DistrictDivorceCoach Archive

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1	Considering legal action against my ex GF Cost of doing business. You are not getting any of it back and you should definitely keep an eye on the couch debt with your name on it. It isnt fair and it sucks and you have my sympathy, but walking away will be your least expensive option, both financially and in terms of mental health. In the name of self preservation, move on.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/07/26 05:10 PM
1	At what point did you decide you had to go pro se because you simply couldn’t afford to keep defending repeated motions? I absolutely am not qualified to tell you what to do, no idea about the details of your situation so please keep that in mind. I strictly played defense. My reasoning was that i dont want the burden of proof to be on me. I didnt want to look like i was being hostile just to be miserable and proving a parent is no longer qualified for the agreement you just fought for for a few years is tough. I believed any aggression on my part would help any negative caricature her lawyer created. I stuck to d…	/r/Divorce_Men	14/07/26 04:00 PM
5	At what point did you decide you had to go pro se because you simply couldn’t afford to keep defending repeated motions? I did exactly this. Once i was out of money i went pro se, the biggest lesson i learned is that if you are going alone be the sane one. Be friendly and courteous to every single person in the process, do not get angry or lose your temper at all, at any point. Write down a script for every meeting to keep you focused and on subject. Learn the actual law and dont try any gotcha stuff. Make certain you understand protocol and decorum in the courtroom, it has been my observation that men who go pro …	/r/Divorce_Men	14/07/26 02:25 PM
2	The NEW dating etiquette (a guide for gents) You 100% have not. I am certain that desperate guys who want a formula to scoring women will be enthralled, but there is a zero percent chance any woman would put up with your stupidity. Zero. I am sure you took a course or something, but there is no chance you have sex regularly.	/r/MensRights	04/07/26 11:17 AM
-4	The NEW dating etiquette (a guide for gents) What are you doing? This isnt a custody hearing. 1-I like to pay, so I choose dates I can afford. 2- I still like paying, so I suggest what I can afford, even if it is coffee and a walk 3- see 1 and 2 4,5,6- I dont mind picking a girl up 7- If they declare they are celibate, they dont want to date you 8 - If they dont commit to a date, they dont want to date you. 9 - If you dont like someone, dont date them. If they dont treat you well, dont date them. 10 - If I invite someone to something, I ex…	/r/MensRights	04/07/26 02:35 AM
7	How to show my ex-wife's new boyfriend that he has no authority over my children or me. Dont. Please dont teach anyone a lesson. Dont pop anyone in the face. Take a step back and remeber who you need to impress, and that is your kids. You dont need to show him up or beat him in a pissing contest. You need to show up on time, deliver on your promises and be the voice of reason and sanity. You need to be the safe place where your kids want to be. Walk away from provocations, dont act like you dont care, sincerely, stop caring. It will make him nuts, and your kids will be psyched that…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/07/26 07:39 PM
1	Transitioning from a 4-3 school schedule to a 2-2-5-5 summer schedule? 2-2-5-5 did not work for us. It was confusing and a lot of switching back and forth and mostly was less convenient. If it works for you, great , but my daughter got annoyed with all the back and forth and it makes making plans confusing and complicated.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/07/26 01:52 PM
1	Should women who scream misogyny or sexism be mass deplatformed and socially shamed? How many people need to be on the “ those women who suggest misogyny or sexism toward any slight questioning of gender dynamics or feminist ideology solo” de-platforming squad? Or is an AI thing?	/r/MensRights	24/06/26 07:50 PM
11	A year after my divorce, I noticed something funny. Works great, just keep her safety in mind. Find something that is very public and high traffic. “Hey let’s just go into the woods” may not be the best option .	/r/Divorce_Men	24/06/26 03:58 PM
3	Confirmed affair after filing for divorce but before court date. What to do? Doesn’t matter to the court at all and trying to do gotcha type stuff doesn’t help your case. It will be easier to hurt your case acting emotionally, than to strengthen your position by digging up dirt.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/06/26 02:24 AM
53	Never become a "Step Father" I think it is important to know that being a stepfather isn’t for you, but I know some people who were raised by stepfathers who they really value and I know men who have taken the burden on and thrived. We need men to step up and be stepfathers. If you want men’s rights, you will need people who were raised with men in their lives. I’m sorry your circumstances didn’t work out, but I admire that you gave it a shot. It’s not for everyone	/r/MensRights	23/06/26 09:45 PM
