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Divine_Instrument/r/askTRP15/12/18 03:50 PM
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Lol. True. I admit I’ve been guilty of the quantitying thing but only because I’ve found slightly different numbers get a different point across entirely.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 04:56 PM
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Fair point. I’ve actually been thinking lately that to really be a high value RP man you have to kind of grow out of reddit and these subs.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 04:54 PM
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It’s particularly bad lately though. I recognize your username. You commented in the post with the guy who did the “mma choke”. It’s shit like that. C’mon man.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 04:53 PM
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Sorry bro. I have no idea how things work in cultures outside of the West. You should’ve included that in your post. Most of us are in the US or other similar western countries. I think the rest of it still remains true but again, I’m not sure how it works where you are.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 04:48 PM
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C’mon man. I get what you’re saying, but you’re a fucking adult man. You just make a conscious choice to stop and you just stay conscious of it when the habit starts to bubble up and you just stop. You’re making excuses. Tell your wife you love her and go to therapy if it’s so damn hard for you.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 04:15 PM
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Instagram is really only valuable if you’re using it to produce, not consume. Following others and browsing Instagram is not only not valuable it’s harmful in the long run. Who gives a shit if you don’t follow her.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 04:11 PM
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Stop getting drunk.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 04:09 PM
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You just stop saying it? Like wtf. This isn’t rocket science. “How do I stop talking to my wife in a way I have complete control over because I have free will?” Are you serious?
/r/askTRP15/12/18 04:06 PM
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No there’s no other factors. You let the dude bully you. Straight up. That’s what happened. I highly doubt that 100% of people at your school are involved in sports and I completely disdain your notion about “everyone here who means something plays sports” but okay I’ll play along. If 100% of people are involved in sports and the social scene revolves around that, guess what you have to do if you want to have value in that social group? Play sports. I mean think about this dynamic. You’re admitt…
/r/askTRP15/12/18 03:42 PM
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It’s just a shit test. She wants you to cave. Don’t argue with her. Next time you fuck her, fuck her extra hard to give her what she wants. Read Sex God Method if you haven’t read it. On to the much much bigger issue. This is completely retarded dude. Not only is the way you describe it as “an MMA choke move” indicative of the fact that you have no fucking idea what you’re doing or talking about, but you shouldn’t do this shit at all. Ever. Another commenter mentioned that this is a good way to …
/r/askTRP15/12/18 03:31 PM
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“Physically sat me down”. You went beta bro. You let another man straight bully you and force his physical will on you. Don’t let anyone do that shit. If a guy asks you to sit down you can sit down but you’re not a fucking doll. Another man can’t physically make you do shit. Idgaf if you’re 170lbs and they’re 6’5” 280lbs. When he told he would fight you if you took her home you should’ve laughed it off and asked if they had a history. It’s probably his ex or something and he’s mate guarding her.…
/r/askTRP15/12/18 03:16 PM
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I worked as a bouncer for 4 years and if I had a dollar for every time a girl threatened to make shit up about me or ruin my life simply because I told them something they didn’t like, I would be a rich man. If I had done an “MMA choke move” on them playful or not, I would be in jail. No doubt.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 03:04 PM
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It honestly doesn’t matter. I wouldn’t do it just because I don’t see the point in stuff like that. She helped you through the loss of your relative because she was your girlfriend at the time. If you hadn’t been her boyfriend she wouldn’t have thought twice about you. She’s not your girlfriend, so why? When a girl leaves, she gives up her right to have me in her life. I’m not some emotional emergency kit that can be called upon any time some big tragedy happens. We’re done. With that said, it’s…
/r/askTRP15/12/18 02:59 PM
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Don’t argue with her. Ever. If you want to keep the relationship, just make it better you should apply dread, spend no more than a few days per week with her, develop some abundance, and work on yourself and your mission. Do that and apply the rest of RP. Hopefully, she’ll get her ass in gear. Otherwise, best to just end it.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 02:54 PM
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Good point. Agree with this honestly.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 02:40 PM
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I don’t really track entrees on myfitnesspal I was just giving an example. I track it by each ingredient but I guess you could do it manually if you need to. I was just curious about your age and stats because I obviously don’t know you and if you were like 16 and 15% body fat, it would be kind of senseless to even track calories and cut weight. Your plan sounds fine though.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 05:21 AM
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Got it. Yeah you might want to just try tracking it after it’s prepared then. You can search foods in MyFitnessPal too so like for example, let’s say you had Macaroni and Cheese for dinner. You could search for homemade macaroni and cheese in the app and it will give you a rough estimate of calories for that meal based on the quantity you put in. Otherwise, you could try and track calories based on labels and just eyeballing it, but the first way would definitely be better if you can do it. I’m …
/r/askTRP15/12/18 05:02 AM
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Ah okay that does make things a bit tougher. Are you trying to build strength/size or lose fat?
