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| 18 | [FR] Day Game, insta-date, #close | Do_you_even_thrift | /r/seduction | 24/03/13 05:57 AM |
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| 3 | Does anyone else find it fascinating that we have forums, websites, books, classes, consultants, etc on how to pick up women/make them interested in you, but none of these things seem to be necessary for women to pick up men? Why do you think that is?Holy. Crap. All of you clowns are over thinking all of this. The picture you have in your mind is a hot girl... who has made herself desirable by doing or saying nothing. How about when a girl has a crush on a guy who doesn't notice her? Work has to be done there. | /r/seduction | 26/06/13 03:31 AM |
| 2 | Why is it that my failures affect me the most and not my successes?What do you think would have a larger effect on you... Finding an envelope on the street with $1000 cash with no strings attached, or finding out that you lost $1000? The joy of the winning would go away before the sting of the loss dude. | /r/seduction | 24/06/13 05:04 AM |
| 2 | Can you trust a good looking PUA's advice?I just skimmed through the first video with the sound off. Just watch the interaction via body language | /r/seduction | 20/06/13 04:04 PM |
| 11 | [FR] I got blown out soooo badly today doing daygame, a must readWasn't the end of the world, right? Going to live? Just keep going. Try this one: (Stop in front of girl) "Excuse me"... "Yes?" "What are you doing right now?" "I.. er... shopping... why?" "Lets go to the food court and get coffee. | /r/seduction | 14/06/13 04:09 AM |
| 6 | A simple tip given to me by a friend, works wonders.This is a perfect example of what reddit is. "Yo I'm trying to learn to pick up girls but remember that time in counterstrike?" | /r/seduction | 14/06/13 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Gaming on clubbing islands/resorts such as Ibiza, Zante, Ayia Napa, CancunIve been to Cancun on SB. Its awesome. However... the GUARDS WILL NOT LET YOU BRING GIRLS BACK. meet them early... shower them with gifts. DO NOT HAVE SEX ON THE BEACH. LET ME REPEAT THAT. DO NOT HAVE SEX ON THE BEACH. In Cancun, anyway... people wait there for people to come have sex, and steal their clothes... wallets... etc. Otherwise... just whip your dick out of your pants and go up to girls and say... "well?" You'll get a catch quickly. However... if a girl is gonna jump on that quickly, w… | /r/seduction | 10/06/13 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Learning to dance?Is dancing fun to you? If no... start there. I love EDM, and dance in my room by myself all the time. Take one hour and learn some easy moves of songs that you'll hear at every type of party... (Gangnam style, Cotten Eye'd Joe... ) and then have fun while you're doing it. If you aren't having fun, pretend. I have no fucking idea how to dance, but at a wedding two months ago, I was drunkenly dancing like a retard and was offered a job as a motivator by the DJ. He said something along the lines th… | /r/seduction | 10/06/13 05:21 AM |
| 2 | I've been dating a girl for a bit now but how do I not seem needy and fuck this up?Make sure that you keep doing the things that make you awesome, whatever they are. Yes, talk to other girls, and yes, let her do her own thing too... but make sure that you keep developing yourself as an individual. She liked you for a reason... keep that in mind. | /r/seduction | 29/05/13 03:34 AM |
| 1 | Targets keep saying, essentially, "I bet you say that to every girl." What do!?make light of it. Say something that diffuses the situation. You have a few options: such as, agree with her and say something ridiculous like... I try even harder when I'm trying to make guy friends. Or- neg her. Be like... oh man, getting a little ahead of ourselves aren't we here? We're just chatting and you're sizing me up for sex already? I had a situation like this when I picked up a girl on the train. She said to me... "So do you always buy drinks for girls you meet on the train?" My resp… | /r/seduction | 16/05/13 04:05 AM |
| 2 | life after seduction: what problems have you encountered?Some of my relationships with my guy friends are based primarily around sexual conquests. | /r/seduction | 14/05/13 04:33 AM |
