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| 3 | Most guys don't like fake nails or heavy makeup. Guys, what do you do "for yourself" even though you know women find it unattractive?Yeah, that wouldn't have been a problem with me. I struck out so much. But I'm also a short (5'7") Asian-American guy with no "game". Things might have been different if I didn't have those "handicaps". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 11:22 PM |
| 7 | Most guys don't like fake nails or heavy makeup. Guys, what do you do "for yourself" even though you know women find it unattractive?I'm guessing you're a man too? I know very few women who give a damn about a guy's lats but a shit ton of dudes who would lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 11:07 PM |
| 8 | It is valid that women dont want to engage in relationships with men anymoreThe sub says that there are 114k members total. Let's say that all of them were men. That's still an exceedingly low number of the Reddit-browsing population that is male. Outside of this sub (and most likely, outside of Reddit) there are plenty of men who aren't whining about not being able to get sex, have relationships, or who aren't putting down women. The problem with Internet communities is that they are far from representative. Like-minded people cluster around certain subs and their numb… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 07:47 PM |
| 22 | Most guys don't like fake nails or heavy makeup. Guys, what do you do "for yourself" even though you know women find it unattractive?I used to be very shredded (like 7% body fat). Here is a pic of Ronaldo around that much: https://pbs.twimg.com/media/DaKcnIiXUAAX8nm?format=jpg&name=large Sure, some women were attracted to that, but I looked way too thin for some and other women saw me being that fit as a red flag, as if I only wanted to PnD them. In retrospect, instead of gymming, I think I could have had a better dating experience if I worked more on my social skills, presentation (fashion wise), and been more interesting. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 07:19 PM |
| – | How do women honestly feel about guys that are genuinely going about improving themselves but still can’t get laid?I know some women in the same boat as these guys. These women are low-maintenance, agreeable and kind, interesting/funny, not gold diggerish (some make good money and pay for dates even!), great at cooking, and flirty/kinky. Perfect wife material if not for the face, body, and/or kid. They usually get nothing or are just PnD'd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 10:50 AM |
| 6 | My prediction: Ukrainian men have lost, even if they win.When has there ever been a 'boom' in a failed ex-soviet state? Russia simply won't allow it. If Russia loses, why would this be relevant? The only reason ex-soviet states fail is because they hold onto or inherit Soviet-era practices and institutions, which a New Ukraine is unlikely to do. If Ukraine prevails, there will likely be some sort of Western reconstruction plan and security presence in the area, much like Western Europe or Japan after WW2, and look at those countries now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 05:05 PM |
| 4 | You must pick oneAlso, gotta have that sloppy toppy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 04:37 PM |
| 6 | Study: “Women who are regular exposed to semen are less depressed”I read somewhere that LGBTQ+ depression rates are higher than the rest of the population... does that mean it's mostly the LBTQ+ then? Yes, I got your joke. This is mine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/22 08:49 PM |
| 6 | Study: “Women who are regular exposed to semen are less depressed”Found the actual study. Have at it, folks. http://www.roslyndakin.com/biol210/wp-content/uploads/2012/09/2002Gallupetal.pdf Will edit this post with my critique. EDIT: I see a flaw already. The study does not seem to control for factors outside of relationships and sex - you know, important things like "work/income", "religious affiliation", "social support", "race", "housing/living situation", "academic performance", etc, which can have a confounding effect on happiness and/or whether you cho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/22 08:16 PM |
| 6 | What happens when people "give up"?Me currently at 35: Well shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 04:17 AM |
| 2 | Would you prefer to have a single monogamous sexual relationship for your entire life with somebody you loved but only found moderately attractive. Or would be prefer to have an endless supply of causal sex with people you found extremely attractive but never formed an emotional bound with?35M here and in a similar position. Ever heard about that University professor who took up doing porn after his wife of 10+ years cheated on him? He was like, "If I can't have love, I might as well have the sex." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 05:05 PM |
| 4 | Which famous person do you think best represents “highly attractive” and “completely average” in a purely physical sense?Attractive female: Milana Vayntrub, Monica Bellucci (2000's era), Rashida Jones Average female: Megan Schumer (slim), Oprah Winfrey (late 90's era), Rosie Perez Attractive male: Brad Pitt (2000's), Henry Cavill, Michael B. Jordan Average male: Kevin Hart, Benedict Cumberbatch (I know I'll get hate for this one), Nicholas Cage EDIT: I think the crux of the problem is no one wants someone with just "average" looks. I am an average guy but popular media says that a few refinements in my mannerisms … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 03:45 PM |
| 8 | Which famous person do you think best represents “highly attractive” and “completely average” in a purely physical sense?Emma Watson, Mila Kunis, and Aubrey Plaza are average? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 03:13 PM |
| 2 | Which famous person do you think best represents “highly attractive” and “completely average” in a purely physical sense?Height: 5' 5" And I think that's being generous. If he was a regular guy, he'd get a swipe left 99% of the time if his height's on the profile. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Why do modern studies show that men have more sexual partners than women.HA! That actually works out well at my workplace. There are a total of 10 guys at my workplace, and 2 of them are always talking about the best place to pick up sex workers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 11:15 AM |
| 1 | Women, what do you think the average man's dating life looks like?I likely know maybe one or two men who have never had any relationship at all. How well did you know them? Did you actually meet their ex's? Sometimes I wonder how many were 100% honest. As an average-looking shy guy in his 30's who hasn't had much luck with dating or relationships, when acquaintances, co-workers, etc ask me about my relationship history, I play it up a bit so I don't look like a freak of nature. For instance, when my 20-something female co-worker asked me when my last date was,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 09:04 PM |
| 1 | There's two ways to get women to have more children, the carrot and the stick, which is a better plan?Is some kinda "stick" like policies necessary to avoid a population crash? Or is there some better way to do things that wouldn't be so harsh on women? IMO, no. Population crashes are problematic because of the economic consequences. Immigration and/or automation can address those consequences. Right now, there are a LOT of labor shortages in unskilled and low-skill labor, which can be addressed if the political will was there. But if you want population for the sake of population, I think the c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/22 02:07 PM |
