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| 70 | You know how you feel about a man within the first 5 seconds of meeting himHe gets one chance, and that’s being generous | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/22 09:44 PM |
| 31 | I don't think there can ever be too many reminders that: if he wanted to, he would.Omg leaving the bill on the table for 10 mins 😳I wouldn’t even be able to stomach that 🤮. Shit is so embarrassing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 05:14 AM |
| 1 | The insults men make about women's bodies - and what THEY look likeI replied to your reply to me. I obviously am not reading every one of your replies on this post. So no I didn’t ignore your comment, it just wasn’t to me. The reply you sent to me indicates you still feel smug about the situation and that you haven’t actually grown past it as you say you did. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 06:20 PM |
| 1 | The insults men make about women's bodies - and what THEY look likeOk I’ll bite: and trust me this is coming from a place of love because we are all learning here and trying to unlearn our pickme ways. Arguing with scrotes online is never a good use of time. And competing with women is not a good use of time either. He won here, he got you to feel bothered and insecure enough to send a picture of yourself to him for his validation that he made you feel like you needed. He pitted you against another woman and here you are feeling smug about being prettier than h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 04:04 PM |
| 39 | The insults men make about women's bodies - and what THEY look likeThat honestly seemed like a ploy from him to get you to send him a picture of you and it worked | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 12:56 PM |
| 20 | Never answer this question. Ever!Nah plenty of grannies pass on misogyny and pickmeisms. In fact most of the time they do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 03:28 AM |
| 48 | this girl planned a party for her boyfriend, when it was actually her secret proposal party, and a South Asian dating site wants us to believe it’s romantic. thankfully girls are catching on to this low effort bsMy experience with desi men (being a desi woman myself), is that they usually don’t hesitate to take on the financial burden in the relationship/paying for things, but it doesn’t mean for one second they don’t have tons of other scrotish, misogynistic tendencies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 03:26 AM |
| 40 | I finally don’t have to plan dates.You don’t even need to explain anything and open yourself up to their vitriol. Someone asks you on a drink date, just block and delete. He already showed you who he is, he weeded himself out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 03:58 AM |
| 2 | Apparently having an emergency savings fund as a woman and not explicitly saying so to your male partner is “financial infidelity.” 🤨🙄I’ve worked harder for my money than he has for his. Why are you still dating this man? You deserve to date your equal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 05:44 AM |
| 209 | Facts. Straight up facts.I’ve seen so many posts online about men being bad at sex that I feel very fortunate that the only man I’ve ever had a sexual relationship with gave me 2-3 orgasms before even penetrating every time. And then there would almost always be another one when PIV happened I thought this was standard 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 02:34 PM |
| 150 | You aren't "making him wait" to have sexWhy do so many women act like they are happy and having a good time fucking strangers? Are they lying to themselves? Is it a cope? Genuine question because I’ve never personally had a phase where I slept with someone who I wasn’t committed to | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 05:03 PM |
| 13 | TradWife Twitter is Like Watching A Slow Moving TrainwreckMe realizing this describes 90% of South Asian men 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 11:44 AM |
| 46 | Why don’t they understand this lolSucks because I genuinely enjoy cooking for others and having them enjoy my food but I never want a man to know that because I will instantly be taken for granted and it’s will become expected of me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 09:49 PM |
| 64 | Just a heads up, this is MENA men and their way of thinking. Theyll string a girl along for 4 years, sleep with her countless times, and then once hes had enough using her as a cum rag he'll bring home a 'virgin' wife to marry, and if he finds out said wife isn't a virgin all hell breaks looseConservative culture wants to make women private property, lib fem aims to make women public property. Either way you are property | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 12:37 AM |
| 9 | Proud of myselfI never participated in hookup culture myself, but I had a lot of friends that did and damn near every one of them definitely wanted something more with the guy and ended up getting played and hurt. It’s never just sex they want. Idk why so many women have been convinced this is good for us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 07:42 AM |
| 3 | Poor ring is so teeny tiny, it’s almost invisible. But I guess she has to love it or be rendered a scheming gold-digger, amirite?!?! 🤪💍Literally my first ring when I was about 3 and even then mine was 24 karat gold and the ruby was larger | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 10:20 PM |
| 70 | My response from now onI used to work at a hospital in NYC for one summer and the receptionist at this particular floor was dating ASAP Rocky at the time. This is probably a a few months to a year before he got signed, he had Purple Swag out and Peso. Anyways, it was clear to her he was going to get signed and he was looking at some contracts. I remember his lovely girlfriend was making a list of things she would do once the pieces all fell into place, she had plans to get work done, chemical peel etc. I really didn’t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 09:52 PM |