2	Mediation vs lawyer — what actually worked better for you? There are a few options to look at The Collaborative process is a big thing these days, and works for some people, it can be expensive and involves a lot of professionals, however, I have seen good results happen relatively fast and fair, and ultimately turns out to be about the same costs as any lawyer path. If you are amicable and dont really have a lot to fight about, a mediator is a good idea, but it is generally worth consulting with your own attorney, no matter what, even if you go a media…	/r/Divorce_Men	21/06/26 08:16 PM
5	Wife is wanting a divorce I dont know your circumstances, so I am going to make some assumptions based on the little bit in your post. Making the decision to move forward is the first step. It can knock the wind out of you, but after the shock subsides a little you need to start taking care of things. If you have the time and the money - take a vacation. Go to the baseball park you have always wanted to see, or the thing in Sweden that you never imagined you would have the chance to visit or the summer concert or seeing …	/r/Divorce_Men	20/06/26 02:43 PM
2	Divorce Hearing - what to expect? That makes sense, I had thought you meant you were going to trial. When you are considering what to do, keep in mind that ending the fighting has a value. I am sure you know, lawyer fees can stack up quick, but in addition, constant fighting is exhausting and takes a toll. Good luck.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/06/26 11:38 AM
1	Divorce Hearing - what to expect? I dont know the law or your case so I dont have any opinion, but I do know mediation usually ends up being cheaper if you are ready to deal. Your lawyer works for you, you can ask them anything you want. Are you starting trial or is this a status hearing?	/r/Divorce_Men	01/06/26 12:03 AM
1	Divorce Hearing - what to expect? Why are you having a hearing if you are close to agreement? Just for the house? What are you paying in legal fees to squeeze more out of the house? Why aren’t you doing mediation?	/r/Divorce_Men	31/05/26 09:05 PM
6	California Pro Se, looking for guys who have done it and ended up going to trial I did it, it is awful. Write everything down. Make a script for exactly what you want to say, because you will absolutely forget and drop points you want to make, be super respectful of the judge and everyone in the courthouse. If you are nice and show gratitude the clerks can be a huge help filing. Do not miss deadlines, read procedures and do not lose your temper at any stage. The thing that will kill you is discovery. Read about how to do it and what to ask for and utilize the court self help…	/r/Divorce_Men	27/05/26 12:45 PM
1	Can my wife first leave me and then have me pay her child support for 18 years? First, yes, you must support your child for the next 18 years, regardless of anything else. Whether you pay child support is going to be directly tied to custody. My ex and I share 50/50, had similar incomes, so there is no child support. That is what we agreed to in accordance with local laws. You are going to need to figure out custody, there will be some international regulations that will have some influence. I have no idea. what Canada rules are, and I am not sure if child support can be en…	/r/Divorce_Men	13/05/26 11:12 PM
1	I have questions about Expert witness for IOS. This sucks and I went through something similar. In my circumstances, I made the decision that I was going to look bad if I did anything. If I was petty and restricted mom back, or made threats or tried to be a bully, it was going to reflect poorly on me. If I had to guess, I think she is trying to bait you into acting out so she can file for changes to the agreement. I made that up, zero evidence of that being the case, but even if I am wrong, you have to consider that with every single communi…	/r/Divorce_Men	13/05/26 09:30 PM
2	Women are just children in adult bodies No.	/r/MensRights	13/05/26 09:09 PM
6	What’s your opinion on guys like Myron Gaines? He has middle school virgin lying about his girlfriend out of state vibes.	/r/MensRights	11/05/26 07:19 PM
0	The war on cold approaching says more about society than men Cold Approaching has never worked. Nobody ever “used to do it”. Not in the 1970s, not in the 80s, 90s - I have never seen anyone do it successfully, ever, and it is a stupid trend that needs to stop. Men need to stop following advice from men who don’t know what they are doing.	/r/MensRights	09/05/26 01:26 PM
1	Seeking Support Nobody recovers from a parent’s suicide. Ever. She needs you here a lot more than she needs money. This is a temporary problem my friend. I promise. We are all here to let you know that it’s going to work out. It is going to suck, for a bit, but it gets better	/r/Divorce_Men	22/04/26 01:38 AM
