Doesthisevenmatter7 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	Guys don’t actually want women who actually want good men. You cannot seriously believe this…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/26 04:21 PM
4	One of the main reasons age gap relationships fail is that the men approach them thinking younger women will let them get away with laziness and irresponsibility Yea that’s shits gross. The acting industry is incredibly weird. I guess it’s because of the money and power. But it’s seems like a lot of these directors/executives just seem perfectly fine with dating talent they’ve known since they were tweens the moment they hit 18. You see a lot of this in top tier athletics too, these vultures are just waiting to swoop in on 18 year old kids who don’t know any better. It’s a real problem in America and I don’t know how to fix it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/25 02:20 PM
7	Friendzone complaints mainly come from guys who dont value friendships. Just cause you believe something doesn’t mean others have to believe the same. So, just because you believe some feelings are wrong and ridiculous, such as losing a friendship cause of unrequited feelings. Doesn’t mean everyone else feels that way. So it’s a good thing the world doesn’t revolve around you. Cause people can still feel the way they want whether you find it ridiculous/wrong or not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/25 01:15 PM
8	Friendzone complaints mainly come from guys who dont value friendships. Good thing the world doesn’t revolve around you then	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/25 01:06 PM
8	Friendzone complaints mainly come from guys who dont value friendships. That’s ridiculous. Just because you feel that way doesn’t mean others do. You’re basically saying cause you don’t get what you want they’re wrong. Not everyone has to think like you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/25 12:47 PM
7	I have a weakly held view that many red-pillers underestimate the success of the average man because they overuse dating apps, and there are tractable ways of improving their luck. What does that have to do with women not killing it? Idk how to fix it why u asking me 😂.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/25 01:24 AM
11	I have a weakly held view that many red-pillers underestimate the success of the average man because they overuse dating apps, and there are tractable ways of improving their luck. I mean I’m just going off the stats in the post. If 77% are saying that sounds like a pretty big majority aren’t getting the amount they want even if you are?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/25 01:15 AM
4	I have a weakly held view that many red-pillers underestimate the success of the average man because they overuse dating apps, and there are tractable ways of improving their luck. Nah I’m good. I got a girlfriend online dating has always worked fine for me, and I stick to what I’m good at lol. There’s been girls in the past where I would have liked too but passed most cause of what I said before. Anyways it’s all good could be worse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/25 11:49 PM
2	As a woman, I really don't get the logic behind "I got used for sex" Your only saying that cause your a woman. I can very much guarantee you that many guys would take it as a loss, if they paid for dinner then the date was horrible and they never saw you again. Thats literally a waste of money 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/25 11:36 PM
27	I have a weakly held view that many red-pillers underestimate the success of the average man because they overuse dating apps, and there are tractable ways of improving their luck. Maybe, I’ve seen like so many times where they publicly embarrassed the guy that walked up to them that it’s completely off the table for me, but maybe others who actively do it can speak to more positive experiences.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/25 11:34 PM
69	I have a weakly held view that many red-pillers underestimate the success of the average man because they overuse dating apps, and there are tractable ways of improving their luck. I’m really interested in the fact that 77% of women are interested in more guys walking up to them and initiating. When in my experience it was women that killed that practice in the first place.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/25 11:05 PM
6	My take on how society has failed men and has contributed to extreme red pill ideology. This is about how me and my friends look at it too. I’ve even given therapy a shot meh that shit didn’t change nothing. I didn’t feel better till I changed the situation and saw actual results anything else is just kinda meaningless.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/25 09:00 PM
3	As a woman, I really don't get the logic behind "I got used for sex" The money spent is the loss clearly🤦🏽‍♂️	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/25 07:50 PM
4	As a woman, I really don't get the logic behind "I got used for sex" What did they lose if they were being used? If sex is a mutual act there is no loss.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/25 07:49 PM
–	The reasons women show while talking against "financial" abortion is eerily similar to the same reasoning that conservatives show for banning abortion. Men have sued women they’ve raped for child support??? I don’t mean to be rude but how is that possible? Wouldn’t they have to admit to being a rapist and go to jail?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/25 05:40 PM
-1	The reasons women show while talking against "financial" abortion is eerily similar to the same reasoning that conservatives show for banning abortion. This should totally be allowed a shame that financial abortion laws will never pass.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/25 05:38 PM
15	The "Friend-zone" is often deliberate manipulation. I don’t get how the friend zone isn’t self imposed. You could always just not be their friend anymore if it’s such a problem. Some people will say you’re an asshole for that but can’t please everybody who cares.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/25 03:59 PM
–	We care about personality! It's just your bio bro!! My bio had always been the lil Uzi quote “it’s only my third day out here IDK” for years and I never had any problems. Anyone saying bios matter is 🧢.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/25 03:53 PM
–	Immediate sex is not needed to prove desire. You just want sex. K	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/25 12:23 AM
–	Immediate sex is not needed to prove desire. You just want sex. Huh?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/25 09:37 PM
–	Immediate sex is not needed to prove desire. You just want sex. Yea that’s fair. That’s an accurate way of looking it cause it is really a numbers game at that level. Definitely wouldn’t do that if I was invested in a girl from the start.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/25 09:28 PM
–	Immediate sex is not needed to prove desire. You just want sex. Or just tell the truth it works more often than you think maybe not in person that sounds kinda wild, but I’ve had plenty of online dating hookups just from some wild text i threw out cause i thought they were hot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/25 09:21 PM
–	Immediate sex is not needed to prove desire. You just want sex. The more relationships and hookups I’ve had the more my opinion on this has changed. I don’t really care if it means something or not at this point. I expect sex pretty close to the start or I’d find someone else cause that’s just how it goes with most adults atleast that’s been my experience. My current girlfriend had sex with me the second date and we messed around on the first didn’t really do much waiting tbh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/25 09:14 PM
2	A man has been dating a woman for years before telling her he's into crossdressing. What are your thoughts? He’s a weirdo simple end of story and if she wants to break up totally justified	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 09:55 PM
9	What is something in a woman’s control that makes her higher value to you? You should ask them that not me cause I don’t believe it’s not in peoples control to be pleasant	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 09:42 PM
0	What is something in a woman’s control that makes her higher value to you? Being a good cook, being in shape, being pleasant to be around all in a women’s full control. This next one is in your control but difficult, providing value that another cannot/will not provide. Now I can’t really describe that one cause it would be on individual circumstances but providing a value that others wouldn’t goes a crazy long way. A personal example is I’m applying to grad school my girlfriend read through all my applications, helped me edit them, did mock interviews with me etc. She…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 09:36 PM
4	The "If she did it with an ex, she should do it with me" rule applies to pegging That’s not the standard anyone is saying tho. Yea if that’s what ur arguing sure I agree that’s crazy. But that’s not the same scenario as your girlfriend doing anal in the past and refusing to do it with you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 03:07 AM
4	The "If she did it with an ex, she should do it with me" rule applies to pegging That makes no sense I’m gonna be explicit here so warning. Using that logic if I’ve pissed in a girls mouth before she has to let me piss in her mouth even if she’s never done it before? That’s completely ridiculous and far different than refusing to do something you willingly did with someone else before.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 02:26 AM
0	The "If she did it with an ex, she should do it with me" rule applies to pegging I think most guys logic here is pretty simple I’d never let ANYBODY do that to me so super simple. If you already allowed someone else to do it that’s clearly different.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 02:04 AM
1	The "If she did it with an ex, she should do it with me" rule applies to pegging That’s fine with me never been pegged and never will be. There’s pretty much nothing sexual I’d do with one partner but not another.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 02:02 AM
1	Marriage is unattractive for higher earners or providers because of outdated legal elements that aren’t compatible with social norms. Idk if it’s true because i don’t know anyone personally enough in this situation that would admit it and it’s not like I have a study for it either. But it also seems that high earning marriages seem to be far more accommodating to issues like infidelity. Not to say it’s right or wrong but it seems like a factor.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/25 09:30 PM
3	Sexual double standard is irrational It really comes down to the fact that men care and their decisions show that and women don’t and their decisions show that. Why is it a problem that men and women have a different standard? Also it’s not like anyone is actually is stopping anybody from doing anything. Being judged for your decisions is just part of life can’t please everyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/25 02:47 AM
1	For those on dating apps, do you prefer more matches or better quality? Better quality for me I get plenty of matches but like 70-80% are mid or below. So it’s only really a quality match maybe 1 out of 5 maybe less.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/24 09:01 AM
6	It doesn't make sense that men complain about promiscuous women but also complain that women's standards are too high Having a problem with women’s standards is waste of time and energy. My biggest issue has never been their standards it’s the fucking fake high horse a lot of women stand on cause society has deemed their standards socially acceptable, where as demonizing men for trying to have any leg to stand on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/24 08:57 AM
12	Submissive women are outbreeding independent women. Big boss babes will be bred out of the system. This was immediately my first thought when I read this post, buddy didn’t think this one through 💀😭	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/24 08:44 AM
8	Men have their own AF/BB…kinda Even your examples are ridiculous that’s sample bias that is 3 people. The vast majority of guys that get casual sex do not find it difficult to get girlfriends but keep living your life thinking you understand men’s experience when you clearly do not it’s fine trust.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/24 08:38 AM