| 62 | More and more women are starting to catch on. This is hopefulThis almost makes me feel grateful for my strict conservative Indian upbringing. Saved myself from a lot of heartbreak and fuckboys | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 07:40 AM |
| 16 | A good response to splitting the checkAre you still married to him though? 👀👀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 03:27 AM |
| 29 | The projection is palpable; I've spent quarantine fixing my skin, working out, and taking college courses. Ya'll?Without fail. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 09:04 PM |
| 10 | Another Failed Flex from the LibFem Logic FilesI’m always surprised when people are awestruck that a man can wait a month lol. What kind of men are they used to dealing with? Do they think conservative/traditional men don’t exist? I was with my conservative Muslim man for nearly 4 years before we actually had sex. Some of the stuff I hear makes me feel like we were an outlier but in some cultures it’s still the norm to wait quite a while. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 03:42 PM |
| 33 | Can we rant about how toxic this show is? (Women bonding over being treated badly by men and peak white supremacy?)I’ve only seen bits here and there of this show, can someone explain why it’s peak white supremacy? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 12:08 AM |
| 103 | Men are really weird 🤨Men don’t hate gold diggers, they hate when they can’t afford them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 11:44 PM |
| 32 | I am disgusted.Just want to say I really love the honesty in this sub. It’s so important for our growth and self reflection. ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 11:00 PM |
| 5 | What’s the worst pick-me song of all time?I was really vibing with this song until I actually read the lyrics and 🤢🤢🤢🤢 It’s truly one of the worst offenders. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 02:14 AM |
| 30 | "5 men who upgraded their women." An article that celebrates men leaving their bob the builder chicks for other younger, hotter women after they reach certain level of success. More reasons to not build with men.Yea I have no shame in only wanting to be with a man during the “success” part. I want nothing to do with the building stage 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 01:07 AM |
| 15 | After seeing a guy I was dating on a date with another woman, this Tiffany ring symbolizes me dating myself, choosing myself, coming back to myself, and loving myself.I get the Jordan Peterson one, but what’s wrong with Joe Rogan? I’m not super familiar with his stance on things other than the few interview clips I’ve seen on YouTube and he seems nice? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 05:45 PM |
| 10 | Dating in 2020 when you live in a red state...Far left guys are too into sex-positivity and kink, dudes on the far right are as you said... sexist and racist oftentimes. Independents, moderate conservatives and moderate liberals are the only sensible people | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 11:13 PM |
| 16 | Just a reminder! This will change your life.Also use this same energy with a guy that’s harassing you/incessantly messaging you. Do not give them the satisfaction of a response. Block and delete. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Where being a pick me will get you.I’m curious, sorry if this is a dumb question but I only had one sexual partner in my life and he was fine with lube, why do some men not want to use lube? I would imagine it makes things more pleasurable for both the man and woman so what is the problem? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 06:18 AM |
| 1 | Where being a pick me will get you.Did the woman seem to be a willing participant? I’m sick to my stomach. Was she ok afterwards? The barbarian subhuman nature of some men is really truly frightening. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 06:15 AM |
| 11 | Never going to date a cheap man ever againFrom my experience, a man that drags his feet to plan a date (or doesn’t plan one at all and waits for you to make the suggestions) is a sign of low value and will most likely want to invest as little money as possible in you. Low effort always translates to low money. Picking a cheap place is another one. A man that takes the initiative to ask you on a date, plan it, chooses the restaurant, is signs of genuine interest, and a man with genuine interest in you will be more than happy to pay for i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 04:53 AM |
| 14 | Never going to date a cheap man ever againI feel like this is going to get a lot of LVM men to fake it for the first few weeks paying for things and then stopping and letting their true colors show once they think they have you. I prefer to let a man show me who he is organically, without me giving him a roadmap. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 04:49 AM |
| 10 | Never going to date a cheap man ever againOr things like, prompting me that it was my turn to pay because I had eaten some of his groceries earlier that day. God, is there no low they won’t stoop to? 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 11:52 PM |
| 5 | Never going to date a cheap man ever againYou gotta get to the point where you can scope out the dudes that split the check before you actually meet in them in person so you don’t waste your time. Sometimes there are clear tells to look out for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 11:46 PM |
| 30 | Ugh, this is so not funny.Right, I’m also from a south Asian background and I met my one and only love at the age of 19, 5 years ago in college. I didn’t even date before him, and we are still together, so haven’t been on a date all these years . I’ve learned so much from sub I’m in shock. My and my bf are both south Asian so we share a lot of these same values. Most of this stuff is thankfully unacceptable in our culture and that makes me thankful I kinda missed out on the American dating experience. That being said the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 07:21 AM |
