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| 1 | To reply, or not to reply?Brah, I got her in a position where she'll still fuck me... Lol. I used abundance. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/18 05:32 AM |
| -1 | To reply, or not to reply?I just said "Remember all those girlfriends? I can drive all of them around now ;)" I'm just assuming it's over. Other scenario is she's just backing away for now for whatever reason and things will be OK next time. The fact I can drive now seemed to have at least sparked her interest enough to message me. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 10:44 AM |
| 1 | To reply, or not to reply?I'm just assuming it's over at this point and I sent her a message saying "Remember all those girlfriends? I can drive all of them around now ;)" (I joked about this before with her). | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 10:42 AM |
| 1 | To reply, or not to reply?Don't look at what women say. They say something, do other shit. She didn't come to meet you on Monday did she? Exhausted? Fake. I mean like I said, she got up early in the morning and had to drive all the way to the airport, and was working into the morning the previous day. Probably not enough of an excuse though. I think the best way to go here is to apply dread. So why bother texting? I mean, I already texted her today... So why not? I could also say "now I can drive my other girls around ;)… | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 05:59 AM |
| 1 | To reply, or not to reply?Well, you fucked up honestly. You lost frame. You apologized for wrong reasons. Now it's kinda useless. Why was she was saying how she missed me multiple times then? Or just try dread. Either way, read more sidebar. I'll use dread then. Btw, don't reply. What's your reasoning behind not replying? And why that over using banter? | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 05:39 AM |
| 1 | Is getting called a fuckboy a shit test?This came up to me before, I just said "well you can't call me a fuckboy because I'm upfront to women about what I want, a fuckboy deceives women into thinking he's really into the girl when he's not in order to get laid". Honest, upfront. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 05:36 AM |
| 1 | How to make up to LTR after being a legit dick?The "rules" laid out by TRP seem drastic because they're meant to be a shock treatment for men who were so damaged that they can't even be responsible for themselves. The biggest reason why TRP 'works' is because a lot of people who come to TRP already have huge issues, like neediness and shit that drive women away. Most guys who already have their shit together don't even have to bother going to TRP because they already have the confidence/non neediness and etc that'll mean they can keep women … | /r/askTRP | 10/06/18 01:55 AM |
| 1 | How to make up to LTR after being a legit dick?She most likely thinks that. Women are masters at finding out way to avoid responsibility. If it comes up again, I'll specify that I had nothing to do with her choices, and I'm only sorry for telling her to leave when she was drinking. If she somehow says "it's your fault", then I'll make a big joke about it, like I'll say "tell me to punch myself in the rib", and when she tells me I'll do a light jab to my rib and say "ouch, why would you do this to me? I'm calling the police for domestic abuse… | /r/askTRP | 09/06/18 12:07 PM |
| 1 | How to convert FWB to LTR?I turned my FWB into an LTR. She pushed for it after 3 months of seeing each other. She should initiate it. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/18 09:51 AM |
| -7 | Gf fucked over 50 guysIt depends on the individual. I've known a girl who's fucked like 7 guys in a week during her first year of university when she was 18, but now she's completely different and can only be monogamous now, and can only be with one dude at a time. She never cheated in any of her relationships either. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/18 09:47 AM |
| 1 | How to make up to LTR after being a legit dick?Your situation was handled pretty well, you didn't lose your cool or say something incorrect. I apologised for telling her to leave when she was under the influence, not for the situation. I hope that she doesn't think I apologised for the situation, or that I'm admitting I'm somehow responsible for what happened. She was being pretty stupid for doing that but then again females full of emoshuns (after I kicked her out of my place) who have been drinking aren't gonna make the most rational decis… | /r/askTRP | 09/06/18 09:28 AM |
| 1 | Shutting yourself out in crab-bucket scenarios?Should have made the changes more slowly over time, most people wouldn't have noticed. Plus you're 16, this shit doesn't even matter in the long run, they're all immature kids and this bullshit happens all the time. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/18 05:52 AM |
| 1 | How to make up to LTR after being a legit dick?U should act like tarzan. Me tarzan. Me no understand. Your tits feel good my hand. Want some banana? U very soft. Haha. How good it would have been if I told her to sleep in the other room and slapped her butt on the way out? She'd have been dripping in her panties, and I'd be dismissing the bullshit like it means nothing to me. That's an attitude I certainly have to adopt. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/18 04:50 AM |
