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DlmaoC/r/seduction14/04/14 12:14 AM
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DlmaoC/r/seduction10/02/14 07:30 PM
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It's only awkward if you make it awkward. So just go out and be yourself, if you feel it's awkward then it'll be awkward. If you feel like it's a good time, it should be a good time. Don't treat her any different than you would treat your friends if you were hanging out with them. Don't focus on trying to make something happen at the end of the night just have a good time with your prom date.
/r/seduction07/05/16 07:01 PM
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Honestly as soon as the conversation starts it's like all that nervousness just vanishes. Once I get the conversation starting it doesn't matter what happens, she slaps me, she screams at me, we hit it off, I just feel good. AA doesn't carry over once you say hello, it goes away. Once you realize that, it's so much easier to approach.
/r/seduction05/03/15 04:20 AM
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If she wasn't interested she wouldn't text back. I personally take hours to text back.
/r/seduction23/01/15 04:05 PM
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So? It's just 14 girls. It's a game is all it is man. Go approach 100 girls, only 1 might be interested in you and at the end of the day that 1 made the 99 rejects worth it. Also don't look at it from if you came off as a creep, look at it as you were interested, they weren't so move on. I rather be rejected now than 2-3 dates along, they did you a favor.
/r/seduction11/01/15 05:25 PM
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I honestly don't txt people for days because I forgot to txt them back lol. I just assume that and keep txting her.
/r/seduction27/11/14 05:27 AM
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I had a girl pull this shit then the girl I was on a date with started talking about how great her ex was in bed. My suggestion is fuck that shit, it's not a date, it's friend's hanging out. Hit on a girl if you see a girl you wanna hit on and move along.
/r/seduction16/10/14 06:50 AM
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Don't give a fuck and if the universe want it it'll happen. People this this sub makes something come out of nothing. That's not the case. If you have fun and girls wanna bang you then cool, if not then you're being outcome dependent and beta.
/r/seduction16/10/14 06:48 AM
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Either hint, bragging, or just natural conversation. In the end if you want the girl you can't be afraid to lose her, just naturally ask her out. "Since you don't like him, maybe we should hook up instead." laugh/smile so it could always be taken as a joke if she seems disinterested.
/r/seduction16/10/14 06:45 AM
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It's different per person and social situation. In some situations I'm not confident and in other's I am. What helps me in the game is know it's a win/win. It's hard to lose in an approach. The girl is either A into you and you move on or B rejects you and you and your friend's have a laugh. Since this subreddit is for girls I'll keep confidence in the forms of gaming. You're low in confidence when approaching because you're afraid of being judged by your peers in a negative/creepy manner. The f…
/r/seduction16/10/14 06:43 AM
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It doesn't. Different cultures different rules. Girls are easier in some cultures than other's. Just be natural and try, if the universe wants it it'll happen, if not then go fish.
/r/seduction16/10/14 06:34 AM
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The key to approach is a number's game, you'll get rejected 99 times for that one yes. Also people fuck up when the start. If you're paying $1,000 to have a dude tell you to go talk to a girl you're probably not the best socially and it'll take A LOT of work to get to the level where you own a cold approach. Practice makes perfect. At the end of the day it takes a cold approach to get laid so don't let that stop you from doing it. Also some people are liars. I've never had any success from a col…
/r/seduction16/10/14 06:32 AM
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Doing it so many times you forget the number of times you've approach and you realize it doesn't even matter. When you start out you'll get AA because you're doing something out of the norm for you. Once you get that rejection you'll realize you feel better than you would have if you hadn't approached, and you got REJECTED. All PUA start cold when they go gaming, that's why many do things to get warmed-up like talking to strangers, bartenders or just random girls, casual conversations here or th…
/r/seduction16/10/14 06:22 AM
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If you're watching a movie with them your balls are on the table you have a higher shot with them than watching a Disney movie with your balls on the table alone.
/r/seduction01/10/14 04:09 PM
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Bitches love Disney cartoons, you're really hurting your game doing that.
/r/seduction01/10/14 03:56 PM
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That's good, girls like sick monsters. Have you never seen Beauty and The Beast?
