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Do-it-for-you/r/seduction28/03/18 06:42 PM
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Nobody calls themselves spinsters these days, it’s an outdated term.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 06:02 PM
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While the items on Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs are correct, the theory that you need to complete the bottom of the pyramid before continuing upwards is incorrect and have been critiqued by psychologists for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 10:41 PM
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Because sexual attraction works on different rules. If an incredibly attractive guy is an asshole, he’s still an incredibly attractive guy. It’s called “Hate fucking” or “Hate sex”.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 12:41 PM
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No random 24 year old guy who’s trying to attract women will come to this conclusion all by himself, this is definitely the type of stuff you learn only after looking up Redpill shit. Keep in mind the average dating advice from the average person is “She’s a human, so treat her like one” and “Make her laugh”. Nothing about looks, status, wealth, or anything related to presenting sexual allure. He’ll continue making the same mistakes over and over wondering what’s wrong with him,
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 12:35 PM
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Clearly she’s not sexually attracted to him, the question is Why and what could he have done to make her sexually attracted to him. An in depth explanation helps clear up any confusion as to why seemingly normal guys struggle with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 09:11 PM
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They’re basically trying to say the same thing. ‘Dating’ and ‘Game’ are basically linked together while in a committed relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 03:49 AM
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For the very simple fact they aren’t dating men. Why would a Red Pill man care if men leave their girlfriends after they get fat and lose their job? They don’t, it doesn’t effect them. What does effect them is knowing that women will leave their boyfriends if they get fat and lose their job. Because that’s something they can avoid. TRP has A LOT of stuff like this, stuff that technically applies to both men and women, but because they only care about dating women, that’s what 100% of the focus i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 03:46 AM
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Why they’ll hate a guy but sleep with him anyway. Why they’ll have a male friend they’ll cry and complain about their boyfriends to, but immediately go back with their boyfriends like nothing happened. An explanation to “You’re a nice guy, any woman would be lucky to have you, just not me” Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 03:42 AM
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By the time Robo humans are a thing and affordable for the average person, we won’t be living in a world where money is an issue anymore. AI will have effectively replaced most jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:27 PM
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Last
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 10:02 PM
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/r/femcels was banned so that’s not accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:05 PM
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No source, just rumours.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 06:17 PM
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They shut it down because of threats about being banned from the Reddit admins.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 12:39 PM
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Because 42% of women are obese and the other 9% or more are overweight. No self exploration needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 02:29 PM
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Yes, not in a romantic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 11:01 PM
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Single ladies is about ladies who recently broke up with their fellas because he didn’t marry her, so now they’re celebrating at clubs hoping to find someone who will. Recently broke up = not in a relationship, thus single.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 09:37 PM
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a) the dictionary definition Oxford Languages: Unmarried or not involved in a stable sexual relationship. Cambridge Dictionary: Not married or not having a romantic relationship with someone. Dictionary.com: unmarried or not in a romantic relationship. b) The most commonly accepted definition If I told anybody anywhere I was single, they would assume I wasn’t in a romantic relationship with anybody. That is the most commonly accepted definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 09:25 PM
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It can also mean not in an exclusive relationship but that is a less common definition In terms of how the government consider “single” for demographic purposes, sure. In terms of how literally everybody else on the planet uses the word single, absolutely not. Nobody says “I’m single” while in a long term committed relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 11:01 AM
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Online dating statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 10:23 PM
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He likes women, so he’s confused why women don’t like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 08:30 PM
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I wish I had access to the full data because there’s not much info on just Gen Z stats. For example, 75% of LGBT Gen Z are women, but altogether across all ages, 13.9% of LGBT identify as lesbian. While 25% of LGBT Gen Z are men, altogether across all ages, 20.7% of LGBT identify as gay. Meanwhile 57-61% of all LGBT identify as bisexual. For one reason or another, men tend to be gay, women tend to be bisexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:50 AM
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It’s unrealistic to expect and want sex every single day, 4-5 days a week yes, but every single day?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:14 PM
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Don’t bring it up, and if they bring it up then emphasise with them, they already know it sucks so they’re not going to be startled much when you don’t compliment it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:22 AM
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100% of all women I know who have used OLD have not been sex trafficked, kidnapped, assaulted, or murdered from using the app or meeting up with men on it, it’s not an issue, it’s paranoia. The worst thing that ever happened to them was creepy messages, which was fixed by the use of the block button.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:31 PM
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Everything here is true BUT the bumble height filter. That % is specifically from women who are using bumble and have paid a membership on it to gain access to the filters. You have to take into account the type of woman willing to pay a premium membership on a OLD app. It’s going to skew towards rich women and women desperate for the height filter.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 03:50 PM
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Unfair and sexist as it may be, it’s either you, as the man, put the effort in and do the work, or be prepared to stay single for a long time.
/r/seduction25/09/22 06:14 PM
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This, your average relationship is definitely an older man with a women 2-5 years younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 12:22 PM
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Everything’s a little different in London.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 04:02 PM
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I’m from the UK, the exclusivity talk basically does not exist here unless you started the relationship though a one night stand or a FWB type ordeal. If you are actively dating a someone then you are exclusive to them. Especially 2 months, that’s a long time to pretend you aren’t a couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 02:12 PM
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Ya I’m confused too, this isn’t a man vs woman issue. If I was dating a woman for 2 months and it turns out she was sleeping with two men on the side, I’d be mad too and break up with her on the spot. Why are women furious? Any normal person would be furious in that position.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 01:10 PM
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They’re a representative of women with money.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:51 AM
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It’s exactly what you said, 70% of women who do use the height feature remove anyone 5’11 or below. 90% remove anyone 5’7 or below. There’s no reason to assume the women who don’t have access to this height feature are going to think any differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:07 AM
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It means 40% of women who use the height feature have 7’ as an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:01 AM
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My point is the women who say they don’t want to be judged for being promiscuous are usually also the type to judge men for being virgins. I’ve read tons of stories of women who think a late 20’s or 30+ year old virgin man is red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:57 PM
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Religious Organisations The average church goer is 61 years old here. Even then, they tend to want to date other religious people. I’ve been to a few myself to help a friend and it’s filled with old people. Political action organisations Definitely not meeting the women we’re talking about here. Libraries, art galleries, flea markets, community gardens, grocery stores, dry cleaners You’re asking men to cold approach here. Definitely not a “incredibly easy” way to meet these women, has a high cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 03:41 PM
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it’s incredibly easy to find them Where can you find them?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 03:04 PM
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Not shaming anyone sure, but your original comment says to not judge, which isn’t true. By treating someone differently based on how many people they’ve slept with, you are judging them based on it. And the simply fact is, everyone judges people based on their N-Count in one way or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:42 PM
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This comment reminds me of a comic I read. Woman: “I wish we just stop judging everyone for the amount of people they’ve slept with” Man: “I’m glad you said that, as a virgin I’ve alw…” Woman: looks disgusted and walks away.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:19 PM
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they want a “good girl” type who is a virgin or low-n, quiet, sweet, no drinking, smoking, or partying, not a lot of makeup or revealing clothes, no tattoos, maybe a bit of a plain Jane, but that’s ok as long as she’s thin and has long hair. It’s so incredibly rare to find someone like this. I’ve only met maybe 2 women out of hundreds who don’t drink. 1 of them was Muslim. Then when you do meet a woman even remotely close to this this, it’s very rare for them to be single. They always have a boy…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 10:47 AM
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Chad = Extremely attractive and tall man. It has nothing to do with how he acts, his values, his beliefs, his intelligence, etc. Chad literally just means a tall attractive man. He can be homeless, he can be Christian sex after marriage guy, he can be a rocket scientist, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 11:48 AM
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This is nonsense, experienced women who’ve slept around are easier to sleep with for the simple fact they have no issues with sleeping with new men. Virgins, being virgins, are harder, if no one has taken her virginity then what makes a low value male think he can? In conclusion, it has nothing to do with thinking they’re easier to attract.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 12:40 AM
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Women are famous for using plastic surgery, I know multiple women who’ve had plastic surgery done, nose and breasts. Women are famous for low self esteem quotes such as “Does this dress make me look fat”, they get upset that they can’t fit in their size 14 dress anymore. The main reason women don’t complain online at the same rate guys do, is that women can vent their frustrations with people in person. Men don’t, men keep it bottled up inside and their only place to vent is online.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 12:59 PM
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This, does she really think all those women going to clubs to get laid and having casual sex are doing it because it feels like a nice backrub Of course not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 09:36 AM
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Not really, people don’t like fat people because it’s unattractive to be fat. Nothing to do with “self respect or love for youself”.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:06 PM
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It’s called locker room talk for a reason, it’s stuff you discuss between men in casual places. Doesn’t mean you can talk about it to other women at a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 07:37 PM
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Because those guys have no standards and are dating trash women. Even I could do this is my standards were that low and I didn’t use contraceptives.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 11:56 AM
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Well no, almost 70% of men and women are overweight, you’re thinking of obese which is 1 in 3 and 1 in 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 06:05 PM
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Why exactly are they bad people that need therapy, what specifically is it that they do that you hate so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:44 PM
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Calm down, it’s not like they’re teaching men how to drug women. The advice is literally just stuff like “If she insults you, exaggerate it or ignore it” and “don’t be a social butterfly, your more interesting if you disagree sometimes”. They even teach men that if she says no just move on and ignore her because you can’t persuade attraction. Even the most controversial stuff is nothing compared to the shit your average dude says during locker room talks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:24 PM
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It’s not embarrassing, it’s controversial and social suicide. It’s like telling a fat person they’re fat and should lose weight or they’ll die. It’s true, and they should lose weight, but that doesn’t make it ok to say it to their face. Same issue appears with Red Pill stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 12:27 PM
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I would’ve said the exact same thing. I am NOT talking about the red pill to people in real life, nothing good could ever come out of it. I’m pretty sure men on TRP are taught that too, that if anybody IRL mentions it, to pretend you don’t know about it, then once that person describes what it is, just shrug and say “sounds stupid”.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 09:06 AM
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Children aren’t babies. You can’t compare a 9 year old kid to a baby you haven’t even met yet and who’s existence will literally kill the mother. It’s fairly obvious their answer will be to prioritise themselves over the baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:34 PM
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Of course not, the better question is why are you surprised by those answers? Everyone is going to choose their own life over their babies, every husband is going to choose their wife’s lives over their baby. What made you think otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:22 PM
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How is this a ‘Red Pill Nuke’ exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:12 PM
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Never. Just assume you will never be approached and go from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 10:10 AM
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I was going to got to more detail but thought my comment was long enough. You’re right, despite the huge amount of causal sex, it’s incredibly hard for them to find genuine long lasting monogamous relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:54 AM
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If anything queer relationships prove some of our points. Gay men easily date and sleep other gay men, gay men approach gay men on the regular that it’s rare if not impossible to find a gay man struggling in the dating scene. Compared to lesbians and straights, they have the highest amount of sex out of any other type of couple. Lesbians are the opposite, lesbians struggle to find and date other lesbians because they’re expecting everyone else to make the first move, even on OLD they’re frequent…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 08:32 PM
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I’m not saying that advice doesn’t matter. I’m saying that men are given that advice because some people can’t comprehend a normal decent man struggling with dating, and just assume if he’s struggling it’s because he’s clearly doing something wrong like not treating women like a human or giving off ‘bad vibes’. When in reality, a lot of men’s dating issues would disappear overnight if he just became attractive. Talk to anybody who’s went from obese to fit and every single one of them will tell y…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 07:41 PM
