| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 29 | Went a day spa | DistributionSpirited | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/05/25 03:18 PM | |
| 2 | Change of address | DistributionSpirited | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/05/24 07:39 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Seperated, soon to be ex wife is pregnant with another mans child. How to proceed in court so I don't have to pay child support or spousal support?Lawyer up now, I don't care if you have put on credit card do it! 18 years of child support will be worst then the debt!!! | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/06/25 01:49 AM |
| 6 | Went a day spaIt was nice, the women were very kind | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/05/25 04:54 PM |
| 2 | Survey: how much custody % do you have as the father?I have my 2 boys 85% the time. Mother moved into another state. She gets school breaks and that’s it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/02/25 07:52 PM |
| 2 | I need a pick me up, menDon’t listen and just enjoy your time with your son. It completely sucks and not fair but be the man you want your son to be. Focus on being his hero not being her co parent. You’re doing good man and your son will notice it. He just going through a rough time and he need his strong dad. I honestly believe divorce is hardest on the kids. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/01/25 03:50 AM |
| 3 | Has anyone had their spouse/ex run away with their kids and enroll them in school in a different state?Mine tried to I filed and got them back immediately. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/08/24 04:50 PM |
| 3 | Was marriage worth it?I enjoy my marriage but hated my divorce. I love my sons that were born and there isn’t enough pain in world to have me trade them in for. If you find someone you want take the leap with I say just take it slow. Let you both see each other in each season of your lives. If you really love and commit to each it be best for both you. Do not let failures of others stop you from what you want. I have never regretted marrying my ex wife I regret we didn’t do the things to recommit to each other. We bo… | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/08/24 01:08 PM |
| 1 | $400 an hourShit mine was 350 but that was 3 years ago | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/08/24 05:17 PM |
| 7 | What is a reason that will stop you from remarrying?Forget government friendship contracts…. Woman are incentivize to leave marriages they are slightly unhappy. I’m just glad i got my sons majority custody and I didn’t have endure the bloodbath others have in this group. My ex was such a selfish person couldn’t believe the court wouldn’t give custody after she abandoned them for 6 months pursue her happiness. She wanted her freedom and got a new idiot to marry her just 3 days ago. I on the other end will not remarry until no divorce fault is ille… | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/06/24 12:19 AM |
| 3 | Facing Divorce & Child Custody - QuestionsMy ex-wife ran off with the kids to Kansas and I am from Florida too. Florida is a 50-50 state. Do not let her run you over get a lawyer and get a sharing agreement. Don’t settle for less than 50-50. Don’t let any mediator push you around for less than that hold your ground and you’ll get 50-50. I actually won majority timeshare for my sons they live with me during the school year. It’s possible the court treat fathers like parents now you’re gonna be OK just fight. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/24 07:23 PM |
| 2 | Change of addressI thought about it honestly but she isn’t terrible and I won’t want someone to do that to me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/05/24 06:31 PM |
| 2 | Change of addressShe trying again to connect to them, she was disconnected for a while. I believe that every chance she gets though she tries to turn them against me or steal them for me. I imagine this won’t improve until she is pregnant with her new fiancé kids. She is very short sighted, carefree and live in moment type. So even when she tries a little scheme she easy to take apart. She accused me of everything when we’re in process other than physical abuse. But everyone of her accusations I was able to get … | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/05/24 06:26 PM |
| 2 | Change of addressI could’ve gotten child support my attorney told me, but I elected against so she shouldn’t get any of my 401k or alimony. The divorce took 3 years and over 40,000 in fees. But I have my 2 sons with no child support, no alimony and the vast majority of my finances intact. Plus it just felt dirty to ask for child support when I make about 40k a year more then her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/05/24 06:19 PM |
| 2 | Change of addressHonestly I think my ex just didn’t want to responsibility. I offer 50/50 knowing I have paid child support. But she wouldn’t come back to the state. So she wasn’t left with much of choice to do limit time sharing plan. I have them all school year. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/05/24 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Change of addressSays I have let the ex know and notify the court. How do I notify the court is really what I am wondering? I google it and didn’t seem clear | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/05/24 08:35 PM |
| 5 | How to pay for a lawyer and separate financially?My divorce took 30 months and 35,000. 27000 to my lawyer and 8,000 to my wife but I won custody of my sons so worth every penny! | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/05/24 07:37 PM |
| 6 | What was the cost of your "Contested" Divorce?40,000 and 3 years but I am majority custody of my 2 of my 2 sons. It was worth every dollar! | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/03/24 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Men’s ringI honestly don’t remember, toke it off and I didn’t do anything dramatic with that I can remember. Maybe that’s symbol for how I feel about her now. She use to be here and now she is gone | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/08/23 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here feel like they're just never gonna date again?Kind of wish prostitution was legal this would solve my dating needs, but I can’t see myself right because I am raising my 5 and 3 old years boys solo pretty much. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/06/23 09:23 PM |
| 2 | Man to man, I need some help on this.Good with your lawyer saids and be honest. You’ll be fine don’t make up anything or undersell just be factual and you’ll be fine. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/05/23 09:49 PM |
| 3 | You served a purposeThank you for post, I was never my ex first just a tool to escape. I needed this reminder | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/05/23 05:14 PM |
| 6 | DONE!! - Thank youBro I am almost in my second year of the process, any tips to survive such a long battle? | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/04/23 10:23 PM |
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