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I live in the wrong state but I support this. I believe consequences should be cyclical. If you can’t sue the person who cheated the affair partner will do.
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/24 12:04 AM
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To be honest I really want to move on but at the same time I don’t want to be financing her new life with alimony for the next 7 years.
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/24 06:03 PM
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Well the damage to my wallet is going to be on going. As mentioned I don’t care she’s with someone else. I care that she wants me to pay for her lifestyle with him for the next 7 years.
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/24 06:00 PM
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Incorrect, she was in a relationship with someone else 6 months prior to filing. she had not yet filed for divorce when she was caught cheating, it was after.
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/24 05:57 PM
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Unprovoked, co-parenting with her is a nightmare anyways. Early in the divorce process I had my attorney send a letter requesting that she keep the kids out of the divorce. My ex isn’t the brightest. Shortly after she sent a email cc’ing her attorney and mine stating that she asked our children if she should revert back to her maiden name bc I asked. Through this process I’ve had my 9 year old tell me that I don’t let mommy have friends and that I’m a cheater. I’ve had my 5 year old tell me that…
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/24 11:33 AM
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She asked for an amicable divorce. I’ve been amicable for 9 months. In that time she’s poisoned my children against me and dragged this process out. I’ve been professional but this women is constantly morphing into the greediest person I have ever seen. In meetings, my attorney and I constantly stay professional while her and her attorney snicker like children with outrageous demand for 60-70% of assets. Then after so much time has been spent and an agreement is finally made verbally for 50-50 t…
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/24 10:51 AM
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The only thing this lady cares about more than money is her reputation and how she appears. At this point I feel there are emotional gains for me in presenting her as at-fault even if I lose monetary stuff anyways. The harsh reality is that I didn’t do a prenup and I married in the wrong state. She’s refusing to work full time, and working under the table to make our pay gap appear broad (despite having a higher earning potential closer to me and having a higher level of education that me )—-it’…
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/24 10:37 AM
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Nope. She filed for divorce after I caught her cheating. Prior to catching her she asked me to go to couples counseling when I asked her about being distant. At the time she led me to believe that she wanted to work things out. Little did I know she had this guy in the background and hired an attorney 4 months before filing. She was plotting an out with another man before she filed. Some truly shady stuff.
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/24 10:21 AM
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She won’t admit it but I feel that my 2 recordings 24 hours apart call her credibility into question. On the night I caught her I tell the guy we are married and to get out of my house. The look on his face is shock. As he’s heading out the door she tells him that we are divorced then she corrects her self to say we are divorcing. My response was “that’s news to me we have an appointment with a marriage counselor this week”. In the recording that I have from the following day she denies mentioni…
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/24 09:10 AM
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I’m in a 50-50 state for assets but judges have taken at-fault divorces into consideration when it comes to alimony and there have also been judges who have credited back the innocent spouse marital assets used for an affair. I make more money than my ex and she wants the house. I’d like for my attorney to make the argument that our home (marital property) was used in the affair meaning she should buy me out of my portion of the house. Up until this point I have been amicable and pushed for an e…
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/24 08:58 AM
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I had a feeling something wasn’t right and went home when I was supposed to be spending the night at my parents house with my kids. When I pulled up to my home I saw a car I didn’t recognise. Feeling that something was off I pressed record and put my phone in my chest pocket. After parking on my property in a way that didn’t turn on my porch motion lights I walked up to my front door. When the porch light kicked on my ex ran to meet me at the door flustered. On cam I tell her “since when have yo…
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/24 07:42 AM
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I want 50-50 but I now know she’s going after 60/40. There is quite a wage difference between her and I. Not bc she doesn’t have the same earning potential as me (she has a masters) but bc I agreed to her being a stay at home mom bc she wanted to bond with our children when they were little. Prior to me catching her and being blind sided by the divorce I had gotten her to go back to work part time bc our children aren’t babies anymore. During this divorce she’s refusing to go back to work full t…
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/24 07:39 PM
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My friend’s parents are amicably divorced. They married young and grew apart. They were very civil during the separation and needed minimal attorney help other than to just file their paperwork. I was optimistic. I was thinking maybe out of guilt for destroying the children’s home and cheating she would be amicable. Nope she’s an animal. Zero guilt, zero remorse. She’s not the brightest (she does messed up stuff and recaps it in writing—-which is a blessing) but is vindictive.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/24 07:25 PM
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Word choice and gender identity are separate things. The lgbtq community shares and uses all kinds of vernacular. Frankly my comment was in support of the op and was me sharing my bf’s experience. I didn’t take away from or minimize op experience. My bf doesn’t use social media or have an account but he does utilize the info I show him from mine and doesn’t mind we anonymously sharing. You brought all these extra curricular politics into this that had zero to do with the post. None the less I de…
/r/Divorce_Men07/06/24 07:53 PM
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Your goal is to win. So I’ll let you have it. For future reference if this reddit for men that doesn’t imply only straight men. There are gay men in here with bi partners who have a ex wife. I’m a female but you were presumptuous to assume that I am. Bye
/r/Divorce_Men07/06/24 07:35 PM
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So bc his ex is a women you assume that I am not a man…. Ok
/r/Divorce_Men07/06/24 07:30 PM
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There are men that post in the women’s sections. 😂 but ok….
/r/Divorce_Men07/06/24 07:17 PM
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Really. Thought it was men’s perspective. Didn’t know it was men only. I’m in here so I can’t better understand my bf’s experience….
/r/Divorce_Men07/06/24 07:09 PM
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She’s remarried and cs is based on her potential income. This seems really dumb on her part. She chose to not work and have another child it’s not your responsibility to make up the difference. Funny thing about law is that there is always a hungry lawyer somewhere to try some bs for a check. As I always say to my bf: Be professional in any interaction with the ex. Fight for what’s genuinely fair Never budge on your child’s best interest. Defend yourself/ finances to the maximum the law allows. …
/r/Divorce_Men07/06/24 06:19 PM
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