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OP, hi. I believe your issue is not "your disposition to insult people, even playfully." ​ The fact is you don't really "know" the lines to push pull and neg, so it feels so "strange" and "exagerated" to say anything different from the neutral and polite stuff. ​ Easy advice is: watch other people do this. The guys and the girls around you do this, so take a note about what they say to each other. Then, say it yourself too. ​ Have you said to a girl she has something on her face? (It doesn't hav…
/r/seduction13/09/19 11:04 AM
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This could be a fine one too, haha. ​ Thanks to everyone, let's continue with something this valuable, these things help.
/r/seduction13/09/19 10:28 AM
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Ah, haha. This's funny, and I've to admit it had crossed my mind, but it can be used only sometimes, haha. It's a reply though.
/r/seduction13/09/19 10:27 AM
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Hi, OP! I still think that the old archives of Fastseduction.com are such good material. Style, Juggler, Maniac High, Tyler Durden... this is solid material, even today, particularly for newbies. Obviously, if you don't actually go out, the material won't fall into the right places in your mind, so don't just read. Do the things, OP!
/r/seduction04/08/19 01:20 PM
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Damn, haha. The post have been cancelled, but it wasn't THAT bad, you know? Made me remember about this, which is something: https://www.quora.com/Why-is-Rusty-always-eating-in-Oceans-Eleven Funny thing.
/r/seduction31/07/19 09:58 PM
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No need to thanks, haha. Enjoy the process, not only the result!
/r/seduction28/07/19 02:25 AM
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Don't dwell on unproductive thoughts, OP! Things seem fine, so just ask her out. If she's interested, she'll say yes. If she's not, she could say no. (Even if you could realize beforehand thatshe's sort of interested, this won't change anything, so just do it.) Be someone who could inspire success into other boys.
/r/seduction27/07/19 01:05 PM
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This sounds like a nice advice, well said, mycherrybomb! Could we try to lay it down in an easier way, maybe? I mean, reading it here makes it seem a bit of a "long path", more than you'd expect it to be. I like the part about making eye contact and lowering your gaze. Before, it could be an hi, with a kiss on her cheek. (I suggest OP should go for this, not like wait her to begin). Then moving on the couch or other comfortable position and talk about something, like her day or whatever things y…
/r/seduction27/07/19 11:10 AM
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I would like to help on this, but the fact my first language is Italian hinders me a bit, 'cause I can't grasp the right "mood" of the texting, damn. ​ It doesn't seem a really damaged situation at all, though. (I tend to believe, whatever social you're using, placing some cool pics of you making something fine, like drinking at a party, strolling near a lake or being with another girl could be a suitable move in every case). ​ Best advice will come, I'm sure!
/r/seduction25/07/19 01:28 AM
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And this is a nice post, I like when they're all so detailed, with phrases and such. Again, as I've already said, many times the issue is to have the right sentences for convey the right vibe, and reading from someone else, it helps a lot. ​ It'll work out, OP! ​ Also, that 90% thing, I don't believe it's "his", but it was a core of Juggler's game.
/r/seduction24/07/19 08:30 AM
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Daniele, nice advice here, I know where you come from, so don't get back on me, haha. ​ For the sake of the newbies (who doesn't want or can't get the nuances right now), I'd like to underline a point. It's a great generalization but, sort of, kino is a good pillar of the game and the attraction phase. It really helps. ​ For those who could read Daniele's advice here in the wrong way: it's not an excuse to fall back and don't try to being more physical with a girl: you HAVE TO do this, 'cause it…
/r/seduction23/07/19 10:27 PM
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Not a too bad situation, OP! Try the usual. A more funny, flirty vibe, for starter. (So less sharing things and such, more playful conversations and so.) Obviously, in case you two already haven't that, use more kino. Be sure to touch her often, this is very relevant.
/r/seduction23/07/19 11:12 AM
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I totally agree with this, and it's sort of my habit, so thanks for the heads up, bro. ​ My point is: there's always a bit of text exchange, like for trying to set up a coffee or such, haha. So, I'd like to be decent at that phase too, for that, the example I talked about! Hoping for a nice suggestion!
/r/seduction23/07/19 10:52 AM
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Liked this, it's a good post for many people. ​ Also, that's Juggler's quote, for those who can notice it: "You should be prepared to contribute at least 90% of the conversation until she relaxes and realises you're cool", haha. ​ Well done, OP.
/r/seduction22/07/19 11:21 PM
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About texting and such, what is a better book/source you guys here suggest?