/r/seduction01/10/14 03:23 PM
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Gotta put your balls on the table man. Next time you see a hot girl go and approach her, try to make her laugh, and as fast as possible ask her if she wants to go on a date. Don't be shy around females just realize females are no different that your guy friends and don't be afraid to get rejected. Literally getting girls can be one of the easiest things to make happen you just gotta put your balls on the table.
/r/seduction01/10/14 03:07 PM
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Sometimes I don't ask for their names sometimes I just go "Is your name Insert name I think it is?" makes it more playful, and when I'm wrong she'll usually correct me with her real name.
/r/seduction01/10/14 03:04 PM
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It's good to assume in my opinion if she's interested in you/showing you any interest as in asking you questions about this or that, that she is probably attracted to you until proven otherwise. A lot of guys like to downplay a girl showing you attention as her not being attracted to you, imo unless you know there is a reason she shouldn't be (Has a boyfriend, is lesbian) then it's safe to assume you could win her over.
/r/seduction01/10/14 03:03 PM
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My circle of friends give me shit for trying to help them in pick-up because I'm a fat dude whose never had a GF telling them how to get girls. So I decided to game recently and it was eh, more success than I ever got not gaming though. They still give me shit for it. It's weird as fuck and sort of creepy, but to put it in perspective. Gaming is seeing a girl you find physically attractive and approaching her to see if you two are mentally compatible. When you get to the basics gaming is the onl…
/r/seduction20/06/14 03:53 AM
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I did it to what I think is funny, smiling and laughing after I said it. Some people just are walls while others laugh.
/r/seduction14/05/14 09:52 PM
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Was this in Dallas?
/r/seduction14/05/14 08:56 PM
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Everytime I do it they always apologize in a sincere way. Hasn't worked so far so stopped using it.
/r/seduction14/05/14 08:51 PM
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Had this conversations last night with some girls. I said what matters more personality or looks and used Jack Black vs Ryan Gosling. I'll let you guess which one they ended up choosing, but I'll leave with this. Looks only take you so far kid, if you're not in the game competing you have virtually 0 chance of winning.
/r/seduction11/05/14 04:26 PM
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She either wants you to leave or she's really into you. So just go in for the kiss and cut to the chase and see which one.
/r/seduction10/05/14 09:48 PM
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Setting your own limits means not going 100% and assuming. We are all even.
/r/seduction10/05/14 05:25 PM
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Everyone on earth is even on the same level. No one is better than anyone else. It does not matter if they are more attractive, more physically fit, have more money, more success. It matters in certain departments but overall we are all even, we all have our pluses we all have our flaws. Focus on your pluses and approach the girls as an even which you are. Also don't hold the value of yourself over the opinion of other's, if you get rejected make a joke out of it and laugh about it. Don't let it…
/r/seduction10/05/14 04:34 PM
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But Leonard got Penny to be his girlfriend so clearing it's working.
/r/seduction10/05/14 03:55 PM
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Different people will say different things. But once you find she's into you, once you see the hook that shows she wants you to stay you can go interview-mode. Until then I would try to talk about entertaining subjects or play games with them.
/r/seduction10/05/14 03:15 PM
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I did the same game last week. Friend and I tried to open 8 sets got rejected in like 4 of them. And the rejections weren't anything bad just funny like looking away and laughing at me. Going out tonight to try to ask for numbers to get rejected. Numbers don't mean anything even if they give it out but I figure if I need to step my game up.
/r/seduction09/05/14 07:24 PM
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I love that book, the second half sucked but overall a good read.
/r/seduction08/05/14 10:52 PM
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I like how you were like "Normally if I was rejected it'd crush me, but not tonight, my motto is "Fuck it."" Because that's really what you have to be, getting blown out infront of so many people should not even matter to you, just keep smiling, stay positive and lead the intereaction. Looking sad will make you look weak, looking like you couldn't give two fucks makes you look pretty alpha. So get blown out, laugh about it, move on. Also this was a really good field report, I love the in-depthne…
/r/seduction07/05/14 12:35 AM
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People hate "The Game" and for good reason, but one thing it mentions is when she keeps giving you LMR like that you just completely stop trying and go and do something else to keep your attention, for example (Turn light on, turn computer on, sit on computer and check Facebook while she is sitting on the bed half naked like WTF?) Never field tested it but worth a try I'd say.
