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Nothing you've said is an argument against this, right? Nothing at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 02:38 PM
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But feminism does change through time (and space). At the beginning women were second class citizens, sometimes being treated as little more then property. Average activist feminists were your everyday women fighting for fairness, equality... and radical feminists were a minority. As women achieved more and more rights these normal fair women started leaving, becoming less active. Feminism turned more radical. Feminism became increasingly unfair, had increasingly unhinged takes... it became toxi…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 02:11 PM
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Back when a lot of men were single, nobody was asking women to do anything about it. Because even the thought of suggesting to women how to behave is outrageous. Now that a lot of women are single... Men have to fix it? Otherwise they are cowards? If those women want a boyfriend, they should start working out and approach men 😐
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 01:27 AM
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You do realize that just makes you look weird?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 10:12 PM
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I totally get being frustrated by the dating market, especially if you are +30 years old. Giving up on dating, and finding other ways to lead a fulfilling life... I don't see anything wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:15 AM
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The ridiculous part is these small niche movements believe they are big and can make a change! Like 4B thinks "all these women walked away from men because of our movement, that will show them!". 4B has like 300 members, all these Korean single women, majority of them doesn't even know what 4B is. The reason for so many people is overworked people raising socially awkward kids which are also overworked... generational trauma keeps rolling. Same goes for MGTOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:50 AM
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I'd say giving up on dating for yourself doesn't make one a MGTOW or 4B. Giving up on dating because... "hahaha that will show them" ... does.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:45 AM
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When someone spouts nonsense, people call them retarded, even though they aren't. And the word retard is not even being used anymore for people with mental disabilities because it became a slur.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:25 AM
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Self hating and defeatist are better unique descriptors for incels. Yes. Sure, incels can be bitter sexists, but there are plenty of sex-having guys fit that description too. YES! The worst misogynist I got to know about were having lots of sex. They just didn't show it to women they wanted to have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:17 AM
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Most incels are also left leaning... I bet nobody expected that 😁 But hey, right has lots of toxic hateful assholes. Left has lots of toxic hateful assholes which are looking for socially acceptable way to bully people. You can spill so much hate against the incels... nobody gives a damn. Except for the incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:13 AM
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Good appearance makes people notice you in a good way. Good appearance can make people horny. Good appearance is good, period. Hit the damn gym, it's good for you. If you are fat, you could be deep, you could be an shallow... well deep guy will make more friends, but when it comes to dating, doesn't make much difference. But if you are nice looking, being shallow or deep does make a difference. I bet a lot of Red Pillers are nice looking superficial people, and they keep ending up with superfici…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:57 AM
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It fosters insecurity, creates artificial hierarchies, and sidelines genuine connection. Bingo. Being great looking does increase the odds of getting dates and casual sex. But superficial, transactional image driven mentality makes for a bad relationship material. People which are superficial are being left out of the relationship "market". Men think that women hit the wall due to losing their beauty, but what I noticed is superficial ones are being pushed to the side. Same goes for men. I know …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:29 AM
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It's not like all men voted for Trump, all women voted for Harris. Exit polls say 54% men voted for Trump and 54% women voted for Harris. So let's say all women which did vote for Harris start a sex strike. How many of them are married with a Trump voter? How many would have sex with a Trump voter?😂 It's an insanely dumb take 🤣
/r/MensRights06/11/24 02:15 PM
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But wouldn't that create even more incels? 😂
/r/MensRights06/11/24 12:56 PM
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Important thing to know is that world is not just. Some people do get to keep the cake and eat it... some don't get to keep it or eat it. Other important thing is to focus on yourself. On your problems. So ignore feminist and their problems, they should deal with them on their own... just like you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 02:57 AM
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Yes, you see toxic partners as normal, and normal partners as... faulty ones 😳 But not everyone is the same. Some people are completely oblivious to this and keep chasing after most broken abusive partners they can find. Again and again and again... Some are aware of it, they feel attraction to toxic people, but go against that feeling. Some people are aware of this and develop very strong aversion to toxic people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:19 AM
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probably
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:27 PM
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This is why people prefer to date someone known, someone from social circle, a friend of a friend. Dating a complete stranger comes with risks. Tinder swindler is a great example of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 12:09 PM
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Would be better if people could rate their Tinder dates. Just a 1-5 stars rate, no description. With some algorithm tweaks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:58 AM
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In principle I don't have a problem with women & men having groups in which they can warn each other about shitty people. Because a small number of men & women can cause a lot of damage, a lot of trust issues for majority. These groups could fix a lot of dating issues. In practice... butthurt people will use these groups to defame innocent people. From real life I know horrible examples, such as... cheater get's dumped. Cheated person feels ashamed and keeps to themselves, while cheater goes int…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:55 AM
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In my opinion keeping a track is a red flag. Every guy I met that gave a precise number straight away ended up being trouble. Guys which took time to remember were usually OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:47 AM
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So these women can marry men out of their league, or just have sex with them. And when they want to get married they have to settle. But while they were having sex with men out of their league a lot of guys gave up, and there is nobody to settle with. Sounds like a dysfunctional society to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 07:39 PM
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The number of single people which don't even bother looking for a partner is staggering. I don't know a single species in which such large number of males just give up. So why in your opinion are things supposed to be like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 04:46 PM
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Let me put it this way... A) If 100 people race and there are 20 rewards, lot's of people won't even bother racing. B) If 100 people race and there are 100 equal rewards, people don't bother becoming better, they just walk to the finish line. C) If 100 people race, there are 100 rewards but faster people get better rewards, most people will try to get better to get a better reward. If dating is easier, then you get C scenario, because girls are not all the same, and better you are better girl yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 03:49 PM
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This presents a very obvious dilemma. If dating were easy, then every guy would be supposedly finding a partner which would mean that there would be less options out there. All of sudden it's now hard to find a woman because they are all taken. Just so happens that there is roughly the same number of men and women. Whenever guy takes woman off the dating market, there is also one less guy to compete with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 02:23 PM
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People can get attracted to each other when they get to know each other. People with same professions also work together... they get to know each other. You also have a lot of doctors married to nurses.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 10:09 PM
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In lots of countries polygamy is legal, yet only around 1% of marriages are polygamous. Exception is sub-Saharan Africa in which minority of men control land, women work land, and marriages are arranged by parents. Here is the picture of the biggest protest where women demand polygamy legalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 09:40 PM
