DoingOverDreaming Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Date location Yes, you are a wise man, and I wish more thought like you do! I have been rubbed on by a shocking number of guys, and I'm a) not so cute that someone couldn't control himself, and b) don't remotely seem like the type who might be up for that. It actually happened to me just a couple of months ago, and I'm old now! I was out with an acquaintance (I thought not a date, since he didn't offer to pay for my drink, or touch my hand, or give any compliments), and at the end of the night I hugged him go…	/r/seduction	26/01/18 01:13 AM
1	Date location Yes, darts and pool are great! There are a couple of landmines for first date pool playing: restrain yourself from commenting on her ass or looking down the front of her blouse when she leans over to take aim, and if you "help her" line up a shot, please don't rub yourself against her. Unless the girl is super low class, she won't think any of that is cute.	/r/seduction	25/01/18 11:47 PM
1	People say an attractive quality is money. But how can you show you have this without seeming arrogant? Chicks dig goals; talk about that.	/r/seduction	25/01/18 11:28 PM
1	People say an attractive quality is money. But how can you show you have this without seeming arrogant? If you have enough money for it to make a difference, you don't need to say anything; it just shows in your comportment. As a general rule, the more someone talks about how much money they have, the more insecure they are about it. If you actually have money or expect to someday have money, or even if you just like to hang around people who have money, it will serve you well to become proficient in at least one of the "big 3" lifetime sports: golf, sailing, or tennis (add platform tennis if you …	/r/seduction	25/01/18 11:25 PM
1	How do I ask her to have sex? Please don't "push her down and get on top of her"; the only thing that could make this sound rape-ier is to precede it with "roofie her drink".	/r/seduction	25/01/18 08:15 PM
2	How do I ask her to have sex? I think you meant to say "fuck her when she's ready to fuck you, and you're ready to fuck her", right?	/r/seduction	25/01/18 08:04 PM
4	Date location If it isn't too busy (like to the point people are reaching over you to get drinks), sit at the bar; then you have the option of turning your stool toward her, or standing up to "stretch your legs" (just be careful not to loom over her). I think it's also easier to read body language in this scenario than at a table or in a booth. I'm female, btw, and this seating arrangement makes it easier on us too, to show whether we are into you, or not.	/r/seduction	25/01/18 07:36 PM
8	Girl Stops Make Out - What Did I Do Wrong? I agree with the other posters that you should take her words at face value. But, for your future reference, here's something I wish more men knew: 3-5 minutes of making out is not nearly enough. If you spend enough time above the shoulders (this includes saying nice, non-creepy things, looking her in the eye, whispering in her ear, running your hands through her hair, touching her face, and don't just kiss her on the mouth, also pay attention to earlobes, neck, and shoulders), the woman will se…	/r/seduction	25/01/18 07:13 PM