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| 1 | Does sex equal attraction?Sex by itself doesn't equal attraction, but sex IS part of attraction from my POV. Eventually if a potential relationship doesn't progress to the point where we're sleeping together, I'm gonna dip out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 04:55 AM |
| 6 | Q4Men: In honor of Father’s Day, would you act as a father to children that weren’t yours? Why or why not?Only if the single mom was super hot and we were super compatible. Like hot to the point where any of my non-parent options couldn't come close. And even in that case, only like one kid. I'm not taking on the father role to like three or four kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 01:37 AM |
| 3 | Having realistic standards is highly important.I just find a lot of women to be unappealing physically. I'd estimate more than half the women around my age where I live are not sexually attractive. They're probably my league honestly, but I simply just can't be with someone I'm unattracted to. I'd rather remain single and occasionally spend some time with prostitutes where the hobby is legal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 05:40 AM |
| 1 | Why don’t more men get sex bot?Not interested in having sex with a robot. Seems weird. I'll just stick to prostitutes (where the hobby is legal) if worst comes to worst. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 08:11 PM |
| 4 | How to spot good women?It's not really that difficult and complicated. You just have to use your brain to think logically and not become deluded by manipulating reality to fit the narratives you want. Is the woman ever initiating the interaction between the two of you, or are you always starting the conversations? Does the woman only ever talk to you when she needs you to do something for her? Is the "relationship" between the two of you reasonably advancing, or is she just balking at moving past a certain point? Thes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 03:32 PM |
| 40 | Why do people assume that men that don’t get dates are basement dwelling neck beards?In general, it's nicer to think that bad things that happen to people were well deserved. From a woman's perspective, it's probably easier to justify rejecting a guy for a socially acceptable reason (like he's a basement dweller) instead of reasons which may invoke thoughts of her character flaws (shallowness). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 05:02 AM |
| 5 | Women do not care about confidence , really attractive people just happen to be more confident due to validation from the outside for being attractiveI dunno. I mean I go to places like Walmart and I see conventionally average or even some conventionally unattractive guys with women. I mean most of the time the women aren't top lookers themselves, but they are still together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 04:46 AM |
| 2 | men want a hot girl and women want a wealthy man but how much of that is fantasy?The starting basis is that, yes, I do need to be physically-attracted to her. If I'm not, there's no basis to possibly form a relationship regardless of any of her other traits and characteristics. That said, I've seen plenty of decently good looking women who I wouldn't describe as hot who I would have easily gone out on a date with given an opportunity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/22 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Is it really that common for men to have bad hygiene that many girls here have to mention it as a disqualifier?I think it's just an easy way to reject guys they're not interested in while still maintaining the appearance of not appearing shallow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 08:56 PM |
| 1 | New article: 50% of single US adults are not looking for relationships or casual datesI've stopped looking for awhile now not necessarily because I don't want to date or be in a relationship. But more because I don't like the options available to me. Lots of fat women, lots of women with kids, lots of women who are batshit insane. Lots of women on dating apps only looking to sell nudes. Some women who want you to commit to being the boyfriend while she gets to fuck Chad on the side. Better off being alone. I remember like a decade ago women used to be reasonably attractive and no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 05:14 PM |
| 1 | A woman is never too busy to text back. If she doesn't, take the sign.Not sure I buy that. If there was a woman I was interested in, I would never be busy enough that I couldn't take a minute to reply | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 03:40 AM |
| 5 | If a man asks you to dinner, is it wrong to accept if you have no intention of having a relationship with said man but instead to get free food?Yes, it's effectively fraud. A date implies both parties are considering each other as sex/romance partners and are using the time on the date to decide whether there's a fit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 06:33 AM |
| 3 | How many of you would become stepparents?If the woman was otherwise perfect, I'd begrudgingly accept. But having kids is a big pile of baggage, honestly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/22 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Serious question. What TRULY is the point of marriage for men?You seem to be confused on what the word "obsessed" means. Just because sex needs to be part of a romantic relationship doesn't equal obsession. I don't need sex to live a happy life. I don't think about sex every second of my life. But if you want me to switch titles from "friend" to "boyfriend" or "husband," then yes, sex needs to be involved. Women aren't entitled to sexless romantic relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/22 08:28 PM |
| 2 | Serious question. What TRULY is the point of marriage for men?indicated that while fuck was still the biggest deal of the relationship Of course. A relationship without sex is a friendship or roommate situation. Sex is what makes a romantic relationship a romantic relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/22 06:49 PM |
| 10 | Serious question. What TRULY is the point of marriage for men?Not really. I mean he said a part of having a wife is fucking the same woman, and there's nothing wrong with that. Sex is a big part of romantic relationships. He didn't say he only cared about sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/22 05:44 PM |
| 14 | Serious question. What TRULY is the point of marriage for men?Most humans like sex, get over it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/22 05:36 PM |
| 2 | Why are you people so opposed to calling out shallow dating culture?Cause most of us are shallow ourselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 10:15 PM |
| 3 | What are your opinions on those guys that are in love with anime girls and date them?I personally think it's pretty strange. But it doesn't hurt anyone else, so ultimately if they want to pretend to be married to a cartoon character, I don't really care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/22 06:18 AM |
