26 09:35 PM
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only when getting super clear choosing signals, via warm approach. which is rare. i dont wanna approach in feminist sweden
/r/seduction26/06/26 09:04 PM
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they only approach chad and tyrone
/r/seduction26/06/26 09:04 PM
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what kind of problems do people have lol. i cant even find one woman in sweden... fuck this kind of life, only misery
/r/seduction26/06/26 05:30 PM
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they are super feminist
/r/seduction25/06/26 09:18 PM
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I cant even get one woman at all let alone a 4 or 5... sad reality of living in Sweden
/r/seduction25/06/26 06:55 PM
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Sweden
/r/seduction06/06/26 09:20 PM
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?
/r/seduction06/06/26 02:36 PM
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Ok I want to find solutions but how do I approach in a country where no one talks to strangers, no one does cold approach and women are super feministic and talk shit about men and masculinity
/r/seduction06/06/26 09:26 AM
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what is wrong with the attitude when I am just being realistic?
/r/seduction06/06/26 09:25 AM
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How do I approach women in a country where strangers dont even say hello to each other, no ine does cold approach and women are super feministic and talk shit about men and masculinity?
/r/seduction06/06/26 09:24 AM
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My depression is caused by lack of girlfriend. I have already tried both Cognitive behaviour therapy and antidepressants in the past. none of them is working.
/r/seduction06/06/26 09:23 AM
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I am a great guy but I FEEL like a loser for not getting any women. Big difference. Lol why would I be delusional
/r/seduction06/06/26 09:22 AM
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I can still try to get a girlfriend at the same time while doing those things. why would I take a break from dating I only live once and I need a girlfriend
/r/seduction06/06/26 09:21 AM
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My only complex in life meaning the only thing I am insecure about. Why would I lie? whats wrong with people in this platform. people making fun of me for my struggles..
/r/seduction06/06/26 09:20 AM
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From where do you remember? even when I approach/try the women dont give me a chance. I either get rejected, or if I get some contacts they stop replying, block me or flake. That is what I am referring to "not giving me a chance". At the same time I see ugly/fat guys with decent girlfriends. I dont understand. I guess these guys are jerks who women stupidly get attracted to The people that already know me describe me as a cool guy. And I am blaming Sweden because I can easily interact with women…
/r/seduction06/06/26 09:16 AM
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the difference I am not a nerd. I am a cool, fun and handsome tall man but no one gives me a chance. I live in feminist Sweden and no one talks to each other let alone women. so how can I cold approach in this feminist shithole man-hating country? If I lived in some other place where people are social I would cold approach with no problems
/r/seduction05/06/26 11:20 PM
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see what?
/r/seduction02/06/26 11:22 PM
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fix it. wtf
/r/seduction02/06/26 11:20 PM
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typical response. i get blamed for everything
/r/seduction02/06/26 11:18 PM
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what nonsense is this. how do I change my negative belief that I will never get a girlfriend?
/r/seduction02/06/26 11:16 PM
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how the hell do I change my mindset? what kind of sad life am I living if no woman will be my girlfriend? this is not a life
/r/seduction02/06/26 11:10 PM
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In feminist Sweden even many handsome men have limited options because there are less women than men. And just because someone is handsome doesnr mean that women will jump on them.