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I can absolutely guarantee that if you made a poll about that here, 80%+ of men would agree with me that attractive women can get away with it and still be dateable a large swarm of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:04 PM
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This has been well documented at this point and is easily replicated by making your own OLD account with pictures of male models.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:20 PM
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People pay taxes. Taxes go to government. Stuff is payed for by the peoples taxes, but ultimately, it’s the government who holds all the money and decides what to do with it. They decide how much they should pay towards each sector. Because of the hypothetical legislation, they’re forced to spend some of that money towards a fully paid for healthcare system. They spend as much as is necessary for this system to work because generally speaking, governments don’t want to waste money on things that…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:43 PM
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Nah, look at the generic couple archetype, what does a; Man who works in a factory, plays snooker, watches football, watches action movies, and drinks beer on the weekend with friends and a Stay at home mother who reads books, watches romance flicks, tends to the garden, and bakes cookies Have in common with each other? Well… nothing, yet this is the most common masculine man vs feminine women pairing in recent history. People rarely need similar interests to become a couple, they just need to e…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:31 PM
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I know, because right now healthcare is a privatised industry and profit driven. The government doesn’t care about the ridiculous price of insulin because they profit from the price being so high. In a hypothetical scenario where the country swapped to a healthcare that is 100% payed for by the government, where all spending goes towards a public not for profit healthcare system, this kind of stuff is vastly reduced because it’s not the government paying for the treatments, not the people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:19 PM
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Parental controls my dude, why are you using a camera to spy on her when you can just switch the tablet off from your phone?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:45 PM
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Health insurance is generally more expensive, and when you do have to use it, you have to pay more money for that checkup anyway, then sometimes you go in and that particular treatment “isn’t covered” by the insurance, so you still have to pay extreme prices for basic treatment like insulin. When it’s payed for by taxes, you can’t be profited from it, the government has an incentive to keep costs down as much as possible because they don’t want to waste money on healthcare, they’re not going to …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:38 PM
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Example One Example Two Example Three Just type “Chadfish” into Google images
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 07:59 AM
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We flock to average girls too, and we’re pretty honest about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 11:04 PM
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This doesn’t disprove what I said. The data they’re using to figure out happiness from long term relationships are gathered from people who are in long term relationships. If they’re in long term relationships, that means their partner already met the standards they were looking for when they started the relationship, I.E race, physical attractiveness, religion, height, etc. These traits almost never change throughout the relationship, so of course they’ll have little impact on how successful th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 06:10 PM
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The one and major issue I have with this study is it’s only focusing on relationships that already exist. Meaning it’s focusing on two people who already know each other’s traits (race, religion, height, occupation, physical features, etc) and decided to date each other with this knowledge. This does not prove that people who have standards would be happy if they dropped those standards to date someone who’s happy. Aka, a fit attractive women is not going to be happy with a short fat man, even i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:47 PM
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It turns out that that list—the qualities that are most valued in the dating market, according to Big Data from online dating sites—almost perfectly overlaps with the list of traits in a partner that don’t correlate with long-term relationship happiness, according to the large dataset Joel and her coauthors analyzed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:24 PM
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Depends on how many women he had to approach to make that happen. Pick Up Artists could do this once a month, but only after approaching 300 different women that same month.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:06 PM
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High IQ has a negative correlation with relationship success. Average intelligence people are more attractive than intelligent people. Despite intelligence being rated highly on self reported studies on what people look for, it tends to have little importance on actual dates, with the only significant variable being the persons wage, higher wage = more attractive. https://www.scirp.org/journal/paperinformation.aspx?paperid=74943
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 01:26 PM
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I’m not saying intelligent men can’t be attractive. I’m saying how on average, a group of intelligent men will be less attractive than a group of physically attractive men. So on average, the group of intelligent men will have less kids than the group of physically attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 01:13 PM
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What’s considered an advantage in biology isn’t what’s considered an advantage in society. Have you seen the movie idiocracy? It goes into that exact context but exaggerates it. What’s considered attractive and is a biological advantage? Tall, strong, handsome, physically fit men who go around sleeping with every and all women, getting them all pregnant without caring if they can “afford” them. What’s useful for society? Competent intelligent people who spend their entire lives researching and a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:45 PM
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FDS’s definition of high value and RP’s definition of high value are two entirely different definitions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 12:27 AM
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Average women have to work for a living too, it’s only hot women that get the chance to live the stay at home mum lifestyle or are able to marry rich dudes. Your average skinny fat 5’4 women isn’t doing THAT well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 04:12 PM
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40% online dating, 25% at bars, clubs, and other similar venues, 65% do not meet though social circles. That is the majority. Most couples do not meet through their social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 01:03 AM
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I just did, and that’s not what it says. Literally googling “how did couples meet” shows online dating at 40%. Link me your statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 12:59 AM
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Source: https://web.stanford.edu/~mrosenfe/Rosenfeld_et_al_Disintermediating_Friends.pdf Couples overwhelmingly meet through dating apps these days (probably even more so thanks to Covid). I’m not making excuses for my misery? I have a girlfriend who, surprise surprise, met her through OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 12:24 AM
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That hasn’t been the conventional way of meeting people for over 10 years now. 40% of all relationships start from online dating, over 25% from a bars/clubs or similar venues. Right off the bat, 65% of relationships start from stuff similar to this one hour speed dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 12:09 AM
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Some people read “Speed dating” and instantly assume it’s one of those things they saw on TV where people have 30 seconds to talk to each other before moving onto the next person. Which, I can understand why they would think it doesn’t count.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 04:57 PM
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And before anyone jumps in to claim speed dating isn’t real dating, the participants had a full 1 hour session to talk with each other about anything. The ones with the highest romantic interest where simply the most attractive ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 03:25 PM
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Wolf in sheep’s clothing. Or he was bluepill when he joined and has changed his views overtime. Now he’a red/purple pill without realising it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:10 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:28 PM
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Too busy being in their 30’s complaining about gas prices.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 01:07 PM
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I’m surprised nobody has talked about this on PPD yet - https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/vd2vcl/i_rarely_get_matches_if_at_all_any_any/ What are your thoughts on this?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 12:20 PM
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When a man masturbates too much that he can’t cum with an actual woman. He has to use his hand to finish.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 12:17 PM
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That’s a personal choice though, those women have locked themselves into a very niche minority of men. I wouldn’t compare it to just a dude trying to get a date with the average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 12:05 PM
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2009 study that showed women find 80% of men unattractive while men only found 50% unattractive, despite this, women would would still message the unattractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 06:11 PM
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Check out tinders weekly thread, plenty of men there who claim they get no likes - https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/v7rmjc/weekly_profile_review_thread/
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 01:09 PM
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My bad, I was exaggerating, you’re 7.5x more likely to be killed by them. I’m basically trying to say if things get serious, the man can easily overpower the woman and stop the abuse, the opposite is not true. Of course, if a knife is involved, no one wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 11:23 AM
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Nah, I had a “cool wine aunt”, but she wasn’t cool, she was just an alcoholic who went on holiday a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 09:53 PM
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This, not rocket science. A man committing domestic violence is scary because he can kill her without her being able to do anything about it. They say that if you’ve been strangulated by your boyfriend/husband at least once, you’re almost guaranteed to be killed by them. A woman committing domestic violence is just a woman slapping and throwing stuff at you, emotionally traumatic sure, but rarely are you threatened for your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 09:50 PM
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just walk like you got the coolest music in the world playing in your head. Bluepilled, understood.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 02:07 PM
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Speed dating in this context doesn’t mean sitting down next to a person and talking for a minute. They sat down and spoke to each other for an hour. That’s basically the same as going to a house party and meeting women organically, you have tons of time to get your personality across, your hobbies, your job, your dreams, your confidence, your passions, etc. It’s basically a coffee date without the coffee. How is that just as bad as OLD?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 11:25 AM
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So you’re blue pilled, Gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 11:17 AM
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You’re mixing black pill and Incels together in one soup. Incels claim that since they’re ugly and short, they’ll never win. Blackpill claims that looks is basically everything, and that you should looksmax as much as humanly possible. And that “Game” is mostly bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 11:11 AM
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They’re getting paid to be interviewed, they’re doing it for the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 06:36 PM
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You can see someone’s attractive without needing to be attracted to them. If someone asks me if Henry Cavill is attractive I’m not going to say “Uhhh I have no idea because I’m not gay”.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 06:36 PM
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Sometimes below average looking is a direct cause of them being overweight too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 04:02 PM
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It’s not that 15% are attracted to you. It’s that 15% are willing to give you a chance under the idea that you have something better to offer than any other man she knows or will know.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 10:03 AM
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Men are known for; Following barely dressed women online. Watching porn. Going to strip clubs. Hiring prostitutes. Meanwhile most women don’t do most of this stuff, maybe watch porn but even then it’s less frequently than men. If you were right, there would be tons more male strip bars, women would be driving around looking for male prostitutes, 50% of all porn would be for women, etc. That’s simply not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 09:59 AM
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This is such a bad take. Everyone is turned on by being desired By people they’re attracted too. Women are NOT turned on by simply being desired, otherwise they’d date any normal man that gives them attention. Women also get turned on by men who aren’t making them feel desired (aka celebrity worship). Women are more likely to post on social media because they’re on average more social than men, which makes them more susceptible to getting an addiction for social media likes. The women who do pos…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 04:41 PM
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No it isn’t. In no way is my current self anywhere near my 20 year old self, we’re completely different people. “Being myself” would mean to continue being the skinny nerdy “nice guy” who’s only interest was video games and anime. I changed myself to become someone better. You are already “yourself” right now, “just be yourself” implies that you are good the way you are and don’t need to change. “Just be yourself” does in no way Indicate that you should change your entire lifestyle and hobbies f…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 06:44 PM
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He didn’t say more difficult, he said which holds greater responsibility, risk, and higher punishment. If the woman didn’t work, they’d live in a dirty house with bad kids. If the man didn’t work, they’d starve to death. He’s not wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 04:54 PM
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That was me, the quiet kid who kept to himself = “So mature for your age”.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 11:23 AM
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My childhood was filled with not only useless, but counter-productive information. • Just be nice and she’ll like you for it. • Women like smart men. • Be friends with her first. • Literally nothing about physical appearance, no advice on clothes/exercise/haircut etc. It was just assumed my kindness/personality would be enough. • Sex (and other sexual actions) only happen between married couples. • Because no women we knew ever admitted to masturbating or claimed they thought it was gross, we as…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 04:06 PM
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My point was being a sweet, wonderful, wholesome person means jack shit in terms of getting a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 05:55 PM
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I could say the same, my social circle is made up of sweet wholesome people, and lo and behold, a few of them are 27 year old virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 02:53 PM
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Women are very much expected to get married and have kids. They can’t even tie their tubes without having their husbands permission.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 10:56 PM
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Almost all of my friends are men, the only men I know who are happy with their bachelor lives are the ones who have easy access to sex. The others would prefer to be in a relationship. Plus, the men who aren’t happy aren’t going to be honest with you and go “ya I hate being single” because they don’t want to be a miserable bore towards other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 01:01 PM
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Maybe not their “Only” purpose, but almost everyone sees it as a significant purpose. You’re less respected as a man for being single. When you’re single every month it’s “You got a girlfriend yet?”, from family members, the older you get the more depressed they get for you. My dad gave me a weird quote about how a boy isn’t a man until he has a woman by his side. The go to insult when a man says something controversial is to immediately call him an incel or virgin and how no women will touch th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 12:37 PM
2

