Distinct_Face_5796 Archive

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1	What is your opinion on Blackpill/Looks Matter #1 Attractiveness is not subjective. You telling me any straight man finds Margot Robbie unattractive. Especially when in early 20s? Lol. Yeah right.	/r/seduction	21/02/26 04:34 PM
-5	How Small Requests Turn Into Big Wins in Dating (3 Psychology Triggers) I offered a vacation to Paris. Didn't work. The simp is always rejected. Haha	/r/seduction	17/10/25 02:25 PM
3	Why are hot girls easy to pick up than unattractive ones ? Hot girls are not easy to pick up. Lol. I am guessing you aren't unattractive. Try being a 4 or 5 and approach a hot girl. I just get used for validation, but nothing sexual.	/r/seduction	25/09/25 04:24 PM
1	would you rather live in a congested area with lots of available non traditional women or spread out area with not many available traditional women? Depends. Most protestants and Catholics maybe. Most Mormon girls actually live their religion. And not sure what people mean by "traditional". Like people say this about Ukraine and Russian women. In my experience traditional is kind of a vague term.	/r/seduction	19/02/25 03:35 AM
1	Some guys have it and some just dont. Self assessment and finding validation as a man. I make good money. Close to 200k a year after semi annual bonuses. I still have roommates. Women probably see that and think I am low value. Haha. Late bloomer. First high paying job and I am 42. Started the position in August. I am going to east Ukraine on the 27th to get to know a girl. Probably still have simp and scarcity mindset. I am guessing women in Ukraine aim for simps since only an extreme simp would go to an active war zone for a girl.	/r/seduction	09/02/25 04:56 PM
0	Some guys have it and some just dont. Self assessment and finding validation as a man. If you don't have it that is what third world countries are for. lol.	/r/seduction	08/02/25 05:58 PM
1	How girls actually want you to text them.. (+3 examples that got me laid) What if I am 41, and can't get a woman to swipe right to save my life. The only options I have are in different countries so I do have little to no options here. One girl I took out to dinner when I visited Ukraine. I went to Ukraine in May and may go back early next year. 20 years younger. The figure of Scarlett Johansen and the bust of pamela Anderson. Probably top 1 percent of ukrainian women in terms of looks. Never has tried to manipulate me or get money. I know people say "if you can't get…	/r/seduction	27/10/24 09:54 PM
2	How to accept that you're an attractive guy? I am not. I never get interest unless I am in the Philippines and then I get interest. No interest in the US. pretty good evidence I am not attractive, at least to American women.	/r/seduction	14/09/24 10:36 PM
1	Do you mention your job on dating apps? Relationship manager for Morgan Stanley, managing relationships with high net worth individuals. Online dating only works for me out of the country. I am not hot enough for US dating sites.	/r/seduction	08/07/24 12:31 AM
3	Girls, what are your initial reactions to hearing that you're a guys first real relationship? I am turning 40 and have never been in a relationship. If by some miracle someone liked me no way am I volunteering that info. Guys sometimes honesty is not the best policy! Why sabotage yourself. Not a girl obviously.	/r/ExRedPill	03/01/23 04:17 PM
12	I am able to very easily pull 6s and 7s but I’ve never gotten a girl who I’ve been awed by. What should I do? I can't even get 6 and 7s. I am jealous.	/r/seduction	31/10/22 01:45 AM
1	Everyone talks about how easy it is to game on college:- just join clubs, just be social Looking approachable is more than just your looks. Do you slouch? Do you look out of place? Do you have a RBF? These are all things you can judge for yourself by looking in a mirror.	/r/seduction	28/10/22 12:37 AM
1	I feel left out among people my age so dating seems hopeless. Better than turning 40 like me. Then again I just got a stockbroker job that is remote. Tempted to head to Colombia making 80k USD a year and pull tons of young hot women. Than again I would have to improve my Spanish. Hahaha. Like a lot.	/r/seduction	19/10/22 11:08 PM
0	Neil Strauss 30 days challenge to overcome approaching anxiety No nothing about the guy. Sounds like a piece of work. But I guess those kind of guys can teach you to have some success, but being fake and manipulative is not cool.	/r/seduction	13/10/22 08:40 PM
1	A girl dmd me after a month, should I answer? I had a girl respond to my email after ten years! What the heck! Lol.	/r/seduction	12/10/22 07:32 PM
