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It’s… it’s the woods. Sometimes nature calls and in nature you must answer. Unless she intends to carry around a portapotty I’m not sure what she’s expecting people to do lmao, it’s just part of being alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:36 AM
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I saw it. It was a rant about how if you can do 1+1=2 you should move to an East Asian country to bang hot STEM women lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:07 PM
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Hot
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:05 PM
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Hoe, if you put those numbers onto a calculator and flip the calculator upside down it looks like the word hoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:51 PM
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Peach Bellini hearts!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:46 PM
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I approve of this message!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:43 PM
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I got my husband his favorite candy :D
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:39 PM
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I’m not really into seafood but damn
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:38 PM
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Spoken like a woman who hasn’t had Ghirardelli’s crème brûlée chocolate hearts before 😤 Seriously though I need to see if there are any stores near here that sell them so I can get them on sale after lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:37 PM
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If anything I see more guys complain about having to do the chasing/wanting to be chased. Like… people want to feel wanted. Even if it doesn’t go anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:33 PM
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Consider the following: discount candy for like… a week afterwards :D
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:30 PM
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They’re not piloting a ship, they’re living two distinct yet connected lives. It’s entirely possible for both to be at least equitable in how various aspects of those lives are handled. When conflicts do arise, that’s where communication and compromise come into play. Neither person should be making a decision that majorly impacts the other without agreeing on said decision beforehand unless absolutely necessary. I appreciate it when my husband takes the lead for a lot of things because quite fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:34 AM
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I’m too tired to go through the spiel about why people struggle to leave their abusers, so I’m just going to say this: When it comes to verbal abuse, most people who stay with abusive partners either don’t realize it’s abuse, believe they deserve the abuse, or are manipulated with threats of self harm and suicide. When it comes to physical abuse, what exactly are men supposed to do aside from leave immediately? Lay a hand on her and the cops will side with her. Abusers are often masters of playi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 11:34 PM
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It’s too late I’ve committed (I’ll probably use the symbol next time though ty)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:16 AM
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It’s open to interpretation but it’s mainly the following: -PPD is no stranger to LARPers, fibbers, and ne’erdowells -I have been accused of LARPing as one here before for some of my Hot Takes™️ -I don’t really care whether people believe me when I say I am for all intents and purposes a woman -I just think it’s kinda funny to add “allegedly” to the end of an easily verifiable statement
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:55 AM
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Okay I have at least amused myself
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:42 AM
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Wait. I have an idea
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:40 AM
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You know damn well the only responses to that would be “true” or “how dare you” so clearly that’s not going to work
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:38 AM
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I can’t believe automod couldn’t tell I was a woman from my “✨manic pixie autist✨” flair 😭 Now I have to come up with a flair that’s funny AND says woman in it??? This is a travesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:36 AM
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At the risk of sounding like a broken record, I think it depends heavily on the individual in question. I think people here make a mistake in arguing right and wrong rather than compatibility in situations like these. I totally understand needing reassurance when insecurities and anxieties flare up—especially in such high stakes situations. Not everyone is going to be comfortable in a relationship where paternity tests or go-bags are the reassurances needed and I think that’s okay, but that does…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:33 AM
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These are not remotely equivalent. The fear in regards to paternity is cheating, and there are absolutely equivalent AND RELEVANT things you could compare more effectively: -constant location tracking -financial records (child support) -social media+messaging monitoring -device monitoring
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:02 AM
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I think it depends on the person, and my answers will focus on a situation where the woman lies about having a headache because if a man gets upset that his partner doesn’t want sex due to an actual headache then that’s a him problem. Some men are bothered by the idea that their partner would feel the need to lie to them instead of trusting them to just accept that she’s not in the mood. The alternative here is just honesty. Some couples have incompatible sex drives to the point that one partner…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 02:16 AM
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1) I wouldn’t cheat on or break up with my husband. I don’t expect that a relationship with someone else would be as strong as the one I have with him and I despise cheating so any short term possibilities would be run by him first. Plus our (physically) “perfect person” is the same woman so… that could streamline our process lol. 2) I think the rates would be similar, maybe slightly more men than women. 3) I think the rate of replacers would be higher than cheaters, where anyone who’s cheated o…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 09:49 PM
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Realistically, it doesn’t much matter even if we do find a man weaker than us—easy access to weapons means that everyone poses some level of threat in the right circumstances. Besides, it’s not about whether or not we’d win in a fight. It’s about how much we’ll get hurt by the time it’s over.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:18 PM
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First of all, kind≠wholesome. I disagree either way, but admittedly wholesomeness does not lend itself well to being viewed as sexy and igniting sexy times. Kindness, though? That’s one of the more attractive traits. Things like taking care of friends, family, and animals actually tend to increase attraction. It increases stability and longevity of relationships. “Nice Guys” get the capital letters and quotations because they’re assholes who are only nice when they want something out of the othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:45 PM
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Keep in mind that the lower the rent is, the further you’ll be from a city center and probably your work. You also need to factor in taxes (12% federal income tax+state income tax). A cheap car isn’t likely to get great MPG and will often need more frequent repairs. And don’t forget grocery costs: https://www.move.org/the-average-cost-of-food-in-the-us/ On top of that, the egregious price of medical care in the US is made even worse by the fact that Medicaid isn’t accepted by 20-50% of physician…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:15 AM
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Which one? Take your pick, some of them will make you do the math others do it for you. I did my part by linking them now you can feel free to read them As for the second bit, people don’t usually move in with their partners outside of a serious, committed relationship so women who struggle to get commitment will struggle here as well. Regardless, no one should face extra financial hardship over dating difficulties.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:34 AM
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https://finance.yahoo.com/news/rent-minimum-wage-salary-every-090000063.html I’ll refer you to this breakdown in particular. A studio is not affordable on minimum wage in most places and I think you can understand why having a roommate in a studio apartment would be extremely unpleasant. Roommates are a good option but only go so far. It takes 3-4 people working full time at minimum wage to be able to afford to rent a 2 bedroom in most states (as per several of the sources I linked). As many peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:06 AM
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https://www.cnbc.com/amp/2021/07/14/full-time-minimum-wage-workers-cant-afford-rent-anywhere-in-the-us.html https://nlihc.org/oor/about https://www.wfaa.com/amp/article/news/local/minimum-wage-workers-cant-afford-apartments-most-parts-of-country/287-eed337be-01b6-4422-8ebf-6682a5ca2ee2 https://fortune.com/2023/02/02/minimum-wage-workers-need-multiple-jobs-roommates-afford-rent/amp/ https://amp.theguardian.com/us-news/2017/jun/08/minimum-wage-affordable-housing-rentals-study https://finance.yahoo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:15 AM
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In America, most people making minimum wage cannot afford rent and groceries if they live within walking/bussing distance of their workplace. Medical care is a whole other story on top of that, and cars+gas are out of the question if they live far enough to need a car. Minimum wage should be based on the regional minimum cost required to afford housing (studio appt or equivalent), food (basic nutritional needs met, if people insist on brand name shit that’s on them but there ought to be some wig…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:55 AM
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Yeah I definitely would. I did, more than once—though only one was AMAB. I definitely don’t understand people who are grossed out by it but are fine with pegging or anal sex. Hell, I don’t like either of those and it doesn’t really matter unless a partner expects one from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:47 AM
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Oh it is, he’s got plans—he’s also looking at other options for jobs in the meantime. For now I wanna make sure he doesn’t die, at least until the company bankrupts itself when it’s eventually (hopefully) forced to pay out overtime.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:19 PM
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He’s working 12+ hours each day, doesn’t get any breaks, and he’s low management so if they need extra hands (which they always do because they refuse to hire enough people) he has to show up. Over a week of ridiculously extended, double, or otherwise back to back shifts without a single day off and multiple months of only having at most one day off every two weeks would be hard on anyone I’d think. They also haven’t been paying him for his overtime even though he’s hourly. Hopefully the labor b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:08 PM
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Oh absolutely. He hasn’t had a day off in over a week. When I worked hours like his I ended up with the same problem, only not as bad because I was part of a union so I always got at least one day off and there was a limit to how much overtime I could be mandated for.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 10:52 PM
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I mean… I’m not single and the person I hear it from most is my husband. A thread on toxic/false positivity inhibiting personal growth could be good though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 10:24 PM
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That whatever I’m doing/offering to do to help is a big enough deal to make even accepting the help difficult. This time, a friend’s job is fucking him over and he’s working himself sick. He barely ate before work, probably won’t have time to even sit down until after 11PM, and has to open the store tomorrow so there’s no way he’s going to have time to deal with food. I’m gonna bring him food so he doesn’t have to worry about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 10:22 PM
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How exactly are we supposed to know whether or not a guy is talking to us hoping to get laid? I readily admit that being a woman comes with privileges and very different expectations to being a man. However, I don’t want people being nice to me because they have ulterior motives. That’s not a privilege, that’s a hazard—I don’t enjoy rejecting advances, it pains me to see the disappointment on their faces afterwards, and it hurts even more when they pretend to be my friend only to be pissed later…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 10:12 PM
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My friends need to stop telling me I’m “too good” it’s starting to go to my head 😅 But also I wouldn’t need to be this good if they would take just care of themselves and I can’t be the one to tell them that because I’d be a massive hypocrite 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 09:47 PM
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Never? Even the most disrespectful ones never amounted to anything actionable if I had reported them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:45 PM
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Poorly. We manage poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:37 PM
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If he hasn’t discovered thigh highs and garters, I know what your next gift to him should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:29 PM
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And yet the 30 minute task is preferable 🥲 send help
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:12 PM
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Okay depression Barbie was also pretty great. But so was the Beach Off scene!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:09 PM
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Some prefer to keep their lower bits, some can’t get surgery, and some get surgeries that aren’t the full experience so to speak. Sex drives and their reactions to hormones differ greatly depending on the individual. I know some trans women who got SUPER horny after starting HRT and some who got less horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:08 PM
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My favorite part was John Cena as Mer-Ken.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:04 PM
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Well then there u go! If we find one more we can form the mythical 666 or whatever 😋
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:01 PM
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I can find more pictures of men I find attractive to link. That riled people up lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 08:56 PM
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If I had given you a 6 would you have believed me? ‘Cause that’s where I would’ve put you. It’s also where I’d rate myself. People tend to disagree with me on my ratings though lol, that’s more what I meant by not good with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 08:55 PM
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^
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 08:52 PM
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It’s okay I’m already married, you gotta chase skirts of single ladies anyway :P
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 08:17 PM
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7-8. Good skin, funny, goes to therapy. Solid guy all around. Edit: gotta go with 7, he’s too tall for my tastes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:58 PM
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I gotta keep up with fellow PPDers somehow, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 09:01 PM
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You’re welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 08:47 PM
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In case y’all were wondering what peak male performance looks like… it’s this. https://www.instagram.com/p/Cxgfo2Gu9XB/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 08:43 PM
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Yep, just gotta eat something so I don’t make a fool of myself and vomit or pass out along the way 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 08:29 PM
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In this economy? Boi you better be paying
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 08:29 PM
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I mean I could get the groceries delivered or have my husband go but I’d need to send him some money for it and I don’t want to deal with the fees for that. Plus the exercise and sunlight will be good for me regardless of what my POTS has to say about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 08:27 PM
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Warm and sunny, which is actually quite bad for me because I overheat absurdly easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 08:23 PM
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Fantastic thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 08:21 PM
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If I go to the closest store, under 5 minutes each way. If I go to the cheaper store with more options, much farther and I’ll be carrying back some pretty heavy items.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 08:21 PM
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Bleh. I don’t wanna walk to the store. I’m gonna but I really really don’t wanna. Someone call me names or something so I can feel motivated by spite
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 08:16 PM
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Rules as Written?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 08:09 PM
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I don’t own any of my own but I take care of my mom’s when she’s traveling. One of her birds (green cheek conure) won’t step up until he’s made you bleed but after that he’s a snuggly lil mango. I love him. I do not want one of my own. Her other bird (caique) is… a little too into me and I have scars on my arms from when I rejected her advances. I love her. I really don’t want one of my own. They like to sing with me though :) and they can be bribed out of violence (temporarily) via banana chips
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:54 PM
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Happens to the best of us. I don’t much care what move gets the job done so long as I give them a Viking burial after.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:43 PM
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Budgies are ADORABLE. Parrots are also assholes. Small parrots are fine, even if they draw blood I’m not getting a chunk taken out of me (usually) but big parrots terrify me and can also definitely smell my fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:43 PM
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Which birds? Are we talking parrots, finches, or full on falconry?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:39 PM
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How does one perform a suplex on a bug using a sandal?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:38 PM
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I’m sure some are but even those who aren’t can enjoy the experience if they love the person. It might not end up being sexually satisfying but it can still be a fun time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 10:20 PM
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Oh I absolutely agree with you that it’s an investment. It’s just also what I expect would be considered the most annoying part of first-time intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 10:15 PM
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EXTREMELY different. He’s a respectful equal, meets next to none of the inane requirements expected of men in happy relationships here, and is an absolutely wonderful partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 10:08 PM
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More awkward and vaguely unpleasant depending on the pair. If she didn’t get lucky with biological ease of pleasing and isn’t already familiar with what she likes, foreplay and subsequently the actual sex is gonna involve a lot of experimenting and could still end up not being enough to make the experience enjoyable (possibly for either person). Clinginess probably won’t be an issue for anyone who waits until marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 10:02 PM
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I’d need more information than that—how well does he know the girls he’s approaching, where/when is he approaching them, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 09:56 PM
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Once in middle school a group of girls decided to smear shit and vomit on the stalls. We never found out which girls did it but every single class had to get a talking to from their teachers about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 09:54 PM
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How could you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:25 PM
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FATHER YOU HAVE RETURNED FROM THE WAR
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 07:49 PM
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At least I’m prepared for the 80 pound German Shepard tackle when I hear the door lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 07:43 PM
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I thanked my lucky stars for just how small toy poodles are when Bonnie jumped directly into the back of my knee when I was putting a sock on my other foot. As it was I’m pretty sure I squawked and spooked her though
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 07:41 PM
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I never realized how important toes were for walking until I broke one 😭 I hope your ankle heals fast
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 07:31 PM
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Funnily enough, I weighed more when I ate less than I do now that I’m on a medication that increases my appetite to the point where I can actually eat more than one meal each day. Metabolism is wack
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 07:29 PM
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Long hair Similar taste in games/shows/movies Good cook Shares my hatred of the sun
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 07:25 PM
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Oh for sure. My sex life suffered worst when I worked an exhausting warehouse job with awful hours. I needed all the extra time I could find for sleeping.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 07:10 PM
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I get it. I’m one of the people who often gets involved even when it’s risky—I more meant that if the only thing you’re comfortable doing is calling emergency services that’s still better than nothing and can usually be done safely.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:08 AM
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Idk man… I make a mean cheesecake brownie. I’ve ruined my husband for subpar baked goods.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 02:12 AM
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Definitely not at a significantly higher rate than particularly attractive couples. Most people like sex, but as sex drives change and life stressors add up it can end up being low priority (especially if the couple has kids). That being said, you know what demographic has a LOT of sex? Octogenarians. Seriously. Apparently something like 23% of them have sex once a week or more. It’s more about free time and responsibilities than attraction, I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 02:08 AM
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That’s… not what she meant by that at all lmao?? Like I do chores but it’s not because my husband is incompetent. It’s because I’m a contributing member of the household. I show my love for my husband in other ways—while taking on extra chores is occasionally one of them it’s not my go-to option.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:00 PM
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Especially with violin and clarinet. Of all the instrument denominations, reeds and bow+string have the most obnoxious “you’re playing me wrong” noises
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:47 PM
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That’s completely fair. I think my parents had some Regrets when my siblings and I decided to learn french horn (me), percussion/violin (younger sister), and clarinet/oboe (youngest sister) On the bright side my youngest sister actually stuck with it and is good enough at oboe for it to be enjoyable to hear her practice 😅 Anyway, a friend of mine had really good experiences with hip hop classes and I’m sure there are plenty of other options out there as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:37 PM
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It’s hard to articulate this without people coming to the conclusion that the looks bar is entirely out of reach for average men when it really isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:26 PM
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Yeah. I’m 100% for making sure your kid has a dance based hobby but ballet being the go-to has fucked up many a child :/ Hip hop or tap are a lot more chill.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:25 PM
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The ones who aren’t probably have pepper spray and shit tbf I’m one of the idiots whose fight or flight response is stuck on fight so self defense classes were a must for me 😅 saved my ass hard when a dude tried to mug me and instead of handing over my $5 and shitty phone I panicked and dislocated his jaw
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:22 PM
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I’d recommend other forms of dance unless you have a particular attachment to ballet. My mom’s joints are permanently fucked from doing ballet as a kid/teen and the culture around it is super toxic :( BJJ is a fantastic time though
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:17 PM
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I think that the right thing to do, regardless of your gender or that of whoever is theoretically in danger, is to help as much as you safely can. It’s valiant to go beyond the bounds of reasonable safety but certainly not something that should be expected of every bystander. No civilian should feel obligated or pressured into putting themselves in harm’s way for a stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:14 PM
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I’m already on Twitch, it’s just not linked to this Reddit account :P So’s my husband, but he streams way more regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:14 PM
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Believe it or don’t, it’s up to you—all I’ll say is that my non-look requirements were a fair bit higher given how much I preferred the gentleness I found with the women I dated. My husband is a genuinely exceptional person and I’m lucky to have him. My experience with the 6’1 girl also informed me that I prefer partners close to me in height for the sake of my neck.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:09 PM
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I… don’t wanna talk about it, aside from I hope to qualify for the TFT Noxus Cup.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:00 PM
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See the funny thing is I kick his ass at chess but I don’t do well with any other strategy game I’ve tried aside from Teamfight Tactics (which I’m highly ranked in)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 04:53 PM
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Multiplayer: League, Divinity OS2, Minecraft, Fall Guys, BG3, Valorant, Teamfight Tactics Single player but with investment in the other’s playthroughs: Fear and Hunger 2, Wildfrost, Slay the Spire, and a lot of other things that I can’t remember right now and can’t look through my steam library to check because he’s currently asleep on me and I don’t wanna wake him up Edit: OH pretty much all of the Dark Pictures Anthology games. I also forgot Phasmophobia. And Monster Hunter. We played Fortnit…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 04:50 PM
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What are you talking about? If anything my requirements were higher because I prefer women. The requirements just aren’t rooted in looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 04:40 PM
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Grand strategy? Probably not lol. FPS games? More likely 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 04:31 PM
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No, it’s definitely chemistry. If I lined up my exes for you I’d be very impressed if you found a physical pattern because they are: 5’9 brunette white woman with long hair, blue eyes, heavyset, loud and had a passion for music 6’1 blonde white woman with short hair, blue eyes, built like a massive fuckin tank in every possible way, super chill and partaker in the devil’s lettuce 5’1 Korean woman with long hair, brown eyes, tiny and thin as a twig, very sweet and quiet 5’8 very loud and sweet It…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 04:25 PM
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No? It means we can play them together :)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 04:10 PM
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Considering the number of couples citing financial concerns as their reason for not having children? I’m gonna go with no, “today’s female dating strategy” is not the biggest threat to the birth rate. On top of that, stripping women’s rights won’t fix the underlying issues driving people away from having kids. Enough objectors exist regardless of gender that enforcement of any egregious measures would be a logistical nightmare.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 10:48 PM
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That’s one hell of a friend. It’s a damn shame you’re not into dick
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 08:03 AM
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She’s chubby but she’s definitely not obese. She’s definitely cute though
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 08:00 AM
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Jesse what the fuck are you talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 07:58 AM
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In the DMs? Those dudes are in the DMs of any and every girl they can message. Even then I don’t have 40+ in my DMs even if I accumulated a count of all the guys I’ve ever had in my DMs over my life much less at once. In their social life? Most women don’t have that happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 12:11 AM
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Yes, but he’s also the only one so… there’s that. I wouldn’t trade his looks with any of my previous dating partners either though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 12:06 AM
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Not all orgasms are equal for women either to be fair. Maybe looking at comparative satisfaction would be better? Like maybe both people orgasm but weren’t satisfied or one/both didn’t but were satisfied? That’d be interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:50 PM
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That sure is correct lmao That being said my body is always looking at me sideways even when it’s the problem so like… I’d do it out of spite on a bad day
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:45 PM
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Hey, it works on outside germs why not inside germs! It’s actually been studied and apparently drinking a sufficient amount of high proof alcohol does somewhat reduce the chances/severity of some bacteria that cause food poisoning! Emphasis on “somewhat reduce” and “some bacteria”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:29 PM
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Oh lord no, I’m allergic to mold and not actively suicidal anymore. It was dry, normal color, still sealed beforehand, and smelled+tasted fine I’ve just got a weak stomach
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:26 PM