| 1 | How to make up to LTR after being a legit dick?A pussy after what happened? | /r/askTRP | 09/06/18 04:01 AM |
| 1 | How to make up to LTR after being a legit dick?Those weren't my words, I was paraphrasing from words of my 'betters'. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/18 03:44 AM |
| 1 | How to make up to LTR after being a legit dick?OK, assuming we were up to the point we were in bed, and she was complaining about stuff to me, the optimal thing to do would be to just tell her to sleep in the other room? Assuming all the shit that night happened, what would be the best things to do afterwards? | /r/askTRP | 09/06/18 03:42 AM |
| 1 | How to make up to LTR after being a legit dick?Whine like a bitch? | /r/askTRP | 09/06/18 03:39 AM |
| 1 | How to make up to LTR after being a legit dick?YOU APOLOGIZED FOR FUCKING UP WHEN YOU HADN'T FUCKED UP! I believe I was being irrational when I said for someone to leave my place while they were under the influence. I didn't think about it first. As a dude we're meant to be the rational ones, who's emotions don't get the better of us, the guy is the constant while the chick is the variable. The fact that you caved in like a bitch immediately and then started whining "No, don't get the fuck out." Need any more answers? I didn't say for her to… | /r/askTRP | 09/06/18 03:38 AM |
| 1 | How to make up to LTR after being a legit dick?Exactly, we're not perfect, hence why I believed an apology was in order. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/18 05:14 PM |
| 1 | How to make up to LTR after being a legit dick?She lives a pretty decent distance away, she also needs her car to go to work the next day on time (which is also a pretty decent distance from hers), it's simply not feasible. Her choice, a very stupid choice, and if she brings it up again how she was put in a dangerous situation I'll say it's her responsibility for the choice she made. It'd be a bad idea to assume a woman would act rationally in such a situation though. I was also being irrational and reactive by telling her to leave without t… | /r/askTRP | 08/06/18 03:04 PM |
| 1 | How to make up to LTR after being a legit dick?I am sorry for saying for her to leave when she was drinking, but that's all I'm sorry for. I just hope my apology didn't come off as "I'm responsible for what happened" to her. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/18 12:40 PM |
| 1 | How to make up to LTR after being a legit dick?Don't you think it's a good thing to apologise for kicking someone out when they've been drinking, when the only viable option for them to get back home is to drive? Well yeah, she was a bitch, but I should think things through before I say them instead of making rash decisions like saying "get out" when she was drinking. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/18 11:22 AM |
| 0 | How to make up to LTR after being a legit dick?What have I done wrong then? You're saying I groveled to her but I didn't, I apologised for something I believe is a wrong thing to do. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/18 11:19 AM |
| 1 | How to make up to LTR after being a legit dick?I did kick her out, but then I gave her another option. I was impulsive and said something without thinking about it first. I didn't grovel to her, I apologised for telling her to leave when she was drinking, which I should have done. How stupid is it to tell someone who's been drinking to leave, especially when the only viable option there is for them to drive back? I said something stupid, therefore I'm sorry about saying it. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/18 11:13 AM |
| -1 | How to make up to LTR after being a legit dick?You only asked her to leave, not to take her fucking car. She could have called her mom, a friend, a taxi, walk, a bus, a uber, whatever. You are too fucking blind man, you don't want to see. Trust me, none of these were viable options, she lives a fair distance away and it was late in the night (people would be asleep). For example, if she got an uber she'd have a huge fee and by the time she comes to get her car the next day she'd be late for work due to the distance. Yeah it was still her cho… | /r/askTRP | 08/06/18 11:04 AM |
| 1 | How to make up to LTR after being a legit dick?She will probably remember it as a failure on your part because you allowed her to be a victim and you chased her. That doesn't mean that the relationship is over, but she'll have a little less respect for you now I expect. She said she was sorry as well though. I didn't exactly chase her though, all I did was apologise for fucking up. I mean how would she have less respect since I showed I was willing to tell her to get the fuck out? And of course the relationship isn't over, she just messaged … | /r/askTRP | 08/06/18 10:49 AM |
| 1 | How to make up to LTR after being a legit dick?The fact of the matter though, she drank that night, therefore I should have been cognizant of that and never said to leave. That shouldn't have even been an option on the table, but I put it out there. The correct thing to do here would be to suggest for her to sleep in the other room. Don't you agree that it's wrong to suggest to anyone to leave your house after you've had more than a few drinks with them? Obviously, a part from when they're being abusive. And about that post, it says "you sho… | /r/askTRP | 08/06/18 10:21 AM |