1	Telling women they're hot on dating apps or irl? Not good with women but I told this woman I liked her curves. Got her number. Turns out she is running for miss America. Lol and is the beauty queen of my state. Unfortunately she works two jobs so not sure how to pursue this after her miss America pageant.	/r/seduction	12/10/22 03:01 AM
1	Tips on approaching women Getting a number is easy. Getting a date is hard. Usually they give numbers to be polite and then ignore you completely. Lol.	/r/seduction	11/10/22 05:01 PM
16	It’s not to do with looks, it’s how you feel about yourself They play a far bigger part than people admit. Girls also say they aren't important. I believe it's because women don't want to appear shallow, and often lie to themselves. I have a girl cousin that says she doesn't care about looks at all, and yet all her boyfriends are above average. We all have lies we tell ourselves to make ourselves feel better.	/r/seduction	30/09/22 06:01 AM
1	How do you deal with someone who’s being cold and closed off? The only time a woman has short responses is if its online dating and she is a lot of different guys and is to lazy to invest. For instance I have tried online dating in different countries. Majority of the time it is love scams, but even the real women often will only respond with one or two sentences no matter what you say. Hard to build a connection when a girl is texting dozens of guys! I would suppose its the same for those that are getting short responses from girls in this country. She ha…	/r/seduction	27/09/22 05:12 PM
1	If I delete all my social media, will it make dating significantly harder? If you are average looking social media doesn't make a difference. Lol.	/r/seduction	24/09/22 07:30 PM
2	Would being "just friends" with girls increase your chances of hook ups and relationships? Helps expand your social circle which helps, but not likely to help with the girl friend zoning you. My friend in college married the girl that friend zoned him. That is extremely rare. Good for him.	/r/seduction	17/09/22 06:10 PM
13	I feel like I have missed the boat when it comes to dating. And once that ship has sailed, it is never coming back. What advice do you have? In the same boat brother. 39. In a college town. It's hard to even make friends with the opposite sex because a lot of them purposely avoid you if they aren't interested. I think we both need to become more grounded in ourselves, and not place our happiness on something out of our control. You can't control if someone likes you, hates you or thinks you are a creep. And what they think doesn't matter. Who cares. Move forward to the best of your abilities even when it's hard. I am not the best at …	/r/seduction	16/09/22 01:35 AM
2	Rarely approached, but often gawked at, how do I change this? What kind of volunteer work are you passionate about? I am going to the UN conference next month for the sustainable development goals. Passionate about helping the homeless and poor families, including street children. Let's connect. And just smile and be friendly. It's hard to approach a beautiful woman out of fear she will be out off.	/r/seduction	13/09/22 05:28 AM
1	Lost all my confidence Being funny has never helped me. Depends on if you are a sexy funny vs class clown funny. Class clown self deprecating humor never really works from what I can see.	/r/seduction	13/09/22 01:11 AM
2	Any recommended books to destroy neediness? Makes no sense. People love puppies.	/r/seduction	12/09/22 05:53 PM
-4	How do I get over the fact that I won't have sex until I'm a adult in my 20s and missed out on sex and dating as a teenager? Please shut up. I have never had a girlfriend at 39, and teenagers shouldn't be having sex. Teen pregnancy is a huge social Ill. Women are not here to be your sex toy. Don't really care if I am down voted.	/r/seduction	10/09/22 03:34 AM
1	Advice on age gap Jealous. I live in a college town and am 39. Your situation does not happen to me, though if it happens to you go for it.	/r/seduction	07/09/22 04:22 PM
3	How do you make the first approach at the gym Why not? My college best friend met his wife at the gym.	/r/seduction	04/09/22 02:36 PM
2	How do you make the first approach at the gym My best friend in college was a ladies man. He was very good with women. Unlike me who can't get a date. He met his wife at the gym. He didn't go straight for her number. Saw her around, flirted a little but played it cool.	/r/seduction	04/09/22 02:35 PM
3	the approach anxiety is way more complex than what u might think In my opinion the most likely way a woman has of rejecting a guy is saying "nice to meet you" so she can disengage. It's not a big deal. But most of the time nice to meet you means go away. Trying to get out there and meet more people. It can be hard. Hardest thing for me is how to not ask boring questions. Like where you from, what are you studying, etc	/r/seduction	02/09/22 04:27 AM