2	Seeking Support I can hear your pain, but I am not sure what you are talking about. I will say that a lot of men agree to foolish things, not because they have to, but because they feel guilty and try to atone by giving up everything. Please don’t sign anything without letting someone else take a look at whatever it is. Most states have guidelines and she can’t just demand whatever she wants unless you agree to it. Take a step back and a deep breath and figure out what resources you have and take one step at a …	/r/Divorce_Men	22/04/26 01:09 AM
-6	ROEvWADE Doesn’t Exist And Women Are Forced To Keep A Child And Pay Child Support, What If Women We’re Held To The Same Standards As Men? Can you help me understand what are you fighting for? There are a lot of women forced to keep an unplanned child and pay for that child the whole time. There have been fathers that have disappeared almost as long as there has been fathers. Lots of people are forced to accept realities that do not align with the plans they made before life got real. So what is it that you are arguing for? Is it that men should be solely responsible for making the decision as to whether a fetus is carried to term …	/r/MensRights	17/04/26 01:28 AM
-15	Maturing as a Man is realizing that Women view us as a survival strategy How old are you? How "mature" are you these days? What is it in your life that taught you this truth, or is it just from listening to other guys?	/r/MensRights	15/04/26 08:37 PM
1	if you're oing Pro Se in Family Court this is what Worked for Me This sounds like some interesting information but think about being a little more specific about the fact that you are sharing your experience and opinions and that you are not a lawyer nor giving legal counsel. It is easy to protect yourself by making that more clear. Also having people contact you to find how to do law might be a problem too. I don’t know if it will impact you, but if a guy goes to a judge saying he listened to you and AI and knows what he is talking about, it may not go well …	/r/Divorce_Men	15/04/26 12:20 PM
-1	Theres no winning here Can you explain this better? I sincerely don’t understand what you are talking about. Why do you think you are supposed to “win”? Do you think you are responsible for bringing anything to the table besides earning money, or do you think men are supposed to be taken care of by a woman devoted to the cause? Has any woman tried to use you for money? There are plenty of women who are not going to be compatible, there absolutely are people who are out to take advantage of people but the bulk of the w…	/r/MensRights	14/04/26 01:32 PM
0	Would it be fair if women were given 32 paid days a year for having periods? Ouch !- A sick burn from a supreme gentleman.	/r/MensRights	14/04/26 11:22 AM
1	Would it be fair if women were given 32 paid days a year for having periods? First, I am not a boomer. I am Gen X and we dont give a F#$K what you think about boomers, we have hated them longer. Next, this isnt gender wars. There is no gender war. The ONLY people engaged in a gender war are the radical extremes and religious fanatics. All of the adults I know believe that men and women can get along just fine. We are discussing a radical policy proposal brought up by one person, and it will not be taken anymore seriously than your butt hurt whining. This has nothing to d…	/r/MensRights	14/04/26 04:34 AM
0	Would it be fair if women were given 32 paid days a year for having periods? So, what is the problem? Yeah, feminism blah blah, unfairness blah blah, - In the discussion of the proposed policy which is almost certainly not going to be turned into any kind of law - Did men ask for the same paid time off? Because if they didnt ask to be included in the imaginary month of paid time off then who in the world is just going to offer it? Is all the crying is about the girls asking for stuff, while you fart into the same cushion for another day waiting for gifts? Learn to pick y…	/r/MensRights	14/04/26 04:15 AM
1	Man talks about how we should less demonize men/incels Kind of hard to watch a guy with a bag on his head calling himself an Alpha male and talking about how he doesn’t understand what is going on. Maybe in the future he can watch a “how to” tutorial on making videos and write a script first and focus what he is trying to say to make watchable videos if he thinks his message is important enough for me to spend my time watching it. If he treats his message as not worth production value, then I will probably do the same Maybe mention it If you ever ta…	/r/MensRights	13/04/26 05:11 PM
-2	Would it be fair if women were given 32 paid days a year for having periods? If you need something, ask for it. Be mad if you don’t get what you wanted. Don’t get upset when somebody else asks for what they want and get it. The object is to build your life, not tear down anyone else’s. I would much rather that I also get 32 paid days off instead of fighting against them getting paid. If they can get paid, more power to them.	/r/MensRights	13/04/26 04:55 PM