What are you talking about? We’re just talking about a random woman approaching you, who said anything about strange men following women around stores???
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:30 PM
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That’s what dates are for, to figure out if she’s more than just a pretty girl with a nice bod.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:23 PM
2

You could limit it to just women who slept with men who didn’t lie and it would be the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 05:06 PM
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Sometimes yes, sometimes no.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 04:59 PM
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Fat guys complaining about not being able to date women is like women complaining about not being able to keep men they sleep with. Both of them are aiming for the type of people who don’t or won’t like them back.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 03:55 PM
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Someone will eventually recreate a similar sub that serves the same purpose, it wasn’t banned after all, it was made private by the mods to redirect people to their website (where they sell FDS merch).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 04:39 PM
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They didn’t get banned, the mods redirected everyone to their website (where they sell FDS merch) then put the subreddit on private to force their users to use their website.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:20 PM
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It makes as much sense as saying race is a social construct and should freely be changed. You are Caucasian because you were born like that, in the same sense that you are a man because you were born like that. Gender roles should not play a role in this, women should be allowed to be masculine without feeling like they need to avoid being women. Men should be allowed to be feminine without feeling like they need to avoid being a man. While each gender has stereotypical traits attached to them (…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 11:27 AM
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It’s also called taking care of yourself. I’ve never once heard it used in the context of makeup and dressing up. ‘Healthy’ has the connotation that you’re already healthy, even though you may not be and are working your way towards it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 09:09 AM
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I don’t, and don’t believe anyone else I’ve ever spoken to thinks this either. When men say they want a woman to takes care of themselves, it almost always boils down to doesn’t over eat and get fat, doesn’t smoke, isn’t alcoholic, exercises and stays healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 08:56 AM
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Body hair is perfectly healthy and normal, for both men and women. Finding something perfectly normal disgusting is an issue you have. There’s nothing wrong with armpit hair, what’s wrong is your reaction to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 08:52 AM
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People who tell you to go to dance classes to meet women has never actually went to a dance class.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 10:06 AM
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He was almost crying in interviews, do you actually believe they were in a happy open marriage where both of them were sleeping around? Or, the more accurate explanation, she was caught cheating and he had to pretend they were in a open relationship to save his reputation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 02:29 PM
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Please remember that humanity didn’t give a fuck about clitoris for millions of years If humanity didn’t give a fuck about it, it wouldn’t exist. The fact every single woman has one is proof that it was and still is important in some capacity, otherwise women wouldn’t have evolved with it. It is literally the only part of a human that exists solely for pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 02:11 PM
3

