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Whenever I start to get too cocky in life I make an online dating profile to balance out my self esteem Yet I have no problem getting women in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 08:06 PM
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The reason is exactly the opposite of why pre-selection works.
/r/seduction09/11/21 01:29 PM
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Don't text much. If you have to, don't be upfront with replied and mimick the same time she takes to respond. Don't, I repeat, do not use emojis. Texting kills attraction.
/r/seduction03/11/21 05:43 AM
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There's not much you can do. The more you try to gain an explanation for her loss of interest or try to reignite it, the more reasons you will give her to believe she made a right choice and more further she'll drift away from you. The one and only thing you can do which will work in your favour is to pull away from her.
/r/seduction02/11/21 11:35 AM
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Taking those words of a woman on face value and cutting ties doesn't make you a simp but more of a man who clearly states his time and attention is more valuable to be invested in someone who's not interested. The act of giving respect to her decision of needing 'space' from you is more about your own dignity than herself.
/r/seduction02/11/21 11:27 AM
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If anyone's immature in this its not her. She's clearly and nicely stated she's not interested and want to put an end to this and you're acting like a classic needy and desperate guy calling her immature for not explaining her decision to you. No wonder why she lost interest.
/r/seduction02/11/21 04:15 AM
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Just look into her eyes briefly, smile and say "thank you" politely.
/r/seduction31/10/21 06:56 AM
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I assume it's male to female interaction. My thing, which has worked great for me, is to focus on the essense of 'why' backed with decent sequence of questioning. "Why did you choose this profession?" "Why do you like art?" "Who is your best friend and why?" "Why did you take biology?" 'Why' makes them think and then justify the context with enough words which gives you whole lot of details to follow upon while it also gives them a decent space to open up. Focus on the tiny details they provide …
/r/seduction30/09/21 07:19 PM
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It's not about picking fights. If a guy remains oblivious to your feelings for long enough, you would probably begin to despise him once you accept there's no chance. Now, this may not be applicable to you but generally, women don't take rejection well and usually react out of two ways: resentment and obsession. Though the former is more common and latter is more extreme.
/r/seduction27/08/21 09:59 PM
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This. Absolutely! Thank you. People are forming various opinions but I doubt if they actually read what I wrote.
/r/seduction22/08/21 09:29 PM
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This! People overestimate this too much to make themselves feel better. There's one study which claims women don't give a shit about protection if men are attractive. If a girl really likes you she would go out of her ways to make it up for you by all means. If she's cold and meh to your ideas and suggestions then she's just waiting for someone better than you to cross path.
/r/seduction22/08/21 09:27 PM
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If only you lot can read and understand before forming opinions. You slept with them while they didn't show any obvious signs of interest as you said. How did you manage to do it? By the sheer power of guessing and praying? Let me guess, you made an effort to let your intentions somehow be clear instead of wasting time thinking if she'll sleep with you. That's what I'm saying. Read it again.
/r/seduction22/08/21 09:21 PM
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The reason is, unaddressed attraction of a women has potential to grow resentment.
/r/seduction22/08/21 09:18 PM
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Ask her out. If she deny then take the rejection with a smile and DON'T make a deal out of it. Refuse to be friends and just walk away. Hit the gym if you can while you're at it, will increase the chances tremendously.
/r/seduction22/08/21 09:04 PM
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"As a youthful, 46-year-old" ...wait a sec, wtf??
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/21 11:06 AM
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'Alright' no problem, I'll text 'you' when I'm free next time.
/r/seduction19/12/20 06:43 AM
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Start giving your number instead. Do your thing, show them a good time, share your number and make a swift exit before it's too late without implying anything. The crux is, you don't give a shit if she sees you again or not. You don't expect anything from her. You're living the moment and she just happen to come along. You liked her so you opened her up and now, just enjoying her company. This might be a game changer for you either way and the conversion rate may not improve BUT, the overall eff…
/r/seduction16/12/20 04:28 AM
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Whoring around has a new term in 21st century - Exploring Sexuality
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/12/20 02:23 PM
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Don't.
