| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 0 | Why would she do this? | Disturbed_Aidan | /r/seduction | 24/02/20 08:12 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | What’s wrong with mePut yourself in the right place at the right time and trust your instincts. | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 01:42 PM |
| 3 | Is it a bad thing for girls to see me approach other girls after closing with them ?Smh, have you tried doing it when they can’t see? | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 10:13 AM |
| 1 | genuine question but how do you personally treat women you’re not attracted to?I don’t tend to treat them differently or any worse than the average person though I’m more attentive to an attractive woman because it feels good to interact with them. | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 11:48 PM |
| 1 | I am not desired sexually by womenThat’s not true. Even if your sex appeal is zero, you can work on yourself to increase it. You’re not forced to stay at your current condition. You can and will change. If your goal is to have sex appeal, write it down. Think about what sex appeal is, write that down. Explore what actions you need to take to increase your sex appeal, you guessed it — write it down. Get it in your head what you need to do and then start making those daily decisions to make it a reality. | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 08:39 AM |
| 1 | I am not desired sexually by womenWhy not improve your sex appeal then? Women aren’t primary focused on looks, they go for competence and confidence more so. These are things you can work on. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 11:17 PM |
| 8 | Fastest way to get laid in 2022 according to you guys (My post deleted itself so here's the compilation)I think if you look like you’re having a good time, through dancing, you’ll probably attract more women than standing awkwardly to one side. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 11:32 AM |
| 1 | I find cold approach addictiveIs it possible to learn this power? | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys think women value looks or money more?Hard to say because they value your attitude, competence and confidence, so whichever reflects those at the time. If you look like you have these things then money is irrelevant. However money can also give off the same vibe even if you don’t have the looks. | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 07:04 AM |
| 1 | Sleeping with lots of average girls to gain confidence?Will that gain you confidence? | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 08:47 AM |
| 1 | How should I go about dating the popular girl, when I myself, am a lonerHaha! The description is “[removed]”. I wasn’t upset about anything you posted. I was more upset about what I posted. The idea that one just needs to be confident, yet here I am struggling to get anywhere. | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 06:09 PM |
| 1 | How should I go about dating the popular girl, when I myself, am a lonerIt’s been removed now :( | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 05:23 PM |
| 1 | How should I go about dating the popular girl, when I myself, am a lonerAll you need is confidence :( | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Going to my first date ever tomorrowGood for you. I wish I could say I was doing the same thing. | /r/seduction | 05/02/22 02:57 PM |
| 0 | My friend met and had sex with a girl 1 day before I did. We both met her on Tinder. And it was a total coincidenceWhat a slut | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 09:04 AM |
| 1 | how to be good in bedGo to sleep | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 11:37 PM |
| 1 | I'm almost 17 and never had a girlfriend. Sick of the "it'll happen eventually" stuff, so I'm going to make it happen.Talk to girls regularly. Arrange to hang out with them. Hang out with them. Ask them to be your girlfriend. | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 12:25 PM |
| 39 | On average, how many women do you sleep with in a year?0 | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 01:06 AM |
| 3 | What to do once I’m at a girl from tinders dormTrust your instincts “Use the Force, Luke! Let go, Luke.” | /r/seduction | 07/12/21 07:48 AM |
| 5 | Approach Us!!!But I’m SHY | /r/seduction | 03/12/21 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Im new to this, i have a question: masksDid you just call me a por favor? | /r/seduction | 02/12/21 08:44 AM |
| 1 | Is it normal to find small talk and flirty banter really fucking exhausting?I think you’re supposed to be yourself, whilst pushing yourself to pursue women. If you don’t want to talk about certain things, then don’t. | /r/seduction | 28/11/21 07:46 PM |
| 0 | Too many guys are too afraid to speak to strangersI don’t really care about talking with strangers, it doesn’t bother me. I’ll talk to anyone but generally prefer to keep myself to myself and not bother anyone. What does bother me is seeing an attractive female and wanting to not bother her. I know women generally would find it flattering for a guy to politely ask her out and give her attention, as opposed to just stand around looking at her and not saying anything. However I just seem incapable of expressing myself. Part of me is terrified of … | /r/seduction | 13/11/21 09:21 AM |