| 2 | Scientific Proof of Alpha Fucks / Beta BucksTaking a study with less than 50 people, then using it to say "women will cheat when they're ovulating so they should be aware that their feelings are tricking them", just screams poor scientific credibility. Sadly, it seems like this is happening all too often in academia nowadays - the relentless pursuit for "results" and publication than scientific soundness. And I'm ashamed that this is coming from my alma mater too (I am a Bruin). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Scientific Proof of Alpha Fucks / Beta BucksThis. The study was only 38 women from ONE unidentified college campus. Yet it's being used to draw conclusions ostensibly about all sexually active women. Hell, if those 38 women came from the same residential hall or sorority, I doubt you could even use it to make generalizations about all women on campus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 01:06 AM |
| 1 | [Q4All]Do you think it’s possible to be unsuccessful in romance/dating and be happy/ok with it?IMO guys who say this may not express their anger publicly or write long rants on Reddit but I would bet my paycheck that when they lay their heads down at night and finish jerking off to that same video they have been jerking to since HS the resentment is there. There’s no way it isn’t. Especially when you are obsessed with sex. You got hundreds of pictures and hours of porn on your computer you jerk off twice a day but I’m supposed to believe you’re not salty you’re not participating ? Get out… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 09:54 AM |
| 7 | Bill Maher's recent comments on toxic masculinityDepends what he means by "actor". Zelensky, prior to his career in politics, was an actor and comedian. If he means that Zelensky is faking being in Ukraine during an invasion, then yes, he's probably off in the deep end. If he means that he has stage presence and knows how to play up his image and make his balls look even bigger, then no, that's totally reasonable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 01:20 AM |
| 1 | [Q4M] Think of the least conventionally attractive girl that youve dated and were serious with, describe her, and what qualities did she have that made up for her looks that made you want to date?I once had a thing with a girl who had at least 100 pounds on me. She had a pretty face, was very sweet and caring of people when in a good mood, and when she was into sex, she was really into it. It lasted less than 6 months. Never thought of taking it further than FWB, but we ended it because the FWB arrangement started to be more difficult as our lives changed and differences emerged. We got physical from Day 1. She initiated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/19 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Normal, well adjusted young women do not go for older men or significant age gap relationships.Well, you're out 100 credits then. He's also Asian American. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/19 07:48 AM |
| 2 | Normal, well adjusted young women do not go for older men or significant age gap relationships.1 and 3 possible. Definitely not 2. She was born and raised in the West. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/19 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Normal, well adjusted young women do not go for older men or significant age gap relationships.From pics I've seen, nope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/19 10:58 PM |
| 8 | Normal, well adjusted young women do not go for older men or significant age gap relationships.They're both physicians though? I don't know if there are any other distinctions attached to them (ex. like him being on the board of directors for a hospital or something). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/19 10:57 PM |
| 2 | Normal, well adjusted young women do not go for older men or significant age gap relationships.Also Asian American. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/19 10:55 PM |
| 23 | Normal, well adjusted young women do not go for older men or significant age gap relationships.Fair point. She's first gen Asian-American so that's a valid explanation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/19 03:18 PM |
| 60 | Normal, well adjusted young women do not go for older men or significant age gap relationships.I knew a UMC or LUC Asian-American girl who finished med school at 26 and was a 8+/10 in the looks department. She married a balding, 38 year old physician who's a 5/10 on a good day, which surprised us a lot, because going of her past boyfriends (2 in college and a few dates. All were 1-2 years of her age and were at least a 7 in looks), we figured she could have any guy she wanted. I don't know exactly how they met or why she married him, but I don't think she married for money because she is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/19 02:47 PM |
| 2 | Men's problems are the fault of men, Women's problems are the fault of societyI think the whole idea that women's problems stem from society has something to do with most societies being patriarchal in nature. As such, societies tend to adopt policies and views that are primarily based on a male perspective of how things should be, or at the very least, consider the male perspective more thoroughly. What this results in is women's perspectives and agendas being underrepresented in social policy overall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/19 10:17 PM |
| 2 | Men's problems are the fault of men, Women's problems are the fault of society“Deadbeat” moms just abort their kids 🤷🏻♂️ Can't be a mom if you abort them in utero. (taps side of head) But in all seriousness, I think a man should be able to waive his parental rights and obligations if the mother decides to go to full term. A man would only be held accountable as a parent if he knows about his partner's pregnancy and does not file the waiver paperwork prior to the abortion deadline. Of course in the United States, I don't think this will happen any time soon as the courts … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/19 10:06 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill theory is extremely Americanised, and thus not really useful if you are from somewhere else.Right now, my main hunting grounds are Poland, Ukraine, Italy and Germany. What I noticed is that good Game is extremely potent, far more than mere looks. Are you speaking from first-hand experience or just observational? If only the former, you may be getting the "exotic foreigner" bonus, which adds a few points to your attractiveness (but that often makes a huge difference). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/19 04:14 PM |
| 1 | [Discussion] SMP in countries with low levels of wealth disparity but high HDIOut of curiosity, what country are you from? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/19 10:03 PM |
| 2 | Women are’t less violent; they're simple weakerEither that, or male physiology is more capable of attenuating excess T's effects than female physiology, which is plausible since women are more sensitive to testosterone than men are (according to Wikipedia). In other words, a woman whose body produces 10% more T than the female norm could have drastically more aggressive behavior than a man whose body produces 10% more T than the male norm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/19 06:15 AM |
