Dododo0808 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
36	You guys need to self improve or do individual women have certain preferences for individual men		Dododo0808	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/21 12:10 PM
31	Dating has nothing to do with your social life		Dododo0808	/r/ExRedPill	30/05/21 12:20 PM
23	Nobody should label someone as a "plate" or "count"		Dododo0808	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/21 04:35 PM
22	What makes insecurity a turn off		Dododo0808	/r/ExRedPill	19/05/21 05:00 AM
22	I think this red pill stuff has given me Writers Block.		Dododo0808	/r/ExRedPill	19/05/21 05:13 AM
19	I don't think there will ever be equality		Dododo0808	/r/ExRedPill	01/05/21 12:04 AM
16	If you had a son, and you found him stumbling upon red pill content, what would you say to him?		Dododo0808	/r/ExRedPill	16/05/21 03:09 AM
14	How do you not compare yourself to other people sexually?		Dododo0808	/r/ExRedPill	23/05/21 03:19 AM
14	Please disprove AF/BB(Alpha fucks, beta bucks		Dododo0808	/r/ExRedPill	24/05/21 03:14 AM
11	Why do we say stop blaming others? There is plenty of blame to go around and it can definitely be someone else's fault.		Dododo0808	/r/ExRedPill	11/05/21 05:09 PM
10	Being open and empathetic would stop a lot of radicalization instead of being authoritative and trying to put someone in their place.		Dododo0808	/r/ExRedPill	01/06/21 02:17 AM
8	Has anybody in this sub been guilty of toxic masculinity or enforcing patriarchal norms		Dododo0808	/r/ExRedPill	09/05/21 08:16 PM
5	Double standards in dating		Dododo0808	/r/ExRedPill	01/05/21 11:47 PM
4	What does confidence in a man look like to you?		Dododo0808	/r/ExRedPill	27/05/21 01:59 PM
3	If insecurity or other toxic things lead me into the red pill ,why do you think they are insecure or exposed to toxicity in the first place?		Dododo0808	/r/ExRedPill	09/05/21 06:28 PM
3	How does one prove they are genuine nice guy		Dododo0808	/r/ExRedPill	25/05/21 04:04 PM
2	Do you think a gender appreciation or serious sex ed with help bridge The divide between the genders		Dododo0808	/r/ExRedPill	15/05/21 10:50 PM
1	If success is what attracts women, what defines it? And how can a man prove to success to a woman?		Dododo0808	/r/ExRedPill	27/05/21 12:05 AM
1	The red pill came after self-improvement failed		Dododo0808	/r/ExRedPill	10/04/21 05:57 AM
1	Do you think that men taking on responsibility really does Foster more respect.		Dododo0808	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	10/04/21 05:48 AM
1	I feel like the rhetoric of men only doing the bare minimum exasperate sexism towards men		Dododo0808	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/05/21 02:56 PM
1	I think I am becoming a misogynist		Dododo0808	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	07/05/21 03:00 AM
1	Feminist operate inside of a self-fulfilling prophecy	discussion	Dododo0808	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/05/21 03:57 AM
0	Is red pill the man version of feminism		Dododo0808	/r/ExRedPill	30/04/21 03:13 AM
0	How do you feel about the school system treating boys? Basically as defective girls		Dododo0808	/r/ExRedPill	25/05/21 01:13 PM
0	Men and women seem to be more divided than ever which is ironic considering we live in a much more equal and peaceful time compared to our forefathers		Dododo0808	/r/ExRedPill	02/06/21 11:32 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Being open and empathetic would stop a lot of radicalization instead of being authoritative and trying to put someone in their place. All the time. I got a nice set of friends of all types of backgrounds and we are pretty open	/r/ExRedPill	01/06/21 11:40 PM
2	Being open and empathetic would stop a lot of radicalization instead of being authoritative and trying to put someone in their place. I had a girlfriend like that too Jacket super spoiled and rotten and could talk shit so easily But could never take it back. And anytime her mouth got her in the trouble she would run for me to come and get her out of it.. And if I was uncomfortable or did not want to I was a pussy, bitch, weakling	/r/ExRedPill	01/06/21 10:06 PM
1	Dating has nothing to do with your social life Exactly and you can see how crazy it is because it starts so young I was virgin shamed by my own virgin girlfriend. And that's because men are expected to be sexual conquerors even by women so a virgin man is hilarious but a virgin woman is just neutral	/r/ExRedPill	01/06/21 02:57 AM
1	Yet another contradiction... Around that age is usually the best time to make social mistakes and I say that lightly because even at that age I remember still getting criticized for every little thing I did or did not do that may have been perceived as xyz Like I am bummed that I did not have much success in college because in my head that was the perfect environment but I have had more success outside of college Just like women men are also fed certain narratives about Disney versions of romance and finding young love. And…	/r/ExRedPill	01/06/21 02:55 AM
4	Redpillers love talking about how good being a player and having multiple women at one time is the life but the downsides to it outweigh the good by alot As I get older I realized just how low the percentage of players are and even lower the percentage of them actually make it in life So many of my friends I went to high school and college with are now dead or in jail or ended up as single mothers or fathers and it's not a good life Me and my father continue to have problems to this day because he expects me to respect him and I find that I will not respect anyone from a generation who abandoned their children. It's so easy to stick your dick ins…	/r/ExRedPill	01/06/21 02:52 AM
0	About having hobbies and interest and a full life That's the biggest challenge for most men is that we all have a similar experience Most people in general already have a life in hobbies and interests and goals outside of dating but that has little to do with your dating success especially as a man To give you an example I have literally LED clubs and have led other people in my school life and in my manager life I have actual tangible leadership skills and my dating success is not where I would like it to be. By all intents and purposes I had …	/r/ExRedPill	01/06/21 02:49 AM
0	Dating has nothing to do with your social life And as a guy it's hard for me to take that sentiment seriously because a lot of people usually see an experience as a turn off What if you're a guy who does not like casual sex but wants to have a serious relationship in the future? What if your future love doesn't take you seriously because you don't have all that experience Like I understand that casual sex isn't the same but I've been getting virgins shamed since I was 12. Other version start shaming other virgins and it only trickles up as y…	/r/ExRedPill	31/05/21 02:59 AM
2	Dating has nothing to do with your social life But see how do we define a low quality woman I completely understand what you mean because I broke up with my first girlfriend because she was super toxic But I hesitate to call her low quality because I really don't think anybody is low quality I think people need to find the right match for them	/r/ExRedPill	30/05/21 11:48 PM
1	Dating has nothing to do with your social life My only problem with your list is being on the arrogant side and challenging her as I tried that and it has backfired My last girlfriend I didn't need to do anything with as she liked me first. If you got to do all of this to get a girl that girl is not worth it	/r/ExRedPill	30/05/21 10:30 PM
0	Dating has nothing to do with your social life I've been on a break recently after my last break up as I don't want to jump into another relationship again I was never the guy to just go pumping and dumping and not from one woman to the other. At the same time I'm scared my progress will wane if I stop now	/r/ExRedPill	30/05/21 10:29 PM
0	Dating has nothing to do with your social life Being surrounded by the wrong people definitely held me back for a long time I'm talking about up until high School. I only hung out with people who were around and those people weren't the best of friends. And bad luck is also a thing as I have given a girl my Snapchat before but it turned out to be wrong XD	/r/ExRedPill	30/05/21 10:28 PM
3	Dating has nothing to do with your social life I understand it just gets insulting when you're told this over and over Like every time I hear the same advice pedal I immediately think back to my older days All that blood and all those fights and all those winds and all those failures and all the sweat I'm still very much proud of it don't get me wrong Just get so insulting and depressing. It makes you question if there is something wrong with you.	/r/ExRedPill	30/05/21 02:33 PM
4	Dating has nothing to do with your social life Of course it doesn't guarantee That's why I posted because you keep hearing this type of advice but people make such a big deal that you have to have a great social life I have a great social life I know how to talk people and get people together I doubt it even has a higher chance if you finding dates but it will make it better to find friends	/r/ExRedPill	30/05/21 02:14 PM
1	How does one prove they are genuine nice guy No one tries to be a nice guy solely to pick up women and that's why I hate these types of conversations because most people start out already nice But also nice people can and should be allowed to get angry and have other traits too without their niceness coming into question	/r/ExRedPill	29/05/21 11:43 AM
1	If success is what attracts women, what defines it? And how can a man prove to success to a woman? It is more complicated than that Liking myself never stopped anybody from bullying me or disrespecting me If liking yourself was all you needed then I wouldn't be single Yes I can draw and I write I draw and paint and I have a small following online so I am pretty happy about that	/r/ExRedPill	29/05/21 11:42 AM
0	How does one prove they are genuine nice guy Or because you are out of arguments you're choosing to be willfully ignorant I wasn't born yesterday	/r/ExRedPill	28/05/21 04:29 PM
0	How does one prove they are genuine nice guy So by your logic if one goes through trauma or hard times, They shouldn't speak on it because then they're no longer responsible or resilient? I met a Korean war veteran one time that was a POW He was beat and starved. Forced to go out in the field and gather rotting pumpkins to eat He was eventually rescued. He straight up told me that he was scared to tell others about his experiences because he thought they would call him "a sissy" It's crazy because he can't be a sissy by definition if he su…	/r/ExRedPill	28/05/21 02:30 PM
-1	The Rise of Bullying: the true cause of incels We are there And I say this as an African-American Of course we have a lot of work to do but we live in the most peaceful and technologically advanced age and human history and just a hundred years ago, the world was destroying itself with two world wars You can only imagine what are forefathers must have thought what it will be like in this time period now The fact that most women can survive without a man is testament to that as men have built the world so well that this is possible You don't …	/r/ExRedPill	28/05/21 01:58 PM
1	The Rise of Bullying: the true cause of incels I actually kind of feel for short men because I bet if you were a little bit taller all your other personality traits will shine more You can't control your height. You could be better than all the tall guys but you can't control your height I had a friend who was super short but was super good with the ladies but he was still super insecure He used to pick on me all the time but I never thought back of them because I could tell he was always jealous.	/r/ExRedPill	27/05/21 04:39 PM
1	The Rise of Bullying: the true cause of incels As a demisexual male I completely understand And I think it's worse because you know you can be stereotypically the masculine archetype within your culture but it's just as insulting as expecting a woman to be super motherly just because she looks like it I'm 6 foot 6 and 230 pds Almost every day I get complimented on my features or my height A lot of women seem to like it in a lot of men get jealous but I hate it because I'm so much more than that and I don't want to be known as the big black g…	/r/ExRedPill	27/05/21 04:32 PM
