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| 1 | One year out. I’m doing all the “right” things but it still hurts like hellYes, nothing like health issues to see who decides to honor "in sickness and in health", etc. I like that you say you now have the opportunity to try to work on managing symptoms, because I think there's a possibility to feel better without a negative partner around. On the other hand, the opposite can also be true of course, that with the right kind of partner we'll feel much better. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/07/26 10:35 PM |
| 2 | One year out. I’m doing all the “right” things but it still hurts like hellI'm working on focusing on building my own life and the new person I want to be. This may sound easy but it's not. My chronic health limitations are complicating things, and I don't know how to deal with that. But I'm thinking a key is to find something to feel alive about again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/07/26 10:09 PM |
| 1 | How to survive silver bullet divorceExercise, therapist, a good lawyer or two, a financial planner. Maybe also start thinking about moving? | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/07/26 09:58 PM |
| 2 | How long after divorce you felt like you are yourself again?How would you address or fix that system or pattern issue? | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/07/26 06:09 PM |
| 2 | How long after divorce you felt like you are yourself again?Other Shoe Dropping, losing one's sense of permanency. That's really well put. I haven't been dating yet, but I can relate to this already. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/07/26 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Frozen and struggling so badNot the man, but I was frozen stuck for several years. I think two things have helped me. It became easier when the divorce was finalized and I was no longer in limbo, could move on and also did not have to see my ex as often so I felt I could focus on building my own life. Another thing was that I consciously tried to focus on building my own energy and positivity, specifically by seeing a therapist and various energy workers that focused on positive things. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/07/26 04:41 AM |
| 5 | My [40m] 5 year marriage to my wife [40F] just blew up and my wife ended up in jail and I don't know what to do.I would get the lawyer as quickly as possible, you can usually get a cheap consult and recommendation if you contact your county Bar Association. In addition, from what I understand, you should not leave your house, because that could be considered abandonment. Note that I'm not a lawyer, however. Another thing is to keep an eye on any joint bank accounts, etc. But a lawyer will tell you more about that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/06/26 02:35 PM |
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