| 1 | How to make up to LTR after being a legit dick?If I just told her to sleep in the other room, that'd be the best thing to do, and all of this would have been avoided, and I would have been in a better position. I understand I'm not responsible for her actions, but I still said "get out" when she was drinking that night, which was so so stupid. Especially when someone is drinking, their judgements are clouded. Also, I didn't try to stop her from driving, I just said to her I won't let her go if she's over the limit, and suggested she should s… | /r/askTRP | 08/06/18 10:10 AM |
| 1 | How to make up to LTR after being a legit dick?Yeah it was stupid, it was a spur of the moment thing. I just wanted her out of there so I said it. She said she missed me so things are fine. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/18 10:06 AM |
| -1 | How to make up to LTR after being a legit dick?Never, ever apologize to a women. That's nonsense. An alpha male admits when he was in the wrong. Tell me how it's a good idea to not apologise even if you know you're in the wrong... Fucking cringing. Oh so cringeworthy, I didn't want someone's blood on my hands because I just let them go without hesitation if they could be drunk and not in a position to drive. You broke your boundaries, if she isn't respecting your sleep time then she should not sleep over at yours after having sex or whatsoev… | /r/askTRP | 08/06/18 10:00 AM |
| 1 | I Have a Boyfriend.What way should that have been? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/18 05:05 AM |
| 1 | How can I be successful on tinder?If you are not atleast 8+/10 or 6+/10 with a ripped body tinder will be very hard for you I put on 3kg, and with my current physique (shirtless mirror selfie) I can only get like 3 matches a day. I still look strong and fairly slim now, but the ladies were barely responsive, even though I look a little buffer now. I put up an old photo (shirtless mirror selfie) where I was 3kg lighter, but I looked really shredded, and I was getting like 9 matches a day with that photo and more attractive girls,… | /r/askTRP | 31/05/18 12:57 PM |
| 2 | Why do some women claim that 'most guys aren't attractive to them'?I would easily fuck 6.5 girls out of every ten Just sayin', I hope 0.65 times the amount of people in your high school works out to be an integer number. Wanting to fuck at least one midget or a decapitated person in your high school is having no standards. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/18 12:44 PM |
| 4 | I Have a Boyfriend.I made a flirty/joke comment toward a girl when I was out one time, she laughed. I seen her recording the band on snapchat, so a few minutes later I come up to her and say "I have to go now, is it alright if I get your snapchat?" she said "I have a boyfriend", I said "oh, ok" in a manner which it didn't even phase me (because it didn't), but then she says "but I'll give you it anyway". I'm thinking she gave me a chance because I didn't seem butthurt over her saying that. I thought I seen this gi… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/18 05:29 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with "let's have sex later", and have more control over when we have sex.How can I show her this? By cheating? It's not gonna be saying to her "I'm fucking another girl in an hour" | /r/askTRP | 31/05/18 04:14 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with "let's have sex later", and have more control over when we have sex.She did have sex with me though, twice, she just didn't want to do it right then and there for whatever reason. She did tell me, she prefers to have sex at night time rather than the afternoon. She also mentioned she likes "waking up in the morning to fucking you". | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 03:12 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with "let's have sex later", and have more control over when we have sex.If she mentions the word consent, drop her She didn't say consent, but she did say I should listen to her when she says no. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 02:58 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with "let's have sex later", and have more control over when we have sex.So you currently have a woman who doesn't question these things? | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 02:45 PM |
| 4 | How to deal with "let's have sex later", and have more control over when we have sex.She asked me to be exclusive. I told her I'd think about it but it means a lot that she'd ask me that. A week later I said yes when she thought I wasn't going to. Because we have a lot of the same interests, our personalities gel together, she's my type in terms of appearance (slim with big titties, and the colour eyes I like and etc), consistent sex, a closeness that you couldn't have with a FWB, no risk of STIs being in a purely monogamous relationship (I got a curable STI from one of these sl… | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 02:26 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with "let's have sex later", and have more control over when we have sex.Of course you can withdraw attention through text. You still need something to talk about in real life right? I'm thinking about going full radio silence for the next few days so she can dread. I am going to be busy though, I should just leave the phone off for a few days. It seems like you're not really open for the suggestions that guys are giving. And since it's TRP, those suggestions won't be something like 'buy her roses'. I know the types of answers are definitely not going to be that... B… | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 