/r/seduction07/05/14 12:27 AM
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I'm fat, got fucked up teeth, broke, college drop-out. Despite all that I still go approach girls because fuck it, why not?
/r/seduction05/05/14 04:00 AM
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Don't and move on or change subjects. Pretty much embrace the awkwardness, don't take anything you say so seriously.
/r/seduction05/05/14 03:53 AM
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Why a movie? That's generic as fuck. I'd take her to starbucks and maybe a park or something more active so you can talk to her.
/r/seduction03/05/14 08:25 PM
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Boner in jeans is not fun.
/r/seduction27/04/14 10:40 PM
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Honestly this story sounds like it's full of shit so if it did happen props dude because it sounds too crazy to be true.
/r/seduction27/04/14 08:43 PM
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I like playing Spit or Swallow on Tinder.
/r/seduction27/04/14 04:57 AM
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Somethings a man needs to step away from the game to work on his swing. Some people out there will tell you to go ahead and game anyways, it's all up to your focus. If you're feeling stressed in life and can barely keep yourself afloat there is no way you can bring girls into it. It's only when you know you are on the right track can you operate your swing 100%.
/r/seduction25/04/14 08:10 PM
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For real. I love the videos on Youtube showing how easy it is to get a girl's number, it's like that for example. Getting a girl's number is the easiest fucking thing ever, I one time got into a REALLY bad fight with this dude, I'm talking broken nose, blood, almost stabbing kind of fight. Next day I'm talking to the dude's female friend who was there to witness it go down, she's like an HB8, I was able to get her number. Chicks just give numbers out, the hard part is having them not flake and t…
/r/seduction25/04/14 07:59 PM
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Girls like control, if you don't show control why would the girl like you? Now some girls like to be in control yeah but they also tend to be the craziest bitches. (From what I've witnessed, don't hate.) But control that shit, we've all made the same mistakes starting out so brush it off.
/r/seduction25/04/14 06:35 PM
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Dude so many PUA literally go up to women and start making out. I think that is weird and strange as shit, but seeing as they keep doing it I figure they must not be getting herpes or punched in the face every time. Do the same shit to girls you already HAVE A CONNECTION with, if random girls don't care ones that like you really won't care. Plus if they give you shit or don't want to, either recognize a shit test or move on. Wasting too much time with a girl is much worse than an instant rejecti…
/r/seduction25/04/14 06:33 PM
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What lol?
/r/seduction24/04/14 11:41 PM
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I fucking hate night game, girls are always with their friends and you have to approach and entertain a group. Day game should be easier for folks out there, girls are generally alone and generally bored or doing some small task like walking to class. Go make your approach the highlight of her afternoon. She'll more than likely remember being hit on going to class than being hit out at a club that's designed around meeting people.
/r/seduction24/04/14 08:16 PM
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Either don't be afraid to lose the girl or lose the girl. There is like 3.5 billion girls in this world who says she is the one? No one. Have fun and if it doesn't work dust the pants off and go back out there.
/r/seduction24/04/14 08:14 PM
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Don't give a fuck and have fun. Don't be afraid to approach and ask girls to dance. Everyone there just wants a good time, and girls would love it if a guy randomly asked them to dance.
/r/seduction24/04/14 07:05 PM
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Is it fucked up I'd think the dirty trashy girl is kind of cute and would be less attracted to the high value, nicely dressed girl? Everyone is different, I try to dress my best anyways but if a girl judges me on what I wear probably not the girl for me anyways.
/r/seduction24/04/14 07:02 PM
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I think one way around that is to ask the girl to hang out first. Or say I can't but how about we reschedule it to this day. A lot of people I know have girls do that and let girls control the relationships. Majority of girls don't like control they want a guy to control, but they like you (Obviously if they want to hang). So find a way to be the controlling half and I think you'll be fine.