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I'd say that... if we were generalizing entire genders, men have it rougher. As you said your white friends get +200 likes. But generalizing whole gender should only be used for certain studies, never for assuming someone's personal experience. This is why whole intersectionality thing exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 10:17 PM
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The thing is that men will engage in situationships with women below their league. They get sex and play along until it lasts. Another thing can happen to Chads, just like women they can hit a wall. People which were attractive in 20's can be significantly less attractive in 30's.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 06:33 PM
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Rejection reduces our standards. Since men are doing majority of approaching, men face rejection early on. And it doesn't take you years to figure out your value. Or getting your heart absolutely ripped apart by Chads several times. But if she dated several Chads, then her standards weren't lowered. Did Chad reject her, or Chad didn't give commitment so she moved on?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 06:13 PM
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But only about 30% of 18-35 women are single. So if one wants a single woman, that makes him hypergamous?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 06:06 PM
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The only thing I would argue, you shouldn't look at success as just win/lose. There is winning/losing more or less, there is also breaking even. Some people get to have the cake and eat it, some people have it or eat it, some get no cake. But also there is investment. People which didn't invest into dating and are alone, shouldn't feel bad because... they are not losers, they just broke even. People which invested more then they gained are losers. People which gained more then invested are winne…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 12:50 PM
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What makes you think men impervious to shame are least desireable?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:36 PM
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I would build upon this, who are you trying to attract? In some social circles the idea of a rich man is covering yourself with bling and other status symbols. In other social circles the idea is more proficient, classy. Just like there are different ideas of what a smart or strong or masculine man is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:25 AM
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https://sciencemediacentre.es/en/reaction-study-claiming-increase-life-expectancy-mice-through-gene-therapy Whops. By the way TERT and APOE are already in the first phase of clinical trials. But since you are obviously the leading expert on the matter... well why else would you use such condescend tone, I guess there is no reason to talk about these things with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 12:50 AM
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There is also zero evidence that we will ever achieve any kind of scientific progress at all. So obviously this is it, human civilization will stay like this until the end of time. Also if you could pull your head out of your ass for just a moment and read the title of the post I wrote you could notice I wrote "We MIGHT need artificial uterus to solve the OVERPOPULATION problem". Humans which have functional brain would realize I talk about possibility. Let me google the definition of possibilit…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 09:41 PM
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That's a realistic possibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 09:29 PM
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It is... biologically we are made for different kind of life. For millions of years we were living and dying faster. We had kids younger, had more kids, kids were working with parents since young age. Most of kids would die 😐by the age of 40 we were... well old. Now we are starting our own families close to 30's and average lifespan in western countries is ~80 years The problem is that technological changes outpace social ones, and as you said it takes a looooooong time for evolution to catch up…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 09:28 PM
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I guess it makes sense that a sci-fi problem would need a sci-fi solution. Yes. The AI is essentially cooking up a technological revolution 2.0 now nobody can say for sure how fast things will develop, but we are looking at significant changes in... pretty much every field of our lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 09:20 PM
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Things like this do not reach maturity over night. Just like those first neural implant enable people some basic control over computer devices, and first optical implants are only able to create a really low resolution image. Those first "replicators" are not like the ones on Star Trek because they can only use one material. They are essentially very precise 3D printers. And those 12 guys that want artificial wombs just want them to get back at women. Though if they actually became a reality, yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:01 PM
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10 years from now is right around the corner for me. Well my "fairytale" is... actually in the works US regulators will consider clinical trials of a system that mimics the womb, which could reduce deaths and disability for babies born extremely preterm. Have been already tested with animals. Never saw anyone even seriously considering building a replicator. And if you think artificial wombs are just fantasies of 12 guys on reddit... I'm afraid you are spending too much time on reddit... world i…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 07:40 PM
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I'd prefer more ethical solutions for overpopulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 07:33 PM
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Fair point, And most of our wars are to secure resources. However so far we didn't had wars where old and young were killing each other, we had wars where young and young from two opposite sides kill each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 07:28 PM
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Star Trek is science fantasy. Replicators are just a plot device... we do have the ability to precisely place atoms where we want them, but to build a sandwich using that technology would take like billion years. And that's not going to change. Meta realities... you do know we already have first humans with neural implants connected directly into their brains. I'm not talking about science fantasy stuff, I'm talking about stuff right around the corner.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 07:24 PM
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You think that overpopulating the planet is negligible? That's really interesting. And out of curiosity what problems do you think are more important?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 05:50 PM
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Not many women have kids after 40's.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 05:33 PM
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And maybe you should stop caring?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 05:16 PM
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Well 120 years ago planes didn't exist... then two brothers made one. We don't have life extending medicine today, but I'm saying we might have them tomorrow. During the recent years we have a surge in aging research R&D, and AI is promising some amazing advancements in medicine. And yup, if we do live... 150, we can't retire at 65 anymore can we. But also if we live 150 that doesn't mean manual worker will be able to work his job until 135. Significant social issues arise. https://www.ncbi.nlm.…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 03:59 PM
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Yeah it's ridiculous, because it will take us +150 years to reach 200, so obviously the idea that we will live to 200 anytime soon is ridiculous. But let's say medicine prolongs life 20 years, then new one prolongs life another 20 years, then universal cure for cancer is invented, then new medicine prolongs life another 20 years... the longer we live more advancements in medicine we get to use. 150 years from now you die of old age. How long will we live, fuck if I know, I just used 200 years as…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 03:29 PM
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Which is a nice side-effect, but you are missing the point here. The main reason is to enable people to have kids at older age, which would reduce the overpopulation. Because population is number of people alive at any given moment. When life expectancy is increased, population is increasing. If we can have children at older age, population is decreasing. Any other solution to this problem that I have considered is... shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 02:45 PM
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Because it's NOT more people. Problem is having too many people at any given time. If I'm correct and average lifespan does get extended, but our fertility rate remains the same, then we end up with more people. Because every child born still has his grand-grand-grand-grand-grand-grandparents alive. Only way to keep the population from exploding would be to either have a fertility rate of like 0.25, meaning every fourth woman gets to have a kid, or we cul old people 😐 But if average lifespan get…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 02:31 PM