/r/askTRP15/12/18 04:34 AM
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What do WISNIFG and NMMNG stand for?
/r/askTRP15/12/18 04:32 AM
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Well first you gotta realize you’re in the honeymoon phase so obviously everything will be great. Things can change once people get more comfortable in 6 months, 1 year, 3 years, or whatever. There’s a married red pill sub which is geared towards marriage but also deals with LTRs a bit. You should check it out. Blackdragon has a blog which is geared towards open relationships but I’ve found it applicable in monogamous LTRs quite a bit also. From my experience, here are some key tips: Have a miss…
/r/askTRP15/12/18 04:31 AM
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I think you’re gonna have a bad time if you won’t commit to relationships but expect 4 women to commit to monogamy with you unless you have like hyper high SMV and are a pro athlete or something.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 04:11 AM
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The best way in my opinion is to get a cheap food scale and some measuring cups. Measure or weigh everything you eat or drink and track it in an app like MyFitnessPal. Eventually you’ll be able to eyeball it or you’ll just know how many certain meals are.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 04:06 AM
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I’m sure TRP disagrees but the way I see it is if you picked the date and invited the other party, you should pay. This is especially true if you use the tell don’t ask tactic for dates. This is also why you don’t take girls on expensive dates.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 11:23 PM
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Sounds a lot like Philly lol.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 04:15 PM
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Honestly, this turned out fine and your first text made me lol not because it was stupid but because it was kind of clever. If it were me I would just let her know there’s nothing wrong with her personality but you expect her to respect your wishes moving forward and immediately drop it and act like nothing ever happened. I still might soft next for a day or 2 before returning like nothing ever happened.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 08:36 PM
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Again, this is just what I would do. I’m not a guru or anything. Personally, I would’ve not responded to her for a day or 2 unless she was particularly apologetic and then I would’ve texted her out of the blue like it never happened or responded like it never happened if she was apologetic. She likely wouldn’t do it again. The soft next is crucial imo. I think you’re sort of missing the point though. You can’t rely on others to tell you what to text. You just have to internalize how to behave in…
/r/askTRP13/12/18 07:24 PM
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Whatever you do don’t argue with her. Just stand your ground and treat her like a little girl throwing a tantrum because that’s all it is. If she refuses to submit to the fact that you platonically know and interact with other women you don’t want the bitch anyway.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 05:44 PM
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Just my opinion having had a similar situation, it is okay to reach out every 4 to 6 months or so and chat a bit. Just be fun, send gifs or something, but keep in mind texting is primarily for logistics so don’t be texting her nonstop for days at a time. If she reaches out to you it’s okay to respond but follow basic texting rules. Wait to reply, don’t be sarcastic, no fucking emojis, don’t give her validation, no “I miss you”’s or “you’re pretty”’s. No good morning or good night. Keep in mind y…
/r/askTRP13/12/18 05:40 PM
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Nah you did fine. Don’t make a big deal out of though. I’d give a little soft next period of withdrawn attention. Then just act like it never happened and she’ll be more respectful of your boundaries. If you stay hung up on you’ll seem emotionally reactive and thus, beta which is what she was testing you.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 05:35 PM
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This is not a shit test. This chick is low value, has many red flags, and is not worth his time.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 05:31 PM
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Shocked this isn’t what every single response to this post says...