-1	The Rise of Bullying: the true cause of incels No that's not what I'm saying What I'm saying is if you are a part of a group that does not mean you believe in it and even if you stated you still probably don't believe in it but play the part because you are already radicalized These groups are usually radicalized. They're usually lonely broken abused men and especially so if they are young If I wasn't a black man I will probably end up like these guys because I have had a lot of the similar upbringings with abuse. Especially considering how …	/r/ExRedPill	27/05/21 04:27 PM
1	The Rise of Bullying: the true cause of incels I hate the titles of patriarchy or even a matriarchy because most people have authority of both genders throughout their lives The main person who was forcing me to act out in a stereotypically masculine or old fashioned way was my mother I think it's too easy also to say that it's taught by people who glorified sex because you are correct but men being sexually promiscuous and aggressive is an ideal held by both men and women and is expected by both men and women A lot of women still want the m…	/r/ExRedPill	27/05/21 04:23 PM
1	How common is it for an older man (senior) to consume red pill material? A lot of older guys have more experience and probably spend all of their twenties making so many mistakes Right now I wish I could go back until my high school self to do things differently I would have told myself to wait more because the girls at that age aren't worth it and I could have saved myself a lot of abuse	/r/ExRedPill	27/05/21 03:57 PM
-1	How is everyone Do you remember what you typed out?	/r/ExRedPill	27/05/21 03:57 PM
-1	How is everyone Don't reread your reply	/r/ExRedPill	27/05/21 03:56 PM
0	How does one prove they are genuine nice guy I didn't prove shit. I disagree with your worldview Acting like a responsible adult when all the ones around you couldn't, doesn't get you anywhere and doesn't garn you in respect and I highly doubt it even means anything in the end Stop preaching to me about this responsibility and letting it go as if I did not learn that lesson too	/r/ExRedPill	27/05/21 03:56 PM
0	How is everyone You really think that all the guys on Reddit are neck beards as if they don't have jobs or lives or friendships or responsibilities I get tired of both sides of the debate using this term because it's so reductionist I know a damn lawyer who spends all his off time eating pizza and watching law and order I bet he wouldn't be calling that beard because being a lawyer is so impressive that it cancels out the other traits	/r/ExRedPill	27/05/21 03:52 PM
-6	The Rise of Bullying: the true cause of incels Not even all of them It's the same reason that a lot of the KKK aren't really racist I've noticed that a lot of clansmen usually are gay or Jewish which makes sense because they're probably filled with self-hatred because they grow up around a community or environment that hated those types of people And I'm saying this is a black guy who grew up in the south Now don't get me wrong they all don't need to be full-blown races because when they are forming organization with certain ideals that adhe…	/r/ExRedPill	27/05/21 03:48 PM
-7	The Rise of Bullying: the true cause of incels Or it could be that women and men or big contribution to the stigma that men should be sexual conquerors I hate this idea that men are just entitled because it reduces it back to men. We're supposed to be in the age of gender equality and understanding yet it's still always the man's fault	/r/ExRedPill	27/05/21 03:39 PM
-1	How is everyone And once again you act like this is somehow you need to certain people as if these red pill neck beards don't do this as well As if next beards don't accept reality and accept things and take on responsibilities. What makes you any different than the toxic masculine people of the past?	/r/ExRedPill	27/05/21 03:38 PM
0	How does one prove they are genuine nice guy You want me to do act happy and act like everything will somehow supposed to just wash over my day You act like your story is somehow unique and that people don't already do this. You ever thought the people complain because they already do the things you already say and still end up against the wall My last girlfriend was super clingy to me I mean that just goes to show how much you just assume and I am sorry if I come off that way but how can you make such hard sleeping judgments without even …	/r/ExRedPill	27/05/21 03:36 PM
0	How does one prove they are genuine nice guy Everybody keeps saying that you will look more attractive as a byproduct but I'm just not seeing it especially considering just how much work I did and I also did not do it in the hopes of finding a partner but judging by reddit's logic I should have gotten more success because I worked so hard I worked hard for so many years and I don't regret it but it makes me even more bitter when I keep getting this type of sentiment and I'm wondering why no girl could see all of my hard work And I apologiz…	/r/ExRedPill	27/05/21 01:46 PM
1	How does one prove they are genuine nice guy Everybody keeps saying that you will look more attractive as a byproduct but I'm just not seeing it especially considering just how much work I did and I also did not do it in the hopes of finding a partner but judging by reddit's logic I should have gotten more success because I worked so hard I worked hard for so many years and I don't regret it but it makes me even more bitter when I keep getting this type of sentiment and I'm wondering why no girl could see all of my hard work And I apologiz…	/r/ExRedPill	27/05/21 01:46 PM
1	How does one prove they are genuine nice guy Everybody keeps saying that you will look more attractive as a byproduct but I'm just not seeing it especially considering just how much work I did and I also did not do it in the hopes of finding a partner but judging by reddit's logic I should have gotten more success because I worked so hard I worked hard for so many years and I don't regret it but it makes me even more bitter when I keep getting this type of sentiment and I'm wondering why no girl could see all of my hard work And I apologiz…	/r/ExRedPill	27/05/21 01:46 PM
1	How does one prove they are genuine nice guy Everybody keeps saying that you will look more attractive as a byproduct but I'm just not seeing it especially considering just how much work I did and I also did not do it in the hopes of finding a partner but judging by reddit's logic I should have gotten more success because I worked so hard I worked hard for so many years and I don't regret it but it makes me even more bitter when I keep getting this type of sentiment and I'm wondering why no girl could see all of my hard work And I apologiz…	/r/ExRedPill	27/05/21 01:46 PM
0	How does one prove they are genuine nice guy Everybody keeps saying that you will look more attractive as a byproduct but I'm just not seeing it especially considering just how much work I did and I also did not do it in the hopes of finding a partner but judging by reddit's logic I should have gotten more success because I worked so hard I worked hard for so many years and I don't regret it but it makes me even more bitter when I keep getting this type of sentiment and I'm wondering why no girl could see all of my hard work And I apologiz…	/r/ExRedPill	27/05/21 01:46 PM
1	If success is what attracts women, what defines it? And how can a man prove to success to a woman? Because everybody's definition of success is different But I know tons of men and women who are just as broke as I am but still find relationships so I am wondering at what type of success are we all judging each other for	/r/ExRedPill	27/05/21 01:35 PM
0	If success is what attracts women, what defines it? And how can a man prove to success to a woman? But does that all end at high School I used to think the song high School never ends with stupid... But as I get older it's so relatable because it is still about who's wearing what and who's messing around with who and what kind of car you drive. The people you associate with and the type of job you have Both lawyers and plumbers make a lot of money, but one is looked at as more prestigious and one is looked at as more low class, despite the fact that both are good money making jobs There are s…	/r/ExRedPill	27/05/21 05:59 AM
-1	If success is what attracts women, what defines it? And how can a man prove to success to a woman? But those are the types that I see succeeding the most is the tryhards or at least the ones who mastered it Don't get me wrong it is nice having successes and it is nice having successes as yourself But it does make you wonder how much suffering you could have saved yourself if you did conform or act the part. I hate this because it is fake and it is so hard to keep up but with something like dating it just seems so opposite of me	/r/ExRedPill	27/05/21 05:54 AM
1	How do you not compare yourself to other people sexually? Oh boy I get that. There were days where I wanted to eat her out but she refused another days she wanted it so I understand that people can be fickle	/r/ExRedPill	27/05/21 01:53 AM
1	If success is what attracts women, what defines it? And how can a man prove to success to a woman? See I'm happy for you and don't get me wrong I'm not trying to judge you but as a guy I take this two ways On one hand we're taught that we're supposed to be financially stable and sufficient but to be wealthy enough to have that type of stuff is also good but it shouldn't be everything If you were my cousin my aunt would have told you to go for the first guy My mother however would have told you to go for the second guy I've been my twenties and sometimes I question why my last girlfriend like …	/r/ExRedPill	27/05/21 01:52 AM
0	How do you feel about the school system treating boys? Basically as defective girls Men's lip is too feminist focused which isn't a bad thing but it starts to become an echo chamber if you have certain ideas that don't match up with the narrative	/r/ExRedPill	26/05/21 10:11 PM
1	How does one prove they are genuine nice guy Sorry it is me but I made a new account because I lost my other one	/r/ExRedPill	26/05/21 10:09 PM
1	How does one prove they are genuine nice guy This is going to sound weird because I don't want it to seem like hard work only matters if you get a partner and I don't want to make it seem like women have it inherently easier? But do you feel like your hard work made it easier for you to get people to respect you and to find romantic potential?	/r/ExRedPill	26/05/21 08:52 PM
1	How do you feel about the school system treating boys? Basically as defective girls I feel the same way but I hesitate to become a teacher for the exact same reasons because now I'm a huge black man in the position of power and I remember our teachers having trouble disciplining other students regardless of race but I imagine it being a unique challenge for a black man. But yes there needs to be more male teachers because they would usually be more understanding towards certain boys who are a little bit more rowdy and it does give off the impression that women are more nurturin…	/r/ExRedPill	26/05/21 08:13 PM
1	How do you not compare yourself to other people sexually? Apparently I'm good at eating a girl out judging by my ex's reactions but we never could go beyond that	/r/ExRedPill	26/05/21 08:10 PM
1	How does one prove they are genuine nice guy Do you feel like all your hard work paid off?	/r/ExRedPill	26/05/21 08:10 PM
1	How does one prove they are genuine nice guy I worked so hard and that was not enough. I work so hard for so many years without ever complaining and now you're telling me that I have to keep going otherwise I'll be alone I get what you're saying I honestly do it just makes me feel so tired.	/r/ExRedPill	26/05/21 05:36 PM
1	How does one prove they are genuine nice guy From the nice guys perspective it's because we're taught to be this way because we know every other way a man could or could not harm a woman whether it be on purpose or not We know we could trigger a woman if you know we don't mean it because as a man we don't know if this woman is well adjusted or has some crazy trauma from old abusers Combine that with men still expecting to approach then it gets a little frustrating when you're trying to date and you keep ending up in the friend zone and the…	/r/ExRedPill	26/05/21 01:34 PM