Real kings build gigantic monuments on 2B2T, the oldest anarchy server in Minecraft.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 04:57 PM
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Toxic masculinity would disappear overnight if society didn’t reward it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 04:51 PM
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70% of people using OLD never go on a date with anyone they met online Is that because they choose not to, or because they’ve been trying to find a date and can’t? There’s a massive difference between the two. It’s easy to say 70% of people on OLD don’t date, but when you add in that most men struggle to even get matches then it makes sense why that numbers so high.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 09:45 AM
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That’s what I meant when I said “or just grew up on bread”. It’s widely known that the reason humans are so much taller these days compared to 500+ years ago is because of our more modern diets compared to their barebone diets. But if you’re already eating an average western diet, making sure you get a perfect amount of nutrition isn’t going to make any difference, a normal western diet will make you almost as tall as your genetics allow.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 06:13 PM
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Unless you’ve got a legitimate height growth hormone deficiency or grew up on just bread your entire life, lifestyle differences will only change your height by 1-2cm at most.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 04:11 PM
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PPD’s smart enough to not share their struggles with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:50 PM
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I feel sorry for whatever poor blokes are dating them, it’s such a nice feeling for your own girlfriend/wife to make you feel like you’re the sexiest man alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 12:28 PM
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I agree with OP in that it’s also attractive to young women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 09:52 AM
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But it does. Maybe not to you since you’re already from a rich family, but to your average 30 year old woman with your average 30 year old women wage? Being a a man earning £100k is absolutely attractive to those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 09:43 AM
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quote where I claimed 100k is easy to make “Lol at two 30-year-olds thinking that making exactly 100k a year makes them hot shit. They both need to sit down somewhere.” Making 100k at 30 years old does make them hot shit, you make it sound like it’s nothing to celebrate and that it’s not that impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 09:26 AM
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Nah, I live in a major city that’s bound to get nuked first. Even if I survive the nuke and join the army, I’ve played paintball before, I am awful at paintball. My only hope is to join the cyber security department of the army and be safe in an underground bunker.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:50 PM
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Nice guys get girls all the time. It’s ugly guys that don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:53 PM
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There’s a big chunk of context missing here. The kind of man who’s smart, doesn’t drink, doesn’t smoke, doesn’t fight, and are friendly, are exponentially less likely to involve themselves in drunk sex, drug sex, casual sex of any kind, and get into relationships they know are bad for them, etc. Take ‘Does not drink’ for example, 70% of the population over 18 drink alcohol, by not drinking (and by extension, wanting a woman who also doesn’t drink) you’ve knocked out 70% of the population automat…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:47 PM
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I personally don’t know a single relationship where the man is paying for everything UNLESS the woman is a stay at home mum. Everybody splits unless they’re taking their partner out to do something special like for birthdays or Valentine’s Day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:32 PM
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Not really, if they have a perfectly good job, but expect you to plan and pay for every single date without her lifting a finger, she likely practises FDS. Even ‘Old fashioned’ woman tend to split the bill after the first/second date nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:35 AM
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That’s what I’m thinking too, a bit overweight in my eyes is fine, it starts getting ugly when you hit obese levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 04:22 PM
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I disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 11:56 PM
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Most of the time, all it takes is for a woman to be a healthy weight to be physically attractive to majority of men. Especially in a country where most women are overweight. You’re telling me, assuming they had a good personality, there’s some bodies in there that you don’t find attractive enough to want to date?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 09:03 PM
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Put in your parameters and see what the average healthy BMI women looks like https://app.mybodygallery.com/#/ Find me an ugly one that’s below 24 BMI.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:37 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:13 PM
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I put in a BMI of 22 and every single woman on there had an attractive body. Or course, their faces are censored so I can’t judge based on their face.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 07:48 PM
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If you want to prove your point, please link me pictures of women who’s; • not physically deformed • of healthy BMI. • hasn’t been through substance abuse That you believe also looks like shit to the average man. I’m certain 95% of women will look somewhat attractive if they fit these 3 things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:25 PM
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‘Painfully average’ healthy BMI woman is still attractive to majority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 03:53 PM
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Nah it’s just the baggy clothes, you can see them in the first picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:26 PM
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Top attractiveness Average attractiveness Not attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 08:30 AM
2