/r/seduction28/11/20 03:41 AM
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shit just got real
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/20 03:04 AM
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My view might come off as a little controversial but here's what I think. I'm and atheist and not advocating religion but I do believe they were right about sexual oppression and making it taboo. It has done far greater to the civilization than the present hypersexual society has done in the facade of whole freedom and liberation. Pay close attention to what hypersexuality has done to society. Monogamous relationships are hard because people with too much of experience of various partners are pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 12:57 AM
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I'm the kind of guy who doesn't shy away from offering to split the bill on first date to check their reaction and decide if they worth the second one so yeah, been playing the game long enough to know the rules.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/10/20 03:58 PM
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The Only tinder date of mine decided to bring her friend on date. I was surprised and the moment we sat down, they said they're hungry and without spending much time getting to know each other, started ordering lavish dishes off the menu. I knew what it was and I was being scammed. I said to myself "fuck it, I didn't sign up for this" and excused myself to the washroom and snuck out.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/10/20 03:10 AM
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I agree man, totally. Nothing is that simple. Nothing is either black or white, but grey. This grey is extremely subjective understanding of reality which differs for each individual, same applies here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 05:30 PM
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I've just found out these Pill bs a couple of months back. Growing up I failed and learned my way through women to gain success and from that I can tell you with experience - RP is mostly on point. I don't deny that fact that some content is just damn too extreme and is peddled by incels out if resentment, neither I advocate them but the fact is: When you learn a bit about female sex and figure out what actually works, you'll notice those methods have dire resemblance to RP theories. Again, some…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 01:25 PM
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Thanks, I'm working on it. - Sluthunter
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 09:19 AM
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I'm firm on my statement and there is no exception to this rule: if the guy is good in bed, you will catch feelings for him. Now let me make some wild assumptions.* If the sex was any good, you would've gone back. The fact you're craving for sex but deleted him means the sex was average at best. This guy seems out of options so is trying to hook the only chick he banged for sex as you're an easy lay. This is desperate behaviour which is a turn off for any female. There's a possibility he's not a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 09:13 AM
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This is a persons talking out of their ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 01:42 AM
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Feminism, Sexual Revolution and Pill - all shouldn't have came around the same time which caused the sex dynamic to change faster than human can comprehend and grasp. Our evolution has took millions of years for us to able to walk and become civilized but we progressed at an exponential rate since past century and turned imaginations and dreams into reality. We are not naturally equipped to deal with this pace. Globalisation, technological advancement and sexual revolution - the world has change…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 01:07 AM
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Yet that won't change the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 11:41 PM
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Yes. Perfect. It's not the amount of sex, it's the amount of partner that's troubling.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 10:47 PM
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Well, I respect the honesty but if you believe you have the right call the guy weak for not being comfortable with your insane sexual history just because he has certain preference for a relationship partner, then you should also extend the courtesy to him to consider you a hoe for having a train run on you without getting rattled. It's just logical if you think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 10:39 PM
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Hm good point. I recommend Emotional Intelligence by Daniel Goleman btw. A must read.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 08:19 PM
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Imo, the book would turn you into this over agreeable, diplomatic and manipulative person and render you self less who's constantly on toes to please others. That's fuckin scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 07:57 PM
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There's nothing casual about sex for a female. If the sex is good, you're brain wired to catch feelings for him and later cry to your friends how he fucked you each night the whole January yet took out his co-worker on February 14th for a date. About respect: Only incels slut shame out of resentment because they're anyways not getting any. A quality guy don't bother judging or paying attention to sluts and would score a quality girl to have all the sex with her. A smart guy would embrace your sl…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 07:35 PM
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I stopped reading after it's first principle: Don't criticize, condemn or complain I just can't go on in life without this, no fun
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 06:54 PM
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Haha whatever man I love it. The other one FemaleDatingStrategy doesn't even come close to do what this subreddit does. Their attempt are just vile and cringy but posts on here always make me laugh. This one had me me in splits
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/10/20 06:33 PM
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This community is so toxic I love it 🤣
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/10/20 05:55 PM
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Feminism has ruined women and society man. Their objectification and degradation has became an acceptable norm in the society and they've been conditioned to believe it's empowering. Hell they're now brain wired to fantasize about it. They're told nudity is liberation and they ate all the shit up and look at the aftermath. Instagram is the perfect example: 14 year old kids are body conscious. I mean who made these kids body conscious at that age? These women did who were stupid enough to miss th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/10/20 02:12 PM