/r/seduction02/06/26 11:08 PM
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what could I have said? I got super discouraged and irritated at their response so I left after a few mins
/r/seduction02/06/26 05:34 PM
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I was recently in a coffee place/cafeteria. there were 2 girls sitting and they looked and smiled at me and i caught them looking at me twice. i gathered up courage and i said "excuse me girls, do you have a charger I can borrow? They just said no and nothing else and went back to talking and stopped looking at me. So it was basically indirect but I still got rejected🥲
/r/seduction02/06/26 05:11 PM
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what if she gave me the wrong insta or something
/r/seduction28/05/26 07:56 PM
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What do you mean "So?" To me its a very big deal that I am approaching 30 and never had a girlfriend. I feel like a fuckin loser. Am I so bad that no decent girl wants to be my girlfriend? Well If I gave out the attitude you are referring to. I would have dated a woman at this point. There was an extremely unattractive woman (both physically and personality wise) who was into me whom I could have gotten with easily but I am not that desperate
/r/seduction28/05/26 07:42 PM
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well I never had a girlfriend and I am approaching 30. thats why I obsess "over nothing"
/r/seduction28/05/26 07:28 PM
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How is overthinking this being desperate if I dont take any action? The reason why I "invest too mych time, thought and emotion into this" is because I get no women and I rarely get interactions/connections with women so if a situation like this happens it leaves an imprint on me like I will obsess over it for ever. That instant date I had was the closest thing I had to the feeling of being out with a potential girlfriend. I am in my late 20s and never had a girlfriend
/r/seduction28/05/26 07:15 PM
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the women are more receptive and more social and open minded. not paranoid and not as feminist as sweden
/r/seduction21/05/26 04:17 PM
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Care to elaborate on what you mean? And I am tired of hearing "work on yourself". Also, if its a me problem. How come women talk to me in other countries?
/r/seduction21/05/26 04:09 PM
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yes. either the women ignore me/ dont respond, or they respond as if I am a weirdo and straight up reject me. But not gonna lie I barely approach since I know its useless and swedish chicks are mostly super feministic and borderline hating men or having skewed views about masculinity being bad and "toxic"
/r/seduction21/05/26 04:08 PM
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???
/r/seduction21/05/26 03:56 PM
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Sweden is the absolute worst. im born in this shithole country and never had a girlfriend. Only met women in other countries
/r/seduction20/05/26 07:37 PM
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I dont know on the rsdnation site before signing up it says like members and free access but the comments here say its 297 dollars. ? i havent signed up yet but its confusing what to believe
/r/seduction18/05/26 11:35 AM
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Please elaborate on how you think my mindset is wrong as I am curious. And apart from that; if I am so "entitled", then I believe I would have no issues with getting women, because most women (at least around my age) seem to get attracted to selfish assholes (who often are "entitled" jerks). make it make sense. And no I dint agree that I believe the "world is out to get me". Its just modern society is so messed up. good people are miserable whilst undeserving bastards enjoy this worldly life. im…
/r/seduction12/05/26 10:15 PM
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"work on yourself".. I'm tired of hearing this bullshit cliche advice. How the hell do I have confidence if I even cant get any women I want as a girlfriend
/r/seduction12/05/26 03:31 PM
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exactly this. this is the reason I stopped going out to nightclubs regularly long time ago.
/r/seduction03/05/26 07:54 AM
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No like I wrote in my post only a hand shake in the end. Also how/why would I kiss a stranger I just met on a bus. No im not still with her what do you mean? like I wrote we arrived at the destination and parted our ways. the destination was in another country btw. but in the country we both live in, she lives in a nearby town
/r/seduction27/04/26 02:55 PM
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lets just say middle eastern
/r/seduction27/04/26 02:25 PM
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lol be happy that you at least get matches on the dating apps. I dont get matches, even though I am about 185cm tall and a good looking man. This generation is messed up.
/r/seduction23/04/26 08:29 PM
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It feels like I could have written this post, almost everything is similar to my situation, biggest difference is I dont live in the US.