2	36F here and I would love a cold approach but in an appropriate manner. My best friend in college met his future wife at the gym. Then again he was a ladies man. Only rejected once in his entire life by a woman. I am the polar opposite. But some guys can pull at the gym if you build rapport.	/r/seduction	26/08/22 01:08 AM
1	Cold approach is ineffective What is hot approach?	/r/seduction	25/08/22 03:34 AM
2	Cold approach is ineffective Online only works if you are above average looking. Every attractive guy says "have you tried tinder?" Because for them it works.	/r/seduction	25/08/22 03:32 AM
2	How can I learn to talk to women? I am terrible at dating/attracting women and I am 39. I would recommend dance classes. Swing dancing even if you hate country and definitely salsa because Latin girls are hot. Also find events on meetup and go to conferences and clubs for things that interest you.	/r/seduction	15/08/22 06:24 PM
1	Newly single-how do I flirt and attract men I am right here if you are cute. Lol.	/r/seduction	14/08/22 05:07 AM
11	Do women who smile at you want you to approach them? Not always. Could be a nervous smile which means they think you are creepy.	/r/seduction	12/08/22 10:42 PM
1	I see people here saying women are rooting for you, just approach. But ive also seen the darker side of women. Some women i approached used me to brag in their social circle in a negative way. One woman even said to me ‘not if my life depended on it” You think it's easier to date Mormon girls when you are 39? And they are like 22? There never has been any such thing as arranged marriage but they do marry young which means a girl is sizing you up as a potential spouse on the very first date. If you aren't hot and rich. Good luck. I would argue Mormon girls are harder to pull and church is very cliquish with everyone in their social groups. At least in the US.	/r/seduction	12/08/22 03:00 AM
1	I see people here saying women are rooting for you, just approach. But ive also seen the darker side of women. Some women i approached used me to brag in their social circle in a negative way. One woman even said to me ‘not if my life depended on it” No I am Mormon, but it has never helped. BYU has ton of hot girls. I never had success. My guy friends did when I was younger. USA is very hard if you aren't hot or rich.	/r/seduction	12/08/22 12:57 AM
1	I see people here saying women are rooting for you, just approach. But ive also seen the darker side of women. Some women i approached used me to brag in their social circle in a negative way. One woman even said to me ‘not if my life depended on it” I live in Utah in a college town. Two major universities. So 70k students that are hot but way younger than me.	/r/seduction	12/08/22 12:41 AM
1	I see people here saying women are rooting for you, just approach. But ive also seen the darker side of women. Some women i approached used me to brag in their social circle in a negative way. One woman even said to me ‘not if my life depended on it” So when you say approach you mean someone you don't know? I live in a college town of 70k students but am 39 so a lot older. But there is a salsa club that meets Thursdays. I guess that would be a good place to meet hot Latin women.	/r/seduction	12/08/22 12:33 AM
1	I see people here saying women are rooting for you, just approach. But ive also seen the darker side of women. Some women i approached used me to brag in their social circle in a negative way. One woman even said to me ‘not if my life depended on it” Well before I use to a lot. Like constantly but girls were never interested. I tried with girls from work or church. But after my 20's I stopped trying and gave up only trying like a few girls a year.	/r/seduction	12/08/22 12:30 AM
1	I see people here saying women are rooting for you, just approach. But ive also seen the darker side of women. Some women i approached used me to brag in their social circle in a negative way. One woman even said to me ‘not if my life depended on it” Sounds fun.	/r/seduction	12/08/22 12:23 AM
2	I see people here saying women are rooting for you, just approach. But ive also seen the darker side of women. Some women i approached used me to brag in their social circle in a negative way. One woman even said to me ‘not if my life depended on it” Totally agree. If you want to escape the friend zone the only way is to upgrade your pay and looks. And most of the time the girl doesn't care about the guy. It's not a real friendship most of the time.	/r/seduction	12/08/22 12:20 AM