1	How does one prove they are genuine nice guy And this is why I feel like I need to prove it because look at how easily you said nice guys could be easily as toxic which is something I just do not believe What I mean by making it hard to prove that you're a nice guy is that a lot of people attune it with weakness. I have a lot of traits that will be considered nerdy and sensitive but just because someone picks it up on me doesn't mean they also pick up on the fact that I used to fight grown men and women when I was a kid because they were a…	/r/ExRedPill	26/05/21 01:31 PM
1	How does one prove they are genuine nice guy Because we're told that relationships are supposed to come as a by-product of you working hard in your life and so far I just do not see that happening to me And I hate to think you're like that as if I'm supposed to be at my best so I can have a chance at love because I've also learned that most people are filled with flaws which included many of my girlfriends and ex flings	/r/ExRedPill	26/05/21 01:27 PM
1	How does one prove they are genuine nice guy What if being nice and complimenting people is being yourself and I don't do this to just women I'll tell a man if I like his beard or if he's handsome or if he looks like a pop singer A lot of men don't get compliments already and I think it's a shame All dating advice seems to point to not using validation but there's no way to impress a girl without using something that is validating I'm still wondering why the girls in the past like me but it probably has something to do with my humor in hei…	/r/ExRedPill	25/05/21 05:35 PM
1	How does one prove they are genuine nice guy That's kind of why I feel like it's pointless because you can do everything but then there's always something left to do so what do you work on? I live in Knoxville Tennessee in the United States	/r/ExRedPill	25/05/21 05:33 PM
1	Please disprove AF/BB(Alpha fucks, beta bucks See I disagree because looking back I was very confident even before I started myself improvement but I thought I had to open compensate because I was nice and empathetic Like it gets old getting called weak or weird because you're a big dude and you happen to be respectful so I try to compensate with other things but looking back I realize how silly that was trying to overcompensate for having a good personality trait And I have self-improved in right now I'm not feeling so good as it may feel …	/r/ExRedPill	25/05/21 04:23 PM
2	Please disprove AF/BB(Alpha fucks, beta bucks But see that's the problem as these things come off that way but aren't and I am tired of trying to change myself trying to pretend that acting like a overconfident dude is going to be better I hate the idea that these guys are somehow overly confident compared to the nice guys because nice guys are confident too. Is they do actually understand the thoughts and feelings that women go through and that sometimes is translated to weakness or insecurity even if it isn't and it shouldn't be seen that…	/r/ExRedPill	25/05/21 04:17 PM
1	How does one prove they are genuine nice guy I'm so tired of trying to do that because that's all I did in high school and college was trying to figure out who I was and be confident and comfortable and I'm still back to square one! Believe me I understand the message of what you're trying to say but I feel so spiritually tired and spent I went to another country and came back to America around late 2017 and ever since I felt so empty because I feel like I've done everything now I worked out until my muscles pop I tried to keep my studies …	/r/ExRedPill	25/05/21 04:14 PM
1	How do you not compare yourself to other people sexually? But doesn't it seem like you're being delusional and even some of this trying to walk around thinking you're good and there are so many people who are better than you Believe me I try to give myself positive self talk but it starts to feel so forced when I have so much history of girls leaving you for other men	/r/ExRedPill	25/05/21 04:12 PM
1	Please disprove AF/BB(Alpha fucks, beta bucks I've been in and out of therapy since I was a kid I'm going to need something a little bit better than that Therapy does not fix society in therapy never had my back when I was put in a situation completely unfair to me Is therapy going to give me all my years back? Will there be allow me to be free? As a man that's impossible living in this world	/r/ExRedPill	25/05/21 03:44 PM
1	Please disprove AF/BB(Alpha fucks, beta bucks I completely understand that. What's your point	/r/ExRedPill	25/05/21 12:46 PM
1	Please disprove AF/BB(Alpha fucks, beta bucks Elaborate	/r/ExRedPill	25/05/21 12:46 PM
0	Please disprove AF/BB(Alpha fucks, beta bucks People are human and most people want their dates to be near perfect or at least better than them and I'm not judging because it's human and it comes from the ego Now I do not care and when I first started dating I did not but I have noticed that there seems to be a bunch of presidents and standards that are expected even if the standards do not make any sense. It makes no sense for any 18 year olds who want somebody with a lot of money because they do not And please believe when I tell you not …	/r/ExRedPill	25/05/21 12:45 PM
1	Please disprove AF/BB(Alpha fucks, beta bucks 24	/r/ExRedPill	25/05/21 12:44 PM
1	Please disprove AF/BB(Alpha fucks, beta bucks I don't know. I don't really feel like a person anymore after everything that's happened	/r/ExRedPill	25/05/21 12:43 PM
2	Please disprove AF/BB(Alpha fucks, beta bucks As a huge big and muscular black man I understand completely It's amazing how much people pay attention to me and are frightened by me just because I'm bigger. It's something I've noticed since I was a kid and I actually used to feel self-conscious about but I'm better now And I guess that is something all of us muscular boys kind of had to deal with. And you can use your power for good it just gets insulting when people expect it from you or that your personality is not that of some type of joc…	/r/ExRedPill	24/05/21 09:08 PM
1	Please disprove AF/BB(Alpha fucks, beta bucks You know what your last sentence screams at me to be the truth because I have been the trashy dandy to one girl but I've also been the alpha to another and it was the most confusing yet liberating thing to me People are very fake and just because someone puts on the front of being a good person does not mean they are and I'm getting that a lot from people nowadays It's hard because like women men are forced certain stereotypes or images that we have to conform to and if we aren't we're losers Fo…	/r/ExRedPill	24/05/21 06:28 PM
2	Please disprove AF/BB(Alpha fucks, beta bucks Just the way you write it sounds filled with contempt I agree it is my responsibility and I am trying but imagine saying this to a bunch of girls who feel the same way. Right now I hear a bunch of women saying that they did not like the way they grew up because they were brainwashed into thinking that they had to be XY or z Or that they even fulfilled what society wanted from them and they still got hurt by horrible men or other horrible women I am almost 25 now and I'm just realizing how much B…	/r/ExRedPill	24/05/21 06:23 PM
1	Please disprove AF/BB(Alpha fucks, beta bucks But I need the answer. Trying to come to terms with how I grew up and why it was so hard and confusing And you are right about human nature being difficult to nail down which is why I am very conflicted on this. Like what if the girl was with some toxic guy but couldn't escape My last date had an example just like that as she was married it was only with two men and already has children my age. But she spent so much time in an abusive relationships so of course I don't judge her or blame her On …	/r/ExRedPill	24/05/21 04:33 PM
-1	Please disprove AF/BB(Alpha fucks, beta bucks I can't find them right now and I will take these with a grain of salt. A lot of women seem to have a double mating strategy to wear they'll go for and not so good guy for the short term and then find a good guy for the stability in long term A bunch of women in my own family have said that when they were younger they went after guys who weren't so good until they got older which from their perspective is supposed to be a good thing before the guys it just makes you feel like more of a loser Rig…	/r/ExRedPill	24/05/21 04:28 PM
2	Please disprove AF/BB(Alpha fucks, beta bucks I completely get you bro because I argue the same when it comes to relationships because relationships are emotional and chaotic by nature and we can't really logic our way into them Logically my female friend should not be dating all these crazy dudes because me and the other friends can see that they are abusive from a mile away but she's caught up in the excitement and the nice feelings so of course she's not going to see it I've been guilty of it! I went after some very horrible women but be…	/r/ExRedPill	24/05/21 04:22 PM
2	Please disprove AF/BB(Alpha fucks, beta bucks A lot of people will tell you again to wait because women aren't attracted to a lot of things that take time As much as I hate to admit it a lot of these things do take time so just confidence and money and status Women are born with exactly what is attractive to Men and don't really have to work on anything at first glance to attract the man A man not only has to be the best or at least be perceived as better than the other men but he also has to pursue and do it smoothly without hesitation or …	/r/ExRedPill	24/05/21 02:39 PM
-2	Please disprove AF/BB(Alpha fucks, beta bucks Then you might as well not date if you're inherently just dating just to out compete the other sex I feel both sexes are trying to avoid getting hurt by acting like what they think the other sex is If I'm dating a girl I am dating her in my attention is usually on her and not on other girls. And I would rather keep it that way but the way things are nowadays you could be dating a girl and she could be dating you and three other guys Exactly as you said as ever since I was a teenager I have been …	/r/ExRedPill	24/05/21 02:35 PM
2	Please disprove AF/BB(Alpha fucks, beta bucks And I am trying to see it that way. And even though I've been hurt I also know that abuse is cyclical and I hesitate to call these women broken. I just watch the video of a girl who was in foster care just like my ex-girlfriend The girl was raped at five and then went through an entire adolescence of nothing but heartbreak and violence I grew up around so many men and women like this and I am one of these men and women minus the sexual violence. I grew up in the hood and I grew up being abused a…	/r/ExRedPill	24/05/21 04:19 AM
0	Please disprove AF/BB(Alpha fucks, beta bucks That's the hardest question I would like to know if there is some statistics that refute this but trying to get statistics on something like human nature especially when we are all dating is very hard and rarely accurate Why do so many people tell young boys to wait when they're older to get women? I don't like that saying because women aren't objects but I have gotten this from both men and women. If this is not true then why is there so much emphasis on a guy waiting until later where he may b…	/r/ExRedPill	24/05/21 04:16 AM
1	How do you not compare yourself to other people sexually? That sounds good but you forget that some women are patient and if they find a guy who isn't up the stuff they could just find another one but then again I am generalizing and I know that's not true for all the time it's just that I have met too much of the losses and resistance instead of success	/r/ExRedPill	23/05/21 11:01 PM
1	How do you not compare yourself to other people sexually? I learned in the worst people anyway and stop trying to make it seem like being real inauthentic has some type of worth and that real and authentic people will get exactly that back in return because so far I have not seen it You know how many women I have turned off or have ghosted me because I did the things you said. Which is fair and warranted and of course no girl has to like you just because you do everything right but it makes it doubly insulting when you're told all these things and then…	/r/ExRedPill	23/05/21 10:53 PM
1	How do you not compare yourself to other people sexually? I've already done all of that and you were saying this like knowing all of this makes it easier Through my hobbies I realized I was cultured and talented and knowledgeable and smart I understand what you're saying completely but most of the time we get value from our hobbies because they encompass a lot of different skills to either do or perform or become good at Of course I have values and beliefs but I doubt those really hold any weight especially as a guy because I've been laughed at by the …	/r/ExRedPill	23/05/21 09:48 PM