4	Men have their own AF/BB…kinda No it’s literally the opposite because all your thinking about is from the womens perspective. I’m telling you rn as a guy, if a guy is able to get casual sex it is not difficult whatsoever to get a girlfriend ik that for a fact that is my life it’s not hard. In fact it is actually is FAR easier to get a girlfriend than to get causal sex. Why is that?? Because the majority of women want to get into relationships they don’t want to get piped out like a piece of meat. Now to get a girlfriend that …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/24 08:30 AM
7	Men have their own AF/BB…kinda You have absolutely zero idea what you’re talking about mate cause it’s literally the opposite 💀.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/24 08:19 AM
10	Is there any way for singles events to actually be good? Isn’t it the opposite with these events. Especially for the ones that are like 30’s and up men just literally don’t show up. Not a sausage fest more like a lonely lady club.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/24 01:57 PM
2	If you're not making $100k or more looks don't matter as much as you think. Big city like Atlanta or big city like NYC or LA? Idk if you could do that in NYC or at the very least you’d be holding it together by a thread.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/24 01:50 PM
2	Pro Life Men; if it were possible, would you raise the child alone How is this forcing anyone? In this scenario I wouldn’t be forcing her to do anything the whole point is it’s a made up scenario where the women gets off consequence free and doesn’t have to go through pregnancy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 02:54 PM
2	Pro Life Men; if it were possible, would you raise the child alone He sounds like a retard. Some people are just not worth the time of day, and he should go to prison for not paying. Don’t get me wrong situations like your coworker I do NOT agree with. I’m only saying trapping someone into parenthood is wrong. Agreeing to have a kid and then not doing you part to provide for it “cause I can’t hit it raw anymore” is the most ridiculous reason I’ve ever heard.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 02:52 PM
1	Pro Life Men; if it were possible, would you raise the child alone So your a piece a shit that would be willing to trap men. That’s ok own it queen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 02:46 PM
4	CMV: Dating is being ruined with entitled people lol why would you just link some others comment. You think most women are going to admit that? Being entitled is looked down upon most would get offended if you say women are more entitled then men in dating even tho it’s obviously true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 09:29 PM
2	CMV: Dating is being ruined with entitled people It’s not even close obviously women, but why wouldn’t they be? No one said the dating market place is fair very similarly to most things in life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 09:25 PM
0	Pro Life Men; if it were possible, would you raise the child alone Who says taxpayers money has to pay for it? I didn’t say that go pay for your fucking abortion. Second of all you just give no responsibility to women do you. I’ve have plenty of women say condom or no sex if they weren’t on birth control cause they didn’t want to get pregnant. I’m very responsible my self with using protection anyway. “No deterrent” peoples bad choices are their fault who gives af.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 09:19 PM
0	Pro Life Men; if it were possible, would you raise the child alone lol you just want women to have all the power he gave you the perfect scenario where women’s rights over their own body are completely unaffected and u still don’t support it even tho that’s exactly what you just asked for. Just say you enjoy women being able to trap men and move on💀.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 09:09 PM
2	Pro Life Men; if it were possible, would you raise the child alone No you’re just wrong. Yea kids are expensive but your a piece of shit in my mind if your force that problem on someone who didn’t ask for it. In this scenario it’s not her problem she didn’t want the kid anyway so why would I burden her with a problem she didn’t want? It may be hard but I meant that. In this scenario I wanted the kid and she didn’t so it would be my responsibility and I’d figure it out not burden someone else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 09:01 PM
2	How do you handle this joke? “It’s so hard being a woman” I usually don’t talk to people that make stupid comments like this, so ig what am I doing in this car???	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 06:18 PM
3	Pro Life Men; if it were possible, would you raise the child alone I think in these cases child support is fair. Tho ideally I’d hope two adults would be able to come together and come to some to some sort of agreement between themselves, but knowing people that is not always an option, and if you agreed to have a child you should have to support it until they are an adult. If child support is needed to get people to do that well oh well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 06:11 PM
6	Pro Life Men; if it were possible, would you raise the child alone Yes I also oppose men being forced to pay child support if they don’t want to be a father. I don’t believe in forcing people to provide for someone they didn’t want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 04:36 PM
5	Pro Life Men; if it were possible, would you raise the child alone Not ready whatsoever that’s why I take protection use very serious. Either BC or condoms is pretty much mandatory for me to have sex. But, I was just trying to answer your scenario to be fair.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 04:12 PM
18	Pro Life Men; if it were possible, would you raise the child alone I’m pro choice cause a scenario like this doesn’t exist, but if this was an option I would be pro life and I would raise the kid alone. Also wouldn’t expect her to pay child support or be in the child’s life whatsoever. I guess I just don’t believe in forcing people’s actions 🤷🏽‍♂️.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 04:09 PM
8	Men are worse off than women in all developed countries. This is so controversial that UN falsifies the Gender Development Index to hide this fact I would definitely like to see the stats on teachers grading girls better than boys. Not saying it’s not true at all. Just am actually interested in a study about that	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/24 11:50 AM
5	Men need to learn to be happy being single Idk where you got the stat that single women without children is the happiest demographic ik for a fact you made that shit up. But, anyways I also don’t believe that the majority of men are obsessed with getting married and having children. Maybe it’s cause I’m still young and my experience will change in my 30’s and 40’s. But the guys my age are definitely not obsessed with marriage, obsessed with pussy no doubt, but marrying one girl and having kids yea no that sounds like a woman fantasy not …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 12:09 PM
6	Question for those that "gave up." Got it. Got dealt a bad hand and were placed into role where you’re surrounded by other boys I’m guessing many of them autistic as well. Never got that female interaction in your youth that develops your experience and it affected your adult life accordingly. That’s unfortunate, I’m sorry dawg fr that’s tough life ain’t fair I feel for you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/24 04:33 PM
3	Not the apps, the people. The problem with dating apps isn’t the people on them it’s that they’re businesses built to make money.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/24 04:29 PM
-11	Question for those that "gave up." Honest question how does this happen? I’m not trying to undermine ur experience cause unfortunately ik it does. But I really don’t get how it’s possible getting girls is hard but damn it’s not THAT hard. 30+ not even a kiss seems like it’s virtually impossible for you bro. How does that happen?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/24 04:24 PM
–	Red Pill Men, Do You Realize You’re Creating a Larger Pool of Non-Toxic Women for Us? The funny thing is ur not wrong but the majority of blue/purple pill guys aren’t getting none either lmaooo. The majority of men don’t get girls no matter what they believe 💀.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/24 03:56 PM
0	Men of PPD, what are your standards? Do you think they are high? If she’s pretty and shorter than me I’ll usually atleast give her a chance. From then on it’s just all about the personality and the vibe. She doesn’t have to be rail thin I like nice hips and big breast and typically that comes with a little extra weight so I’m cool with that. Obese girls are not for me, and when it comes to dating doesn’t matter how hot they are if they get on my nerves I’m out. I’m more of a loner career driven person, so the majority of time I spend studying and working. I h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/24 11:32 AM
1	Women's infatuation with the lives of celebrities is a male ick No you heard it cause the nfl shoved it down our throats and it was annoying not cause any of us gave a fuck about her and Travis.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/24 02:31 AM
1	Women's infatuation with the lives of celebrities is a male ick If you were into the nfl at all you would know just how much the average fan HATED how much that relationship was pushed on us we did not care it was just impossible to avoid it😭	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 07:59 PM
2	Women's infatuation with the lives of celebrities is a male ick “Car go fast walked out a fireball” you say hmmm maybe I should watch this	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 06:18 PM
2	How would you feel if your girlfriend traveled alone because you can’t afford vacations? I disagree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 03:46 PM
1	How would you feel if your girlfriend traveled alone because you can’t afford vacations? Yea so she should pay for him to go so they can go together. Or take a vacation some where cheaper that they both can afford.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 03:36 PM
1	How would you feel if your girlfriend traveled alone because you can’t afford vacations? That’s two weeks of long distance which is nothing crazy but doing this multiple times a year is wack not to mention selfish only want to experience it for yourself and don’t want to bring your partner along. I paid for vacations with past significant others. I couldn’t imagine just going by yourself and leaving your partner behind that just screams selfish.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 02:57 PM
7	How would you feel if your girlfriend traveled alone because you can’t afford vacations? U may spend a little bit too much time online	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 02:46 PM
2	How would you feel if your girlfriend traveled alone because you can’t afford vacations? I’d break up and allow her to go travel by herself. Not gonna hold her back if she wants to travel, but not gonna do long distance cause my girl wants to see Big Ben.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 02:44 PM
3	Women's infatuation with the lives of celebrities is a male ick I don’t watch F1 but I’ve heard of drive to survive and wasn’t it a big controversy and received backlash cause, the show was scripted to be as dramatic as possible? I’d say that’s an outlier but good example that goes against my point. Fair enough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 02:24 PM
6	Women's infatuation with the lives of celebrities is a male ick Or he can just look up Cleveland fans react to “the decision” dudes were starting riots and basically shut down their whole city cause Lebron decided to play for a different team 💀😭	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 02:06 PM
3	Women's infatuation with the lives of celebrities is a male ick I don’t view that content so all I can do is take your word for it. I was just specifically talking about the sport fans comparison. It’s just not a good one, but what you’re saying is def fair if that content exists. I’m just not interested in that stuff so I wouldn’t notice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 02:00 PM
2	What percentage of female posters here are trolls? Both sides don’t want too debate just yelling opinions into the void. You can get more discussion out most of the guys but there’s plenty that won’t actually debate either on here. Def worse with the woman tho.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 12:36 PM
50	Women's infatuation with the lives of celebrities is a male ick The problem with this comparison is they follow the sport and maybe the entertainment around the sport like daily talk shows not the personal lives of the athletes. Literally the only time guys talk about the personal lives of athletes is when something viral happens like the Zion Mariah mills situation. Nobody gives af about what he wears to breakfast like Taylor swift fans and their obsession with her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 12:34 PM
–	How many of you actually take real care of your looks and practice your social aptitude? No I do not workout whatsoever. I do take care of my looks with hair cuts and shaving my face. I also wear pretty nice clothes, but fashion is relative what’s nice to me may not be nice to someone else. Yes depends on how much effort I put into it, but typically get 5-10 matches a week on tinder. Usually hookup with about 2-3 girls a month. At anytime I’m usually talking to like 5-6 of them. Cause men care more about women’s looks more than women care about men’s. It’s not that they don’t care a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/24 01:47 PM
2	If promiscuous women are so low value, why would you still want to have sex with them? That’s once again your opinion	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/24 10:49 PM
2	If promiscuous women are so low value, why would you still want to have sex with them? Pretty easy to have sex without having children.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/24 10:47 PM
4	If promiscuous women are so low value, why would you still want to have sex with them? If they did I certainly would care more. But, that’s not gonna happen women have their standards already and I’m not asking them to change them. It’s stupid how women ask guys to change theirs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/24 07:53 PM
6	If promiscuous women are so low value, why would you still want to have sex with them? They are doing the same thing and that’s fine more power to them. It’s not my fault men and women have different standards. If sleeping with women lowered my chance of getting the majority of women to take me seriously I wouldn’t do it. Lucky for me that’s not how it works so idc. These women your speaking of choose to do that knowing that it will lower their chance with the majority of men taking them serious in the future. But, they choose to do it anyway and then complain about it when the co…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/24 07:49 PM
3	Men Shouldn't commit anything significant to women or minimize commitment to women Probably would actually help a lot in this dating market, but would only work if the vast majority of woman actually committed to that which they won’t ofc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/24 07:41 PM
3	If promiscuous women are so low value, why would you still want to have sex with them? But the world doesn’t revolve around what any singular person believes. The majority of men don’t believe that so you believing that is irrelevant and doesn’t matter. Especially since you’re not even a man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/24 07:30 PM
2	If promiscuous women are so low value, why would you still want to have sex with them? That’s ur opinion	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/24 07:27 PM
7	If promiscuous women are so low value, why would you still want to have sex with them? You’re really overthinking this they’re not repulsive like throwing up at the sight of them. It just means they’re low value partners for relationships. They could still be hot and if they’re hot men will have sex with them that’s about the bar. Honestly even if they’re mid or ugly men will still have sex with them. Relationships tho whole different story.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/24 02:01 PM
34	If promiscuous women are so low value, why would you still want to have sex with them? Idiotic question that’s been asked a billion times. Cause men and women are different and I don’t give two shits about a girls values if all I’m trying to do is have sex with her. Sex is not something I consider a big deal and I’ll do it with pretty much any woman that I find attractive if they’re willing to do it with me. I have much higher standards for a relationship than sex as do MOST men. Tried to keep it about me instead of generalizing to all or most men, but I’m pretty sure most guys al…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/24 01:51 PM
4	Every person you date shouldn’t check off all of your boxes! I don’t think so and why do u flair yourself as purple pill if u believe that blue is normal? So you saying that you yourself aren’t normal?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 03:13 AM
4	The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates. I’ve never dated a women in my life that makes more money than me. I’ve dated women that made the same for sure especially in college but more no. I’m not about to have a woman spend her money on me on a first date when it’s completely unnecessary and provides no change to my life whatsoever.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 06:01 AM
3	The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates. Simp for paying for a first date? What do u gain by that? What u save 10 or 15 dollars what maybe 20 or 25? Is that really a game changer for you? I mean seriously how expensive of a first date are you taking girls on that splitting the bill even makes that much of a difference?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 05:50 AM
2	The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates. Shittttt couldn’t be me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 04:50 AM
4	The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates. I don’t agree with his sentiment. But ur kinda missing his point the gymnastics of taking turns is most girls that say that still expect the guy to be the first one to pay. So, in turn if there is no second date u didn’t really take turns the guy just paid. Now personally I don’t give af about that, but I do get how he saying that’s mental gymnastics.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 04:47 AM
-2	The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates. If ur cheap just say that bro it’s fine. I don’t pay cause she has a vagina. I pay cause thats what I was taught by my father. We’re not paying for the women’s satisfaction anyway but u wouldn’t understand that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 04:40 AM
5	The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates. Is paying for a first date really that big of deal? I’ve paid for every first date I’ve ever had in my life whether we had sex or not and I literally do not care. Like it’s not that serious. My dad is the type of guy to pick up the bill no matter what. He taught me that it’s just the right thing to do cause we make money. What’s spending a little bit of money to have a nice time in the grand scheme of things anyway just go make more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 04:17 AM
25	If men want more casual sex from women why do you support/vote for policies that will discourage this Well frankly none of those policies would actually change the amount of casual sex most men are having lol. I mean are you really trying to tell me that the reason most men can’t get casual sex is because women can’t get an abortion??? Like u can’t be serious. Women are still gonna have sex with guys they’re attracted too and that’s still gonna be the same guys as now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 04:08 AM
4	A woman pushing for commitment can leave a man feeling the same way a man pushing for sex makes a woman feel I totally get it. It’s a very hard thing to bring up without sounding like a dick too. I had a situation where I committed only to find out she had intimacy issues cause of an ex boyfriend and barely had sex like maybe once every few weeks. She was also very dramatic about the little sex she did have, had to be exactly the way she liked it. Stuck around longer than I should have cause i agreed no sex till commitment and at that point I was already attached. Just not trying to go through situatio…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/24 09:20 PM
1	A woman pushing for commitment can leave a man feeling the same way a man pushing for sex makes a woman feel Question do you ever run into problems of sexual compatibility cause of this standard? Idk if that sounds stupid. I’m only asking cause I’m the literal opposite cause in my experience. In the past when I’ve agreed to those kind of terms with women. It tends to lead to a lot of sexually compatibility issues with them, such as they don’t want to have sex enough or they like really intimate sex when sometimes I just want to get rough etc. Just wondering if you have any incite on that or if you’ve e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/24 08:38 PM
6	Men are not blindsided by breakups/divorce as much as they think I’m a clean 50/50 on this. I was blindsided in my last relationship on vacation with her family and then broke up the next day we got home. Never communicated she kept her feelings in her head till she reached a breaking point. Don’t blame her or myself really i can’t fix something I don’t know is a problem, we’re both young and was her first LTR she’ll learn and probably be better with communication in her next relationship. Sometimes shit doesn’t work out I believe that my situation is just as…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/24 07:43 PM
-1	Why whenever a divorce post is made the scenario is always assumes the woman met the man before he gets money. A house wife isn’t a house servant. Their entire life is paid for during the duration of the marriage their’s your compensation right there. If the partnership ends imo each partner should fend for themselves. Obviously if you have kids that’s different. I believe child support should exist, tho I do wish the spending could be tracked cause ik a lot of the time, like with my half brother, the money doesn’t actually go to the kids. But besides that adults should fend for themselves imo. The partn…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/24 07:15 PM
0	Why whenever a divorce post is made the scenario is always assumes the woman met the man before he gets money. That’s def true and I agree with it. If you’re a professional you need to marry another professional the risk in divorce is just too much other wise. I only used that as an example based off the OP’s post. I get where he’s coming from in that sense cause when women make comments about being there from the start of the grind it makes me kinda role my eyes too. If you didn’t meet at like 18 there’s virtually zero chance they were there from the actual start.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/24 05:39 PM
-4	Why whenever a divorce post is made the scenario is always assumes the woman met the man before he gets money. Fair enough but I’m asking a genuine question. Do you really think most wives met their husbands right at the start of the work for their career? I mean for most high paying careers you would have to meet them at like 18 for that to be true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/24 05:09 PM
-3	Why whenever a divorce post is made the scenario is always assumes the woman met the man before he gets money. But that’s usually not how it goes right? 27 year old corporate lawyer meets a girl he likes. Dates for two years and gets married. 10 years later he’s now a partner and gets divorced. He’s probably gonna be paying a lot no? Even tho was she really there from the start? Associates still make crazy money for 27 year olds. What about law school, college, etc etc there’s years of work that goes into it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/24 05:01 PM
6	In modern, western society men are always assumed to be the problem in relationships Bruh I swear some of y’all do not know how to read. Yes her financial situation is worse cause she’s losing out on a partners income. However, she still has a financial incentive cause she gets something. It’s literately so obvious but some of y’all just can’t admit it cause you don’t ever want to acknowledge when women are fucking over men it’s literally so annoying. Please learn how to read and maybe you’ll get the point next time. Also yes if the women is the bread winner she can get fucked t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/24 07:33 AM
14	In modern, western society men are always assumed to be the problem in relationships Once again I’ll clarify. Not every divorce is cause of money. However, the reason why women initiate divorces at such a higher rate is because they get money out of divorce. Those are two separate things. It doesn’t mean they split because of money.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 08:09 PM
