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Yes. You will feel so much better not seeing any of that. Whether it's Facebook memories or from your camera roll. It might take time for you to get up and do it and that's ok, but do it for your mental health my guy. It will get better, just takes longer for some. You have us. Stay positive
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/22 05:01 PM
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Same thing happened to me. I never said anything that would self incriminate or fuck me over in the process. But she took screen shots and sent them to me with a "are you serious" tone. I just laughed and carried on. Nothing wrong in doing what you're doing. The fact that they can't control everything about you and how to cope is eye opening.
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/21 06:11 PM
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Yeah. I haven’t asked about it nor requested it. To know that she is lurking anyway she can is telling.
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/21 06:43 PM
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I agree it is bizarre behavior. The entitlement is appalling. I guess I’ll be more careful what I say. Even though I have not directed anything towards her, never revealed any personal details about her or used her name and info in anything I posted. Shows you can never truly move on or get away from them. They’re always searching and creeping. Lurking and waiting.
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/21 04:27 PM
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I guess that's what mine was/is doing. I have nothing to hide but laugh at the thought that what I post or talk about is "bad" and I shouldn't do it. I guess us guys don't have the right to talk about our problems with other guys in similar situations. Truly is a double standard. I blocked her and have no desire or urge to create a new account yet. We'll see how it plays out.
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/21 04:18 PM
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Did she try to use your posts against you? Did you block her? Or was it just a fresh start?
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/21 04:09 PM
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Nothing incriminating at all. Every post is honest and "legal". The most of what I say on here all it can do is piss her off. She even went as far as to block me on here now. Just looked her up and I'm not allowed to view her profile. But I still have 1 follower and yet when I see who it is the list is blank. Hmmmmm 🤔
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/21 02:36 PM
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Yup. It’s wonderful knowing I’m still on her mind. Can’t let me go
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/21 01:43 PM
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You have our support brother. Before you do anything else, contact and secure a lawyer. Inform them of everything, have evidence of you being the cash cow and talk about her sleeping with another man. Doing this sooner rather than later will benefit you greatly.
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/21 01:53 AM
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Oh she definitely is very controlling. And was an expert at gaslighting. It took 2 years of subtle abuse to figure out I was never in the best of interests with her. It's a shame but she showed her true colors the moment she "admitted" to me after an argument and her leaving and then coming back from a friend's house the it "isn't working" and "we should get a divorce". After a simple disagreement..
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/21 12:22 AM
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We don't have any kids but the fact that she seemed like nothing was wrong is disturbing. Tells me where she's at mentally.
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/21 10:04 PM
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Good luck with that shit! Even though you have proof doesn’t mean she’ll lose. But you have an edge for sure. I luckily don’t have kids so that’s one less thing to worry about. But the “phrases” used is uncanny
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/21 11:30 PM
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Jesus. Exact words said to me. This is so crazy. There has to be some women’s bullshit website or forum that they all read and think “that’ll work, I can say that and everything will be ok”. Or maybe it is in their biology. Either way, it’s fucking bizarre how close all of our stories are to each other’s
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/21 11:07 PM
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Exactly. Again, I more than likely will never get to the bottom of it. But the attitude and projection is more than enough for me to assume.
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/21 10:46 PM
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I have done just that. At some point she gave up and I believe it was back in November. She sprung divorce on me nonchalantly in January as if suggesting it wasn't a big deal. And from what I've read up on, if your partner brings it up that means they've thought about it for a while and are ok with it. As for her in relations with another man. I have not confirmed that but she was projecting onto me pretty heavily before she moved out. Over things that I quickly proved her wrong on with help fro…
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/21 07:26 PM
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I hope so. I am currently doing counseling for my own sake. We filed contested because of our house. I won that and she has since moved out as of June 1. So I'd say I'm doing alright. Just me and my dog.
