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Inner Game Doctor__Finance/r/seduction20/01/26 11:19 PM
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It’s a thing, especially if you are a perfect example for your stereotype. My suggestion is, don’t be short mexican, but be a jacked one. As such, jacked indian, you got my point. Get your finances in a safe spot, elimate the logistical barriers, dress up nicely, and be open to get frendly with other ethnicities, including whites. I mostly don’t see colors, especially when I was in the States. And you may consider Latinas as well, some white dudes I was hanging out with preferred Latinas over wh…
/r/seduction20/01/26 11:27 PM
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Let’s not get paranoid here. It depends on your relationship, foremost. If your relationship is new, or stable and she does not do these behaviors, you might consider canceling the golf. However, chances are highly that she is either crazy or selfish. Maybe both.
/r/seduction20/01/26 11:18 PM
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How did you draw that correlation?
/r/seduction11/01/26 12:41 PM
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Spend your entire month to create perfect plan for a perfect girl, and you will realize those plans are just useless. One time I went out solo in the US, doing night game. Saw a really cute redhead in a group. Approached to her casually. There were three girls in the group, I am 5'9, my target -1st girl, was 5'4 or something, 2nd were too. So the third girl, is actually a D1 volleyball player and, I don't know maybe is 6'1. So I was engaging with the group, second girl was gone shortly after, 1s…
/r/seduction10/01/26 10:51 PM
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One time I approached to girl on Starbucks. She seemed very shy, and impressed by my academic career (scholar in finance, and just got back to my home country from the US). Let me put it that way, I am LinkedIn guy, and do post stuff about my field and since I started doing more cold approach instead of online game, I really stopped spending time on IG. Therefore, I had low amount of posts, likes, by all means overall interactions. She is an amateur actor, studying sport science, therefore had 4…
/r/seduction10/01/26 05:02 PM
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Did you use AI to write your whole "book" as well?
/r/seduction10/01/26 04:52 PM
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You have to improve your game, and maybe focus on yourself more. That is, if cannot pull high-quality women, or women in higher quantities, there would be a couple of errs on your game. And don't forget, game is a general concept, that includes your behaviors and overall life style. Moreover, you are still young, give it a time. Meanwhile you can do online game and get good results tho, and social game is okay too if you have a large circle, but cold approach is the best one amongst them. That i…
/r/seduction10/01/26 04:29 PM
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I was doing heavy game in US for quite some time. Had to come back due to my contract and was heavily busy with a couple of weeks. When I cleared my things up, was feeling better, with solid plans, got back on the game in my home country; coastal area and international destination. But I couldn't talk to women literally -in game-wise. Everywhere, lots of 8s, 9s, even hardcore 10s. No nothing. Couple of times I complimented to women casually while passing by. One time, tried to approach two girls…
/r/seduction10/01/26 11:03 AM
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Approached one time to a three-girls group and one of them said "fuck off" to me too, because I was maybe a little pushing too hard. But in reality, I was trying new things on them. That was totally okay. Another time, in a same exact bar, I approached to a five-girls group. And my main target said "well, thank you for coming." That was soul crushing, but it is what it is.
/r/seduction10/01/26 10:51 AM
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Like, in most obvious terms trying to fuck without any kissing. It can happen though, but extremely rare. The steps are, in simplest, first setting your value; she should know you are not desperate, but high value male, have options, etc. Of course, you have to convey in subtle ways. Then communication comes. Have a little vibe, this and that. Which is verbal escalation. Then follow with physical escalation. Touching her arm, knee, then her hair, maybe shoulder. Getting a little closer, then kis…
/r/seduction09/01/26 08:28 PM
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You somehow, imo, you triggered her anti-slut defense mechanism. Without proper escalation, they suddenly realize the momentum which goes too fast for them. In other words, you skipped some steps toward sex.
/r/seduction09/01/26 01:21 PM
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First, list your accomplishments. Anything. Just even recalling them, small or big, will boast your confidence. Look yourself in the mirror, idealize and interiorize your future, your next accomplishments. Just visualize how great you are, and much greater in your next journeys. There will be other women also, so this date will be just a good experience for you. For her, she should feel lucky to meet you in person. You are in a great path, asking here advice, trying to augment your life in a goo…
/r/seduction06/01/26 12:40 PM
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I also live in a coastal destination. 90-95 percent I meet with foreign women. I'd suggest not expect much most of the time, but in your case, she lives relatively close. Also, you escalated very good. So, don't start from the scratch on the communication, casually send a picture of a thing you both remember, like that club. Like: I was on my but just saw that place kinda thing. Try to escalate from that. Then maybe call her and make a plan or something. However, in economic wise, you might not …
/r/seduction03/01/26 11:30 PM
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If you are pretty sure you won't slap you or call the cops, you are good.
/r/seduction02/01/26 11:37 PM
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I mean, it should be! It's the best investment you can do for yourself, to improve your health. For women, it comes last in the order, however. To attract them, you need to enhance your game at the first. Then, money and status come. Literally, physique is the last thing you should focus on. One time I pulled a girl by saying I was very insecure about my body, and claimed I was fat, Even though I have visible abs lol.
/r/seduction02/01/26 11:12 PM
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You need some life experiences little bro. I've been through the same situation many times, and now looking back, they were pointless. However, even some much older guys in their 40s cannot comprehend mixed signals. There is only one solution; stop investing your feelings in her. Meet new women. At that point, you can either see other women -and probably get her attention back, or you can seriously lose yourself by obsessing over her and have one of the worst break-up experiences of your life, w…
/r/seduction02/01/26 08:56 PM
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Just ack like you already have that physique.
/r/seduction02/01/26 08:47 PM
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I was waiting for the punchline: "quite incompetent in game" and right there, this is the problem bro. All the things you said before that were merely consequential. Try new techniques, maybe you would play too safe.
/r/seduction02/01/26 08:40 PM
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Bro apart from the mindset, you seem like you did not escalate at all. And "message me when you get there" mistake was something I did a lot in the past. She took time to meet you, came to your territory, probably was ready to kiss -at least. Nonetheless, you did not show any intention, and she might took it as an insult, or maybe thought you lack of experiences, which is telling already.
/r/seduction02/01/26 06:47 PM
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Okay, I just took a quick look on your situation. I will give some brief feedback; - First, things first: Give your best-possible time to your business. By all means, don't procrastinate, be hard and be smart. If you leave loops on your real task, you will screw up your dating life eventually. - You have to have some other options. Since you cannot date, it is a must to increase your options, otherwise, at some point you will catch feelings, which I presume you don't want that. - The main course…
/r/seduction02/01/26 06:41 PM
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