| 2 | The key to mastering the game in five wordsThats true with a lot of important things... (ex. diet and exercise.) Hopefully more people realize this. | /r/seduction | 14/05/13 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Why are woman attracted to confidence?Don't overthink it. You are also attracted/pulled to confident people. It is a trait we associate with success | /r/seduction | 05/05/13 05:54 AM |
| 2 | But what about Susie?! how to deal with this? shit test?I had this exact situation save one changed detail, that the girl thought that I had hu with Susie the night before I brought Sally to my formal. Sally drunkenly asked me what about her, and it sounds terrible but I used it to my advantage. Just be honest. I said, "Listen, we're just friends, and while we have hooked up in the past, its been a while. But I wanted you here with me tonight, and not her." | /r/seduction | 03/05/13 03:11 AM |
| 4 | Guys with good gamehah you suggested backhandedly she suffers from Dunning Kruger | /r/seduction | 27/04/13 01:10 AM |
| 6 | Went in for the kiss with a girl I have known for a while. Rejected....but, I feel OKeither a witty art major or needs to try the whole "education" thing again^ | /r/seduction | 17/04/13 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Scheduled second date at my house. Attraction was definitely built, no issues so far. She was a no-show. No call, text, nothing. What do?I don't know that I could just let it go. Maybe its my AFC-age... or just my sense of general manners, but I'd text her and say something to the extent of, "I'm disappointed that you stood me up without a decency of a call or a text. I had expected more." | /r/seduction | 11/04/13 02:05 PM |
| 1 | I'm Hilarious to the girls I've consciously made a decision not to pursue, boring to the ones I'm consciously trying to pursue (IMO) - how do I act the same every time?I have a similar problem dude... and what I find is this. Its not that you're dependent of the outcome... but you're dependent of the response. You think humor is one of the things that makes you unique and attractive, and if you dont say something funny... then you fucked up. I realized this when someone once described me as "having the ability to start a two way conversation with a pole"... yet sometimes i would go up to a girl and have nothing to say. "How could I not have anything to say?" i… | /r/seduction | 07/04/13 05:55 AM |
| 6 | [FR] 'Friend' cockblocks me, I take home a different girl in front of the original girleither hes a jackass... or he's the best wingman ever dude. He made you leave a sure thing and pursue another girl you were trying to hook up with. At this point, Molly will fuck you anyway. 2 for 2. | /r/seduction | 07/04/13 05:46 AM |
| 2 | I think I'm in the right area.Turn it this way. You're 6'3'' with an interesting complexion. Did you ever think that they would be intimidated to talk to you? | /r/seduction | 03/04/13 03:35 PM |
| 2 | Any modifications to any of the advice here if a 40 year old is pursuing a 30 year old?I think the principles are going to stay the same. This woman is still going to want someone that adds something to her life, has high value, etc. However, the application of those principles would change I would imagine. The way in which you would try to pick up a woman at 40 is going to be different than me at 22. So, you need to demonstrate your value differently. You're 40, if she's talking to you already, she has some interest in your maturity and whatnot. Play those things up. | /r/seduction | 03/04/13 03:23 PM |
| 4 | A simpler version of the HB[0-10] scalego binary dude. 1:Yes. 0: No | /r/seduction | 03/04/13 04:56 AM |
| 5 | [FR] Day Game, insta-date, #closeI bought her the first round... and she's like.. "Buying a drink for a girl you just met? I could be crazy." I responded... Oh, you are... I can tell. Its fine. I'll let it go for now. Second one.. "So... do you always go get drinks with girls you pick up on the train? Me... Yep. All the time. I actually just take it back and forth, and wait. Why do you ask? | /r/seduction | 25/03/13 03:58 AM |
| 1 | [fr] first date, felt friendzoned, now what?This. hahahah | /r/seduction | 24/03/13 05:40 AM |
| 1 | There's one hang up I've yet to conquer after years of being on seddit. I'm a virgin...anxiety is preventing me from overcoming this.Own it dude. Tell her. I'm a virgin. Its important to me that when I have sex... I want to enjoy the experience and feel good about it afterwards. If you can't accept that, then its fine. Pro-tip- Learn how to put on a condom before the moment comes. | /r/seduction | 23/03/13 05:53 PM |
