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Yeah I don’t get why people see anything else when a woman says I’m a 10z
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 06:45 PM
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The problem is other gen Z people don’t do this stuff. If I do it I find myself the one young dude in a group of old people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 11:34 AM
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These studies can’t be flawed because it’s the entire population of ok Cupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 11:35 AM
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Old men give the ick because they are icky, not for power imbalance reasons. Could you see a woman being generally attracted to a man they perceive as weaker and not worthy of respect?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 10:16 AM
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In any case the man will be much much stronger than a woman. And old man’s strength probably is more about an old man knowing better technique. Also athletes are usually fairly young.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 07:11 AM
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Isn’t an old man weaker than a young man? Your other point is also not specific to age.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 05:09 AM
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I don’t think it’s literally 80-20c, it’s an inequality in number of matches and getting a match doesn’t mean much because a everyone gets some number of bot matches. For the last it’s just an opportunity to date, not a done deal. The people with more offers get more tries and have an easier time dating. We saw that relative attractiveness was a major factor in the decision to say yes. attrgap scores indicate how much more attractive the partners were relative to the participants. As you can see…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 06:27 AM
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Isn’t it just obvious from a biological standpoint that part of it has to be men having to meet higher standards to have children given women bear the risk of childbearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 05:13 AM
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https://medium.com/fact-of-the-day-1/inequality-of-dating-app-likes-e8c0aaa0cf4e https://medium.com/@worstonlinedater/tinder-experiments-ii-guys-unless-you-are-really-hot-you-are-probably-better-off-not-wasting-your-2ddf370a6e9a https://www.kaggle.com/annavictoria/speed-dating-experiment/discussion/28322
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 05:08 AM
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Just look it up, speed dating experiments, dating apps, attractiveness ratings
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 04:48 AM
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There’s a lot of data backing it up, what do you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 04:33 AM
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The best strategy is to be attractive and treat woman like your friends. RP rizz just gets you weird hoes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 09:24 AM
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Why do people pretend this never happens? In fact it’s the default because most hookups are just this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 09:10 PM
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He was a terrible president. Did you pay attention in history class 💀 Also he doesn’t count because he won due to winning the war. And he won the war because he was good general among other factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 09:08 PM
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Women care far more about male social status. AI has no social status.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 04:13 PM
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She’s married and evidently not insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:27 PM
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I think it’s fine for 7+. I just think people like this are full of hot air. It’s easy to say you’re a 8 if you’ve never been outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:26 PM
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Why does she work so hard to reassure you she’s just friends with your husband? Would this even cross a real friends mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 09:08 AM
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Yeah and also something huge like 25% of men admit to cheating…not exactly that uncommon
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 09:06 AM
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I’d wager most low libido cases are low attraction cases, especially if the women still gets off but by herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 07:29 AM
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What’s stopping you from making a dating profile…it’s easy to assess yourself as a certain quality if you’ve never been tested for it by someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 07:28 AM
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They are dating other 4s. Also the number of relationships in young men, which these issues primarily affect is steeply declining.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 06:39 AM
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The guy just always happens to have grown fat and started balding…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 06:37 AM
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If you were truly good looking you’d be able to get a girl within a week of using a dating app. I know some introverted awkward good looking dudes who did this. These dudes also reject advances from girls irl regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 06:36 AM
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Yeah where are all these ugly guys with hot girls. People pretend like they’re everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 06:35 AM
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That’s why women gush over fat balding comedians and not handsome singers...I see
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 06:34 AM
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Yes, I hate platitudes like showering. How many dudes do these people think aren’t showering
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 06:33 AM
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No it’s not, a lot of dudes are gonna be 4s forever, 50% of people look worse than average.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 06:32 AM
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I.e. one partner (usually the woman) is not attracted to another (usually the man)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 06:28 AM
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Ironically once you accept this you’ll stop being nervous around women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 06:27 AM
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This is a very tall handsome dude.. and it’s still probably staged.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 06:24 AM
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If ur husband finds her attractive they’ve fked. Maybe they forgot about it or don’t count it but don’t count on it 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 06:20 AM
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Cuz he’s a guy and she goes out of her way to make the wife feel secure
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 06:20 AM
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They asked if you ended up with a short guy long term, presumably married or something of the like. Also general jealousy as a personality trait, not directed towards anyone in particular. Very short is <5’4 very tall >6’6.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 12:53 AM
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They’ve fked
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 12:45 AM
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Then why bother commenting about it. Most short men are just normal. You probably would have broken up with him over something else even if he was a perfect guy. The Wessex Growth Study is a community-based longitudinal study conducted in the UK that monitored the psychological development of children from school entry to adulthood. The study was controlled for potential effects of gender and socioeconomic status, and found that "no significant differences in personality functioning or aspects o…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 04:39 PM
