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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 4 | Be careful guys | Distinct_Praline_442 | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/26 02:02 AM |
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| 3 | My wife is blindsided me and I’m still broken.Forever for her only meant until it wasn't what she had in mind. Happened to a lot of us. I love you but I'm not in love with you I was told that for the final 4 years of 7. It never got better. You can't change the outcome when your input is never taken into consideration. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/07/26 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Blaming social media and AIThat we are still doing right by ourselves and setting a positive example for our children. Giving into the nihilism would be the topping point that cooks society for the next generations. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/07/26 07:23 PM |
| 3 | Title: Married 6 months ago, now I think my wife is a covert narcissist and no one believes me because she’s “the sweetest person.” How did you cope?Hack it out of the wilderness(your capacity to excuse and forgive) for 7 years until she frames you as the abuser. Try your best to make desireable behavioral changes in exchange for -20% happiness and +40% avoidance per stated issue. Get a large toy collection because you don't have an eager or willing lover. If you have a child, move to the Irish section of the ship. Amplify your parental responsibilities and bury your dreams of compromise, conflict resolution and mutual respect. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/07/26 04:33 PM |
| 7 | Blaming social media and AIMy stbxw's profile pic that she posted the day she told me she was moving out is pure vanity. I actually laughed and asked if she was a call girl now. They are responsible for their own peer groups, values and goals. As the divorce lawyer guy said, we are stone age beings trying to support medieval age institutions in the space age where any erant thought to cheat is a few clicks away from being doable with relative privacy. The odds are stacked against monogamy and marriage. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/07/26 01:09 PM |
| 1 | What was dating like after being divorced?Fuck I turn 40 2 weeks. And I have a kid. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/26 10:19 PM |
| 3 | Bad nightI don't know if you enjoy edm, but I found an amazing banger that is less than a month old. https://open.spotify.com/track/4YkBtDDvbFmXaKAHdgpKOs?si=09ee575c90a145f3 Heavy nights heavy mind too much love too much time if I fall I fall alone to rise and shine again | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/07/26 02:25 AM |
| 3 | When you got betrayed, did you feel like the only one in the world it has ever happened to?It's a traumatic event. When your naivete is met with malevolence... | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/06/26 08:40 PM |
| 4 | Life balance after Restraining orderMine got a bullshit one as well. I was served 24 hours before the trial. I didn't have adequate time to defend myself. Then she segways it into the divorce and uses it a building block of lies. Hang in there brother. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/06/26 11:02 AM |
| 1 | Struggling with STBXW issuesI just want to say I am in a similar position. Stay strong bro. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/26 12:31 AM |
| 1 | How do I deal with this rageThey were just chasing their tail. She knew. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/06/26 11:21 PM |
| 3 | How do I deal with this rageMy brother in Christ. My wife who for many years complained I didn't make enough money, slightly less than her.. 2 months before she moved out also angrily cried "UGH YOU MAKE MORE MONEY THAN ME!" We didn't create their problems. We are their problems lol. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/06/26 11:18 PM |
| 1 | The Down & Dirty Truth About Becoming a Divorced DadThank you for the post. I am proud of you. I got served Wednesday, and am pretty shook that she's trying to take my princess. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/06/26 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Im so glad to have found this groupOur kids need us. That is not a way out for them. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/11/23 12:08 AM |
| 2 | Im so glad to have found this groupI’m fucked and I’m here to tell you I’m still alright. You will be too. We are the brotherhood. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/11/23 03:25 AM |
| 6 | Back to this thread after finding out my wife’s infidelity. Should I inform the other person’s wife?The only time in my life I ever caught an STD was when I tried to reconnect with my cheating 1st wife. Thank god it was bacterial. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/11/23 03:17 AM |
| 5 | I love her, and that's the beginning and end of everything.Don’t give up brother. You and I and this other bro are worthy of being loved! It’s really hard to establish self love and respect when you have ADHD. I also gave up control of aspects of my individual life with the goal of growing old with her and raising our daughter together. Now we have no choice but to become better men out of respect for ourselves/children/family. I am in the same process of reframing my entire idea of self. Who I am. What is good about me. What kind of father do I want to… | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/10/23 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Every guy here needs to watch this video from a divorce attorneyAmazing video. Every sentence is a zinger. “We are prehistoric creatures adhering to medieval social constructs while using space age technology” | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/10/23 01:17 PM |
| 4 | Marriage headed for divorce - Immigrant Wife - Mental IssuesI am in a similar boat. Wife from Venezuela. I wish you luck bro. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/10/23 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Men in your 40s who got divorced in your early 40s from the love of your life. If you found genuine happiness again (where you don’t think about your ex on a regular basis), how did you find it?My father got divorced in his early 50s. He remarried a woman on her third marriage. They have been together for longer than both my marriages. Ormv, but there are people who re find what we want. How? Fuck if I know. They met on eharmony on my sister and I’s suggestion. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/10/23 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Question: How to cope with another man coming into your daughter’s (2y/o) life after a divorceHoly shit my inevitable divorce is child’s play. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/09/23 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Tomorrow is my birthday. 50Hey man stay in it. We are struggling and thats ok. Your kids need you and I need to know your gonna survive this. I believe in you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/07/23 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Let her go!!Met my stbx and were pregnant 3 months later. From firecrackers to diapers to papers. My daughter is almost 4. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/07/23 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Let her go!!It sure does. It sure did. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/07/23 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys ever feel guilty for the kid’s sake?I feel bad because my daughter won’t have a two parent household like I did. She’s 3. Now that I had to express this, I realize I am sad because I have to bury certain ideas I had for her childhood. But she deserves to see me happy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/06/23 01:22 PM |
| 2 | Something we are never taught: Don’t marry just for looks.I met a hot Venezuelan chick when I started looking after my first wife cheated on me(within 4 months). We had the mad hots for each other. Took a chance, proposed. A month later, pregnant. 4 years later, she’s leaving. She also jumped straight out of her first marriage. Because hope, I have a princess. At 36 my only child. In my case a big stickler was “sexual compatibility”. I thought this hot chick wants me, she’ll like what I like. Nnnnnnnñope | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/06/23 01:17 PM |
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