1	How do you not compare yourself to other people sexually? I feel like that's most of dating I barely even mention my nerdy or weeaboo tendencies anymore because I know it'll be taking neutral or even work against me at best So I tone down that side of me which is arguably at least 65% of me and I'll play all my other strengths such as my way with words or comedy And that's just giving you an example of what I mean cuz you can replace nerdy with any other personality trait that may be deemed unattractive	/r/ExRedPill	23/05/21 07:29 PM
1	How do you not compare yourself to other people sexually? I get more attention from women now but I feel like my old personality that I was proud of is gone Dating is not politically correct and nice guys are trashed all over the internet I've had to act like things I do not like to get women	/r/ExRedPill	23/05/21 06:34 PM
3	How do you not compare yourself to other people sexually? I lurk there too and you're not lying. I guess that's another fear of mine and I know I need to not think of it like that When you're married expectations change also now you have to figure out how to match your sex life with adult life and I can understand how that could be a challenge That sounds heartbreaking to still be in love or even married but not able to connect with your partner on that level because of whatever reason. It sounds terrifying	/r/ExRedPill	23/05/21 05:06 AM
-6	Please help, I think my fiancée is beginning to resent her own existence because of RP content You can say this about feminism. I'm a boy raised by feminist family and teachings and it does start to great on your self-esteem when your entire gender is categorized as something evil even when individually you're not	/r/ExRedPill	22/05/21 10:55 PM
1	Women dont care about a mans struggles I would love to read some of these books and I would love to write one also Like Scott Aaronson You have a whole generation of boys who were raised by feminist mothers who grew up with female teachers with very little male role models Some of these male role models were toxic and in my case I got it from both genders It is so confusing being told that you have to be a Superman and yet the same trait society wants you to have to be successful are the same ones they hate you for A lot of women see…	/r/ExRedPill	20/05/21 07:07 AM
1	What makes insecurity a turn off It's crazy because I can imagine to you individually these may be insecurities with an outside party such as myself I just see it as you being a normal person	/r/ExRedPill	20/05/21 02:34 AM
1	What makes insecurity a turn off I completely understand that and I know it's a slippery slope it just seems like this type of thing could potentially make a person who's chronically insecure even more so Like if I read your reply 10 years ago it will probably make my anxiety 5,000 times worse but now that I'm older I knew how to deal with it and have dealt with some of my bigger baggage but I'm nowhere near perfect Tell me something. How do you feel your confidence levels are? Do you feel deeply insecure or are you good or are…	/r/ExRedPill	20/05/21 01:31 AM
2	I think this red pill stuff has given me Writers Block. I am a big fan of sci-fi and fantasy but I always try to use it in setting a theme only and try to make my characters at least translatable to the real world Sonic the hedgehog and Lord of the rings and game of thrones and Naruto all are set in some type of fantasy world where stuff is not realistic but how the characters are written and where these themes and stories start most definitely are realistic No we are not 12-year-old blonde ninjas with a demon inside of us but we all know what it is …	/r/ExRedPill	20/05/21 12:31 AM
1	Women dont care about a mans struggles And just from my conversations with you I can tell that you are not close-minded and I'm sorry if it comes off that way I do agree that humans do dumb stuff in human beings are chaotic. I've been guilty of it as well	/r/ExRedPill	20/05/21 12:28 AM
1	Women dont care about a mans struggles And he is right when a lot of women don't realize that they are doing it because a lot of women tout themselves as progressive but every single time I tried to get vulnerable and open with just a female friend let alone a romantic interest then you see all her respect fade away from me	/r/ExRedPill	19/05/21 10:50 PM
1	Women dont care about a mans struggles I don't think he's putting words in your mouth but it is true that most of us men have already tried this type of thing and it always backfire.	/r/ExRedPill	19/05/21 10:49 PM
0	What makes insecurity a turn off I'm not saying most women lack it but most men who are emotionally mature or would be described as sensitive or mostly mature like myself have experienced being called all types of names and having your masculinity called in the question. I'd imagine most men are already emotionally mature and open but a combination of social and cultural pressures really Mass this type of thing even if they are When you see a big grizzly Man with a beard you don't assume that he's an emotional Rock but just bec…	/r/ExRedPill	19/05/21 09:51 PM
0	What makes insecurity a turn off Exactly you're more inclined to be socially supportive of each other because women having inborn group bias Sexism is where you believe that men or women have to subscribe to a certain number of standards or act on them or be placed in them and if not they are somehow lesser than Sons of young women are just as immature and insecure as young men and how I grew up I just do not see them being more emotionally supportive because if that was true then half of my female bullies would not have bullie…	/r/ExRedPill	19/05/21 09:37 PM
1	What makes insecurity a turn off You cannot say something is internalized or comes from the individual especially if you know it does come from the outer society This isn't just old bad friends this has been teachers and authority figures and bosses and people I've worked with and people in positions of power I'm not saying women don't have to be worrying about insecurity but what I'm saying is a man's insecurity will penalize him way more than a woman's will Look how you said I wouldn't take something else don't give a f about…	/r/ExRedPill	19/05/21 09:36 PM
1	What makes insecurity a turn off I got the point but what I'm saying is people are way to unforgiving. I wish somebody told that to all my abusers and bullies and so called mentors and role models Don't take out your perceived biases notions or insecurities out on young children but it's too late I was always known as the guy who was open and empathetic but the moment my life went upside down everybody decided to act like I was crazy and yet if it was the other way around I would have never left them	/r/ExRedPill	19/05/21 09:21 PM
-1	What makes insecurity a turn off This assumes that most women are naturally more emotionally supportive which is not true and can be interpreted as sexes and it also assumes that most men do not have emotional maturity which is also just a sexist Like you said some women will take that and transcribe it into some type of insecurity from the lack of masculine which is that's not the case. I've always assumed it was because men are already expected to be X y and z is why they're insecure and not because of the lack of the thing t…	/r/ExRedPill	19/05/21 08:58 PM
2	What makes insecurity a turn off I swear it's no different from the bootstrap myth If you just do all the right things and work hard enough then you reach your goal and that should extend to mental health because I had a moment in my life where I skyrocketed my confidence but I can only say that because I was in the right place at the right time I did activities like working out and playing sports all my life but it made me miserable but it wasn't until I did this for myself that stuff changed I have a cousin that has multiple …	/r/ExRedPill	19/05/21 05:00 PM
1	What makes insecurity a turn off I get it because my ex-girlfriend was super abusive to me because of her own insecurities but I'm also empathetic to know that before I met her I took a good year to get over my insecurities but it took a lot of hard work and honestly the right environment Whenever I will go work out with my sporty friends it was always a competition of toxic masculinity and over time it gets old in the ways that yourself esteem because no matter if you win or lose there's always going to be somebody who's going…	/r/ExRedPill	19/05/21 04:57 PM
2	I think this red pill stuff has given me Writers Block. I'm a comic book artist so I'm naturally going to think about literary tropes And I do go outside quite often I just got home last night for my cousins and I go to work in about 4 hours	/r/ExRedPill	19/05/21 02:49 PM
1	I think this red pill stuff has given me Writers Block. I actually get a lot of criticism and I still draw but writing is the thing that I just cannot seem to get and it's as you say because I'm scared of offending both sides Plus I am a black man and my experience with manhood and even my interactions with women may be a little different than the average person You also don't want to send the wrong messages. There's so much media where partners are damn near abused and it's about gender even at this point if you consider both anime and romcoms and m…	/r/ExRedPill	19/05/21 02:49 PM
1	What makes insecurity a turn off I think that's just natural inhuman nature because of conflict I feel like this is such a bad message to send to young boys is that they cannot be insecure and you are right about the degree of it but who measures how insecure somebody is and despite the fact that it may come off in certain ways we still do not know a full person because of these things You know what helped me with my greatest insecurity? I got a few wins under my belt and as a kid and as a young man I always knew that men were …	/r/ExRedPill	19/05/21 02:38 PM
2	I think this red pill stuff has given me Writers Block. I've actually I have actually written two romance novels and some of my characters are female but most of my main characters have been male I grew up raised by mostly women from school and in the home and feminism was beating over my head so much and I always grew up looking at female center things which is good but right now I really think there's needs to be some type of new male main character to shine forth with this new age I actually thought about making a dating web comic to help men unde…	/r/ExRedPill	19/05/21 02:07 PM
0	What makes insecurity a turn off Everything you typed out just reinforced it I don't see where you're trying to make the point that women aren't allowed to be insecure because basically what you just told me is if that I don't master or even have the energy to try to hide my insecurities then it's just going to penalize me and I can't get down with that I'm tired of hiding my true feelings because acting like the opposite has not helped me either I want to be fully me but I also want to express me without any restriction. You j…	/r/ExRedPill	19/05/21 02:04 PM
1	What makes insecurity a turn off And I'm pretty sure that most of your friends are the exact same way which is why I do not understand what is the big problem as if most people are not insecure We are not Masters of the universe and most of us are very good at hiding our true intentions and our personality and I can say that because I have done it with all of my insecurities and trauma people still think I am amazing even though I know I have all this baggage I'm not blaming you guys but when I hear so many people basically say…	/r/ExRedPill	19/05/21 02:01 PM
-1	I think this red pill stuff has given me Writers Block. But see there's also the opposite effect because feminists like to pick holes in every single thing wrong with media nowadays too so you now have the red pill and feminism on your back	/r/ExRedPill	19/05/21 02:00 PM
2	I think this red pill stuff has given me Writers Block. Of course women don't act like anime characters but I love anime and I love that it can be unrealistic or even realistic and it depends on which ones you find and which genre you are in It's fairy tale a weird and cringe-worthy fan service epoch with simple plots or is it a heartwarming tale about friendship? I used to think JoJo was weird until I got into it. See that's right there's what makes it hard because it's not just a red pill but the feminists too	/r/ExRedPill	19/05/21 01:57 PM