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You call yourself a mathematician right? In 2007, a study by the University of Central Lancashire concluded that the Napoleon complex (described in terms of the theory that shorter men are more aggressive to dominate those who are taller than they are) is a myth. The study discovered that short men were less likely to lose their temper than men of average height Conventional research says it’s a myth. Isn’t it clear you have a bias against short men? You have almost never dated a short guy long …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 04:25 PM
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Someone responds with the literal opposite. Classic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 08:41 AM
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HIS age Not that many 20 year olds for example are obese, especially in a college environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 09:51 AM
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He did say my age
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 07:34 AM
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They were definitely low body fat if they helped around in the farm.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 05:43 PM
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You’re making a 100 assumptions for the data. I don’t know what survey you’re talking about but it probably only asks about heterosexual partners. Anyways for every body on the male side there has to be exactly 1 body on the female side assuming heterosexual sex. It’s just basic math and if you don’t get why they have to be equal this discussion is pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:28 PM
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These studies probably don’t, they’re just random surveys. Anyways if straight men and straight women are having sex with each other, the average should be exactly the same. It takes 2 to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 05:33 PM
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You’re just making a ton of assumptions about a single statistic. The cause of most divorces is financial. Why is it surprising that women divorce men if they are laid off long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 05:13 PM
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Oh a lot of podcasts and research, the fattest women tend to have the most bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 07:24 AM
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So in other words .03%
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 07:17 AM
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Incredible mental gymnastics. Maybe you should be been a lawyer instead of a Wendy’s cashier
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 06:55 AM
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There are enough people who marry their teen loves so this can’t be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 05:37 AM
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Aren’t you sexually inexperienced yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 05:17 PM
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Not really, a woman might be satisfied after finding a match while a guy might keep on swiping. What do you think situationships have magically popped up from and why 60% of men are single while only 40% of women are. None of this gender ratio stuff matters if most relationships are formed after meeting online (which is the case, everything but apps and bars/restaurants are down by a lot, bars and restaurants are probably also just online daters who don’t think of themselves as such)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 01:30 AM
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https://eddie-hernandez.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/Gender-Ratios-Male-To-Female-Online-Dating-Apps-Bumble-Hinge-Tinder-01.jpg It’s really not that bad. Pretty close to 50/50. Monthly active users is different because there are more guys looking on the app in a given time as girls come and go. With that said this is true irl too. There are way more guys looking at any given time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 06:10 PM
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Girls just laugh at attractive guys jokes more. This is even a Disney trope.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:49 AM
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There’s probably evolutionary psychology where your parents want you to be with guys with the best geneticsz
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:48 AM
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No, or else attractive people wouldn’t make more money and get more job offers
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:47 AM
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Only 1% have paid it in the last year
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:46 AM
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You are way overestimating how many men would risk going to a prostitute. I have met one person in my whole life who got a handjob at a massage parlor.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:49 AM
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Can you send the SQL command or script you used to analyze the data? I have a feeling you’re just making theee numbers up or you would have posted it to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:54 AM
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Can you post the data set?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:40 AM
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Doesn’t your argument sort of falter when you consider current levels of gender pay parity was roughly achieved in 1997 when it was ~80% Vs 82% now. I think we just have gotten increasingly anti social because of social media. People struggle to make friends as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:36 AM
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Yeah women have reached current levels of pay parity in 1997
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:34 AM
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https://www.eviemagazine.com/post/45-percent-women-are-expected-to-be-single-and-childless-by-2030 These articles misinterpret the study. The pew trends indicate future trends, people who skew younger will be non parents, and it is the non parents who are less likely to plan on having kids. 18-49 is a broad range but it’s reasonable to interpret that as younger people to be the driving force in the uptrend. Anyways the other link shows what you’d expect from the pew results. Women of a given age…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:26 AM
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These men really are winning in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:07 AM
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Ok it seems the breadwinning woman also does more housework. And the female breadwinners are unsatisfied with their relationship probably because of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:07 PM
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The news articles interpret it as childless. https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2021/11/19/growing-share-of-childless-adults-in-u-s-dont-expect-to-ever-have-children/ Fwiw most adults expect to never have children https://ifstudies.org/blog/the-rise-of-childless-america Marriage and childbirth are highly correlated so it’s very similar. In that you can see a pretty high upwards trend in childlessness.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:49 PM
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https://www.cnn.com/2016/10/07/health/infidelity-breadwinners-cheat-husband-wife/index.html Says the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:45 PM
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No I think it hurts women who want children the most. They basically waste time in relationships with cheaters if that happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:21 PM
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Well statistically 70% of men in their 20s are indeed single.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:51 AM
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Yes but it’s effectively the same thing with the only difference being the girl knows it’s happening and agrees to it reluctantly or not
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:39 AM
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Obviously not mistreated. Just a lot of effort to get into relationships with long dry spells. And very likely to be single if they’re in their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:16 PM
