DokiThighsSaveLives Archive

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1	Women do initiate most divorces and it is not because "paperwork" True I would need to know if lesbian women are more strict in their preference to only dating other lesbians or are they more open to dating bi women. And if bi women are more prone to strictly dating other bi women. It could be that they're just a wildcard factor that doesn't trend any one way mainly, but theres enough of them to be influential. I'm not saying it's the main contributing thing causing that desparity, but something to consider.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/23 10:58 PM
1	Women do initiate most divorces and it is not because "paperwork" Maybe bi-sexual women could factor into this by being the ones dating lesbian women? This is purely my own observations, but I've seen quite a bit of bi women on dating apps and have been told from a couple of them I've been with that they prefer dating women more from their experiences. This is just a conjecture. But bi women could be swooping in and making it harder for lesbian women to some capacity. Definitely more than bi men would be for straight men when they're both competing for women t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/23 10:39 PM
1	What do men want in women, what do women want in men, and how are these desires different from eachother? This reminds me of the Bo Burnham song Lower Your Expectations. It's so true though https://youtu.be/llGvsgN17CQ	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 05:25 AM
1	How are women supposed to solve the sexlessness issue? Yeah that's what I meant by nice guy stereotype. It's so common it's cliche at this point. Then like you said there's good guys out there who are decent enough, but if someone was asked to describe them one could easily say "Oh he's super nice!" The "Nice guys" usually make it known what their real intentions are pretty fast and just as quickly flip the script once they see a woman's on to their bullshit. I unfortunately know from experience because I was that pure cringe when I was 19 and still…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/22 12:20 PM
8	How are women supposed to solve the sexlessness issue? We call them "bad boys" and "nice guys" for a reason. Bad boys are typically immature, selfish, reckless and irresponsible so we call them boys not men. Nice guys are just guys. Could be a "nice guy" stereotype or could be a mild mannered average joe. They're past childhood but still haven't had the experience to define themselves more to be a "good man". Good men are hard to come by. Good men are what women want and society needs. Those are the guys who became self actualized, respectable, and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/22 07:34 AM
3	What is something you didn't know about the opposite sex until PPD? WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD To love is to discriminate. It's to say "I value you more than everyone else. To me you're my favorite person, and I choose to align my words with my actions and feelings for you." This is done voluntarily with the hope, not the expectation of it being reciprocated. Of course there's many kinds of love like the Greek concept of agape. Which is the selfless indiscriminate universal love for everyone. Similar in idea to the Christian love that God has for all of creation. But that definitely isn't…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 05:37 AM
12	Mamas boys are easily the least datable personality type of man imaginable, and it's not talked about nearly enough Speaking from my own personal life experience I would hope any woman I'm dating is mature enough to understand that "life happens". By that I mean yeah I had an apartment when I moved out at 22 with my best friend. Best years of my life and I was working two jobs. One for a passion and side income that offered opportunities for moving up and one for the bills. We weren't children, we did our own laundry, cleaned our own spaces in the apartment, and made our own meals with the exception of when m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/22 01:36 AM
3	What happens when people "give up"? I wouldn't say I've given up on dating or women in general, but I'm 26 and have been single since I was 20 and it definitely changed me. I know exactly what my fatal flaws are and I've even been to therapy for a couple years and implemented changes and saw my life improve for the better only for everything to fall apart again as soon as I started to be on any path worthwhile. Mainly because I became complacent with myself again and slowly I drifted away from my healthy changes due to my newfound…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/22 04:38 AM
2	Do men appreciate male beauty/attractiveness more than women? I think it's because when men compliment other men it just isn't the same. Likely because we don't have the same value of desire in being complimented by men. Heterosexual men are seeking women, and any sort of validation that they are worthy, valuable, desirable, or usefull just hit different so to speak. We don't place the same value on when fellow men compliment us and I would guess a difference would be that when men acknowledge or compliment other men it comes from a genuine place of respec…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/22 12:07 AM
1	With all of the back and forth and speculation here, at the end of the day the overwhelming majority of the dating difficulties men experience and conflicts between the genders are due to one simple fact - men are way hornier than women From a psycho-analytic viewpoint men are almost entirely scopophilic. Meaning the love of looking, the male gaze so to speak. From an evolutionary standpoint you could say this came about potentially as men were the primary hunters of society and it required intense focused direction of their energy to pursue a target. Visual desire was the focus, the goal. Many men "visual" their goals in their head then rationalize a way to achieve it, instead of intuitively feeling what they truly want or des…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/22 05:38 PM