/r/seduction24/04/14 06:41 PM
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Honestly it sounds bad but just don't give a fuck. Put your ego aside and realize the only chance in the universe you have of banging that girl is by approaching her and talking to her. It's a game is all it is. If they reject you who cares, go out with a bang, get rejected so epically bad the whole place laughs at you because you know what? Fuck them and their opinions of you they aren't anybody, there is your life, this is your game, and you will fail and you will fuck-up but without failure y…
/r/seduction24/04/14 06:18 PM
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Sounds bad and takes work but I have the same issues. I treat girls I have no interest in like shit and they always want me more. Girls I am interested in I fuck up. Everyone is even in life from the get-go regardless and looks don't mean shit so if you know the secret to how to get girls into you, start treating girls you like the same way you treat girls you don't like. Bam problem solved.
/r/seduction24/04/14 06:13 PM
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As close as you can get to the ass without being on the ass.
/r/seduction24/04/14 06:10 PM
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Everyone is different. Really won't know until you try. That's why you don't get too much into a girl otherwise it'll throw your game off and you won't be able to perform 100%. Never be afraid to lose the girl.
/r/seduction24/04/14 06:09 PM
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Yeah haha get a girl's number is easy, they give that out like mall food court samples. The hard part is building attraction which is totally different than being like "Yo girl what yo numba!?"
/r/seduction21/04/14 02:51 AM
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Is no fap even worth it? I honestly feel like I have to fap because if I go 4-5 days without it it's all I think about, controls you. I feel like I am more in the right mindset after I fap, I believe it's just a mind/body thing guys come with otherwise we might never reproduce.
/r/seduction20/04/14 08:25 PM
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I've always been kind of a narcissist so I just go into that persona when I game. I never really understood no fap but I do understand exercising mind and body. And I always believed you had to have something to show forth to be confident but honestly everyone in this world is even from the get-go, we only value people based on things society wants us to base people. I always let people who were attractive, fit, rich, smarter be places above me on the social ladder and I never thought I belonged…
/r/seduction20/04/14 08:23 PM
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I agree I'm normally the one that asks stupid funny questions but the other night even my mind went blank a few times. Or let's be honest I've had girls where I'm like Insert stupid funny questions here and they reply with a straight face yes or no because they are basic but still interested in you. Then it turns into 20 questions.
/r/seduction20/04/14 04:23 PM
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Not to mention if you're an average white dude you're automatically a 10 to the locals there. Girls will be throwing themselves at you.
/r/seduction17/04/14 03:43 PM
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Next time freshen your wingmen up on what you're doing haha.
/r/seduction14/04/14 04:02 AM
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That's interesting, anything you disagree on that you would bring to light? Anything you feel you do differently being a bigger gentleman? Jealous for the bar job. I've never worked behind a bar but I figured it must be more entertaining than 99% of the jobs out there.
/r/seduction14/04/14 01:48 AM
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Haha just "okay"? We never really hear from the fatties of /r/seduction that much. I know that energy rules all in this game but after watching SimplePickUps' piece on the fat suit it'd be interesting to hear stories of people's successes while being fat. I'm sure being fat is a huge reason why fat guy's don't approach so it'd be nice to hear some fat people's success stories to help motivate them more and help them realize it's not something to hold them back.
/r/seduction14/04/14 12:49 AM
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Is she really like mentally ill or just socially different?
/r/seduction09/03/14 06:06 PM
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I bought it today because I missed the free day and the sample made me addicted. Good stuff so far, I'm on Chapter 7 atm.
/r/seduction06/03/14 02:13 AM
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I mean that's kinda the point of the thread to see who has some bad bombs. Field Reports aren't a good source for that, most people just use it to show success. Plus every single one of them is a freaking novel.
/r/seduction11/02/14 04:44 AM
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Contest? I'm generally curious what some field bombs were though. I think if people saw what some bad approaches were and we share laughs it's make people less hesitant to go approach. Instead of everyone mentioning how great an approach can be let's let them see how unharmful bombs are.
/r/seduction10/02/14 11:01 PM
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I'll start off one time to approach a girl that I thought was 19 looking at children's books. Went up and say "you're cute" and she responded with "and married". Showing me her ring (btw this was before I discovered seduction I was approaching girls for lolz at the time) looking back she was probably 40 not 19 so I guess I attempted to ask out a married 40 year old mom being 19 at the time lol. I laughed afterwards and tell people the story today to get a laugh out of it.