/r/askTRP13/12/18 05:28 PM
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I’d next the fuck out of a girl who tells guys they look hot on their Instagram. It might seem hard to let someone you like go because of your mental health problems but trust me she knows that and is taking advantage of you. You don’t need her. Focus on yourself and becoming better.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 05:28 PM
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It’s not that there’s an issue with being an introvert. It’s that introverts have a tendency to use that as an excuse not to do something. I’m a natural introvert. I don’t get energized by often being in social situations. I also don’t get energized by going to work or brushing my teeth but I do both of those anyway.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 05:26 PM
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It really depends. If she’s going with other guys o to concerts to slut it up and get attention then yeah it’s a red flag. In that case I wouldn’t flat tell her she can’t go but would say something like “You can do whatever you want. I don’t want to date someone who does x.” Soft next her if she does it anyway. Hard next if it continues after that. One thing to note though, and a lot of guys don’t get this for some reason, is that even in an LTR or marriage you’re supposed to have friends and do…
/r/askTRP13/12/18 05:19 PM
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Yeah man. I get it. I really sympathize with this as I am the same way. I am naturally quite cold and distrustful. I struggled with close relationships but especially with girlfriends once we had been together for a while. At one point in my life, I genuinely wondered if I had Autism or something (I don’t). That way I was has changed a bit and I’ve become a bit more “normal” over time as I’ve gotten older and it might for you too. I would say this to you. You cannot change who you are. You simpl…
/r/askTRP13/12/18 02:40 PM
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This is interesting. I’ve actually noticed something pretty similar with listening to podcasts and YouTube videos. I like to throw my headphones on and listen to them while I’m doing chores, in car, lifting, etc. I’ve noticed I’ve started to internalize some of the things that are discussed despite having not really been paying too much active attention to them. They’re kind of just background noise but my subconscious brain seems to pick it up regardless. It does sound a bit wacky but I might t…
/r/askTRP13/12/18 02:09 PM
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I understand. I was in your shoes once. You’re hyper-analytical. So am I. That can be paralyzing and get you in your own head, which is not helpful. I think you’re too wrapped up in this idea that you’re too alpha, which I can tell you straight up is very unlikely based on what you’ve told me. I don’t think you should dwell on it. If she’s looking for something outside of the relationship, giving her comfort won’t change that. What can change it is if she realizes you’re a high value man and she…
/r/askTRP13/12/18 01:52 PM
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I think he’s referring to the part of the video where he mentions using headphones and programs just as your falling asleep sort of like hypnosis. He also mentions you can buy programs. Are there programs for this kind of thing that you can listen to available anywhere you know of? Videos on YouTube? I believe that’s what he’s getting asking.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 01:30 PM
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You’re getting in your own head. If she’s dating you and has sex she likes you, however, the overanalyzing and the lack of “I’m the prize mentality” can change that. I understand that you don’t like photos. I don’t either, but she should be asking you to take photos with her. You as the man don’t ask to take pictures together. She should be doing that. Further, you can’t force her to like you. All you can do is be the best you possible. That means being a high value man with a mission that maint…
/r/askTRP13/12/18 01:21 PM
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You could respond by working on yourself, making sure you have options, and applying a bit of dread. You could also let her know that she can do what she wants but you don’t want to date someone who plasters themselves all over the internet like that. Either would probably make it a non-issue. The unfortunate reality though is that almost all modern young women are addicted to social media validation and will whore it up as best they can for likes and attention from thirsty betas whether they’re…
/r/askTRP13/12/18 11:59 AM
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Nashville is the most underrated city in the U.S. in my opinion.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 11:39 AM
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It really depends on what you want and what you’re like. I’ve lived a few places and have been looking at making a similar move myself and really want to avoid the West Coast and other liberal shit holes. I’ve done some reconnaissance and I’ll give you a breakdown of what I’ve seen. NYC is best in terms of dating and nightlife, but sucks for a plethora of other reasons. I like it but don’t think I’d want to live there ever. Chicago is mini-NYC without nearly as many headaches. People are friendl…
/r/askTRP13/12/18 11:36 AM
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Lol this 100%
/r/askTRP13/12/18 12:56 AM
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Girls do this. 2 weeks isn’t a long time. She wanted beta and exclusivity and you wouldn’t give it to her so she’s out looking for a beta while also applying some dread to you because she’s “gone.” Stay no contact until she reaches out and she will probably come back. If not give it 4-6 months and reach out. If and when she does come back titrate in just a very tiny amount of comfort and Beta here and there. On your terms of course, not when she demands it. Keep in mind, plates do break. You may…
