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Op made a good point basically men are taught how to treat women and how to respect them but women are never actually taught how to respect them in how to treat them in return
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 06:30 PM
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men general are willing to hook up but most men in general never get any or relationships in general dating apps are quiet inefficient imo
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:37 AM
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findom is the biggest fucking scam lately 98% of them are absolutely fake they arent even real domnes their content is usually vanilla stuff and the only domne part about them is the bullying part which isn't even what a real domne would do be careful out there
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 08:54 PM
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Probably not as a guy there is tons on misandry in this sub There also tons of misogyny to
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 09:38 PM
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Lol same I've never been on a date either 😅 Im just shy asking people out and I wasn't exactly very popular in school so never really same thing right now in college
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:41 PM
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Ooh nice, I'm a big gamer myself from your standpoint as a women where would I as man find someone with similar interests, where have you found your partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:20 PM

You Can't say that's his job to ask you can't just assign shit you want the other gender to do that's just not a way of living life I can't tell you that you should be in the kitchen like I would I would not feel comfortable telling a partner to do that at all again I'm not very traditional at all so none of these ways of proposal would happen but at one year for deadline that sounds like a failure waiting to happen in my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 08:07 AM
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Ya no as man I will never date younger, only same age or slightly older, I don't want a crazy age gap
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 11:42 PM
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bro what 💀💀💀did you pay attention to any of the hearings amber heard was unhinged
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 11:05 PM
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idk im in college face most of the problems other guys face here
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 11:02 PM
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who the fuck having sex at 11 💀💀💀
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 07:35 AM
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That every man wants women to take on household duties Men only want sex ( that's why our emotions and mental health is disregarded)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 08:17 PM
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I'm guy A with all the traits of guy B it's difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 09:50 AM
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its already dying and it will continue to get worse, as a dude who hasnt had sucess with dating i kinda don't see any point with going forward
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 08:23 PM
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No I wanna be appreciated and loved not out on some pedestal
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 06:45 PM
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All I see on Twitter are accounts of women say im a queen I'm a goddess worship me men are below me Not saying men can't be like that either but tons of women want to be worshipped left and right
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 06:33 PM
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nothing wrong with that at all thought people looking for something casual or not sure where this would go if you bring up marriage it will deter potential partner
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 09:36 AM
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start my life as a single woman for the rest of my life casual dating? or out of the question ​ how would stronger hints go? also how would you bring it up to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 09:31 AM
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wow on the first date? thats crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 09:28 AM
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If I was getting to nearer the age of 30’s and we’d been together a few years I would start hinting. say if the proposal never happened what's your plan b?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 09:24 AM
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so im in college and my roommate is gay and most of his friends are women he told me idk but i do see gay men with moistly women as friends
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 08:57 AM
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alr, this seems like very risky game to wait what do you if he doesn't propose to you? or isnt interested in marriage doesn't know how to propose? how do you if a man knows? he knows?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 06:04 AM
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bascially mens kinks are sort of disregarded in alot of relationships so men end up going and paying for content or experiencing it in real-life or end up having a relationship with a dominatrix online, as man pretty submissive and struggling in the dating scene the internet is a friend but its not healthy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 03:50 AM
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As a man I hate gender roles I don't want do bet traditional nor do I want to date traditional partner
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 01:17 AM
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I've had the opposite experience attractive women have treated men like shit compared to average women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 12:55 AM
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how is that game though? expecting someone might ask you out high failure rate for men unless your beyond attractive mix in certain ethic minorities and your pretty much fucked out of the dating market
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 12:22 AM
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so much of the advice from women is clubs and bars what if I don't drink don't go to bars or clubs where should i go next?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 12:03 AM
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sounds straight out of a movie
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 11:25 PM
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How does one distinguish flirtatious versus friendly I hate to say but I just don't take the chance to risk because I just don't want to take it as a wrong signal and things get weird or awkward I've just been terrible at makig those two apart
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 11:21 PM
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i never understood how that meant women were into you i thought twiring hair was them fidgeting like i pick my nails for example idk hints never work
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 10:22 PM
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im a daily on discord made wonderful friends never a found anyone to date or anything though
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 10:20 PM
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Waiting at a bus stop for a long time as a guy id never do 4 5 and 7 and i dont go to clubs and bars or singles meetups nor do i do 8 so number 6 it is?!?! i probably wouldn't do that one either
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 09:41 PM
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That's where I live I've some pretty racist dating experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 09:38 AM