| 1 | There's one hang up I've yet to conquer after years of being on seddit. I'm a virgin...anxiety is preventing me from overcoming this.haha. Have you read mark manson's honest to god std guide? | /r/seduction | 23/03/13 05:51 PM |
| 0 | Father trying to intimidate me...Um.... Understand where he's coming from? He's obviously protective of her which is fine... Just roll with the punches. Be respectful. That's it. You need to show him that you respect him... AND that you aren't a pussy. Bc as much as he wants to intimidate you... He doesn't want is daughter with someone.e who couldn't protect her either | /r/seduction | 21/03/13 07:25 PM |
| 9 | I'm trying to find a certain anti-"lets just be friends" response. Help me out please?Ooo... Friends. I'm not sure if I'm ready for that level of commitment... | /r/seduction | 18/03/13 04:32 AM |
| 10 | People here need to STOP bashing routinesDOES ANYONE WANT TO DIRECT ME TO A PAGE OF YOUR FAVORITES? | /r/seduction | 18/03/13 03:26 AM |
| 2 | I've got great social skills, but they disappear in front of a girl I'm actually attracted too.I feel your pain dude. People talk about the abundance mentality... but its more specific than that. Pulling women and pulling those you really want to pull can unfortunately be different. Abundance mentality insofar as if you don't get this one there is one hotter is one thing... but insofar as another one instead of her will lead you to settle. | /r/seduction | 18/03/13 03:25 AM |
| 1 | I've got great social skills, but they disappear in front of a girl I'm actually attracted too.^ hahah. This | /r/seduction | 18/03/13 03:23 AM |
| 4 | A retired PUA's two cents.I can dude. Going through it right now. Its not that you cant appreciate the girl... but you've become so hard wired about not giving a shit about the situation or what she or anyone else thinks of you that you can't open yourself up sometimes. Also... its hardwired in you to talk to girls all of the time, and that can certainly make your SO or potential one jealous. | /r/seduction | 16/03/13 05:52 AM |
| 2 | Advice on how to pick up girls while THEY are at work?If it didn't... I wouldn't have posted. :) | /r/seduction | 16/03/13 05:40 AM |
| 3 | Advice on how to pick up girls while THEY are at work?Picked up a girl working retail at a store. Asked an innocuous question about a pair of pants to start a conversation. Got a banter going. Wrote my # and name down on a piece of paper... and when she was talking to another customer... I went over and said..."excuse me, you dropped this" and put it in her hand and walked away. | /r/seduction | 14/03/13 05:27 AM |
| 2 | What's the best first text after giving someone your number?Hey, I just met you.... and this is crazy.... has yet to fail me. | /r/seduction | 14/03/13 05:20 AM |
| 0 | How do I open in a restaurant?Dude. Tic Tac Toe is Brilliant. | /r/seduction | 12/03/13 04:34 AM |
| 1 | At what point should the study of seduction be discarded?When you say seduction is about attracting people... You haven't quite hit the nail on the head. Are you seducing people for the sake of seducing them... Or are you doing it for your response to the external validation? | /r/seduction | 06/03/13 07:05 PM |
| 6 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 3/4/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Just take the seat next to her and say hi. Wall of text not necessary. | /r/seduction | 05/03/13 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Going out this weekend, going to use girl I like as a wingwomen. Tips/Advice?It depends on her personality type... it could be a win win for you. Allow me to elaborate. Scenario A: You guys are talking the whole time, being buddy buddy and she helps you pick up girls. She's already half doing her job by simply talking to you... and women are a great way to pick up women. So now what happens? You either, A: hook up with a girl that your friend set you up with. You have a great time, hook up with her, and thank your friend. B.Your friend gets jealous of whats going on and … | /r/seduction | 19/02/13 09:54 PM |
| 1 | I made out with the hottest girl I've ever made out with last night.Be direct. "I'm doing this super cool awesome thing in a few days, we should grab some lunch beforehand and do this super cool awesome thing together." The key here is not only the directness, but you have other super cool awesome plans... so she has something to gain by hanging out with you because you are super cool and awesome because you do super cool and awesome things. Or there's the strategy of get blackout drunk and text her at 2am trying to initiate sex. Sometimes, you have to run the b… | /r/seduction | 19/02/13 06:47 AM |