/r/askTRP12/12/18 06:18 PM
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Why is your girlfriend going to be going out for NYE without you? That’s the biggest issue here. If you have to work or something, well fair enough. If you are long distance, she really shouldn’t be your LTR. The second issue here is why are you dating a girl who cares so much about being a heavy drinker? Sounds like you didn’t vet her properly. I also think your response to her came off pretty insecure. She wanted to get you riled up and judging by your response she got it. I would’ve just said…
/r/askTRP12/12/18 03:41 PM
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You’re right. I didn’t really do any math lol. I just quickly threw out a number assuming he’d be living off of it for 50+ years since he is 20 and would be covered anywhere in the US including a high cost of living place like New York or San Francisco.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 08:51 PM
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Gotcha. I probably saw more of that than anything else actually. Pretty crazy what ownership can do. It certainly ain’t easy though.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 04:46 PM
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Ah okay so you would still fall into what I said above. I'm curious to know what your "hands on" business was. I saw more than a few contractors, landscapers, etc. in my time and most would be shocked. I know I was when I first got to the street and saw it myself. I digress. I understand if you want anonymity. Anyway, I'd encourage you to read my comment above as I edited it with advice. I personally, have not been fortunate enough to have such a problem, but have known more than a handful who h…
/r/askTRP11/12/18 04:29 PM
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Lots of lessons in the failures, not just the victories. Respect for having the balls to try something and admit failure. Good luck man.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 04:15 PM
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Hold on. How much money did this business make you and how are you not still putting time into growing it? Is it set up so that it generates recurring income with virtually no input or did you sell it? If you sold a business today you would need like $8 million to be effectively able to retire anywhere in the US at 20 years old. Obviously, this doesn't apply if its generating passive cash flow for you. Whether it will continue to generate increasing passive cash flow with no input long into the …
/r/askTRP11/12/18 03:59 PM
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Ignore the 18 year old and alpha wannabe college students saying only guys that can’t get girls think this way. “I love sluts, bro” lol okay. Yes it is rare, but not because it’s a logical choice. Women are compelled by feels. Nothing is more emotionally charging to women than sex. Nothing exists beyond that emotionally charged moment to them. The social institutions and societal pressures that once kept it in check and made them think twice before having sex have been eroded by feminism and so …
/r/askTRP11/12/18 04:02 AM
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First of all, you don’t NEED anything. The second you NEED anything you’ve put it on the pedestal. You’re a man and don’t need shit so cut that shit out. If you want an LTR at this point that’s fine but go into it with a RP lens. If you specifically go LTR hunting it will end in disaster. You should focus on your mission while meeting different girls and vet them along the way.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 10:17 PM
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When you’re older you’ll see that appearance isn’t everything and there’s other factors that can make you attracted to someone too. With that said, it’s likely there is a bit of oneitis at play as well. Address that.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 10:09 PM
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The best way to learn anything is to get it wrong first.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 10:08 PM
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Personally, I would hide it until you know a girl a bit better. Someone made the comment “you wouldn’t hide your house”. True but poor logic. Just because something is commonly done doesn’t mean we seek to do it as RP men. Beta Bux is common too. I worked on Wall Street and had many experiences where girls had no interest until they figured out what I did for a living. I don’t need or want those girls. The best way to filter them out is to hide it initially. They’ll be able to tell you pass the …
/r/askTRP10/12/18 10:05 PM
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Absolute number 1 habit in terms of ROI is surrounding yourself with alphas. Also, Team sports, combat sports, and reading.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 10:01 PM
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Forget all the hyper specific advice about game, college, or social skills. Those are great but at your age that’s not what really matters. That’s not the core fundamentals. You work on yourself, seek mentors, surround yourself with alphas, develop the version of you that thinks and acts independent of your parents and peers. Improve yourself towards the person you want to be. Accept that this is all a process and who you want to be now may not be who you want to be in 5 years. The important thi…
/r/askTRP10/12/18 09:53 PM
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I know you probably feel bad that she feels bad but trust me if you shrug it off she will completely forget about it. If she’s new to giving blowjobs maybe ease up on having her deepthroat you for a while too until she gets more comfortable. You want to teach her proper. You don’t want to have her get used to trusting you to teach her, have her be okay, and do well only to fail, feel like shit, and end up embarrassed.