/r/seduction29/03/26 12:45 PM
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Of course it is a process. But like I said, I need a clear routine or guide for this. I cant just "try out cold approach" how I feel like it from day to day. That way nothing will happen. I know that Swedish people are very open for casual sex. BUT this is for swedish people. Meaning, most often, swedish women seem to sleep around with swedish men. Well, in those sexually conservative countries, at least people socialize. So if I lived in such a place, and if a woman really liked me, something w…
/r/seduction26/03/26 09:19 PM
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What makes these "popular bad boys" attractive to women is simply that women find them "exciting" because they take them on an emotional rollercoaster, and the unpredictability and "dangerousness" is exciting for them. Which is messed up. I didnt say the only reason im not getting any succcess is because women dont approach me. I was trying to say, that many women actually take the initiative to approach in Sweden, which would make things soo much easier because they make it so obvious, but it r…
/r/seduction26/03/26 08:24 PM
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Well if I never have gotten laid even once in Sweden, as a man born here, and I am in my late 20s. And I have only gotten laid in other countries. Why would I not blame the location? I am the same person in other countries, but I can interact with women there and make things happen. Of course there are middle eastern men in Sweden getting laid. But these are "popular" guys, and like I said earlier "bad guys" whom women, stupidly get attracted to. Of course if I am really good at attracting women…
/r/seduction26/03/26 07:30 PM
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Most of them date to marry, and many of them dont want their own countrymen, and choose other nationalities. And the ones that date casually, are often gold diggers who want a rich man who will take care of them, because in middle east culture, the man takes care of all bills. Anyway, I think I am cooked in Sweden. If I was ethnically swedish, I could at least attract swedish chicks for getting laid.
/r/seduction26/03/26 06:55 PM
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I've been told I look good in my pics. Dude I have been going to many different venues in the current city I live in. In fact in the city I was born in, I have been to pretty much all of them, and it is quite a big city for being Sweden. Women here are often skeptical, they dont always appreciate strangers chatting them up, and like I said they go with their friend groups to have a drink. The swedish women I have seen going out to get laid only approach swedish men. I have seen in person swedish…
/r/seduction26/03/26 06:45 PM
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What are you talking about, how is it my limited belief? And Why do you speak like that to me? Well, swedish chicks like african men. They think it's exotic. But I have a middle-east look. How do you meet women in Sweden? cold approach? dating apps? Dating apps dont work (for me). I am 185cm tall, I am a handsome man. But these swedish women think too highly of themselves and they have tons of options. Feminism ruined Sweden. They see men as weirdos. How can I approach women here? and How will I…
/r/seduction25/03/26 05:08 PM
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How the hell is ONS here mega easy? I'm a man in late 20s, born in Sweden, never done anything with a woman in this country. But I easily talk to women in other, normal countries. I would still be a virgin if I never went abroad to meet women in social countries. Sweden is messed up. I am not ethnically swedish, maybe thats why. Stockholm is a shithole, most antisocial place in Sweden. I dont understand how people do cold approach in Sweden. The only positive interactions I've had with women in …
/r/seduction25/03/26 04:25 PM
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How do I start cold approaching in Sweden? I am born here, but not ethnically swedish, I have a middle east look. I think I am screwed, impossible for me to meet women? Dating apps aint working too. Nightgame is women only going out with their friend group to have a drink. I've only gotten laid in other countries.
/r/seduction25/03/26 04:23 PM
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Stockholm is the biggest shithole in Sweden. snobby socially reserved and arrogant people. Women are very feministic. How did approaching go there? Also, I've mostly gotten good interactions with women by "warm approach". I can easily have a convo for 10+ min but it doesnt lead anywhere. This is my biggest stickinf point. I want hookups, not just friendly coffee dates
/r/seduction12/03/26 01:12 PM
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what about living in a super feministic and socially reserved country like Sweden were no one talks to strangers and cold approach is seen as weird/creepy?
/r/seduction12/03/26 11:38 AM
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It will be weird to not have a good explanation. but yeah I might try my luck and send a friend request
/r/seduction10/03/26 07:00 PM
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How will i explain finding the social media without mutuals. without good explanation it will be very weird
/r/seduction10/03/26 06:32 PM
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What does what I wrote have to do with self-image? Im just writing how Sweden is.
/r/seduction10/03/26 06:32 PM
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But how would I explain adding her after such a long time and the fact there are no mutual friends
/r/seduction10/03/26 05:38 PM
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why else would I add her?