1	What makes insecurity a turn off But once again that seems very unfair because we all have insecurities and we can't just turn them off or find reassurance just because we want to I know I shouldn't feel bad about my masculinity but I live in a society where it is going to remind me of exactly what I'm lacking and as I get older the standards and expectations only get worse I have never looked at someone like that and said that they were not friend material or even relationship material I've had trauma since the age of eight an…	/r/ExRedPill	19/05/21 01:55 PM
2	I think this red pill stuff has given me Writers Block. I'm in the cam that anime has actually improved but that's just me Some anime can be problematic but a lot of anime actually help me when I was younger because a lot of the protagonists are men but do not follow such rigid masculine roles I actually haven't sat down and watched a full anime in about 2 years and I have not played a video game in about 3 years	/r/ExRedPill	19/05/21 01:52 PM
0	What makes insecurity a turn off If the things that we were secure about really made up for the other things that we were not so secure about then I don't think anybody would be single. I'm sorry that just seems too generous and it doesn't match with my experience I've been wishing for the day that a girl would see all of the great things about me and decided those things are worth something over my shortcomings but I'm just not seeing it. It's okay if a girl doesn't see it and she does not have to like me but when you say that…	/r/ExRedPill	19/05/21 06:08 AM
2	What makes insecurity a turn off What you describe sounds so much like with my people do anyway. I'm very insecure about my job and money. I am not insecure about my looks or talking to people or meeting new people It's just as a man whenever this comes up in conversation there's a twitch in the back of my head because then I remind myself that I am judged by certain standards It's a little unfair to say that it becomes unattractive when you have these insecurities and do not work because I don't think there are certain things …	/r/ExRedPill	19/05/21 06:06 AM
1	Please get me out of the MRA rabbit hole. It's still early. Please save me. I 100% agree with you but it is because at this point in time a lot of women's issues are rightly brought up to the forefront but there's also a double meaning going on and I would argue it's because that society already viewed women as wonderful that feminism took off the way it did because if this was a bunch of men expressing their complaints then they will be told to be quiet and man up I'm a black male and I'm a minority with everything that that entails with my life but I truly believe if …	/r/ExRedPill	16/05/21 10:21 PM
1	Do you think a gender appreciation or serious sex ed with help bridge The divide between the genders I just hear a lot of women say that a lot of guys and I've also heard a lot of guys say that sometimes they are fearful of trying out new things are taking communication just because of how much of a stigma it is for men to be inexperienced or suck at bed Of course this is not going to fix everything but sex is a tool and if we all knew how to do it better and more safely and respectfully than I think that could help	/r/ExRedPill	16/05/21 01:15 PM
1	Do you think a gender appreciation or serious sex ed with help bridge The divide between the genders It's a mixture of misinformation and a bunch of different narratives all being told at once and combine that with a generation who is hypersensitive yet also hyper-intelligent and combined that again with the natural chaotic nature that is dating. Did you get the mess we're in A lot of what we are taught as men and women that same politically correct or that are seen as socially decent usually are the opposite when it comes to sex Something striking that I realize when I was looking at debates a…	/r/ExRedPill	16/05/21 06:44 AM
1	Do you think a gender appreciation or serious sex ed with help bridge The divide between the genders One could argue most people already tried that and then turned towards the internet and other things Most young men are told than any move they make or any word they say will be met with some type of pushback. Whether this is warranted or not does not matter but you can see why a lot of people will be apprehensive to try something especially in this volatile age I've been trying to take normally since I was a kid and I didn't start using online dating till I was an adult. I've had a few matches …	/r/ExRedPill	16/05/21 02:45 AM
1	Do you think a gender appreciation or serious sex ed with help bridge The divide between the genders I come from the south in our sex ed was very limited and essentially boil down to either don't do it or face consequences if pregnancy happens but little to do with the actual act of how to have sex properly and safely At age 16 I thought every girl liked to have sex exactly the same way but of course as I got older I learned differently but you can see how crazy that is Even within my own body I realize how normal erectile dysfunction is. Sometimes your body wants to go but your mind doesn't an…	/r/ExRedPill	16/05/21 12:06 AM
1	If insecurity or other toxic things lead me into the red pill ,why do you think they are insecure or exposed to toxicity in the first place? What certain traits need to be accepted	/r/ExRedPill	14/05/21 08:05 PM
1	Why do we say stop blaming others? There is plenty of blame to go around and it can definitely be someone else's fault. Wouldn't it be nice though if people could realize when it is their fault and apologize accordingly instead of just dropping it for the sake of a quiet peace? I get what you're saying believe me I really do! But I feel like this type of mindset only makes it okay for future abusers and oppressors to do it again. There's a reason why many of us Americans still put blame on the American idea or the government or whatever you want to call it. That is because we as Americans are fed this pipe dream …	/r/ExRedPill	13/05/21 02:59 AM
1	Why do we say stop blaming others? There is plenty of blame to go around and it can definitely be someone else's fault. As a fellow black person don't you think that is so damn insulting that somehow you have to prove all of this through your pain even though some other human being gave it to you I understand taking your power back and I also understand living for yourself as I am not perfect but I'm getting on that road again but I don't think I could ever be that forgiving I was in the past but I'm an adult now and I will never get those years back As a fellow black person you know how it is walking around in p…	/r/ExRedPill	13/05/21 02:57 AM
2	Why do we say stop blaming others? There is plenty of blame to go around and it can definitely be someone else's fault. And I feel like that kind of makes it worse and I do understand what you're saying but As a lot of feminists rightly point out it is not the job of someone who is down trying or being on to somehow make things comfortable and make it right I hate this idea that you are supposed to be responsible for someone else's negativity that they themselves put on you Of course I don't advocate everybody going around hating each other and of course I would want most people to heal. But whenever I hear that …	/r/ExRedPill	13/05/21 02:53 AM
1	Why do we say stop blaming others? There is plenty of blame to go around and it can definitely be someone else's fault. I've been on both sides And sometimes it's has to do with circumstance in your place in life At 16 I absorb the messaging that I was inherently a fat and lazy bastard. Everything on TV said so and every other sitcom dad or male character was made out to be an idiot or a psychopath The only positive male representation I could find was in some comic books and some anime and even then some people will look at you weird. I started compensating in everything I could and I am proud of that but lookin…	/r/ExRedPill	13/05/21 02:50 AM
1	Why do we say stop blaming others? There is plenty of blame to go around and it can definitely be someone else's fault. Everybody should have some of that mindset In the past I would call this arrogant but sometimes it can be everybody's fault and I don't mean people individually but people in groups AKA society I've been at a party with 10 friends before I know that if there was something bad happening or that two out of the ten friends caused it, I can guarantee that three of the friends would probably hate what the other friend is doing but say nothing. The other seven will probably go along with it But once a…	/r/ExRedPill	13/05/21 02:47 AM
1	If insecurity or other toxic things lead me into the red pill ,why do you think they are insecure or exposed to toxicity in the first place? I would agree. I wholeheartedly believe that dating is so complicated because it is a mixture of how we look and act and how society will perceive us The fact that the same men who could be called creepy or weird, are also the same man who would be another woman's cup of tea, makes me wonder just how much of a man's attraction is based on how he acts or looks or how he is received by that individual girl My cousin was dating a friend of mine. My cousin on paper should seem like the perfect guy b…	/r/ExRedPill	13/05/21 02:43 AM
1	Why do we say stop blaming others? There is plenty of blame to go around and it can definitely be someone else's fault. I hesitate to still call myself an optimist cuz I still believe in that type of thing but it's hard to feel optimistic after you've been through a lot Now that being said I also recognize within myself that I am doing way better than I did last year. It just feels like all of your good points in the complements and accomplishments become bittersweet after so much abuse. This abuse could come from a loved one or a parent or society but after you put your faith in something and it disappoints you …	/r/ExRedPill	13/05/21 02:40 AM
1	You guys need to self improve or do individual women have certain preferences for individual men Yes I have tons of friends and a support network and I am thankful for that	/r/ExRedPill	11/05/21 02:13 PM
1	Has anybody in this sub been guilty of toxic masculinity or enforcing patriarchal norms Something that seems so ironically true is despite all of us living in a more peaceful and technologically advanced world were all more anxious and lonely and unhappy I agree with you that the system is a form of male suppression and I feel like there is this weird war going on between men on different sides I'm in the camp of men being much more emotionally free because it is that liberating but I also know as a man just how challenging it is because you risk getting disrespected by both men an…	/r/ExRedPill	10/05/21 04:20 PM
1	Women find happy guys significantly less sexually attractive than swaggering or brooding men, according to a new University of British Columbia study that helps to explain the enduring allure of "bad boys" and other iconic gender types. I remember another study saying that women were attracted to men who essentially were sexist as men who were woke were deemed as unattractive which I find very sad but makes sense. For every progressive girl I've met she has had almost 10 boyfriends who were walking examples of toxic masculinity Dark triad personality traits are seen as attractive and this is not something that is set in stone as people are different and nuanced but as a big black man who has been perceived as some super alpha d…	/r/ExRedPill	10/05/21 04:15 PM
1	Has anybody in this sub been guilty of toxic masculinity or enforcing patriarchal norms We need to go back to that. Just the other day at work I've mentioned that there's almost no heart in anything anymore despite some things being issues that need to be talked about The moment you rather be right then have your movement or goal have right or healthy outcomes, you become the very thing you hate Just look at some of the Reddit debates between the genders or on radio or podcast Each gender really wants their perspective to be heard but sometimes that means admitting that you may hav…	/r/ExRedPill	10/05/21 04:10 PM
1	If insecurity or other toxic things lead me into the red pill ,why do you think they are insecure or exposed to toxicity in the first place? That there are inherently authentic mean The stereotype of the nice guy does exist but it's very rare in most men grow out of it by middle school and it disrespects tons of actual good and authentic men who are young and make sacrifices I hate using the words blue and red pill because I'm realizing how much meaning they do not hold but I do see blue pill in a more favorable light as I don't see it as simply but I see it as someone who is open and vulnerable towards different types of people gend…	/r/ExRedPill	10/05/21 04:07 PM
