~ archived since 2018 ~
~ archived since 2018 ~
| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 3 | Lies we tell ourselves that will ruin usAll so true... I'm in a state of shock since yesterday when she said she "has earned" the huge nest egg for staying in the marriage (that she never contributed a penny to the household expenses EVER) for so long Another lie I told myself When I give her every last penny that I have for safekeeping, I'm saving for our retirement. Nope, you're seeing that penny for the last time, you better believe it. Or Keep it for yourself. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/22 05:45 AM |
| 2 | Get out when the mask fallsWow, that book has been recommended to me so many times, and I've had it in my Audible library forever, but every year, I thought there was some hope. Thanks a ton for making that recommendation. Appreciate the detailed response, thanks much. Will get the workout sorted out today. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/22 05:40 AM |
| 4 | Get out when the mask fallsI tend to agree. I am currently working with a new therapist and am debating the viability of long term companionship with 1 vs good friend relationships with many, I believe the latter is better | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/22 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Get out when the mask fallsDitto, but in our case, it was the opposite. I'm a product of a bad parenting family, massive childhood trauma and told her I didn't think it was such a good idea getting married, but we ploughed through and after 25 years, last 10 of which I've spent in some or other shape of sleeping on the couch... Ditto, but in our case, it was the opposite. I'm a product of a bad parenting family, massive childhood trauma, and told her I didn't think it was such a good idea to get married, but we plowed thr… | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/22 03:50 AM |
| 2 | Get out when the mask fallsI just paid $50K for her master's program so that she can qualify for a job in a new country, where this program was needed, and as soon as she gets stable on the job, we're separating and she refuses to even acknowledge my contribution. Instead, blames me for being stingy throughout our marriage and for being a dick about money, always complaining... that's what gave you $150K+ of cash in the bank that you now refuse to part with, even my share. Ha! | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/22 03:47 AM |
| 2 | Get out when the mask fallsI'm in that spot right now. In my 25th year of marriage, 7+ years of dating before that, finally deciding to separate, can't divorce yet for immigration paperwork as we're in a different country than our original place of marriage, so still stuck in the documentation for 2 more years.. Been a nightmare for 10+ years, but stayed in for the daughter... and yet, she sides with her mom and thinks I'm the bad guy for snapping at her mom's every inconsiderate behavior. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/22 03:44 AM |
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter