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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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5	I asked the universe to rid me of everything that doesn't serve me. All I did was enforce boundaries, and it was obvious to me who really respected me, and who did not. Thank you for your kind words and motivation to post the DEARMAN technique :) Here’s a short read on it while I don’t create the post: https://dbt.tools/interpersonal_effectiveness/dear-man.php :) yay for us. Your heat / warm example hits the nail on the head. Thank you!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/07/20 08:39 PM
32	I asked the universe to rid me of everything that doesn't serve me. All I did was enforce boundaries, and it was obvious to me who really respected me, and who did not. This is so true. After 2 months of therapy I messaged certain people basically saying: “these are my boundaries. If you don’t like them, our relationship is over” Most people stuck around, but after a few days they went back to trying to push the boundaries I set up. Then I told them I would be now blocking them and to kindly not contact me again. I now feel like I should feel lonely, but I don’t. Being free of the drama and the expectations those people were putting on me were a burden and I di…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/07/20 05:41 PM
4	A reminder that "no" is always a complete sentence. You don't owe anyone an explanation, a dance, a drink, a date, or sex. Someone who does not respect your boundaries is someone who has no respect for you. Lol tell that to my grandparents when they’re offering me food :P	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/07/20 12:54 AM
32	Men stop putting in an effort, and then are perplexed when you’re no longer cheery, feminine and enthusiastic about sex. I had my husband tease me twice about having a big ass (which is technically good nowadays to be thicc lol but that’s not the point) then the other day I made a comment about moobs. He got offended (we all put on weight during quarantine, I don’t really care about his moobs or my ass). I explained to him that he made the same kind of comments to me all the time. He stopped. Sometimes it takes them feeling the insult on their body themselves to realize how harmful it can be.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/07/20 09:55 AM

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