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Thanks for reading man. The problem with your argument is, you're making a flawed comparison. You're comparing your fear with someone's impulsive habit which are two very different things. Fear can always be rationalised and one can grow out of it with evolved experience. Certain habits do change and can be tamed but that takes huge amount of self control, introspection and tremendous amount of effort. Now, the greater the pleasure of certain habits, the far more greater the effort involved woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 12:23 PM
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Then you have poor standards and self esteem to accept them and more importantly, you lack intellect to tell they're bad deals in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 12:04 PM
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I somewhat agree but sex has indeed became easy for a huge majority of guys compared to before sexual liberation era. This average guy you're referring to will always be the 'average' guy irrespective of which era you pick to look at. That's only because they refuse to learn from their mistakes and act to become better. There's a plethora of information out there but only few are using them to learn and improve themselves, majority of guys will remain average their entire life for inability to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 05:59 AM
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I believe this whole thing is a damage control attempt by feminists and intend to work only in the favor of women, not men. Sexual Revolution and Pill came at the same time so the whole point of sexual liberation was missed by a mile causing gullible women to sleep around for pleasure disguised in empowerment. Women were not evolved and equipped to lead and didn't realise with equal rights, comes equal responsibility and quickly went off the rails drunk high on power. Promiscuity came at a huge …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 04:02 AM
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Their Past 'Does' Matter The whole idea that the past of your partner has nothing to do with you is a lie. Ask any behavioural psychologist, they'd laugh it off to this big fat joke and tell you someone's past lays the foundation of present and has a tremendous potential to affect their future. People who are stupid enough to believe this lie are destined to be abused, cheated and being taken for granted. People don't change past a certain age and some core behaviours and impulsive tendencies di…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 05:32 PM
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It never got approved apparently, and probably never will be https://www.reddit.com/r/unpopularopinion/comments/jg09id/the_past_does_matter/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 05:23 PM
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I just went on a rant and made a post on it, might wanna check out
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 02:10 PM
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Because ask any behavioural psychologist, they'd laugh and tell you that past does matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 12:54 PM
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This. People don't think it through. If someone truly believes in their ideology they'd never fear being judged or feel the need to hide it. So if she slept around and genuinely believe there's nothing wrong with that, she won't lie about it but that's usually not the case. The fact they do implies they're not comfortable with their own past, yet expect men to embrace them with it and lie about it to secure a stable future with them. They build the foundation of a relationship on a lie which sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 09:34 PM
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A guy can only be friends with a girl if she's ugly or unfuckable else if she's anything above 4-5 or god forbid hot, he would NEVER turn down the opportunity to bone her and the moment he sees an open window, he'll go in for the kill. He might not succeed but that's not the point. You said yourself you're attracted to this girl and it would hurt to lose her so your friendship is just an excuse to be in her orbit anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 07:15 AM
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Dude, who you're kidding? Guys are never really 'friends' with attractive girls so no matter how much it hurts, if she's not interested then eject yourself and focus your time and energy on other girl who could be interested in you. You have nothing to gain by spinning in orbit and wasting your emotional support.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 06:57 AM
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This is the best approach. A smart guy would let his intention be known and respect her choice if she's not interested and eject himself. A fool would waste time in orbit hoping to change her mind which doesn't even happen in movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 06:27 AM
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My experience says, a woman who is actually interested will make it Damn obvious that she's into you. She'd do far more than just being nice to you. She'd keep laughing at your silly jokes, keep flirting while escalating physically and throw herself at you constantly untill you get the hint. She'd keep making herself available and may at a certain point get bold and suggest to hang out together etc. but she will make her intention known. There are woman who are subtle with their hints and some g…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 06:24 AM
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'WE' make this society and if we're being negatively influenced by it, it's time we become accountable and take some responsibility. and it's ironic how you have the naive audacity to use words like 'introspect' and 'self-awareness'. It's true, people understand far as their limit of intellect allows them to understand so there's actually no point in even trying. Please don't even bother trying to 'get' my argument, you cannot and I take complete responsibility for that. It is my inability to ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 03:02 PM
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It's good, completely casual nothing serious. Dude, you don't have to trust me on anything. Infact I clearly stated a person should be who they are without deception and look for a partner who shares same values. Slut shaming is immature, but so is the woman who hides her promiscuous past. Which part is assumption? State them and have an on point discussion. If you don't have time then please don't bother. You are doing nothing but white knighting just because you happened to be married to a pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 02:47 PM