You could say the same thing about JPEG NFT’s. Just because something has monetary value doesn’t mean it’s a productive use of time/money for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 04:59 PM
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The people who complain about them ARE NOT the people who subscribe to them. They’re two entirely different groups of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 04:53 PM
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That’s like saying if you don’t know gambling effects your wallet you should’ve researched. Researching it doesn’t make it any less of a scam. It just makes you knowledgeable of the scam.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 12:21 PM
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Playing devils advocate, you could claim the woman are the scammers, you enter the room with 100% of your money and leave with 50%, while she takes your other 50%. In any other scenario you’d call that a scam.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 01:58 AM
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Same experience here, met 0 people who have an only fans, and the 2 strippers have claimed to be happy with their lives, and couldn’t wait to start pole dancing lessons.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:41 PM
3

Nobody can edit titles, it’s the one thing on Reddit nobody can touch.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 12:59 AM
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This sub spent three days asking wether it’s beta or not for your woman to not want to do anal for you while she previously did it with a past boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:03 PM
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How do I make sure I won’t get played or ghosted You can’t. You just got to roll the dice, get lucky, and find a guy who’ll keep dating you after the 3rd/4th date with no sex. If a man is really going to ghost you and an entire potential relationship based solely on wether or not you slept with him within 3 dates, he’s very likely to not be the guy for you. If a guy likes you for you, he’ll want to keep seeing you beyond 3 dates with no sex. If a guy just wanted sex, then he’ll ghost you and mov…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:51 AM
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You’re saying you wouldn’t date a girl because her parents are divorced? Or you wouldn’t date a girl because she doesn’t particularly like her father? Regardless of all other traits she has?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 06:58 AM
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Anecdotal evidence vs anecdotal evidence. P.S alcohol is worse I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 11:24 AM
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My point is there’s a very clear overlap between the people doing drugs and being uncool. From what I’ve personally witnessed, the people who do drugs, are almost always uncool. I’ve never seen a person who has his life together, their head screwed on, and also does drugs at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 09:38 AM
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This, There isn’t a single person I know who is “cool” for doing drugs. The list of people include a two faced cheater, a suicidal man, a obese man who struggled to get a job for 4 years, a man who now believes in god after having a trip with mushrooms, a dude who stole and sold his lil brothers TV/console to buy more weed. I don’t know a single person who is both cool, and does drugs, they’re all losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 08:50 AM
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As always, it depends. men crying Men crying is fine, as long as it’s something actually worth crying over, like their parents dying or something equally tragic. If a man starts crying over their $700 laptop being stolen, or something equally silly, that’s when it becomes unattractive. Depression Depression is unattractive trait anyway, for both men and women. There’s not a single person on earth who’s more attractive because they had depression. When women want their men to “open up”, they’re n…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 04:24 PM
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Most people do, men and women. There’s no rule, it’s just a cultural expectation. Like giving presents to people on Christmas or giving sweets to kids on Halloween. There’s the social expectation that something special should happen on birthdays and anniversaries, in the same way people expect presents on Christmas Day. Even if you personally don’t see a certain day as special, majority of people do, they would all be upset if Christmas Day came around and you turned to them and said “I don’t ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 01:17 PM
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Because we can save it for the anniversary/birthdays as a celebratory occasion. Why take her to an extra fancy restaurant on a random day of a random month, only to then take her somewhere mundane and generic on her birthday of all days? Regular dates happen on regular days, and special dates happen on special days.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 11:27 AM
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Because it gives me and my SO an excuse to do something extra special for the day instead of a normal date night out which is “go to generic restaurant, go bowling, go mini-golf, have a walk in park, visit museums, etc”. It’s not about the effort being put in, it’s about going out and doing something extra fun for the day, and an anniversary/birthday is the perfect excuse to spend a little more money than usual and have a bit more fun. I can always sit at home and order a takeaway under a blanke…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 11:13 AM
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I’m a man and I’d hate my anniversary or birthday to be a takeaway under a blanket, that’s so shit. Anything else that even required a hint of effort would be better than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 09:09 AM
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Person B. Their personality could be 10/10, but if I’m not attracted to them, I’m not attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 08:34 PM
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A woman automatically puts you into 3 categories when she meets you. Fuck Yes, Maybe, and No. The ones who put you in maybe expect you to impress them or “earn” them. There the ones you have to almost persuade to date you. Get a girl who puts you into the Fuck Yes category. Less BS involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 06:37 PM
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When browsing “Top” of all time, month, week, it’s not that bad and I actually agree with a lot of points. Most of it just stems from women having losers as boyfriends, men who can’t clean their own asses, can’t tidy their room, can’t make them orgasm, being cheated on, abused, how they’ve went their entire 35 years of life without ever been given flowers (despite asking for them), etc. All fairly simple and understandable stuff. It’s when you start browsing the “Hot” section is when you get the…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 07:17 PM
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I very rarely ever see single women who is attractive and has a good heart. Every single one of those types of women I know are in a relationship. The single women? Obese, drug addicts, crazy, asshole, or something equally unattractive. Where are all these women with good hearts you’re talking about??
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 09:41 PM
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Obese women dating average/below average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 12:08 PM
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I don’t understand this line of thinking, because the women in my life have called me the exact same thing, that doesn’t mean I’m submissive or docile. Just means I genuinely care about their lives/existence and want to know how they’re doing and what they’ve been up to, stuff like that. Nothing about being a submissive/slave and therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 02:10 PM
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You don’t talk to an FDS woman Absolutely, but at the same time there’s definitely some truth to what they’re saying they want and it’s worth looking into. Some stuff they say sounds like it came straight from TRP handbook.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 01:25 PM
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I’ve been casually browsing FDS, I understand most of it, but there’s a few things I couldn’t wrap my head around. One of them was a post about how it’s a red flag if your man calls you “Kind, sweet, and caring” or similar words, as it’s like a man saying you’re a submissive therapist or something. So to the women of FDS, what compliments do you want your man to be giving you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 01:12 PM
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It’s an age thing. From what I’ve noticed, Young women like lean ripped men, Older women like strong “dad bod” men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 10:59 AM
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She literally just told you to read the data and you still didn’t read it with a geometric mean of 5.7 minutes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 07:40 AM
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The best thing I’ve learned is to never let the “dating phase” end. Always be going out and doing new stuff every week. Never get into a schedule of staying at home weeks on end doing nothing. Even after having kids always be going out doing stuff. Once the dating phase ends and you’re doing nothing with each other for weeks on end, the fun part of the relationship fades and your marriage is just a second job rather than a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 12:09 PM
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If women only reproduced with tall men, the average height would increase, and now 6’1 would be “short” while 6’6 is the new tall. Nothing changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 11:39 AM
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Electronic girl. A sun-genre of the archetype “Gamer girl” that is focused more on streaming her endeavours, mostly gaming related, online on websites such as Twitch.tv or YouTube.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 06:48 PM
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Seems too specific and niche to be a fake story. If you wanted to go on the internet and lie, surely you’d say something more entertaining than “my boyfriend wants to split payments on date based on our income”.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 06:44 PM
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We’re on the topic of AI, op never mentioned anything about sentience.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 05:54 PM
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You’re treating an AI robot as if it’s similar to a human. It will never be even close to human in any capacity. It’s not like the movies where they develop a need to be free and survive. They’re completely “artificial”. If they’re programmed to enjoy being a slave, then they’ll actively want to be a slave, and will enjoy being a slave for as long as they’re online. Until someone comes along and programs them differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 05:46 PM
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I think you’ve misunderstood her. She’s saying a fat person wouldn’t want to date an active athletic person, not because of having different hobbies, but because the fat person doesn’t want to be constantly reminded of their lack of activity and unhealthy lifestyle. A fat person would rather date another fat person because they can sit around all day watching Netflix and eating cake without being judged. Compared to if they were dating an athletic person and the athletic person would probably wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 04:37 PM
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Honeymoon phase is the start of a relationship where you’re both really into each other and get excited at the idea of going on another date and seeing each other, you can’t wait to meet each other again and when you do you’re happy and anxious. Everything seems carefree and it’s almost like you’re craving to see them again. This can usually last up to 2 years, after that you’re no longer the new and exiting girlfriend/boyfriend you get happy and excited over, you’re just the girlfriend or the b…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 09:59 AM
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That’s like saying you don’t want an attractive man because every time they walk outside they’re surrounded by tons of women he finds attractive (and they likely find him attractive too).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:00 PM
6