1	If insecurity or other toxic things lead me into the red pill ,why do you think they are insecure or exposed to toxicity in the first place? Also something I hate about these arguments is that it traps you because how do you explain how much of a good guy you are? Objectively we can look at ourselves and see what things we do right or wrong but especially in the context of these situations people will usually tell the guy that if he has to say he's nice or good that he isn't which I think is not fair. I could have been like my mother or father or many other men and women in my family or community but I chose not to despite going thro…	/r/ExRedPill	10/05/21 03:36 PM
1	Has anybody in this sub been guilty of toxic masculinity or enforcing patriarchal norms Your response is perfect Both gender spread it and I think that should be the message for all genders is that both men and women spread these ideas consciously or subconsciously Like you said about the fact that you are sexually submissive. I know just off of merit that if you were on a date with a couple of women and did not disclose that fact till date number three they probably would not want another date Of course I've only seen this a couple of times and this is not all women but for all ou…	/r/ExRedPill	10/05/21 03:31 PM
1	Has anybody in this sub been guilty of toxic masculinity or enforcing patriarchal norms I have the opposite experience so I do not see it as such a positive thing Most of my family and community wanted me to be a basketball player because I'm a big black dude and a lot of that encompassed a stereotypical stoic and dry masculinity which never fit me because I was always super flamboyant and emotional and artistic and passionate My mental health skyrocketed when I was able to get away from people who wanted to make me feel small and be around people like me It took me 17 years to fin…	/r/ExRedPill	10/05/21 03:29 PM
1	If insecurity or other toxic things lead me into the red pill ,why do you think they are insecure or exposed to toxicity in the first place? But your argument falls on the premise that there aren't any inherently authentic good men and that men still don't have some success while having a blue pill mind I was literally a class clown and the life of the party. I still was able to get a girlfriend in the past with this mindset and you're also assuming that every girl has super omniscient Powers which is just not true When I'm in my blue pill is being too forgiving of women and men and avoiding conflict just to keep the peace rather tha…	/r/ExRedPill	10/05/21 03:27 PM
1	Has anybody in this sub been guilty of toxic masculinity or enforcing patriarchal norms Exactly. So many of these young men are on the path they are because of combination of already trying to be vulnerable and being humiliated and being told that you're not man enough. We're told to be open and vulnerable and yet we get penalized for it. And yet if we're too much and if we're too bold and too aggressive then we're evil and stupid and patriarchal. When we as a society make everything that is decent and good into something that is ridiculed, and then equally make everything that is …	/r/ExRedPill	09/05/21 09:11 PM
3	If insecurity or other toxic things lead me into the red pill ,why do you think they are insecure or exposed to toxicity in the first place? And I get that and I'm starting to realize that After I broke up with my last ex I felt absolutely no hard feelings because this relationship was one that actually did not feel like I was competing and she never made me feel like crap. Just call me handsome and husband all the time and I try to take that as a compliment without too much hassle You are right when you say everybody has different personalities and desires.	/r/ExRedPill	09/05/21 07:23 PM
4	If insecurity or other toxic things lead me into the red pill ,why do you think they are insecure or exposed to toxicity in the first place? I'm a black dude and something I have noticed especially with having friends who used to be racist or had racist relatives Something I learned this a lot of those members are usually a part of the groups they hate. You don't know how many plans man turned out to be gay or Jewish. Which makes sense because they are so filled with self-hating that they join a group that hates them so they can at least act like it is not a part of them I agree with you about the pipeline part. I got a friend who ha…	/r/ExRedPill	09/05/21 07:08 PM
1	I don't think there will ever be equality Intimate partner violence is half and half I used to come home to my stepdad and mother fighting each other and even though what you say is true about the physical advantage that has to stop being an excuse. Whenever my mother was upset over something if she could not get her way by arguing she used to beat me. It cannot be both ways where women are super empowered and then can claim victimhood. And believe me I get it I really do as I am not a woman but I used to be a feminist and as a black ma…	/r/ExRedPill	06/05/21 02:37 PM
1	You guys need to self improve or do individual women have certain preferences for individual men I feel like confidence especially when we talk about in a dating sense really is a type of adherence to some masculine role Can I ask you this question? Do you not think that human perceptions can be off reality? Do you think that every man who was confident has the same amount of success I get what you say when it is internal but judging by that logic I should not be having any troubles If confidence is supposed to be this it Factor then why do I struggle so much? Why did I struggle so much eve…	/r/ExRedPill	06/05/21 02:34 PM
1	You guys need to self improve or do individual women have certain preferences for individual men The issue is when you give an absolute statement even without meaning so such as just have confidence a guy like me who is not only socially savvy but also pretty intelligent will pick that apart specially if I have so many life experiences pointing to the opposite To me the fat nerd will be more popular and confident than the jock because by definition if the nerd is going to get hounded on and penalized more in society than he is going to be by definition I'm much more hard worker and self-imp…	/r/ExRedPill	06/05/21 02:02 PM
1	I don't think there will ever be equality I actually do. I'll come from the hood and I have seen this many times over. I have both friend and family who just seemed to pop out babies left and right without consideration on what actually having a baby is and it's not just a girl's fault. I equally hated when dudes swing there penis around. Why would you have a child with someone and be potentially stuck with them for 18 years off the basis of it being a hookup or nothing serious I would not have a baby with someone who is known to be out…	/r/ExRedPill	06/05/21 01:49 PM
1	You guys need to self improve or do individual women have certain preferences for individual men See I did all of that!! God it is crazy that it keeps getting repeated and I'm not mad at you but most people already go on this life journey where they try to self improve and get confidence without it being said or even really it being something automatic If you went to college in the United States I would argue you did go through a huge self improvement just on that merit I never expected women just to fall all over me but after going through so much hard tribulations from childhood all the w…	/r/ExRedPill	06/05/21 01:43 PM
3	Why do dudes care so much about what women or other people do? [Redpill detox] In my experience is usually a rude awakening because women think the same way but that has been my own personal experience I've met women and I've got female friends who care about body counts and who is sleeping with who	/r/ExRedPill	05/05/21 08:55 PM
1	Nobody should label someone as a "plate" or "count" To be fair as a red pill dude I have seen many women and ex-girlfriends think the same way	/r/ExRedPill	05/05/21 11:13 AM
1	You guys need to self improve or do individual women have certain preferences for individual men We are free to a point But no not absolutely. We are at the mercy of our society and government and all of the messaging whether it be positive or negative that we consume. I'm a visual artist. Throughout time artists of you certain colors or symbols or images and work to send a message. Sometimes it's a subconscious but you really see it most in propaganda And whatever time or society that we live in we are products of what that society dictates. Of course we all know when we are fed because it…	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/21 04:24 PM
1	You guys need to self improve or do individual women have certain preferences for individual men You ever heard the phrase we do not choose our destiny but we must do our duty. When I was younger I used to believe that there was a choice but I just can't see that anymore.	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/21 04:15 PM
0	You guys need to self improve or do individual women have certain preferences for individual men Thank you and please believe me I hope I'm not coming off as hostile I'm not trying to tell you how to feel but I think you should be proud that you were able to raise yourself. In a way you have to do it on your own terms and sometimes that happens without you thinking about it.	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/21 04:13 PM
0	You guys need to self improve or do individual women have certain preferences for individual men At 24 I'm starting to learn this I told my mom and dad exactly what I thought about them and how they raise me. My grandmother's a controlling psycho and she knows that she can no longer talk to me or control me. I find it much easier standing up to people and as a shame as I am to admit I have kind of scared a little bit of people while going off which does not surprise me because again I'm a huge African American dude but I've held it in for so many years for the same reason It's hard standing…	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/21 04:09 PM
0	You guys need to self improve or do individual women have certain preferences for individual men I don't think it's a choice or not to play the game. Believe me when I say this I understand what you mean. I'm a super nerd and I got my most confidence from finally having the courage to put myself around other super nerds and I no longer felt like I had to put on a mask. The penalty that came from this was that people were going to call me weird or stupid or gay or whatever. Some girls liked it, some girls were turned off by it For a while I was a little bit more happy and free but you still …	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/21 04:00 PM
1	You guys need to self improve or do individual women have certain preferences for individual men Well I think a lot of them would have done very well. For years because I was born a big black male so many people put crazy expectations on me and it wasn't until I had to teach myself to ignore people including my parents and family and friends and role models, That's when I truly soared I guess it would be like empowering yourself These precious you speak of can sometimes be generational. My mother and father act the way they do because their parents put their baggage onto them. I always hate…	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/21 03:54 PM
0	You guys need to self improve or do individual women have certain preferences for individual men People already do everything The boy who got vulnerable in front of his girlfriend took a chance and was brave to do so and it is entirely her fault in societies that there's a backlash towards that I am the boy that you are talking about who went on his own path and tried to be vulnerable and open in a world that doesn't allow it and I got maybe a 30% success rate with other people because most men and women find it uncomfortable when men share vulnerabilities or emotion.. And I hate that the a…	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/21 03:49 PM