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19% medical reasons - Most of which could be solved by future bio-tech 17% financial reasons - But now people have more time to get their finances in order 15% no partner - Don't need one anymore 10% age - Solved 14% state of the world / climate change - We really should be working more seriously on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 02:23 PM
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Maybe what we should be doing then is finding a way to decrease peoples life spans or have a max life span limit rather than increasing people’s lifespans. You think you could get a majority of people to work on decreasing life spans?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 02:05 PM
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Ewwww no 😂it's the exact opposite. Extending our biological clock means we get to keep our existing lifestyles, more relaxed because biology isn't pressing on us. There would be more time for education, career, finding the right partner, and buying a damn house.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 02:03 PM
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Guess what, country is not like one single individual that can only focus at solving one problem at the time. It is composed of millions of individuals that can focus on solving a whole bunch of problems at the same time. So when somebody is proposing a solution for one problem, you don't have to gatekeep because other problem is in your opinion more important. Both problems can be solved at the same time. Also it's not like you need bio-tech companies to solve social issues... if you did give t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:59 PM
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I read a research which states that young women want to have on average 2.1 children, which just so happens is perfect for keeping population as is. But mainly due to economic reasons they can't. Young people need more time to finish college, reach economic security necessary for raising kids. Women are already having first kid on average at 27 years old. Many don't reach economic security before their biological clock runs out. Since we do have limited resources, as there are more old people, e…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:49 PM
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Overpopulation is already driven more by the increase in life expectancy then fertility rates. World population is mainly increasing because we live longer. At the same time this is "cooking" a demographic collapse in the future because... Since there are more old people, young people aren't earning enough to start a family, so they start family older. But with the biological fertility window remaining unchanged... a lot of people don't start a family at all. If we could artificially extend fert…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:42 PM
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But you already had two children.... you "did your job", high five. Let's say you are a young woman with no children, modern medicine is extending your life expectancy, but also your vitality... so at 100 years of age you will have the vitality of a 40 year old. But fertility window stays the same. If we still have to have kids by the age of 40, that creates overpopulation, because every child has live mother, grand-mother, grand-grand-mother, grand-grand-grand-mother, grand-grand-grand-grand-mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:34 PM
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Become more selfish. Put your needs first more often. That's all there is to it...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:53 PM
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Women still get slut shamed though. You know what you could do? Instead of wasting energy trying to change the whole society, just live your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:51 PM
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Both genders have been doing it since we started living in tribes. Besides written laws we use shaming to establish social norms which are unwritten laws... cost being social status. Yeah lots of women were really vocal, against shaming of women and for liberation of women. If you thought this included you, HA! Sucker.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 11:44 AM
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Redpillers told me I should save my virginity for a high body count Chad, sleep with him on first night, become a subservient trad wife, not mind him cheating around. Honestly I don't think they had my best interest in mind. What do you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 03:05 PM
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It wouldn't make much difference - in real life men are not approaching girls above their league because You fear rejection, so you approach women in your league, right. And if women had to approach, well... we also are afraid of rejection. I never approached a guy out of my league 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 01:02 PM
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I am so glad to hear these kind of stories from time to time. Because most people, keep dating wrong kind of partners, and then conclude "well all of my partners were shit, so obviously entire opposite gender is shit". While minority asks themselves "why the hell am I doing this to myself"... some introspection, some positive changes, problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:00 AM
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You realized it on your own?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:35 AM
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Yep. If you don't get a degree you most probably won't find a job with decent wage = low number of kids. If you do get a degree you most probably will have to move to a big city to find a job with decent wage. But then you get high cost of living + student debt and you can only start a family when older = low number of kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 10:45 AM
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Flair checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 10:39 AM
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My achievement is calling out your bigotry, mr.White Knight. What is shamed about passport bros is how delusional that is and the concept itself of being such a loser at home that you move in to a place where you can buy love. No one says anything about ppl having flings on vacation for the sake of it(beside maybe redpill men shaming women for it)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 09:00 AM
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But she put's on a dress and cosplays a traditional wife. Then in the studio she talks with these red pillers that cosplay as high value men. These are all very broken people with serious issues that learn how to cosplay. Like Lauren Boebert, cosplaying as good ol' traditional American gun wielding mom. Underneath the surface it's fucking Jerry Springer show.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:56 PM
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Boy would probably end up with a woman that is as toxic as his mom was, because for him, that's normal. But spending time surrounded by normal healthy people does change the perception of what normal is, and helps with learning to establish healthy boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:49 PM
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Narcissistic mothers do this. They see daughters as competition. There is discord and lots of books written on this subject. Their relationship with sons is just described as playing favorites. But very often it's covert incest... they raise sons as codependent substitute for a partner. Son leaving home to start independent life is seen as husband leaving. Son finding a girlfriend is seen as another woman stealing husband. There is very little discord and literature about this. Men are very hard…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:42 PM
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Oh it feels so nice seeing another woman say this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 08:30 PM
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Makes perfect sense! Milo thought he could say anything because of being gay... so then he said some pedo stuff. Apparently gay can't say anything because that sank his career harder then Titanic. So Milo finally found a way to reinvent himself 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 08:12 PM
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She does fall into uncanny valley. Maybe it's actually Andrew Tate wearing some poor girl skin? 😐
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 08:04 PM
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Alternative Youtube account for watching any of this shit, because yeah... you watch ONE alt-right video gets your feed filled with this shit for months.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 08:02 PM
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Oh dear God I watched, and I get second-hand embarrassed 😫 She has VERY low self-esteem, goes down the Red Pill rabbit hole to find a partner. Streaming these RedPill points gives her attention, worshipers, and she goes "Andrew Tate" within months. Now the interesting bit, she is single preaching how relations should be. When she does find a boyfriend, is she going to "put her money where her mouth is" and become a submissive, subservient trad wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 08:00 PM
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Well yeah, that's like a version of white knight. But in manosphere it's done for monetary reason. I'd call it dark knight.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 07:02 PM
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I actually don't know her... most of these youtubers dealing with social issues are just rage baiting to get those views flowing. Toxic as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 06:52 PM