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The average man is not married. The average man isn’t projected to be married in the future either. 45% of women will be single and childless after child rearing age in a couple of years. Marketing schools teach their students to target this demographic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:16 PM
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They’re ok with situation ships where the guy is seeing other girls at the same time
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:14 PM
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I think you’re just insecure and laying out your insecurities here. And being superficial isn’t being an abuser. Why even bring that up. And obviously unattractive people get famous but they’re the exception. Also the hilarious part is some of those dudes are handsome, just not male models. The first dude got famous for doing something wrong. And he’s not a famous politician either. The pedro pascal dude is clearly handsome. Half of the people on this list got viral for being really weird so it …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:50 PM
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I mean no one will admit they’re superficial because they like to think of themselves as not, but everyone is. For example why do only very attractive people go viral. Why are ceos and presidents tall and handsome (for their age), etc Also you’re taking it in the extreme int he opposite direction and assuming superficial means perfection whe it just means a preference for your best option. The dating life of an attractive man (and no not male model, just a moderately handsome man) will be miles …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:21 PM
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Superficiality is just a human trait.. vapidness obviously does not apply to all women, and there are degrees of materialism, but everyone is superficial. Women just the opportunity to be more superficial than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 04:48 PM
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I think specific personality traits, while may be somewhat common, are not ubiquitous, but caring about appearance is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 04:29 PM
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Yeah not all women are bitchy obviously but all of them are picky bc of the amount of options they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 04:21 PM
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Ehh all women are care about appearance. Sure they don’t care about the other thing but if there were a lot of women that didn’t care about appearance dating apps would be a lot easier and not just girls guys need viagra to fk for a lot of the part.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 04:20 PM
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Sure but the 2nd sentence isn’t true. You’re entitled to be welcome to any neighborhood regardless of skin color. It’s on the neighborhood for not welcoming people based on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:32 AM
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Yeah I’d say 5’6 is where things get rough. I’m 5’9 and tested 6’1 and saw next to no difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:17 AM
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Ignoring the post just the point that you aren’t entitled to any sort of treatment from someone is wrong. Basic human decency should be expected. You should be entitled to polite treatment from others without violence (as is in the case of a black man walking near white people in the 1960s).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:06 AM
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So Timothee chalamet at 5’10 is a 7?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:02 AM
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I think height fixation is a male gaze thing…it matters but face is way more important. It’s just harder to quantify and a lot of guys have an almost laughably inflated rating of their own face so they’d never blame it. (You always see some dude say they’re decent looking on Reddit and then you find out they have a melting chin and are unkempt) I know short handsome dudes that clean house. You can AB test this by making a hinge profile and modifying height. It’s either no boost or a slight boost…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 11:55 PM
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The average woman is in a casual relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 11:31 PM
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That’s a disgusting mindset
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 11:25 PM
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That’s such a reductive take. I guess black people do something wrong walking downtown in parts of Alabama.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 11:24 PM
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Partner is part of a team not your competition
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 05:32 PM
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Link to those numbers? Never heard of SAHM raised children turning out worse
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 04:37 PM
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Yeah do the vibe here isn’t something that will distinguish you, it just means a different kind of person is into you. In the above case, the girl who wants an extroverted guy would just pick neither since there are plenty of attractive extroverted guys as options.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:02 PM
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A lot of vibes are contradictory. A “cold aloof” man can be attractive but so can a “fun extroverted” man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 02:24 PM
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So in short option B?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 02:18 PM
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If you’re good looking enough jt doesn’t matter. I know attractive 5’6 men that get matches+lays
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 12:39 AM
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Gender ratios on apps are balanced but women just leave much quicker. Ratio of MAU means the gender ratio of users active in a given month. But among sign ups it’s much more balanced. Girls get into a situationship with a guy quickly but that guy stays in the app.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 12:26 AM
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If most LTRs start casually on OLD these days it will be hard to find such girls. A lot of these changes started happening once OLD started replacing dating in the last few years.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 11:57 PM
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These GPUs are powering the development of AI. What do shoes do?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 07:19 PM
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If you wear the right size clothes as a healthy weight woman, you won’t have to do that, even if have had kids. No one is saying have a flat stomach.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 05:51 AM
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It would if they could but they can’t do it. Tradcon is something you’re born into, you can’t force your way into these communities.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 05:23 AM
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Meth addicts tend to be thin
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 05:21 AM
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They all have hormonal imbalances 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:48 AM
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Ameripigs. Obesity here is suddenly genetic here and a choice in Sudan
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:47 AM
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Chicken curry and sushi are high in calories..it doesn’t matter where you get it. The fact that you’re obese without eating processed foods is incredible since most people wouldn’t have diets ravenous enough to be obese without those.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:45 AM
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If you have a functioning dick you easily can
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:38 AM