0	You guys need to self improve or do individual women have certain preferences for individual men Once again you're assuming that's most men. That wasn't my experience. I know a lot of other men who also did not have the experience of what you just said I've literally had a girlfriend who thought it was appropriate to s*** inside a Pringles can You're trying to make it out to seem like guys are just inherently nastier or need extra help which is so sexist Men are not cartoon caricatures of Peter Griffin and it stopped being funny after high School I came from the hood and I come from a famil…	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/21 03:42 PM
0	You guys need to self improve or do individual women have certain preferences for individual men And like women there are certain societal things whether it be biological or social that are pushed on to men and if men do not aspire to these and makes people inherently uncomfortable. For example you don't know how many times I've heard a story of a guy saying that his girlfriend wasn't attracted to him anymore because he's shown vulnerability or cried. Not every girl is like that but just the fact that that phenomenon keeps happening kind of proves my point. At that point at him crying and h…	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/21 03:28 PM
1	You guys need to self improve or do individual women have certain preferences for individual men That assumes that there was some type of problem in the first place and looking back before I started myself improvement I'm realizing how there really was not much of a difference and just how low the bar is Some guys don't need pressure and pressure can backfire. When I was younger my parents pressured me to play sports thinking it would raise my self-esteem but it did the exact opposite	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/21 03:26 PM
2	You guys need to self improve or do individual women have certain preferences for individual men And I hated because it's pushed into our heads I agree with you the fact that makes my blood boil is the fact that we as men are told over and over to do these things. My last date was super gorgeous. And to be honest with you I am still very confused on why she like me. I was 24 and working a backward retail job Don't get me wrong I am proud of my life prior and I have had some great moments but this woman and no universe could ever sense or feel or see my entire life before that which includes…	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/21 04:52 AM
2	You guys need to self improve or do individual women have certain preferences for individual men That sounds actually optimistic and I kind of agree Ask someone who self identifies as a nerd I was completely happy with a non-romantic part of my life where it was just anime and video games. Of course if I wanted more dating options I would have to make myself well rounded which is what I did but if myself improvement led to that I don't really see any merit in it As I say this I was never too fat and I still had a nice social life but my romantic life is lacking. Now that I'm older and I've …	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/21 12:48 AM
-1	You guys need to self improve or do individual women have certain preferences for individual men What if those negative vibes are warranted. I don't get this because I've met so many women who lose out negativity but it doesn't give them a hindrance But as a man you're expecting not only to be an emotional Rock but act like nothing bothers you and not dare to complain about it	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/21 11:35 PM
1	I don't think there will ever be equality The thing is I do believe that there is a type of bias that could be sexist towards both men and women but my problem is society at large completely acts like men aren't victims of sexist beliefs	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/21 10:31 PM
1	You guys need to self improve or do individual women have certain preferences for individual men I get what you're saying but I did positively self improve and I know that because the last 5 years of my life have been absolutely hell with blood sweat and tears I come from absolutely nothing as I come from a single parent home in the hood And even with that being said I never thought of that as something to hold me back until I became an adult and realized just how far held back I was I'm black and I had no healthy role models and my step parent and parent were abusive to me and each other. …	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/21 09:59 PM
2	You guys need to self improve or do individual women have certain preferences for individual men Your own progress is the reward of course but this fall short. I am proud of where I have come from and all the work I did but after doing it all it just seems like something not as important. I hate using the word reward but I do believe a lot of guys also agree with the notion that they are told to do XYZ and thus whatever they want will be easier to get if they do so which is just as dangerous as men expected to get it for pure entitlement Everybody wants companionship and that should not be …	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/21 07:23 PM
0	You guys need to self improve or do individual women have certain preferences for individual men I remember most of my bullies being both male and female and using whatever they could against me I'm not saying women's issues don't exist or they don't matter but obviously women's issues take precedence over men's issues currently in society. So many x female friends and ex-girlfriends I've used my masculinity against me or insulting my masculinity	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/21 07:20 PM
-1	You guys need to self improve or do individual women have certain preferences for individual men Most of our female equivalents also have veey sedentary lifestyles I kind of agree with you but it seems so stereotypical especially when I was younger I used to do things all the time and multiple times a week but once again this is not relate between whether I was doing better with women Like it seems like this is a wish fulfillment fantasy in of itself. If you just go out a lot and make friends and do all these things then you'll be better but as someone who put years of that into motion it r…	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/21 05:38 PM
-4	You guys need to self improve or do individual women have certain preferences for individual men Given how society is men could say the same We're expected to not only act like our own issues don't exist but 100% support every single woman's issue and take on that burden	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/21 05:18 PM
3	You guys need to self improve or do individual women have certain preferences for individual men And now I agree with the second paragraph entirely because no one can see yourself improvement. That's why I hate when it's giving out as advice No one saw all the nights I stood up doing homework or working out or fighting off my abusive parents. No one saw me live in a single parent household when me being the oldest brother and a younger autistic brother and all the problems that come with that.	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/21 02:32 PM
-4	You guys need to self improve or do individual women have certain preferences for individual men Standards aren't actually that low and it could be argued that a lot of women standards are too high given just how many women are single. A 20 year old girl who is still in college has no business wanting a billionaire. Of course she's allowed to have that standard but she in no way has worked for that or has any inkling of what it takes to be a billionaire I hate the argument that men standards are lower because it makes it seem like women standards are actually normal and that's not the case.…	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/21 02:31 PM
-1	You guys need to self improve or do individual women have certain preferences for individual men I don't want to argue semantics. People say mate when they mean partner and people say male and female when they mean man and woman My own self improvement led to many great things especially when I was still in college. I don't think there's such a thing as self improving that doesn't make you better. If you suck that throwing darts but worked on it for a good 5 days and found that you could land two out of your 10 shots then you did technically improve. See being a Olympic level athlete has mo…	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/21 02:28 PM
1	You guys need to self improve or do individual women have certain preferences for individual men I understand what you're saying but as a visual artist you underestimate the power that media has over us whether it be a painting or a movie or a song I am bothered by it because it takes so much work and I'm also realizing just how much stuff I did improve on did I really did not need to in the hopes of trying to make myself better It hurts when you're told from a young age how horrible you are and how horrible your gender is so you try to do everything in your power to not be horrible. It doe…	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/21 02:07 PM
1	You guys need to self improve or do individual women have certain preferences for individual men How can I not use it to measure my success if that's what you hear and or told so many times The song no Scrubs by TLC will pretty much tell you this When I was younger it did not bother me but that was never going to last especially when I started trying to date and all of the sudden everything from the color of my clothes to how I spoke became a deal-breaker It also starts to hurt especially when you know that you are better than said girl in her own standards which include mental or physical …	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/21 01:37 PM
0	You guys need to self improve or do individual women have certain preferences for individual men But one thing that is different is that whether or not a woman chooses to pursue or to stay back she still has options either way Most men cannot just stay back and expect options because they know they have to pursue. Yes women get rejected but I would rather take getting rejected while also having the option of falling back and still having at least some inkling of success	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/21 01:26 PM
1	You guys need to self improve or do individual women have certain preferences for individual men Not every woman and I'm sorry if I came out that way How can the party who just sits back and can go into any space and find a man have it any harder than the opposite party who has the muster up all the carriage you might on the slim chance that they may get a yes. To me 100 rejections isn't worth that one love Indian because no one love is worth moving mountains and putting yourself out there to be hurt continuously	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/21 01:21 PM
1	You guys need to self improve or do individual women have certain preferences for individual men Now your last sentence is something I completely agree with A lot of people play mind games and act immature and I bet you that's what 80% of our dating problems come from I had a girl reject me because she was 3 years older but right after she got pregnant then she started acting more into me which I didn't appreciate Being confident isn't the same as being pushy or creepy but a lot of people still get misconstrued into being creepy and p** I've been called creepy and p** before but all tha…	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/21 01:19 PM
0	You guys need to self improve or do individual women have certain preferences for individual men Exactly they don't guarantee it. You say self-improvement gets people out of ruts and the results of self improvement I'll increase chances of a partner but that's not a guarantee. I've had tons of social skills since I was a kid and I have had tons of hobbies since I was a kid and that was never a rule in for a girl liking me Every guy on Earth would have a wife or girlfriend if this was true and to tell you the truth the bar is not really that low for men despite what the contrary is To give y…	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/21 01:17 PM
-3	You guys need to self improve or do individual women have certain preferences for individual men I don't want to reject women and I definitely don't want to humiliate them That's your projection there What I'm trying to tell you is that if women did this and saw the effects of it then they would know exactly what equality is and how men are expected to move about in society	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/21 01:14 PM