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Yeah I looked up how long they stay good for after the best by date and it wasn’t quite within the time frame but pretty close so I decided “fuck it”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:25 PM
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Eh, I survived c diff I can survive another round with food poisoning. Also I’d be more likely to die of a seizure from the alcohol (am epileptic) than the oat demons
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:24 PM
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Yeah and I checked it for mold/smell beforehand. It tasted fine too
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:23 PM
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Yeah! It’s a personal record!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:22 PM
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You’ll need to be very, very careful about boxing in the future and surgeries in that region can cause some unpleasant nerve stuff but if the risk is worth it to you then go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:21 PM
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Nooooo I don’t wanna lose my streak 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:18 PM
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I can’t afford that lmao, if it kills me it kills me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:15 PM
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Just ate oatmeal that expired a year ago. Wish me luck Edit: for legal reasons I will specify that it was a type of oatmeal that theoretically stays good up to 2 years past the expiration date and it was still sealed+checked for mold. I’m a fool but not that much of a fool
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:11 PM
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I think it’s definitely a green flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:00 PM
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That… sure is a take on what happened to women when a tribe was conquered.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 07:49 PM
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By “can-do” attitude I did specify that I meant “doesn’t take rejection harshly and just shoots all the shots” because there is ample evidence of average looking guys getting laid. Charisma comes down to knowing what to say and when to say it. I’m not sure what you think is “cope” about that, considering how many people lack both of those things. Other people already brought up the monkeys but I’d like to direct your attention to bonobos in particular as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 07:45 PM
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Hey, if I get back into BJJ I’d be able to contribute.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 07:04 PM
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Charisma and a can-do attitude. Plus a healthy dose of being in the right place at the right time, of course. Appearance also matters to a moderate degree, but it’s not only mythical Chads or anything like that. Seriously, if they’re not afraid of getting rejected (which they will be sometimes no matter how hot or charismatic they are) they’ll be more comfortable shooting their shot with anyone who catches their eye. Then it’s just a matter of having the charisma to seal the deal with any intere…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 02:10 AM
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Sweet, dorky, kind, expressive, silly. I don’t want to be guessing what he’s thinking and we gotta be able to laugh together.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 06:38 PM
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That’s good, ‘cause he really is the bestest
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:10 PM
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My choir teacher disowned me over my preferred build in WoW, I miss my teachers sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 07:59 PM
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The lid has to stay down for his cat so it’s never an issue for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 07:55 PM
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Yes it came as a massive shock to the students because he was, like… the least likely person you could think of (as a kid in his class at least) to have a TATTOO of a FISH on his LEG
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 07:54 PM
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Whoppers, nerds, and junior mints can come in boxes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 07:45 PM
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I know how to keep my man. And I have a reasonable track record of knowing what he wants, especially since I am capable of asking him if I’m not sure
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 07:40 PM
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I think I’m past the point of not calling my husband “husband material”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 07:38 PM
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Is saying my husband a cop out? Because it’s true and if he doesn’t count then I gotta go with a celebrity like Steve Irwin or Bob Ross or my 8th grade math and science teacher who has a fish tattoo on his leg
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 07:31 PM
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Money. Taxpayer money would be the reason to oppose it. If money wasn’t an issue then absolutely! It’d at least get people out of the house more and see them rewarded for it one way or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:09 PM
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You’re right that it isn’t, but it’s also already being done and not in ways that have the good of the people at heart. I should have specified that you can artificially increase desirability of specific groups of people through propaganda but not necessarily in ways that facilitate fairness.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:08 PM
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Not really. Meeting the needs of your partner in a relationship is a necessary part of maintaining a relationship. Opportunities are created by luck, it takes work and care to seize those opportunities. It goes both ways though—if either partner feels taken for granted or unappreciated they’re likely to grow discontent and leave. A fair relationship isn’t necessarily a cookie cutter 50/50 in all departments one—it’s one where both partners do their best to do right by the other and work through …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:05 PM
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Enforcing a ratio would result in reluctant participation that would never give the dates an actual chance. It would already be extremely expensive to create and maintain but enforcing a ratio would either leave men out or result in significantly more money being outright wasted.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 01:08 PM
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So? So… that would be the worse option. Less suffering = better imo? You can’t artificially increase chances on a systemic scale for dating, not like you can with employment. That’s the difference—you can’t externally increase the chances of someone finding a person they’re compatible with in a way that actually allows relationships to develop. Government regulated+sponsored blind dating program maybe? It’d probably run into the same problem as apps where the gender application ratio is super sk…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 12:45 PM
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Not really, no. Employer (company) has needs (job gets done). Employer (person) is in essence just another employee with a job to do: find person to get job done. There are very few jobs where race realistically impacts someone’s ability to do their job. Those jobs include actors, customer facing jobs in racist areas, and Steve Harvey. An employer (person) who turns down an otherwise qualified potential employee over their race is actually failing to do their own job as an employee (finding pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 09:13 AM
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I’m going to preface this by saying that YES male victims need resources on par with what’s available for women. Male victims aren’t even getting the bare minimum and that is a huge problem. I also believe that women are just as shitty, statistically speaking, as men are and most variance would be found in what flavor of terrible acts they commit. That being said… do you have a source to back up the claim that women murdered by their partners are the aggressors at a compellingly high rate? Don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:24 AM
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Wow. I wasn’t aware of that—that’s horrifying. I’m entirely unsurprised to see the statistic on juvenile victims, as women are rarely if ever punished properly for predatory behavior towards minors (particularly boys) which is incredibly frustrating considering how many people are immediately suspicious of men who go into childcare or pre-college teaching. I maintain that predators exist in similar numbers across the genders and giving half of them a free pass is all sorts of fucked up. The numb…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:00 AM
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The concept of fairness is also difficult if not impossible to apply to things like dating. You can’t force fairness—period. People have individualized preferences, types, and needs when it comes to finding partners. It’s impossible to guarantee that they will ever meet someone who meets their particular needs. You also can’t force anyone to feel a certain way about anything—including another person. Even if people were denied the ability to choose a partner and everyone got paired up, the quali…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:17 AM
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Op definitely didn’t think this one through lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:53 AM
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No one would enjoy that without a fetish for it. That’s part of why the general rule about exes for EVERYONE is “don’t ask, don’t tell” It probably wouldn’t break my relationship to watch and/or read all the shit my husband did before he met me but it would be a lot of unnecessary unpleasantness for the both of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:49 AM
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There are plenty of untrustworthy people all across the spectrum of physical attractiveness. It’s easy to say here and now that I never would have ended up one of his victims but realistically if I was in the wrong headspace at the wrong time in the wrong place and he knew how to exploit that? Who knows. A lot fewer women end up murdered by a full on serial killer than by an abusive long term partner, though. As for violence that doesn’t result in murder, there’s a fair bit of that too. Even if …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:32 AM
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The biggest fear when dating as a woman is being abused, sexually assaulted, or murdered.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 11:31 PM
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So… the crutches/wheelchair comparison actually applies to me. Yes, it is something that is inconvenient for me and my partner but it’s also always been this way for me. My “legs” aren’t broken, they were stunted from birth in this comparison. Made my teen years pretty unpleasant in that regard. I will point out that vibrators used during PIV sex are external. They don’t replace the penis and generally if a woman can’t orgasm from penetrative sex they won’t orgasm from internal toys aside from r…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 09:55 PM
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I like beards ¯\(ツ)/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 04:26 PM
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118, just barely a Stacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 07:54 PM
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“Only do x after y number of dates or else [insert consequences here]” Nah, do things you want to do when you want to do them. The best way to avoid being “used for sex” is to have sex when you actually want sex. Either they’ll stop putting the work in to date you and you’ll be free to move on or they’ll continue on the path to a serious relationship. If they were leading you on and continue to do so afterwards, more dates probably wouldn’t have changed that outcome. There’s no magic number of d…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 11:03 PM
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I mean I expect my partner to initiate things when they want something. I’ll initiate too though. Aside from that, no. If things go according to plan I’ll be the one who pays for stuff and my husband will do more of the housework.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 10:31 PM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 10:21 PM
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I’ve never been able to, actually. And you know teenagers… it wasn’t for lack of trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 09:59 PM
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Fellas, is it gay to be happy? I mean… linguistically the answer is yes but I digress.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 09:58 PM
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Say what you will but ladies of the night (be them night shift workers, vampires, prostitutes, or a combination thereof) make good company! Sure, having our drinks of preference on hand is a must but we’re worth it!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 09:55 PM
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I do agree. If a woman hits someone it should be considered assault and punished accordingly. Violence outside of war zones, martial arts, etc. is illegal for a reason. It’s not like we as humans don’t have ready access to things that allow women to easily inflict lethal damage if violent tendencies go unchecked.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 09:51 PM
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This is the question. No matter what the answer is I’d be disqualified here but oh well I guess I’ll just have to go cry to my husband about how a stranger on PPD wouldn’t date me because vibrators make everything sex related better lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 09:44 PM
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It depends significantly on the woman. I prefer partners closer to me in height—the height matters but I want them to be within a couple inches of my height. I wouldn’t outright disqualify anyone for their height but the bigger the difference the more inconvenient it can be. Some women absolutely consider height to be the primary physical attractor (most who do prefer taller but some outliers do prefer shorter), others truly don’t care beyond extremes. My opinion is that short guys can be plenty…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 09:40 PM
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Excite me as in arouse me or excite me as in turns my life into a perpetual rollercoaster? No I wouldn’t be fine with the first one, and the second one would be Too Much and I wouldn’t want that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 06:55 PM
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Agreed :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:18 AM
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Oh for sure. I definitely don’t have the money to try the gauntlet again right now though
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:01 AM
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I could definitely still benefit from therapy but I’ve hit the limit of what a mediocre therapist can do for me. The vast majority of my trauma is from my family life and medical problems so that probably also makes a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:50 AM
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Fortunately for me I found my person pretty dang quickly :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:44 AM
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Seems like I’m a combination of 4, 5, and 6.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:28 AM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 09:41 PM
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Yeah, mostly the neutral ones or ones I’m dysmorphic about.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 09:31 PM
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Ah fuck now I gotta do math… Been together five years, married for two this month :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 09:28 PM
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I think there are some exceptions but otherwise yeah, now that I think about it in my experience that’s also the case. Interesting!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 09:27 PM
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I mean… an ex is still an ex. I’m on great terms with most of my exes but that doesn’t make them not my exes. The way I refer to them depends on the context—if them being my ex is relevant I’ll say it but otherwise I’ll just use their name/“my friend”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 09:25 PM
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Now go or I shall taunt you a second ti-em!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 08:46 PM
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Pan solidarity 💗💛💙
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 07:04 PM
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It is pretty tasty. I do wish it was a more common flavor
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 07:01 PM
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Your mother was a hamster and your father smelt of elderberries!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 06:59 PM
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It really isn’t that different, or at least it shouldn’t be. Ultimately the assumption that men are thirsty enough only reject women who actively turn them off is both untrue and harmful to everyone. It makes men feel pressured into accepting if they don’t think they have a “good enough” reason and makes women feel like if they get rejected there’s something very wrong with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 09:21 AM
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I think it’s outdated, especially the degree to which it’s expected. I’ll admit that I generally prefer it when my partner initiates but I’m no stranger to initiating when I’m confident in what I want. Sometimes I’ll get shot down but it’s not like I’m saved any heartache by dropping hints or being vague instead of just asking outright.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 09:15 AM
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No, if anything the species will be stronger for me having not reproduced. My genes are so shit I wouldn’t wish them on my worst enemy. I can help with (or take on primary responsibility for) raising children I didn’t contribute genes to, which is still a valuable contribution from an evolutionary standpoint. Foster+adoptive parents are important across all sexually reproductive species. That being said, I also don’t really care whether or not I fulfill any biological or societal duties. I’ll do…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 09:07 AM
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Oh, I will say that of the women who don’t have a specific preference, most preferred to be shorter than their partner even if it was just by a little bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 09:44 PM
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Yeah, but the tall vs average preference is a 1 person difference in my rather small sample group
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 09:37 PM
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I’m 5’6, my husband is 5’8. My preference is within 3-4” of my height in either direction. I know more women who don’t care than women who have a preference for average or shorter, but I do also know a fair number of women who prefer 6’+ so in my own social circle there are significantly more who genuinely don’t care than ones who have a preference at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 09:32 PM
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I am one of the women who genuinely prefers partners close to me in height. I briefly dated someone 6’1 and realized that it was definitely not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 09:25 PM
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And again I will say that 1) blanket consent can be given, it doesn’t have to be re-given every time in an established relationship 2) it’s not exactly unheard of for people in established relationships to ask to kiss each other (particularly if one of them is in a bad mood or in the middle of something that might be interrupted by smooching)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 08:09 PM
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And the boys won’t have to worry about losing to me at games anymore so really it’s saving friendships, too!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 07:52 PM
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Welp, guess I gotta tell my husband no more TTRPGs without me…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 07:48 PM
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Mine? No, it isn’t. I also clarified that the consent stuff applies specifically to physical and sexual advances+contact, not verbal ones unless it’s going into kink territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 07:34 PM
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Reasonable standards? What are you even doing here?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 04:41 AM
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It’s easy, all you gotta do is date a woman who… has no mental illnesses but is ready and willing to help with any you may have, has a low N count but not too low if she’s 25+ ‘cause that’s a red flag, has standards that aren’t too high so you can meet them but also aren’t too low so she isn’t already taken, has built a stable life for herself but is totally willing to become a submissive tradwife as soon as the right man shows up, isn’t overweight or underweight but also isn’t neurotic about fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 01:45 AM
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I think it’s silly that people (read: nigh exclusively men) routinely get criticized for being put off by literally anything. Y’all should be allowed to have preferences and standards, it isn’t anyone’s business besides you and your potential partners unless you actually ask for advice. Berating or degrading a stranger for something you find unattractive is obviously wrong but I think people can get needlessly defensive over people civilly discussing their own interests. Edit: as for getting peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 12:55 AM
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Then no, if what you’re doing works for you then there’s no need to change it. I don’t think many people have the luxury of a partner that easy to satisfy, but if you’re one of them you’re under no obligation to improve. You could up your game further but that’s really it unless you really want a girl who needs the extra effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 11:11 PM
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Twinsies!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 09:41 PM
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Sure, if you have a lot of options then pick the one who fits your needs the best! If that means the girl who can orgasm once from 5 minutes of penetration and be satisfied, cool. If none of your options look like that though, you’re gonna want to invest in foreplay, maybe even giving her a big O before penetration (or get your voyeur on and have her do it herself if you really can’t be bothered but want to pretend that you care). Not because it’s “your problem” if she gets hers, but because if …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 09:04 PM
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It is possible to give blanket consent for things like kissing, but is it really that crazy to you that people in established relationships still ask to kiss each other? Obviously not like that, you and I both know that no one asks like that. A simple “can I have a kiss?” isn’t exactly an absurd thing to ask if your partner is in the middle of something or otherwise not already expecting to be kissed in the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:33 PM
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Needing my verbal or written consent to hit me? Not sure why he’d need luck for that but go off I guess lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:05 PM
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No need, it’s how it works in my marriage and it’s how it worked before. The consent stuff applies specifically to things like assault that you mentioned before, not being approached in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:03 PM
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Not can’t, didn’t. Edit for clarity: Consent (for physical sexual contact, specifically) must be given verbally or in writing, it’s not something that should be left implied. That’s a recipe for disaster. It also can’t apply to strangers catcalling on the street. Edit 2: someone rightly pointed out that consent to things like kissing can be implied, so while verbally asking for consent is preferred by some people it’s definitely not a universal requirement. Encouraging advances involves actively…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 07:55 PM
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It wouldn’t be any safer per-say, but it would certainly make day to day life more pleasant. I’ve done the approaching and gotten rejected. It wasn’t pleasant but I knew the risks going in and took it in stride. I do honestly think that more women should take the initiative regardless. I’m also married so it would be all benefit for me if this suddenly happened lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 07:34 PM
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No, it’s not. It’s another way of saying “if I gave my consent for it or encouraged the advances”—it doesn’t matter how attractive the man catcalling me is, that behavior is an instant no.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 07:27 PM
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I want to preface this by saying that yeah, people generally don’t want to call their partners average (for a lot of reasons, and avoiding hurt feelings is certainly one of them) so I’m not disagreeing in the slightest. Anyway I tend to call my husband a Chad here (jokingly) because so many of the men here think that the only way a woman can truly love and proactively put work into her relationship with a man is if that man is a Chad/way outclassing her. I can recognize that my feelings for him …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:46 AM
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It’s not leading them to be more emotional, it’s leading them to actually express those emotions instead of bottling them up or otherwise internalizing their negative feelings. Healthy relationships with our minds and feelings shouldn’t be restricted by gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:36 AM
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Equal amount of unsolicited attention as the average woman? You’d need to be a minor celebrity. Same or similar number of actually compatible and mutually interested options after sifting through the bs? Successful enough to be comfortably independent and be able to partake in various social hobbies (online or offline) as well as the confidence to approach+take rejections in stride. I say this as a decidedly average, maaaaaybe slightly above average based on looks alone woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:47 AM
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The two total times a singular man has approached me on the street near my house for a “friendly conversation” it took very few cautious responses before they started making overt passes at me and one of them tried to follow me home. I was under 18 both times. One of them was a man older than my father who I am pretty sure was married at the time and the other was a guy definitely closer to my age but couldn’t take no for an answer (and didn’t live in the neighborhood anyway) so the encounter we…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:36 AM
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Just put all the self help books into a red capsule ezpz
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:14 AM
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1) like, ever? No you should actually have days set aside specifically to spend with her. All day, every day? That’s definitely too much for most people, and not something that is likely to happen unintentionally. 2) bestest friend≠only friend. Ideally a partner is someone you trust and care about enough to be their bestest friend (with benefits and tax breaks if married). Y’all should still have other friends though. 3) this one is just correct. If you both can’t go out on your own and have you…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:09 AM
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It’s more like this: if your neurodivergence only makes you slightly awkward, you’ll only be at a minor disadvantage at worst. The worse the impediments, the greater the disadvantage (when trying to date NT women in particular). It won’t outright prevent you from attracting someone you consider to be on your level regardless, but in a numbers game the odds certainly matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:06 AM
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^
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 07:33 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 07:32 AM
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Delaney is a fine name, probably just means they like European names. It’s not a weird newfangled bastardization either, it’s actually a fairly common name. Yes I’m biased, I have a relative with that name and she’s a sweetheart 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:25 AM
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Nah, I’ve had non creepy guys I wasn’t attracted to hit on me. Creepy to me is following me around/trying to touch me or push the issue type stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:20 AM
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Now that I’ve looked at some of your other comments, have you considered that you might just be anti-social/lack a social drive? Not in an insulting way, in a “your brain may actually be wired abnormally” way. My husband has friendships that are important to him without some secondary goal involved. Just mutual enjoyment of the other’s company. For most people a lack of meaningful+fulfilling relationships (platonic or otherwise) causes feelings of isolation, depression, and anxiety. Touch starva…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:14 AM
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Here’s another. Here’s one about physical health. Social support. Fulfilling friendships consistently correlate with lower rates of depression, anxiety, and suicidal behaviors. Unless it’s gynocentric of me to consider that universally important, why wouldn’t that be a strong reason to need/want friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 01:53 AM
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I bet he made some for Zeus
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 01:17 AM
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Now I’m not saying lying is good, but 5’10 is close enough to 6’ that listing your height as “about 6’” might help. Maybe. Anyone below 5’6-8 or so probably won’t be able to tell the difference.
/r/AllPillDebate24/11/22 01:16 AM
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The face looks more like a penis though… an uncircumcised penis that grew eyes on its balls.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 01:11 AM
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…are we secretly gym guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 01:06 AM
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No, before I lost weight I had boobs that were a bit bigger than average and even that was extremely inconvenient. Also it’s expensive
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 01:03 AM
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Have you looked at the profiles of the people who are succeeding? Did you see any major differences? Lastly, have you tried warm approaching in person? It sounds like you may have more success that way, as people who are sweet and sociable can’t properly convey that online. To use an extremely unscientific term, vibing with people could help a lot.
/r/AllPillDebate24/11/22 01:00 AM
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That’s not what I’m saying, though. I’m aware the needs are different but the need still exists. Platonic social support is important for men, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 12:48 AM
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You think she’d listen to me? You fool 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 12:43 AM
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Also… that’s a delicious, relatively cheap meal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 12:42 AM
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Because loneliness of any variety has a large impact on overall mental health
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 12:41 AM
1