1	I see people here saying women are rooting for you, just approach. But ive also seen the darker side of women. Some women i approached used me to brag in their social circle in a negative way. One woman even said to me ‘not if my life depended on it” In the states. My plan is to create a social platform that is sliding scale so it goes up with income to connect people to the poor using GIS mapping, then set up participatory budgeting so that people actively determine how money is spent with the poor. Essentially give the power back to the poor for self determination. So I am creating a system to solve global poverty in a more meaningful way. Obviously if I get the pieces together and scale I will change the way we approach poverty. I am goin…	/r/seduction	12/08/22 12:17 AM
1	I see people here saying women are rooting for you, just approach. But ive also seen the darker side of women. Some women i approached used me to brag in their social circle in a negative way. One woman even said to me ‘not if my life depended on it” Not high achieving. Finally getting some traction. And I am below average in looks but not obese. I have lost weight. I have not asked many girls out due to so much rejection but plan on changing that as well.	/r/seduction	12/08/22 12:11 AM
1	I see people here saying women are rooting for you, just approach. But ive also seen the darker side of women. Some women i approached used me to brag in their social circle in a negative way. One woman even said to me ‘not if my life depended on it” Well I am 39 and have never had a girlfriend. That is why I am overthinking. About to get hired as a stockbroker. So will upgrade my pay 20-40k a year. Will also try to start a company on the side with a business partner but that will take time and backing. I have lost weight as well. Plan to go to Oxford in April to network with high profile people at a four day business conference. So moving in the right direction.	/r/seduction	11/08/22 10:32 PM
1	I see people here saying women are rooting for you, just approach. But ive also seen the darker side of women. Some women i approached used me to brag in their social circle in a negative way. One woman even said to me ‘not if my life depended on it” Also a guy might have a great personality but a woman won't know that unless she gets to know him. Often a woman will put up walls if she isn't interested.	/r/seduction	11/08/22 10:27 PM
1	I see people here saying women are rooting for you, just approach. But ive also seen the darker side of women. Some women i approached used me to brag in their social circle in a negative way. One woman even said to me ‘not if my life depended on it” I complain, have a terrible dating life, but my fault for not dressing for success, and hitting the gym, putting myself out there more. I can be bitter. Sometimes I self sabotage.	/r/seduction	11/08/22 10:25 PM
1	Do girls get off on ghosting guys? Doubt it. They probably want to avoid conflict, so either ghost or friend zone someone, say they are too busy, they aren't looking for a relationship right now. All bs ways of showing they aren't interested.	/r/seduction	11/08/22 05:22 PM
1	Do you guys tell girls that you are older than you actually are to get with them ? Pretty sure that is the opposite of what I would do as a 39 year old in a college town. Lol.	/r/seduction	02/08/22 12:03 AM
2	Women are visual creatures too Well women often say it's personality that counts. Actions speak louder than words is a cliche for a reason. I think women often tell the lie themselves, maybe because it's more culturally acceptable for a man to be shallow. Not sure.	/r/seduction	24/07/22 11:29 PM
4	Women are visual creatures too Never seen an extremely attractive guy, like top 3 percent get friend zoned by women. Lol. There was a study that men are more visual due to the constant visual stimulation through media. I have never bought it.	/r/seduction	24/07/22 05:12 PM
1	Stop chasing and pick the women who choose you I have no career right now. Morgan Stanley is trying to hire me as a stock broker but unfortunately I am running into employment verification issues and am stuck at a crappy job. If I can get that rolling I will make decent money. I do have a college degree but unfortunately at the moment I am screwed financially. So I don't offer anything more in terms of stability than the average college student. I guess when I get more stabilized then I can focus on expanding my circle. Their are free commun…	/r/seduction	24/07/22 03:38 PM
7	Stop chasing and pick the women who choose you Girls never choose me, at least not ones I am attracted to. I live in a college town and am 39 so all the women are half my age, and all the men are far more attractive for the most part.	/r/seduction	24/07/22 03:51 AM