10	Question for divorced men who hookup how do you find so many women to have sex with? You need to start by understanding that in today’s world, a woman meeting a stranger for sex is risking her life in a few ways. Between, regular assault, SA,internet harassment, STIs, pregnancy and the lack of available women’s health services a woman has to be crazy to F$&@ a stranger. Stop trying to hook up with strangers because it won’t happen. What you CAN do is meet actual women, and find someone who is maybe interested in a casual thing or a FWB, but they need to know that they are not go…	/r/Divorce_Men	09/04/26 01:23 PM
2	What is the #1 best way to structure an article about male survivors/victims of sexual violence? Where are you publishing? I think trying to write a piece about sexual violence towards boys and men is really tough. Partly because the what is easily understood as sexual violence when a man does something to a woman may not be understood to be sexual violence between two boys. If a high school senior boy walked down the hall, stuck his hand in the back of some girls pants and grabbed her underwear and started pulling on it - It is violent, unwanted, humiliating and painful - no question sexua…	/r/MensRights	07/04/26 01:40 PM
1	Have any guys lost custody of their kids but got 50/50 later? How long? Not a lawyer, don’t know anything about your circumstances and this is definitely not legal advice. A lot depends on where you are and your circumstances but a lot of states defer to 50/50 and there needs to be compelling reasons to do something else. I fought for years with my ex, but ultimately she just wanted to win, not parent. When the dust settles, my kid is with me 5 days a week because she still doesn’t actually want to parent. Once it became clear that more custody meant dealing with mo…	/r/Divorce_Men	04/04/26 11:15 AM
0	Daddy’s Daughter Syndrome How old the women you are dating? Im guessing not 31.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/04/26 04:00 AM
1	Seeking Divorce Help I am not a lawyer, I dont know your situation or the law well enough to give any advice on what the law says, and it looks like some other people have given solid tips. I came on here to tell you to stay calm. They are throwing hassles at you to break your resolve. Come freak out here, need be, but there are rules and regulations and if you panic and freak out, you are much more likely to panic and get bullied into signing something. VA has some family court self help centers, they can be a grea…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/04/26 03:20 PM
3	Wife file for separation. I’m counter filing divorce. First, deep breath, you are going to be ok. I promise. She can say or do whatever she wants, there are rules and laws in place. They are very different depending on location, but a lot of places defer to 50/50 custody with the kids and unless there is a compelling reason argued in court or the two parties decide something privately, that is usually what the court pushes for. There are formulas for the money parts also. It isnt who files first gets to ask for whatever they want. Next - KEEP YOUR …	/r/Divorce_Men	02/04/26 11:12 AM
1	Wife file for separation. I’m counter filing divorce. ex did it to me	/r/Divorce_Men	02/04/26 10:59 AM
3	Giving up on my kids for everyone's peace? If you give up, you cant really ever change your mind. If you lose, you can try again, but if you concede you wont have much argument later. There are ways to lower your legal bills, if you are this far in, most of the expensive difficult stuff should be done. I cant give you any legal advice at all, I dont know the law or your situation, but I have been operating Pro se for about 5 years now. Wish I had a lawyer, but Ive been able to deal with most stuff on my own and it got me off my back foot…	/r/Divorce_Men	28/03/26 04:24 PM
1	3 Months and 13 days separated with 12 months to go I am new to the story here, but is it your plan to endure 9 months of quiet misery sharing a bedroom with a person planting cameras? Why?	/r/Divorce_Men	28/03/26 04:15 PM
11	Why do we allow women into our community? I was suspended from an all men’s group for profanity for using the word a$$ and then perma banned for complaining to the power tripping mod with a delicate ego. Men aren’t always so awesome either.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/03/26 12:24 PM
1	Who's pro se? I am sick of lawyers and there is no going back. I have been doing it for about 5 years. I hate it, but I think I could pass the Bar at this point. I know all the people at the courthouse and the legal self help centers. I have some lawyer friends I have bounced Ideas off of, but ithas been me. I had a lawyer at first, but he cost my life savings and didnt actually read any of the stuff that was crucial to my case. I wish I had a good lawyer, but being Pro se has allowed me to do things like appeal a ruling which would have been prohibitively …	/r/Divorce_Men	23/03/26 03:20 PM