Today I am thankful for how ridiculous a queen conch looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 12:40 AM
1

Ur welcome
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 12:33 AM
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It’s definitely not unreasonable to ask. Plenty of people like partaking in stuff like that—obviously kink negotiations would need to happen, and it’s a good idea to set up expectations for aftercare beforehand, but as long as both people are interested in trying it there’s no reason not to entertain it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 12:31 AM
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Women who slap men assuming (often correctly) that their gender will protect them from retaliation are some of the worst human beings. I’m sorry you had to deal with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 12:19 AM
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Reality check: I support you doing what makes you happy, but right now it can’t be the only thing you’re doing as we have bills to pay (or something along those lines) Emotional abuse*: you’re shit at acting and shouldn’t continue with it at all If they’re enjoying it, support that aspect of it while also reminding them of their responsibilities. *doing this once is not necessarily abuse. Abuse is generally a prolonged thing, not a one-off thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 12:14 AM
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This is a debate space, not a blackpill space.
/r/AllPillDebate24/11/22 12:05 AM
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It’s not rhetorical though, because it’s a widely used term that is not specific to being on the spectrum and it sounded like you weren’t aware of just how popular it was. Saying “my brain doesn’t function normally” is way more wordy than “I’m neurodivergent” lol
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/22 07:21 AM
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Nearly a year of complications from getting my wisdom teeth removed really set my head game back ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 01:19 AM
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It definitely hurt but more in other areas of life. My husband and I were already together before I lost weight, but doctors not helping with the underlying problems causing my weight to be harder to lose suddenly becoming great listeners as soon as I wasn’t 20 pounds overweight was really infuriating
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 06:50 AM
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It… it means having a mental condition. It’s just a broad term to include people with personality disorders, mood disorders, autism, etc.
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/22 06:42 AM
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Yeah, it’s pretty bonkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 08:44 PM
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It also hurts a bit for me to see because my uncle (young, fit, healthy) died of covid but had been really excited to be at a point in his illness where it was looking like he might be able to recover enough to benefit from the vaccine. Left behind a widow and 4 young kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 08:30 PM
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Talking to myself. I’m sure someone somewhere has done a study that found it helpful for problem solving or something that I can pull off the internet to explain myself if the person is weirded out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 08:22 PM
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Is it vaccine week? Is that what’s going on? It’s really not an achievement to have avoided vaccination unless you live somewhere that can legally give you the poke without your consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 08:18 PM
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Probably not then, it’d be a pain to explain the situation every time I got ID checked until I got the pic updated lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 08:13 PM
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Less than two days back in the States and I already can’t wait to leave 😬 I don’t wanna be away from hubby for another 3 months 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 08:11 PM
1

Do I keep my tattoo or do I need to get it done again?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 08:07 PM
1

Cute
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 02:16 AM
1

Biggestuzifanea
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 02:10 AM
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Every sperm is sacred, every sperm is great! If a sperm is wasted, God gets quite irate!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 02:10 AM
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I’m sorry :( that really sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 02:09 AM
1

If you’re reading this, drink some water!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 12:01 AM
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I think Lizzo is attractive, I’ve actually dated a woman with a similar body. I can understand why some people would disagree though
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 11:59 PM
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Lillith and Uzi.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 11:55 PM
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I’m not just including autistic people in the neurodivergent pool. I recognize that would be horribly unbalanced and leave a lot of men out. ADHD, OCD, and other atypicalities that can present in similar ways to autism also provide a solid foundation of knowledge on which to build a better understanding of the needs of an autistic partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 11:54 PM
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The vast majority of people have some amount of empathy. Being incapable of feeling empathy is an actual diagnosable mental disorder. However, in current western culture kindness has become increasingly performative. In some ways that’s a good thing—more people have the desire to contribute to humanitarian causes. In other ways it’s a bad thing—your contributions and behaviors when attempting to show kindness are scrutinized in ways they wouldn’t have been before. Another aspect of modern wester…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 11:49 PM
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I’m sorry :(
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 11:40 PM
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Everyone has biases and toxic tendencies and they can be hard to unlearn. Most people have to face aspects of their bad behavior eventually and I’d like to think that most people will quietly adjust their behavior when called out on it but I don’t know. I think the more empathy and desire to change someone has, the more likely they are to reflect on their ideals and behavior in an attempt to better themselves. How many people make that effort, I couldn’t tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 11:37 PM
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I honestly didn’t have it too bad on that front—not because of my autism at least. Regardless, thank you for the kind words :) I may have struggled with some things but I was cut a lot of slack socially due to my gender and my school was ahead of the curve on accepting and accommodating neurodivergence. All things considered, things could have been much worse for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 11:32 PM
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I have no patience for social “games” or dropping/picking up on hints. If I’m interested in someone I’ll just tell them once I have the courage to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 10:32 PM
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No for a lot of reasons, but one I’m personally familiar with is how hard it is to get a diagnosis to show the pharmacy. Endometriosis can only be properly diagnosed via surgery in many cases. If birth control works to control the symptoms without surgery, it’s better to avoid unnecessary surgery. If all you needed to get a birth control prescription was dysmenorrhea then most women would still qualify though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 08:03 PM
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I wasn’t hungry until I smelled food :(
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 07:56 PM
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Yeppers
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 07:52 PM
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The downvote fiend is at it again, apparently. I agree with you lol, I just don’t have patience for any games so it sounds like my threshold for that is lower. To each their own :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 07:51 PM
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At minimum a very good friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 07:04 AM
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You’re really on a roll today. I’ve agreed with you more than I ever thought possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 07:03 AM
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I probably did when I was a teenager and didn’t realize. I constantly tried to one up the boys on everything because I wanted to feel better about myself. There are some things I’ve never perpetuated (things like “men shouldn’t cry”) but I honestly couldn’t tell you if I did others when I was younger. I’d like to think I haven’t since grade school but I don’t know. I’m definitely more careful about it now though. Edit: wording
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 06:52 AM
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…self loathing?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 06:15 AM
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Men protected people that way too—it was a terrifying time and there were a number of people who put themselves on the line to help others. At the end of the day, we’re all pack animals. Most of us are empathetic and kind enough to help others when we know we can. A very select few are willing to go above and beyond in that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 06:05 AM
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Being chill and not judging when the ‘tism comes out is a win in my book tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 05:37 AM
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It definitely depends on the individual, but for LTRs I think it makes a huge difference to have a partner who really understands what’s going on and can actually make handling things easier instead of expecting you to brush them off.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 05:18 AM
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I think I just had more reason to learn my needs quickly, and have some very specific ones (medical+mental) that couldn’t be compromised on. Then it was just a matter of finding someone who met my needs, was attractive to me, and had needs that I could meet+was attracted to me. Tbh the autism probably helped too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:33 AM
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Well, I’m married for starters. I also learned how to make my husband’s favorite dessert from scratch since the store bought stuff is usually crap. We have compatible interests and lifestyles, we’re both very invested in our relationship, and we’re both willing to communicate+learn if something goes wrong. I put everything I can into the relationship because it matters more to me than anything else—it’s not the only thing I care about of course, but it’s the one that I care most about. Edit: I k…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:15 AM
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The same reasons people watch sports or movies, plus video games+consoles are expensive so you can make a more informed decision on whether or not to buy it/enjoy it even though you can’t afford to play it yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:07 AM
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22, yes, and yes :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:05 AM
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Yikes. Helpmate also gives yikes vibes but nothing in comparison to what she said. Why even be in a relationship with someone you don’t even want to be friends with??
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:03 AM
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Wow. Just… wow. I hope the chemo does its job as quickly and painlessly as possible 💙
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 12:53 AM
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It’s a Halloween miracle
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 12:50 AM
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The idea is that the number of women who stay in relationships they don’t want is low enough that the 80/20 figure doesn’t fit. Enough people are satisfied with their relationships that it is safe to assume that most of the people you see out and about aren’t secretly waiting for an opportunity to leave their partner. Edit: now I am the one with the downvotes! That means I’m correct, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 12:28 AM
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I hope so :) The two strongest relationships I’ve been in (including the one with my husband) were with people who were also autistic. Runner up had an autistic brother and so had a strong understanding of how to handle overstimulation. This isn’t to say no autistic people can be happy in a relationship with a NT person who isn’t experienced—some are and that’s great! But I think knowing your needs+limits is especially important for people who aren’t NT since a lot of people simply won’t be equi…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:59 PM
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Coward. On Sunday you should be stealing the communion bread from a church and eating it on the roof of said church. Edit: for legal admin reasons, this is a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 09:31 AM
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In my experience as an autistic person, the better option (imo) is to avoid dating NT people anyway, or at least any who aren’t prepared to have a relationship with someone who’s autistic. Faking neurotypicality doesn’t really work in the long term—you will inevitably run into a situation where you simply can’t function the way a NT person does. It’s better to have a partner who already knows about your autism and is prepared to help than try to hide it and just hope for the best, even if it mea…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 09:23 AM
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Oh that makes more sense. I misread
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 08:52 PM
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😱
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 08:50 PM
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I do the wrong number thing because sometimes the person calling needs to know that they have the wrong number. Best example was when I was getting calls from a doctor’s office about someone else’s appointment lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 08:50 PM
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I have one
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 08:47 PM
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No, of course not. First of all it’d be hypocritical of me because I’m bi and second of all why would it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 07:51 PM
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Don’t listen to them, automod… you count.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 07:47 PM
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I kinda love seeing people get creative about insulting other people tbh. It’s fun to watch people who are pissed at each other do their best to get that across without breaking the civility rule. It’s a great creative writing exercise!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 07:47 PM
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Consider: game stores. They’re usually locally owned, have community events, and attract sociable nerds.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 07:45 PM
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I think the “if she’s not happy with a ring pop” mentality is actually a good one for people who are frugal or don’t have much money. It is a materialism issue and there’s nothing inherently wrong with being materialistic sometimes, but not everyone is compatible that way. Someone who wants to spend a lot of money on a ring probably isn’t compatible with someone who thinks that’s a pointless waste of money. Everyone is going to have to make money related compromises in a relationship, but the mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 07:41 PM
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Yes, in fact he was actually a fan of the books+games so he put in extra effort to keep it true to the existing stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 07:27 PM
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Like DNA :)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 05:02 AM
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Yes! Multiple, actually. My extended family is Mormon and the smallest family that’s done having kids was 5 kids. My parents left the church but ended up with 3 kids so fortunately I was not raised in a family that big but I have been privy to the “how many children can fit in this bed so we don’t have to buy another mattress? Have we considered telling them that sleeping in sleeping bags on the floor is a fun adventure?” situation more than once
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:58 AM
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It definitely might. I really don’t want to give up my husband, even though I don’t want to give up my hobbies and wouldn’t want that many kids if I could have kids. Option 2 still sounds awful but I think being able to stay with my husband would be worth it to me. Difficult choice though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:24 AM
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Option 1 I guess. My health would not hold up to 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 03:58 AM
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Nah dude, listen to what you want. I might judge you for it but I’m a weirdo on the internet so my judgement means nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 12:47 AM
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Yeah… Signed, a person going into psychology.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 11:29 PM
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If the man can’t pay above a certain amount, tax payers will have to chip in anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 11:02 PM
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If you’re seeing this, drink some water :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 08:27 PM
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It’s not unfair, lying is lying. I’d be upset if I was directly lied to like that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 08:16 PM
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Yeah she’s fucked up. I hope their relationship is healthier than it sounds, for his sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 07:57 PM
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Agreed, as is any scam artist
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 07:46 PM
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If they divorce due to the child being a product of cheating (specifically if the child is born after you are already married) it looks like most states allow you to alter/forgo child support with a paternity test during the divorce proceedings. If she had kids before you got married though, you’re completely right.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 07:44 PM
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Fair point
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 07:35 PM
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The child support happens regardless of marriage though. As long as the kid is yours, your money is on the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 08:46 AM
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Yeah but the fool deserves to spend their money on something that actually brings them joy imo Aka not her, in case that wasn’t clear lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 08:43 AM
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No problem! If you find you enjoy it this time around, or that you like the gameplay but not the story, there are some quest mods (and a full conversion mod) that make a difference once you’ve exhausted the base game :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 08:07 AM
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You’ll need the script extender, which can actually be downloaded through steam. Here’s a handy guide
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 07:57 AM
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If I were to hazard a guess, she probably didn’t put on much of a performance. She was pretty cold to everyone most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 07:55 AM
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Not that I know of? I never saw her dates and we were never actually friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 07:49 AM
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Make sure you download the required mods that should’ve just been in the base game lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 07:38 AM
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None, but I knew a girl who’d keep it going until they caught on.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 07:37 AM
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Yeppers :D
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 07:36 AM
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How dare you presumably order coffee
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 07:23 AM
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🎶my parents passed on some serious trauma and also my urologist almost killed me🎶 Idk I’m not sure that’ll be as catchy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 07:11 AM
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Fair enough! It would probably do a good job of weeding out non-virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:22 AM
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SO MUCH. I got my damn tubes tied and I still get anxious if my period is late or lighter than usual, even though my periods have always been irregular. I’m less anxious now with the tubal but there’s still that worry at the back of my mind that it’ll fail anyway or I’ll end up with an ectopic pregnancy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:20 AM
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Yes that sounds like social media
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:18 AM
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I would agree and I’m at a solid 1. Most of my friends would (and have, when the discussion came up) also agree and are almost all below 10. I feel like this would lead to quite a few false positives. Attitude towards casual sex might be a better indicator
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:17 AM
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bonk
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:09 AM
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If I was self conscious about that I’d just get shorter heels tbh. That being said I also didn’t do the math because I didn’t care lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:07 AM
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It is for some women but for me the dealbreaker is being too far away from my height lol. I don’t really care about the exact number I just don’t want to deal with the tippy toe/neck cramp shit
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:05 AM
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Yeah, YouAskedIt has for sure and I do it often enough that I could find an example for myself without much issue. …actually now that I think about it, I’m no-pill so that might not count. YouAskedIt could have also been no-pill. I don’t think I see many actual blue-pillers tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:52 AM
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Thank you! I’ve been getting a lot of practice recently lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 11:31 PM
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Coconut brownie! This is what the last one looked like after it was sliced
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 11:24 PM
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Not necessarily—just be sure to show/tell her that you are interested and oblivious rather than not interested lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 09:57 PM
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Once again I must curse my lack of hip mobility
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 09:56 PM
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I’m going to spend time with my in-laws, does that count? I made cheesecake to share with them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 09:46 PM
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Probably for the best. Glitter sticks to EVERYTHING
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 09:45 PM
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Plus they can add to the preselection bonus with “I’m not straight, but if I was…”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 09:45 PM
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Yeppers
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 09:40 PM
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Instructions unclear: drowned in glitter
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 09:38 PM
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Apply vibrator to head of penis ??? Profit (Idk man maybe it’s worth a shot?)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 09:37 PM
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I wish covering your trauma in glitter was an effective way to treat PTSD
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 09:36 PM
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Sounds like you need to invest in a vibrator collection tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 09:33 PM
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Good luck dude… hopefully the updated 5G will help o7
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 09:30 PM
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That’s gonna be a tough one to break to your wife
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 09:28 PM
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Yeah, but if the main factor behind the height preference is protection based I don’t see why a visibly strong+physically confident man wouldn’t still be attractive. Again I don’t have a strong preference about height (well I do but it’s close to my height, 4” in either direction) so it’s just my theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 09:24 PM
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Yeah, every aspect of life is transactional to a certain degree. The thing that makes social transactions different at all is the feelings getting involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:56 PM
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Wild. That sounds libertarian to me tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:49 PM
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Yeah, experimenting with drugs is more dangerous now than it’s ever been. Cutting with fentanyl is waaaay more dangerous than cutting with baby powder or crushed up Tylenol, but people have been cutting everything with it because it’s cheap and potent. Shit’s fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:42 PM
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Idk why people are calling you jealous, broccoli hair looks ridiculous lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:37 PM
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Right now tensions are higher on the right. If there was a recent BLM or similar thing I’d be more likely to assume left.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:36 PM
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If he’s super good looking and in good shape, I wouldn’t be overly surprised. The height thing seems to be mostly about “dominance” and “ability to protect” so if he is imposing in other ways I’m guessing there’s more leeway. Idk though it’s never really been my thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:33 PM
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My husband and I missed the memo on this one lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:29 PM
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Unironically yes, to the point where both of those already happen. My addict cousin got his (also addict) gf pregnant and their families tried really hard to convince them to abort but they didn’t. The baby ended up dying a couple months after it was born. Then they got pregnant again, this time the kid is still alive but they lost custody so now the grandparents have guardianship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:28 PM
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Shit. That’s awful. My condolences
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:23 PM
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I know what must be done… 0 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 09:03 AM
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42% masculine, 56% feminine “Casually Feminine”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:57 AM
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I have no idea what percentage of men would fit into my personal criteria. If we’re going based off of men I have met and interacted with, the number for me specifically is much lower than one in five. I also can’t necessarily put into words what someone needs in order to be compatible with me. I think some people would find my husband a catch and others would think I was “dumpster diving” so to speak. To me, he’s a 10—he’s everything I want and more. My priorities are basically 70% personality,…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:49 AM
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Yes, yet some women (like me) still develop strong senses of humor+ defensive humor responses. What interests me is what makes the most difference in the people developing that vs not developing that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 06:50 AM
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My question then is why only some women develop humor at all, and how much nature vs nurture goes into fostering a strong sense of humor. Humor is extremely valuable for everyone—it makes bonding with other people easier, it makes coping with the shit parts of life easier, it helps relieve tension and deescalate dangerous social situations, etc. I wouldn’t be surprised if the people who have high humor scores had more (statistically) difficult lives than the people with lower scores. Female come…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:18 AM
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The link to the statistic you gave about women’s reasons for having sex goes to a book review… it doesn’t actually give those numbers. I definitely experience pleasure during sex, and more modern and human specific research on the clitoris does exist (here’s just one example) Saying that women don’t want sex or feel love is simply not true. Having different levels of certain chemicals and hormones/different physiological responses to stimuli doesn’t mean nothing is experienced it just means the …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:01 AM
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My husband (obvs)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:39 AM
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Interesting. I wonder if the numbers will get closer over generations considering how many/how strongly women select for more humorous partners. I wonder how much of the neurological stuff that goes into humor is hereditary
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:35 AM
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I do be an active updooter. The downvote fiend(s?) must be balanced out somehow
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:10 AM
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I’m aware of the risk but also too dumb and attention seeking to not risk it tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 01:39 AM
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A determined enough woman could piss off of a building just fine!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:28 AM
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The ultimate flex would be if the automod declared itself the first comment, knowing that no mere mortal could beat it. I am very tired
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:17 AM
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Manipulative and confident people tend to be very good at hiding their red flags compared to other people and are less reluctant to lie outright whenever it benefits them. Vetting them out takes longer than a conversation or two, unlike some dealbreaking traits/behaviors. This leads to them being more successful in the short term.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:10 AM
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Or as I like to call it, concentrated brainrot
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:56 AM
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As long as normal flying fast stuff (g-force, impact, etc.) doesn’t hurt me, I gotta go with flight.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:55 AM
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I can’t believe I’ve made it back down here wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:52 AM
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Same…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:39 AM
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A very important clarification. G-forces can do nasty things to your body
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:12 AM
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So cute! 😍 Yeah she’s very chill for a GS, but she does still have a lot of energy and really likes having a big yard to patrol :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:09 AM
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I think the extent to which men will put aside their own wants for some puss is greatly exaggerated tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:03 AM
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Dogs Cat More dogs
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:58 AM
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It’s okay, and I’m sorry I irritated you. Would you like some cute animal pictures?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:56 AM
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I’m sorry my sarcasm was not as obvious as I thought it was ¯\(ツ)/¯ but it’s pretty safe to assume that if I haven’t written at least a full paragraph worth of text I’m poking fun at something. I’m also an idiot who does actually admit when I’ve misunderstood or misread something because it does happen somewhat regularly—this just isn’t one of those times.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:53 AM
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Yes I’m aware. I may be autistic but at no point was I actually taking this seriously—I was just trying to make a joke of my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:49 AM
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That makes sense! That’s neat :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:47 AM
1