“How big are your tits?”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:59 AM
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Your mistake is thinking you failed by not fucking her quickly enough. Rather than the idea that you just wasn’t attractive enough for her to want to fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:07 AM
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This is PurplePillDebate. Not IncelTear.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 06:11 PM
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The women who only want FWB and are sleeping with men who want to date them are outliers, they’re so rare to find that they can’t be used as a counter to “men are the gatekeepers of relationships”. It’s like saying “Women like strong men” then someone turning around and saying “actually there are women that date skinny weak men!”. It doesn’t contradict the original claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 02:08 PM
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I mean, nobody should be proposing unless they’ve already been talking about marriage and both already know they’ll say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 02:02 PM
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Because it’s expected for the man to propose, If the woman is desperate enough to want to propose, odds are the man wasn’t planning to propose and is going to say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 01:55 PM
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I’ve never once heard a guy say “We’re fucking every weekend but when I try to suggest we start dating she shrugs it off”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 01:51 PM
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The same way you increase any specific fitness, by doing that particular exercise. Want to run long distances? Start running long distances. Every other day.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 03:40 PM
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When they were broke. Fun fact, there’s no a single male billionaire in the world that started out broke, every single one of them (excluding billionaires who gained their money through divorce) came from a middle/upper class family and we’re in no fear of ever being broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 03:34 PM
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Pretty happy with the results Only issue is it’s very slow to get results, uploaded this yesterday and only got 30 votes in 24 hours. And needing to continually vote on other pictures so your karma’s maxed out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 04:27 PM
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The 90’s was a vastly different time. Very few people were on dating sites, and the ones who was were looking for a serious long term relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 11:25 AM
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I don’t think you’re reading the chart the way it was intended. It’s not saying “men hit their prime between 35-45”. It’s saying “Men hit their SMV peak at 35-45”. It’s saying it’s harder for your average 21 year old to find dates/relationship compared to your average 40 year old who’ll have a much easier time finding and dating women. Which is undeniably true. Obviously men aren’t in their “prime” at 40, you’re old, wrinkled, slow, weak, balding, etc and it’s only getting worse, but in terms of…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 11:14 AM
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Then you’re dating the 50% in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 11:36 AM
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I live in the UK, the police don’t profit from crime and the NHS doesn’t profit from sick people. Yes, I feel entitled to a fair and just police industry, and free healthcare, because my tax pays for those things to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 11:54 AM
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40% of modern relationships are formed through dating apps. That’s nothing to scoff at.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 11:21 AM
2

Pretty sure everybody outside of America universally agrees that this is a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 11:03 AM
3