02:13 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with "let's have sex later", and have more control over when we have sex.You’re aware of your value Damn straight. I know she'd be fucking devastated if I left her. I wouldn't if the tables were turned. I've been alone for many years in my life and I find more purpose in improving myself (like getting my degree), I'm the constant in my life and she could come or go and I'd still have myself. A lot of women don't have an identity a part from what they get from their partner. I think this is just a case of her getting comfortable in the relationship. That will change. … | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 02:08 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with "let's have sex later", and have more control over when we have sex.I just have mixed feelings about the relationship, because I have cuties eyeing me off everywhere (she mentions) and I feel she doesn't treat me with that fact in mind, like someone said I have to utilise this dread because I haven't been. We still have good times, and I'm satisfied that I'm always getting sex, but I feel like she should be bending over backwards for me in this situation. Never extend your issues to her verbally, only through actions. Yeah, the worst thing you can do with women … | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 01:07 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with "let's have sex later", and have more control over when we have sex.No you don’t go silent. You simply direct your attention elsewhere I wouldn't say I text her that much already, but there's places the contact can be reduced, but my attention is usually elsewhere. cut your time short with her What is 'cutting time short with her' when I only see her once a week? Maybe instead of coming over earlier in the day, coming over more at night, and then getting her to leave early in the morning? | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 01:02 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with "let's have sex later", and have more control over when we have sex.Well yeah, you can probably never have the power you want, but you can always maximise the power that you do have in a relationship. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 12:53 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with "let's have sex later", and have more control over when we have sex.So in my situation, the right steps would be to go radio silent all of a sudden for days? So in my case I can only see her once a week, so I'll only be in contact just before she comes over so we can arrange something. I did talk to her today, asked briefly how she was, then she talking about how sore I made her pussy from fucking her the other day, and how her pussy was literally aching from me, I mentioned I'll make sure I don't put her in a wheelchair next time ;) . | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 12:51 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with "let's have sex later", and have more control over when we have sex.So your LTRs just fuck you whenever you want? I mean, how does one set that precedence? | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 12:39 PM |
| 0 | How to deal with "let's have sex later", and have more control over when we have sex.I mean, there was a bit before that where I was acting a bit out of line. I tried to come onto her twice. The 2nd time I came onto her it was after she slapped me in a joking way while we were fucking around, and I just go ham on her, throw her onto the bed, start grabbing her by the pussy and take her jeans right off. She was pretty pissed off by this because there was a lack of consent there, because she kept saying no while I was taking it off. It's not like I just had one attempt and she sai… | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 12:35 PM |
| 7 | How to deal with "let's have sex later", and have more control over when we have sex.hmmmm this is the first step. Next is "I'm not your whore". I made it clear that comment wasn't acceptable when I left to walk the dog basically right after she said that. She said "why are you walking the dog now? You obviously don't want me around, maybe I should just leave then" I said "you can leave if you want, I can't force you to stay" and then left. When I came back she was saying sorry and was trying to hug me. See less of her, and consider if being exclusive is really working out for w… | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 12:30 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with "let's have sex later", and have more control over when we have sex.HARD NEXT. Bet she didn’t say that to her exes. I've seen her exes, imo I'm a lot more attractive, also in her opinion "you're the hottest guy I've been with" and is always saying how attractive I am. No explanation. Hard next. That seems pretty drastic. At least instil dread first or soft next. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 12:25 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with "let's have sex later", and have more control over when we have sex.Withdraw attention. If she calls you out, say "no, let's have an LTR later." Withdraw attention over texts and stuff? Because I only see her once a week. Also saying "let's have a LTR later" that'd essentially be ending the relationship. "I'm not here so you can drain resources from me whenever you want" Actually, in fact she bought a load of food to be delivered to us that night. 1- She's not that attracted to you Fucked at night and then again in the morning. It's not like she doesn't want to … | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 12:23 PM |