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Orders are fulfilled in batches so 1 truck serves an entire neighborhood. Do you really think 1 delivery vehicle delivers less than a single family car on average. I would know because I worked on some of the algorithms that batch deliveries.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 12:33 AM
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Only proportions matter. Even if there are a trillion females you can only meet a certain amount per day and if the vast majority aren’t single or aren’t into you you’re out of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 12:31 AM
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Someone tell him
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:21 PM
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Because of low body fat
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:20 PM
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Men do the same thing for any sort of mismatch. Girls do it too just not publicly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:15 PM
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The first image is talking about couples formed in that year. The survey includes existing couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:11 PM
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Most men are considered average. In reality I know very few men with funny looking faces (as with women)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:09 PM
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How is this true. Customers are encouraged to do this. Orders are grouped together. And customers would have done the last leg of shipping instead of some ML algorithms and professional drivers
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:07 PM
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Met at bar probably just means they met online but met in person at a bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:06 PM
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Women join the app then leave quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:05 PM
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Uh huh Why don’t you test your theory and ask them out as part of an experiment. You don’t actually have to go on dates with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:04 PM
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Applying in person is some completely stupid advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:03 PM
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This stuff is more common than you think. I know multiple guys that see side chicks while having a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:59 PM
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He already does #2, doesn’t do #1, but how is a guy like him supposed to find a bunch of girls to come over to his house for game night? Board games are a tech bro hobby. I’m sure there are women in them but it’s going to be fairly rare Anyways a nice apartment doesn’t make a girl horny. Only poor men think this to give themselves something to work for. You are right that he doesn’t have a huge social circle of girls but it’s hard to get that without being somewhat attractive. And in any case he…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:33 AM
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The majority of men don’t have autism or poor social skills
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 05:40 AM
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1) I think it is. It’s normal for relationships to last a couple of months. 2) I don’t know about you but I can talk about random crap with anyone for hours. He seems like on a scale of 0% a people pleaser to a 100% a people pleaser he’s at a solid 0%. Probably translates to his overall unwillingness to compromise.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:50 AM
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Ok that I believe, he gets into relationships but they just don’t last for longer than a few months. I still think it’s mind bogglingly stupid to dump someone for not reading the same books or hobbies but they can do whatever. This dude seems to refuse to compromise. (You’re telling me they can’t find anything to do together ?) is it really reasonable for a man and woman to share the same initial set of hobbies and reading list. Most hobbies and readings are gender dominated. Also aren’t you an …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:38 AM
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Can you be more specific? I find it very odd he gets lots off offers to be fwb but not exclusive relationships. Compatability is obviously an issue for anyone, regardless of number of options, but I still find it highly unlikely that he gets no offers for a relationship, even if they might not work out long term. Furthermore, maybe he should use an app like hinge which is geared towards relationships rather than hookups (I know a bunch of people that met their gfs off of it). There are also mill…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:20 AM
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No it doesn’t. A lot of times the code it writes for example has never been written before. It’s not an illusion. Have you tried talking with it or other AI chatbots? I think you’re seriously discrediting how powerful it is. You can test it’s content on plagiarism checkers. It can also do decently on the SAT and on AP tests.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:03 AM
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I don’t get it. If he’s truly hot (physically attractive), he should be pulling at least 3-4 new girls a week and going on dates with a lot more if he really wanted to. You’re really telling me none of these girls want to be with him long term? He should be flooded with matches on dating apps. Is this guy not in a city?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:00 AM
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An unsupervised model teaches itself. Do you know that gpt is incredibly simple. They just fed a large model terabytes of data and a few million dollars. It’s just resource intensive, which is not a problem for large tech companies. The rest was done through training. They only needed 200 people to do it, which is probably a lot lower than you think. Reddit requires thousands of employees to run.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:55 AM
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I think it’s gradually gotten worse. It’s only recently that most people have started to meet online. Personally I’ve gotten exponentially better results as I’ve improved my attractiveness. The fact that you get exponentially better results implies that most top men get most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:50 AM
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I have never met a guy who could easily get laid but couldn’t secure commitment if he wanted to. I don’t se how that even works. If you regularly sleep with new girls half of them will want to be your gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:45 AM
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I love some smooth brains giving awful takes about AI here. I think in 10 years AI will be smarter than us. Why couldn’t it model some average human (who on the grand scheme of things is barely different from a chimp in intelligence)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:43 AM
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You’re married so you’ve been out of the dating game for a while, but for single dudes this is the case. I know men on both sides of the spectrum. One is sleeping with multiple girls a week, some of them virgins, others haven’t slept with a girl in months if not yearsz
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:25 AM
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Have you ever gone outside
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 01:43 AM
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None of this stuff matters. I know short wealthy ugly guys who take care of themselves and get 1 date a year. A girl doesn’t know anything about your apartment until she’s about to fuck you… use your brain
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 01:35 AM
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I learned men call girls bitches from men who sleep with women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 01:34 AM
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Have you ever dated women? Fat girls are more insecure and tend to sleep around more to validate themselves. But sure keep deluding yourself that sleeping around as a woman requires you to be attractive. Also you can’t be serious that the average high BMI women has a high BMI because of childhood sexual assault or that obesity is sexualized.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 01:24 AM
1