| 2 | Why are some men SO blue pilled and why do they feel an innate desire to "defend" women for no reason?As a doctoral student, your friend should have asked you to send him some sources to review. Then he could have debunked or pointed out any pre-existing biases or methodological flaws in those sources. I am troubled that he rejected your hypothesis wholesale without any investigation. However, I don't think it's necessary that he's blue-pilled. Do you happen to know what kind of economics research he is focused on? It could be coincidence that his work thus far has been about validating the wage… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/19 10:33 AM |
| 1 | r/femaledatingstrategy is disgusting.Men have the PUA community. Women have this. Not all men are PUA, not all women are gold diggers. It's just disheartening when people parasitize other people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/19 05:01 PM |
| 2 | If traditional gender roles were so good for women, how come it is almost exclusively women who want to abandon them in favor of equality, while it is mainly men who support them?I see it as an issue of choice. Women (and plenty of men) would be fine with allowing people to deviate from their traditional gender roles, because regardless of gender, a person is free to live their life however they want. The reason there is a backlash against traditional gender roles is because the old ways always imply that this is what people should be doing, since 90% of people were "traditional" 60 years ago. There will be backlash too if traditional gender role options were implied to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/19 04:58 PM |
| 5 | Will artificial wombs change dating dynamics and gender relations?Thank you. Pretty crazy how far we've come along. Reading the abstract of the actual paper has me a little concerned about the children created from this process, since the group reported that normally inactive copies of the X-chromosome are still partially reactivated, so daughters of the process might have a condition similar to Triple X syndrome, which I guess is still relatively mild as far as such genetic issues are concerned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/19 10:58 PM |
| 3 | Will artificial wombs change dating dynamics and gender relations?Source? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/19 02:28 PM |
| 1 | What is your opinion on FebFems/closethread | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/19 02:23 PM |
| 3 | any time a person with options makes a choice they are "Settling"In my experience, if you don't love yourself, the people around you will eventually get worn out from your self-loathing and pessimism. Maybe you'll find a few people who are able to put up with that, but that's a tall order to find someone who understands and is able to constantly provide that positive reinforcement. I probably should have said "this is why you should love yourself first" instead of "have to" because I'll admit there are a lot of cases where someone willingly enters a relations… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/19 12:18 AM |
| 1 | any time a person with options makes a choice they are "Settling"I'm more likely to feel that my partner "settled" with me if: I'm insecure about myself or have low self-esteem. This is why you have to love yourself first. I'm obsessive, narcissistic, or egocentric. This is why you stay clear of crazy. I'm possessive about my partner, in that I find it hard to think of my partner as having independent ambitions, friends, interests, etc. This is why you stay clear of clingers. I have nothing going on to occupy my time. This is why you want someone ambitious. M… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 06:58 PM |
| 2 | Height Vs Looks Vs MuscleThis is like asking a guy weight, looks, or figure. Everyone has their own preferences, and many guys have multiple combinations of preferences (ex. a guy may like petite, nerdy girls a bit on the lanky side but may also like full-figured, "done-up, ready for the club" girls on the heavier side). What's even more confusing is that certain combinations may be a hard "no" for certain people. The guy in the previous example may not be attracted to chubby, nerdy girls or lanky, done-up girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/19 01:47 PM |
| 0 | Why is Belle Delphine praised while Logan Paul is shunned?https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ahegao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 10:02 AM |
| 4 | Why is Belle Delphine praised while Logan Paul is shunned?Yes. She is also one of the first "ahegao face" girls, if not the first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 09:49 AM |
| 1 | The "Fuck Boy" Phenomenon and why men would love to be considered guys who women think are only good for sexAnd when he stopped hinting and finally asked me out, I said to him that we were clearly looking for very different things. If the two of you were discussing your relationship expectations, kudos to you for not taking gossip as Gospel and allowing him a chance to speak for himself. I've known far too many people, men and women, who've had their reputations sullied by the gossip of vengeful exes or former partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/19 05:54 PM |
| 2 | What evidence is there to support that men are really struggling in dating?This post was made recently on r/dataisbeautiful where the OP broke down his Tinder activity. Granted, he's a 53-year old male so it might not be appropriate to most of the actively dating here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/19 10:03 AM |
| 3 | Let's try this a different way. Q's4Men about violence.I've actually never met an ill-tempered great dane. They are one of the least likely breeds I can imagine nipping back. They're pretty much big babes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/19 06:08 PM |
| 5 | Let's try this a different way. Q's4Men about violence.So women turn to aggression more frequently than men when pushed but cause less damage, while men rarely are angered but when they are, they will cause more destruction? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/19 04:12 PM |
| 4 | Let's try this a different way. Q's4Men about violence.I remember there being a lot of fights between my mother and father when I was toddler to pre-K age, but I may have repressed the hell out of it so I cannot remember for certain. No one deserves physical violence unless they initiated it first. As far as I know, no cops but perhaps many threats to call the police on the part of my mother. Only one time. The assailant was actually another woman. I don't know the circumstances, but one was a mother so children may have been involved. I did not int… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/19 03:52 PM |
| 0 | The average guy dillemaIn that dilemma right now. I'm gonna take things at face value. Her motives for settling with me aside, if my relationship with her makes us feel better, doesn't interfere with my life and my goals, doesn't jeopardize my financial security, and there's chemistry, then why not? In nature, I'm pretty sure females have had more mates than males do. "Sloppy seconds" is a fabricated social problem. It's only an issue if she had caught something from those prior sexual encounters or developed bad … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/19 12:31 PM |