2	The "Wall" does indeed exist, but only for women who have built it themselves. The wall only matters if your a women trying to get a successful guy. Dudes with some combination of charisma, social skills, career success, physical traits, money, and status. If your an average dude buddy I hate to tell ya but you’ll be lucky if you can even get one of the post wall single 30 years olds more likely you’re gonna be competing for single mothers instead. However if you are a woman going after those successful career guys. I’d highly reccomend you find one before 30 a lot more di…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 07:27 PM
3	In modern, western society men are always assumed to be the problem in relationships That does not at all mean they’re not initiating for money. Yes their financial situation may be worse in fact it probably will be worse . But they have the benefit of knowing they won’t be completely fucked because they’re going to get something. That’s still a financial incentive for women to initiate divorce that’s obvious. Even lets a say an nbas players wife divorcing would cause her financial situation to be worse cause you’d be going from a 10million dollar per year household to maybe a 1…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 07:12 PM
6	In modern, western society men are always assumed to be the problem in relationships That study doesn’t even disprove they do it for money tho. Yea that makes sense that women have a larger chance of falling into poverty from being divorced. But, that doesn’t mean they get nothing from divorce the laws are still in their favor. Most men get nothing and get things taken from them, so it’s obvious why they don’t want to make that choice. If they keep working after they probably won’t fall into poverty but they’re still worse off financially. It’s obvious why women are more likely …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 06:57 PM
2	In modern, western society men are always assumed to be the problem in relationships $$$ Edit: tho on a real note divorce sucks even if your not getting robbed blind	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 06:50 PM
1	Does paying for everything excuse you from chores? Income trumps pretty much everything for my family cause that’s how we were raised and that’s the country we live in. Not saying it’s morally right or wrong we just play by the rules we’ve been given. America is a country run by money. Most problems can be solved with money not all of them but the vast majority can. Income is the most important contribution to the family cause you literally can’t do anything else without it. That’s what I was taught and that’s all Ik. Nothing will ever really ch…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 05:48 PM
5	Why do so many gay men get along with straight women? Then why are you focused on the gay clubs/ bars? Drugs and sketchy shit happen at all clubs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 04:10 PM
29	Why do so many gay men get along with straight women? One of my best friends in highschool was a gay tomboy Latina. She was just like me liked sports, rap music, video games and hot girls. The mutual interest make it pretty easy and with neither one of us being attracted to each other shit was just a nice friendship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 04:07 PM
1	Why do so many gay men get along with straight women? If they’re certain gay men they really don’t have the option of just being friends with guys. I’m talking about the outwardly gay ones where u can tell. Guys don’t get along with them and girls do. Also gay guys have no ulterior motives typically and I’m sure that helps too. Gay guy seems like perfect guy best friend material for a girl.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 04:02 PM
1	Does paying for everything excuse you from chores? Oh. Sorry I didnt get that from your other comment. School is work I don’t deny that but unfortunately cause it’s school and not actually something that’s providing to the household at that moment I would expect him to do the house work and frankly if i was him I would offer too. Putting someone through school is a big deal if someone was doing that for me I would def do all the house work. Then once school is done and the money is coming in you revisit the conversation. I get the argument that …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 03:58 PM
1	Does paying for everything excuse you from chores? Exactly and person A would be paying for it cause they’re literally paying for person Bs entire life in the scenario given what are we talking about here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 02:55 PM
1	Does paying for everything excuse you from chores? No I’m enjoying the back and forth that isn’t combative to me it’s just having a convo from different perspectives I don’t mind at all I appreciate the questions. As for your question. If you spend fewer hours working and make less me personally. You’d have to do most of the house work. Sorry if people think that’s unfair but I’m a capitalist and this is a capitalist country. Money is by the far the most important thing to maintain your self and your family in America. If they’re making signific…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 02:51 PM
1	Does paying for everything excuse you from chores? If you’re both working it’s different atleast to me. Now whoever is bringing in more should probably do less or whoever’s working less should do more. Now if you’re both making around the same thing and work around the same hours. I think it’s fair to divy it up to whatever works best for that partnership. I’m sure your husband is very grateful for you putting him through school. Ik I would be and I’d be more than happy to have a conversation after graduating and getting started into his career …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 02:18 PM
1	Does paying for everything excuse you from chores? Then it will change once he’s out of school?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 02:02 PM
1	Does paying for everything excuse you from chores? Yes he should be. You did agree to a shit deal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 02:02 PM
4	Does paying for everything excuse you from chores? Id bet my life people still looked at you as a bum too. Stay at home dads get no respect even good ones. Thats why threads like this kill me. Reverse the situation and the guy is doing all the house work chores while she provides dudes gonna be looked at as a complete bum. But god forbid the SAHW do all the chores and the man provides now he’s being unreasonable and she needs a break. Fucking hypocritical bullshit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 01:58 PM
3	Does paying for everything excuse you from chores? I just find this so incredibly lazy on the partner who doesn’t work. Cause I know for a fact that if your a stay at home dad even if your doing all the chores and the house work people are still gonna look at you like a fucking bum for living off a woman. But if it’s women oh my god she needs so much help and you’re putting a huge burden on her blah blah blah. If your ass isn’t working you can do the damn chores especially if you don’t have kids. 100% may be an exaggeration especially if small c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 01:56 PM
4	How big of a deal is politics in dating and the widening gender gap No it’s cause my choices are a man with dementia or a fucking dick head no winning option here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/24 07:26 AM
–	If girls liked or wanted sex as much as guys, most guys wouldn’t struggle to get laid It is insane how far some will go to completely absolve their gender from blame. I’m not saying men or women are perfect with this. But literally every answer from you on this thread is MENS FAULT. Like bruh come on women are far from fucking perfect too buddy relax.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/24 09:39 PM
–	If girls liked or wanted sex as much as guys, most guys wouldn’t struggle to get laid You say that. But it’s not older woman I’m talking about here I’m young like barely an adult. I think people don’t take enough account into age. While this may be different once you get older. Dude in the late teens early 20’s that’s a regular circumstance. A lot of women don’t even know what their doing at this age unless their hoes. It’s always oh it’s you no it’s not cause this is normal circumstance at our age. I can give an example I was at a party just a couple of weeks ago with my ex and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/24 03:19 PM
–	If girls liked or wanted sex as much as guys, most guys wouldn’t struggle to get laid Ok so I see what ur saying here, but I think the trade off in those conservative red pill relationships is it’s supposed to be the wife doesn’t work and the man pays all the bills which imo is pretty fair even tho that’s not the type of relationship I personally want. Idk how you could say their acting like children when children don’t pay bills so that doesn’t really make sense. Unless ur saying they way their women to do that and pay bills which then I would agree with u.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/24 03:13 PM
–	If girls liked or wanted sex as much as guys, most guys wouldn’t struggle to get laid Probably depends on the person. I’d say truthfully probably more as a single person for me. Or it’s atleast close which it shouldn’t be. But that’s just how my last long term relationship went ig.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/24 03:07 PM
–	If girls liked or wanted sex as much as guys, most guys wouldn’t struggle to get laid What men act like their partners sons?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/24 03:06 PM
–	If girls liked or wanted sex as much as guys, most guys wouldn’t struggle to get laid I disagree. In my experience even in relationships amount of sex is basically chosen by the women and most of the time is not not nearly as much as I would want. Now granted I’m a young man so my sex drive might just be through the roof do to age. But when talking to friends they have similar complaints. Non of us are in dead bedroom situation (atleast not that Ik of) but regular wild sex lol. A lot of girls suck ass at sex and just lay there including girls in relationships and shame men if the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/24 03:03 PM
1	Is porn addiction a factor in how negatively women see the average man? It’s not the porn it’s the fact they masturbate too much. I’m sure theyres a very small amount of men that are so addicted to porn they can’t get hard from a normal woman. But the vast majority that have that problem it isn’t cause of the porn it’s cause they’ve desensitized they’re dick from wacking it all day every day. If they don’t cum for like two weeks to a month the problem goes away.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/24 12:04 AM
1	Is porn addiction a factor in how negatively women see the average man? Porn addiction I think isnt the actual problem where as the actual problem is the addiction too masturbating to completion. I also have a theory that women’s sex toys are having a similar effect on them tho to a smaller degree. The same way I believe men lose sensation from death grip and constant masturbation I believe toys such as the rose and wand for women are having similar effects. The likely hood that a human male could give you a higher sensation than a toy like the rose is extremely low…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/24 11:59 PM
12	Is there a link between drinking culture and sexual assault in American Colleges? There’s almost certainly a correlation. Your talking about very young adults usually under the influence within their first few years of real freedom mistakes are going to happen. However, being drunk doesn’t excuse violent crimes such as sexual assault or rape.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/24 05:04 PM
–	Despite what people here will have you believe, most couples are mismatched and women typically either date men significantly more or less attractive than themselves Same or they understand that online dating is skill that can be mastered. Everything from pictures to what you say to transitioning to other apps or getting a phone number to text are all skills that take practice. As someone who grew up on the internet it came pretty easy for me. I’ve been talking to girls on the internet since I was like a 13 year old virgin. Now I’m almost 23 with 10 years of practice by that point you should know what to say and what to expect. It’s not gonna work every-time…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/24 03:02 PM