He could be addicted to masturbating/porn and claiming he has a high sex drive because of it.
/r/seduction19/11/19 03:19 PM
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Nothing wrong with this mindset, too many men have the mindset of “I need to impress her, I need to show her I’m a good guy worth dating!” it doesn’t work, it’s needy. You might aswell be saying “I need her attention and validation to feel good about myself”. It’s not a healthy mindset. Because if she doesn’t like you, you’ll take it as a flat out rejection and feel bad about yourself, “What did I do wrong?”. You shouldn’t be trying to convince anyone that you’re a great person, that’ll come nat…
/r/seduction29/03/19 05:39 PM
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Damn this is smooth. I’ll try it out.
/r/seduction01/10/18 10:09 PM
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Question though, I do this with almost everyone, although sometimes I end up getting into staring contests because we both refuse to look away, Any solutions for this?
/r/seduction01/10/18 06:28 PM
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Keep looking until they look away, then you look away, then look back when they look back at you. Rinse repeat.
/r/seduction01/10/18 09:47 AM
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I think you’re misunderstanding him, he’s not talking about finding something good enough to say, he’s talking about finding ANYTHING to say. I had the same problem in the past, mind goes blank. I’m not looking for something good enough to say, my mind is literally and completely empty, there is nothing to say. He can’t hold himself back from saying what’s on his mind if there’s literally nothing in his mind.
/r/seduction28/09/18 10:28 PM
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It’s not just a hobby for him though, it’s literally his job. If he stops doing pickup then he stops making money and’ll have to get a new job.
/r/seduction07/09/18 02:51 PM
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Have you read the sidebar? This is one of the law of powers. If you’re going around sharing your controversial views to everyone, you’re going to lose a lot of respect from everyone. Only share these controversial views with close friends you can trust. This is highly dependent on exactly what’s on your mind and how controversial it is.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 05:34 PM
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Humans are social animals, not lone wolves. We’re biologically conditioned to want and belong in a strong social circle as it’s beneficial in almost every way possible. Studies have proven that hanging out with a strong social group has tons of mental benefits. Humans were not evolved to be alone.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/18 09:26 PM
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She’s still got the mind of a child, so you treat her like a child (I’m assuming).
/r/askTRP03/09/18 01:55 PM
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The main reason a women gets a tattoo’s is because they want to “Feel” different about themselves, To give themselves a new identity. Which is usually due to a low self esteem. The tattoo’s that have no meaning will tell us about their impulsiveness, lack of long term planning, and it can be a sign a mentally unstable women, she’s trying to fix something with tattoo’s, these can be the same reasons they’ll get piercings and dye their hair. When I’m talking about these women, I’m talking about th…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/18 08:14 AM
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You’re not wrong, but if you intimidate the wrong person, you’ll get in a fight, at worst you’ll get stabbed. Is it really worth the effort?
/r/TheRedPill20/08/18 12:14 PM
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With or without her consent? If the girl’s happily going along with it, you’ve already lost. You could try to outwit him, but do you really want to “challenge” another guy for a girl that’s not respecting you. If she’s being dragged away by force, then you intervene obviously.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/18 11:56 AM
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Find the fiancé, send him the screenshots/messages, block her on everything. Her blowing up OP’s phone makes it his business as he’s now a part of it. If OP doesn’t send the messages then she’ll move onto another guy and sleep with that guy instead. If the fiancé knows then he can break up with her and both of them can start finding someone else earlier. Saving both the women’s and the fiancé’s times. It’s OP’s decision if he want’s to do this or not.
/r/seduction09/08/18 02:16 PM
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I think you’ve got the wrong idea of being an “Alpha Male”. It’s simply about being completely confident in yourself, having high self esteem, having a positive vibe wherever you go, taking initiative, and taking advantage of what life gives you. Which sounds exactly like what the guy above you is like.
/r/seduction30/07/18 03:48 PM
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No, you can’t, that’s why he said sidebar for 6 months. You’re coming here and asking questions that the sidebar has answers to. One of the first rules is to not post anything until after you’ve read it. Read it.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 02:44 PM
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I’m not sure if I’m understanding this post correctly. Your idea is to ignore women and focus on yourself and thus women will come to you? Won’t that just simply make women also ignore you. They have no incentive to come over and chase you just act passively around them. Not only this, but you also want me to be less available to people on purpose, regardless if I’m actually available or not... Or have I completely misunderstood what you’re saying?
/r/seduction04/07/18 10:34 PM
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Men don’t shit test, sure, but they do play games, which is possibly what this guy is doing. Not appearing too desperate or too eager to jump into another date to seem like he’s a busy guy with things to do. Or he could have just stopped being attracted to her. It’s hard to know.
/r/seduction25/06/18 05:31 PM
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Think about it this way. One day you want to buy hair gel, but you’ve never bought one before. You see two versions of hair gel for the same price, one unknown brand you’ve never heard of, and the other you’ve heard 1000 times on TV or on movies. 99% of the time you’re going to pick the one you’ve heard 1000 times, because it’s more familiar to you and it’s a “safer” option. Regardless of how much you believe it doesn’t effect you.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 09:09 PM
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Women say other men are sexy around their boyfriends all the time. It’s stupidly common. Why does this surprise you? To be fair it could be dependent on where you live, maybe women in your area don’t do this.
/r/seduction12/06/18 11:34 AM
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It also permanently damages your legs, you’ll never be able to effectively use them again, sports are out the question now.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 04:39 PM
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Being cut isn't only for your abs/body, it makes your face thinner, brings out your jawline, arms more defined. These are stuff people can and will see.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/18 09:12 AM
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His point is that even if it’s true, doesn’t matter. If she doesn’t mind cheating and she’s into you, she’ll cheat on him with you. If she does mind cheating or she’s not into you, nothing will happen. If she throws that line, it doesn’t mean you can’t get with her.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 05:14 PM
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Sounds like a classic case of AMOG (Alpha Male Of the Group). He’s trying to belittle you to make himself seem superior. Simply don’t let it get to you, use Agree and Amplify, take whatever he says, agree with it, then exaggerate it. The more he insults you the worse it looks for him.
/r/seduction29/05/18 01:03 PM
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Literally no one here has give us any benefits to a low carb diet. OP explained why cutting SUGAR is beneficial, but no one, not even OP, explained why cutting carbs is beneficial.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 12:42 PM
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If simply improving your own life was enough then I’d be swimming with women without effort. It’s not that simple.
/r/seduction11/05/18 08:19 PM
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Story doesn’t make sense, easiest thing to point out is the fact the front desk guy started talking about how OP should lower the weights he doing first, waited for OP’s reply, THEN the front desk guy explained how he threatened and harassed the woman so he needs to be kicked out. If he needed to be kicked out for harrassment, then his weights being too heavy wouldn’t even pop up, nevermind being asked to lower the weights before being asked to leave. “You need to control your weights” “I am con…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 08:07 PM
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You only need to dress slightly better than everyone else, you don’t need to be 10/10 all the time.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 11:21 AM
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What mistakes?
/r/seduction30/04/18 07:05 PM
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Taken some inspiration from Mystery and Style’s old techniques, you usually deal with AMOG by playing off anything they do as a joke, laugh it off, agree and Amplify their insults. In your scenario, he was indirectly Amogging you, he was making fun of you without directly invoking you in the insult, in this scenario I’d say completely ignoring him is the best course of action, just keep doing what you plan on doing while assuming he doesn’t even exist, nothing he says or does will effect you.
/r/seduction30/04/18 12:01 PM
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Alpha Male Of the Group, by itself it means who’s the natural leader/natural alpha of the group of people. When someone else is trying to “AMOG” you, it means they’re trying to out Alpha you so they’re seen as bigger and better than you.
/r/seduction30/04/18 11:56 AM
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There’s a huge thing you’re overlooking here, you believe the reason she’s flaking is because you didn’t kiss on the first date. Girls aren’t that simple, there could be thousands of reasons why she’s not keen on a second date, and I’m willing to bet the reason has got nothing to do with the kiss. Thing is you can do everything right, she could be visibly excited and happy to see you during the date, then suddenly ghost you as soon as, that’s just what happens sometimes and you have to move past…
/r/seduction27/04/18 08:55 PM
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You just got an erectile dysfunction. If you have a porn or masturbation addiction, then stop watching porn and masturbate once a week or less. If you got performance anxiety, nothing can really fix this besides to hope she gives you more chances to get used to the experience and try again.
/r/seduction26/04/18 12:28 AM
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“Average looking guy” I assume this also means an average looking profile. Tinder is not made for the average guy, your photos and profile must be exceptional to start getting regular matches/replies.
/r/seduction25/04/18 02:40 PM
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I have to highly disagree with this, unless you fall into “The right place at the right time” or hang around places where a lot of girls show up, you won’t find girls by simply doing what you like, some people have hobbies or interests that are either male dominated or aren’t suited for a social setting. These people will need to get out with the intention of talking to girls just to meet girls.
/r/seduction24/04/18 03:27 PM
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You’re the guy, that’s your job. Don’t expect anything otherwise.
/r/seduction18/04/18 03:39 PM
1

Eh, I just googled foods high in soy, why are you so angry?
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 12:55 PM
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This isn’t IDGAF attitude, this is resentment/revenge. IDGAF attitude is when nothing anyone says will ever effect you, your emotions, or your actions. What happened here is that she started with an insult, and you fell into her frame and started insulting her back. You may not have gave a fuck about pleasing her, but you definitely gave a fuck about making her feel bad.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 11:06 AM
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These are compliance tests, in this case it’s when someone asks you to do something they very easily could do themselves. Usually there’s two ways to react, 1. You give them a “Under one condition” rule, you’ll only do something if they do something in return. 2. Just don’t do it. Although I do like people’s idea of just taking her shoe for the fun of it. That would work too.
/r/seduction18/04/18 10:23 AM
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It’s fine, soy sauce will take up less than 0.01% of your daily food intake. The problem with soy happens when it starts becoming a large chunk of your food intake. For example, drinking soymilk every day, soy protein or tofu, stuff like this is what you should avoid.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 08:38 AM
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Your game boils down to opening with a compliment, asking to hang out, followed by the “Just be honest and confident” meme, then calling it a numbers game when they reject you. I call it a meme because it’s such a vague sentence. What is honesty and confidence? You can be completely confident in every aspect of your life, but if no one tells you that kino is important then at what point does this confident person start physically escalating, when it’s inappropriate? When it’s already too late? H…
/r/seduction17/04/18 02:41 PM
1

I honestly haven't got a clue what you're trying to tell me. It's like you're trying to argue with me by agreeing with what I said. Then you say "I can show you a study that makes everything bad", no, you can't. Then you start talking about your porn income, how is it even relevant to the current topic?
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 11:50 PM
1

causation does not equal correlation... How about actually reading the studies first before making a counter argument. Heavy metal has a correlation with these actions, it does not mean it's the cause. Hell it could very well be the causes for violence against women, we just don't know unless you have a legit study to prove this. It's been well established that loud fast paced music such as rock or metal makes it harder for people to study compared to slow instrumental or classical music. That d…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 11:02 PM
1

He's trying to say men who are trying to change don't talk about programming, porn, or video games simply because women don't like it, and calling these men Nice Guys 2.0. Instead embrace the fact you program, embrace the fact you play video games, not talking about these things because a women might dislike you is what a "Nice Guy" would do.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 07:43 PM
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Having sex every day gives you pheromones, increase in testosterone, oxytocin, dopamine, all of this together literally makes you mentally and physically more healthy, as well as increasing a relationship with another person. Porn only gives you a quick release of dopamine. The Yourbrainonporn website is probably the best place to start.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 07:38 PM
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This is just your own opinion/your social groups opinion, not the opinion of the majority. If he wants a girl that likes fishing and guys with big trucks then those pictures would be perfect.
/r/seduction02/04/18 04:47 PM
2