| 5 | Masculine-feminine polarity is crucial to a great relationshipI agree with OP in that heterosexual men are naturally predisposed to find neotenic ("young", "childlike") traits in their mates attractive, as youth usually translates to fertility. However, these natural predispositions, while important, are only one component of attraction that we've developed and modified for ourselves over the years. We are not solely creatures of instinct with no way of deviating from what we are genetically programmed. We can train and modify ourselves to find other quali… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/19 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Q4 All: Do you try to help your female friends avoid scumbags?Guy here. Unless (s)he's abusing her, physical or verbal, I won't say a thing. While I do have female friends, I am fairly private and keep to myself, and chances are that I won't know enough about her partner or their situation to make a great recommendation. From my experience, meddling in other people's affairs only results in more headache for me since it ropes me into the situation and has the potential to worsen things for everyone overall. If she asks me for my opinion, I would say someth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/19 06:10 PM |
| 3 | New study shows unmarried couples living apart have the highest levels of sexual satisfaction"The Core" A classic sci-fi cheese flick that involves nuking Earth's core to restart it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/19 05:38 AM |
| 6 | New study shows unmarried couples living apart have the highest levels of sexual satisfactionDr. Josh Keyes : I'm married to my work. Serge Leveque : So am I. Which makes my wife my mistress. That's why I'm still in love with her. - "The Core" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/19 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Seriously speaking, why does N-count even really matter?I question your experience in this matter. Because it is really different. You're on the money. Pretty much an incel here. I know where I am. I'll try not to whine about it. There is a risk that they will get clingy, and they will definitely suck at sex. Does this apply to both sexes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/18 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Seriously speaking, why does N-count even really matter?Honestly though, how many guys are gonna mess around with a married woman? Sounds like an invitation to get the shit kicked out of you (or your property). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/18 08:18 PM |
| 0 | Seriously speaking, why does N-count even really matter?Divorce risk goes up with more N. Interesting. Any source on that? It also matters which party is initiating the divorce and for what reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/18 08:09 PM |
| 2 | Does porn change how men view women?All that porn has ever done for me was give me unrealistic and inflated expectations about the "average" female body and female promiscuity, which isn't too unlike other conventional (and more SFW) forms of media. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/17 02:20 PM |
| 2 | PPD and Kids! Are they an extension of their parent? Are kids sacrificed for or are they a continuation of the self? Why have them at all?30M here. Do you think having kids is morally good, neutral, or bad(even evil)? Neutral. It's just biological. Are kids an extension of their parents? Always part of their parents, owned by their parents, or in debt to their parents? Kids should not be an extension of their parents. Parents care for them, but it doesn't mean they own them. In early life, the parent's role is active instruction - meaning, they should instruct the kid as necessary and take over if they have to. Remember those driv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/17 05:36 PM |
| 3 | Which media couples (either fictional or real) would you class as RP, PP, or BP?I'm actually asking for either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/17 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Why don't men want to protect women in public anymore?Apt username? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/17 05:12 PM |
| 3 | Discussion: People who have changed pill color, why the change?What was some of the stuff that got downvoted? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/17 07:33 PM |
| 1 | N-CountPIV would be 2, both were casual or ONS. I'm 30M, and I guess I could be described as an incel, but nowhere near the misogynous stereotype. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/17 07:49 PM |
| 0 | Why is WGTOW not as big as MGTOW?I always thought that people drawn to the GTOW movements decided to focus on career and personal happiness rather than intimate relationships, typically after an extensive history of failed relationships/dating. For men, this would mean to stop, or at least put a hiatus on, pursuing women. For women, this would mean to stop/put a hiatus on being available for dating, which is still a sacrifice of time, effort, and money (albeit, typically a lesser one compared to men). Many persons of both sexes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/17 10:26 AM |
| 1 | Besides contributing genetic material for reproduction, what need does the opposite sex fulfill that cannot be fulfilled by members of the same sex in modern society?But an issue is that women don't seem to need it as much What's "it"? Companionship or sex? If the former, I beg to disagree on the basis that society has historically cast the ideal man as self-sufficient, independent, and stoic, and many men have largely and pridefully internalized these traits as hallmarks of masculinity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/17 07:50 PM |
| 2 | Besides contributing genetic material for reproduction, what need does the opposite sex fulfill that cannot be fulfilled by members of the same sex in modern society?This makes me wonder about (generally older) sexless married couples. How do they keep things from feeling apart when the attraction/desire is no longer there? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/17 06:09 PM |
| 2 | SMV for celebrities versus SMV for normiesCelebrities are normal people. They're the most normal people. What do you mean by this? I think the argument can be made that they have advantages and talents that make them way different from normies like us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/17 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: What was your last nervous breakdown, freakout, or awkward moment brought about by sex and gender issues?By victims, do you mean specifically incels or just victims in general? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/17 12:43 AM |