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I live in the state of new York I've been born raised and lived here my whole life so if it's already this miserable for my idk what other steps I should be taking
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 09:05 AM
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East Asian i feet like east asian men had it easier i could be wrong sucks they have been highly fetishized both men and women obviously that isn't good
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 07:29 AM
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thank you for you insight your partner is absolutely correct in what he shared the family thing is very big to a lot of indian families are changing but it is slow painful process dating app is very true as well i have stopped using them all together your partner seems like a nice guy and you seem like a great partner he is lucky to have you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 07:27 AM
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I haven't asked women but ive seen it going through school, girls would be weirded out for no reason by indian guys in college and my dating life is stale
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 09:16 PM
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I think it has to go with shitty stereotypes that are painted on us tech support scams make us look terrible people think we are scammers all the time they would do Indian accents to mock us, someone literally one told me in a racist accent ”go eat some curry and fix my computer bitch" that made visibly upset, other issue is society has labeled Indian men as creepy and think we are dangerous those just some issue
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 09:11 PM
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As a Indian man in the US it is literally the worst experience to date we're faced with so many stereotypes and so many derogatory comments especially like going through school and college being Indian Man is death sentence to dating in the us
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 08:36 PM
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Well that's the thing most guys a pretty women is all they need for me I need more then that someone who actually cares so I would invest in the relationship and it's terrible that people get raped and assaulted
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 08:18 PM
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Your would be surprised, as a guy you have a higher success rate asking us out, as a guy I struggle to ask out women so I've been single to
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 06:34 PM
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What do you mean by you're scared to put an effort?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 06:25 PM
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Hey bro I'm from the US no women are not making that much effort, they will just wait around men to
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 06:07 PM
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I literally don't mind doing housework i think it should be equally split up i cock one day she can bathe the kids one day and vise versa it seems women have drilled it upon themselves every guy is the same
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 05:51 PM
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I literally don't want to be traditional and I will never date someone who is traditional I would actually like to spend time with the kids I want learn how to cook I want responsibility yet it looks like women wants the benefits
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 05:24 PM
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Men have been literally expected to do steps 2-3 and whenever I see Women who were told to do any of those steps they think it isn't fair welp sorry to burst your bubble tons of Men literally have to that get anywhere in a relationship not saying that we shouldn't ever do it at all
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 05:16 PM
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Ya this is a better put together post my was sort of all over the place thanks op
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 04:56 PM
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But I literally said I Do Not Want To Date A Traditional Women it's seems you think I do What I'm trying to say is men are forced to be traditional in so many ways which is wrong we need destroy gender norms for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 04:54 PM
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No I know I'm pretty ugly I've tried to better myself but to no avail
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 04:47 PM
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What I'm trying to say is I don't want to be traditional nor do I want a partner who is traditional I don't what you mean by "stop acting like dating is something that happens to you" I'm genuinely confused by that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 04:15 PM
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You have literally described me in this post very relatable Besides the going to bars and getting laid I don't have bars nor do I get laid but I first get intimacy get to know the person would be nice
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 10:14 AM
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But if I'm looking for a date it's for romantic interest though, idk what county you are from but here in the us man and woman looking to be friends don't go on dates, but again it seems wrong beacuse I would be waisting her time
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 10:03 AM
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Well technically but your still harming men to be a certain way while you get to peacefully enjoy both, certain men will be forced completely change an and be miserable or get lucky with a old-school man I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 09:57 AM
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Job hunting is easier you just need the proper resume
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 09:50 AM
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I'm stit confused here what your trying to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 09:46 AM
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thats sounds stupid in my opinion if they happen to say yes then i would be leading them on or be a jerk for dating someone' I wasn't into i think thats counterproductive and I wouldn't be fair to her
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 08:55 AM
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no, i would prefer dating someone that is a dom
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 06:45 AM
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she is a chill person but we aren't dating she is a dom and she understands me i guess we are friends atm idk if we want to take it further and we met through discord in one of my servers im in
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 06:28 AM
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Sounds simple enough till it isn't
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 06:27 AM
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it is available in the us i have used it to no luck usually ive seen alot of women here dislike bumble but there has to be women who do enjoy obviously but i dont like the idea of paying for a dating app
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 06:25 AM
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definitely online which I have found communities I interact with alot and that is really crazy to hear that you sacrificed being a domne in the relationship for me I would be very lost trying to be vanilla or do. its just a super hard game irl where would i find somewhere to interact like that? clubs or something im a college student mind you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 06:21 AM
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I appreciate you understanding, me I definitely should have worded it better thats on me, I kinda rushed writing this post sorta wanted to get something off my chest came out pretty wrong its just a struggle i get upset sometimes it is what is