/r/askTRP08/12/18 09:14 PM
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It’s really not a big deal so don’t act like it is. Tell her your happy she tried and be encouraging to her so she’s willing to get back on the horse and pretend like it never happened. If you forget about it, she will too.
/r/askTRP08/12/18 08:50 PM
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That is a good one and from personal experience, very good advice. I do feel great. I don’t want to give you the wrong idea, however. I’m not completely out of the woods and I haven’t got it all figured out just yet. I left a toxic job too and I still don’t have my long term thing 100% figured out. Nonetheless, I feel alive for the first time in years. My head is clear. My aim is steady. I can see where I’m going and where I need to go in my life. I still feel temptation and there are times wher…
/r/askTRP08/12/18 05:41 PM
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I don’t think I know that one. Yes. Completely sober. No drugs or alcohol at all. Not even cigarettes, caffeine, or otherwise minor medication either. All of which I used plenty. Once I get sober some minor health complications completely vanished and I no longer needed medication.
/r/askTRP08/12/18 05:11 PM
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I feel you man. I was addicted to prescription pills for years and couldn’t sleep without them. My life got to a tipping point and I went cold turkey (which you are not supposed to do). I spent about a month getting 2-4 hours of sleep per night. I just had to buckle down and keep going. I’ve been clean since then and sleep fairly normal. Half of this shit is in your head. It truly is mindset. If I can do it, you can do it too brother.
/r/askTRP08/12/18 03:58 PM
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I don’t know. You don’t want to overdo it. Just go by how you look. Once you’re lean get on a strength program and start bulking.
/r/askTRP08/12/18 03:36 AM
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Dude you’re 19 and you’re on TRP. You’re doing fine. Relax and work increasing your SMV and your mission first. The chicks will come second.
/r/askTRP08/12/18 02:55 AM
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If you know you fucked up and crossed a line, then I’d say man up and apologize and then pretend like it never happened. For the record, I know exactly what you mean about the lack of sleep and irritability from substance abuse. Try to find a way to keep it under control. You gotta control your emotions, not let your emotions control you. Also gtfo out of your toxic job.
/r/askTRP08/12/18 02:49 AM
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You won’t be cutting enough weight regardless to lose significant amount of strength. Either way you want to bulk and build muscle at some point anyway. I don’t know your body fat percentage which honestly is the most important measure. Most guys would want to be between 10 to 14% before bulking. Just guessing at your body fat levels I’d say try to cut down to like 165 and then bulk just to be safe. If you lift and diet right you shouldn’t lose much if any strength. If you do, it’s still better …
/r/askTRP08/12/18 02:44 AM
1

What traits would a guy who you would view as high status have? Get those.
/r/askTRP08/12/18 02:36 AM
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Do you mean bodyfat percentage? BMI is a index number and isn’t a percentage of anything as far as I know.
/r/askTRP08/12/18 02:15 AM
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Are you skinny fat? If so, I’d say go by bodyfat percentage. Cut down to sub 15% bodyfat and then think about bulking. It would be helpful to know your height and weight.
/r/askTRP08/12/18 02:14 AM
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She wanted you to tell her what to do. You should have told her to leave and come over. She probably got a little tipsy, got bored, and wanted to fuck. Gotta learn to notice these opportunities and lead.
/r/askTRP08/12/18 12:55 AM
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