| 3 | Q4All: What was your last nervous breakdown, freakout, or awkward moment brought about by sex and gender issues?Part of the reason I felt compelled to speak out was because I am basically one of those "weird, socially awkward 30 year old guys". I'm 30 now, lost my virginity at 28 (but only with the help of dating apps), and the number of times I've had sex can be counted on one hand. I'm a polite, fit, fun-loving, average-looking guy, but in terms of charm, I've got nothing going for me. I place the blame on my passive, reserved personality, which developed as a coping mechanism from difficulties at home.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/17 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: What was your last nervous breakdown, freakout, or awkward moment brought about by sex and gender issues?Ah, noted. I thought it was in bad taste to comment on one's own post without responding to a reply because I assumed doing so would just "bump" the thread (not really sure how Reddit figures out what would be on the "Hot" tab), so I put it into the post instead. I guess given the circumstances, comments would be the way to go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/17 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: What was your last nervous breakdown, freakout, or awkward moment brought about by sex and gender issues?Thank you. Well you seem like you've inventoried your probs pretty well now you can fix them! I'll try, but I have a tendency to forget or lose sight of the fix. Gotta work on that for sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/17 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: What was your last nervous breakdown, freakout, or awkward moment brought about by sex and gender issues?Don't get me wrong. I really think it was just a "one-off" comment. If friendships ended because one person accidentally offended the other that one time, I think nobody in the world would stay friends for long. I've known and trusted these friends for three years now, and they've helped me get out of my shell gradually. Sure, that one little remark smarts a bit, but it's not painful enough to end those years of friendship over. Also, like I said, I have a hard time making friends as is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/17 11:10 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: What was your last nervous breakdown, freakout, or awkward moment brought about by sex and gender issues?It's just a moniker that it has somehow earned. According to the friends I went out with, it "kills (male) virgins" because it over-arouses them. An alternative explanation might be that it puts an end to the virginity of the wearer, thus ending (killing) the female virgin. But this explanation is less acceptable because it implies that a woman wearing such a garment is asking to have her virginity taken ("asking for it"), which is too much into the realm of rape culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/17 10:44 PM |
| 7 | Q4All: What was your last nervous breakdown, freakout, or awkward moment brought about by sex and gender issues?This | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/17 10:30 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women moderate their sexual behavior to a much greater extent than men believe they do.Wow, appropriate username. But I think the biggest difference between the data sets is that yours is based on specifically numbers gathered from online dating websites/apps, while the CDC self-reported numbers are gathered from the general population, who may or may not be using dating apps. Perhaps the reason that we are seeing the 80/20 difference is that there's a big difference in mate selection in women ages 18-44 as a whole versus women ages 18-44 who use dating apps, with the 80/20 rule b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/17 03:45 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women moderate their sexual behavior to a much greater extent than men believe they do.I don't understand why you want your views changed in the first place. I was using CMV more in terms of "Prove Me Wrong", which is a more neutral stance. In other words, I'm more interested in my points being debunked than adopting other people's viewpoints. It is true that semi attractive women have way more offers for sex than actual sex. We wouldn't be able to get out of bed to brush our teeth if we took up on every offer / opportunity. Not only because we prefer toys but also because there i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/17 12:06 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Women moderate their sexual behavior to a much greater extent than men believe they do.The idea that Gah, don't leave me hangin', man! I wanna know your complete thoughts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/17 09:34 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women moderate their sexual behavior to a much greater extent than men believe they do.In hindsight, this might be more of a debate than a CMV. The distinction is blurry sometimes, and I apologize for incorrect flairing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/17 08:35 PM |
| 5 | CMV: The idea of "enthusiastic consent" is unrealistic and is intended to make it very hard to actually get consentThe guy can wait for her to calm down a bit, take it slow starting with gentle caresses, and tell the girl, "Let me know how far you want to go, okay? Just say, "Stop" (or some other safety word) if I go too far." If she says okay, he'll go from there. If at any point during sex her body language or vocalizations change in a way that gives him reason to suspect she doesn't want it anymore, he should ask. Something along the lines of "You liking this, babe?" should be fine. After asking, if she d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/17 07:35 AM |
| 2 | CMV: The idea of "enthusiastic consent" is unrealistic and is intended to make it very hard to actually get consentWhat if someone is excited about something else but doesn't want to have sex? Example? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/17 07:09 AM |
| 18 | CMV: The idea of "enthusiastic consent" is unrealistic and is intended to make it very hard to actually get consentYou also can't tell if someone is truly excited or enthusiastic, as this is highly subjective and varies individually. Uh yeah, you can. If you have to convince yourself that she wants it, I guarantee you that she doesn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/17 06:01 AM |
| 1 | Q4Women: What fictional male character could you see yourself falling for and why? Considering his personality, would a happy LTR with him be possible? If the character has flaws, why are they not dealbreakers?Must be hard finding someone with that background. Oh well. Live long and prosper. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/17 09:05 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: What fictional male character could you see yourself falling for and why? Considering his personality, would a happy LTR with him be possible? If the character has flaws, why are they not dealbreakers?So guys who are willing to resort to force/violence to impose on others what they personally believe to be honorable principles? I think you're playing with dynamite there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/17 07:09 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Men put a high value on a woman's income.Men generally don't care about women's incomes because: Men have been conditioned all their lives to be earners - for themselves and potentially for a partner, so they tend to make a little more than they need to get by. A bit romantic, but an otherwise lonely guy would be willing to scale back on a lot of comforts to accommodate an attractive mate who doesn't pull her financial weight. For the affections of a warm, charming, and attractive woman, I can live on cold pizza, sleep on an inflatable… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/17 05:00 PM |