I theorize rich women readily give rich men far more attention than other women. That’s why rich men end up with rich women. A poor women is open to dating both poor and rich but a rich women’s dating pool is far smaller. (Based on my experience and experience of friends, rich men)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:43 PM
1

You found a few outliers. And men drop standards on body count for attractive girls obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:48 PM
1

Higher BMI women tend to have a higher body count
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:47 PM
1

The slightly overweight dude is really muscular
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:29 PM
2

Some rude douches that make controversial content to go viral.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 05:59 PM
1

Yeah I love how 20 something’s look at a 50 year old couple for a confidence boost. It’s so cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 05:58 PM
2

They land better for a reason. People just find attractive people funnier. I doubt they became mysteriously funnier while incidentally improving their looks. Obviously this is far easier to admit than the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 05:53 PM
1

Translation: These are terrible examples 1 - he may be better looking than me but he is Indian 2 - he may be better looking than me but he has glasses 3 - he may be better looking than me but he can afford a high quality camera Stop being so jealous dude
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 08:06 AM
2

Guy 1 is attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 08:04 AM
-1

This is clearly some shitty women. Most women do not think like her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 02:33 AM
2

In the 18-30 age group the difference is 30%. Why would bring hypergamous for youth (which makes 0 sense) imply the difference. Considering that means 30-40 year olds are dating 18-30 year olds which is disputed by any statistics, or simply leaving your hole in your apartment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 01:16 AM
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In a 1-1 pairing why would there be more single men than women? Clearly women aren’t dating that much older, real life and statistics dispute this. There are too many below average intelligence people on this sub who are bad at math which makes discourse so difficult And stop calling everyone an incel, I am clearly not an incel
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 01:14 AM
3

Some incredible mental gymnastics you jsut did
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 12:49 AM
1

You’re clearly out of touch
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 06:15 PM
3

It’s clear that women are exclusive with guys who aren’t exclusive themselves. Why would a guy who isn’t claiming to be exclusive act is if they are. I see this happening live. Guys who get a lot of female attention have hookups outside of their steady partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 06:10 PM
2

Do you refuse or not have the capacity to figure out the deeper meaning behind those statements? “Putin just wants to go to war with Ukraine, it’s not that complicated” “Police just treat black people more aggressively, it’s not that complicated”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 06:06 PM
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Yeah, the few men dating are dating multiple women lol. That’s exactly what everyone is saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:54 PM
3

One thing that’s wrong with this boring narrative is if the sexually unappealing guys tried to act like the “douchebag guys” they’d probably get the cops called on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:46 PM
1

Before the first date? I’m assuming they look boring after they look up their social media photos.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:44 PM
2

Boring is just a synonym for not appealing. I don’t know why people dance around it but I know plenty of decent looking boring nerds that have gfs or can easily pull.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:42 PM
2

It’s a norm in other countries for kids to live with parents..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 04:37 PM
3

You inherit their home. Also you don’t have to live for free. You can pay rent and food costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 03:36 AM
1

If you’re cooped up in your room or basement all day why would they acre? You realize this is fairly common right
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 03:35 AM
2

The current inflation is predicted to not go down for a long time because of the persistent labor shortage
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 02:56 AM
2

Because They got rewarded for them. This same man in the 1930s would have a wife, could raise a family, and live a good life on that income.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 02:51 AM
1

😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 02:49 AM
8

Could live in my parents house. Don’t see why not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:50 AM
-1

Yeah because 25-54 largely did it voluntarily not due to death.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:42 AM
1

These jobs have existed forever and men have been doing them until now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:41 AM
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Why would they if I helped with bills and mortgage. It’s not like I wouldn’t have a job in this hypothetical. Realistically tho, the people living this now will neither work nor get kicked out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:39 AM
3