/r/seduction10/02/14 07:33 PM
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I think of it more like when you see a dude snowboarding and doing a 1080 in like 2 seconds and land it on a half-pipe. That shit is insane to the average joe but to the it's just as easy as tying his shoe. That's what op is trying to say. That what people in seduction do is insane to the average joe and they master it and make it look easy.
/r/seduction10/02/14 04:42 AM
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Just rock it and be like of course. You'll only be put down by it if you let them put you down. I went to a party where there were a couple of dudes acting hard and calling everyone virgins. When they asked if I was a virgin I was like "Hell yeah I'm a virgin, fuck I don't even know what a vagina looks like, is it like just one giant circle?" And I just went on and on about how my mom dresses me and reads me bedtime stories. How I've cummed from a girl touching my shoulder. Just a bunch of bulls…
/r/seduction04/03/13 07:13 PM
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Honestly for the most part with pick-up yes but it goes both ways. When I hang with my slimmer guy friends girls always hit on them and treat me like second class. Overall though personality is what wins on both sides of the fence. So if you're into the guy hitting on your friend and she's "slimmer" and he's barely talking to you, try to talk to him. You can easily win a guy over with personality. But overall being healthy is attractive so it's something everyone should strive for.
/r/seduction26/08/12 05:42 PM
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THIS. When you're falling for a girl you ignore the red flags, good rule of thumb is talk her about several friends if you can, if they are telling you not to go after her don't go after her. Haha I just dropped a girl that my friend was wanting to go for, I told him not to because she has many "red flags". A month later I was falling for her and he was giving me the same peep talk. Don't be afraid to cut your losses, no matter how perfect you think the girl is.
/r/seduction23/08/12 08:59 PM
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YOLO.
/r/seduction26/07/12 03:30 PM
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Dang dude thanks for the tips, comb over idea sounds ok but at this point I might just cut it down to 1 inch to 1.5 inch and spike the front up a bit. In those pics I'm not wearing glasses (I should be lol) so with glasses and spike hair I believe I look a bit more clean and professional. And dude if I could grow a beard I would so badly lol. Grew my facial hair out for a month and I was the spitting image of a neckbeard.
/r/seduction26/06/12 03:40 AM
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Here is hardmode! http://imgur.com/a/INJWX What should I do? (Besides the obvious lose weight) EDIT: Also I'm cutting my hair off to try and get a job at a golf course, any idea how I should style it? Short hair makes me look nerdy as fuck.
/r/seduction25/06/12 04:57 PM
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They got rejected what 3 times? Kong was just joking to get rejected at the first scene he was not being serious at all. The car scene was just showing how dar they go and the girl on her cell was a real rejection, they survived. They are better than what sedditors give them credit for.
/r/seduction13/06/12 06:35 AM
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Oh haha glad to see you get that rejection is no big deal. Have fun at the beach!
/r/seduction28/05/12 06:04 PM
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Then that's not really a turn down just bad luck, do this with single women and you'll be getting laid in no time.
/r/seduction28/05/12 03:23 PM
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Damnnnnn 26 packs of Bud Lite lol?
/r/seduction25/05/12 04:39 PM
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Damn you guys go hard lol. Are the chicks in there DTF and easy?
/r/seduction25/05/12 12:13 AM
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$400 for a bottle of Grey Goose!?
/r/seduction24/05/12 09:57 PM
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Yeah but then one of those guys fucks another girl who has an STD and brings an STD into the mix without anyone knowing.
/r/seduction24/05/12 09:46 PM
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I took a group of 7 to a shopping mall yesterday to talk to girls, one of the biggest malls in the metroplex and it was failure. Protip go at the right time, we went on a Saturday night 4-7 pm I'd suggest 11am-4pm for Day game. Also it's really hard to distinguish girls 15 from girls who are 20 at malls sometimes so it's not always easy picking.
/r/seduction13/05/12 05:55 PM
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Honestly just the way her hair is and how she dresses. Also if she is fit/has a cute face.
/r/seduction11/05/12 03:09 AM
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You probably don't care but I've had a cheese burger in Berlin from McDonalds and it tasted exactly the same, except I washed it down there with a Berliner bier and das ist gut. PS: If anyone cares around the world they have speciality burgers at McDonalds you can't get here, they had some AMERICAN burger and a TEXAS burger in Berlin.
/r/seduction10/05/12 06:14 PM
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