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This is the answer.
/r/seduction27/12/24 03:17 PM
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Again, no -- I'm not denying reality, in fact I feel you are. In the real world there are no "all other things being equal" situations where a woman's decision between two men comes down to only one factor. I've never heard a woman say something similiar and, honestly, if a woman made her final determination between two men where "all other things are equal" on height that's a toxic woman you want to avoid. & even given the scenario you presented, different women would make different decisions. …
/r/seduction13/07/22 08:52 AM
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It's just as arbitrary as anything else -- if you're "classicly" attractive (tall, dark, and handsome), but you have no charisma & nothing going for you, you won't have a successful dating life.
/r/seduction13/07/22 06:59 AM
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Hijacking top comment to say this: being short is not a shortcoming. No idea where this sub got this idea but it's constantly perpetuated here and it's getting annoying. When the topic of height comes up, a joke about your height is great because it shows you are secure about it & comfortable with yourself. It's like an overweight comedian joking about their weight -- they are immediately more charismatic and attractive. I don't have any lines for you OP, but keep thinking... one general line yo…
/r/seduction12/07/22 11:20 AM
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This is a horrible discussion topic. First of all, women like many different types of men and different things in men. There isn't one answer. Many women are attracted to men who are fully themselves. Men who are confident & secure in what they are about, & unapologetically themselves. Men who are unneedy, independent, and live in abundance. Men who can enter a room and represent themselves. Women love men who love women, are honest with them, and seek genuine connection. Normally money and look…
/r/seduction14/06/22 08:20 AM
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Does she have an OF or is she making a career off her Instagram (or trying for a career)? If so, then this makes perfect sense. Also pornstars, models, actresses all show off their bodies & sex appeal all the time, yet it has nothing at all to do with their feelings towards their partner.
/r/seduction28/04/22 08:30 PM
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Best post on this sub in a long time - everything here is perfect.
/r/seduction01/01/22 03:27 PM
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Hahaha this was hilarious
/r/seduction19/11/21 05:33 PM
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Go on dates with other women and enjoy yourself for a few days before reaching out
/r/seduction31/10/21 03:48 PM
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No way, that's incel shit... be the kind of guy that she goes back to her friends and says, "he's totally not my type or who I usually date, but there is something about him..."
/r/seduction30/10/21 05:16 PM
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I saw that post too... the answer is both yes and no. If you look at the post and the top comment, you can see the biggest issue isn't that she is being approached, it's that the men that approach her aren't going away or picking up on signals that she isn't interested. A major part of her issue isn't so much being approached as it is the guys sticking around, being creepy and annoying her to the point she has to make an excuse. After enough of this, yeah, she is probably getting annoyed with gu…
/r/seduction30/10/21 05:14 PM
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Everything you say here is spot on for the kind of lifestyle you want to live (albeit somewhat manipulative...) But you should also acknowledge that you are willingly forgoing the depth & true intimacy of a monogamous relationship -- which is liberating and freeing (for men & women) in its own way.
/r/seduction26/08/20 10:48 PM
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I've been there, it's so frustrating. Keep going out, 3 or 4 times a week if you have to.
/r/seduction01/03/20 05:45 PM
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Do not text to confirm, it's weak. If she wants to cancel she'll text you.
/r/seduction01/03/20 05:42 PM
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Perfect advice. If she flakes, it's no big deal either. Wait a few days & then ask her out for drinks again and follow the advice above.
/r/seduction01/03/20 05:41 PM
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Read How to be a 3% Man by Corey Wayne or Models by Mark Manson -- they are both average looking guys with a lot of success. & there principles are true for almost any man interacting with almost any woman.
/r/seduction01/03/20 05:18 PM
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If you are hooking up or not. Seriously, the easy way to get the answer to this question is to make a move.
/r/seduction01/03/20 05:09 PM
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Ah yes... the Neediness Paradox: you try so fucking hard at not being needy its needy as fuck. Find the right balance. How? Read Mark Manson's take on Neediness in Models.