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 06:12 AM
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oh? i must be be extremly bad at wording thats not what im trying to say im not trying to look down on women at all
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 05:56 AM
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im pretty submissive i dont find it appealing to be the domiant one so my dating life is a struggle i enjoy domiant women where women take more charge
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 05:53 AM
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how am i looking down upon women i want women to be the best version of themselves im trying to give them the courage to go out initiate
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 05:51 AM
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im saying that thats what women do and i wouldn't want to date any women like that i would rather date a women who actually is interesting gives it her all and etc
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 05:50 AM
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my and most females sexual response is keyed into being pursued. thats what you said so it looks like you want a traditional relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 04:03 AM
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not as simple as it sounds
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 03:53 AM
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im not great making the first move and women typically dont want to make the first move so i feel stuck
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 03:51 AM
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why do you want to be traditional house wife? I really don't see the appeal even as a man
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 03:50 AM
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pretty much they wont apply it to general dating
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 03:32 AM
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I think the biggest pitfall most guys face are hints in my experience if it works for you thats good im just very bad at getting hits in the dating and relationship scene if women were straightforward it would be easier obviously everyone isn't like that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 03:20 AM
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its not that easy to get into a relationship id love intimacy to
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 03:09 AM
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will you ask him out or? tell him?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 03:08 AM
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i agree it is no supplement, ive never felt love from a partner I want a relationship first someone who i can trust but the system has failed be so much I've given up at this point ​ But the fact that you said women just have to "look nice" on dates kind of tells me everything I need to know. ​ many men will easily not look further then looks so many women wont put in the effort to actually love their partner many fell they give so much but feel their partner doesn't love them back i just want t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 03:05 AM
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I would want to date but as someone who has never found success with dating my just miserable atm
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 03:00 AM
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rawfucking doesn't sound pleasureful there needs to be intimacy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 02:59 AM
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ya marriage is a shit show for men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 02:59 AM
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how will you make it easier if you are interested?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 02:58 AM
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Fuck gender roles I would never do that to myself nor would i force gender roles onto women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 01:29 AM
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Your toxic as fuck your not gonna get anywhere in life
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 01:28 AM
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Top kek
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 01:16 AM
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Nah being a Indian man is the biggest death sentence and it's from experience
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 01:15 AM
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Partying and traveling is red flag lmao 💀💀💀 Irl no one acts like that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 01:08 AM
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The title Stated a women I dont like, I didn't state how hot or anything
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 12:35 AM
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If I don't like them I wouldn't want to have sex with them it would just be weird and uncomfortable I wouldn't enjoy it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 10:04 PM
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I'm young so if a women told me that I probably wouldn't be anywhere near ready for commitment so that definitely be a breakup because I don't want to lead her on and nor do I want to be in a relationship where she is already ready for marriage where I'm no where close to that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 07:20 AM
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The problem with the daddy kink is it's been socially normalized now lots of women believe men are into as a man please do not call me daddy in bed lim not into that I'm pretty submissive so calling my partner mommy might be in the realm of things but
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 12:15 AM
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What the hell are you going on about slut shaming where did I imply that? I would like a relationship to be more then sex I actually want someone to that car s about me someone whit very little friends is that hard to ask for? I'm not ridiculing women for doing anything..
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 08:33 PM
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*edit initiate for the title
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 06:58 AM
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As a guy my self I don't approach women I've been told women do not want to be bothered so I will leave it as that, women get out their more us out
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 11:17 PM
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As a man I never understood how women think those signals actually work? Like how am I supposed know if she. Is being friendly or flirty they should be more direct the one to approach to
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 03:09 AM
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As a guy it's turn off if women call me daddy please don't assume most guys want that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 03:01 AM
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Then your either hanging out with the wrong type of people, or have a false perspective of men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:14 PM
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you pursue a 100 men you get at least 70 men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 03:08 AM
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Probably, because social media, and also what they have seen growing up most likely,it's if men are told they need to be the ”man if the house" and blah blah and see that women "are supposed to cook" and clean alot of these norms are heavily influenced by family as well, I've heard this all the time that women are told they need to find a wealthy man and men are told they need to find someone that will make a good mother or wife etc..