3	Does masturbating cause muscle loss. No. Follow your instincts here. Who in the world would become a "No Fap Guru"? and why would you believe that they had any idea what they are talking about?	/r/MensRights	19/03/26 01:53 PM
2	Opinions please I can see that point of view, but I was suggesting being entirely selfish. She is going to get her way eventually. It is clear that this new person will be playing a larger role in her life and most likely your kids will be seeing him in some capacity as well. If you want to make it harder for them, you can do that, but it wont stop anything, and they will just cut you out of the loop. If you have legitimate concerns, it changes things entirely, but if she was just irresponsible a few years ago,…	/r/Divorce_Men	11/03/26 02:52 AM
5	Opinions please Your life is better when your ex is thriving. If she is serious about someone and acting like a responsible parent, don’t get in the way of her rebuilding her life. If you guys are on ok terms, have the discussion.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/03/26 01:34 AM
1	Wife just filed divorce Correct me if I am wrong, but it sounds like you havent had a lawyer through any of this. If you can afford a lawyer, get one today. Today.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/03/26 01:53 PM
1	I fucking hate my life now the first part - I really dont know enough about the details to have a real opinion, but right now you are fighting in every direction. When you are in a brawl, thats how you stay alive when you need to fight a lot of people, take a deep breath and look around. What do you want? - I know you want to beat your ex in court and sue the cops, but for what? Dig deeper on it, and Im guessing you want to win so that you can have peace of mind and be secure knowing that your family is ok, and that you h…	/r/Divorce_Men	09/03/26 11:40 PM
1	I fucking hate my life now Ok Friend, I hope this is helpful. I had SWAT kick in my door and spent the night in lock up for BS charges, I never found out who the witness was that claimed I dealt drugs, but I did not deal drugs, and happened to be in a custody battle. Between the arrest and the court, it crushed me, and I had a real tough time, sounds a lot like what you are going through. For me, and a I think a lot of guys, it is really hard to come to terms with being a victim. It is so hard to accept that bad things ha…	/r/Divorce_Men	09/03/26 08:25 PM
1	Anyone enroll in one of these divorce courses for men? I am very biased, but I believe most people have a situation that is unique to them. I dont love mens courses taught by women and I dont like super macho stuff. Neither suit me. These courses might be a great fit for you, but so might volunteering for free with a local nature conservation group removing invasive plants on Saturday mornings. A lot of group stuff is about being with other people and finding some community. Some people seem to get more out of going away and paying for an experience…	/r/Divorce_Men	26/02/26 02:59 PM
1	BEWARE OF SCAMMERS HERE: Redditors posting here for your business. 75-80% of suicides are men, and 30-40% of those suicides are directly related to divorce/custody. Men feel guilty and make stupid decisions that destroy their lives for years. Men dont get therapy and go out drinking and posting stupid crap on social media and lose their children, because MEN DONT GET HELP. Men die from stubbornness and ignorance and pride and go bankrupt asking a lawyer questions at $600 an hour. Divorce coaching isnt a scam. I am sure that there are scammers, but it is a real …	/r/Divorce_Men	26/02/26 02:37 PM
1	I can’t put in to words how much I miss her presence around the house + my kids and 2 dogs. You can get a dog. As a matter of fact, it is probably a great idea to get a dog. It is incredibly grounding, and it will be your dog, not one that someone can take. Good for support and exercise and socializing. Next, the whole "why try at all if disaster is potentially always looming?" Yeah, it is. People can be lousy, bad things happen, you will get hurt eventually, but most days are fine, though. Some are even great. We learn to find people that suit us better, hopefully, and as we age we be…	/r/Divorce_Men	23/02/26 08:11 PM
1	Wife wants a divorce Ok friend, I am going to be straight with you, because you are asking, but from the little that you have shared here, it sounds like you have had some problems and taken them out on her. I dont know what you mean that you are doing work on yourself, but if it isnt working with a therapist of some kind, it probably doesnt carry much weight and if you are getting therapy, I would imagine you would understand that there is some work to do on yourself. She said that has been broken, too broken. That…	/r/Divorce_Men	23/02/26 07:56 PM