/r/seduction28/02/20 01:55 AM
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I don't think you read the book properly -- it is very similar in content to Models, but put in a purely practical lens. Models is practical but also has a lot of theory.
/r/seduction25/02/20 11:59 PM
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Always be honest with your intentions. You'd be surprised how often a girl says "I'm not interested in hook ups", and you say "Well I am not looking for anything serious, let me know if you change your mind", and then after a week or two she changes her mind. Women want casual stuff too they just need to trust & be comfortable with you first.
/r/seduction19/06/19 08:32 PM
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This is the truest answer. Read Models first.
/r/seduction12/06/19 10:10 AM
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Ask some questions. Is she lacking excitement, adventure: "what did you do this week?" read her answer: has she been content with her week because it was busy enough or bored because she didn't do anything? Then offer something about your exciting week: "I found so much to do this week...", and gauge her reaction. Is she curious about it? Is she lacking passion or a hobby? "What is your creative outlet?" "What gets all your time outside of work?" It would be a good idea for you to identify what …
/r/seduction19/04/19 06:43 PM
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Excellent list. One tip to add: never text on the toilet. Explanation? Suppose your fingers are all buttery because either you just got done exchanging oily massages with some broad or you ate some fried chicken (or both) because thats how dope your life is, you walk into the toilet and bam half way through your clever jib jab phone slips right out of your hand, bounces off your balls and into the ass water. Game over and literally, all your cleverness down the toilet.
/r/seduction19/04/19 06:29 PM
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Attractiveness works because it conveys abundance. Find other ways to demonstrate abundance and you can get around "looks". Need motivation? Brian from Fearless Man. Ugliest duckling in the Game & still makes it work.
/r/seduction19/04/19 06:10 PM
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Hey just wanted to follow-up on this. 4 months later, after giving effort into growing my social circle and reinvesting into developing my social skills & "pick-up skills", I have a very successful dating life.
/r/seduction01/04/19 05:05 PM
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Someone else can give you better technical advice, but I'll offer some big picture advice: you are doing fine. Great even. The only thing I would adjust is the place you are coming from: from what you've written here, it sounds like you were very in your head about the kiss, or taking her home at the end of the date. Bring your focus closer to home and don't judge your dates on that -- judge them on how much of your authentic and honest self you were being. How much fun were you having? How curi…
/r/seduction27/02/19 11:51 AM
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This x1000, especially part 2. "I'm interested in you. I like you. I 'want' you. but just so you know, I don't 'need' to be with you." Damn that's an attractive attitude.
/r/seduction31/01/19 01:02 AM
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Absolutely do not take this advice, can't believe it's the top comment (on this sub of all places). He's right about needing to have a healthy mentality and not being a sociopath (OP, you are already getting ahead of yourself asking things like "what if I become a womanizer?" and you haven't even kissed a girl yet; respect the process), but that's it. You are not automatically a sociopath for wanting to cultivate the skills, mindset, and confidence for attracting the type of women you want into …
/r/seduction17/12/18 09:51 PM
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Thanks -- always appreciate your contribution on this forum.
/r/seduction11/12/18 12:04 AM
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Could be. I sent her a text saying it was fun sharing music & we should do it again sometime... should be able to tell exactly where we are at based on her response
/r/seduction10/12/18 11:59 PM
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Just to clarify -- when I put my hand on her face and leaned in to reciprocate the kiss, she pulled away and wouldn't let me. Also, when we hugged goodbye I tried to give her some more eyes and she avoided them -- it really seemed like a full flip from interest to disinterest... but keeping in mind what you said I'll text her again and see where it goes.
/r/seduction10/12/18 11:51 PM
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Because social skills are totally something that can be improved and learned... I hate to tell you this, but this post reads like you haven't spent any time understanding what you arguing against.
/r/seduction22/11/18 11:16 AM
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This hit home for me recently... someone who is good at game gets rejected more in a night than the average guy in a year... but they have sex more times in a year than the average guy in his lifetime. Also, I'm going to be honest -- sorry about your fianances but you REALLY need to figure out your living situation. The cold blunt truth is no man who is 28 years old and "has it togethor" should be living with their parents.