| 2 | How to ask out a waitress?Son of a bitch | /r/seduction | 12/11/21 05:25 PM |
| 1 | The girl was black out drunk I didn't even realizeSon of a bitch | /r/seduction | 06/11/21 04:14 PM |
| 1 | 26 years old. Making big changes in my life. Never had GF, Sex or Kiss. But that’s changing. Should I tell women about my lack of experience ?Save it for the date. | /r/seduction | 29/10/21 09:45 AM |
| 1 | I just went on 10 dates in 10 consecutive days. Here's what I learned.I don’t know whether to be disgusted or impressed, haha! On the one hand what you have done is awesome but on the other it doesn’t appeal to me to fuck or date so many strangers in such a short space of time. What is certainly impressive though is how you’ve managed to arrange so many dates through dating apps alone, not to mention day after day with minimal flakiness. I am curious how you have the free time to do this though. | /r/seduction | 28/08/21 12:33 PM |
| 8 | Mom wingmanned her daughter for me so she could get laid.Stepson? Don’t you mean son-in-law? This is really creepy if the mom was trying to adopt you as her new child whilst being sexual. | /r/seduction | 04/07/21 11:02 PM |
| 2 | Need advice on cougarLol I must be getting old if 36 is considered cougar age | /r/seduction | 09/05/21 09:16 PM |
| 1 | 18 Reasons You Should LOVE RejectionsI don’t think I’m too concerned with rejection. I’m more scared of being in a relationship. It’s fear of acceptance and the lifestyle changes needed for relationships. | /r/seduction | 29/04/21 09:34 AM |
| 12 | I’m 27, a virgin, living at home, jobless, struggling with mental illness. I’m lonely and horny just like everyone else but idk where to startClean your room | /r/seduction | 25/04/21 07:15 AM |
| 4 | Don't hesitate. Or another guy WILL take her out insteadThanks | /r/seduction | 08/04/21 09:50 PM |
| 5 | Don't hesitate. Or another guy WILL take her out insteadBut I don’t fully appreciate why I should take anyone out. I seem to lack the thing that lets people know to take action in asking someone out and the motivation to drive that action. | /r/seduction | 08/04/21 06:13 PM |
| 457 | Lost virginity from listening to sedditI was so confused when you said you had crushes on other guys, I thought you were going to have sex with one of the guys she called over at the bar. I was thinking: ‘wait, is this guy trying to fuck the girl or the guys?’ | /r/seduction | 04/04/21 12:07 AM |
| 1 | The odds of you being born were nearly 1 in 400 Trillion. The fact the you exist is virtually impossible.The odds seem 1 to 1 from here. | /r/seduction | 31/03/21 09:56 AM |
| 0 | Couldn't get hard - again - with a wonderful girlI don’t understand. Can’t you just masturbate or get her to give you a blowjob or something to get hard? Or go down on her, whatever gets you going. | /r/seduction | 14/03/21 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Asked out the hottest girl in my gym... (first time trying pickup)Need more details. What did you say and when was the moment you decided to do it? | /r/seduction | 08/02/21 11:03 PM |
| 89 | One of the first steps in finding a hookup/relationship: Stepping out of your comfort zone.My problem is: if I know a girl is interested in me, I seize up and lose the ability to talk. | /r/seduction | 19/01/21 12:27 PM |
| 1 | 2020 was my best year with women even though I was unemployed and living with my momu/RepostSleuthBot | /r/seduction | 02/01/21 11:26 AM |
| 3 | About to be a 24 year old virgin in JanuaryNice one. You beat my record. | /r/seduction | 21/12/20 07:51 AM |
| 1 | 18m virgin never gotten to far with girls I’m a freshman in college and need to turn my life aroundTurn it around? It’s barely started. Anyway it’s good that you are starting early. The first thing to do would be to make sure you are putting yourself in the right places at the right time to meet people. You might get lucky but you have to be there to have a chance. Practise being honest with people and improving your social skills generally. Make eye contact and stand up straight with your shoulders back. Then when you find someone you genuinely want to be with, express yourself and make it h… | /r/seduction | 22/10/20 09:29 AM |
| -5 | First time going down on a girlDon’t expect it to smell great, but you never know you may enjoy it. When I first went down on a girl I gagged. The body odour can be quite strong. Sort of reminded me of an armpit. If it’s not great, stop using your nose to smell or breathe with. After the initial licks, focus on the clitoris (at the top) and later use your fingers to insert inside the vagina. You don’t have to spend too long down there but maybe keep going until your neck or tongue aches. Build up to a fast and intense finish. | /r/seduction | 10/10/20 09:15 PM |
| 1 | If you are in your 20s and never had any romantic or sexual experiences with women, you are done.You’re exaggerating. Be more realistic. Honestly, the best thing you can do is put yourself in the right situations to meet women, and take it from there. | /r/seduction | 08/10/20 03:23 PM |