5	Anyone’s standards for looks go up post divorce? Would your marriage have lasted longer if she had been an 8? You have the freedom to figure out who and what you are looking for moving forward, and I think you might try and reframe your thinking to looking for a better fit rather than "standards going up". I think it is more helpful to figure out what will make your life better instead of comparing to the past or setting arbitrary standards. Moving forward is about you, most people do better with people they trust and who make them feel good. …	/r/Divorce_Men	21/02/26 06:02 PM
2	53M. Married 26 years. Found out she never really loved me. Trying to understand how I stayed. Wow, my friend, That is a tough story and I get that you are hurting, and that she said some lousy stuff, but - guy to guy here - it also sounds to me like you have been miserable for a while. Like a long while. It also sounds like you tried to be a stand up guy, a good father and honor your commitments, but this relationship just hasnt worked out. It sucks and I can tell it is not what you wanted, but 53 isnt as old as it used to be, and Im not just saying that because Im 56... There is a whole…	/r/Divorce_Men	16/02/26 09:02 PM
2	Terrified of dating again A guy who has never been married by his mid 30s has a different set of hurdles to overcome. You are fine.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/02/26 01:50 PM
37	Ex spreading false sexual rumours Anything and everything you do will be used in court. This is absolutely bait to get you to flip out. Do absolutely nothing about it. Zero. You know who wouldnt worry at all about someone saying that shit? A guy who is comfortable with his junk and has too much class to say hurtful stuff about his ex. For 100% self preservation reasons, do nothing. Any hostility or aggression will be used to show how unstable you are. Dont try and 'Win" its a trap - Work to get what you want. Good Luck.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/02/26 04:07 PM
-4	Important Sex Ed for Men - Not a Clickbait Please go back on your meds	/r/MensRights	05/02/26 08:53 PM
11	So are all divorced men narcissists? I work as a divorce coach, I cringe every time I hear the word. I usually ask the person to define narcissism just to figure out what they are talking about. People seem to find relief by diagnosing people they dont get along with. Seems a little co-dependent....	/r/Divorce_Men	01/02/26 03:37 PM
1	How long does phone/video calls lasts with the mother when the kid is with you? Yes. Restrictions are part of good parenting. An hour on the phone is way too much, and as the the kids father, you are absolutely aloud to make restrictions. If she wants to negotiate the terms of the restrictions, you will be happy to do so, she is welcome to email a proposal, and until then all calls are to be 20 minutes or less.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/01/26 10:32 AM
2	Opinion/ 2 cents I think you need a lawyer, like yesterday. No joke. Friend, I am going to lay it out straight for you.: You are crushed and you are still in love with her and hoping to make it work. She has moved on. If you really lover her you would give her the house? Maybe, but if she really loved you, would she ask for it? I strongly believe that marital assets should be divided fairly, not equally, but fairly, depending on a lot of circumstances, but the choices you are making will affect the your finances…	/r/Divorce_Men	27/01/26 10:28 AM
1	Regret You are definitely going in scorched earth, and this is probably an awful path to take. I dont know your circumstances, but ChatGPT is a shitty lawyer. This is a crazy emotional way to initiate a split, and will potentially make you look unhinged. Do you have any idea what the law is? Have you looked to see if there are any self help centers in your local family court? If you live in a 50/50 custody jurisdiction, most places in the US are going that way, this is probably a lot and totally unnece…	/r/Divorce_Men	27/01/26 10:16 AM
2	Bad Math "Allow co-habitation"?!?! What does that even mean? Are you suggesting the court might make you live together because it will be financially better for you? Every guy freaks out at the money part, and somehow, every guy eventually makes it work. I have no idea where you got the idea that you need to support 2 households and spousal support and child support. You will be on the hook for some of it, but she is probably going to need to get her own life together. Finances are going to change, but y…	/r/Divorce_Men	19/01/26 08:31 PM
1	Told her last night A lot of change happens in 25 years, there is no way around that. The question becomes, do believe it will ever be better than it is right now, and what would that take? If she picked up the slack with the chores and started being more interested in intimacy would that fix things? Is that a possibility? If the idea of another 25 years makes you queasy, you probably know everything you need to know, but If you think it can be fixed, if it is important to you to make it to 50 years, you dont get t…	/r/Divorce_Men	07/01/26 02:46 PM