| 2 | How strong is the correlation between political affiliations and RP/PP/BP identification?A social liberal can hold those views. The difference is that a social liberal would be fine with the federal government investing itself in those issues (e.g. funding abortive services), whereas such action would be against libertarianism that principally strives to limit government encroachment into civil liberties. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/17 03:58 PM |
| 3 | How strong is the correlation between political affiliations and RP/PP/BP identification?Er... I think you mean the majority of the developed world. I'm rather sure the Middle East and parts of Asia, Africa, and South America are far from blue pill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/17 04:22 AM |
| 6 | Feminists and Democrats agree - Women should be eligible for the draft - Republican Senator who proposed the amendment to the bill is shocked and backtracksDoes this mean men and women in the US are moving closer to equality? If by "moving closer to equality", you mean "breaking down double standards", then yes. What are your thoughts on this, should this go through yes or no and why? I think it's fair. Our society is already on a trajectory that limits the legal distinctions between the sexes. Women should be paid as much as men for the same amount of work, and female sexual predators should receive the same punishments as male sexual predators. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/17 05:03 PM |
| 2 | There will be no beta male uprisingTrue, but you can have men who just do the bare minimum to get by in life (e.g. guys everywhere just getting dead-end jobs and surrounding themselves with distractions). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/17 12:49 PM |
| 7 | There will be no beta male uprisingYou should just look at what's going on in Japan to see how this could play out in the West. An aging population and stagnant economy has lead to the rise of hikkikomori - shut-in's who are mostly bachelor males who have resigned themselves to the belief that society does not want them anymore. This leaves many Japanese women single and in pursuit of the few "salarymen" who aren't keen on settling down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/17 04:25 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: Post a picture of the woman you find most attractive.My gut-reaction is to say, "How in the Devil... ?" My OCD reaction is to say, "You have the order reversed." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/17 08:36 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Post a picture of the woman you find most attractive.Traditional media Milana Vayntrub Leighton Meester Monica Bellucci Gong Li Adult Industry Simi Green Maria Ozawa Busty Inez Brooke Berry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/17 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: In matters of approach to dating and relationships, what separates a Red Pill woman from a Blue Pill woman?I've always found it helpful to think of RP and BP in terms of their namesakes. Red Pill refers to seeing past the idealized male-female interactions pushed forth by mainstream, politically correct society and recognizing the reality of these interactions. (This is an homage to the scene in the Matrix where the protagonist Neo takes the red pill in order to see that his entire life had just been a machine construct.) An example of something RP'ers would espouse would be that women have an innate… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/17 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Q4Women: In matters of approach to dating and relationships, what separates a Red Pill woman from a Blue Pill woman?Maybe we should throw in some more context to help us figure out how a BPW or a RPW would handle this situation? Let's say we have a two-earner household. Bill (35) makes $100,000/yr as a transmission repair specialist at a local body shop, and Betty (29) makes $25,000/yr as a substitute schoolteacher. They have been happily married for 10 years, have 3 kids ages 2-7, and own their home. Betty goes back to school and gets her teaching credential, aspiring to be a tenured teacher at a high school… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/17 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Q4Women: In matters of approach to dating and relationships, what separates a Red Pill woman from a Blue Pill woman?I think the distinction is made when a woman is faced with the prospect of doing something that her guy enjoys but that she doesn't agree with or like (note: not neutral or just "okay" with). Let's say the guy really likes getting sucked off but the RP girl really hates giving blowjobs - to the point that it makes her nauseous thinking about it. From what I've heard here, it seems like the RP woman would learn to suppress her gag reflex and do it with little complaint. After the act, she would b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/17 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: In matters of approach to dating and relationships, what separates a Red Pill woman from a Blue Pill woman?Is it ok that a purple pill woman leaning blue answers your questions? Anyways... Yes, of course. Thank you for participating. People with similar attitudes and ideals work the best, so BP/BP and RP/RP. It's interesting that you said RP/RP when all the previous answers distinguishing compatible pairings point to RP/RP being a bad match. I guess RP/RP could work if the couple tones down their obsession over the goals (e.g. the man has had it with playing around, and the woman is not too pressurin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/17 03:07 AM |
| 2 | Q4Women: In matters of approach to dating and relationships, what separates a Red Pill woman from a Blue Pill woman?Correct me if I misinterpreted your question, but you're asking why the main goal for Red Pill women is marriage but not for Red Pill men? I actually don't think the concept of marriage is incompatible with RP men, just as the concept of casual sex is not incompatible with RP women. It'd be like asking why isn't the main goal of RP women to sexually attract many high-quality, successful (provider-type) men for sex? I'm not an expert, but I HIGHLY doubt RP women are sexually frigid until marriage… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/17 02:48 AM |
| 1 | For which sex is the social stigma of loneliness greater?This is very hard to do. If a straight man gets along with a woman so well that he is willing to take the time to sustain and nourish a long friendship with her, 99.9999% of the time, he will eventually entertain romantic notions with her at some point. The only exceptions are his guy friends' girlfriends, which the guy will befriend and not make moves on, for obvious reasons. Most women want to be friends with their lovers, but the problem is that guys who fall for their female friends tend to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/17 08:47 PM |
| 2 | For which sex is the social stigma of loneliness greater?"A Christmas Carol" - Scrooge vs. Cratchit "It's a Wonderful Life" - Mr. Potter vs. George Bailey "The Simpsons" - Artie Ziff/Monty Burns vs. Homer Simpson "The Family Man" (starring Nic Cage and Tea Leoni) - Day Trader timeline vs. Family Man timeline "Jungle 2 Jungle" - Tim Allen's character before he found out he had a son vs. after he found out he had a son "Family Guy" - Peter Griffin and Joe Swanson vs. Quagmire and Brian (the former two have imperfect lives but are generally happy at home… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/17 07:29 PM |