| 2 | If you are in your 20s and never had any romantic or sexual experiences with women, you are done.Lol why don’t you just stop pursuing the type of women that aren’t interested in you? | /r/seduction | 08/10/20 03:17 PM |
| 1 | “Focus on you and the women will too”I must be doing it wrong. | /r/seduction | 02/10/20 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Best books on NEVER run out of things to say!Not sure about books. I found listening to Jordan Peterson’s lectures inspirational to sort my life out and take responsibility. He has a book 12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos. So there’s that. | /r/seduction | 17/09/20 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Best books on NEVER run out of things to say!Feeling comfortable enough to say anything or to be brave enough rather, is the trick. | /r/seduction | 16/09/20 06:01 PM |
| 2 | How do men like to be touched??As long as you don’t nip, I wouldn’t worry about squeezing too hard. You kinda know what you’re doing, just don’t go in with the intention to cause pain but definitely be forceful. | /r/seduction | 10/09/20 10:24 AM |
| 1 | I approached a girl she called me creepyI guess if you’re going to stare at someone, it’s best to make your intentions clear immediately. I know I’d be concerned if someone kept staring at me and didn’t say anything or smile. It’s easy to get paranoid and uncomfortable. Smiling helps but if they catch you looking, you really need to say something to them rather than just keep staring at them. The longer this goes on without a clear sign of friendliness, the creepier it becomes. | /r/seduction | 08/09/20 09:00 AM |
| 1 | desperately need to learn how to kissThis may sound odd but I don’t think you’re mature enough to be kissing if you don’t have the instincts for it. | /r/seduction | 24/08/20 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Muted Girl [18] I Just Want A Boyfriend...Sign language. Give him the old blowjob sign LOL But seriously learn sign language. Teaching boys sign language could be a good way to get close. | /r/seduction | 21/08/20 02:42 PM |
| 6 | Things a learnt from a very successful guySo: be confident, don’t be self-conscious and talk to everyone. The thing is, when you said he’s slept with 5 or 6 girls already, I just thought: that’s a great way to get a disease. It doesn’t appeal to me to just spend my time trying to have sex with every girl. I want to have sex sure but I don’t want to fuck every girl out there. They’d all have to be really attractive but even then it’s trashy. | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 10:15 AM |
| 1 | I look too young.Go for younger girls lol? | /r/seduction | 27/07/20 11:09 AM |
| 23 | I feel way more comfortable talking in English than my native languageGirls love foreign accents, so it’s hardly surprising. As for native girls, they either think you’re foreign or view you as being successful since you probably have a good job if you speak English. | /r/seduction | 24/07/20 01:35 PM |
| 3 | Kill the boy, become the man (Conquering Approach Anxiety).The Animal I have become. | /r/seduction | 23/06/20 10:51 AM |
| 2 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 16 Progress Report (1 number)Do it. It’d be hilarious. | /r/seduction | 13/06/20 08:05 PM |
| 2 | How to really stop putting women on a pedestal?You do realise that women bleed from their vaginas on a monthly basis right? | /r/seduction | 12/06/20 11:51 PM |
| 2 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)Where’s this short version you promised? | /r/seduction | 09/05/20 10:29 AM |
| 2 | "I'm tired of being the quiet person that seems to have no personality."Then stop being quiet... But yeah, start being honest with everyone. Don’t hide your thoughts and feelings, especially when asked for. | /r/seduction | 07/05/20 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Conversations with an average man with an above average sex lifeHow many STDs have you had? | /r/seduction | 07/04/20 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Why would she do this?I was too cowardly to say anything. It was at a train station bar, so I eventually left and got my train. | /r/seduction | 24/02/20 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Why would she do this?No. I’m pretty poor at this sort of thing. To be fair she had headphones in and kept occasionally face timing someone. Though it was clear at times she wanted to talk but I was too cowardly to say anything. | /r/seduction | 24/02/20 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Why would she do this?No. I’m pretty poor at this sort of thing. To be fair she had headphones in and kept occasionally face timing someone. Though it was clear at times she wanted to talk but I was too cowardly to say anything. | /r/seduction | 24/02/20 09:11 PM |
| 2 | She told me I was boring. What are some tips I can do to change this?You should have told her you make up for it in the bedroom. | /r/seduction | 23/01/20 12:40 PM |
| 4 | how does sex “just happen”?Have you tried being honest? | /r/seduction | 23/01/20 12:33 PM |
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