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I pain your behavior in the worst possible light. I can twist almost any narrative in making you look like a malicious bad person. I covertly shame you. You know I can't directly call you a rapist here, that would probably get me banned right? But I can say you sound/seem like one. So I push social norms into my favor, you can't touch any of those other women, foreign ones, young ones, women of color, skinny ones. I can touch whoever I want.. hihihihi.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 06:50 PM
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This right here! 👆
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 06:30 PM
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Who is Pearl?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 06:29 PM
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So you want to foreign countries, sexually used women without putting a ring on their finger? Didn't even pay a drink for them. Wow, just wow... sounds so rapey.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 06:17 PM
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That's just the thing, you don't know the genuine intentions, guy could be buying a drink as an icebreaker, getting tipsy does get conversation flowing too, maybe he even get's laid because alcohol lowered inhibitions enough. But was this maliciously planed, or guy just bought a drink to a nice looking woman? Can't demonize all men which buy women drinks. I know three friends, sailors which all married Thai wives. Great guys but since they spend months on the sea only local women interested were…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:01 PM
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Were you richer then local girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:37 PM
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What if you go to local bars with primary reason to find women? And buy them drinks? Do you deliberately target intoxicated women in vulnerable position?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:35 PM
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Me and my boyfriend lived with parents, saved on rent, invested. When we met we had enough money to buy a home with cash... and we did. I have friends which moved out at 18, and never even saved for a deposit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 08:42 PM
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Women will simp for more attractive men, use less attractive men. Men will simp for more attractive women, use less attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 03:14 PM
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But if woman is physically attractive, yet has unattractive personality, she is only good for sex. If woman is physically attractive and has attractive personality, she is relationship material. Also men want to have just sex even with women significantly less attractive then they are. Men will cheat with less attractive women then their wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 12:14 AM
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Yeah but in the past preference for height actually made sense. It meant you had enough food... so good genes. Today everyone can have enough food, it's a peacock trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 12:11 AM
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On average men primarily select pretty much entirely on physical appearance. Only true for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 12:06 AM
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Or maybe... they would like you more if you were a bad boy. Who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 03:17 PM
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Sure. And some younger women mature faster than others, too. None of the women that I’ve dated have ever liked bad boys. I'm assuming you weren't a bad boy in which case... duh women which dated you didn't had a preference for one. Spectrum There is usually a good guy and bad boy in most love triangle dramas that appeal to women. Some women just naturally prefer the good guy character. Which is why I chose Titanic as an example, it's a genuinely romantic movie. Yeah some drama, but it doesn't ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 01:52 PM
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Titanic is a VERY romantic movie, and Jack was prince charming for masses of women, of all ages. Was a bad boy, was nice to Rose. 😉 Young women tend to have a bigger preference for bad boys, older one for nice boys. Young men are more rebellious, then older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 01:25 PM
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It has to be an simplification, because if we start going into all the nuances... we can write 20 books and it's still an oversimplification, and we just got lost in all that info. It's a really nice way to present the basics in an easily understandable way, but people do need to know it's a simplification and there are a lot of nuances.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 02:02 AM
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The problem is so many people fail to realize human behavior is on a spectrum. Thinking guy can be a doormat or an absolute asshole with nothing in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 01:57 AM
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I wouldn't call it drama rather... man shouldn't just give us his Good Guy qualities, we should win them. That's just the human nature, we don't really appreciate stuff which was easily given. Same goes for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 01:53 AM
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Nah, y-axis is essentially comfort, and x-axis is lust.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 01:47 AM
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Bad boy doesn't mean a bad man, it's a... spectrum. Different women have different tolerance for how much bad. Some women like a guy which is a bit of a rebel, doesn't conform to all social norms. Some women (minority) are attracted to serial killers. 😶 Guys should be bad boys, but do need to take into consideration, the worse they are, the crazier women they attract. Women which want's to be with a serial killer, doesn't really have a healthy set of social norms does her? Doesn't really make a …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 01:39 AM
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If you can't handle the shaming, then don't do it, we have been doing this since the dawn of time, this is how we enforce social norms. Well guess what, you get to shame the other side as well. Don't let anybody tell you that you can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 08:49 PM
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Yes! I'm guessing those guys on 4chan are saying a lot of nasty stuff. So instead of heading over there to get offended, I don't. And if less people click on these offending articles, then media publishes less offensive articles. Instead you click on stuff that makes you feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 08:43 PM
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They always claim it is to save their friend, sometimes it is to save them, sometimes it is just jealousy... you can't know for sure can you. And guys do this too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:25 PM
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True, but... why do you care? If woman standards are too high you just let them continue chasing their dream, while you look for women which are down to the ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 01:06 AM
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But, we don't have one single need, so you can't really show wealth as a single number. As an example imagine a man that has 1 billion worth of stocks, and he is in the middle of Sahara, alone, with no water, doesn't have a cell phone... I would argue that you are far more rich then that guy, because one of his basic needs is not met, and he is about to die in a very unpleasant way. Also saying we are more wealthy then people 200 years ago... it's not like we have to go full blown Taliban, burn …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 09:12 PM
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I find this particularly annoying because... you implement environmental regulations. So these companies simply produce their toxic shit somewhere else, and import it into country.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 07:58 PM
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Yep. The richest in developed countries have profited the most from globalization. And working class in developed countries is at a loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 07:39 PM
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So next time I don't have to come up with these examples of fallacy, and can just say "affirming the consequent". Thank you! Really thank you, this helps a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:57 PM
1

Who in your opinion is in best position to have kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:42 PM
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Imagine living in a small town, no need for a college to have a stable job with a decent wage. Low cost of living, low cost of housing. You can go to the college, but don't need to, If you really want to be a doctor, you sign up for college... but lots of people are perfectly happy with "high school" jobs as long as they have decent wage and stability. As long as smaller town is populated, has decent wages (so not talking about postapocalyptic Rust Belt towns) people are more social, happy, less…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:23 PM
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I feel pretty comfortable telling any fan of a globally contemptible genocidal, suicidal, insecure piece of shit who dyed his hair and concealed his lineage to eat shit. I'm not a fan of Hitler... quite the opposite. People you described are still racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:21 PM