| 3 | For men, lowering your standards is a much better dating strategy than self improvement.I guess it could depending on how high one's standards are. But you get to the point where the cow gets too unappealing to buy, and you'd rather just rent a better cow for an hour occasionally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/22 04:29 AM |
| 3 | How are all the happily single people going to remain happy with one income through old age?Kinda easy tbh, but I also have more privileges than others. I'm an only child, so I'm the only one who is going to be entitled to my parents estate (which will include a paid off house). Not that I want my parents to kick the bucket, but it's biological fact that everyone will die eventually. I am degreed and make a pretty decent income myself. I don't have too expensive of a lifestyle. My car is a 2014, I eat home often, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 12:42 PM |
| 43 | What is the real reason most average men have a near impressive time finding a girlfriend?There's a lot of reasons but here's some: Women make their own money in today's age and don't have to depend on a man to be the breadwinner. Men typically dislike fat women and there's a lot of fat women now. So about 100% of men are chasing like 60% of women. You can see how the maths doesn't add up there. There's quite a few women who are in the childfree mindset. No real need to commit to one single man if there's no kids. Sleeping around with a few football jock types has never been more soc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 05:59 PM |
| 3 | would you be willing to date a woman who did not have sex?That's a complete deal-breaker. I would never date a woman who didn't engage in sex. It doesn't matter what else she brings to the table. She could be otherwise perfect, but no sex = no dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 06:57 AM |
| -1 | Getting into a relationship with a woman who is slim and college educated is hard, period.To be honest, I place very little value on a woman's job or education. But I do place a lot of value on a woman's weight and whether she's slim. And even with one of the two conditions you put in the OP off the table, I still find getting good gf prospects to be quite the challenge. And it's not really surprising given the country's obesity stats. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 08:11 PM |
| 6 | This one's for all the Redpillers out thereTwo points: The guy on the left doesn't have a bad body. It's still aesthetically pleasing even though he's not as strong as the guy on the right. Just because the guy on the right doesn't have girls simping for him online doesn't mean he's a celibate. He'll still be able to pull tail in real life with that body of his alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Men, would you rather be the man women respect but have little or no sex with, or the man women don't respect but frequently have sex with?Would I rather be the guy who is friends with women who I want to sleep with, but they only sleep with other guys? Or would I rather be the guy who gets to sleep with the women I want to sleep with? Hmm tough question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 06:40 PM |
| 157 | The number of men not having sex within the past year tripled between 2008 and 2018. Why is that?A lot of different reasons: Women are more educated and make more money than ever before, lessening the need for a man as the breadwinner. There's both less societal pressure on getting married (having kids) and to avoid sleeping around. Society is a whole lot more demanding time wise on people now than it was in the past. We're always working, going to school, having to get never ending certs, it's time consuming. Social media and society in general inflates women's self esteems to the point wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 01:59 AM |
| 3 | Are friendships with women a good way to get sex or dates?I can only speak for myself in this regard, but it didn't work out well for me. I tried the friendship until hopefully romance strategy thing a lot in the past. Like on the Disney Channel shows in the early 2000s era when the nice friend ended up with the girl after she ends up realizing how great he was. It didn't work out like it did on screen, always ended up being friendzoned. Just express your sexual interest from the beginning. If you get rejected, at least you saved yourself your valuable… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/21 06:41 AM |
| – | Why do guys need sex to feel validated?Yet you seemed to not have an issue with the ATM example when it was favorable to your argument. How strange. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 06:39 PM |
| – | Why do guys need sex to feel validated?Because sex is the action that proves the attraction. Talk is cheap. Either you like the guy in a sexual manner or don't. If you don't, stop wasting his time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 06:35 PM |
| – | Why do guys need sex to feel validated?Using his example, a comparable would probably be the ATM asking "why does the customer need me to dispense the cash, it should be good enough for me just to confirm he has the cash available!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOh, I'm not talking about my workplace. I'm talking about when I'm out and about. And there's a cute girl working somewhere, but the imbalanced power dynamics of a client/customer and employee relationship would make directly asking her out inappropriate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 04:19 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHave you tried escalating sexually in real life? Being nice only gets to the friend role. You gotta kind of push things forward and let her clearly know that you want to exchange bodily fluids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 03:59 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIs slipping a girl your business card in settings that would be awkward or inappropriate to ask out the old fashioned way still the way to go? IE when she's working. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Question for the fellas: young average men, do you guys even try with women your age?Tthe idea that no guy who isn't a rich Chad is getting laid is dumb. All you have to do is go outside and you'll find men who aren't extremely conventionally attractive with girls their own age in stores like Walmart and Target. That said, obviously not being rich or hot is going to make things tougher, especially if you're going for the pretty girls every guy wants. Basic supply vs demand theory in action. But if you don't try, you're literally guaranteed not to get laid and not to get a girlfr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 05:08 AM |
| 26 | Dating Someone You're Not Attracted To Just To Get Relationship/Sexual Experience.Why not just hire a prostitute for sex experience? It's cruel to feign genuine romantic interest in someone when there is none. Hiring a prostitute is, in its entirety, just a business transaction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 05:44 AM |
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