| 17 | Check on a Pick Me Friend TodayYou have got to be kidding. He even wanted your inheritance?? This is a bf right? Every time I come here I see a new low and honestly it’s getting less and less shocking but this is extreme. The unmitigated scrotacity chilee | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 06:09 AM |
| 61 | Classic example of scrote stringing his forever girlfriend along. I hope she dumps himSociety has really sold women this idea that doing all these things are steps moving towards an eventual marriage. ESPECIALLY the cohabiting. From what I’ve seen it tends to lead to years and years of forever girlfriendhood. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 06:52 PM |
| 24 | Stop thinking that they have the same empathy we do. And if they ever do start to feel bad, it will always be twisted back to being your fault. You can only win by not playing.I appreciate that he is advertising his scrotacity so it saves women the trouble 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 06:04 AM |
| -2 | “PoRn iS eMpOwErInG” ok sisLeaving Neverland is the account of two perjurers who have been suing his estate unsuccessfully for millions since 2013. Their stories have changed since MJ was alive, both swore he was never inappropriate with them and then changed once he was dead and they both fell on hard times. Not only have their stories changed since he died, they’ve also changed over the years and months since they first alleged abuse in 2013. And their court docs tell a different story than the “documentary” which provi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 02:58 AM |
| 20 | “PoRn iS eMpOwErInG” ok sisThis isn’t true. I happen to be really well versed in the Michael Jackson case and no boys claimed that in any of the transcripts that I’ve read. Could you source it? He had a lot of heterosexual soft porn and magazine type of stuff but it was locked away in brief cases in places away from kids if I recall the 2005 trial. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 08:44 PM |
| 36 | Pickmeshas, assemble! (Seriously, they love their psychotic jail lvms.)I have this theory and I can be entirely wrong but hear me out: I think these women are so insecure that they go for the absolute bottom of the barrel, lowest of the low, outcasted men because they won’t be rejected by him. He’s in prison, locked up from society and thus the dating world, and possibly bored out of his mind so of course he’s going to entertain these women. It’s probably a little bit of a power play for these women, because they don’t think they they deserve or can even obtain the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 04:00 AM |
| 15 | The comment section is full of people hating on “Princess week” and how he’s just super spoiling her etc. I can’t believe how some people just can’t deal with a man being nice to his wife...Damn as a petite woman I love piggy back rides ☹️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 08:15 PM |
| 32 | Wtf why are men literally obsessed with anal sexBeen with my man 5 years and I’m hoping his revulsion of anal sex is not just an act now 😂😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 02:57 PM |
| 19 | An advanced Pickme spotted in the wild, commenting unironically:It’s hilarious because old fashioned women were taken out on expensive dates 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 02:34 PM |
| 36 | I’ve often wondered why our detractors care about what we think so much, but this tweet sums it up nicely.That’s why I always felt getting called a gold digger was a great compliment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 01:31 PM |
| 22 | Saw this gold from a FB groupA better response is just blocking and not responding! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 01:29 PM |
| 4 | TW: incest/child abuse FaNtAsY. Pedos are everywhere. I’ve only been on reddit for like 5 minutes this morning and this is already the third thing I’ve seen about a pedo being open about their depravity. I’m sick of it. Can I just have off this planet already, please?It’s too early for this shit 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 04:07 PM |
| 345 | I screamed lmaooWhen you give an ugly guy a chance and he starts treating you like he’s the good looking one | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 03:06 PM |
| 32 | Why ask a woman out if you can’t afford it? 🤡Not the last $10 😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 06:49 PM |
| 163 | We not doing this anymoreGetting called a gold digger is the finest compliment in my opinion. I’ve never been called a gold digger by a man of means. It’s always been men with not a dime to dig. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 02:59 AM |
| 65 | Nahh, she went on a second date with this guy 🤢This is not a pick me, this is a use me 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 06:21 AM |
| 37 | All men know the difference between boyfriend and husbandDated medical student/resident and can attest. Medical profession seems to attract a lot of narcs, because his colleagues were just as insufferable | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 06:31 PM |
| 9 | Now we know who to blame... 😂If you’re already calling him a scrote then you know what the answer is already | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 06:23 PM |
| 84 | Something doesn’t add upGirl 🤢 imagine all that fecal matter under their fingernails that they they then touch you with 🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 03:15 AM |
| 59 | Ladies! Use your female/pretty privilege!I feel like an average looking woman that looks put together in a feminine way and carries herself with confidence can get a lot out of life. You don’t need to be a 10 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 04:26 PM |