Well then if sundresses are gay wouldn’t that be a good thing for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:40 AM
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Because I am not straight and therefore would somewhat fit the joke Not the discussion part, just the after I commented part
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:38 AM
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Thank you! Your flair is also pretty good, though I don’t know what’s in the parentheses lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:36 AM
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I would’ve gone with the classic “you are a known bisexual” bit tbh. Tends to land better :P
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:24 AM
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So what you’re saying is that I’m secretly a trans gay man?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:20 AM
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No, but the ones who do aren’t restricted by gender that’s for sure. That being said, is it not reasonable to include personal anecdotes when the question is “should men even try?” or something similar? Success stories show that the statistics aren’t a death sentence to anyone’s potential dating opportunities. If they’re trying to argue that women don’t cheat because their friends don’t cheat, yeah that’s pointless and contributes nothing to the conversation. If they’re arguing that the source o…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:19 AM
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No but I’m not sure what sundresses have to do with anal sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:12 AM
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It’s too late, my ADHD has already moved on and dragged me with it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:06 AM
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A tragic loss I shall mourn for the next several minutes at least 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:01 AM
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😭 I thought you liked me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 11:53 PM
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Is that why I like wearing them so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 11:52 PM
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She might not be his type. He might not want something casual. There are a lot of reasons people get rejected
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 11:50 PM
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No! I just don’t have the same interests in celebrities and celebrity culture, plus the rona happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:42 PM
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Have you ever actually punched a woman before? Wait. Don’t answer that, I don’t want to know. Everyone has some level of self preservation instinct that helps avoid just sitting there and taking a full force hit. They’ll try to dodge and if hit, move away from the force to make the impact less painful. Adrenaline is also a hell of a drug and if the women are staying to fight instead of running (which would be required to make this hypothetical work) anything that isn’t a solid hit to the face is…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:40 PM
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Ye I was a Comic-Con girl so I had signed photo ops and posters from those on my wall as well as video game and comic artwork
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:20 PM
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Speaking as someone who has boxed before, it’s deceptively difficult to land solid hits even if you know the mechanics involved to throw a good punch.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:16 PM
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Boy howdy would the posters on my wall give people here a very strange and incorrect impression of the people I find most attractive lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:15 PM
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Then it might be, but as long as you don’t tell anyone the dog is yours I think you’re technically in the clear. If I saw a pet pic on someone’s profile I’d assume they were more than lukewarm towards animals and probably end up starting the conversation by talking about animals. I’d be disappointed to find out that they aren’t actually big fans of animals but it wouldn’t break my heart or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:14 PM
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Yeah, cardio in particular helps a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:07 PM
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Not if you like dogs
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:06 PM
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I believe in u 💙 ily
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:44 PM
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Eat hot chip and lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:43 PM
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I like the “PPD Jailbait - [times banned] time felon” one
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:40 PM
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:ahegao:
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:38 PM
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Sounds like you have ADHD, so it just makes you feel more like a neurotypical person. If a NT person takes it, they get an actual high (apparently, my ADHD ass could never)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:35 PM
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My computer
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:33 PM
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I for one support this wrestle orgy endeavor
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:33 PM
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My sister and I can take down our dad if we’re grappling, but we all have basic MMA training lol. I guess it depends on how well the dude protects his face and nuts. If the women coordinate it wouldn’t be too difficult to choose a limb to basically just hang on to for dear life so he can’t use it. Average women and average man, probably 2-3 but add one to that if any of the women take a hit to the head.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:32 PM
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I will be incapacitated by my horny thoughts, but I will not actually die. Probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:26 PM
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Lift is pretty great, but there’s also magivictus, Skott, E-2, Lulll, Possum, Yuk/Fj (booty boi), SmarmyPapsmears, Bandit, Gaston, shemyheroine, dbz… they’re all good guys and if you take the time to read through more of what everyone says you’d be surprised how few of the people here are actually interested in hurting others.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:23 PM
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Yeah, and there really is no need to try and empathize with people who are preying on or hurting people. People who are just sad about their lack of success and want to improve themselves+their chances are the ones I recommend listening to with an open mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:12 PM
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Oh yeah eagles are huge! And awww babby fuzz
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:01 PM
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What’s the biggest animal you’ve rescued?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 07:20 PM
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TIL all women who dress themselves are rocket scientists
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 07:20 PM
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Also I think it’s really cool that you do wildlife rescue 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 07:18 PM
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I can say with confidence that at least 6 including me are actually women… though some aren’t very active
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 07:16 PM
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Well, as long as you tried I suppose I can forgive you… more coconut for me 😋
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 07:06 PM
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That’d be fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:54 PM
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Coward 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:43 PM
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Yeeeee
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:42 PM
1

😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:42 PM
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But if you bake it it’s like crispy confetti!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:41 PM
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Another solid choice
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:40 PM
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…oat milk. But you’re not allowed to judge me, I’m lactose intolerant 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:03 AM
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Honey bunches of oats
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 07:47 AM
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Put googly eyes on it!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 07:47 AM
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You have good taste! I recently made coconut chocolate cheesecake with coconut brownie crust and it was great
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 07:46 AM
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Yeah but they’re also essentially trying to make him worry about the strength of the relationship/distrust his partner which I do think falls into dragging people down with them. They’re not upset at the guy but they are telling him that his partner doesn’t actually find him attractive which is probably not true
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 07:45 AM
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Good point, but I think coconut is the AF flavor.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 07:42 AM
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Yeah, I actually find it pretty easy to empathize with a lot of the people here. The important thing for me is remembering that bitterness comes from pain. Almost everyone is bitter about something—we are no exception. You come across as very bitter towards the man who is hurting the person you considered a friend. I’m not saying it’s wrong for you to be upset of course, but you seem to be posting here not because you want to debate but because you want to attack the ideology (and by extension a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 07:41 AM
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Coconut is the best flavor and you can’t prove me wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 07:14 AM
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A non-zero number of people here don’t have close friends either. Including some of the not bitter people
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 07:13 AM
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I think she’s taking a mental health break
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 07:12 AM
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Abortion/reproductive rights, healthcare, and LGBTQ rights are all very personal to me. I can’t talk about them completely objectively because they all directly impact my day to day life. Unless you’re asking about my nipples, in which case I’ll just say they’ve been described as “extremely aggressive”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 07:11 AM
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It’s not civil. However, people who try to force their bitterness and fear onto others do need to take a break and handle some foliage.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 07:07 AM
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Yes, it is. It’s part of why I (especially with my social anxiety) empathize so much with people who struggle to approach people they find attractive. It’s scary! Rejection hurts! Sometimes people really are as bad as you fear they are! Touch starvation hurts too, though. It can cause or worsen serious issues, both mentally and physically. It can make all the fear and sadness feel inescapable. I just wish that fewer people let that fear turn into anger. Some lonely people really do just need aff…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 07:05 AM
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Probably but it’s also very relatable!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:51 AM
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A few topics will make me cry pretty much instantly but I don’t like making people uncomfortable with my trauma related crybaby tendencies so I try to avoid them as much as possible offline. Bold of you to assume my nipples don’t contribute significantly to every debate I have though 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:48 AM
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I have seen people here tell guys that his partner would leave him/cheat on him even if he was posting something sweet about his relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:45 AM
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I think I can unironically thank modern feminists for making me seem pretty tame when I do get involved in debates irl
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:42 AM
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Sadly I cannot be included in that group, I don’t usually bring it up but once it’s out I have a hard time shutting up lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:37 AM
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Why does anyone project? Because it helps rationalize their feelings. “Oh, I don’t ask women out because i don’t want to be rejected or cheated on” sounds more reasonable than “I don’t ask women out because I’m too nervous” even though they technically mean the same thing. However, that doesn’t stop them from wanting sex/romance so in order to keep believing that they’re making the right decision by not putting themselves out there they also need to believe that they’re in the majority and that …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:36 AM
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If it is, well done by him. I know people who talk just like him offline…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:16 AM
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No girth? Like it’s literally 2 dimensional? That’d be interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:15 AM
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Shared experiences (as long as they end positively) specifically make a huge difference in how much I’m willing to work on a relationship if things start getting rocky. I know my husband cares deeply about me and I know he’s willing to work with me whenever work is necessary. He’s proven that to me and that’s far more valuable to me than anything else possibly could be. So what if a “higher value” man takes interest in me? I love my husband and I wouldn’t throw my relationship with him away for …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:13 AM
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Doesn't go to the gym (but I do work out at home) Doesn't look good (my skin has been waging war against me recently) Plays video games Watches Netflix in their spare time Poor habits Masturbates regularly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:06 AM
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Damn just @ me next time
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:04 AM
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Very nice! Proportions are good, tone is good, would be silently impressed if encountered in person/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:04 AM
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I think it’s absurd when they only do it to people they disagree with. Especially if they’ve previously agreed with me or someone else who is openly autistic lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:58 AM
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Knives Out is really good
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:52 AM
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Considering how many people here have never even been in a relationship, I think part of it is FOMO+hoping that they are missing out less than they think they are. A lot of people regardless of gender develop trust issues and resentment when they’re cheated on. Betrayal tends to hurt far more than being hurt by someone you never trusted. However, if the majority of the stories you see about dating are told by the people with relationships that are the best of the best and the worst of the worst …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:51 AM
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Chill lol, you’re taller than my husband
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:43 AM
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Thank u for your thervice (thinking service)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:36 AM
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What a relief 😮‍💨 I’m glad I have such an esteemed collection of thinkers here to do the thinking for me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:31 AM
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The last one was probably the wrong color anyway!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:30 AM
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That’s the spirit! You’ll be a leftist in no time :)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:28 AM
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Don’t be like me. Do what’s right for your sanity and just walk away knowing that you’re right
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:28 AM
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Oh good idea! I don’t know where I left the lipstick though :( I’ll just pet dust off the kittens extra to make up for it :D
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:23 AM
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Yes, and they should be free for prisoners. They should also be free for people who otherwise would not be able to afford them. I’m still not sure where you got confused
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:17 AM
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My head hurts. I think I’ve exhausted my delicate female brain with all the thinking I did today or something
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:12 AM
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Yeah, that’s also what I meant by free. What did you think I meant?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:09 AM
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…wtf do you mean prison meals and housing are free? They’re funded by taxpayers. Private/for profit prisons literally get $150/day/inmate from the government aka tax dollars.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:03 AM
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Cat/Khaleesi
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:57 AM
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No idea. It starts with a c and ends with ope. Mods plz I’m trying to be educational don’t hurt me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:54 AM
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Did you miss the part where I said that if inmates were paid more, they’d be taxed and not eligible for deductions or refunds? People shouldn’t have to work, let alone multiple jobs to not freeze or starve to death. Not only are there more empty houses in the US than there are homeless people, the country wastes enough food to feed everyone in the country who is hungry—that is inexcusable in my eyes. It would cost the average taxpayer very little to distribute those resources. You were also the …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:51 AM
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The person said a gamer incl word that is specifically ban on sight lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:36 AM
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I also argue for upgrades in the lives of non-criminals. I think housing and food (not luxury accommodations, essentially what would be available in prison) should be freely available to people who need them. You clearly do not have any idea what conditions inmates live in. Even if every improvement I advocate for did get implemented, here are some things all inmates would still have to deal with: Having no space of their own No (legal) access to anything that is not either provided by the priso…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:22 AM
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Ye 🥰 you a cutie and a sweetie
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:42 AM
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How am I ducking your points? I’m actually trying to address them. I don’t think you understand that reform isn’t about making prison enjoyable, it’s about making it less exploitative. Getting fed the cheapest food money can buy (with questionable nutritional value) prepared by whichever inmates are most trustworthy around knives 3x a day and sleeping in a shitty bunkbed with the world’s thinnest blanket and no temperature control is not a reward. If it’s cheaper to go to prison for murder than …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:37 AM
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I think rapists serving on average roughly 60% of their original sentence is far worse for women than prison reform. Edit: I read the statistics wrong, please hold Edit 2: okay I fixed it, pay no mind to the fact that I was wrong on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:11 AM
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15 isn’t federal minimum wage. I specified federal minimum wage. And yeah… I’m not saying what the prisons are doing is illegal, I’m saying it should be illegal. I’m aware of the 13th amendment and I’m saying it should be changed, but thank you for proving my point in that it is the only way to legally own slaves. The food and housing are not free. They are paid for in personal freedoms, human rights, and safety. That being said, food and housing should not be privileges to earn, ever. I do not …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:05 AM
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At best it constitutes indentured servitude—which is similarly illegal. Slavery is when a human being is owned as property, denied freedom, and cannot quit/leave whatever contract exists between them and their owner. The same problem exists in non-private prisons. Earning less than the average person for their work would be one thing—having a portion of their earnings go towards any fines or debt they’ve accrued as well as not qualifying for tax returns while serving a sentence would make sense.…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:41 AM
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💙
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:11 AM
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No, they sure aren’t. They’re for profit because it’s the only legal way to own slaves in the US nowadays. Private/for profit prisons are created exclusively by private citizens/companies because they WANT to “deal” with criminals. It is by far the cheapest source of manual labor inside the country. Private prisons also are not holding the “worst of society”—private prisons (especially after the Arizona incident) usually stick to accepting lower risk inmate contracts. Here’s a study on inmate po…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:07 AM
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Not to the same extent. Prison reform also includes just updating prison accommodations (to prevent illness and injury for inmates) and ending for-profit prisons. No one in their right mind is advocating for legitimately dangerous, unrepentant criminals to be put in 5 star hotels with an Xbox. They just shouldn’t be slaves or in constant danger from their environment as well as the people around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:53 AM
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You 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:46 AM
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Okay, well premeditated murder is generally a crime that is least likely to be prevented by improved social structure. Rapists also tend to be less likely to benefit from rehabilitation attempts. Most murderers and rapists would not be included in rehabilitation efforts.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:45 AM
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The solution is turning some prisons/jails into criminal rehabilitation centers, essentially. The centers need to be staffed with mental and physical health professionals, equipped to handle withdrawals, and have education/training options for people who need them. Basically, when someone commits a crime out of desperation there should be a way to help them out of that desperate situation instead of just punishing them. Several European countries have already implemented programs like this and h…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:34 AM
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I’m literally one of the people who advocates for prison reform—it’s nowhere near as simple as you’re making it out to be. Also the sterilization would not be forced. It would be an option made available to her if it is determined that she couldn’t safely parent a child. The other option would be her children being taken away immediately by the State. No one is mad about criminals being punished. We’re mad that criminals who are low risk of reoffense or were victims themselves aren’t able to get…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:26 AM
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Depends on her mental state. Postpartum depression/other similar problems may be avoidable in the future, she may accept treatment involving sterilization which would negate her ability to reoffend, and while she should face consequences in terms of career options (nothing that involves interacting with children, potentially) in the end it would be up to a judge and/or jury to decide.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:15 AM
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There should be different options for people who are unlikely to reoffend and are likely to successfully rehabilitate. Someone who committed a premeditated violent crime on a stranger should not be held in the same place as someone who got into an unlucky bar fight. Someone who steals repeatedly despite having the money to afford otherwise should not be held in the same place as someone who stole only what they needed when they were in serious financial situations. One is likely to benefit from …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:09 AM
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The difference is that you can’t choose to be attracted to someone, but you can choose to lie to them. It is wrong to lie to someone and try to manipulate them into giving you something they otherwise wouldn’t give. Women who lead men on or agree to a date but end up ghosting are also in the wrong, but women who reject flat out are not. Women rejecting someone they aren’t attracted to are taking nothing from them—you don’t get the intimacy and connection of a happy relationship if one person isn…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:00 AM
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That’s definitely not true. They’ll probably be better for their partner than friends but they most likely won’t be good.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:55 AM
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If I don’t set an alarm or reminder I almost never remember to send morning messages. I always write them myself but I think the sentiment is similar—making sure that your partner gets the good morning text they want. I don’t think it’s deceitful but I can understand why it might feel that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:53 AM
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Ye, they’re pricy but very sturdy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 10:33 PM
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I agree! I just think it’s shit if you do find a pit viper.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 09:11 PM
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This is the way
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 08:25 PM
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Luv u too 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 08:10 PM
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Military surplus stuff is always good.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 08:08 PM
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BONK
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 07:59 PM
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I think that’s an awful decision for her to make, considering he clearly knew how to work with what he had. I hope he finds someone who properly appreciates what he has going on lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 07:57 PM
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Eh, I think if someone actually laughs at you or berates you for asking that’s worse than just being told “no” but otherwise I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 07:50 PM
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-Yeah, we’re susceptible to most of the same things men are (prostate stuff being the only exception I’m aware of) but the differences can also be pretty crazy. Endometriosis is AWFUL and way more research needs to be done on it. It spreads by cells mutating into what should be the lining of the uterus, except it’s on the outside of where it’s supposed to be. It can also spread to literally any other organ (including the brain) and it’s been known to cause scarring bad enough to obstruct organs …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 10:10 AM
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-I agree! -in terms of just the physical things: my reproductive system occasionally sticks to my other organs due to endometriosis (causing pain and scarring), my right kidney wants to be a geologist but can’t reach the rocks outside of my body and so makes do by creating its own rocks (which recently resulted in an obstructed + infected kidney and being bedridden for multiple months), and some other things that are annoying but not actually dangerous. -that looks delightfully absurd in a very …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 09:36 AM
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Yw 💙 also I forgot to mention the special interest I have that probably relates most to Gaston! MMA, but since my body occasionally decides that I’m not even allowed the function of all my organs I also got very into medical and anatomical stuff relating to martial arts
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 09:00 AM
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If you read this, my apologies for how bored you must be
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 08:43 AM
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No idea, but it definitely depends on what level of disparity you’d consider average vs hot. If there’s a study of married couples being rated separately by strangers it would be interesting to read though. It’s definitely not 0, at least.
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/22 08:38 AM
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PREGANANANT
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:02 AM
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It also makes for better entertainment. I’ve probably fed some trolls of the former type, but I don’t regret it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:58 AM
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Gregnant
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:56 AM
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That’s the highest praise you could have given me 🥹 thank u
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:05 AM
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Because I’m evil 😈 No it’s because it confuses me when people assume women don’t have body hair or expect them to shave literally all of it. It’s incredibly awkward to shave your arms lmao and hair is more noticeable when it’s patchy than it is when it’s natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:27 AM
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Then go forth and prosper my dude
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:18 AM
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Oh and I should add on to what I said before: before you actually start making contact with anything, make sure you have hand wraps+gloves and know how to put them on properly. I promise that whatever gym you’re considering boxing at has non-judgmental people who would be willing to show you (especially trainers). Wrist support is HUGELY important.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:16 AM
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No I’ll call the police feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:13 AM
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Only if the caveat is that she’s a “born again” virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:12 AM
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And me, I prefer close to my height lol… 6’ is too tall
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:12 AM
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And that’s completely fair. I don’t think that constitutes being lied to, I think that constitutes being broken up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:10 AM
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Someone who is less physically attractive will have a harder time than someone more physically attractive but otherwise identical. I don’t think anyone would argue against that. However, if someone is more sociable they are more likely to succeed socially than someone who isn’t. Dating is a largely social endeavor and if you are confident enough to take the shotgun approach and shake off the inevitable rejections until you succeed, you will succeed faster than someone who has fewer opportunities…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:04 AM
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I actually have advice that might help!! There are some basic boxing reps that can be performed without a partner or heavy bag, just a pair of 3 pound hand weights. One strike with each hand, one hook with each hand, and one uppercut with each hand. It’s also done as a warmup sometimes, but it can be very useful for practicing posture and technique.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:59 AM
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If they weren’t lied to, it is on them for not asking beforehand. If they were lied to, it’s fair that they are upset about being lied to imo
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:55 AM
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Most women have hair on their hands… just shorter and thinner than body hair on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:08 AM
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Mystery solved! Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 10:28 PM
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Fun, but my favorite part as an adult is the discount candy the week after
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 10:26 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/yb7gkb/daily_community_chat_megathread/itfq7p3/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3 For your viewing pleasure
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 10:24 PM
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Or addicts. My cousin has mad STDs from getting it on with homeless women in exchange for drugs.
/r/AllPillDebate24/10/22 10:23 PM
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No. He could pay for it, he could be involved in drugs (addicts will do a lot of stuff for discounted or free drugs), or he could legitimately be very charismatic and charming.
/r/AllPillDebate24/10/22 10:21 PM
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Well, the meme-y question is “would you still love me if I was a worm?” and I’ve never understood the purpose of the question. I operated under the assumption my worm husband would be worm sized. I took it to mean that my husband was turned into a worm, but he said maybe it’s supposed to be that he was actually born as a worm. I met my husband through a mutual friend running a TTRPG online, which playing in would require an extremely impressive level of intelligence and physical capability from …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 10:15 PM
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I got high and talked about the logistics of dating a worm with the intelligence of a human
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 09:51 PM
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Damn, my husband just keeps moving up the rankings! First he was top 20%, then top 5%, now top 1-2%? Wild. Look, I’m pretty fucking biased towards my husband but there is absolutely no way that he would be in that category according to the vaaast majority of people. He’s also very attractive to me, which is part of why I married him lmao Also… you absolutely aren’t correct about reproduction that far back. There’s DNA evidence that suggests the numbers are closer to 2 females/male. Today the num…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 06:06 AM
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Yes—but further than that, some treat their partner as a status symbol. I think those people tend to be the most shallow when it comes to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 02:48 AM
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I respect the self burn to strengthen your stance
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 02:46 AM
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That’s better 😇 I forgive u
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 11:05 PM
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How dare u women are wonderful and I’m exempt from all consequences because I have bangs and wear sundresses
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 10:52 PM
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It always bothers me when people push individual responsibility shit (especially extreme lifestyle changes) for combating climate change. Corporations and their factories impact the environment far more than every working class family combined.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 10:32 PM
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Even without a history of addiction I’ve consistently preferred the pain to the side effects and I can’t imagine how bad the withdrawal would be after getting fully addicted. I hope it’s not a choice you ever have to make 💙
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 10:25 PM
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There’s also high dose NSAIDs if you can take those, plus high dose acetaminophen. They will be less effective at controlling the pain but you might be able to take that trade. I’ve only had one procedure that left me in so much pain that I took the full course of opiates, so there are definitely some surgeries that you could recover from without anything stronger. If you do ever need to be on those intense painkillers again, some states/hospitals have options for accommodating and supervising w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 09:21 PM
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I’ve talked to doctors about alternatives to opiates and it might be possible to request non-opiate painkillers potentially in combination with muscle relaxers if necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 09:13 PM
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I’ve always been glad that opiates make me feel like total shit. It makes it way easier to avoid overusing them when I have to take them after surgeries.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 09:05 PM
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This is the way!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 08:57 PM
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If someone sticks a crusty dildo back inside of them I think they’re trying to have a bad time
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 08:55 PM
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If someone isn’t cleaning their dildos, they’re asking for a UTI
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 08:53 PM
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Ye that’s a big downside.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 02:45 PM
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Oh the answer should absolutely be no! I don’t think I’d be able to love a worm no matter how interesting the worm. Anyone who gets genuinely upset by that answer definitely never considered the logistics of worm dating
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 02:44 PM
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Both more impressive and less impressive. On the one worm hand, worms tend to be much smaller so it would be harder for them to use a keyboard or mouse. Teddy bears large enough to comfortably use a computer do exist and are not particularly hard to find. On the other hand, teddy bears are not alive. If one did manage to become alive, that would be more impressive than a worm becoming sentient enough to play LoL. That being said, if the teddy bear is simply possessed by a spirit, that spirit may…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 09:11 AM
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I’d always assumed the question “would you still love me if I was a worm” meant the person got turned into a worm, not was born a worm. Apparently other people have interpreted it the other way, which I find to be a much more amusing question to answer. The more the internet was involved in the pair meeting, the more amusing the story would be. I probably wouldn’t fall in love with a worm possessing the intelligence and capacity for communication of a human but boy howdy would I treasure that fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 08:56 AM
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:o I’ve been chosen! My claim is triumphant! Thank you 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 08:33 AM
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I think it’s because we understand the value of recreational shitposting
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 08:16 AM
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That’s fine, I’m not saying everyone should do it my way. I just prefer to talk about it before the first date, but don’t want to dump that information on an unsuspecting person just asking me out, so I decline them. I also don’t know whether or not I’ll be attracted to them right off the bat. I need time to get to know someone before I date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 08:15 AM
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The Weed Age
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 07:54 AM
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If I was single, I would want to bring my health issues up before a date so that we don’t waste time or money finding out such a fundamental incompatibility. There’s no easy, non-awkward way to bring up my health problems. They won’t just reveal themselves on a convenient schedule (some can be dormant for long periods of time, some are constant) and the conversation can be a hard and tiring one to have. I also would need them to know that biological kids (as in sharing genetics with me) aren’t o…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 07:54 AM
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u/WhyDontYouLuvMe I saw that you SCOUNDREL
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 07:32 AM
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I don’t want my partner to have to have my epilepsy come as a fun 3 month anniversary surprise or something lol. I’m married so fortunately it doesn’t really matter if I got the formula wrong, I found the answer anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 07:30 AM
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Dammit, the anonymous downvote fiend is awake 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 07:17 AM
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It’s also that there are things that anyone who would be dating me needs to know before going in. Some of my health issues would be a completely understandable dealbreaker. They’re also not visible immediately (or at all on a good day) and I don’t like to draw attention to some of them in public so I prefer to just decline.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 07:14 AM
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That would be quite fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 07:05 AM
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I would never accept one but being asked doesn’t bother me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 07:03 AM
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I think that would defeat the purpose of the show. He’s supposed to be off-putting so that the show can say “not all unusual things are bad or wrong”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:56 AM
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C diff is one I’m fascinated by after my encounter with it. The fact that it’s actually somewhat common but most people never have symptoms is interesting, as is the reason that so few antibiotics are effective against it (and even make it worse)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:26 AM
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Funnily enough I haven’t been particularly interested in Doctor Who since the end of Matt Smith’s run. Most of my fixations are video game related, but I go through Chess and Sudoku phases every once in awhile. Skyrim was my first big game obsession though—hence my username. I think autistic people like the Doctor because they act weird (doesn’t follow social customs, has strange tastes in food, etc.) in ways that are relatable. Relating to the main character makes a show more appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:25 AM
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Essentially, yes. Their personality shifts a bit as well but morals/memories/etc. stay the same
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:12 AM
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Obviously, if you weren’t a cuck you’d want to fuck anyone who’d have you because something something reproduction something something breeding kink
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:10 AM
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The Doctor doesn’t murder them, though some of them do die. Multiple iterations of the Doctor generally only show up in Christmas specials or when the current doctor is about to die. The TLDR is that it’s bad for the stability of time or something. When the Doctor “dies” they actually just get a new body because alien time magic
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:08 AM
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Eh, more for Jon Snow
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:05 AM
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1) F 2) yes, the one where a Persian army tricked Roman troops into eating hallucinogenic honey. 3) no, I find some more interesting than others but in a morbid fascination way. Some diseases are fascinating but I don’t have a favorite disease.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:05 AM
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Oh honey. There are way more than 7 doctors. There are 13 official doctors and the next one has been announced
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 05:57 AM
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My fellow defender of Rose Leslie’s incredible beauty
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 05:55 AM
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The redheads are already promised to ByzantineBoo
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 05:52 AM
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Aww 🥰 unfortunately for u that right is reserved for my husband and potentially cute bi girls
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 05:45 AM
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Uh excuse you it’s the sonic screwdriver but also they’re a fake fan because it doesn’t work on organic material Edit: unless they were trying to give you a headache, apparently that is a thing it can do
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 05:43 AM
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Guyliner is hot
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 05:37 AM
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You do you boo :)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 05:36 AM
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Perhaps after enough time spent studying here, you will be able to learn our ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 05:34 AM
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You’d think that but no, softer bed than great-great-greatest-grandma Milthilda could even dream of and it mcfuckin betrayed me Edit: husband just pointed out that I had the opportunity to name her Gilfhilda and I squandered it 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 05:33 AM
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STDs are spooky tbf
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 05:31 AM
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Nothing personal against you either, I’m sorry your team shit the bed. If it makes you feel any better, my entire region shit the bed at this year’s LoL world championship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 05:30 AM
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Plot twist, that’s the Hebrew translation of Chad and everyone who knows has just agreed to keep the secret because it’s funny and the chad memes only made it funnier
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 05:29 AM
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No one does numbers better than an autist Also the correct response was “-1”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 05:27 AM
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I recommend Smile!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 05:23 AM
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Vasectomies and tubals can also be cheaper in the long run!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 05:22 AM
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It fills my head with very dizzy bees. And honestly the chronic stuff is mostly fine today, but I slept on my shoulder and pinched a nerve 🫠 the human body is more poorly optimized than it should be imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 05:21 AM
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Does it count if he’s my husband and we still alternate paying for things?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 05:18 AM
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I only know one woman who likes what you described, and it’s certainly not me lol. Actions speak far louder than words
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 05:17 AM
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I bet he never paid child support to Mary
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 05:15 AM
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But they’re legal¿ explain??
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 05:10 AM
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Tragic 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 05:10 AM
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I blame the Abrahamic God
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 05:09 AM
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That’s why I only take any painkillers when the pain gets really bad. I’ve already gotten to the point where my body riots over NSAIDs so I gotta be careful not to overuse the things I still can. That being said, I also really hate feeling inebriated/high so the lowest doses are generally what I go for. I recognize that’s probably why it didn’t work as well as it could have but shhh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 05:08 AM
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Nah those fuck me up in a bad way. The nice thing about weed is that I can still enjoy existing and don’t spend the entire time miserable for a different reason than the pain
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 04:56 AM
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Feeling shame towards your privilege is a step too far. People who say they’re ashamed to be white tend to unintentionally paint themselves as a victim of attention being called to the injustice others are subject to. You can feel sympathy and remorse for the fact that you couldn’t spare them the pain, but you don’t have to be upset at yourself for having no “make everyone happy” choice available. Behavior and feelings are two very important things. If you feel bad but act like you don’t, you’re…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 04:54 AM
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I’m high but the pain didn’t go away, where is my female privilege?¿?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 04:33 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 04:27 AM
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I just think it’s better to be sympathetic than to be ashamed. I also meant that there are men who are attracted to things that aren’t necessarily logical, and that’s okay. It doesn’t have to be logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 04:27 AM
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You shouldn’t be ashamed though. It’s not your fault if you aren’t attracted to them. It’s not “logical” for someone to prefer underweight women to slightly overweight women—a little too much weight is better for pregnancy health than not quite enough weight. Knowing that you have a preference doesn’t make the preference logical. Edited for wording
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 03:15 AM
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And that is the polite way to reject someone. I also try to be as polite and gentle as possible. It’s not entitled to not feel shame over rejecting someone. I can’t control my attraction to them any more than they can to me. It’s okay to just not be attracted to someone without knowing why. I can feel sympathetic towards their struggle without being ashamed of my part in that. To use your comparison, it’s not my fault that I wasn’t hiring. It’s also not my fault if they aren’t a good fit for the…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 03:07 AM
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Dating in general involves a high rate of failure. If it isn’t immediate rejection, it’s a break up down the road. Even further? Divorce. It’s not a woman’s fault if she’s not attracted to someone who’s attracted to her. The same goes in reverse. Anyone who feels like being rejected at all is a sign of entitlement in the person they asked out needs to re-examine the way they view dating and romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 02:41 AM
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If there’s a well rated hairdresser near you, calling earlier rather than later is a good idea to try and get bleach professionally done. It’s very easy to bleach unevenly and end up with it looking patchy, plus it sounds like it needs to be done very close to the scalp which can get scary if you’re trying to do it yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:16 AM
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Hmm… overtone or something similar would probably work best for Halloween, it’ll still be hard to get a pastel unless you have particularly light hair but it’ll also be easy to spend a bit of time just trying to get the color right.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:38 PM
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Yeah, you may have some trouble getting a pastel color without bleaching first and I highly recommend having a hairdresser do the bleaching part
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:31 PM
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Vacuum, it’s the most convenient
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:38 PM
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Depends on your natural hair tone, but Overtone is good for experimenting with colors to find the right one. Otherwise you’d be best off going to a hair stylist for suggestions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:37 PM
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It was written by a male satire writer.
/r/AllPillDebate22/10/22 10:34 PM
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I think you can, on the basis that you don’t deserve the company of a specific person—you just deserve to feel loved. Just because you can’t (and shouldn’t) force anyone to be that for you doesn’t mean you don’t deserve the experience. It’s not possible to be guaranteed everything that you deserve, but I think this is a need and therefore something that is deserved.
/r/AllPillDebate22/10/22 10:32 PM
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Some people do feel entitled to sex—specifically, sex with people who don’t want sex with them. Men aren’t the only ones, either. They resent people who have sex (especially with a person they find attractive) because they believe they deserve to be having sex with that person. I’m not saying you, or even the majority of incels for that matter, fall into that group. It’s also not exclusive to people who are sexually unsuccessful, as there are plenty of people who will get very angry and bitter w…
/r/AllPillDebate22/10/22 06:19 PM
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Or me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:58 PM
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BRB telling my husband
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:57 PM
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Completely understandable. It gets less fun and more 😬😬😬 at that point
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:38 PM
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What gets me is the desired level of “purity” at the potential detriment of other important aspects. I think it’s completely reasonable to want someone who views sex in a similar way to you—be that “doesn’t matter, had sex” or “my body is a temple and sex is a sacred act of worship” but the more extreme or niche your preferences, the harder it will be to find someone. Obviously it’s extreme to exclusively want virgins, especially if you aren’t one yourself (it makes some sense to want the experi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:58 AM
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EYOOOO
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:38 AM
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Technically, we will always be second to automod…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:12 AM
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Get ur binary jokes outta here
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:09 AM
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Awww mods did you ban cuck culture guy again? I wanted to see if he was gonna call science cucked or not :(
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:02 AM
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Congrats! Hopefully recovery goes smoothly :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:37 AM
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It’s unhealthy to have a romantic relationship with someone you put on a pedestal. I absolutely respect and love my husband, but I don’t aspire to be more like him or anything like that. We both have our strengths and weaknesses, most of which are complementary to each other’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:26 AM
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Yeah and you can get dysentery from water, salmonella from meat+eggs, mad cow disease from beef, etc. I’m not saying long pig is good for you I’m just saying we eat and drink all sorts of shit that isn’t good for us, this one is just taboo in most cultures (for good reason of course!)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:20 AM
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I haven’t had anyone react poorly to me telling them they’re a “solid 6” before but I also don’t go around randomly giving out numerical ratings—it’s only if they actually ask me to rate them ¯\(ツ)/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:02 AM
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It is in some cultures!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:00 AM
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Everyone loves food!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 05:52 AM
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Yeah, “average at best” is an insult. 6 is above average but believable—7 gets into flirtatious territory imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 05:51 AM
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I’ve always felt that 6 was the safe number. It’s where I’d rate myself (as well as most other people) because it’s slightly above average and therefore not an insult imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 05:21 AM
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Nah dude they just want to capitalize off of the bug ridden reputation to pay developers less
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/22 09:15 PM
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Agreed. Beauty standards are pretty fucked for everyone. Yeppers! My first video game obsession lol
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/22 09:06 PM
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My mom is the muscle car lover and better driver, she’s also disabled so my dad does most of the physical chores (dishes, sweeping, etc.), and both of my parents are very smart but have different favorite subjects so they like learning from each other whenever they can. Idk if that last one is uncommon but it is cute
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 09:04 PM
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Woman bad, I assume lol. The funny thing is I actually agree with people who think it’s kinda shitty for women to operate with a bigger/taller=better mindset. I think if finding out the guy she’s been seeing is 5’11 instead of 6’ bothers her, she needs to sort her shit out. If it’s an attraction thing where she gives him a chance in person, not based off of numbers or anything, that’s just not something she can control and that’s fine. Same for if a man just doesn’t like the way a woman’s body l…
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/22 08:45 PM
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I am unapologetically biased, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:38 PM
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But it’s the closest I can get to motherhood right now :(
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:29 PM
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Just my boy :( everyone else works shifts even I don’t stay awake for right now
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:24 PM
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I’m jealous 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:21 PM
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The end is never the end is never the end is never the end is never the end is never the end is never the end is never the end is never the end is never the end is never the end is never the end is never the end
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:19 PM
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Consider: food, cute gifts, and compliments :)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:06 AM
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Yeah so current husband but the point stands :P
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 04:04 AM
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If we have the space for one in the future he can have one then too. It’s good to have a place you can unwind
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 03:42 AM
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For all we know, the downvote fiend could be a man ¯\(ツ)/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 01:43 AM
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I don’t have much faith in the police at all, I just think they should be informed. Better than not informing them, even if nothing comes of it. I hope…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 11:08 PM
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As is their right!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 10:32 PM
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Some do, some don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 10:30 PM
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If their third grader is pregnant and the teacher is the one who finds out first? The parents need to be investigated before being allowed to make any further decisions for the child. Sure, some will be innocent and horrified because they really did just miss whatever went wrong. That’s what the investigation is for.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 10:26 PM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 10:04 PM
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The police? Absolutely. I agree. I support not having to inform the parents (very possible they are abusive in those situations) but police should absolutely be involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 10:02 PM
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But they’re eeeeevil
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 10:00 PM
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Some people just go through phases of inactivity/breaks from Reddit in general (good for them tbh) but I have no idea how many have left for good. Of people I’d recognize there are at least 3 but of people who left before I even started frequenting PPD there are easily hundreds.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 09:53 PM
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Yeah he’s one of my faves of the people who are still active.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 09:49 PM
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SmarmyPapsmears, Lift_and_Lurk, and Chibs all come to mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 09:46 PM
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Squirtle!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 09:34 PM
1