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Neither are pro-immigration citizens who realize that immigrants have an exponentially superior physical work ethic Rule 5 - No Race-Baiting or Racially Charged Content an exponentially beneficial exchange rate Rule 5 - No Race-Baiting or Racially Charged Content and an exponentially superior rate of successful paternal genetic contribution. Rule 5 - No Race-Baiting or Racially Charged Content The citizens you describe are actually racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:41 PM
2

I just realized, Hitler and Stalin had two hands... coincidence? I THINK NOT! People with two hands are bad!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:14 PM
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True, yet I chose to ignore all of that and used Hitler to make a point vegetarians are bad. To make a point about how stupid that point is. Hitler wasn't bad because he liked to eat carrots. And Nazi Germany wasn't bad because of it's birth incentivizes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:12 PM
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EU has countries with more immigration then France. When migrants move into Europe, after just one generation their fertility rate drops like rock.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:45 PM
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Argentina implemented various social measures to combat poverty, and then their economy collapsed, people were starving. So we should never, ever, ever, ever implement any social measures. Ever! /s And Hitler was a vegetarian, so we should never vote a vegetarian into power. /s Stalin was an atheist, we should only vote highly religious people into power... ideally pope should govern us all. /s By the way France has highest fertility rate in Europe, and it's a very nice place to live. When you a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:01 PM
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I would argue it's financial, but for different reason... Historically big towns had low fertility rates, while smaller towns and rural regions had high fertility rates. Big towns had it's population "toped up" with migration from smaller towns and rural region. Universe in balance. Since agriculture became highly mechanized, and factories were shipped overseas, concentrated in big towns, automated... there simply isn't enough decent jobs in small towns and rural regions. Due to which population…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:52 PM
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Because parts of the society have turned from placing greatest importance on children. In more liberal, left spectrum greater importance is being placed on women, LGBT, minorities. In conservative spectrum on men. I'd argue that most of the society is still placing most importance on children, but they aren't given much media space which creates a distorted picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:09 PM
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Lately? This is not a new phenomena, women do like to steal boyfriends, husbands. Husbands like to lie they are in the divorce process, or separated to have a ride on temporary mistress. How common is this... depends on the region, social class. Somewhere it's like a real Jerry Springer show, somewhere extremely rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 09:00 PM
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Nuh uh, RP's theory is that women fuck with these chad alpha fuckers hoping they would marry them, once they get older these chad alpha fuckers don't even want to fuck them, and they have to settle. Which is a load of bullshit, because we can always find attractive men for sex. And is written by narcissistic men that are desperate for validation. The truth is that good relationship material from both sides get's snatched from the market. In the 30's market is oversaturated with... well shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 12:20 AM
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Nah, it just depends on can you get over it. I couldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 06:09 PM
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Hahahahahaha I'm dying here 🤣😂🤣😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 12:22 PM
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It breaks the "women are wonderful" narrative. We are only supposed to be horny for nice guys... that is if we are supposed to be horny at all 😶 When people have these deeply internalized beliefs, that end up being false, they get angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 10:05 PM
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I can't relate to that at all though. My kinky preferences are all over the place, but not rough stuff 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:31 PM
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When it comes to kinks women do search for more dominant, rough stuff. But most popular women searches are not kinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:56 PM
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I think "the wall" exist, but I also think red pillers idea of the wall is bullshit. Women can find hotter guys to have sex with at any age. However finding relationship material becomes harder as we age... because, relationship material does get "snatched" by competition from the market.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:44 PM
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Exactly! It sets the whole relationship so that man has to keep earning affection. If you start the relationship by making huge effort, you are expected to provide that much effort for the whole duration of the relationship. Relationship is not a sprint, but a marathon.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:21 PM
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If BF left me on "read" his ADHD got the best of him. I learned not to overthink it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:09 PM
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I wouldn't bother pursuing if I don't see reciprocity happening. Some people do pursue successfully, but later down the line their relationship goes down the drain... wouldn't recomend.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:07 PM
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When men go to the brothel, or PornHub, they aren't really looking for women with good personalities either. They pick the hottest women doing sexually hottest stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:25 PM
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I am definitely with you on the cheating on the side thing. And I mean I do in theory agree if you haven't had many sexual partners, it's reasonable to not want to be in a relationship with someone who has. But men who are able to take what is given, take what is given, and no one bats an eye. And women who do this are somehow stigmatized. When it comes to sexuality, men's job is to shame us into behaving the way they want us to. So among other things they slut shame us. When men get daughters, …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:21 PM
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I'm actually really glad you mentioned that. When we have social setting guys do have a chance to display more then their superficial physical attraction. Average looking guy can still be very attractive due to his behavior, right? We do get to know them better, hey can be charming, protective, have common interest... all sorts of things. And something like 3/4 of relationships start as friendships. But in modern society we socialize less and less. Bars and restaurants are places where men and w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:20 PM
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Both genders have a set of standards which attracts them sexually, and a set of standards which attracts us to friendships and relationships. I don't really find this part to be sour. More virtuous ones are looking for people that fulfil both of these needs, a whole package, and we do compromise. The only difference, women and men do have different standards for sex, relationship, status... The thing which I (and dare I say most of us) do find sour, bitter... when women and men are looking for d…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:07 PM
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Women do chose the most attractive men they can for casual sex. Meaning that large portion of men do not participate in casual sex. So even if men pay money for higher standard of social services, and change their culture from slut-shaming to slut-praising, it only results in most attractive men getting more sex, and less attractive men having to settle with higher-N wives. Majority of men are better off keeping more money for themselves then giving it to government to spend on social policies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 12:23 PM
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Hypocrisy is to claim to have higher, more virtuous noble standards/value then one actually has. But men are usually quite open about this, and therefore not hypocritical. Men which claim to be above this, but in practice behave like this are hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 12:05 PM
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Yes, in smaller communities social benefits and costs are much higher, people care more about appearing virtuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 10:09 PM
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Trying to shame slutshamers for being insecure... So you actually do think shaming works after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 09:32 PM
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Guys say they don't care about her N count, women say they want nice guys... If both were being honest all of these pills wouldn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 08:51 PM