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 05:11 PM
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I'm not into submissive women major turn off
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 04:27 PM
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I think that and also their a family pressures where they want their kids to get married and have kids even if it isnt their wish
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 10:54 PM
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They may not die out immediately but you can always start buy breaking them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 03:18 AM
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We are literally trying to break away from traditional gender roles and chivalry those should all die out
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 03:13 AM
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Court women the fuck?? I'm guessing you don't ask anyone out literally it's 2022 stop living like it's the 50's where your forced to be a house wife women work now they dont need someone to provide for them in dating seen in the start you should be spliting then you decide I'll treat you one day and vise versa
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 02:18 AM
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Same should go for women to everyone should follow those set of rules
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 02:05 AM
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Time is money
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:30 AM
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That's true .
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:33 PM
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I feel your pain
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:33 PM
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Bro why Are you describing your penis in detail 💀💀😭
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:29 PM
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I've seen that some girls are into the whole winning me over but as a guy, I'm laid back kinda shy and introverted so when girls do those things turns me off so much
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 05:20 PM
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No I do not, they can be taller or shorter if I can get into a relationship 😭 Though I love taller women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 01:57 AM
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Kim Kardashian is literally plastic, personally, I don like those types of women, honestly, most average men don't, its really a certain group of them who do
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 01:16 AM
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The same thing if your looking for a traditional partner you need to be traditional yourself, but that being said we should break these societal norms
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 01:37 AM
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It's what's Ive seen women wanting men to be traditional while they themselves not being traditional,I as man don't want to be traditional and women shouldn't have to be either. Ive seen a lot of women say I'm looking for a provider and etc yet themselves not acting traditional in a sense,
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 12:32 AM
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Their is nothing wrong with dating like that I'm into that very much it just gets weird with teenage years because legality wise
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:41 PM
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I agree with that Ive had crushes on many teachers to but still would be wrong if teacher took advantage of the student
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:57 AM
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I'm 18m I've never had sex or ever been in a relationship but encouraging other guys who could be 16 having sex with a 20 year old is terrible advice and creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 11:19 PM
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It's still wrong even if the other person wants it, because one of them is underaged
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 10:11 PM
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I agree its sad to see it's the norm me being on the submissive side I never watched that kind of porn it was a major turn off for me and discusting. And for the categories I like the porn is also extremely shit
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 08:56 PM
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I have seen porn like where the women treats the man badly to in general most porn goes to the extreme ends of Kinks and that point it's abuse
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 05:47 PM
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affording your bills your barley just getting by your not living comfortably lmafo I'm sorry you don't have supportive parents and getting angry at guys who do thats your own problem
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:55 AM
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their is so much projection in this post 23?? living on your own but I don't want to live with 5 roommates living at home is super comfortable most of us are in college trying to get a degrees and with supportive parents thats the best thing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:50 AM
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As man I hate it when women are submissive in bed I especially hate it if they they call me daddy it's a major turn off and makes be super uncomfortable idk how othen men feel
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 06:54 PM
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to all the women out their just start making the move instead of waiting for the man most men have stopped approaching women because they are now labeled as creepy or they are seen as creep or told its harassment etc.. if your really into him many don't care who will make the move and it will help stop forced gender roles as well
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:39 PM
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But what is stopping women from proposing? As man I think it women proposing would make a lot of sense with how our current society is shifting most men don't propose or ask women on dates because they don't want come off as creepy o etc... , most women will reject a man if he comes forward or some will count it as sexual harassment, so if women started taking the lead with relationships maybe we would see a difference idk just a thought idk how effective would it be
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:25 PM
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I'm 18 and pretty much bald so decided to go bald shave the little hair I had left it got made fun of my a lot of girls in my school (hopefully college treats me better) and I have gotten some criticism from some family members but my parents think I look good and it makes feel good but it sucks what other people think
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:47 AM
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the young Turks point out how men are not just wallets and they care not piggy banks for women
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/05/21 11:41 PM
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I'm not a fan of Joe Rogan but I guess he may be sort of right this time
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/05/21 10:33 PM
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I guess your right their all pretty shit
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/05/21 04:59 PM
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Straight indian male and liberal
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/04/21 02:55 PM
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