WineAunt?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 09:29 PM
1

Aside from the last one they sound pretty cool
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 09:28 PM
2

It’s October, that’s why
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 09:25 PM
1

I’d say mellow but I went and married an Italian :/ He’s a sweetheart but he’s a loud sweetheart (and I love him for it)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 09:22 PM
2

The assumption there, at least in my opinion, is that the boy in question felt the same way. However, there’s a dangerous power dynamic that is involved with being “schooled” that way by your actual teacher. Not to mention the fact that someone who puts their career and reputation on the line to have sex with one of their students instead of staying in touch and waiting a couple of years (which is still a yikes from me but I digress) is probably capable of other fucked up things to try and keep …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 08:31 PM
2

Incelibatedebate was pretty similar. Either they’ll listen or they won’t, but at least the information is here :) A lot of people who go full blackpill are hurting and aren’t in the right mindset to have their minds changed. They “debate” in the hopes of being proven right or to show others how inescapable their pain is. I don’t blame them, even if some of them blame me for my part as a woman.
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/22 08:23 PM
-1

The “average desired height” for men was 5’9-10 which was actually pretty close to the average height of men. 55% of women said they cared that the man was taller than them. I care about height but I don’t care about him being taller—I care that he’s somewhat close to my height so kissing isn’t awkward. Most women won’t actually know 5’10 from 6’ unless they’re also that height.
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/22 09:44 AM
1

I like nerds with hearts of gold. The pattern is there, just not something you can tell at a glance.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 09:09 AM
8

Well yeah they’re supposed to want sex with girls, duh /s The Venn diagram of people who think men naturally always want sex and people who think homosexuality is unnatural has a lot of overlap.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 09:04 AM
1

Definitely the former. You’d have a hard time figuring out my preferences without actually knowing my exes though lmao—physically they have nothing in common with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 07:59 AM
1

I respect that. I think a guy I turned down on account of me already being married felt similarly when he followed it up with “you could be my mommy” Caught me completely off guard but I respect the hell out of it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 07:57 AM
2

Speedrun! Speedrun! Speedrun!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 07:42 AM
1

Here, I have a gift for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 07:41 AM
1

Well if you ever want some brain rotting content, it’s not too hard to find absolutely batshit conversations going down lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 07:24 AM
2

Nah I was the same way I just had a plan B for when I inevitably went back to doing 90% of my homework on the bus ride to school 😅 Those test taking pencils were practically single use because I always lost them so fast
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 07:20 AM
2

If you think she’s unhinged, you don’t go on Twitter enough. Or you’ve made the wise decision to avoid Twitter like the plague. Or you just aren’t looking in the right places on Twitter. Regardless, FutureWineAunt comes across to me as a pretty typical high school senior. Not unhinged, just inexperienced and combative. I was actually pretty similar. You’d be surprised how much I’ve changed over just the last two years lol Sure, not everyone outgrows it, but this is pretty standard 18 yo behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 07:17 AM
2

Mechanical pencils ftw, with like 20 “test taking pencils” stashed in a different pocket for when mechanical pencils weren’t allowed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 07:07 AM
3

He’s saying you’re immature for making a point of telling everyone about it. Yeah, your friend is making a mistake. The mature response to that (once your help is refused or ignored) is to quietly remove yourself from the situation/deal with it privately rather than make a point of airing her dirty laundry.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 07:04 AM
3

You’re telling a high schooler to stop being angsty and contrarian my brother in Christ
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 06:58 AM
1

I think I only did that once but that’s literally the reason I wrote my name on everything as soon as it was handed out lol. The biggest bullshit was getting marked down for my homework being crumpled from my messy backpack. It’s all there! It’s all legible! Leave me and my undiagnosed ADHD alooooone
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 06:55 AM
1

I always got marked down despite showing all the work I did. Like bruh I’m not working backwards from my answer to make it fit your long-ass formula 😭 I got the right answer and showed you all the work I did so fuck off
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 06:45 AM
3

I’ve had jokes go over my head too many times as an autistic person to be able to really hold this against her. She’s new and has to learn somehow, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 06:43 AM
2

What I want to know is whether or not the teacher’s requirements regarding “showing your work” correlated with higher grades for girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 06:34 AM
3

He’s joking :)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 06:23 AM
1

The main 0 tolerance policy stuff I know of is blackpill content and anything that break Reddit TOS because that can actually get the subreddit shut down. If you made a habit of following people to other subreddits, it would actually be against TOS since it’s considered harassment. Also, a word of warning: 90% of the people here will annoy you in one way or another. Telling people they’re annoying can quickly become a full time job. If that’s what floats your boat, go for it though
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 06:17 AM
3

😘
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 05:58 AM
3

Someone call 911! We need a thicc booty babe to sit on this man’s face!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 05:46 AM
2

She’s new here, I’m honestly worried she’ll catch a temp less than 24 hours into Reddit lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 05:43 AM
1

It’s a bit of a mixed bag, you’d need to ask a mod. Generally it’s a matter of what gets reported more than anything else—some people are more trigger happy with the report button than others. There are some things that are 0 tolerance to the point where it seems overly strict and there are others that are more a matter of “you’ll have this comment deleted, get a warning, and go on with your day” You’ll generally have the option of appealing through modmail if you feel the punishment is unfair. …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 05:41 AM
1

A meat popsicle deserving of human decency at the very least 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 05:35 AM
1

Go for it! People annoy each other here all the time and catch shit for it on the regular. Just keep it to this subreddit (preferably the annoying comments in question) and you’ll be fine. Mods will be able to answer your questions more thoroughly but basically treat it like you would an actual debate whenever applicable—don’t attack the person, attack the action or opinion. The people here may seem like heartless weirdos, trolls, and the occasional beacon of wholesomeness, but they are actual p…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 05:29 AM
5

Him being annoyed and him not being able to handle it are two very different things. You’re being rude, people are allowed to be annoyed by that. Also, it’s against PPD rules to block others due to the way it functions now. Edit: also, be civil. It may be a bit of a meme here but it’ll actually get you in trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 05:20 AM
2

I had the advice but didn’t apply it to women. Won’t make that mistake again!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 05:14 AM
5

Yeah… because following someone to a separate subreddit just to talk shit about them is a shitty thing to do. It’s one thing to organically come across a familiar name on a different subreddit you have in common, but it isn’t a stretch to assume that you followed him to the HotD subreddit from PPD considering the age of your account and the fact that it is the only comment you’ve made on a subreddit that isn’t PPD or IT.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 05:11 AM
3

If he says pretty much anything about you being not like other girls, mature for your age, or similar things those are kinda red flags. If you can ask about his previous relationships, yeah that’d be a good idea to help figure out if he specifically dates teens/particularly young women. If they never hang out with people their age, that’s a red flag. If you want to avoid getting knocked up, always make sure that you use protection every time and invest in an emergency option if the usual option …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 05:02 AM
1

He’s saying the punishments should be equal when applicable. Not what age combinations should be punished in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 04:42 AM
1

I could never get the ick for you 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 04:31 AM
2

Mm good thinking actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 04:24 AM
2

Better late than never!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 04:10 AM
4

Hmm, tempting… but I think I’d have to nominate u/DivineDaedra as I’ve heard she’s nice and looks great with bangs and a sundress
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 04:09 AM
2

No clue! All the better for historical figures of the subreddit tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 04:00 AM
5

u/Mrs_Drgree, whoever founded PPD, Flaming Coochies, u/lulll The best known mod, self explanatory, cuck culture guy, and the person pretty much everyone here has seen a comment from at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 03:57 AM
6

I 100% agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:13 AM
36

Too many people believe that men (and by extension boys) always want sex. That mindset leads people to encourage relationships like the ones you mention, believe that men can’t be sexually assaulted by women, and similar harmful things.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 10:39 PM
2

The toxicity, unfortunately, isn’t new either… it’s just more concentrated now
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:10 AM
3

Yep—dating advice columns in magazines and papers have been around for a loooong time
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 05:00 AM
1

I did my part!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:55 AM
1

1 hour of in game dialogue is roughly 3 hours of recording from a well trained, experienced VA. Recording is generally done for 4 hours/day (this is all just internet research I haven’t worked in the industry). Keep in mind that a “10 hour game” involves WAY more than those 10 hours of voice lines—100% completion gives a better idea of actual length when approximating line count/voice time. A major issue is that new VAs don’t make it big because when small projects find fame, they move to bigger…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 09:50 AM
1

I don’t. My sister gets more annoyed with me by the day because I won’t use TikTok
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 09:25 AM
1

Himbos!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 09:24 AM
1

4k is the union minimum for 4 days of work. The legality there is actually dubious because the amount of work likely would have been impossible to do in 4 days. Being offered less than what she was paid for the previous games is absolutely an insult. VAs being replaced after repping a game until it got mainstream success is an industry wide problem. The Metal Gear franchise is a great example of something similar happening. Edit to add: an entire high value production game would likely take mult…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 09:03 AM
1

If Marvel offered $4k for Chris Pratt to return as Starlord he’d laugh in their face. 3rd installments of a series generally see a significant increase in pay for returning talent—something they may have been deliberately trying to avoid by lowballing the original actress so hard she was practically guaranteed to refuse so they could get a new (better known) actress at a rate still lower than it probably should be. Nintendo and Platinum Games clearly wanted to replace the original voice actress …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 08:46 AM
1

To a certain extent, yes. I don’t think empathy or compassion were created by anyone but I do think that they dictate which morality you’ll fit with most. People who live life with empathy and compassion will never find the same level of material success in life as those who are willing to use and exploit others. Might doesn’t make right, but it does make money and power. I don’t think “slave morality” emerged as a reaction to “master morality” because I think both have always existed. Which one…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 06:00 AM
1

Nah, most things are too black and white for objective morality to apply in much more than hypotheticals and abstracts. I will kill God on this hill
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 05:00 AM
2

Makes sense—that’s what a church community was supposed to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:55 AM
1

I was thinking perspectivism but that works too lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:52 AM
3

Just remember, the “blood is thicker” saying most people know is actually the opposite of what it originally was! Blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb—bonds with chosen family are strongest.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:46 AM
1

Ohhh never mind I totally have those!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:52 AM
2

Not a dealbreaker at all, I’m bi too
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:45 AM
1

Mine work better, I don’t need glasses
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:40 AM
4

The underpayment of voice actors in video games is actually pretty horrifying. Offering $4k flat for her to return to a franchise she has always voiced the lead in, a franchise that has made roughly $450 million, is legitimately insulting. Voicing the main character of commercially successful game series should be worth way more than $4k flat. She’s not the first voice actor to have to deal with this, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:16 AM
3

I’ve been told my views are closest to Nietzsche.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:11 AM
2

It’s not the bare minimum—the bare minimum is not ghosting. It’s also not above and beyond for women who regularly wear makeup and dress nicely. It’s a nice way to show that you care about the date but that’s about it imo
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:47 AM
4

If anything it’s the financially responsible option
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:44 AM
2

Only if I can very easily show them they’re wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:43 AM
6

Uhhh I’m pretty sure that’s an ethics violation if they’re still treating you…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 10:51 PM
1

No, but my parents were the first in the family to leave the church. They’re still the only ones who were thorough about making sure they’re not in any way associated with the church (apparently it’s common for people who leave the church to still be listed as a member when assessing religious population or something like that—boosts the numbers a bit) So while I wasn’t raised Mormon, extended family tried pretty hard to involve me in the church when I was younger and convert me when I was older…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 10:48 PM
1

Damn just @ me next time 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 10:35 PM
3

Even most Mormons look down on it at this point. Source: most of my family members are practicing Mormons.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 10:32 PM
4

Truly a good day for simpcoin
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:55 PM
5

It’s my favorite place to rot my brain
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:45 PM
5

I gotta tell my husband he’s moving up in the stats!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:44 PM
1

Just be the top
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:37 PM
1

I’m running on negative time over here 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:36 PM
1

Really, 4 years? Is that an actual statistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:35 PM
2

Based
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:33 PM
1

If you mean actual narcissistic personality disorder, it can be pretty difficult early on. Generally the most obvious tells are an inability to admit being wrong even when it’s easy to prove, a need to one-up anyone who talks about their achievements, and talking badly/straight up lying about ex partners/friends who have called them on their shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:22 PM
5

If it makes you feel any better, 30-40% of women do get hemorrhoids during pregnancy and I can’t imagine they make recovering from significant tearing of the vagina and sometimes anus any more pleasant
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 05:02 AM
2

Exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:56 AM
1

How could this have gone so wrong 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:37 AM
1

NO you were supposed to focus on the part where I’m stupid 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:27 AM
2

One time I was playing Codenames with friends and forgot that fall was a season
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:23 AM
1

Nope! They’ve still got a pretty extensive following actually, along with a lot of online options for running games. We recently got a second edition for Pathfinder and D&D got an evolving “edition”/toolset. There are also a lot of YouTube series and podcasts of people recording and uploading their campaigns as they progress (Critical Role is the most famous example) I actually met my husband in a campaign run by a mutual friend!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:15 AM
2

I’d say appropriately since it’ll be a big positive for fellow nerds but a drawback for people who don’t like/aren’t interested in “nerdy stuff”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:09 AM
1

https://www.d20pfsrd.com It’s a TTRPG, though there are campaigns that have been turned into video games (like Kingmaker and Wrath of the Righteous)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:07 AM
1

Sorry, it’s a useless sphere and everyone knows it*
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:04 AM
1

Pathfinder first edition
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:02 AM
1

Why would you even defend it? It’s a shit sphere and everyone knows it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:02 AM
1

Never
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:01 AM
1

I wonder if the deers and rabbits would be interested in TTRPGs…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:00 AM
0

What if I wear a sundress while playing a minmaxxed spheres of power character in PF1E?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 03:57 AM
0

Lulll! I thought you liked me 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 03:54 AM
0

I’ll take death over torture any day of the week.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 02:45 AM
3

Yes. Idk what the question actually is but my answer is probably yes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 01:05 AM
2

The rule of thumb for porn/other materials when engaging in any sort of sexual activity with someone is to not give information like that unless asked for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 07:43 AM
3

I think Cardi B should be deplatformed but I’m not verified on Twitter so I don’t think I have the power to make that happen
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 07:40 AM
1

Amphetamines and other stimulants do result in withdrawal if you stop taking them. It doesn’t mean you don’t/never needed the medication though. All psychoactive substances, if taken regularly and then stopped, will have withdrawal. Building up saturation just increases the length of time over which withdrawal occurs
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 07:37 AM
1

I thought post-nut clarity was supposed to prevent this sort of thing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 07:23 AM
2

Not everyone does. I do because I like showing that I care about the date enough to put in the extra effort
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 07:19 AM
2

Don’t call me out like that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 03:52 AM
3

I do be an Adam Driver fan
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:50 AM
2

Pardner
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:50 PM
1

…wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:31 PM
1

Would you like fries with that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 08:17 PM
1

Can’t we just be angry in peace?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 08:16 PM
6

Sven, don’t you think I’m right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 07:23 PM
1

Sex basement
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 04:56 PM
1

8/10
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 04:53 PM
3

Uhhh not in the US before the 1960s. It varied based on state but until 1974 banks could refuse to allow women to open an account in their own names.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 07:38 AM
3

It was when women weren’t able to have their own bank accounts and needed a husband to co-sign.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 07:22 AM
1

Come to think of it, I think last time I got hit on by a stranger I was wearing stuff on the modest side. Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 07:13 AM
1

It’s much harder to quit without something to replace it with. Finding a new, healthier way to celebrate will help. You’ll still have the urge but you’ll have something to redirect it towards and eventually it will get less intense
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 06:25 AM
2