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Naturally women will disagree, but they will also start a whole #stopslutshaming movement. So what to trust, words, or actions??? I will let OP decide on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 08:49 PM
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Women are very afraid of anything lowering their social standing, and slut shaming is very effective at getting women to not sleep around.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 08:16 PM
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Women will ALWAYS have sexual choices. True, I never once heard a woman has trouble finding sex, I did heard a lot of women saying they can't find a suitable boyfriend though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 10:19 PM
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Most women can be good mothers I'm going to disagree on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 05:45 PM
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And some women have +30 years, bring nothing to the table and expect a guy to treat them like a trad wife lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 05:37 PM
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But this type of man gets what he wants. Sorry but women get to chose. If these guys were so successful every man would be a lumbersexual. Superficially hypermasculine, but without masculine essence. Women do shit test you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 04:08 PM
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Do take into the account that lots of modern people are really confused when it comes to trad way of life. Some guys like tradwives because they THINK tradwife is absolutely submissive (dumb) and will put up with their bullshit... fantasy made due to fear of rejection. Some guys think tradwife is a submissive bimbo which will tolerate her hipermasculine "tradman" going around fucking other women... which is feeding their hypersexual fantasies. Lot's of women think that about tridewives and get a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 03:59 PM
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Lebanese woman is superficially hyperfeminine, a "Barbie". But lots of you guys can already smell lack of traits which would make her a good partner, a good mother for your children. She seems like a good trophy wife... for somebody else. American woman is a bit masculine, but you can smell "family values" Similar thing goes for men... imagine a guy which is superficially hypemasculine. Big muscles, beard, alpha, tough guy... but... you can already "smell" not relationship material.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 02:53 PM
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Actually all of the men on the picture are... grey. 😂
/r/MensRights09/03/24 03:50 PM
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When men don't have kids they are kicked out of the gene pool. I think this part is super cut and dry. When childless men marry a single mom that doesn't want to have any more kids (really not that uncommon with current fertility rate) they are kicked out of the gene pool. Again this part is super cut and dry. Does anyone seriously want to argue these two points?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 07:10 PM
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When men don't have kids they are kicked out of the gene pool. It's that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 08:49 AM
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Before 17th century most kids were not born in marriage... wtf are you talking about? The fuck are you talking about? You think people in middle ages and before weren't fucking around like rabbits? Don't see how that's relevant. This is not about how much people fuck, but who get's to produce offspring. You haven't produced a single good argument so far, so I consider this debate won.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 08:07 PM
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Up until 17th century commoners couldn't divorce. After that people could divorce, and they did. But fertility rate was +5 so man could count on a single mom to produce some offspring for him as well. Now with the fertility rate below 2, marrying a single mom is as viable mating strategy as double orchiectomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 05:40 PM
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Girl assumed my cousin is the father, even though she didn't sleep with him. teehee
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 08:48 AM
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Friendship is different from the friendzone. When you are a friend with a girl, but treat her like she is your girlfriend, make yourself always available, let her use you as emotional dumpster, go shopping with her, never say no, simp... when you are being disgustingly nice. Behave like a gay friend... and then confess your feelings. You get put into the friendzone. But if you treat her like you treat your guy friends. Nice, but not always available, dare to say no, dare to disagree. Have a spin…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 09:57 PM
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The way out of the friendzone is to cut all communication, ghost, block all contact, burn all bridges. Do that and you are no longer in the friendzone. Amazing ain't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 09:47 PM
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I wasn't aware who the actual father was so I tricked this man into raising my kid. 0% conviction rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 05:43 PM
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You expect them to completely disappear disappear in two generations? That's cute. Ask yourself how come there aren't enough low T men for all the single mothers to go around?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 05:41 PM
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Well let's take T levels as an example, inheritable trait. Men with higher T levels are more likely to father children, and more children. And to cheat, divorce, start another family. Low male T levels have been shown to promote features relevant to parenting or investment. Most men have higher T levels when single, BUT their T levels drop when they get children, because that hormonal change makes them better fathers for their children. High T men will start a family, their T levels don't drop, …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:22 PM
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Oct 18, 2021 — Tennessee State Representative Antonio Parkinson of Memphis got his COVID-19 vaccine Wednesday and is urging others to follow suit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 03:25 PM
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Copy-paste from Wikipedia. Some of the more noteworthy legislation that Parkinson has passed is: The Healthy Workplace Act to eliminate workplace bullying in Tennessee; Kimberlee's Law to ensure that criminals convicted of aggravated rape serve 100% of their sentence (Tennessee is the first state in the union to pass Kimberlee type of legislation); The Neighborhood Protection Act to standing Neighborhood Associations, watch groups and others to file restraining orders for relief from criminals t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 03:19 PM
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With money, ideally US dollars.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 03:15 PM
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She got me interested, so I... I just had to take a peek into her profile. She does have Narcissistic Personality Disorder, but she actually acknowledges it, which is indeed rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 03:13 PM
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Shaming men's masculinity for not asking their wives for paternity testing? Do you shame women when they ask for diversity quota regulations too?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 03:10 PM
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Yeah but... The law says that anyone who establishes a person as the biological parent of a child with intent to deprive the actual biological parent from their parental rights is guilty of a crime. So if the intent was to trick a man into being a father, not a crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 03:07 PM
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...by a Democrat state representative named Antonio Parkinson...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 03:06 PM
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Only if your DNA data is actually being kept. If I use your DNA to compare it with another DNA, then after comparison yields result destroy both DNA samples. The only existing data is comparison of DNA. Also paternity tests do not analyze your whole genome, that would be a huge task. They simply compare several markers between genomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 03:04 PM
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There are simply not enough men like these for every single mother. Well they aren't really passing on their nice genes aren't they. Guys that make kids and divorce, get to try one more time. Where are all the nice guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 02:56 PM
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The one which cares less is actually in the position of power, the one who cares more is in the position to be abused. Some people look for relationship where other side cares more to abuse, some to avoid being abused.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 02:26 PM
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crazy stats there for sure. They do destroy several well established narratives.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 02:24 PM
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Romantic love lasts for 4-5 years, after it wears out people see each other for what they really are. After that some people are more like best friends, some people are at each other throat, and then there is everything in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:56 PM