| 4 | For which sex is the social stigma of loneliness greater?So basically: Older (30's-40's) single women: moderate stigma if you do or don't have sex. Older (30's-40's) single man: minimal stigma if you do have sex, heavy stigma if you don't have sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/17 06:44 PM |
| 2 | For which sex is the social stigma of loneliness greater?I don't know if I'm correct in my interpretation of their philosophy, but they're just doing what career women do, which would be to focus on advancing their careers rather than actively pursuing partners. They might dabble in dating now and then, but they aren't going to be hurt if they are rejected nor are they afraid to reject. It's a more pragmatic than romantic approach to living, which I feel might have arisen from years of romantic frustration and disenchantment. I guess I'm still a hopel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/17 06:40 PM |
| 1 | For which sex is the social stigma of loneliness greater?That's quite a bold statement. I'm curious if anyone will chime in on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/17 06:09 PM |
| 1 | For which sex is the social stigma of loneliness greater?I'll present 3 pairs of scenarios. Tell me which sex faces the greater stigma over being alone. 45 y/o single pulling a six figure income, owns home and property, no kids, prefers to spend things on material items and services that make them happy, plenty saved up 35 y/o single making an honest living in the service industry and getting by all right (roughly average income), still has student loans and house payments, lives cheaply, hardly anything saved up in retirement accounts 25 y/o single m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/17 06:06 PM |
| 2 | For which sex is the social stigma of loneliness greater?If she were so inclined, she could probably file a complaint on her male partners regarding those comments, and HR would take it seriously. A man in a similar position would likely be given the shrug and be told, "Don't be so sensitive" or "I don't really see a problem with that". Of course, I'm probably overlooking some other sexist workplace practices that preclude her from filing the complaint in the first place, like her being subject to fallout should that complaint fail to appropriately di… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/17 05:43 PM |
| 1 | For which sex is the social stigma of loneliness greater?I would argue that China today is pretty much the U.S. 30-40 years ago in terms of family-social dynamics, so that paradigm shift hasn't reached its tipping point yet. But the Chinese are catching up really quick. It wouldn't surprise me if they were to reach this point in 10 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/17 05:28 PM |
| 2 | For which sex is the social stigma of loneliness greater?Interesting. "Barren", "spinster", "dried up" - Are these current sentiments in today's media or are they internalized feelings of guilt that they've inherited from a bygone era? I really can't think of anything I've seen that perpetuates this message, EXCEPT maybe in rom-coms where an older, single woman finds herself thrust into some maternal role and finds her life more fulfilling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/17 05:23 PM |
| 2 | CMV/CHALLENGE: men who claim that constant attention paid to females by unsuitable men is an "advantage" should all go to a gay bath house or "judy garland park" tonight and put their money where their mouth isITT: Single, straight men should frequent gay bars more often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/17 10:01 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Telling male friends, who have little ambition but whine about lack of attention from beautiful women, that they are cool and do not need to be more driven is comparable to women who tell overweight girlfriends that they are fine as is and do not need to lose weight to catch "quality" men.Yup, U.S. So this is Red Pill? Weird, because I don't seem to get behind with a lot of RP'ers. I'm either PP, closet RP, or PP slowly turning to RP/MGTOW. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/17 08:39 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Telling male friends, who have little ambition but whine about lack of attention from beautiful women, that they are cool and do not need to be more driven is comparable to women who tell overweight girlfriends that they are fine as is and do not need to lose weight to catch "quality" men.We still ostracize the "crazy cat lady" and the older male virgin though, and marriage is still a common aspiration. If this Business Insider article is to be believed, society also treats married couples better than single people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/17 02:09 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Telling male friends, who have little ambition but whine about lack of attention from beautiful women, that they are cool and do not need to be more driven is comparable to women who tell overweight girlfriends that they are fine as is and do not need to lose weight to catch "quality" men.It makes low-value men enjoy video games in which women are shot, raped and tortured and rant about enslaving women on the internet because those are their only releases. Maybe I'm not as "low value" as I think I am, but I don't particularly enjoy those things. And I think the majority of "low value" men would feel the same. The ones who enjoy those things are pretty much the 1% of the 1% (so basically 1 in every 10000 men). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/17 01:25 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Telling male friends, who have little ambition but whine about lack of attention from beautiful women, that they are cool and do not need to be more driven is comparable to women who tell overweight girlfriends that they are fine as is and do not need to lose weight to catch "quality" men.If not projection, I'm curious about what you think might be at play instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/17 01:15 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Telling male friends, who have little ambition but whine about lack of attention from beautiful women, that they are cool and do not need to be more driven is comparable to women who tell overweight girlfriends that they are fine as is and do not need to lose weight to catch "quality" men.Fair enough, but I wasn't sure exactly what the right equivalents would be since "establishment" and "globalist tyranny" are neutered terms. Perhaps, "male-dominated society"/"patriarchy" and "sex-marketing driven economies"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/17 01:03 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Telling male friends, who have little ambition but whine about lack of attention from beautiful women, that they are cool and do not need to be more driven is comparable to women who tell overweight girlfriends that they are fine as is and do not need to lose weight to catch "quality" men.I've taken the time to gender-swap your anecdote and replaced it with the equivalents proposed in the OP. I once met a girl who remains, in my mind, the most typical example of a disgusting loser I have ever met. She had a heart condition and the muscles in her left leg had died as a result of a heart operation. So far, fair enough. Not her fault at all, obviously, and not what made her a loser. But what does she do in response? She quits her job. She lets her teeth rot. She develops an alcohol … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/17 12:48 AM |