Yeah but you might want a fellow trainer to spot you on weights. It’s not about being taught, it’s about being assisted when you could use the perspective of another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 12:27 AM
4

I don’t actually get unwanted attention from men here unless I’ve misread some things. Nothing blatantly inappropriate at least :) There’s joking flirtation and nice compliments but that’s it. Maybe it’s because I’m married?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 10:12 PM
5

That’s exactly what I mean—if she is out there somewhere, how would PPD guy meet her? What about him would make him so perfect for her? Would he even trust the unicorn? I know it’s just a fantasy but still, I have questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 09:31 PM
1

A warm weather dress that doesn’t cover the arms, shoulders, or neck.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 09:06 PM
1

What a Chad 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:45 PM
3

By that logic, if the Empire conquers Skyrim it will be fair play. I am absolutely just playing devil’s advocate, both sides have their flaws and you should side with whoever you find most compelling
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:44 PM
1

Braids have always been my go to actually! No need to learn those :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:35 PM
1

I’d argue it belongs to the Falmer, they were here first
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:34 PM
6

This isn’t meant to sound mean but assuming there is a unicorn out there who’s a pretty, healthy, single, virgin 20-something year old woman who’s just waiting for the “right man” to unleash all her crazy sexuality… what are the chances of Mr. PPD not only meeting her but being The Chosen One?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:33 PM
1

Completely valid. I definitely don’t think the imperials have the moral high ground, just the military might.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:13 PM
1

Of course I do! Clearly you missed the update :P
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:10 PM
1

Trimmed. Looks nicest to me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:04 PM
2

Best mango, worst durian
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:03 PM
1

If both competitors are on equal technical footing, strength becomes a much more important factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:02 PM
1

There are worse addictions tbh, I wish u luck
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:00 PM
5

I’d like to consider myself as out of touch as the next bitch but. ?¿? In no world is it that easy lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:59 PM
2

Also I hate u because now I’m a sundress addict
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:58 PM
2

I disagree only because the imperials are the smarter choice on a global scale. Tullius is right when he says that Skyrim would get absolutely destroyed in a proper war against the Empire.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:57 PM
1

Ily too 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:56 PM
1

It wasn’t usually my weight that got me rejected with hostility, it was homophobia. Which honestly hurts worse because I specifically only asked out women who claimed to be pro-LGBT to try and protect myself from that hostility.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:55 PM
2

Aww I’m glad I could help you feel less ashamed 🥺 Honestly my first thought when you mentioned D&S training was “oh that’s pretty cool!” My Mormon family stopped talking to me when I “came out” (read: was outed to them) as bi. They went five years not talking to me once but suddenly realized they missed me once I started dating my now-husband. Family so conditional can go fuck themselves 💙
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:48 PM
1

I have always liked the idea of having children but I’ve always preferred the idea of adoption. My epilepsy is a dominant gene so I wouldn’t feel comfortable with bringing a child with my genetics into the world through any method.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:37 PM
1

I’m sure it would feel different. Being a woman affords me a level of comfort in knowing that very very few people I ask out will feel threatened by it. While at no point when I was younger did I feel innately desired (fat, mentally and physically ill, autistic) I also didn’t interpret anything short of “I find you attractive” spoken aloud to be a sign of desire. It absolutely felt like shit when the response was hostile and disgusted. It didn’t deter me from trying again because I have always b…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:34 PM
2

Hmm… those are all good questions that I didn’t think of when I made myself giggle with the word sexpert. Mama didn’t raise a quitter though so here are your answers! A woman can definitely be a sexpert, but I’d say the orgasm specific skills would be time based when the pairing is heterosexual. Satisfaction is harder to measure than time to orgasm or number of orgasms so we’ll stick to this metric for now. A true sexpert should be able to assist outside their niche even if that assistance is li…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:03 AM
2

I’d rather it be easily accessible in the time frame that miscarriage rates are highest and save the legal hoops for after that time has passed. I don’t mind the accountability dodging aspect if it’s done early which is part of why I think men should have an option for that as well. Until the necessity conversation surrounding death and disability has been legally settled I’m just too concerned about the extra suffering to be okay with significantly restricted access early in the pregnancy. I kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:51 AM
2

I consider myself pro-choice mainly because I’d rather access to abortion be too easy rather than too hard. I think the decision should be made by a woman and her doctor without extensive legal hoops to jump through. I completely understand why people are opposed to it and I think a lot of people try to make it seem simpler than it is. No matter what restrictions may or may not be implemented, someone gets hurt. Edit: yeah big yikes @ those links 😬 I believed you and yet I was still disappointed
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:30 AM
2

Given that only 65% of heterosexual women almost always orgasm at least once during sex I’d say getting your partner to climax once or twice per sexion is probably around average.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:35 AM
2

Seeing as taxes and other forms of state funding are prohibited from going towards abortions there won’t be much extra to work with in that department if it got redirected. I absolutely agree that more funding should go towards pregnancy related dangers though. I think another priority should be finding more alternative pharmaceuticals safe to take during pregnancy as one of the reasons I wouldn’t be able to safely carry a pregnancy is the fact that the medications I rely on to prevent seizures …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:29 AM
1

Guyliner
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:19 AM
1

Mini pill (don’t remember the actual name): suicidal ideation, severe depression, and extreme irritability (I was on it for less than a month) Also one I don’t remember the name of but it was a mixed one similar to the next but with more progesterone: irritability, paranoia, worsened depression (on for about a month) Viorele: vaginismus, extremely heavy and clotted periods, migraines (the least bothersome of the ones I’ve been on, was on it for a couple of years until I got my tubes tied)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:16 AM
2

That’s understandable. I think abortion should be the last option considered but should still be an option. Pregnancy related health problems run in my family, so I’ve seen firsthand how badly even a “healthy” pregnancy can permanently damage the body. I got my tubes tied but if that fails down the line there’s no way I’d be able to handle carrying to term. That, along with other less selfish reasons, keep me firmly in the pro-choice camp.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:05 AM
1

Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:52 AM
1

Redheads. Edit for addendum: no because I am not a redhead
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:51 AM
2

Yeah I got reported (and the admins deleted my comment) for harassment when I said BBW were Possum’s favorites.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:45 AM
1

Idc they hot
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:59 PM
8

Shut up I’m trying to grow a futa cock
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:56 PM
1

It’s a damn shame Bethesda just throws a pile of shit at a dart board and relies on modders to make it playable and compelling
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:13 PM
1

Have you played Enderal? It’s some good shit—literally an entirely new game but a free Skyrim mod
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:24 PM
5

Damn I can’t believe you hurt them right in their white savior complexes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:23 PM
2

You could just ask your optometrist for a prescription next time you have a visit. If that’s too far off then you could just say that you’re worried about your glasses getting broken or something. If masks were still required in schools I’d say use the fog as an excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:21 PM
1

If anything, reading things like The Brick (Les Miserables) is a sign of self hatred and poor time management.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:14 PM
14

Condoms break. Birth control can fail. Trust can be misplaced. Men can be victims of rape. Consent to sex is not consent to parenthood. Children should never be a punishment or consequence—forcing parenthood on someone who doesn’t want it is bad for everyone involved. Should sexually active people who don’t want children take precautions to prevent pregnancy? Yes, absolutely. That being said I don’t think you should have to prove that you’re responsible enough to not be a parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:12 PM
1

Hell’s Coming With Me isn’t the type of song I usually enjoy but damn if it isn’t living in my head rent free right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:58 PM
1

That’s understandable. I think the mistake you made was calling him an expert—the expectation there is that he’ll have relevant credentials. If you’d said “author of x book” instead I think you would have had fewer people scrutinizing the source. Someone doesn’t have to be an expert to give valuable advice, people don’t go to their friends for advice with the expectation of expertise—they go with the expectation of understanding and comparable circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:55 PM
10

You mean like this? https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/wrb89e/100_strokes_of_brush_or_the_maximum_of_sex_is/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:44 PM
1

Yeah I expect I’ll be a much more interesting, well rounded person when I’m older. Hot booty is hot booty but it’s far from indicative of good decision making
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:39 PM
0

🤐
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:38 PM
1

Hot
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:34 PM
2

Curse my autism, I only just now realized you were trolling 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:15 PM
1

I’ll have you know I’ve made at least 3 grilled cheese sandwiches
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:13 PM
9

“You’re not gonna buy me more food for a chance at a hug from the front?? Rude”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 06:29 PM
5

That’s one of the main things you’re supposed to do as part of TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 06:25 PM
3

No, there are way more men looking for hookups than women on the average night. Unless you’re interested in men as well it will be a fair bit harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 06:22 PM
2

One of the best parts of marriage tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:30 AM
1

Oh that makes more sense. I was thinking high school lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 06:34 AM
2

It’s because I’m attracted to women that I know there is a right answer, it’s just different for every woman. There’s no way to appeal to every woman. It’s simply not possible. However, there are some very clear things not to do like mention how you’re on probation for sexual assault and battery. Anyone that appeals to is fucking crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 06:18 AM
1

I respect people who refuse to cheat. I’m confused by people who refuse to use resources made available to them that are completely within the rules
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:38 AM
4

In this case I was referring to him being paid (presumably at least partially by women) for sex. I’d say if you’re good enough at sex to have straight women paying for it that’s a sign of serious skill lol Honestly though I’d consider you a sexpert if you can consistently get multiple orgasms out of a woman during each sex session (or sexion if you will)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:35 AM
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Yeah he sounds like a fantastic source of information. He has the credentials and the research, that’s for sure. Shame he doesn’t have a podcast, that’d really make him an expert /s
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:31 AM
2

Did… did you take notes? Were the answers actually in the information provided with the class and textbook or did the people who pass do extra?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:20 AM
1

There are some… passionate people here, to put it lightly. Some are legitimately bitter but there are also plenty of people who just like stirring the pot or are being sarcastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:13 AM
2

Username checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:10 AM
2

Did you ever have a classmate who failed an open note, open book test?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:03 AM
6

Sources of information off of which you’re basing a claim are part of the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:28 AM
22

Having a podcast does not make you an expert. Literally anyone can have a podcast. “Alpha males” are not an actual phenomenon and they’re certainly not defined well enough for there to be “experts” on them. While I’d consider a successful male escort to be a sex expert (a sexpert if you will) I don’t think that extends to much else in the relationship. Therapists and researchers specializing in relationships could be considered experts but I’d be surprised if any of their advice involved being a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:26 AM
0

At least we can intrigue you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:12 AM
1

There’s always something better to do, the question should be “isn’t there something else you’d rather be doing?” to which the answer is no. I’m here to rot my brain plz let me do it in peace
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:07 AM
2

Combative and toxic? Yeah that sounds like a not insignificant percentage of humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:05 AM
2

He’s reasonably attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:02 AM
1

I thought they were to prevent the female cat from leaving partway through
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:01 AM
1

As a woman I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:00 AM
1

Nah, he clearly took deliberate steps to worsen the relationship between the leading ladies. Between him and whoever decided that every other Targaryen child needed to be named Aegon, peace was never an option
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:24 PM
3

I mean I’d be a little sad that he felt the need for the 3 month rule but otherwise I don’t see a problem here. If I was Sarah I don’t think I would have made it that far in the line of April questions though. It doesn’t bother me when a guy has a close female friend. Also, if I felt like the dates weren’t fancy enough or something I could always take the initiative to plan one myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:20 PM
4

Welcome to PPD!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:10 PM
1

Nah, the surviving Strong is the villain.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:09 PM
1

Congratulations! I hope your recovery is going well :)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:08 PM
3

Close your eyes. It will be very weird if you keep your eyes open. If you’re both drinking, you probably won’t be able to taste the alcohol but even if you can then it probably won’t actually bother either of you. You won’t accidentally bite him unless my husband and I have somehow been kissing completely incorrectly lol. Generally a first kiss is gonna be a closed-mouth affair.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:07 PM
0

I’ve known too many people who said identical things with the utmost seriousness to be certain of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:01 PM
1

Anxiety, the endless barrage of advertisements and advice being thrown at them on the basis that they aren’t “good enough” as is, and an abundance of cruelty from people who can reach far more victims in the age of the internet than they could have before.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:59 PM
1

Probably not. Maybe a cameo but the character can’t have the same purpose when we’re actually seeing what happened instead of just being told. Edit: my husband informed me Mushroom already made a cameo.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:57 PM
4

B I G M O M M Y M I L K E R S
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:51 PM
1

It became clear to me after my one and only attempt at a casual relationship (he’s my husband now lmao) that I’m not cut out for casual sex. At this point if I was single I would not be interested in casual sex at all and honestly I’ve never found very many men attractive in a way that arouses me at all. Sex is very emotional for me (I think my autism/sensory stuff contributes to that) so I think the percentage would be low for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:51 PM
2

After reading the comments here, I still think it’s fine in theory but in practice it can be harmful and exploitative enough that (imo) there should be a platform catering to that niche to help regulate it and protect against the exploitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:45 PM
2

I didn’t know I had an alt 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:41 PM
2

Dense as lead and twice as toxic is 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:52 PM
2

I’m clumsy enough to trip anyway, I might as well be able to use Reddit as an excuse
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:43 PM
3

Ew
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:35 PM
3

✨depression✨ At least that’s what it feels like when I’m more depressed than usual
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:30 PM
1

Yeah! So she won’t be asking him, she’ll be asking internet weirdos lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:28 PM
1

Could the same argument be used? Yes. But I’d argue it’s wrong in both cases unless pursued by the person getting the procedure—doing it on infants is extremely fucked up
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:24 PM
1

Why wouldn’t it? The intent is there, the act itself just might not involve anything phallic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:20 PM
1

THE incel forum has… a lot of fucked up takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:15 PM
1

Nah it’s not biphobic unless you’re out on a soapbox telling others not to date them. You’re allowed to have preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:14 PM
1

The flexing really doesn’t do it for me but I like his face so 7/10?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:11 PM
1

Ye we have nerve endings in our wallets, it’s pretty neat
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:10 PM
1

Because we’re all demons obvs
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:07 PM
1

My husband says yes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:07 PM
1

If I was single, absolutely. A couple of men and a couple of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:06 PM
2

Agreed. One of the things I like most about edibles is not reeking of weed and if it’s enough to make my breath smell bad I can just brush my teeth
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:05 PM
1

I’ll just switch from french fries to tater tots for a year ez pz
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:03 PM
1

Look, if someone else is changing diapers and cleaning up vomit I really don’t care if people think their gender makes that weird. Now if the daycare was staffed by people who had already proven to be dangerous individually that would be a different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:00 PM
1

I rejected a grand total of 3 men before I found my husband and lost weight. Two of them were 3x my age or older (I was under the age of 16) and were trying to follow me home while I was walking so I wouldn’t necessarily consider those to make me desirable to anyone besides predators. You’re absolutely right the the dynamic is not the same! I just think it was closer than one might expect and that I would be less likely to fail horribly than others might be.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:52 PM
2

💍 the feeling is mutual!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:47 PM
1

I’m autistic so I’ve never been great at gauging interest in me and I have only ever rejected two people for any reason that wasn’t already being in a relationship. I was fat, struggling with mental and physical illness, and definitely didn’t feel like I had options—especially since for most of my time in the dating pool I thought I wasn’t attracted to men at all. Edit: also, for what it’s worth my rejection rate was around 90%. I shot my shots anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:32 PM
2

Yes, I would. Daycares in my area are required to have certifications in order to legally operate so as long as it had those I wouldn’t worry.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:11 PM
3

I thought the unspoken rule is that you’re only supposed to pull the “if I’m on my tiptoes I’m taller than you so I’m the taller one :P” shit with your siblings lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:07 PM
1

I’ve interacted with people who were definitely not the brightest but no, that level of incompetence is disclosed rarely enough (and generally to professional therapists or gynecologists) that I can’t say for certain whether or not I know anyone that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:03 PM
1

Ah yeah I’m just talking about it from a psych perspective. Closure is a very real thing but that doesn’t mean people know how to get it. Or that they know what it is they’re actually looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:08 AM
2

A non zero number of couples needed a doctor to tell them that the reason sex was painful and not resulting in pregnancy was that the dude was fucking the pee hole :/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:06 AM
1

I agree. I think a second conversation after tensions have died down to get a better understanding of what went wrong makes accepting it easier for some people but it also makes it harder for others. More often than not it isn’t necessary, though it can speed up the process
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:02 AM
1

My god you’ve cracked the code
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:57 AM
1

Closure isn’t about understanding, it’s about acceptance. It’s accepting that some questions will never be answered so that you can move on instead of endlessly dissecting whatever information you have to try and figure out what went wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:55 AM
1

They could at least pay rent if they’re gonna stay in the house and get handsy like this smh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:52 AM
3

There are grown ass women who think they pee out of their vaginas lol, you were far from alone in your confusion
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:51 AM
1

Maybe there’s a perverted hair demon infesting homes across the world!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:48 AM
2

While plenty of those things would be nice, very few are necessary. Some are actually negatives in my book though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:39 AM
2

That man failed an open book test… with the A+ student’s notes to read off of.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:38 AM
1

It sure is head hair. On the one hand it’s pretty easy to figure out how it gets down into the vicinity since it all seems to migrate to the buttcrack during a shower. On the other hand HOW AND WHY DOES IT GET INSIDE??
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:31 AM
1

For me it’s like the never ending handkerchief magic trick but with hair out of my vagina instead of handkerchiefs out of a pocket. It’s a miracle I’m not bald considering how much hair I seem to lose each day
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:25 AM
3

Our pisshole is between the clitoris and the vagina. Everything is too crowded down there lol I’m pretty sure if there was a genital beauty contest there would be no winners though
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:23 AM
1

I will never truly understand how so much hair ends up there. It seems to be a universal problem though, as I don’t know anyone who hasn’t had to deal with it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:21 AM
2

They’re also way too close to the butthole.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:08 AM
2

They’re all squishy, smelly (not in a yeast infection way (hopefully) just in a “smells like sex” way), slimy, and make weird sounds. Don’t get me wrong they’re still fun to play with but so is plenty of gross stuff lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:00 AM
5

Who says vaginas aren’t gross? Genitals are gross regardless of how much semen is involved imo
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:55 AM
2

That’s all completely fair. For what it’s worth I think everyone should have standards as well as specific things they want out of their relationships. In fact I think it’s a good thing for people to know what they want out of relationships and be able to communicate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:53 AM
1

It deserves the blame
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:49 AM
2

I could be your friend 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:48 AM
1

It’s true, I need my man to laugh at the fart jokes I make
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:47 AM
1

bonk
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:46 AM
4

As it should be, imo :) Statistics, meeting physical requirements, etc. won’t create the feelings necessary for a loving relationship. Thinking that if you just find someone to date you who checks all the boxes on a list of traits you want you’ll automatically be compatible and fall in love with them is very rarely going to work out that way. This isn’t to say that you should have no standards or dealbreakers of course—it’s totally possible to love someone who is bad for you! In those situations…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:42 AM
2

Plz keep us updated I also want to know who Staci is she sounds hot… almost as hot as a 96 year old Mongolian woman
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:28 AM
-1