2	Why do you guys think most men struggle with girls or dating in general? My long term goal is to tackle the issues of global poverty and lift thousands of people out of poverty. Just goes to show you sometimes people are terrible judges of who someone is since when younger I was often accused of being creepy if the girl was not interested. Whatever. I would say try leaving the US. Dating is ridiculously easy in the Philippines.	/r/seduction	23/07/22 04:08 PM
1	Why does this subreddit say to never take dating advice from women? Whatever. I am 39 and live in a college town. Pretty sure I will struggle even with an "average" girl with that big of an age gap.	/r/seduction	23/07/22 04:01 PM
1	Why do you guys think most men struggle with girls or dating in general? I am religious, I don't believe in sex before marriage. Not that it matters with my lack of success with women.	/r/seduction	23/07/22 03:56 PM
1	Why do you guys think most men struggle with girls or dating in general? Yes.	/r/seduction	23/07/22 03:53 PM
4	Why do you guys think most men struggle with girls or dating in general? I am in the same boat. 39 and never had a gf.	/r/seduction	23/07/22 12:40 AM
1	Why does this subreddit say to never take dating advice from women? Valid point. Yes, I am suffering. I try to push it away because I figure there is not much I can do about it. My family has hinted that I need therapy, a lot of it. I have never had a single girl friend, and am 39....so I probably do have a lot of emotional baggage. Then again don't we all. I did not purposely go on this redditt. It just appears as a notification on my phone for some reason. haha.	/r/seduction	21/07/22 03:53 AM
1	Why does this subreddit say to never take dating advice from women? Actually my long term goal is to tackle the issues of global poverty. I have a mahatma Gandhi personality type and most women do not want that. I plan on devoting my life to the plight of the world's poor. I don't care what some women thinks about me. I have bigger goals to accomplish than women. Some people have different challenges. Apparently mine is dating.	/r/seduction	21/07/22 03:34 AM
1	Why does this subreddit say to never take dating advice from women? Well I have been turned down by EVERY girl I have liked and I am 39. Guarantee you have better luck than me, given I have never had success with women at all. You might sometimes be turned down, but the percentage will be far lower.	/r/seduction	21/07/22 01:10 AM
-2	Why does this subreddit say to never take dating advice from women? Women will say things to spare feelings. You either need good looks or high status. If you aren't a great looking guy you need something else to offer. Or maybe I just have zero game but I know women go off looks far more than they admit. Good looking guys have it easy. My friend in college was only turned down once in his life before he found his wife. I would say if you don't have high status, good inner game, and are average looking no one will give you the time of day unless you are in the P…	/r/seduction	21/07/22 12:08 AM
2	Going on a date with a woman more than twice my age. I think she’s beautiful and I’m very excited! Why? I am 39 and I would much have a hot 21 year old. Lol. They are hard to pull though, unless I am outside of the US.	/r/seduction	20/07/22 09:28 PM
1	Why are you IN or NOT IN a relationship right now? Because I have zero game, and can't get a gf to save my life.	/r/seduction	17/07/22 09:16 PM
1	Why do women say they don't like players yet they feel attracted to guys with options and a lot of experience in bed? My girl cousins don't believe in sex before marriage. One is divorced. They talk to me about their dating lives. Most women are not like them. I am probably closer to them than my own sister. They are the type of girls you marry, not the kind you have a fling with. I have never looked at those videos. I think one problem is I have to compete against men in their 20's for a woman's attention. I have never had a single gf so saying I suck with women would be the understatement of the century. Wome…	/r/seduction	04/07/22 05:43 PM
1	Why do women say they don't like players yet they feel attracted to guys with options and a lot of experience in bed? I suck with dating unless I leave the US. I am 39 and am more social but I live in a college town so most girls will not be interested with that big of an age gap. Even when I meet a woman in her 30s on the rare occasion she still won't give me the time of day. Not all girls are like this. My girl cousins are not. They are really good girls, and are not attracted to players. But I think they are the exception. I think if you are attractive than you have an easier time. Looks play into this far m…	/r/seduction	04/07/22 04:55 PM