I told you I’m fairly wealthy right now right? I have more expensive hobbies now, but I would have been just as happy just playing video games and smoking weed, as I was for a long time in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:36 AM
3

You sound a lot richer than average. Now I can’t r tell for sure, but you may also hold a lot of assumptions which rely on cheap available labor with low inflation. For example have you considered that property taxes could go up a lot to fund the government given a decline in income taxes. Or that your business margins will go down with sticky inflation and and rising cost of labor?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:32 AM
3

Those are pretty uncommon hobbies outside of the country side. Even there you can’t convince me you have to be rich to do any of that. Those are stereotypically poor hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:24 AM
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How will you beat inflation (which is persistently getting higher because of the current labor shortage, ecactly the issue OP is talking about). Obviously the answer is just to be very rich but I assume you would have mentioned that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:22 AM
1

In Japan the labor shortage is caused by the male work force decreasing in spite of the female work force increasing. I’ve said somewhere else that I am work hard now because one day I want to meet someone and have a family with them but I’d I didn’t I’d be content working a minimum wage job barley surviving and paying rent. Between weed, video games, and pirating entertainment, there isn’t much more I would need.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:17 AM
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I’m fairly well off right now but I often think back to when I was content with living next to nothing. If I didn’t care about eventually finding a wife, I’d definitely be doing the bare minimum to live. Between video games, biking + going to the gym, pirating online entertainment, there isn’t much more I would need.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:15 AM
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If you are assuming asset growth will get you there…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:14 AM
2

In my experience either a man gets abundant dates or literally nothing or next to nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:13 AM
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By 2021 the size of the labor force changed to 68.60 million, a decrease of 0.08 million from the previous year. Viewing by sex, the male labor force was 38.03 million, a decrease of 0.20 million, and the female labor force was 30.57 million, an increase of 0.13 million. Nope, the male workforce decreased and the female workforce increased
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:09 AM
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Very disingenuous. The overall reduction is 1.1% which is huge over 3 years. The article says a large part of it is from the 25-54 range and that it’s less talked about. You either have very poor reading comprehension or are misrepresenting the article intentionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:08 AM
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Gaming costs next to nothing, you can fund it with a few days at McDonald’s. I have a gaming pc from 7 years ago which I could still play games on if I wanted to. Individual games are either often free to play or cost 60 bucks for a year if not years of entertainment. Anime costs nothing either. Not even a Netflix subscription.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:03 AM
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I don’t think people, besides the really rich, will be able to retire anymore in the coming decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:02 AM
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Are you sure they’re not more discreet. A lot of rich old men have young sugar babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 12:52 AM
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Don’t know a guy who’d complain about sex once a week with a new woman, eventually one leading to an LTR. You seem pretty out of touch. Think 1-2 dates a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 11:59 PM
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I could see men with a lot of options easily thinking this. A well known actor fits the bill.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 11:57 PM
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Lol the truth hurts or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 11:54 PM
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I don’t care about income despite being high income because a couple of lucky chances is what separates me from low income people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 04:05 PM
1

You are telling me the staggering 30% difference is because women in the 28-30 range are dating 31-33 year olds?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 07:16 AM
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As men get older they’re less single, but women are even less single. Based on my personal experiences, women when they’re younger share a top tier guy (or guys) until they’re ready to settle down if they ever do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 06:36 AM
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Marriage data tells us it’s a difference of 3 years
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 06:33 AM
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We already know this isn’t the case through data (and if you e ever gone outside)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 06:17 AM
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You don’t know what an error bar is..
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 05:39 AM
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It’s a survey not a census individual age data would have a huge error bar
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 12:24 AM
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That’s not how it would work? We are talking about self reported bi women who don’t actually date women .
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 11:22 PM
1

I think everyone just wants a relationship but only women can easily get it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 11:21 PM
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Doesn’t matter I’ve already addressed this, the number is too small no matter how you jack it up
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 08:23 PM
1

I’ve already addressed this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 08:22 PM
1

Fr have these people ever been to a bar club rave concert or college party?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 05:33 PM
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Not by much, you have to look at pairing data (from the 2020 census) to make this claim. I’d also imagine a decent number of men are secretly bi and fuck dudes on the dl which balances it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 06:23 AM
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If you examine this more closely it’s more of an identity thing than an actualized preference. Anyways regardless, the number women who are actually exclusively into women is a small percentage, women are more likely to be bi but that still means they will (and often do) date men. The % identifying as lesbian went down, but it’s trendy to say you’re lgbtq on social media. If you’re actually gen Z you know that very few of these exclusively or even mostly date the same sex. I’ve literally dated g…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 06:12 AM
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Didn’t find anything like that, only found them compared to men and women but not compared to each other. With that said a 70 year old women gets more likes than an average man on tinder, highly doubt black women are doing worse than the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 06:10 AM
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Fat tall older and black women all get far more attention than the average guy. They can still date if they wanted to, society however is harsher on them. The average guy gets next to no attentionx
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 04:26 AM
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There are a lot more bi and gay men than bi and gay women. The reason is a lot of girls and guys are in non committal relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 04:20 AM
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The majority of romance novels resemble it or share a lot of the same elements.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 05:48 PM
2