| 3 | [FR] report from the other side- girl meeting a PUAThank you. Some of our keyboard warriors have missed that point. | /r/seduction | 14/02/13 03:27 PM |
| 12 | Mature, alpha way to respond to "just friends"?Friends? Ooh man. I'm not sure that I'm ready for that level of commitment... We just met! | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Go for sorority girl??Retired frat star here. Do it. Ask her out or invite her to something. Itll be so out of the ordinary for her that she may love it. Rotating the same groups of guys and getting drunk in our basements does get boring to them believe it or not. | /r/seduction | 29/01/13 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Transitioning from college student to full time employee: Where are the women?Get involved in stuff outside of your work so that you expand your social circle. If you're a gym go-er... maybe you can get yourself into a yoga class? Make friends with the people in it... even older women... they would love to set you up with friend's daughters, haha. But seriously, expand your social circle. Learn how to do something cool, while meeting cool people that share that interest. | /r/seduction | 29/01/13 03:40 AM |
| 1 | Quantity vs. Quality. Given a finite amount of time and energy, how does one determine the number of sexual partners one has at once?most definitely. | /r/seduction | 25/01/13 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Quantity vs. Quality. Given a finite amount of time and energy, how does one determine the number of sexual partners one has at once?I like what blackberry said here.... he has a definition for himself... I also like how he played your analogy. My reaction to what you said to me was what society says. Nature says that we should be spreading our seed as far and wide as possible, but for the most part, society preaches monogamy. But, with what everyone else on this website says, fuck what this person and that person says, you have to be happy. I think that that last part is the most important. When I was sleeping wiht two women… | /r/seduction | 25/01/13 05:42 AM |
| 1 | Quantity vs. Quality. Given a finite amount of time and energy, how does one determine the number of sexual partners one has at once?Nobody can answer that for you but you. I've done both, and at different parts of my life different ones worked for me. Sometimes I had 3-4 women i was sleeping with consistently, while still trying to pick up others, and at other points I had a girl I was exclusively hooking up with. Sometimes I'd feel bad about cycling the women bc I felt it was dishonest... I never lied to any of them and told them I wanted anything more than I did... so that would assuage the guilt, but sometimes I felt dirt… | /r/seduction | 25/01/13 04:22 AM |
| 6 | What are some of the most unbelievable closes you've ever pulled off?this. Had a party at my place where I was really bold and went for it. She said no, I didnt think anything of it. Three months later, i had another party.. she ended up there ( she was a guest of one of my roommates' friends). we were heading out of my house towards downtown, when I go up to my room and she's sitting on my bed. I look at her puzzled and am like, uh... hello, what are you doing? (we hadnt spoken all night save exchanging pleasantries) and she responds with, "I should have done th… | /r/seduction | 22/01/13 03:52 AM |
| 2 | Common shit tests you can use you women? Share your own!I go up to a girl... look her dead in the eye... and say... I'LL NEVER FORGIVE YOU. then walk away. | /r/seduction | 19/01/13 05:17 AM |
| 5 | For the PUA artists that have become *good* at the game thanks to the PUA community: has your personality changed?I am proud of who I am now, but not proud of how I got here. Went to college a virgin, out of shape, balding... was the type that could command a room easily however, told I have a voice for tv/radio. I went to college, thinking that I would start to get with women all the time, since it happened in movies. To nobody's surprise but my own, it didnt. I wasnt hooking up with anyone... and when I did, she was a zero on the binary scale. HB-1 . I got pissed, and got in shape... Decided that I was go… | /r/seduction | 19/01/13 05:07 AM |
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