–	Despite what people here will have you believe, most couples are mismatched and women typically either date men significantly more or less attractive than themselves I can’t take anyone saying chads fuck all the bitches seriously cause Ik just off personal experience that’s not true. Like I swear guys on here just get no bitches like. I’m not saying I’m just slaying getting girls left and right as much as I want. But, it’s not that hard to get a girl like every couple of weeks which to me as a single guy isn’t that terrible. Especially when I see guys on here talking about multiple year long dry spells I just don’t see how that’s even possible unless they li…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/24 02:51 PM
–	Despite what people here will have you believe, most couples are mismatched and women typically either date men significantly more or less attractive than themselves Damn women really can’t do anything right if you ask some of the guys on this sub. If they date guys more attractive than them their chad chasers. If they date guys less attractive than them they’re manipulators. Well who tf do u want them to date then Jesus Christ.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/24 02:45 PM
2	Ladies, who aren't in college or school, and got a boyfriend in the last 12 months, where and how did you meet him? I met my last girlfriend on tinder and pretty much every hookup I’ve ever had on some sort of app. Now granted I’m pretty young, so that’s not everyone’s experience especially if they didn’t grow up on social media. But it’s different for everyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/24 01:39 AM
10	Men on this sub are probably below average which is why they are struggling Crazy that the man you described is almost assuredly not average in todays society. Tough world we live in.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/24 12:37 PM
–	Is it true that average looking couples almost always have dead bedrooms? No	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/23 08:43 PM
7	Affordable paternity tests should be a mandatory part of the birthing process CMV It should only be mandatory for child support imo	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/23 02:04 AM
5	Women who exclusively pursue wealthier, higher-status men should accept the consequent perception as commodities, since their affection appears contingent on financial acquisition That makes no sense. Everyone is on social media your telling me every single women a rich man and famous man have sex with is also rich and famous. That’s ridiculous and you know it. You think those women don’t want those guys to date them even if they won’t that’s obvious what are you talking about???	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/23 03:36 PM
8	Women who exclusively pursue wealthier, higher-status men should accept the consequent perception as commodities, since their affection appears contingent on financial acquisition 🧢 broke women lust after rich men everyday	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/23 03:17 PM
27	Women who exclusively pursue wealthier, higher-status men should accept the consequent perception as commodities, since their affection appears contingent on financial acquisition I actually agree with this. It’s typically not the woman in the relationship complaining it’s random women who follow their celeb crush complaining. I think most the women who run in those circles understand what they’re getting themselves into people outside the circles don’t get it so they complain about it as if their opinion makes any difference.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/23 03:15 PM
0	CMV - if you don’t have a strong social circle, you have no right to complain about the dating market being unfair I agree with you my social circle is objectively small. I have few friends outside my girlfriend and it’s not like I hang out with them much. That has had little to virtually zero effect on my dating or sex life. Either been in a relationship or actively hooking up with different women since 17. My social circle has little to do with that it’s a choice I’m just not interested in keeping up with a bunch of people so I don’t have many friends. Two completely different skills.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/23 12:39 AM
21	CMV: Virtually all men will eventually get sex/relationships, it's just happening later than it used to I can’t imagine being a virgin your entire 20’s and possibly coming out a normal person in your 30’s.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/23 11:29 PM
23	What are the exact qualities that passport bros believe southeastern Asian (and elsewhere) women have that western women don't? Atleast from what I’ve seen on the internet More submissive Easier to fuck Better wife material Less fat Better looking Are all those things true? Idk I haven’t actually tried it. When I traveled to other countries bitches wasn’t exactly on my mind like architecture, music, and food was, but maybe it’s true 🤷🏽‍♂️. Also the fact that middle class in America is rich asf in other less developed countries so when your their you can kinda act like rich dudes in America. Even if you’ve ever had a trip…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/23 11:21 PM
1	What do you think about the increasing stigma over SMALL age gaps? How is it going to affect the dating market for young people? Rarely? Bruh what maybe it’s different in the UK cause that’s for sure not rare in America but u got it. Edit: Just noticed u willingly label urself radical feminist I understand what crowds ur running in ofc u think that way ur one of them 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/23 09:33 AM
1	What do you think about the increasing stigma over SMALL age gaps? How is it going to affect the dating market for young people? You understand that Ik a TON of young women doing this rn. Every single one of those guys I was talking about is dating a female. Hardly anyone ever cares ofc those people online are real people so they’re out there, but it’s not as hated irl as people make it out to be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/23 09:28 AM
4	Men cant be mad when women take half their stuff if they marry broke women I don’t really care about this debate cause I don’t plan on getting married cause of this and I purposely choose to not live in common law states. I don’t care what anyone says the marriage laws are completely ridiculous and based off marriage dynamics from before women could have jobs. I’ll be damned if anyone takes half of my shit cause they don’t like me anymore fuck outta here with that nonsense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/23 09:12 AM
5	Perplexed by some men's insistence that, societal conventions about treating romantic interests with respect caused their lack of romance/sex and subverting that by not caring about them is the way. I’m gonna be honest being a nice guy still doesn’t work. No matter the hundreds of posts by women saying it does it doesn’t and it kinda just is what it is. Women don’t understand the male experience. When any boy growing up literally goes to school and sees 99% of the fine girls hooking up with all the same guys. Who typically all act the same way. While he’s trying all the nice guy things he’s told by women work and getting nothing what do you think he’s gonna do? He’s gonna start acting like …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/23 09:05 AM
7	How many of you were arrested after approaching a woman? I’ve never approached a women in public. That may make me sound like an incel but truly I’m not. I do fine with women well atleast I did before I met my gf. It’s just honestly the risk isn’t worth it. Not cause I’m scared of getting arrested but because a lot of women will go out of their way to make a scene out of nothing and I’m not about to risk getting embarrassed like that I’ve seen it and it’s brutal. I’ve had women approach me at parties tho and that’s always gone well even if they weren’…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/23 08:52 AM
8	What do you think about the increasing stigma over SMALL age gaps? How is it going to affect the dating market for young people? The fact that you automatically assume first that it’s coercive, manipulative, unhealthy, and need proof first that it isn’t says alot about you ngl. You shouldn’t just randomly see a 24 year old dating a 19 year old and assume that’s she’s getting taken advantage of without even knowing them that’s ridiculous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/23 08:45 AM
2	What do you think about the increasing stigma over SMALL age gaps? How is it going to affect the dating market for young people? Pretty sure only bitter women online who complain about this. Probably just mad that guys their age don’t want them. Ik a lot of guys that date with similar age gaps to your post no one has ever cared irl. Ik some women say it’s like grooming or targeting or pedo shit if she’s close to 18, but they’re weird adults are adults they can make their own choices.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/23 08:40 AM
11	Why so much hate for pick-mes? Pick me’s are hated cause they’re women who agree that women’s dating value is determined by men and they choose to be what men want to have a better chance of attracting a man. Women hate that as they want their dating value to be determined by them and not by men. Which makes no sense cause value is determined by the buyer. Women determine men’s dating value and Men determine women’s. I don’t really understand why that concept is hated so much by women but it’s not going to change pick me’s ar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/23 02:44 PM
1	Women are children, and need to be treated as such “The misogyny is strong with this one”- Darth Sidious	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/23 02:39 PM
1	Marriage is not healthy for Red Pillers or the women with them. No no no I’m not saying that most marriages are sexless. I’m saying that OPs post is a dumb question. The question was men choose between never having sex again or never having a family? For one you can’t even make kids without having sex so what those kids are not his are they adopting or something? But let’s take that out of it. OP is trying to shame men for saying they’d rather not live their life in a sexless relationship even if it means not having a family. That’s a ridiculous thing to sha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/23 12:09 AM
3	Why do woman not admit things? I do cause my mother used to be a private teacher at very wealthy private school. I’m talking 50k yearly tuition for elementary kids through year 12. Accountability was a nightmare the stories she told me were hilarious. I’m fairly confident in my views that it’s not gender but the ability of being born with value.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/23 04:56 PM
7	Why do woman not admit things? People are bad with accountability in general. Women are just even worse at it than men are. Taking accountability for one’s actions is already a difficult thing to do. Taking accountability when your born with value and ego is even worse. Women are born with value they naturally will be worse at taking accountability. If men were born with value they’d act the same way. My perfect example is rich children. They were born with value(wealth) and because of this they typically have an ego and find…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/23 04:42 PM
4	Marriage is not healthy for Red Pillers or the women with them. Cause not having a relationship and not having kids isn’t torture wtf are we talking about plenty of people go through life like that	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/23 04:35 AM
7	Marriage is not healthy for Red Pillers or the women with them. Why tf would any man want to be in a sexless relationship that is literal torture?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/23 04:28 AM
7	Men, can you explain the urge to sacrifice your life for your woman? You right to an extent cause it is selfish but I don’t think he’d rather live with memories either tbh but ig we’ll never know	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/23 02:20 AM
18	Men, can you explain the urge to sacrifice your life for your woman? I’d rather die than watch someone I care about die before my eyes. That might be a just me thing but I watched one of my best friends overdose in highschool. I was too slow getting help I couldn’t save him. If I could I’d go back in time and switch places with him rather than live with the memories. Knowing that I’d gladly die to protect my girlfriend I already know the alternative is worse anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/23 01:37 AM
1	Why not look for a woman with a career? Career woman argue to much and have masculine traits typically atleast not everyone ofc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/23 09:53 PM