Like 50 shades of gray? Bffr.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 10:19 AM
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At my first college party, half the girls I knew from class were there and 2 came on to me. Can we stop the cap. If your girl goes partying regularly without you she’s not your girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 08:30 AM
1

Do you often go out?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:24 PM
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https://bedbible.com/hookup-culture-statistics/ It’s college only sample but clearly a lot of college students participate in it. Most of this sub is implicitly talking about current undergrads or college graduates anyways. You don’t have to be a virgin but clearly most men and women are in casual relationshos. “The majority if woman not doing hookups” is just wrong. It’s something they say but a lot of their sexual encounters end up being casual. I don’t mean only one night stands, but also cas…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 07:38 PM
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More than you think probably do https://cdn-adklk.nitrocdn.com/vAlLOcBPjCSUTuqFpgWoGejnngKOaInw/assets/images/optimized/rev-c63c06b/wp-content/uploads/2022/08/hookup-culture-statistics-featured.jpg Says 72% of people in college participate in it. Idk why people here pretend women are chaste virgins..a lot of women participate in hookup culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 07:20 PM
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They do short flings or whatever, it’s just semantics.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 07:03 PM
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That’s one thing, if the woman actually doesn’t do hookups, but it seems pretty rare out of the pool of girls looking to date. Might be hard to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:14 PM
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You’re probably not attractive and those guys are (guys are terrible judges of what’s attractive to women and everyone sort of has an ego that makes them think they’re better looking than they really are). I have never seen a guy in my life who consistently hooks up with girls unless he is hot or he fucks anything that breathes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:13 PM
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Being relationship material without hookup material means there’s a lack of raw attraction of the woman to the man that the hookup material dude would have. You can see this dynamic lay out in open relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:51 AM
0

You are doing some insane mental gymnastics
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:49 AM
6

What kind of men are you getting with
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:47 AM
1

You’re in some fantasy land if you don’t think women are okay with being FWBs or situationships. That’s probably true for the most attractive women but your average woman is totally okay with being in the above situation with an attractive guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 10:55 PM
0

Who says you don’t have to meet them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 08:26 PM
1

The older woman is incompatible. The younger woman just doesn’t want to commit to you. I think there’s a difference between these two. The younger woman was never a prospect to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 08:25 PM
1

They don’t have to. And eventually they won’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 08:04 PM
2

Yeah insecurity doesn’t come from within.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 07:59 PM
1

What do you think an average is. It’s still 1 child per father and mother. The distribution is uneven obviously. The reason for the disparity is there being fewer women than men and that a lot of men probably don’t know or report they fathered a child. It’s impossible for women to not know or report it however since child births happen from the mother at hospitals. They probably don’t even need surveys to figure it out, just look at public broth records.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 07:14 PM
3

No? Girls with low body counts will sleep on the first date as well, they’re just selective (in a conducive way) with whom they date.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 07:12 PM
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Let’s say there are 1000 children in the world. 10 guys and 10 girls. 1 guy gathered them all to the 10 girls. The child per person ratio for both genders is 100.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:48 PM
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Yeah that affects the distribution not the average. At the end of the day you still need 1 mans and 1 woman per childbirth.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:08 PM
1

This statistic is partially because there is a surplus of men at reproductive age. Otherwise it makes no sense. It the number of men and women are equal, then the number of babies per man and woman will be the same even if the distribution is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 03:50 PM
6

This just isn’t true. I don’t know what to tell you. The vast majority of modern girls, including respectable ones, won’t wait that long to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 03:46 PM
3

Proof of paragraph 2? First I’ve hesrd
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 08:55 AM
1

You’re really unironically arguing women shouldn’t vote wtf😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 05:20 AM
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What kind of river trolls are putting up with an open relationship with a 200 lb woman 😂😂😂 And angrily DMing me isn’t helping your case.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:49 AM
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This isn’t true at all. Most women will smash on the first or second date. I don’t know where you got this idea about yellow lights but it doesn’t reflect current experience at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:39 AM
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There will be a labor shortage and I predict in the future current millennials and retirees will become increasingly dependent on the owners of automation. I’m not saying it falls on woman to do anything but clearly as a society our current generation is having its cake and eating it too. Also wages don’t come out of nowhere. Things will get more expensive because there will be less labor to go around.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 12:53 AM
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Young men are increasingly dropping out of the workforce. We already have a sticky labor shortage. I think this will be very bad for future retirees when their investments disappear because productivity disappears.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:54 PM
1