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It's not a lie, but mutual love is indeed very rare. Almost every couple will say they are in love, and usually one or both of them are just full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:40 PM
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wives are equally as unhappy with them Men doing more chores doesn't make women happy. Stop giving men shitty advices.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 07:40 PM
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I think it's very similar to mouse utopia experiment. Fathers stopped playing the fatherly role, mothers stopped playing the motherly role. Raising increasingly dysfunctional generations. Part of the population turned super social, little Instagram models. But they ignored courting and raising young. Part of the population became aggressive and hypersexual... but sexually deviant behavior not aimed at making young. Part of the population completely socially retreated, ate only during the night, …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 07:29 PM
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In every company I worked I had same wage for same work as my male collages. Because all of us were in unions, and union says we are to receive that much money for that much work. Male dominated industries had higher wages, because they weren't pulling bosses sleeve asking for crumbs. Men are confrontational, they strike. When money stops flowing due to strike, bosses are far more willing to compromise. Women in trades earned same as men in trades. Women dominated industries? For the love of God…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:51 PM
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I don't think they should lower their standards in terms of compatibility and values Amen, this doesn't seem to ever end well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:01 PM
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Atleast they are open about their Madonna-Whore complex, and most of them are down to ground and understand it is not realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 03:58 PM
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Also half of all singles are not even looking for a relationship. Or a hookup, casual sex... nothing. Only one fifth of 18-29 year olds found their partner online. Unsurprising since most women are using dating apps for validation, and most men use it for finding casual sex. And a bunch of people on dating apps are actually married. To be exact, the researchers estimated that 68 percent of romantic relationships start from friendship. - Oh shit, I bet nobody expected that. And... Women say it’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 03:51 PM
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Why would they fight for more overtime? That’s dumb. So only fight for benefits? Why call it fight for equality then? Right, and who makes that technology and drives it forward? It’s own volition? Or innovation by the current generation? Efficiency has accumulated over time, every generation has added to the pile. However while overall wealth has increased, so did the inequality. With young people today getting less for their work then previous generations had. The way inflation is calculated is…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 02:29 PM
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Almost half of young men have NEVER approached a woman. So women feel like they have options because small number of men is approaching large number of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 01:40 PM
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“women are as unhappy as ever.” Never said this. If women were as unhappy as ever in marriage, we would not be seeing a decrease in the divorce rate. Average age of marriage went up and women marrying at the age of 28-34 are least likely to divorce. Average education of women went up, and college educated women are least likely to divorce. Share of conservative women being married increased, conservative women are least likely to divorce. If men want to avoid divorce their best bet is marrying c…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 12:54 PM
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I actually do see women talking about wage inequality literally all of the time. Women talking about husbands bringing in more money, and demanding to work more overtime? Where? It’s crazy millennials and Gen z are more productive than any generation in previous generations, don’t put up with abuse the way people used to, and refuse to destroy their body for mediocre pay. Every generation was more productive then the previous one, because better technology. But Millennials and Gen-Z were born in…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 12:37 PM
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You do understand that... Only marriages which last longer then 15 years count as not ending in divorce. Avoids calculating in majority of first marriages that are yet to end up with divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 10:43 AM
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Or maybe we are finding the places where there are inherit inequalities and trying to remedy that for the next generation Nope, because I don't see anyone nagging when man is bringing in more money to the household, if anything on average women still expect their husbands to out-earn them by significant amount. But you know what millennials and gen-Z men are doing? They work less then previous generations, are less engaged with their work, work less physically demanding jobs. Not because women t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 10:02 AM
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Nah, to negate the effect this stat didn't count marriages of less then 15 years, marriages which didn't had time for a divorce. Not a perfect method, but...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:56 AM
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I don't. I found that waiting for sex while building up for it... Filters out fake people... can't keep up the act for long. Never felt a guy I slept with was a mistake. Makes me more passionate about having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 10:45 PM
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Hatred. There is just so much hatred on both sides (left-right) and people looking for socially acceptable ways of being hateful bigots. What better target then the vulnerable ones. In right wing circles it is socially acceptable to hate gays, immigrants, minorities. In left wing circles...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 10:36 PM
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As a stereotypical "Chad" the things girls let me do to them is crazy. Does she let you piss all over her toilet seat and then clean it up without saying a word? If not you are not really a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 10:11 PM
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Exactly. Let's say you meet a woman and she says... "I like you, but I want you to have a six pack, and I want you to keep that six pack all the way into your 40's." You can say yes, and you know what is expected of you. If you think this is a bad deal you can say no, and save everybody the trouble. But if she can't word her needs and wants, then she is coming up with all these "reasons" for her unhappiness. And you are juggling like a monkey to fix them, with zero results. I had an ex like this…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 09:33 PM
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60% of first marriages do not end with divorce. My advice... be a good husband and look for a woman which can properly communicate her needs. Avoid divorcees.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 08:52 PM
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I'd say divorce rates are actually quite lower then one would initially assume, because... In the US 40% chance for divorce in first marriage so 60% of people never divorce. This doesn't sound bad at all. But the 40% which do divorce, will often marry and divorce again, and again... inflating divorce statistics. Chance for divorce in second marriage 65%!!! Chance for divorce in third marriage 73%!!! Best way to avoid divorce, don't marry a divorcee.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 08:28 PM
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I can say one thing for sure. Humans are extremely unreliable when it comes to self reporting the cause for divorce. I'm guilty for the divorce - said nobody ever. People which can properly identify problems and their causes are way more likely to fix them, and way less likely to get divorced. So we don't really have a great source on the actual reasons. We do have marriage counselors, but what about all couples that divorce without ever seeing one? Men are happier in marriage, they are less lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 08:13 PM
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Yeah. My grandma was a SAHM, she had her hands full because... no running water, no electricity, 5 children, garden, livestock. She was working a full time job managing the household, and children had to help her. Me and my boyfriend are working full time jobs and due to all this wonderful technology we have, our chores are piss easy. My boyfriend would have to be a literal pig for us to part ways because of chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 08:13 PM
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Lesbian couples are 29% MORE likely to divorce then straight couples. And gay couples are 5% LESS likely to divorce then straight couples. Also men still bring more money to the relationship, but let's ignore that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 08:07 PM