31	Are men genuinely worse potential partners these days? If every man was successful, would these problems still persist due to hypergamy? I don’t think it’s broke men ruined dating. It’s more women wanting committed relationships with rich men who could care less about them ruined dating. If your a man the only dating advice you ever really need is try your absolute best to become a high earner. Then you really can do whatever you want to woman and they can’t do anything about it. With dynamics like that is it really a surprise the high earning males are exploiting the fuck out of that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/23 09:50 PM
1	Does female sexual strategy discourage familiarity, comfort, and security? I really don’t know how effective FDS women strategies actually work or not. Cause everything I’ve seen from that sub seems so ridiculous in practice that I don’t see how any HVM would put up with it. Like your rich, tall, good looking, charismatic, etc and your really gonna allow a FDS women to slide into your life and dictate shit to you? Maybe there’s some guys out there that fall for that, but I just don’t see it especially since their targeting the highest tier of guy who should have numero…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/23 09:43 PM
3	do you think men interested in men’s rights and protections will ever form a cohesive movement? Yea but I don’t think anyone is even working actively against it except maybe radical feminist. I just truly believe people don’t care about mens problems. It’s been told to me plenty of times by women and really even by men. Like once your successful alot of those problems go out the window so there’s no reason even for all guys to take it serious enough to start a whole movement. It’s tough wish something could be done about it but I just don’t see it happening.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/23 07:30 PM
3	do you think men interested in men’s rights and protections will ever form a cohesive movement? Nah people don’t care enough	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/23 07:18 PM
1	If women are the ones who control the dating market, wouldn’t it make sense for men to lower their standards instead? No I’m not mad at their requirements. I’m trying to explain their requirements are not realistic. You think guys just forget the time before we had money??? No we don’t. I remember what it was like when I couldn’t get pussy. Women don’t realize that ignoring men before they have anything doesn’t help in the long run cause once we get something you can forget about your needs being prioritized. Yea they have plenty options of people that will fuck them you really think most young hot girls have n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/23 06:44 PM
0	If women are the ones who control the dating market, wouldn’t it make sense for men to lower their standards instead? That’s pretty much it tho like I’m not gonna ask for much more than young, hot, don’t be a hoe and that’s to much to ask half the time. There’s a reason why young guys with money run through girls they’re more of them then us i don’t need to change. I don’t need them that bad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/23 06:37 PM
1	If women are the ones who control the dating market, wouldn’t it make sense for men to lower their standards instead? Young and hot is way less then what they expect bruh how do u not get that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/23 06:34 PM
2	If women are the ones who control the dating market, wouldn’t it make sense for men to lower their standards instead? Being nice is not what I mean. Being nice to me is baseline requirement for all people I’m not trying to be an asshole lol. What I mean is women have an entitlement way beyond being nice from money, to taking care of them, to nice dates, to attention, etc etc etc. I’m not trying to just buy a woman but my issue is. 90% of the women I attract now wouldn’t give me the time of day 2 years ago. But they don’t want to change they still want to be “boss babes” or party and travel with their friends an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/23 06:29 PM
0	If women are the ones who control the dating market, wouldn’t it make sense for men to lower their standards instead? Men already have low standards. The solution is not lowering men’s standards, but women lowering they’re standards isn’t gonna work either some of y’all are bums don’t get it twisted y’all don’t deserve a fine girl, but you can say that to guys. Tell a women she doesn’t deserve a rich man and watch the fireworks happen. Idk where your getting that men aren’t trying to meet women’s standards. I don’t work my ass off every single day trying to make sales for myself. If it was up to me I’d live off…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/23 06:20 PM
5	Women giving dating advice to men doesn’t work because guys ask for vague advice. Honesty is not handled well by either side tbh	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/23 04:53 PM
2	Women giving dating advice to men doesn’t work because guys ask for vague advice. It doesn’t work cause women give shit advice to men. They simply don’t know what they’re talking about cause they aren’t men and don’t know what its like to be a man at all. It’s not cause guys ask for vague advice I can straight up ask a women how to pull girls and 99% of the time they’ll say some bs like be there friend which if your a guy you know doesn’t work and isn’t true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/23 04:52 PM
2	"Traditional" is just another term to describe expecting commitment, faithfulness and monogamous relationships Ik a lot of women who want commitment, faithfulness, and monogamous relationships who aren’t traditional tho	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/23 04:50 PM
–	Are you attracted to the instagram influencer look? I mean I’d answer that for ya if you’d like, but I’m just a guy that loves the conversation. At the same time I can understand someone shutting down when you completely invalidate what they say cause “it doesn’t effect them” and then changing the subject and asking a different question. The fact that you think that speaks volumes mean you completely overlooked how you didn’t actually converse in good faith and just invalidated him. Most people aren’t going to continue with people like that cause…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/23 11:59 AM
–	Are you attracted to the instagram influencer look? But he not wrong for calling out the bad sides of it. Even if he is supporting it. Yea it’s a two way street, but it doesn’t mean calling out the bad sides of it automatically becomes irrelevant cause it doesn’t effect him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/23 11:43 AM
–	Are you attracted to the instagram influencer look? I mean I guess to an extent. But saying you can’t call out any of the bad things of things you support just cause those bad things aren’t something for you to worry about seems kinda like a weird slope. Can I not call out shoe companies for using sweat shops cause I wear Nikes? Can I not say Chris brown is wrong for hitting women cause I’ll listen to deuces if it comes on the radio. Can I not say that America was wrong for attempting to steal Middle eastern oil and then using Terrorism and women…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/23 11:33 AM
–	Are you attracted to the instagram influencer look? Niggas are proud of being desensitized to women’s bodies…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/23 11:21 AM
–	Are you attracted to the instagram influencer look? I’d say yes. Women are probably only gonna notice if it’s a Chad type tho. Showing off your body whether your a man or your a women is sexual to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/23 11:20 AM
–	Are you attracted to the instagram influencer look? This man has cracked the matrix lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/23 11:11 AM
–	Are you attracted to the instagram influencer look? Any men that says no seems like a liar to me. Ofc I would be attracted to pretty women in a bikini why wouldn’t I. That doesn’t mean you should target those women tho cause that’s unrealistic. Edit: (didn’t see the part about date or marry) probably not most these girls are whores.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/23 11:10 AM
–	Are you attracted to the instagram influencer look? Bruh CAP like fuck. Come on now we’re really saying bikini pictures which are basically just pictures of women in their underwear aren’t sexual. You can’t be serious…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/23 11:08 AM
-2	Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women. Only 2 for me personally. It’s not exactly common to die protecting your family. But it does happen. Friend was shot and killed defending his girlfriend in a bar. And then some kid I grew up with died protecting his wife I believe from a bear I think. I don’t really know that second story I just know he got mauled by some animal protecting her and didn’t make it I remember the Instagram post.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/23 11:02 AM
0	Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women. You wrote an essay as your original comment. He responds with an essay and he’s wrong wtf????	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/23 10:55 AM
6	M/ in a LTR Essentially. Almost all Women Love Bad Behavior but Condemn it at the Same Time - And Literally Change Their Narrative From Week to Week It depends on what your goals are. That’s the biggest part of red pill that gets over looked. If they went to any college campus and they’d see normal college guys dating normal college girls. Red pill over looks that acting like that will get you overlooked by these women in LTR sense. On the other hand women seem to over look that when it comes to actually just sleeping with women most of the Red pill stuff does actually work and is true it’s just not as good for LTR as they make it out to be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/23 11:05 AM
29	M/ in a LTR Essentially. Almost all Women Love Bad Behavior but Condemn it at the Same Time - And Literally Change Their Narrative From Week to Week Im gonna be honest with you as someone’s who’s in a Loving LTR who also sides with Red pill on most issues. Don’t get to deep in with Red pill stuff bro. On one hand it works you follow it and improve yourself you will sleep with more women atleast that was my experience. However, what they don’t tell ya is your gonna miss out on a lot of relationship girls on the way. There is quite a few beautiful girls out there who will date a regular guy their same age at the same point of life as them. I’m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/23 10:59 AM
1	The “don’t approach women IRL” is a zoomer thing…right? I’ve never thought it was a death sentence I mean basically since I was 16 I’ve been this height and I was able to get girls then and I’m still able to get girls now. I really think a lot of people on this sub might just actually be ugly and are lying to themselves. There’s really no reason in my mind a male in his early 20’s should have zero options unless he’s a complete loser, but I also know that’s not necessarily the case. The dating world is a weird place.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/23 01:42 PM
2	The “don’t approach women IRL” is a zoomer thing…right? Girl u ranting. I’m a whopping 5’7 and have never had trouble getting girls in my life. I’m just asking cause height does help. I just couldn’t imagine the amount of girls I could get at 6’2 if I already don’t have that issue at 5’7 ya know what im saying.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/23 01:22 PM
11	The “don’t approach women IRL” is a zoomer thing…right? The comments taking me out bro said imagine he was trying to return her purse lmaoooo😂😂😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/23 02:12 AM
6	The “don’t approach women IRL” is a zoomer thing…right? Wait u 6’2 and you can’t get any girls really bro?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/23 02:02 AM
0	What is a 30-35 year old women’s dating & relationship market value if she has a low N count and doesn’t want children? Oh wow another person thinking their social circle is a representation of the whole dating sphere. Never would have guessed that. People tend to hang around people that think like them. It’s obvious your basing reality on your own personal experience and that’s not how reality operates. If it was no men would ever have problems getting laid. Me and all my close friends either have girlfriends or numerous sexual partners so clearly every man has a girlfriend or multiple sexual partners right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/23 09:29 PM