/r/seduction16/11/18 01:38 AM
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This is a version of Mark Manson's demographics philosophy, and a really powerful idea... anyone who wants to go deeper into it should check out Models.
/r/seduction22/07/18 10:14 PM
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Great reply -- I think you are exactly right. I just read about "Dancing Monkey Syndrome", and it exactly describes the frame of my high energy game. I went down a rabbit hole of reading old PUA material, and saw the model: attraction, comfort & seduction. With my high energy game, I focus too much on attraction, cocky/funny, flirting -- but never move to comfort. Using the same model, I can tell exactly why my low energy game works. I build the attraction from just being cool & good looking, an…
/r/seduction23/06/18 08:33 AM
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Nice man! Something you wrote is on my mind tonight too... I never understood why women flake, even after a fully positive interaction. I know there a million & a half reasons why, but still... just today I met someone at a coffee shop, and had one of those perfectly fluid conversations of smiling & joking & mutual attraction, upon which we exchanged numbers... and then: no response. I'm not bitter (maybe a little) but it's crazy to me that women -- but this extends to people in general -- flake…
/r/seduction11/06/18 11:21 PM
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Nice, you have a great foundation. This was a pretty normal interaction that didn't go anywhere probably because she just wasn't attracted to you / in the mood / had a boyfriend / a million other reasons that don't matter. Your reaction after she left shows you came from the right place on your approach -- you showed up as a man and did your job by saying hello, and your life is no worse because she walked away. In fact, it's better because you made the approach and screened out a chick. Anyway,…
/r/seduction07/03/18 06:59 PM
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Having money does not equal interesting. One of my most interesting friends is dead broke trying to make it as an artist in NYC. Everytime I see him he is on a different couch or living at a new place or working a new gig meeting different people. To be fair, he has the advantage of being naturally a laid back, down to earth person-- but in his case, having no money is exactly what makes him interesting.
/r/seduction26/02/18 06:46 PM
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"That is what i'm saying though. In order to truly master game you need to be a little misogynistic." That is blatantly false -- look up the work of Zan Perrion, one of the absolute best. He is the antithesis of misogyny.
/r/seduction26/01/18 08:15 PM
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You say "I wanted sex really but I am a strong advocate of anything happening organically much to my downfall as my overthinking seems to cloud my judgement about what is organic" That is exactly what happened. You were in a position where sex, or at the minimum making out, was the organic response to the situation and you didn't make a move. You pussied out. Now she is over it -- she doesn't believe you are the type of man to ever make a move, and it has permanently killed her attraction for yo…
/r/seduction25/01/18 06:24 PM
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"You have to truly not care about the feelings of others to be able to callously climb upward so far." 1. Nothing is that black & white. Not every company or organization has toxic corporate culture. Someone working hard is completely mutually exclusive from their ability to feel empathy. It may be that your life experiences have you believing that statement, but know that it is not 100% true. 2. Being a VP does not equal my respect -- there are executives that have very poor character. There ar…
/r/seduction12/01/18 06:38 AM
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Personally, I really like this answer. There is power in acknowledging that some people are better* than you (*you set the parameters for what constitutes "better"). There are very accomplished people that I admire in my life, like ImJustSo's example, the VPs and CEO of my company. By acknowledging this, it a) gives me a North star for my own personal growth, and b) creates the paradigm that someone can be "better" than me -- but they must prove it. Not some random stranger in a fuckin' bar (for…
/r/seduction12/01/18 03:09 AM
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Just wanted to comment that I have the same sticking point, and would appreciate seeing a response to this... my current approach has been influenced by Mark Manson: accept it as an incompatibility and move on. In an effort to reduce the number of incompatabalities, I'm focusing more on improving my demographics (focusing on girls that are more similar to me)... my other approach has been having an interesting question on reserve to avoid asking about her job-- for me it's "what's your creative …
/r/seduction02/11/17 05:43 PM
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