0	You guys need to self improve or do individual women have certain preferences for individual men It achieves exactly understanding men's day-to-day lives When you're told that you're supposed to be attractive and confident in assertive and a go-getter and told the equally opposite message of being slower and not being a creep and taking it slow and not being domineering then it starts to get confusing and it can mess with the identity. I love how you phrase it too when you said take things slow but also understand being humiliated I have had so many dates or potential girlfriends to wear I …	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/21 01:13 PM
1	You guys need to self improve or do individual women have certain preferences for individual men Quite the opposite I'm still a virgin and I wish that women would actually slow down a bit when it comes to that type of thing	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/21 01:08 PM
0	You guys need to self improve or do individual women have certain preferences for individual men I know. My last two dates and my last girlfriend were women who came up to me. I know women do it but nowhere near enough and especially not enough to keep criticizing men When today's modern women spend at least 20 years approaching and being the humiliated and looking stupid just like men have then I could understand that. Of course I'm not cool and I'm not going to make fun of someone because they may look nervous or sweaty when approaching me. But God forbid how many women feel comfortable m…	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/21 01:08 PM
1	You guys need to self improve or do individual women have certain preferences for individual men Those other stereotypes happen too and I'm not discounting you I still very much heavily identify as a nerd and I thought all of my past girlfriends were pretty hot XD What I mean is that it is inherently humiliating if you are a man and you are socially savvy and socially aware enough to know that you should not be treated this way. But being socially savvy you also understand why because of our social norms and values At this moment I as a man can't just go out and put on my best outfit and go…	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/21 01:02 PM
0	You guys need to self improve or do individual women have certain preferences for individual men It is a gendered thing because men are already expected to be stoic and do all the work without complaint. If a man were to make fun of a woman jogging then you would be right to call him an a******. But all of my life I have seen men trying to improve themselves and the humiliation and bullying gets doubled down and I say that as a man who has worked out himself improved in different areas of my life. Why do you think the stereotype of the woman going after the jock and not the nerd is such a h…	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/21 12:55 PM
0	You guys need to self improve or do individual women have certain preferences for individual men Of course you're not entitled because you improved but it makes it frustrating when you approve a lot and see virtually no change and especially if the results aren't matching how much pain sweat and tears you put in The amount of work a guy has to put in can be humiliating because while you respect yourself not everybody else will. It's like the 300 lb guy jogging outside to lose weight and you can bet five assholes of each gender will have to say something negative about it. What makes it even…	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/21 12:31 PM
1	You guys need to self improve or do individual women have certain preferences for individual men I think a lot of guys go through motions of this but right now I'm kind of stagnant because I just got out of a 5 years of improvements then and I'm not happy with my dating life I've had some successes but it makes me doubly better when you're told to basically go self-improve and humiliate yourself again.	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/21 12:26 PM
1	A Critique Of The Red Pill By A Guy Who Was Supposed To Be A Model But see who gets to decide if a man is not self-improving and if what you say is true then most men would not have a problem. Most men aren't dumbasses and most men aren't fools who lack social School. People always say that women want to see men try but obviously that's not good enough because every man tries. What if he tried and fails? You don't get a point for trying and failing.	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/21 12:09 PM
1	I don't think there will ever be equality Also why say it? Do you think telling me that complaining online anonymously is going to help anymore and if so why did you spend the energy to say it if it wasn't for a negative reason	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/21 12:01 PM
0	Double standards in dating Who said you can't do both. You can complain and be upset about your genuinely unfair situation and take steps to change it. I'm pretty sure you and me and many other people have done something similar. I hate when people act like complaining is the worst thing ever or that nobody does it because believe me you just complain today and yesterday and probably will complain tomorrow but you just don't know it.	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/21 11:59 AM
0	Double standards in dating The man who try to do this are too far in between and it's unfair to try to compare this to those types of men. Once again I hate when people use the word complaining because any conversation involves some type of complaining or grievance and I could just say the same amount to you as you have for me.	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/21 11:55 AM
1	I don't think there will ever be equality I'm not stretching your words I'm only using what you said and using your own logic. When you say something like someone is complaining it immediately puts it on that person to try to absolve that. I could easily say the same thing to you about getting off an online forum as your input isn't doing anything but that would be rude	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/21 11:53 AM
1	I don't think there will ever be equality See the fact that you see that's pathetic makes it worse because what if guys have trouble getting laid or finding love and would have been take that serious. You may think it's pathetic but those guys don't and it goes to show where you're thinking is since you used that word	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/21 11:52 AM
1	I don't think there will ever be equality That would be next to impossible given what the sub is.	/r/ExRedPill	01/05/21 11:38 PM
1	I don't think there will ever be equality I'm not against you either but I am a man who has protested before and I have gotten a lot of different complaints and flack back from both men and women. We aren't a super progressive people yet and despite us trying to a lot of us still have a lot of untrained biases. Do you think that society is untrained or biased towards men just as they have done for women.	/r/ExRedPill	01/05/21 11:36 PM
0	I don't think there will ever be equality What I mean is a lot of protesting especially with their passionate amount that we have seen is looked at as complaining and you are kind of proving my point by rubbing it in my face Men are not expected to complain and I didn't even complain but offered a scenario but you see how quickly you turned it into that. I would love for things to change and I don't really care if it's handed to me or not because what matters is that it changes in the end. Believe me I've been the go-getter and try to g…	/r/ExRedPill	01/05/21 11:36 PM
1	I don't think there will ever be equality That's disingenuous and a little airing to say that men did it themselves. Which men? and where and how many men was it?	/r/ExRedPill	01/05/21 11:21 PM
0	I don't think there will ever be equality It doesn't work that way because of these gender issues that we speak of. It could be argued that feminism already took off because society already had a woman a wonderful bias. Men are already expected to not complain and now you're saying that we should have mass start complaining and pushing to end our gender role which is doing the opposite. Our gender role in the world get taste of you do the opposite of what you speak of It's not a question of if it's right or wrong but what is realistic W…	/r/ExRedPill	01/05/21 11:20 PM
0	I don't think there will ever be equality Dating is inherently about agendas so it feels really disingenuous when you say men have agendas when they make compliments. If a man pays you a compliment then he either is being nice or is trying to show interest but there's nothing wrong with that and at this moment there's no other way for a man who shows interest because men are still expected to pursue and Chase. Also you're an escort so doesn't that make it even more disingenuous since you are in a job where you would expect such a thing.	/r/ExRedPill	01/05/21 12:17 PM
-4	I don't think there will ever be equality But we do not know that and as sad it is to say when it comes to romance there's no way a man can know what is this woman's own personal boundary because as I said before I've been on both sides to where I have said something crazy and it turned out to be fine and I have also said something that I thought was normal but one girl took crazy. I completely understand what you are saying and I'm not taking away from your experience but 12-year-old boys get the same treatment. Do you know how many of…	/r/ExRedPill	01/05/21 03:08 AM
3	I don't think there will ever be equality When I was younger I used to be the same way so I completely understand. Anxiety is stuff. And if I can sense somebody with anxiety, I usually try to keep conversations brief.	/r/ExRedPill	01/05/21 02:35 AM
-5	I don't think there will ever be equality But you do understand why that could be frustrating to some who are smart enough to see when something is wrong? Like intellectually I know that I should not be disrespected or mistreated because of how I am or present as a man but I will. I don't want to wait until I'm 65 for it to be socially acceptable for men to be whatever they want without having a manhood or sexuality questioned.	/r/ExRedPill	01/05/21 02:19 AM
-2	I don't think there will ever be equality And see creepy is subjective. In another time and place I'm pretty sure my compliment would have came off as creepy but in this moment it did not.	/r/ExRedPill	01/05/21 02:18 AM
1	I don't think there will ever be equality I said I liked her eyes	/r/ExRedPill	01/05/21 02:02 AM
-4	Is red pill the man version of feminism I would side more on men's rights but I also agree with a lot of feminist views What you said kind of hits the nail because at this moment in our society men are already expected to suck up misbehavior or abuse they suffer and if they have any problems or insecurities they're expected to act like they're not there. Obviously this correlates with attraction and it's not a one and done thing but it seems like a lot of women still seem to be attracted to men who are essentially better than other me…	/r/ExRedPill	30/04/21 03:48 PM
-8	Is red pill the man version of feminism But don't you think that would be realistic and would help a lot of women Yes it's not politically correct and sometimes it can come off as rude but it's called tough love for a reason. Believe me before I started dating I was a pretty decent guy with a pretty decent personality but I have to work on some things because there are certain things that are socially acceptable and unacceptable, and men spend their entire lives trying to find that sweet balance in order to succeed. I've been called n…	/r/ExRedPill	30/04/21 12:30 PM
-3	I don't want to get stuck in my inferiority complex, but the alternative to TRP doesn't really show equality but to male inferiority But don't you think it is statistically true that society has a women are wonderful effect. Honestly tell yourself this. Look back at high School Where guys except for a few inside the pep rally or preppy clubs that Excel that social skills and trying to be social and emotional? Were the guys who were sensitive and caring the ones who are on top of the food chain or was it the guys who are stereotypically buffed and jockey or outwardly show aggression? I'm a man and everyday I got to fight a lot…	/r/ExRedPill	10/04/21 06:00 AM