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| 127 | Retired #1 porn star (who now denounces the industry) sharing some of the horrific acts which are being pushed and normalized. This is just another example why we need spaces like FDS, and to keep pushing to educate young people. | DistributionOk4143 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 07:19 PM |
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| 25 | Been seeing this guy for a few weeks and he does meet a lot of my requirements however he watches porn, a few times a month he says he can get it to zero if i don't like it, it does make me uncomfortable though. Idk should i still give him a chance or find someone who didn't watch to begin with?No don't give him a chance, end things now before you're more attached! Check out the 'love after porn' subreddit to see what kind of emotional and mental torture it is to have a partner who has porn addiction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 03:19 AM |
| 5 | I used psychedelics to work through some stuff (k!nk and other trauma recovery), my experience:Thank you for sharing. Some day I will work up to a large dose, but for the past while I have had amazing breakthroughs with depression and anxiety just with micro dosing. I feel that I have made progress that usually takes years in therapy, within months. I've had the same experience of recognizing triggers for shame, and analyzing them in a detached way instead of mentally and physically being triggered and spiralling. And then being able to let them go. It was like living my life stuck in a m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 01:57 PM |
| 33 | (UK) NVM throws acid in the face of a woman. These past weeks have just been filled with gender based violence. Stay safe ladies.All women should invest in a camera doorbell/ front door security. No reason to open the door if you don't know who is on the other side. Here is another example why we need proper front door security and surveillance Tik Tok clip of man on front door cam Emergency first aid for a liquid acid attack: Call an ambulance or have someone else do it for you as you complete the next steps. The most important step to take as a result of providing acid attack first aid is washing. This should be done wi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 06:32 PM |
| 9 | Reminder: LVM will pick at absolutely anything to make you feel less than. See it for what it is.Yeah.. as time goes by, I just gain more confidence in myself (especially since discovering fds) and these attempts at negging are simply laughable. A man I work with has made a comment about me having "long gorilla arms" twice in the past couple years, it is so bizarre. I am on the taller side but quite proportional and happy with my body and appearance (while he is middle age & shorter), so I never paid any mind. The most recent time he said it, I said "interesting ___, are you saying that you… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 01:17 AM |
| 5 | “Free yourselves from the bondage of male validation” -@sheenie_weenie_, 2021 ADMy god. I am losing hope for how humanity can move forward. How can we raise future sons to not objectify women in this way and feel so entitled? This is like wide spread sociopathy. I think that link is a great resource that we need to show young women who think the sex industry is glamourous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 04:01 PM |
| 43 | Red pill /abuse tactics I’ve seen on the field over the last few yearsThey are disgusted by vulnerability in themselves but highly attracted to it in women This alone speaks volumes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 05:12 PM |
| 11 | A treatise in favor of casual snoopingAlso check his email accounts(s) whenever possible, check his spam and deleted folders and also other folders he may have created. If he is on adult sites/subscribed to anything, he will likely have some record of that. Also check his mobile games (erotic games are a big thing now & the same as porn) If you are in a serious relationship I'd also recommend checking financial history (debit /credit transactions), or even being in the habit of glancing at paper receipts - that can reveal a whole lo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 05:36 PM |
| 14 | Wedged In My Windshield Wiper: A Note From A ScroteIf he left his phone number, sometimes you can search that on Facebook and it will be connected to a profile which you can block. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 05:06 PM |
| 8 | TAKE NOTE OF THE MEDIA A MAN CONSUMES: A LIST OF RED FLAGS TO WATCH OUT FOR IN 2021Thank you, this is a lot of great information. I have looked at redpill and incel forums a few times, and I've read the 48 laws of power and a Jordan Peterson book. I really recommend other women to research and read some of these texts, it has really opened my mind to see how some people operate. Especially the 48 laws of power, I have noticed patterns of toxic people in my life using those techniques/strategies and it is very helpful to be aware of it to protect yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 04:14 PM |
| 143 | Watching porn makes men unable to pair-bond effectively with womenRegular porn consumption is indicative of strong entitlement behaviours and world view, whether conscious or not. Big red flag! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 11:58 PM |
| 15 | Alt Right PickmesWow, I just googled esoteric hitlerism.. I didn't even realize that was a thing 😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 04:11 AM |
| 35 | "Men don't like women who..." is a complete lie. The more of a "man hater" I've become, the more men seem to chase me. It's actually very bizarre.Holy shit that's disturbing 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 02:02 AM |
| 26 | I don’t want to live on this planet anymoreI can't comprehend how sick society is for this to even have been thought of. It is the very act of birth, something so sacred. It only happens once in a lifetime. When humans are the most vulnerable and also the most creative. Imagine the deep psychological damage that will be done to the baby through this act. Having your entrance into the world - your very existence sold, subjugated, commodified, fetishized since day 1 of this life. So horribly sad and cruel to treat the birth of her precious… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 01:08 AM |
| 183 | A group of boys harasses and assaults a group of girls minding their own business.Is this not a hate crime??! They were intentionally targeting females while ignoring the male train security. "These aspects of a person's identity are known as 'protected characteristics'. A hate crime can include verbal abuse, intimidation, threats, harassment, assault and bullying" This is from the definition of a hate crime from the UK government site. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 05:35 PM |
| 26 | FDS made me stronger and now I'm juste DECLUTTERING my whole life!!!That is great to hear!! I am going through the same thing. My elderly cat recently passed away suddenly and that has really put things into perspective for me. Life doesn't stop or slow down, and any time spent around toxic people will bring you down and drain your life energy. For the most part people won't/can't change. I have been in a negative work environment for a few years and now I finally feel justified in leaving, even if i struggle it will still be forward progress. I have decided to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 06:36 PM |
| 15 | Men who take naked pictures of sleeping women, and men who use hidden cameras to secretly film their sexual encounters, are compelling reasons to avoid casual sex until you have thoroughly vetted his character.That's terrible to feel unsafe in your home. How can you tell if male friends/associates are pornsick? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 03:07 AM |
| 34 | Men who take naked pictures of sleeping women, and men who use hidden cameras to secretly film their sexual encounters, are compelling reasons to avoid casual sex until you have thoroughly vetted his character.When I was 18 I rented a room in a shared house. There was another girl in her late 20s renting the basement, and the owner of the house (man in his mid 40s) also lived there. I befriended the owner and he ended up admitting to me that there were cameras in all of the common areas and outside for 'security reasons', and he showed me his computer set up with all of this equipment and high tech stuff. I am positive he must have had cameras everywhere. They were so small that I couldn't ever see th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 03:01 AM |
| 65 | FROM THE HORSE'S MOUTH: Why we don't ask men outYes red flag! I think it can also be a sign of a guy being a porn addict, needing to control the situation or making it fit into a specific fantasy/power dynamic for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 12:37 AM |
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