/r/seduction10/03/26 05:32 PM
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dating apps are shit for men. barely any matches. maybe 2-3 in a year. and none reply. bars here, its only for people to go out with their friends
/r/seduction10/03/26 05:32 PM
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I rarely get laid or get any female interaction. So these types of interactions leaves an imprint on me. I've never had a girlfriend. I even get reminded of stuff from high school. How I could have found someone back then if I was not as shy
/r/seduction10/03/26 05:31 PM
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I didnt ask if I should fck a married woman. I was asking if I should add her on social media after 2.5 years and if it would be weird
/r/seduction10/03/26 02:09 PM
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What about living in a super feministic and socially closed off society like Sweden? How to go about cold approach here without women seeing me as a weirdo?
/r/seduction10/03/26 02:01 PM
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How did you start talking and how did you escalate the interaction for thatvto happen? Yeah I missed that opportunity. I was kinda shocked in the moment and thought she is probably just messing with me or smth. About n3). I have no mutual friends/followers so she would know I searched her name. It would be super weird to explain 2.5 years later? Yeah 2.5 hours is not a problem for me. I would even go 10 hours if I knew I would be getting laid with a hot woman. I thought maybe for her its a lot.
/r/seduction10/03/26 01:56 PM
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How can I experience that it is possible if its almost impossible to meet a woman in Sweden. I am late 20s and never had a GF.
/r/seduction10/03/26 01:51 PM
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I am not desperate in my interactions with women. If I were, I would try to make something out of the interaction I had 2.5 years ago. I try to take it slow and cool. If she, grown woman would want to sleep with me and cheat on her husband, I am not the only one to blame. And if her husband would find out, and "beat me". He is also at the wrong. Violence is never the answer
/r/seduction10/03/26 01:49 PM
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I would not want to be in a relationship with a cheater. im talking about a one night stand type thing. I need pussy. I have never had a girlfriend
/r/seduction10/03/26 01:38 PM
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I am desperate to find a woman to be intimate with. I cant meet any women. So if a woman is interested, its her fault if she is married but cheats on her husband
/r/seduction10/03/26 01:36 PM
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?
/r/seduction10/03/26 01:35 PM
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Because its the most feminist country in the planet and super hard to talk to strangers here and meet new women
/r/seduction10/03/26 01:35 PM
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Of course they dont have more value just because of good looks. But hot women have tons of options. Lets put it this way; its hard for me to accept a hot woman will choose me from all the other men that wants her. What do you mean did I talk to her?
/r/seduction10/03/26 10:30 AM
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I should have went for it back then. She mentioned she was married and has a family so I overthinked it. For some reason I get more attention/choosing signals from women who are married or they have a boyfriend. They are more open to talk/flirt. its weird. another example is I have a female friend whom I known since about 20 years ago from childhood. She had a lot of interest in high school but I was super shy. Now I am not shy, but she is married. she followed me on insta some time ago out of t…
/r/seduction10/03/26 10:27 AM
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idk if she remembers me now. but then she jokingly said I can ask for her if I get in trouble or something because she works in like a detention center/jail. so yes she had interest. I just have hard to accept a hot woman would like me. I have a lot of childhood trauma due to having narcisssitic parents. this affects my self worth
/r/seduction10/03/26 10:19 AM
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I cant meet any women right now in Sweden so I am obsessed about past potential hookups. I obsess about past f-ups so I can learn lesson
/r/seduction10/03/26 09:26 AM
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should I do it on insta (she has a private profile) or facebook? i would need to follow her first. and what to tell her? i remember her even after so long. wont it be weird/awkward? i wish i had done this back then. Btw what do you think was her objective when she did all this back then?
/r/seduction10/03/26 09:25 AM
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I wanna sleep with her once, nothing else. or like a fwb thing. and how will I explain finding her social media? i think her work is not written in her profile. i found through her name and city
/r/seduction10/03/26 09:17 AM
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Sweden the most feminist and bullshit country on the planet. Sadly I live here..: the universities have feminist propaganda, feminist women rule the country, men are discriminated against. they wanted to make guys sit down and pee, and many years ago they wanted to impose a "man tax" a tax only for men. Im gonna move from this shithole when I have my life together. im surprised people mention countries like US and Turkey the worst for men. Turkey is a great country and Im considering marrying a …
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