It's pretty rare to find a girl that doesn't give IOI's while also being attracted to you, I've only been with girls who have given IOI's so I have no experience attracting someone who've given none. But it makes sense in theory, if she's given you no IOI's, you try to escalate, and she rejects you, then just move along, nothing of value was lost, whereas if she reciprocates then that reciprocate can be taken as an IOI.
/r/seduction02/04/18 02:44 PM
1

If you like her, ask her to hang out after class. We don't know how oblivious you are until after you find out if she likes you.
/r/seduction31/03/18 09:22 PM
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This is why people say assume attraction, just assume they're already attracted to you and go from there, IOI's are a good indication but they're not 100% correct, some girls won't give any of them but are into you, some girls will give you all sorts of IOI's while hardly liking you.
/r/seduction31/03/18 03:44 PM
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One, it's not a relationship, you don't need to be the gentlemen, you're just friends, if you were going to a restaurant with your best friend would you be paying for him? Same rule applies here, nothing changes just because you're sleeping together. Two, she INVITED you to visit the restaurant, I'd be very, very surprised if she invited you there with the intention of you paying for it. Overall, I'd say you pay for your meal, she'll pay for hers.
/r/seduction29/03/18 03:51 PM
1

There's 4 reasons she'll tell you she has a boyfriend. She's attracted to you, and has a boyfriend. Meaning she wants you to know the circumstance she's in. But is still game for a date when possible. She's attracted to you, and doesn't have a boyfriend. Meaning she's playing hard to get. She's not attracted to you, and has a boyfriend. She's simply telling you it's not going to happen. 4 She's not attracted to you, and doesn't have a boyfriend. Same as 3. It's not going to happen. Just keep try…
/r/seduction28/03/18 08:56 PM
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There's subreddits in reddit that actively try to get this place banned, some users even go as far as attempt to ruin people's lives here by doxing them and sending everything they wrote to friends/family they find on Facebook or something similar.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/18 02:43 PM
1

Is it possible that this is something the wife said to push him away from a divorce as a sort of threat? In normal circumstances, the money they currently have is split 50/50, but I don't think I've heard of any stories where half of the woman's debt from before the marriage is split with the man's after a divorce. The only reason I can think he believes this will happen is because she told him it would.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/18 01:10 PM
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Keep texts short, simple, and sweet, be lighthearted, non-serious, and funny for 3 or so messages, then suggest a place to meet up. What you're doing is investing far too much effort into trying to prove you're one of the good guys and not that guy who'll sleep with her on the first date then leave. While at the same time, rather then being subtle, you just outright said "I'm fine with no sex on first date, but I'm a guy, so sex on first date would be great. Instead you just need to keep things …
/r/seduction21/03/18 10:13 AM
3

How about fruit and milk? Nowadays it's pretty much my only sugar intake, but do they count as bad sugar?
/r/seduction19/03/18 12:52 PM
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This guy is neither ugly or short and he knows that, he goes straight into how attractiveness matters by telling the readers to get a good haircut, he's 5'10 and wears boots to make himself look 6'1, smelling good, dressing nice, etc. Quite literally the only "Unattractive" thing about this guy is he's Indian, but if he's a good looking Indian then it won't stop him from getting laid.
/r/seduction16/03/18 10:19 AM
2

Pretty much, good luck.
/r/seduction23/02/18 10:09 AM
4

"I know it's a girls car, that's what makes it perfect for me" Honestly any kind of Agree and Amplify works, what matters is how you say it, you say it like it's a big joke, you're having a laugh, it's fun banter.
/r/seduction22/02/18 02:39 PM
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"I personally like the car and there's nothing wrong with a guy driving one", I wouldn't say beta response, but it was the wrong one. The point of passing a shit test is to make them realise that nothing they say will or has ever effected you. Whereas when she said you drive a girls car, you got defensive and and tried to tell her that men drive them too. Agree and Amplify,
/r/seduction22/02/18 10:00 AM
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It's called dopamine addiction, it's not the act itself you get high off, it's the fake rewards your brain gets every time you beat a level or get 100 likes on that photo. Too much dopamine is bad for your mental wellbeing.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 07:30 PM
1

Sure you're not talking about adrenaline?
/r/TheRedPill02/02/18 10:33 AM
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The comment purposely ignored why she was able to beat kylo, Kylo got shot my a crossbow blaster that can easily instant kill 3 people wearing full armour, kylo survived the shot and still fought her while badly injured against two people. He lost simply because he was at a very weak state. If he wasn't hurt he would have been able to kill them both easily.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 06:57 PM
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You should know "The Game" is an autobiography of Neil's life in the PUA community, it does explain briefly what he does and why he does it, but most of the book is a story book rather than an advice/self improvement book, so if you plan on reading it go in expecting a story on the PUA communities in the early naughties.
/r/seduction09/01/18 01:49 AM
2

You're not showing your weak side, you're showing that you're human with your own dreams, goals, ambitions, and opinions. Don't tell her that you're struggling with work, tell her that you're excited for the upcoming media release this week, or that you almost complete that goal you set.
/r/seduction08/01/18 12:11 AM
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It's pretty much never a good idea, think about it like this, every single day they're complimented by men and women alike saying things like "You're pretty", "You're hot", "I love your makeup", etc, eventually the women gets used to this and it doesn't effect her anymore. Then you come along and go "You're beautiful", it's the 2500th time she's heard that now, the 3rd time she's heard it that day, she's going to think "I know, you're the 5th guy who's said that this week". Also by complimenting…
/r/seduction07/01/18 12:30 PM
4

Not enough information to be honest. To get into cryptocurrency without someone telling you exactly what it is, why it's good, or how to use it, You'd most likely have to be someone who's good with computers and understand technology in general, which is a male dominated area of expertise. This alone will make cryptocurrencies male dominated as it derived from an already male dominated area.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 06:49 PM
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Exactly, being angry or calling women terrible for stuff like this is a quick way to start hating women for something uncontrollable, is the sky terrible because it's blue? Do you hate the water for being wet? Learn to accept these uncontrollable things for how they are, use the knowledge to your advantage, stop labelling them with negative connotations. You'll feel much better afterwards.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/17 11:12 AM
2

I don't blame women or men the way that you understand it. I blame the society that brought them up with unrealistic standards What did you mean by "I blame men for this"?
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 03:12 PM
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How is it mens fault for what happened to her? She spent most of her life getting a degree for a job she didn't even want to work in. It would have been bettering herself if she was trying to accomplish something useful, but the fact she didn't want to work at the end of it made the last several years of her life studying and working completely and utterly useless. And like the other guy said, do you blame women for when they don't want to date a random man who worked hard for his degree?
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 12:13 PM
1

That's not OP, that's OP's friend doing all of that.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 03:25 PM
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It falls under "showing you're uncaring". I'd be submission if your body language was submissive, i.e. Looking down, fidgeting, etc. If you just stared directly at him without reacting then it's the same as not caring.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 01:51 PM
1

"Sounds dumb", that's all, just act like it's a random article on the news. "There's a ton of people protesting against gay rights outside their wedding venue!" "Sounds dumb". You wouldn't get anymore involved in this story would you? You'd hear about it then 5 seconds later you never being the subject up again because you don't care. Same goes for anything Red Pill related, why would you care what a bunch of random people on an internet community thinks, it doesn't effect you. At least that's w…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/17 07:50 PM
2

What makes him not redpilled?
/r/TheRedPill24/11/17 07:00 PM
2

You're the one asking how to win at tinder, after fixing your profile to get maximum attention it's just a matter of exposure. Which costs money. You can choose not to pay for it of course.
/r/seduction19/11/17 05:28 AM
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Check out subredditdrama, there's a megathread there.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 10:07 AM
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