I think people are really bad at judging how appealing a man is. The guys who treat multiple women like shit and get away with it invariably always do well on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 08:44 PM
3

???
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 04:05 AM
1

These ratings don’t reflect in reality. A sexually promiscuous man gets that way by being appealing to women. It’ just sounds good to say Fuckboys are unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 10:26 AM
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Nah, most guys who date are dating multiple people at once. And a lot of guys aren’t dating .. obviously not as bad as statistics but if you take out monogamous relationships that were formed before OLD became huge , probably approaches it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 10:17 AM
1

It’s just chad and average girls, not literal dumpster diving
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 07:35 AM
1

You need stats to tell you testosterone increases libido? How o ur of touch are you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:27 AM
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No? They are biologically wired to commit more and a man is biologically wired to have more sex with more partners. Chads dumpster diving is pretty common.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 03:08 PM
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Yeah attractive guys are just indifferent towards them because they have options.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 07:08 AM
1

I feel like you’re just coping hard because you are old and single
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 04:11 AM
1

This post is talking about marriage. That even if you consider the toxic marriages, the average is still better than being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 12:22 AM
1

Well clearly we see that the average of 1 and 3 > 2
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 10:06 PM
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Your confusing average with median. It looks more like this, single women and single men both work 40ish hours. A portion of married women and men also both work 40 hours and in another portion the man works 45-55 and the woman works 0-20 (part time) because they’re taking care of a child or are SAHM.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 10:05 PM
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Probably? Presidents had lots and lots and lots of affairs. Joe Biden was a very attractive guy too (look up his younger photos). If you think there aren’t women who’d want to fuck Joe Biden, you’d be crazy. There are women that fuck old crusty billionaires.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 07:58 AM
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Wtf lol? What is wrong with some people here. Did you just skim the whole thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 07:50 AM
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https://www.google.com/search?q=are+young+men+getting+shorter&ie=UTF-8&oe=UTF-8&hl=en-us&client=safari A simple google search you dumb fuck. This is you’re a loser. Too lazy to search something on your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 05:40 AM
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Younger men are getting shorter than their earlier counterparts. Gen Z males are lying more and older men are getting shorter due to bone density/spinal column height loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 04:02 PM
1

Ok lazy ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 03:55 PM
1

You can just google the antidepressant factor yourself. You can also google happiness levels yourself..
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 03:33 PM
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Antidepressant usage is on the rise, especially among middle aged women. The problem with happiness studies is they almost always only focus on economics aspects like financial security, which is why welfare countries rank the highestz https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/nearly-half-of-u-s-adults-say-dating-has-gotten-harder-for-most-people-in-the-last-10-years/
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 09:47 PM
1

A lot of women are unhappier and lonelier than ever. I don’t think marriage has changed in terms of a need or a want. Society has just modified what people find attractive through dating apps and social media. (And this isn’t just looks, but in every dimension)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 03:55 PM
1

Not really, women jus t have no incentive to approach a guy in their league
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 03:34 PM
1

Not really. She means guys will fuck girls they don’t find that attractive bc they’re more horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:57 AM
1

What do you not get? Sometimes a girl might put some guy in the hookup zone because she knows he won’t have a relationship with her. Why? Because this guy has too many better options to even consider dating her. And with a guy that might be willing to date her, she waits. Why? Because she’s that guys best option. I know this is true because I’ve known guys who have been on both ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:51 AM
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I still think it’s an age thing..a minority of men are looking for long term relationships at my age, women my age don’t have any trouble at all finding men willing to hookup.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 12:51 AM
2

I guess at my age very few single guys will turn down sex with a girl they’re attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 12:17 AM
2

Actually now that I think about it there’s one girl I know who’s like that, but she has some major issues and is very promiscuous. With that said, guys aren’t really propositioning to be in relationships with her. Even if it does happen it has to be pretty rare, and I don’t see many cases where the guy doesn’t realize that the woman aren’t likely to have a relationship to begin with (eg girls who’ve just broken up, daddy issues, etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 12:13 AM
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Sounds unlikely, most guys would be more than open to casual sex even if they were actively dating. Maybe things change when guys libidos go down post 30??
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 11:58 PM
1

Is this a thing when you get older? I (as a guy) have never in my life experienced or heard of this happening irl, but the reverse happens all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 11:55 PM
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