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/21 07:20 PM
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I forgot to point out that she claims since I lack a college degree that I will amount to nothing in today's world. Yet my line of work I can achieve 6 figures in 5 years of logging inspection hours. We genuinely tried to have a child but had a miscarriage. And with the falling out that's where she made the comment about not having kids with me but with someone else. We are in the final stages of divorce, just waiting on the thumbs up from the court clerk to officially submit our divorce packet.…
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/21 05:59 PM
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Literally the exact words my wife said to me. It’s like they are all programmed this way.
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/21 06:35 PM
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Thanks fellas. I truly appreciate all of you and your genuine words of wisdom. I know its going to be difficult at times but I will get through it. It's nice to know I am not alone in this endeavor and have the support of you all.
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/21 01:18 AM
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I apologize for the confusion and lack of information in my post. But she has been served, we signed a separation agreement, she moved out and we reviewed the final documents before submission to the court. I believe the only hold up is our signatures. Her side reviewed the documents and agreed upon them but we have not gotten them back with signatures yet.
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/21 01:07 AM
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Already ahead on that front. Only link we have is phone numbers for legal purposes.. I have asked all friends to unfriend her as of a this morning. So that’ll be the last of it.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/21 11:56 PM
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She blocked me on all social media but as of a few days ago, unblocked me. Even though I’m not friends with her anymore I have been told of certain posts. So it’s just frustrating. I know it’s an act to look better but damn it’s annoying.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/21 11:50 PM
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When this was posted she has yet to arrive to retrieve her things. I have no idea when she is coming over but I will be walking around when the action starts.
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/21 01:23 PM
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Luckily no kids. Just dogs
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/21 11:47 PM
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Right. We’ve already submitted the separation agreement and she has almost all of her things out of the house. I just don’t know how long after I must wait for it to be official
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/21 06:38 PM
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That’s not how it’s supposed to work. Might want to look into that
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/21 06:03 PM
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I'm not saying she is but responding to "is someone gonna help you moving to your new place" with "its none of your damn business where I'm living" Kinda makes it sus
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/21 05:40 PM
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My question has no definitive answer. And that is, "how long until its official". Just sucks
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/21 05:35 PM
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Quick update. She is out of the house in a few weeks and she’s walking away. I have noticed she is using her headphones to talk on the phone late at night. After a failed attempt the other night to accuse me of cheating(mask that’s not hers but turns out to have been given to her by my mom) she is starting to project these accusations pretty heavily on me. Meaning there’s a good chance she’s trying to cover something up on her end. Either way I’m clean and will continue to be till the day it’s o…
/r/Divorce_Men19/05/21 11:57 AM
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I honestly want to replace all of the furniture anyways. So I’m letting it go. The buyout isn’t happening anymore. We squashed that. And I am still looking for my balls. They’re not in the nightstand like you said. So I’m really confused
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/21 04:53 PM
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No children just 3 dogs. I keep mine she keeps hers. I personally don’t want to sell the house but she will walk away eventually. Just have to let the lawyers play their game and agree
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/21 10:32 PM
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She is taking most of the furniture. She is leaving me with a bed, a computer desk and a tv stand. The couch, tv, king size bed, bookshelves, outdoor furniture, kitchen table is all going. And she wants a considerable buyout so it’s not as easy as I want it to be
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/21 10:11 PM
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Her lawyer has already emailed us the settlement papers. She’s surrendering the house to me but we are waiting for my lawyer to go over the papers and send a formal response. My state does not have an alienation of affection lawsuit but I could, if it can be proven there is someone else as grounds adulterous activities
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/21 09:59 PM
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Luckily no children involved. Just 3 dogs. I will just stop interacting or communicating with her unless it directly effects our daily comings and going’s
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/21 09:52 PM
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Definitely true. Except after 5 months of her threats to file. I got tired of stepping on eggshells, living in fear, and wondering when the day would come and served her. Best “gotcha” moment of my life. I’m the captain now bitch.
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/21 11:50 PM
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