/r/seduction20/07/19 12:42 AM
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Thanks to you for your approval, Kelphin! ​ Just a thing, I want this to be an inspiration. We often tend to have this sort of train of thoughts like "Damn, I don't really mind that, why are they even talking about it...?" or "I'm not insecure about that, I just don't reply in a "badass" way 'cause I don't care," and so forth. This IS different, but it's AS BAD AS being shy or insecure. We have to be out there, we have to ask the flirty, teasing questions, we have to come back with a smile or wi…
/r/seduction18/07/19 10:05 PM
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This is the kind of posts we need here, well written, OP. Thank you for sharing it. I seize the occasion to punctualize on this, 'cause it's often get lost. Examples like this not only help insecure guys, but even INTROVERT guys, who aren't unconfident in the typical meaning, but having little social interactions don't have that experience on witty bantering, even if they don't care for the girl's validation. (Actually, many introvert persons need little girl's - or even guy's - validation, bein…
/r/seduction17/07/19 06:58 PM
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Thanks Pokemastra, great help here! That article already sums up things well and for example, suggest a funny thing to do: comparing hand sizes, which is honestly cute and funny, and it can lead to palm reading or whatever. ​ THAT's exactly the kind of example I believe we needs. Every example or suggestion of ACTUAL things to do is great material, so if from your experience/knowledge you've something more, I'd be grateful to hear! ​ Thanks again Pokemastra, and to everyone will like to help, gu…
/r/seduction14/07/19 10:17 PM
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@ illgiveyouapapow and everyone: I don't want to go against you, indeed I'm trying to help, I like your path! Try to follow me on this. We all know that steps-by-steps guides don't work. But I'd like to underline that they don't work _perfectly_, but they are often GREAT guidelines, to help us build the situations we'd like, and so the confidence too. ​ I wouldn't diluite this, so I try to be clear, hoping this will motivate other posters to help too! Everyone has experienced this: when you, in …
/r/seduction14/07/19 03:25 PM
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I can see where you're coming from, that's so right, haha. Confidence and intent are basic, so thanks for your thoughts here. ​ Let's try to be better though! So, right when you've had success, what have you actually done? ​ I'd like this to be a real help to people who have issues with this, in a ready-to-apply way. Let's try to write it down in an easy way for me and hopefully others! ​ For example, I sometimes go for the "what's the part of you that boys usually like the most?" or a phrase li…
/r/seduction13/07/19 01:13 PM
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You should use the fact you've this possibility to going out with her for creating a larger social circle for you, in case you already haven't one, OP. ​ Like, you can go out with her and her friends some times, meeting other friends and go out again and such. Having social occasions will improve your game.
/r/seduction05/07/19 08:25 PM
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Oh, haha. It's actually not THAT bad, if you can make it right, haha. ​ The idea is that you shouldn't eat crispy things with gross rumors, but if you're eating a brioche, an apple or medium/soft hardness - and munch them slowly - you can "sort of" recreate the sound you hear on Tv when the characters eat. ​ Also, it can help you allowing you to talk about it, joke about it or say things like "I haven't understood, repeat please?" and such, in a casual, slow way, which could help you to feel mor…
/r/seduction05/07/19 08:19 PM
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OP, I understand where you come from, haha. It's true, sometimes you can have the impression that follow a suggestion about how to handle a situation comes out as difficult and not productive at all. Which is true, in a way, stay with me. Many times you hear a tip and some times after you remember it, when the moment arises. But that's not the right moment, that's not the exact circumstance where the tip was supposed to be used, SO similar but not the same. ​ Let's bear in mind, and I include my…
/r/seduction05/07/19 11:08 AM
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I believe you shouldn't think "she's in a bad place" and such, OP. Nobody wants to avoid being with a person they feel well with. As the others have already well suggested you here, you should present yourself as emotionally available but not like "woah, I want to invest so much in this relationship, so deep and profound and mature and romantic!", just be a flirty people to be with, haha. ​ A thing I'd try to do is NOT to talk about her past relationship, like a friend would do. ​ The attraction…
/r/seduction18/06/19 09:28 PM
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Hi ellie! I'm not sure if my English can come off as clear as I'd like, but I'll try to help, I dislike so much when people find problems where there's none, haha. So, uhm. I could give you many examples about how a male can't catch up or reply as you'd expect him to reply (but, notice that you're imaging his replies based on your experience, as a girl, not as a boy!) So, TRY AGAIN, very clear. Also, we're males. PLEASE, ellie, you could be thinking some of these: he will think I'm a sort of "st…
/r/seduction18/06/19 03:41 PM
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ellierodg, first, don't give up so easily! Trust us, as we as males can't really know what's going on in a girl's mind, the same goes for you, you can't really know what's going on with him, so don't ASSUME. ​ A thing for you: if you're interested in him, begin to believe that he could have replied that way for many reasons, none of them meaning he could not be interested in you, one of these - reasonable! - the fact that he was simply not thinking about it, so he replied on the spot with someth…
/r/seduction18/06/19 01:45 AM
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I would seize this occasion for asking myself about some books about a good conversation. I've seen the one who's been pasted-bined above, is there some other ones that could be useful?
/r/seduction16/06/19 11:41 AM
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It's true, but in many cases this kind of shyness and unability to make this first step is one of the issues. We shouldn't let this kind of comments takes the best of the board, I believe. ​ You've done good, OP, just don't stop with her, and chat up other girls too, at the risk of making a bad impression. As you've said: everything's a learning experience.
/r/seduction14/06/19 08:47 PM
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This is a nice post, definitely. I see where you come from toxicsgo and I'm not criticizing you or it, just want to point out a couple of things, hoping this could help. (Sorry for my poor English, though.) ​ Making someone feel comfortable is nice for you, nice for him or her, and even useful. But, I believe that lot of of users here doesn't have a real "issue" with making people feel comfortable, or dealing with their own gender. Probably many of them already have good friends, good acquaintan…
/r/seduction11/06/19 10:13 PM
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Totally this, haha.
/r/seduction11/06/19 10:03 PM
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