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| 3 | What about those of us too broke to afford a house?OP isten this guy, he knows his shit. Get your act together and find a stable 9-5 job first. Playing music is not gonna cut it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/03/26 07:50 AM |
| 6 | The reality of why you got cheated on requires some pretty nasty shadow work.Don't feel bad for yourself. Look around you, youl see many men and women let go of themselves once they're married. The good news is that we can change. Take the next step to achieving a glow up. You'll look and feel better too. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/09/25 10:49 AM |
| 4 | Anyone else struggle with the ex’s SO?Don't despair, it happens to the best of us. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/25 05:51 AM |
| 7 | Custody modification- mention to my ex wife or surprise her?She played you like a fiddle, don't let her get the upper hand by warning her. Let your lawyer deal with it the best way they know how. Consult them first. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/05/25 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Now wife works out and loses weightA lesson for of you in this sun, Never ever let your woman go in a fitness journey by herself. Whenever possible, go with her to the gym. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/03/25 07:14 AM |
| 2 | How did you find out about the affair partner?Of course he is. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/08/24 02:25 AM |
| 3 | AITA for wanting to report them to HRNo you're not, you're focusing n things you can't control. The AP and your Ww is living rent free in your head now. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/08/24 04:27 PM |
| 8 | Cheater STBXW is suddenly being nice to me 4 months after divorce filing 6 months after DDayJust adding my two cents here, your Ex probably ran out of energy to bait/provoke you. I doubt that she is starting to regret or start falling in love you again since she is still with AP thus still in limerance, or affair fog . So don't start fantasizing of getting back with her. Try not to read too much into her actions of blowing got and cold. Stay the course and move Forward, you've got this. Best of luck 👍 | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/08/24 06:10 AM |
| 5 | How to survive the first days...?You're not leaving the kids, you're just moving out. You're not abandoning your kids, just seeing them less. Stop feeling guilty and make sure that every moment with your kids count. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/08/24 03:36 PM |
| 6 | What are some of the most important lessons you've learned from your divorce that you wish you could share with younger men facing similar situations?No, but I have so many friends who were left by their spouses for someone fitter, not necessarily handsome , but generally fitter. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/08/24 05:02 PM |
| 2 | What are some of the most important lessons you've learned from your divorce that you wish you could share with younger men facing similar situations?Never take your spouse for granted. When you reach home, don't just sit on your ass and expect your spouse to do everything. Work together. Don't be lazy and get fat. Exercise frequently. Never, ever let your spouse go on a fitness journey alone. Go with her. I can't stress this enough. Never ever think that no one will ever want to be with her. Treat her as if she is your life. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/08/24 04:50 PM |
| 9 | Fiance and her exSince you're in a relationship with her, it would be safe for you to inform her that there should be boundaries. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/03/24 03:06 AM |
| 5 | Did I get "too good" of a deal in my divorce? Should I pay her back money she gave to me?You are not a rich person who can afford to pay out money you don't have. What's done is done is all I can say | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/03/24 03:06 AM |
| 6 | Gloating Parent(s) During the Divorce?He's not gloating, he probably advised you but you did not listen, he was "reminding" you of the previous advice he gave so that you won't repeat the same mistakes again | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/02/24 04:43 PM |
| 1 | "you deserve so much better"If so, then why did you forbid her from contacting the AP? It's ok to lie to another but never lie to yourself. I mean this in the gentlest way, don't be sad for hearing this, do believe me when I say I'm rooting for you, all the best, you've got this. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/02/24 05:17 PM |
| 3 | "you deserve so much better"OP let her move in, in the hopes that they could reconcile and have a fairy tale ending. Unfortunately, reality set in faster then my diarrhea after having Indian food. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/02/24 04:50 AM |
| 3 | I don’t want a relationship again because I’m worried what it will do to my two boys.You starting a relationship won't harm the kids, what harms children is bad parenting. In order to be a good parent, you must first care for yourself. You can't be a good parent if you can't even take care of yourself. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/12/23 05:18 PM |
| 3 | Obsessed with Getting her BackRight now she has moved on, you should and ought to do the same. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/11/23 02:34 PM |
| 3 | Obsessed with Getting her BackYou're not stuck, you can and will move forward. For the time being, work on yourself, hobbies, gym what have you. No need to rush into another relationship . It hurts to see them with someone else .it will hurt more when you're not true to yourself | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/11/23 02:31 PM |
| 2 | Dating too soon?That's good to hear, maybe shop at a different time? Seeing her often might be a trigger. If you need anything just holler. Take care | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/09/23 01:31 PM |
| 2 | Dating too soon?Try shopping elsewhere and at different times, that way the chances of meeting with your STBXW is less. Out of sight, out of mind. I'm glad to hear that you don't think of her that often. That's shows you're moving forward. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/09/23 09:44 AM |
| 1 | Dating too soon?Don't force yourself into doing things you don't want to do. Ease yourself slowly. Take your time. Spend more time doing things you enjoy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/09/23 07:07 AM |
| 1 | My ex-wife finally found a boyfriend on a dating app, and I can't stop laughing at the ironyYou need to move on. Stop stalking her. Cut her off from Social Media. She's living rent free in your head. She forgot about you a long time ago. You should forget her too. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/09/23 04:13 PM |
| 7 | The last photoStay strong Bro. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/08/23 05:21 AM |
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