| 1 | LTR upset that I only talked about sex with her recentlyI disagree. We don't text much, and we are in a relationship so keeping in contact isn't really too bad. It's not like she's a FWB or something. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 03:44 AM |
| 1 | LTR upset that I only talked about sex with her recentlyYou did not read the post “Beware of Beta Bait” because you fell for it. Your situation is literally the first two items. When a girl who has not shown previous interest or just started being dramaful starts sending sexy pics, I read that just then, it seems most of them aren't really valid for LTR, like the thing about sending sexually suggestive pics is a bit different in this case, because when a girl is sending it to a guy she hasn't fucked yet, it doesn't mean shit. And what do you mean my … | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 03:39 AM |
| 1 | LTR upset that I only talked about sex with her recentlyFucked her last night, and then when I did again this morning her pussy was aching | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 03:28 AM |
| 1 | LTR upset that I only talked about sex with her recentlySounds like she's manipulating you with her emotions, and certainly keeping sex off the table. She came over yesterday. We fucked last night and then this morning I fucked her until her pussy was sore and literally couldn't go any more. When she mentioned how sore she was afterwards, I smiled and said "big dick problems", and she smiled. But the thing is she probably just felt like I'm just using her for sex since it appeared as though the only things I wanted to talk to her about was sex, which… | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 03:26 AM |
| 3 | LTR upset that I only talked about sex with her recentlyStop texting her and giving her your attention / validation for free. What about all the times were I wasn't giving her my attention? Plus, when she sent a sexy pic I didn't even validate her, I said for her to take the rest off. Also you sound like a thirsty bitch when you text her. Stop being so fucking needy and eager to please. When was I being needy and eager to please? | /r/askTRP | 27/05/18 07:00 AM |
| 1 | LTR upset that I only talked about sex with her recentlyHah, I'll try to give a ridiculous answer next time. But what if she says "why aren't you taking this seriously?", I mean I could keep going with the crazy responses, but then she could just argue "you don't take anything I say seriously". I need to start thinking that she doesn't need explanations for anything? Is that healthy? There's a point in the line where you show that you simply don't care about that person at all if you push this stuff too far. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/18 06:56 AM |
| 0 | LTR upset that I only talked about sex with her recentlyInstead of using A&A and defusing the situation but still keeping the environment playful/sexy. I think using A&A in this situation would just make it worse... So at the point where she said "you always talk about sex", and I said "yeah didn't you know I'm actually pornstar in my spare time?" she'd just think I'm not taking anything seriously at all and just get more pissed off. That'd seem evasive if I did that. She had legit concerns it seems, she was wondering if all she was to me is sex. I f… | /r/askTRP | 27/05/18 06:38 AM |
| 0 | LTR upset that I only talked about sex with her recentlyI didn't say I was using dread though, I only brought up how she was being moody as an example to say she wasn't properly valuing when I did call her (since she was being moody). Also, she did apologise, I didn't. When you say I was DEER'ing, I don't know if that's completely true, I feel it'd just be running away if I didn't bother defending anything I said. What should I have done then? | /r/askTRP | 27/05/18 06:01 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend denies sex because she's "tired", I deny cuddling. Later in the night she starts lightly coming onto me and we fuck. Am I doing things right? Also LTR advice needed, first relationship so have no idea if some of these behaviours are acceptable in a relationship.The only thing I'm rationalising is the fact she lied to me about smoking, given the fact she thought I'd leave her if she told me. Some of the bitchy/whiny behaviour I am unhappy with, but that may be because I'm not putting my foot down enough and using TRP hard enough on those issues. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 11:12 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend denies sex because she's "tired", I deny cuddling. Later in the night she starts lightly coming onto me and we fuck. Am I doing things right? Also LTR advice needed, first relationship so have no idea if some of these behaviours are acceptable in a relationship.You have to trust she takes her pill With the things she told me about how she hates kids, and how anyone who has kids too young are stupid (she's given examples of people older than her being stupid for having kids at that age), I do trust she takes it. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 11:06 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend denies sex because she's "tired", I deny cuddling. Later in the night she starts lightly coming onto me and we fuck. Am I doing things right? Also LTR advice needed, first relationship so have no idea if some of these behaviours are acceptable in a relationship.Feels good tho, she made it explicit she definitely doesn't want kids. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 10:58 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend denies sex because she's "tired", I deny cuddling. Later in the night she starts lightly coming onto me and we fuck. Am I doing things right? Also LTR advice needed, first relationship so have no idea if some of these behaviours are acceptable in a relationship.I think I'll trial this, I can tell her to go home early in the morning as soon as she withholds sex. "Lets get up. I'm busy today, you have to go home early." It's not as much of a big deal as telling her to go home at 10pm at night, because she has to go home the next day anyway. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 10:17 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend denies sex because she's "tired", I deny cuddling. Later in the night she starts lightly coming onto me and we fuck. Am I doing things right? Also LTR advice needed, first relationship so have no idea if some of these behaviours are acceptable in a relationship.So tell her to get ready and go for a 50 min drive home when she came all this way to see me on one of the few days that she can? If she lived 10 min away and we could see each other any day I'd do this in a heartbeat. I feel that if I were to do that I may be crossing a line in my situation. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 09:04 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend denies sex because she's "tired", I deny cuddling. Later in the night she starts lightly coming onto me and we fuck. Am I doing things right? Also LTR advice needed, first relationship so have no idea if some of these behaviours are acceptable in a relationship.You get totally butthurt when she says no sex. Well I'm pretty pissed off at her when she says no sex with a bullshit excuse, shouldn't you be? Did she tell you that she added him on fb? No, but she told me she has a few exes on facebook, and that facebook isn't a big deal for her. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 09:00 AM |
| 1 | The Importance of Oxytocin Production in Women and Inhibition by Hormonal ContraceptivesI'm just curious what KINDS of oral contraceptives were used in the study which showed a negative effect on oxytocin. If it was progesterone only then that's probably why it decreased oxytocin (I'm fairly certain progesterone only is bad for oxytocin). Maybe someone could contact the person who wrote that article for clarification? If it's true that combined contraceptive pills increase oxytocin, then that means someone on that will be more likely to stay in a committed relationship. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/18 07:29 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend denies sex because she's "tired", I deny cuddling. Later in the night she starts lightly coming onto me and we fuck. Am I doing things right? Also LTR advice needed, first relationship so have no idea if some of these behaviours are acceptable in a relationship.You are most likely in this deeper than she is The funny thing is it's the other way around, she constantly seeks reassurance in the relationship, and one time she half joked "I bet you're looking for a replacement for your grumpy girlfriend". She always messages me first and often I don't even reply to her messages. You shouldn't be thinking this hard after only 3 months. It's my first relationship, I want to spend some time thinking about whether I should continue it now, so I can decide to br… | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 07:13 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend denies sex because she's "tired", I deny cuddling. Later in the night she starts lightly coming onto me and we fuck. Am I doing things right? Also LTR advice needed, first relationship so have no idea if some of these behaviours are acceptable in a relationship.Yeah I am over analysing things, this is my first relationship so I've been looking everywhere for red flags, and the tiniest issues that come up I take a mental note of and examine with scepticism. I just fear of wasting time on people that aren't worth it, which is why I'm very observant to little things. Well no shit, you two see each other only 2x a week, the girl seems crazy about you, you postpone your "date" by two hours, it can even be expected for her to get grumpy a bit, it's not some … | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 07:00 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend denies sex because she's "tired", I deny cuddling. Later in the night she starts lightly coming onto me and we fuck. Am I doing things right? Also LTR advice needed, first relationship so have no idea if some of these behaviours are acceptable in a relationship.having a quick skim of your bullet points tells me she is not inside your frame and she doesnt respect you like you want her to There is some level of respect because she soon realises when she crosses lines and apologises. I read the sidebar about frame, and I re-read recently, and I do think my frame could be improved. attention (and affection in an ltr) is your currency Yes I apply this principle when possible. withdraw it little by little when she behaves like a bitch or does things you dont… | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 06:40 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend denies sex because she's "tired", I deny cuddling. Later in the night she starts lightly coming onto me and we fuck. Am I doing things right? Also LTR advice needed, first relationship so have no idea if some of these behaviours are acceptable in a relationship.Yes I did put a lot of detail into it, because I want to find out if I should invest anymore time into this relationship. If I cut it off early I could potentially save a lot of time and heartache if there's any major redflags here. Or potentially fix shit up if I were to simply change some things. I've been following the red pill as close as I could and delved into the concepts as much as I could, but I'm just looking for advice from more experienced people. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend denies sex because she's "tired", I deny cuddling. Later in the night she starts lightly coming onto me and we fuck. Am I doing things right? Also LTR advice needed, first relationship so have no idea if some of these behaviours are acceptable in a relationship.I know right, that's only for people that want specific details of what sort of behaviour I'm talking about, because it's hard to convey exactly what's wrong without giving specific details. I have 5 concise dot points at the end that summarise everything. This is my first LTR so I just thought I'd give details to people with more experience to let me know if some of this shit should be major red flags. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 05:53 AM |
| 4 | The Importance of Oxytocin Production in Women and Inhibition by Hormonal ContraceptivesI did some digging and found this article which suggests that COMBINED oral contraceptives actually increase oxytocin. "A significant increase in levels of oxytocin was registered when the women were on o.c. " It may be because the estrogen in the combined pills increase oxytocin? Maybe it's just the progesterone only pills which decrease oxytocin, and the study in the main post only had those in the study? I can't find any other studies on the effect of combined oral contraceptives effect on ox… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/18 01:55 PM |
| 0 | U.S. military ignores Marine Corps studies and press forward with allowing women into direct combat rolesGirls can't lift what weak men can, and it takes far longer for them to get where they can lift as much as a weak man. Your ignorance of reality and rose tinted glasses don't make girls stronger than they are. I probably know far more "strong girls" than you do and they can't hang with most men. This is hilarious. You really think I'm disagreeing with any of this? No shit women are weaker and it takes far longer for them to get up to the level of a weak man. I've stated the same shit in this ver… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/15 03:04 PM |
| 0 | U.S. military ignores Marine Corps studies and press forward with allowing women into direct combat rolesLmao citing a mythbusters ep to prove your point when real scientific studies say the opposite: Not citing it, but it's data. Looks like the sample size was too small. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/15 07:32 AM |
| 1 | U.S. military ignores Marine Corps studies and press forward with allowing women into direct combat rolesEven so, it's not even relevant. I doubt the requirement would be to be considered for the military "you have to be able to bench press at least 200". What matters here is the actual requirements, and if women can reasonably meet them. Nice giant red herring fool. Grand that talk of reading comprehension is coming from the same person who so easily confuses 'implying' with 'saying'. It was also in the form of a question, so it wasn't a definitive statement. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/15 05:58 PM |
| 0 | U.S. military ignores Marine Corps studies and press forward with allowing women into direct combat rolesStrength isn't an issue, assuming they are trained to a sufficient level. Males and females are fundamentally different physically, women are naturally weaker. The baseline of strength is different, and the maximum amount of strength a female can gain is far less, but that isn't a big deal if training is involved. The average male isn't good enough to go straight into combat, that's why they have to be trained. Your average female is also shorter, smaller, and able to be knocked-the-fuck-out wit… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/15 12:01 PM |
| 0 | U.S. military ignores Marine Corps studies and press forward with allowing women into direct combat rolesYes there are two options here: 1) Give women special training. 2) Let her do training on her own. I think a woman should do training on her own, to get up to an acceptable level. Maybe, at the least, there should be consultations available for a woman to go to, so that they can understand what levels of fitness they need to be in the military. There is an advantage to the first option, because it would mean the military would get a lot more applicants, and more people getting into the military.… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/15 06:49 AM |
| 0 | U.S. military ignores Marine Corps studies and press forward with allowing women into direct combat rolesThat wasn't my point. I wasn't literally saying Olympic athlete females should join the military, I was stating the fact that training (obviously) can bring a woman's strength up to acceptable levels. It doesn't take an Olympic athlete level female to get through basic training to an acceptable level. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/15 05:14 AM |
| 0 | U.S. military ignores Marine Corps studies and press forward with allowing women into direct combat rolesAlso, women's pain tolerance is much lower than a man's Women actually have higher pain tolerance. Which is not surprising since women can withstand child birth. and it would be dumb and wasteful to provide them extra training to bring them to the strength and fitness standards of the men in the military Never said they should do this. will not maintain it long before the stress and wear and tear injuries make her unable to fight Yeah, because only women get injuries/stress. /s it seems cruel to… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/15 05:04 AM |
| 0 | U.S. military ignores Marine Corps studies and press forward with allowing women into direct combat rolesThe "we're all starting from the same spot" propaganda is simply false. I already know this, men start ahead of women. Except your propaganda is going in the opposite direction. Far, far fewer women than men are physically and psychologically capable of training up to that level. We have no reason to believe that. We do have reason to believe men 1) Are stronger without training. 2) Can reach higher levels of strength more easily. 3) Can reach higher ranges of strength. The only reason why there… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/15 04:53 AM |
| -2 | U.S. military ignores Marine Corps studies and press forward with allowing women into direct combat rolesYou're implying a trained woman cannot bench 200? We both know that isn't true. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/15 03:51 PM |
| -8 | U.S. military ignores Marine Corps studies and press forward with allowing women into direct combat rolesThere are easily female athletes out there that can lift more than the average man in the military. Point being while it's true women are biologically the weaker sex, one can still train to bring themselves to the same level as a man, it just takes far more effort. If a woman was to pass the same strength/fitness standards, it would require a lot more work. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/15 11:36 AM |
| -6 | U.S. military ignores Marine Corps studies and press forward with allowing women into direct combat rolesI don't disagree that men are stronger than women naturally. But obviously an untrained man isn't going to be as strong as say a female Olympic athlete. A female can reach the same fitness level as a man in terms of military requirements in order to join, it would just take far more effort to reach that standard of fitness. But if you're talking about professional level, weightlifting, women are can't even compete with men even with steroids. They are on completely different levels. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/15 07:18 AM |
| -9 | U.S. military ignores Marine Corps studies and press forward with allowing women into direct combat rolesI'm giving it a year before the "sexual discrimination in standards" lawsuits come rolling in The women going into the military in the first place are probably far more likely to have balls, and less likely to bitch out starting a lawsuit because they didn't get the job. Fitness is a gained trait, it's not discrimination. A woman with enough training can do as many pullups as a man, the woman just has to train more because their base strength is naturally less. If someone started a lawsuit they … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/15 06:36 AM |
| 3 | AMA - Milo Yiannopoulos - Thursday, Dec 10th, 5pm London time, (12pm EST) on TRPSo he can go full diva and there's nothing anyone can do about it. As Milo himself said, "As a gay or lesbian you can get away with anything, especially bad behaviour!" | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/15 04:14 PM |
| -4 | Dont go within several feet of women ladsNever lost if you use google maps :^ ) | /r/MensRights | 07/10/15 05:29 PM |
| -4 | Dont go within several feet of women ladsIf they're 12 I think they'd only really know the way to their house and back, or around the block they live. If I wanted to ask for directions I wouldn't even think of asking a 12 year old. | /r/MensRights | 07/10/15 04:04 PM |
| -1 | Dont go within several feet of women ladsNo, all I'm saying is it's odd, never said that. I can however see how people would be jumpy at the idea of a 50 year old man asking a 12 year old for directions. | /r/MensRights | 07/10/15 04:03 PM |
| 3 | Female professor convicted of raping disabled man. Guess the response. (x-post from /r/tumblrinaction)"Personal experience should not be presented as proof" I think 6 years of working as a crime and public safety reporter is when you can present it as evidence you stupid cunt... | /r/MensRights | 07/10/15 03:48 PM |
| -6 | Dont go within several feet of women ladsI don't know, that's kinda weird for an adult to ask a 12 year old for directions. Like a 12 year old would know... | /r/MensRights | 07/10/15 03:45 PM |
| 3 | Dont go within several feet of women ladsThe man had a round face and a large build. This says it all, is it because it's someone she doesn't find attractive? I bet you don't find reports of ripped men walking past these women and slapping them on the ass. | /r/MensRights | 07/10/15 03:42 PM |
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