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These guys usually are either gullible or religious but decent and good human beings and think they can be a knight in shining armour and do some good deeds but that doesn't work really. Majority of female out there won't appreciate this trait except a really mature woman but then, a woman like that won't get knocked up by a guy who won't be around to father his children in the first place.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/10/20 12:59 PM
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watch The Place Beyond the Pines. A woman would rather be sterile than giving birth to child of a beta no matter how much her biological urges tempt her to. Her evolutionary subconscious responsibility is to give birth to a child of quality genes, not to child of a loser who inherit weakness and is prone to fail in life like his father. She would resent the child of a failure and would preferably get and abortion. She'd rather get knocked up by an Alpha on purpose and then choose a Beta to raise…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/20 10:32 PM
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I think everyone should see The Place Beyond The Pines.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/20 10:25 PM
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"Problem is, the kind of men feminist padawans tend to attract are—how do I say this politely?—not really men."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/20 04:36 AM
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Single mothers raise nothing but liabilities to society.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/20 11:26 AM
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https://youtu.be/FjLT-xI8_MA
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/20 08:10 AM
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This is what toxic feminism has done to society, rendered men feminine and useless. It has absolutely ignored the contribution of men who laid the foundation of past to the point they are being neglected and It's effect in the society are quite apparent. Take two families around you for example, one with single mother or toxic father and one with a mother and healthy father figure. The difference would directly reflect on over all well being of the children. Single mothers raises nothing but lia…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 06:40 PM
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I love when kiddies scratch the pole like desperate little cats, it's adorable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 05:55 PM
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I don't even know you to assume anything about you and I'm literally saying you shouldn't be ashamed of what you've done. It's your body, life and choices and no one else has claim over it. I'm voicing out a generic opinion to whomever who come across this thread because as much as we hate to admit, girls usually lie about their sexual past to secure a guy for long term and that's not a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 05:49 PM
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Is there any actual way to find out about her body count?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/10/20 04:12 PM
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This girl also tried to cheat on her bf with me. (Didn't do it because I'm not a degenerate) This is integrity buddy, you have my respect. The ability to self control defines character and differentiate a man from a boy who thinks with his penis.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/10/20 03:55 PM
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And that's the reason men are refusing to marry and are happy compared to single women who desperately want to settle down but cannot. Whoever convinced women sleeping around is a way for owning their sexuality was a genius.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/10/20 03:03 PM
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Absolutely, you shouldn't. Everyone deserves to be accepted for who they are and they should be open about it to find out who would truly embrace them instead of building the foundation of relationship on a lie, which usually happens on both ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 02:41 PM
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I hope it's not an open marriage and lasts the lifetime with bliss and honor of commitment. Your whole white knighting is pathetic by the way. Some personal preference would never be changed of an individual no matter how hard society shove contrary beliefs down their throat. A woman is judging men all the time based on a lot of things to see if he's a potential long term or short term partner and that's brave, liberated and empowering yet when a man state his preference, he's sexist, misogynist…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 01:43 PM
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The dividing line in sexual experiences is really whether it's something you enjoy. 21st century is the time when the darkness of female nature is truly apparent which the likes of Freud and Nietzsche warned us about. I don't have to explain degradation, it's pathetic how you're trying to justify your views around that. I'd encourage you to dig a bit deeper into your own values before preaching about value judgement. The dividing line in sexual experiences and preferences keeps getting blurred i…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 01:30 PM
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"If pussy was a stock, it would be plummeting right now because the market is flooded with it" - Dave Chappelle
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 04:54 AM
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Goddamnit! I mentioned oxytocin.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 04:51 AM
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No one worries about you, it was your parents job. Your life, your choices. He's more worried about the guy who's going to end with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 04:48 AM
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Yes, please say that to the guy who you see as a potential husband and for the love of empowerment, don't lie about your body count as most of girls do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 04:46 AM
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How long relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 04:42 AM
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I totally agree with this. You cannot change people so better look for the ones who has same values. If a guy take a girl home who was falling drunk in the bar with her ass falling out of her skirt and expect her to be a good wife and mother to his children, the guy's to blame. Btw, how do you screen for the behaviours and characters of a promiscuous women? They often lie about their body count to secure a decent stable guy no matter how much they claim they're proud of it in these forums.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 04:36 AM