| 2 | What do we do with surplus straight women after we dispose of unattractive men?There have been many women who have gone for the rest of their lives as single, divorced, or widowed. I think they'll do as they have always done and learn to cope with loneliness. The most vulnerable women would be "post-wall" women who were in a relationship where the loss of a partner puts them in a precarious financial situation. An older widow could be a very successful, financially independent woman on her own, but if she still has kids to support and had relied on her now deceased partner… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/17 06:29 PM |
| 3 | CMV: When a man really likes a woman, he commits straight away.I actually agree. The problem is that such eagerness to commit might be seen as desperation or naivete about the challenges that loom ahead in a possible relationship, so many women recoil from such forwardness. Contrary to expectation, the strongest married couples that I've noticed among my peers were the ones who really hit it off in high school and stuck with it. It didn't matter how unsure their futures were upon meeting, but if both sides felt a strong connection AND their families were be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/17 09:04 PM |
| 1 | How many of you actually deal with any gender/pill stuff IRL? Feminist sightings? PUA/MRA sightings?The closest I've ever run into a "femi-nazi" was a woman who was tabling for a local women's empowerment non-profit. My female friend and I wanted to partake in one of their activities (it was catching a cookie on your forehead with your mouth and then eating it). As I was about to have my turn, she said, "Sorry, but this activity is only for women." I was caught by surprise but decided not to make a big deal about it. I still wonder time to time whether I should have, but I keep thinking about … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/17 08:46 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Sexless/lack of relationships are as much of a problem to men, as abusive/bad relationships are to women.Yes, basically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/17 07:00 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Sexless/lack of relationships are as much of a problem to men, as abusive/bad relationships are to women.I should have clarified, but I was thinking less about physical abuse and more about lying, being distrustful, shaming, and being uncommunicative/unavailable. I consider this abusive too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/17 06:36 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Sexless/lack of relationships are as much of a problem to men, as abusive/bad relationships are to women.I'm referring to that "something meaningful beyond sex". I think men in general are able to get by with less of that meaning (or draw it more readily from other sources) than women are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/17 06:30 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The reason so many women get upset when men express their attraction to younger women is because of jealousy, plain and simple.You should be able to find a nice woman now, who can see the potential and willing to go for a few years of poverty for a richer life some years hence. I would, but I've found no one willing to take that plunge with me. At least not one that hits my major requirements. My immediate future takes me to either physician assistant school or medical school - both take a level of commitment that makes dating around nigh impossible or at least, not very enjoyable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/17 01:31 AM |
| 1 | CMV: The reason so many women get upset when men express their attraction to younger women is because of jealousy, plain and simple.Sorry, but what does SMP stand for? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/17 07:34 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The reason so many women get upset when men express their attraction to younger women is because of jealousy, plain and simple.That's because your forties is when you really start to crap up lookswise, a young woman who marries a 35 year old can still pretend to the world she did it out of lust and love, at age 40 there's no pretending any more. So basically, 40+ y/o men is off-limits to twenty-something y/o women because they are afraid of being branded as gold-diggers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/17 06:19 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The reason so many women get upset when men express their attraction to younger women is because of jealousy, plain and simple.Most men though, since we are focusing on the "typical" middle aged man, are not going to be able to pull hot 25 year old wives. True, but I never stated that they could. I was just inferring that it's probably easier for them to get attention from any members of the opposite sex. It might be a regional thing too. I'm in the SF Bay Area, and I know quite a few male bartenders and waiters in their early to mid-30's in long-term relationships with average-looking mid-20's women. Unless 40 is some … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/17 06:16 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The reason so many women get upset when men express their attraction to younger women is because of jealousy, plain and simple.I would just be giving more realistic advice to my daughter than you would. TRP guys have said this over an dover and over in PPD so I am not just making this up. The advice you give is based on what you believe men to be. Testimony from redditors from TRP and PPD is a small subset of the male bachelor population, so I would question the suitability of applying what is said on those subreddits to the mindset of all bachelor males. My advice is not based on making generalizations. The advice I gi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/17 05:52 PM |
| 0 | CMV: The reason so many women get upset when men express their attraction to younger women is because of jealousy, plain and simple.I don't know the exact proportion of older men who are willing and ready to settle down and start a family to older men who are still fooling around, but I believe that we greatly underestimate the former. IMO, the typical middle age man is in a similar position to young women in terms of dating options. In terms of attractiveness to the other sex, the typical middle age man's (age 35-50) ability to provide would be equitable to a young woman's (age 18 to 33) physical appeal. In other words, a 4… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/17 05:17 PM |
| 15 | CMV: The reason so many women get upset when men express their attraction to younger women is because of jealousy, plain and simple.Now, if some 50 year old rich guy wanted to marry my mid 20's 30 year old daughter, I would sit her down and say hey look, this man wants you so you can pop out a few babies, suck his wilted middle aged dick, soothe his ego, and look pretty and the minute you don't look pretty he is going to trade you in like a car and get a new one, that is how these guys are, so know that if you mate and marry, he wants you because you are young and attractive, he does not care about you, your aspirations, you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/17 04:32 PM |
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