Yeah, I actually made the first move in over half the relationships I’ve been in. All but one of my relationships have been with women so I wouldn’t be in that much of a scary new situation. I’d rather just stick with what I’ve got, of course. I absolutely recognize that heterosexual men have it harder than heterosexual women when it comes to dating. I just don’t think I’d crash and burn simply because rejections don’t phase me too much and I do have some amount of experience dating bi women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:22 AM
9

By that logic, women will just lie about being virgins. Setting aside the fact that hymens are not (and never have been) a reliable indicator of virginity, how many men would actually know what an intact vs damaged hymen looks like?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:13 AM
4

Have you explained to them that this is a dynamic you enjoy, not one he forced on you? If so, yeah their response was a bit much. If not, you may want to do that before dropping more friends. Up to you of course, but the behavior (when not a mutually agreed upon thing) is a bit of a controlling red flag from the outside looking in.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:32 AM
1

If u want me to compliment you, just ask 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:27 AM
1

This is 100% true
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 11:46 PM
1

The day before yesterday. (Men here have called me attractive so I’m gonna assume I qualify)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 11:37 PM
1

Her makeup looks real nice! That eyeliner is SHARP
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 11:35 PM
1

Somft and squishy, shaped like a friend
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 11:33 PM
2

If you want a woman who will want sex 2x per day and your ick number is on the low side, you’ll be looking for a unicorn and also be miserable when her period hits.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 11:29 PM
3

Or we could both have other things going on so once every day or every other day ends up being the standard. Soreness is a thing, especially when one person’s hips act 4x their age and will sometimes cramp badly with the once every other day schedule.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 11:26 PM
2

If one of my female friends was single and looking for a partner it would be the biggest difference between me recommending him to her and me telling her to stay away.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 11:16 PM
2

It was a fantastic play on words.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 07:15 PM
2

An orbiter is someone who thinks there’s a possibility of something more than friendship happening even if he’s already been rejected on that front/the woman is already in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 07:08 PM
2

I’d say you’re missing out but honestly the only thing I actually miss about doing those things with my family is the haunted corn maze.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 07:06 PM
1

It is a vile accusation! Just because you’re right doesn’t mean it’s not vile 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 07:03 PM
1

“This sounds like a good way to save money!”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 06:18 PM
4

Yeah, it sounds like you have been. For what it’s worth, I’m sorry you got hurt. Obviously I can’t boss you around or anything but you might want to take a break from social media for a bit. The worse you feel, the easier you’ll end up getting dragged down by the nasty shit here. Just know that if someone leaves you because they “found better” that it wasn’t your fault. Not only that, but someone who claims to care for you before cheating or leaving with little warning or remorse was never worth…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:46 AM
5

I have and I’m not sure what you’re expecting me to learn there. I’m a woman. I know the difference between what I can handle and what I enjoy handling. I know that every woman is different in what they can/enjoy handling but the idea that bigger is always better is most prevalent in young, inexperienced women. Porn leads to unreasonable expectations (and subsequent disappointment) on both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:19 AM
4

That’s definitely not true. Just because someone can fit a dick the size of a preemie inside them doesn’t mean that’s something they enjoy or want to do at all, much less on the regular.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:05 AM
2

You know those rope web things on playgrounds? One of those but inside of a house for privacy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 08:34 AM
2

Honestly? Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 06:33 AM
2

Depends on how willing the person is to involve toys in the bedroom lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 06:05 AM
7

The main thing is that RP people have an actual, cohesive ideology to post and debate about. Blue pill was originally just a satirical antithesis to TRP. People who aren’t redpilled care less and aren’t working with an established set of talking points. We don’t have a cohesive ideology to post about or defend, we’re not a community, we aren’t coming up with theories to share with likeminded people the way redpillers are. Most places on Reddit you’ll see far more takes that are “blue pill” so to…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:53 AM
3

It would help if it was actually a foam pit rather than a deceptively shallow kiddie pool of foam
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:38 AM
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I’m only checks Google… 5 years ahead of the median national average. Yeah I definitely got very lucky lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 04:21 AM
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I intend to do neither because I live life on the edge~ On a more serious note, yeah that’s my recommendation as well. If you don’t want to take the risk then just… don’t. The vast, vast majority of dog related injuries happen to the owners and it’s pretty damn hard to accidentally own a dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 04:09 AM
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I’m 22 and I’m pretty sure I’m out of touch
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 04:04 AM
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Yeah my autism makes the grind less bothersome to me. In case you were wondering, the CDC hosts a dog bite prevention week and features information from other sources. From what I can tell it’s updated yearly and swaps out the links, my guess is that’s where it’s from. This study mentions a lack of research being done in the US which lines up with what I’ve been able to find. However, dog bite injuries are getting less prevalent by the year according to what data we do have! I 100% agree that (w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 03:57 AM
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Hmm, interesting. I’ll do some digging and report back to see if I can find the 2015 study.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 03:40 AM
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Would you be so kind as to link it to me? I was following the citations on the 2001 CDC study.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 03:30 AM
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Did you not follow the citations? The statistic is based off of a phone survey done in 1996 to see if there needed to be more education provided about handling dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 03:28 AM
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That’s completely fair. If you don’t know the dog it should always be treated with caution imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 03:17 AM
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Reported to police for the statistics you showed is a key factor. The number of dogs I stated was specifically the number owned, it doesn’t include the number in shelters. The participants of the CDC study were only asked if they were bitten at all. Not “did it draw blood” or “was it playing” so I consider it reasonable to assume unless otherwise stated those bites were relatively harmless.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 03:14 AM
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I (mostly) agree with you, actually. I only made the post because someone made the comparison and I was curious. That being said you can have biases for and against specific dog breeds. I actually think that’s part of why the pitbull issue exists in the first place—people have such strong opinions that those opinions start getting taken more seriously than facts, resulting in more people relying on misinformation when raising their dog. Just a theory, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 02:55 AM
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Okay, I’m going to start by saying that 4.5m is an estimation as is the 800k resulting in medical care (not hospitalization, just bad enough to need more than a bandaid) but it’s from the same study so I’m going to roll with it. Sticking with the theme of 2019, here’s the BJS study since the CDC study for the dogs was conducted far more similarly to this one than to the FBI one linked. Seeing as both the CDC and BJS studies take into account victimizations that don’t result in any charges being …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 02:50 AM
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…yoga? A lot of yoga?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 01:55 AM
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Well hang on now, how am I supposed to find statistics on men causing injuries that don’t result in hospitalization? I used willful murder statistics because those are actually tracked and there is no ambiguity surrounding accidental deaths. I specifically avoided any statistics for humans that didn’t involve a specific intent to kill because that would give me the lowest result. I also went based on offenders rather than victims because offenders could have far more than one victim which would …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 01:53 AM
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Cool. There are 76.8 million owned pet dogs in America. Edited for clarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 01:44 AM
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Then we’d have to look at injuries caused by men too though. Maybe I’ll end up getting annoyed enough to write a whole dissertation on it, we’ll see lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 01:41 AM
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😱😱😱
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 01:39 AM
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“Rapper Pitbull resulted in 33 human deaths in 2019 but there are still benefits to having him as a pet!”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 01:36 AM
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I think my man’s response to a more attractive woman hitting on him would be “do you want to have sex with my wife?”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 01:31 AM
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In light of the current pitbull controversy, I’m going to present some fun statistics for interested parties. Yesterday someone made the comparison between the fear of pitbulls and the fear of men. I figured I’d compare relevant statistics! In 2019, the US was home to 4.5 million pitbulls. In 2019, 33 people were killed by pitbulls and pitbull mixes. That means, assuming all those deaths were 1 dog per 1 victim, 0.00073% of American pitbulls caused the death of a person in America. On the other …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 01:26 AM
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For me it would depend on how many and how recent. I have some of my own from… over 5 years ago at this point? It’s been a while. I’m at a stage in my recovery that wouldn’t mesh well with someone who was still actively harming or had just stopped. I’m definitely not ready to be the rock for that in a romantic relationship but I’m stable enough to keep my own urges under control.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 10:58 PM
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Almost every computer accessory I own is from one of those brands at this point. I just needed a new mouse in a short time frame and none of the local stores had any wired mice :(
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 10:52 PM
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You’d fit in with the other billionaires better lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 10:13 PM
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Bzzzt
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 10:12 PM
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If I were a billionaire I’d very quickly stop being a billionaire. I could fund so much research!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 09:53 PM
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Wait, they do??? I need to watch my nipples more closely during sex
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 09:51 PM
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Just whatever you do, don’t try to be subtle about it. It sounds to me like he’s trying to put himself out there so you should respond with similar enthusiasm, otherwise he’ll be more likely to assume you aren’t interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 09:50 PM
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Fertility Edit because I realized I have more to say: hormones (especially during ovulation) make our faces more symmetrical and the hormone levels at those ages tend to be best for both looks and pregnancy. It makes sense that our bodies deliberately show what time is best for us to make the bebes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 09:46 PM
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He asked you if you want kids or not my gal. You could, like… flirt with him if you can’t ask him out directly. Compliment his looks, ask him about his plans for the future, see about spending time with him one on one. Find out what his favorite food is and make it for him idk I’m bad at flirting
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 09:45 PM
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Ugh. I hate that so many companies are moving away from wired computer accessories I don’t want to have to charge my damn mouse, just let me sit in a nest of wires the way God intended
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 09:40 PM
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Well first of all, you need to find out if the housemate likes you back. Obviously that might not be an option right now but it will be far harder to move on if you haven’t been shut down there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 09:39 PM
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I know, but since you might end up interacting with her after she recovers I figured I might as well let you know. I can’t imagine the guilt and pain she must be feeling. Knowing that there was a reason behind it after all might make that burden easier to bear, if only slightly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 09:36 PM
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If the dog in question truly never expressed any sign of aggression before this, was never trained not to bark/growl (since training that out of them is actually very dangerous), and the toddlers weren’t antagonizing the dog, I would actually recommend the mother pursue an autopsy of the dog if possible. Rabies, brain tumors, and other forms of damage to the brain can cause an otherwise friendly animal to have a rapid and violent change in temperament. If the dog was on the older side, this is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 09:33 PM
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Good
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 08:56 PM
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This is the way
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 08:38 PM
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My mom is also two years older than my dad!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 08:00 PM
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I think they’re just ashamed of the fact that they enjoy the dumbassery of this place.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:59 PM
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Fair. At this point I just sigh and crack a joke since that’s about as serious a response as those posts deserve
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:53 PM
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The last sentence is fair but why is it a good thing they had to question if you liked them? That just sounds like bad communication to me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:52 PM
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Take an angry poop?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:50 PM
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Oh. My. Goodness. Thank you for your contribution I must share it with my German Shepherd
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:01 PM
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I think that’s more about the hips
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 09:20 AM
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Or Canada!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 09:00 AM
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That’s far too reasonable a response, get out of here science man
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 08:59 AM
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“God I fucking wish. Then I would have a reason for being this stupid. Instead I just have an impeccable sense of wordplay.” -husbando
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 08:57 AM
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That’s an upsettingly good line
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 08:55 AM
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What if humans only had 9 fingers and 11 toes? This question comes courtesy of my husband
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 08:54 AM
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It’s true. Also apparently they make THC drinks so I can get more safely fucked up
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 08:49 AM
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Please understand I am openly inviting mockery it was a terrible hairstyle
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 08:48 AM
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“Bow down before my mighty meat rod. Not to be confused with the curtain rod. That guy is kinda fucking hung” -husband Edit: I don’t know what he’s talking about send help
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 08:46 AM
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No I thought Natalie Dormer was hot in Mockingjay and liked having blue hair lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 08:44 AM
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My husband says “what do you mean you can only hold up a wash cloth? You need to step up your dick game. I believe in you. #staywokeking”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 08:42 AM
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Oh that makes sense. I can do that I bet it’d feel real weird to me with a penis instead of a vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 08:34 AM
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I don’t know what that means but I intend to learn
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 08:33 AM
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LOOK AWAY THIS ISN’T WHAT IT LOOKS LIKE
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 08:32 AM
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Well now I need to figure out how to flex my butthole in case I get bodyswapped
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 08:28 AM
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Please understand once I figured out what muscle I need to flex to get the penis to do the lil wiggle I would actually be entertained for multiple hours Obviously I’d also need to find out how many towels I could hold with my penis
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 08:24 AM
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I gotta say, half shaved/half bright blue was NOT a good look for me… never again 😬 Thank you though 💙 the sentiment is appreciated Also what are you talking about, nothing is cooler than a game of dice and make believe… I’ll have u know I’ve killed at least two very scary necromancers threatening the material plane!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 08:16 AM
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Bold of you to assume I would do anything else that day
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 08:09 AM
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Well you see… I am also an autistic weirdo! But thank you 😊 I gotta say, lulll’s fashion advice has been spot on! The bangs are a good fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 08:07 AM
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Lie and eat hot chip
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:55 AM
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Yeah that’s me lol, be pretty weird if I was using someone else’s pics to show my tattoo considering I’m the one who designed the tat in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:52 AM
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Those are the kind of thighs I want to crush my skull like a watermelon.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:49 AM
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So what you’re saying is that penises hibernate… Perhaps vaginas are simply hand warmers but for penises and that’s what causes the winter shortage? 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:48 AM
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These sundress and these comparison pics probably show it best. The center is the ægisjalmur, or Helm of Terror/Awe. It’s supposed to be painted on the forehead before a battle to incite fear in your enemies but I wasn’t committed enough to the symbolism to get a face tat lmao. To me it represents the strength it took for me to survive what I have and my motivation to keep moving forward. On either side is a wolf, representing the people (and literal dogs) who helped me find that strength.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:46 AM
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I hear the cold is bad for penises
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:38 AM
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What a good dog 😍 You’re forgiven for your tattoo comments and I will be entertained for at least 5 minutes by videos of this fluffy boi
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:29 AM
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Sounds kinky I’m in
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:25 AM
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I blame my epilepsy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:23 AM
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Australians, Koreans, and people who work night shifts are my only salvations when I’m doing my midnight scroll through PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:23 AM
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Mood tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:21 AM
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Oh you mean Dug? Yes pics of him will suffice
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:15 AM
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Chesticles aren’t as sensitive as testicles though… I think we just need bras to keep aggressive nipples under control
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:14 AM
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No but you’re not saying dumb shit to entertain me so you don’t count 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:13 AM
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I think the problem is we’re all just too tired to come up with asinine shit to say to stir the pot
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:12 AM
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Yessss I want something so far out of left field I don’t feel bad for laughing and talking shit
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:11 AM
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No I’m heartbroken 💔 I can’t believe you would personally attack me in such a manner 😭 The only thing that can mend my broken heart is a cute picture of a dog, something notoriously hard to come by
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:10 AM
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The problem is I’m too tired to come up with a topic, I just wanna read silly shit without using my brain It’s dumb bitch hours rn
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:09 AM
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A major positive thing people associate with femininity is motherhood. The mental and physical strength required to be a good mother is historically well recognized. Physically you have to be able to recover from childbirth quickly enough to keep up with the needs of a newborn. Mentally you have to be able to gauge the needs of your child and guide them as they grow into their own person. You have to balance being an authority and being a confidant. That description is, of course, the ideal. It’…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:06 AM
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It’s either a different kind of strength or simply weakness and submission depending on who you ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 06:45 AM
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Endlessly refreshing just to see one bland comment every half hour :((( Where’s the spice? Where’s the wild shit that makes me question my own sanity? Where’s the pizzazz?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 06:43 AM
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Y’all need to stop having normal people sleeping schedules, I need late night entertainment in the form of silly Reddit conversations 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 06:35 AM
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I’d say about 90% of my comments here are on the Daily. It legitimately feels a little weird to see familiar names when I comment on a different thread
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 06:29 AM
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No that would be a sin, that’s why you bring a buddy along and have them jump on the bed!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 06:14 AM
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Say hello to 3 of my aunts and 17 of my cousins for me!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 05:57 AM
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There’s probably a Greek god of anxiety
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 05:55 AM
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Solid 8/10 in my book 🍑
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 05:54 AM
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The special ingredient is coriander!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 05:52 AM
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I don’t know 😭 I swear I’m not a witch I’m just nice to people
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 05:13 AM
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Totally fair preference :) some clothing in particular looks really weird with tats
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 05:00 AM
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Eh, only a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:39 AM
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It’s okay lol you really don’t have to apologize, I’m not hurt! For me the difference is in why the tattoo is gotten. Plenty of tattoos are trashy and people generally end up regretting those.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:38 AM
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It’s made things a bit better for people who are low functioning. People have gotten a bit less judgmental of caretakers and there are more people willing to defend those who are otherwise defenseless. Aside from that I agree completely. This is especially true of organizations like Autism Speaks. None of the higher ups or consultants are autistic themselves, it’s a bunch of NT people virtue signaling while also trying to teach autistic people how to behave “normally”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:34 AM
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He can play Overwatch instead of League because the OW booties are bigger
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:28 AM
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That’s understandable lol, I’m well aware I’m not everyone’s type or anything. I just don’t think being unattractive to me makes someone trashy :P
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:24 AM
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And here I was thinking you didn’t find me trashy 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:16 AM
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Hored
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:15 AM
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Honestly? I agree. Sometimes things just work and it’s better not to question it lest the universe correct itself
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:14 AM
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She a THOT
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:12 AM
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This sounds like a case of the exception making the rule but in a way that makes me question the rule
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:12 AM
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I mean… I’m of the opinion that both partners should do housework unless there are some pretty specific circumstances. Emotional labor is also something that is necessary in all loving relationships. It’s possible I’ll never be able to afford to adopt children so the whole thing sounds somewhat familiar, especially since I was raised around a LOT of hardcore feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 11:31 PM
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If they’re happy then there are far worse outcomes lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 10:03 PM
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I think some preferences don’t have a reason behind them, at least not one that can be put into words. That being said, no one should ever be in a relationship with someone who they wouldn’t be seen in public with. Never stay in a relationship with someone who thinks you are some sort of vice to be ashamed of—you are a human being and deserve to be treated like one. They need to get their shit together and either stop dating people they feel shame about or get help to work through that shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 09:49 PM
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I only suck my hubby’s straw tyvm
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 07:33 PM
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Sometimes you’ll see a strawman get countered with another strawman without either person realizing what they’re doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 07:26 PM
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No one is safe from the straw
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 07:24 PM
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Congration!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 07:23 PM
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Those sound incredible actually
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 05:39 PM
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I just meant I can’t help with the actual birth rate. Hopefully in the future I’ll be able to meet the qualifications for adoption though :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 05:39 PM
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I mean… I ended up with a man. I can’t have kids but I have the spirit!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 06:19 AM
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Clearly the solution to modern dating problems is more bisexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 06:17 AM
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Oh, I don’t know? I don’t have a habit of pulling out a tape measure when I find someone attractive. I’ve been attracted to men and women who were noticeably shorter than me though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 06:15 AM
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Does my husband count?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 06:12 AM
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I’m extremely biased because that’s my hubby’s height, but I’m pretty sure 5’8 is the best height possible
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 06:11 AM
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5’6
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 06:10 AM
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But I don’t have the budget for CGI
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 05:33 AM
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5’2-5’10 is my comfort zone
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 05:33 AM
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I meant in private so they can save face, but that’s fair
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 05:32 AM
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