| 6 | Yes ladies! We need to start reciprocating!👏🏾You always have to wait to see the type of gifts he gets you before you start doing the same for him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 12:45 AM |
| 22 | Yes ladies! We need to start reciprocating!👏🏾Once you start seeing yourself like a priceless princess to be treasured and worshiped 24/7 I swear to you, you will attract men that will give you that. You set your own price. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 12:42 AM |
| 34 | Yes ladies! We need to start reciprocating!👏🏾My mom grew up in India and especially in the time she was growing up, it was unthinkable for a woman to buy stuff for a man. If a group of people went out the men would fight to pay the bill. It was a sense of honor and masculinity to provide for others. It was so unheard of in her time for men to let women pay that she actually remembers the one guy in their friend group that wouldn’t ever pay for the girls. He got shit talked as soon as he was out of earshot every time. This was out of step w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 12:37 AM |
| 14 | Queens don't settle or compromise.Seriously, the bare minimum is to make my life better | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 06:05 PM |
| 10 | To all the ladies who think weekly flowers is asking too much... he buys me a new bouquet even when last weeks is doing fine. You deserve to be spoiled.Something I’ve always found to be true. The less you give a man, the more he gives you. It’s a shame more women don’t realize this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 10:27 PM |
| 113 | 100% agreedI know you weren’t saying this but I just want to note that plenty of men that do provide/pay for everything are misogynists as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 01:27 AM |
| 6 | Lying Awake At Night After Getting Played for the 12th Time Thinking Maybe Those FDS Bitches Are RightSpain without the S | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 07:47 AM |
| 5 | I told him I wanted a new necklace and some earrings so guess what he got me!Love the simplicity. He has good taste! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 01:38 AM |
| 5 | LVM tries is PUA game on meThe unfortunate thing is that a lot of PUA and red pill tactics will work on LV pickme women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 06:28 AM |
| 82 | Straight from the horse’s mouth!! These men WANT us to employ FDS principles ladies!!!! 💅🏽 I’ve added captions of important points outlined in our lovely handbook under each picture.And THIS is why men on reddit hate FDS so much. They KNOW we are right and they can’t stand that we’ve figured them out. You know you’re doing something right when they get this upset over women just having standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 08:44 PM |
| 13 | Move...The sad thing is, men like this will do all this to win you back, and if you ever did go back with him he would revert right back to his old ways eventually. Don’t fall for it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 04:29 AM |
| 23 | RP: My sister had this exciting dude, asked her out on a date and decided to switch up on her???The use of Snapchat was the red flag from the get go. Men only use that app to solicit nudes and send dick pics. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 12:01 AM |
| 21 | *barf emojis everywhere*The fugliest of scrotes always got the scrotacity to have high standards | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 04:47 AM |
| 20 | Woman staying with her pedophile boyfriend, still hasn’t gone to the police.I can’t imagine sitting on all this information and calmly typing it up in details for reddit to judge, rather than being well and truly horrified Immediately after seeing it and calling the cops immediately. She needs to have her child taken away | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 09:43 PM |
| 28 | “A walk isn’t a date?!”The audacity of the scrotacity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 04:34 AM |
| 9 | Freudian slip💀💀💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 04:32 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: August 8 2020 💜Sis, all of this is LV behavior. Disengage, don’t make excuses for him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: August 8 2020 💜Could you provide a link to the one you would recommend? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 11:39 PM |
| 13 | So Audi put a sexually suggestive picture of a little girl eating a banana in from of their car and decided to use the slogan “Let’s your heart beat faster in every aspect” 🤮🤮I got followed, harassed, cat called, and flashed the most when I was around the ages of 12-18. It’s definitely dropped off slightly in my 20s, but as a 13-14 yr old it was incessant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 05:39 AM |
| 41 | Found some more clownery on insta. Most of the comments chewed him out except for the ones I circled.Men would rather do alll this then just pay the damn bill lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 11:35 AM |
| 2 | Guy trying to ‘change’ date plansIma give a word of caution to white/western women out there as a woman of Asian descent myself - be careful with Asian/Indian men. I’m indian and the way they talk about/treat white women makes it definitely seem like they think they are easy and get into bed quick. White women also get harassed and assaulted more in these countries. They watch so much porn with white women and Hollywood films depicting white women as sexually liberal that it changes their whole perception of them. They would ne… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Fuck it up sis 👏He is absolutely elite with a beard lol 🤤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 06:09 AM |
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