2	What is a 30-35 year old women’s dating & relationship market value if she has a low N count and doesn’t want children? I can go on Instagram and show u hundreds if not thousands that didn’t. This is a crazy mindset how do women think that exceptions make the rule. The vast majority of rich guys are not marrying women in the 30’s that’s just a fact not an opinion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/23 09:25 PM
1	What is a 30-35 year old women’s dating & relationship market value if she has a low N count and doesn’t want children? Fake ID will work when you meet him, but if you seriously think trying to start a serious relationship with a lie is going to work be my guest. And it’s the opposite by far there way to little HVM to go around. Idk where u got it into your mind that there’s more rich men than beautiful women but that is completely not true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/23 09:21 PM
3	What is a 30-35 year old women’s dating & relationship market value if she has a low N count and doesn’t want children? This will cause more problems for you than solutions	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/23 09:15 PM
5	What is a 30-35 year old women’s dating & relationship market value if she has a low N count and doesn’t want children? That’s the woman’s problem not the man’s. Your right a lot of those woman won’t marry in their early or mid 20’s and they’ll lose those HVM to girls that will. Then those women will reach their early 30’s and still be good looking, but shocker those HVM that wanted them when they were in the early 20’s are all taken or going after younger girls. Then they complain that there is no more good men for them. That’s the way life works. If you want a male at his peak to take you seriously you have to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/23 09:15 PM
5	What is a 30-35 year old women’s dating & relationship market value if she has a low N count and doesn’t want children? None of this actually matters. Does it change the fact that HVM almost always choose the younger female no. If a woman in her mid 30’s is with a high value male the vast majority of the time is because they were with them BEFORE they became HVM. The chance of a single HVM choosing to settle down with a woman in their 30’s is virtually ZERO.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/23 09:08 PM
3	What is a 30-35 year old women’s dating & relationship market value if she has a low N count and doesn’t want children? You listing all that out won’t change the fact that guys will always want younger woman. I’m sorry but it is what it is. I’m just being truthful the chance of beautiful women in early 30’s finding the rich man of her dreams is virtually slim to none. Those guys virtually always choose the younger woman that’s just truth. Whether that’s a smart decision or not by the man is irrelevant that’s the choices they are almost always going to make.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/23 09:04 PM
5	What is a 30-35 year old women’s dating & relationship market value if she has a low N count and doesn’t want children? I’m assuming your asking about her chances of attracting a HVM part. Obviously she would have a better chance, but I still think it would be difficult. I’ll give you the child bearing part even tho technically whether she’s healthy or not at that age the vast majority of her eggs are gone and it would be a high risk pregnancy but let’s just act like that’s not part of it. She’s still in her early 30’s which is lowering her chances by a lot. Remember we’re talking about HVM their options are extr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/23 08:35 PM
4	What is a 30-35 year old women’s dating & relationship market value if she has a low N count and doesn’t want children? Average to slightly below average imo. Sounds like a classy female that would have plenty of options if she’s ok dating normal guys she’ll do fine. If she’s trying to date the red pill definition of a HVM she’s gonna have serious trouble. Not wanting kids is gonna cut a lot of them out right away. Already in her mid 30’s is gonna cut a lot of them out right away. Her making good money isn’t even part of the equation as most guys with money could care less how much their girls make. Body count un…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/23 07:54 PM
1	Your value doesn't increase with the more women you sleep with Yea this is a basic concept. Obviously it’s not the number of women itself that makes the man high value. It’s the fact that the man has the ability to sleep with a lot of women that makes him high value. Obviously there are other factors that make him attractive to such a large number of women. Those factors determine that he is high value.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/23 03:24 PM
6	Women who claim men left them after sex are just shifting blame to men After you hit the first time if you don’t really like her the thrill is gone anyway ngl might as well just move on the next challenge. Lol being single was such a different life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/23 10:36 PM
0	Fresh and Fit are rape advocates that in turn damage young men creating more rapist or men insensitive to rape. No one’s saying that except the most absolute incel red pill stans. The ones who are the other side of the coin of the comment I responded too. That’s the point you shouldn’t listen to them the same way. A young man could give two fucks about a super feminist blue pill women’s opinion cause they’re just a female version of the guy you’re describing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/23 10:03 PM
7	Fresh and Fit are rape advocates that in turn damage young men creating more rapist or men insensitive to rape. See your too deep in. I’m no stan of fresh and fit I enjoy the show from time to time but you’re literally a female blue pill version of their stans. Like you’re two sides of the same coin its ridiculous both ways. You don’t give two fucks about young men unless they like something you don’t like and then you expect them to take your opinion seriously that’s stupid🤦🏽‍♂️.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/23 07:59 PM
3	Fresh and Fit are rape advocates that in turn damage young men creating more rapist or men insensitive to rape. Now I will admit I enjoy fresh and fit and tho I don’t watch it as much now as it gets repetitive but I’ve seen quite a few episodes. But wow some of these are clips are actually insane now idk if I’m just off here but that first clip sounded like awkward laughing to me. Now would it have been great if they jumped down his throat and asked him about how insane he sounds yea, but personally I wouldn’t expect that from them like ever. Its just not the environment or the audience where you should e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/23 07:37 PM
1	Young men should gravitate to aba and preach/Destiny if they are so desperate for a father figure online. Destiny is like the perfect example of money and clout is all you need lol. Dudes a certified blue hair weirdo but it doesn’t matter that money and clout still brings them in.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/23 09:53 PM
1	Young men should gravitate to aba and preach/Destiny if they are so desperate for a father figure online. It’s for sure lots bro I’m not even trying to dick ride I’m just being honest bruh. Yea being bi and a cuck would probably cause tons of problems if he was a normal average dude, but he’s got online status and money that’s literally all he needs it’s a fucked up world.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/23 09:48 PM
0	Young men should gravitate to aba and preach/Destiny if they are so desperate for a father figure online. A lot sure but along as he got money and status they’re will always be someone who will look over it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/23 09:40 PM
1	Young men should gravitate to aba and preach/Destiny if they are so desperate for a father figure online. He’s rich and has status nothing else matters	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/23 08:23 PM
7	Young men should gravitate to aba and preach/Destiny if they are so desperate for a father figure online. Lol destiny is bitch that let’s his girl get pumped and dumped by NFL players. It’s weird asf to look for a father figure online anyway. People need real fathers my dad is the only man who will ever get the respect of me calling him a father figure. All these online guys live in a completely different world than us you shouldn’t look up to any of them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/23 08:22 PM
0	Men who think that a woman should be open to every man’s advances. Can you explain why? How you treat people is a pretty direct indicator of how much you value them but alright…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/23 04:33 PM
2	Men who think that a woman should be open to every man’s advances. Can you explain why? But it’s just the truth. Go on google and search up how people treat me different after I lost weight. There’s hundreds of posts about women who realized this. Or look up how women treat me different after I worked out and/or became successful. People treat attractive and successful people way better than unattractive and unsuccessful people that’s just a fact whether it makes you angry or not is irrelevant.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/23 03:59 PM
1	Men who think that a woman should be open to every man’s advances. Can you explain why? Yes they are sadly. Less value in dating market place and to some shallow people less value as a person in general just the way of the world.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/23 03:53 PM
1	Men who think that a woman should be open to every man’s advances. Can you explain why? People need justification as to why they can’t get what they want ig. My policy is blame yourself and improve and you won’t have to deal with that. Worked for me so far.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/23 03:36 PM
1	Men who think that a woman should be open to every man’s advances. Can you explain why? Less than the attractive guy. It’s not just with guys less attractive women are seen as less than too. Idk why people try to act like its a one way straight on either side.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/23 03:34 PM
9	Male Delusion Calculator! Technically it is taking the whole available dating pool of everyone in the US. It’s not for me but Ik some rich married dudes who are doubling(and tripling) up with women. It’s a pretty accurate number I’m not sure what your issue is with it not married is technically a standard.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/23 03:33 PM
14	Male Delusion Calculator! Its not broken its based on 50% of people in the US are married so if you put not married automatically it drops you below 50 any thing else drops you pretty quick.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/23 03:21 PM
3	Male Delusion Calculator! My standards: not married, no children, race White or Hispanics, between 4’8 and 5’6, not overweight/obese, any income. Age range 18-27. Came out to be about 12% 2/5 red pills that’s pretty reasonable if you ask me and possibly even higher, cause even tho I’d prefer a Hispanic or white women there are some Asian and black woman I’ve liked before, so fairly not delusional.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/23 03:17 PM
3	Men who think that a woman should be open to every man’s advances. Can you explain why? I’ll try to dumb this down the issue is not the woman rejecting the guy. It’s cause the unattractive guys is seen as less than. Technically if the women would be open to a more attractive guy saying or doing the same move then the move itself isn’t creepy and just because a less attractive guy does it to her doesn’t make it wrong. But sadly life isn’t fair so I don’t think women should be open to every guys advances. The same way I’m not open to every girls advances quick little story time from …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/23 03:06 PM
–	How has your relationship with your mother impacted your view of women now? My mother is a great person and I love her dearly. She also had me at an older age and doesn’t use social media her views and views of most modern women that I deal with are night and day, so no real impact can’t compare them to her when they think and act 100% different.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/23 01:20 PM
4	Bisexual women, what kinds of women behaviors are annoying or straight up nonsense to you? Always wanted to know how does the paying on first dates work when it’s two girls. Do you just always split it? Does the person who asked pay? Or does the person who ask ever expect you to pay?(I think that would be weird tho)	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/23 01:07 AM