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A woman exploring/experimenting with her sexuality often ends up in BSDM and Gangbangs or some extreme fetishes where they get sexually degraded. So much for women empowerment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 04:26 AM
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First of all, the whole 'owning your sexuality' only worked in the favor of men because women were stupid enough to not understand the actual meaning of sexual liberation. There's a reason only men are refusing to marry and they're happy but the exponential rise of single and depressed women/mothers is more prevalent than ever. The sexual objectification of woman (Media and Instagram) has became an acceptable norm of society, all of the porn consists of women's sexual degradation and no, it is n…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 04:05 AM
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Promiscuity does affect one's pair bonding ability which may end up causing depression down the road especially for women because enough oxytocin has been released with each casual intercourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 03:21 AM
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SELFIE started playing in head
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 03:15 AM
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could you do a little bit better? the woman in last part is not promiscuous if she's keeping her fuck circle close and tight to trusted friends, though a character flaw in itself who fucks their friends imo but still, not promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 03:09 AM
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Promiscuity in women is directly connected to lower self esteem, underlying psychological issues or insecurities and that's why hot girls are too promiscuous nowadays because of media.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 03:04 AM
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Glas someone said this! I dated a Ukranian chick once who was 5'7 and frickin 10/10 in looks department but worse than a blow up doll in bed. She told me she lost count how many guy she's been with and despite that, she was totally naive and dead in bed like a virgin. No initiative at all man. She didn't even moan much and one time she was so quiet during the sex that I thought she passed out. Sex was absolutely mundane and weird with her. She never denied for anything I asked but her emotion le…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 02:52 AM
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I'm successful with women yet I'm picky on who to give my time, attention and money and I personally resent promiscuous women. I've dated one Ukranian chick for fun and the moment she started talking about our future, I bailed out. I'm not an incel but I slut-shame proudly and openly because it's bad for society especially women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 02:40 AM
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Then she must've been ugly and should've been avoided in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 02:34 AM
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I loved this comment but I'm too poor to give an award.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 02:30 AM
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Isn't that the whole RP argument is? Only about 5% men has real success in dating and they're basically Chads who gets all the action.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 02:28 AM
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Promiscuous women basically cheat the whole game by giving it away too easy, it's the reason why other women hate them while they're trying to earn the male attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 02:25 AM
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I somewhat agree. There's something dark about female nature. Though I'm an atheist but some religion says women's sexuality needs to be control and the man has to be in power and command else it'll all go down to shit. I'm yet to see a healthy family spectrum where the man is submissive to his wife. Some philosophers like Nietzsche and Chanakya also saw women in bad light which would be considered sexist and misogynistic but they do have a point if you pay attention. We're actually seeing what …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 02:21 AM
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Oh boy, someone take this kid outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 02:12 AM
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must've been hard to get the taste out of your mouth
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 02:03 AM
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Who ever tricked women into thinking sleeping around is a way to own your sexuality was a genius. Absolutely! He certainly was man. My personal conspiracy theory says the whole intent of feminism and sexual revolution was not women empowerment but population control and it definitely worked. Needless to say the whole idea of sexual liberation has been twisted and blown out of proportion causing women to sleep around. Infact it was abused shortly after it was introduced by hippie culture. It has …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 01:48 AM
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You inevitably have to give your audience what they want to survive with profits in any industry. His audience base is made up on red pill community but yet, he's less extreme and often makes a lot of sense.
/r/ExRedPill14/09/20 04:31 PM
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I like some of his content and he actually makes sense in a less extreme and more sophisticated way than the rest of red pill community on the internet. He often knows what he is talking about. Just check his: The True Cost of Sleeping Around which is based on male promiscuity. It explains the reason of men's increasing lack of trust, hate and resentment towards women caused by seduction community. loved it. Most of the time he pick extreme topics to draw red pill followers who resent women, sho…
/r/ExRedPill14/09/20 04:26 PM
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Absolutely. I've seen these bunch often argue for the sake of the argument. They don't have any ground or perspective to base their argument on but has believed the notion that Red Pill community is made up of a bunch of insecure dudes and incapable to make any sense. It's as if girls are immune to toxic behaviours towards guys and are not capable of behaving a certain way out of their own self esteem and childhood issues. This is ridiculously hypocritical. It's not that black and white. I often…
/r/ExRedPill14/09/20 04:16 PM
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