3	Do Fresh and Fit bring women on the show to actually discuss dating topics or are they trying to embarrass them or something else? No disagreement there but it’s through volunteering i find it hard to believe that many Career women volunteer to go on I mean I wouldn’t blame anyone who didn’t want to go on the show. When the vast majority of other women on the show are going to be delusional idiots. Tho I wish they would those episodes are better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/23 12:58 AM
5	Do Fresh and Fit bring women on the show to actually discuss dating topics or are they trying to embarrass them or something else? They’ve also done that and women with multiple degrees including phds. The notion that they only talk to these type of girls is false but u probably won’t believe me anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/23 12:48 AM
1	For the committed ladies: how do you feel about your husband/boyfriend hiding money and investments from you as a backup plan? Yea just gonna go with I’m not at that point in life yet whether my partner wedding and living expenses haven’t come up cause I haven’t lived with any of my partners let alone thought about marrying one just too young for this ig.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/23 12:38 AM
2	Male Birth Control Will Never Be Commonly Used Lol 100% a women made this comment	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/23 12:23 AM
1	Male Birth Control Will Never Be Commonly Used I would use it if it existed	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/23 12:21 AM
1	For the committed ladies: how do you feel about your husband/boyfriend hiding money and investments from you as a backup plan? Ok but what’s being honest? Telling them exactly how much money I have? Maybe I just haven’t reached that stage of life yet but I’ve never had a reason to tell my girlfriend that our finances aren’t merged why does she need to know?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/23 12:18 AM
2	Do Fresh and Fit bring women on the show to actually discuss dating topics or are they trying to embarrass them or something else? Yea the black dating culture is for sure my least favorite part of the show. They go INSANE on black women at times and I’m just like damn that’s a bit much, but besides that the show is fine medium level online entertainment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 11:59 PM
5	Do Fresh and Fit bring women on the show to actually discuss dating topics or are they trying to embarrass them or something else? They’ve done that multiple times	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 11:56 PM
8	Do Fresh and Fit bring women on the show to actually discuss dating topics or are they trying to embarrass them or something else? They bring them on all the time the college girls are usually a lot more reasonable then the OF girls that get clipped everywhere.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 11:55 PM
3	Could it be that women just do not like men that much? I really do wonder how many have actually done this	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 11:35 PM
6	Could it be that women just do not like men that much? Men desire women more in a sexual way if that’s what you were going for. Do I think men or women like or dislike each other more on a emotional level not really. They both seem to hate each other and blame each other for their problems evenly if you ask me. Almost like accountability is human issue more than a sex issue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 11:33 PM
1	For the committed ladies: how do you feel about your husband/boyfriend hiding money and investments from you as a backup plan? As a guy I’d like to just drop a follow up question in the comments maybe somewhere will see this. As a boyfriend wouldn’t it be smart to hide your money from your girlfriend? I mean if your living together that’s different I guess, but my money is my money I choose how I spend it. If we’re married I’d obviously see it differently.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 11:23 PM
4	What do you think of this advice for how to be in the top 5% of men? Chris Hemsworth is a little higher than 5% tho no 😭	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 11:17 PM
2	What do you think of this advice for how to be in the top 5% of men? OP was talking about women so I’m assuming top 5% of the dating market place for men and yes it absolutely would put him in the top 5%. Why is this such a weird concept for people to understand. You said 5’6 balding 30 years old so average or a little below average. Average everything personality, strength, charisma whatever else. Add 2 million a mansion and a lambo and magically he would easily be in the top 5% of the dating marketplace for men. Maybe he wouldn’t be attractive to you personally…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 11:12 PM
2	What do you think of this advice for how to be in the top 5% of men? It’s like logic doesn’t work on this app sometimes. If you seriously want to act like being a multimillionaire wouldn’t put u in top 5% of men be my guest but it’s really super obvious and ridiculous to say otherwise. Does he magically become perfect no but that’s not top 5% that’s 1 out of 3billion. Obviously a single multimillionaire in their 30’s bad personality or not would be in the top 5% in the dating marketplace and it is ridiculous to think otherwise especially when you just said most t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 11:05 PM
2	What do you think of this advice for how to be in the top 5% of men? For one that does not mean he will give them too her let’s not act like there isn’t girls who throw themselves at rich guys for basically nothing cause I’ve seen it and I’m sure you have too. Two the goal here is to be in the top 5% of men correct. Personality be damned it’s obvious it’s all around us. Rich guys get infinite choices he would be fine. It doesn’t even make the women automatically a gold digger lets not act like most of us wouldn’t mind having a multimillionaire partner that would …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 10:54 PM
5	CMV: Men want relationships (romantic) with women more than vice versa Wdym there’s plenty of men who just want to fuck who can’t lol and plenty more who will get into relationships just cause that’s there only way to fuck. Like I’m telling you dude this is not close like at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 10:46 PM
11	CMV: Men want relationships (romantic) with women more than vice versa Nah im ngl looking at your friend group isn’t a good indicator way to small of a sample size. There is WAY more and I do mean WAY more men that just want to fuck than women who just want to fuck it’s not close.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 10:43 PM
2	What do you think of this advice for how to be in the top 5% of men? Cap unless he’s a complete idiot	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 10:38 PM
1	What do you think of this advice for how to be in the top 5% of men? Give him 2 million a mansion a Lambo and lift some weights and I promise you he’ll be just fine…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 10:36 PM
3	What do you think of this advice for how to be in the top 5% of men? The problem is they don’t actually define what top 5% actually is and any advice besides get fit and get rich is pretty much useless.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 10:35 PM
1	Question for women. What is your honest opinion when you see men and women go back and forth about relationship stuff on places like TikTok? Not a women but honestly all the advice from those tiktoks or podcasts are garbage. I watch a few as entertainment but as for actually getting good advice look somewhere else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 10:29 PM
4	Are women specifically dating the top X% of men, or do men simply not meet the "bar"? You are correct but 1/3 is still a big portion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 10:27 PM
0	Change my View : Most men base a part of theyre Dating decisions on theyre ego, and that is perfectly fine It’s not the same	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 12:59 PM
1	Who is more successful in dating: conservative/right wing men or liberal/left wing men? Yessir was a great 4 years I highly recommend wasnt just tech and state tho cause Emory, Clark, etc are so close it was kinda like a blend from everyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/23 05:59 PM
3	Who is more successful in dating: conservative/right wing men or liberal/left wing men? Yea that for sure helped, also the fact that it was atlanta and it wasn’t like one college campus. It was like 4 all with in a couple dollars Uber radius. There was a lot of options no doubt.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/23 03:57 AM
1	If WW3 started tomorrow, what would you expect your man or men in your country to do? I’m not so sure the United States would require a draft even in the case of another world war. The increase in technological advancement can’t really be understated it would be a waste to send out a untrained and when it comes to war virtually useless guy who doesn’t want to go in the first place. When you got plenty of people who’d be willing and fucking fleets of drones and shit that can blow up people half way across the world being controlled by some random in Kansas.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/23 02:20 AM
3	Who is more successful in dating: conservative/right wing men or liberal/left wing men? Jesus bro this is sad 😭.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/23 02:08 AM
1	Who is more successful in dating: conservative/right wing men or liberal/left wing men? Damn Ik u had to be riding high after they came back to you like that. I don’t think it’s just height I actually am a short guy too only 5’7. It’s never been a serious issue tho ofc u get the oh your too short for me but that’s just an instant unmatch I’m good on that. Idk maybe I just got a nice face or im just blessed or something. Cause when I say it’s easy it’s like dumb easy bro. I’ve literally said the craziest shit first message. Facials, putting her on knees, tryna bend ur ass over etc l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/23 01:57 AM
1	Who is more successful in dating: conservative/right wing men or liberal/left wing men? Damn can’t argue with facts u got it 🤷🏽‍♂️	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/23 01:45 AM
2	Who is more successful in dating: conservative/right wing men or liberal/left wing men? I’ve never thought of myself as a top tier male, but I appreciate the compliment. Your probably right tho I’m looking to much through my lens where as OLD has come extremely easy to me. Obviously that is not the case for most guys though it’s hard for me to see why just seems so easy they gotta be doing something wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/23 01:38 AM
3	Who is more successful in dating: conservative/right wing men or liberal/left wing men? I mean we shouldn’t be surprised that can find men to sign up. Since men use dating apps more then women in general anyway no?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/23 01:29 AM
12	Who is more successful in dating: conservative/right wing men or liberal/left wing men? Who tf even uses a dating app that revolves around political party left or right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/23 01:27 AM
8	Who is more successful in dating: conservative/right wing men or liberal/left wing men? My experience was the opposite. I got no girls growing up small town everyone knew each other and was in each others business was really difficult atleast for me. Went to college in the city and BOOM 100% shift in the other direction was easy af . Get on tinder, send some flirty message, invite to dorm room, hookup and watch a movie. That was like my weekend routine in college atleast until i met my girlfriend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/23 01:25 AM
1	Who is more successful in dating: conservative/right wing men or liberal/left wing men? I’d say conservative right wing men. I’m moderate I would have said liberal leaning until the last couple years shits getting a little ridiculous ngl. But most girls I meet are for sure liberal so maybe I’m just wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/23 01:20 AM
1	I don’t think dating gets easier for men in their 40’s and beyond. I thought the argument was always 30’s is peak for men and 20’s is peak for women. Idk how you could argue 40’s is better for men unless they make a ridiculous amount of money in their 40’s.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/23 01:06 AM