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One major change that I’ve observed is that Millennial men do far, far more housework and childcare than men in prior years. Still, their wives are equally as unhappy with them, if not more so. Their complaints have shifted from unfair distribution of housework and childcare responsibilities to unfair distribution of emotional labor, or some other arbiter of perceived inequity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 06:13 PM
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So when you were 25 women avoided you because of your repulsive personality, so you changed your personality? OR you lost a lot of weight, worked out, started socializing again, got some hookups on tinder. Dude you got Red Pilled, I can't believe you still consider yourself a blue piller.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 01:29 PM
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Yes, there is this healthy amount of jealousy/possessiveness. It's not good if I don't care, it's not good if he can't smile to another woman. Same goes for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 08:11 PM
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Those types were weirdo outcasts for millenials who called them "fags". That's such a 90's thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 07:27 PM
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Where's the fucking cat!?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 07:26 PM
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In majority of countries where poly marriages are legal, 1% of marriages are poly. Watch what we do right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 07:21 PM
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I would argue S Korea is rapidly becoming a very shitty place, with huge divide between women and men, the worst fertility rate on the planet, and actual oligarchy running the show.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 07:16 PM
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They do describe themselves as loving so much that they do not feel these insecurities us mere mortals feel. I would argue that if you don't love then you don't mind sharing. Like.... I'm more then willing to share broccoli with my boyfriend, but if he touches the stake, he dies.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 07:13 PM
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c/p There was this RP self proclaimed dating guru, which kept saying he is HVM, and that women should share men like him. Then he died from a hearth attack... probably because his high value dick needed Viagra.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 07:10 PM
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There was this RP self proclaimed dating guru, which kept saying he is HVM, and that women should share men like him. Then he died from a hearth attack... probably because his high value dick needed Viagra.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 07:09 PM
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Not wanting to share your partner is a sign of insecurity. But I would argue some insecurities exist for a god damn good reason. I mean how many of these "High Value Men" would be comfortable sharing their wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 07:07 PM
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wOmEn ShOuLd ShArE HiGh VaLuE mEn. Meanwhile in Somalia Women in polygamous marriages tend to experience considerably worse psychosexual functioning, study finds I mean seriously I don't care if he is a Chad Chadovski tall 7 feet, earning 7 figures and having a 7 pack. I'd rather be a cat lady then share my man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 06:45 PM
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My friend is a cougar and I can totally see why young men go crazy after her. She is good looking, is wild, doesn't play games.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 06:31 PM
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It's all funny and quirky and edgy and shit until men start hating women too, and we turn into S. Korea.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 06:29 PM
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Amazing! I haven't watched such a spectacular movie since... can't remember really. I'm watching it again tomorrow 😋 P.S. I thought that was Bill Skarsgård 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 06:26 PM
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So men developed more rugged skulls and better central vision to be better at gathering plants. And at some point in history all these tribes had a vote and decided that in the future men will do the hunting, so in modern tribes men hunt. 10/10 article.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 06:24 PM
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US really needs to part ways with it's two party system. That way you can have right and left nut jobs have their own small parties that nobody doesn't give a fuck about. While sane parties get to form coalitions to rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 06:19 PM
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I'm not projecting anything, it's just that you don't really get it do you. If you meet a girl with good personality, do you get an erection because she is nice? You don't because... nice personality alone doesn't make you horny. Nice personality doesn't make me horny either. And that's OK. In fact... it would be really weird if guys were getting erections every time we did something nice. But you can absolutely fall in love with a person just for their personality, don't you. And so can I. And …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 01:37 PM
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Yes! This is why "good personality" is nr.1 category on PornHub.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 10:45 AM
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I'm also starting to think it might be better for whole civilization to come crashing down. A great reset.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 12:36 AM
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8/10 5’11”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:23 PM
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Gimly. That masculine beard, the way he swung his axe.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:22 PM
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The fuck? All victims of BPD partners that I know were desperate not to get into another relationship at all. Some were single for years, some remained single perpetually.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:21 PM
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Better love story then Twilight.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:16 PM
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I also think the same. But... guys can openly talk about these things without being demonized.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:15 PM
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If you use entire society as an example, your argument doesn't make sense because... most women will obtain a diploma, marry a guy with diploma, have a kid with them. Average woman does think long term and doesn't make choices solely on what her pussy tells her to do. Being nice is being taken into account, and society does function. But if you were to "zoom in" to most dysfunctional, poor, crime ridden parts of the society. You would find that women are making a lot of dumb choices, not thinkin…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:52 PM
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On average no.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:46 AM
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It pisses people off because it messes with their simplistic fundamental beliefs. Just like people believed Earth was flat, and everything was nice and simple. Then some asshole shows up and claims Earth is actually round... Now you have all these complications. It's way harder to draw the maps, how come people on the other side of this globe don't fall of the Earth... But these "round" maps actually work better.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:42 AM
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My brother is an introvert, but he is also very socially adept. Being an introvert doesn't mean he will opt out of social life, rather he will sometimes leave the party early. Sometimes he needs his alone time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 08:14 PM
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Low socio-economic status and low education have been positively correlated with more divorces, more single moms, higher hypergamy, AF/BB, cheating. If you don't believe me feel free to goggle for these studies because I'm not going to do it for the nth time. If this is the case, isn't bluepillers advice for redpillers is same as rich person giving advice to poor person on how to make money ? It is! Go outside and touch some grass... Well one person goes outside and sees all these couples in dec…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 08:02 PM
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So for some reason, man can develop a preference for "crazy girls" and go down the path of self harm. That's a very purple pilled take from you, I'm disarmed, can't really argue with you anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 03:01 PM
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You should also listen to homeless people giving economic advices, because... there is a rather miniscule chance they are also economic geniuses. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:08 PM
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You have numerous studies confirming hypergamy is real... women want men with higher socio-economic status, men want pretty women. Shitload of studies on Wikipedia page on Hypergamy, just look under the references.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 01:39 PM
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Wasn't streamer Destiny married with a younger and hotter Melina... in an open marriage. Then she left him, demanded $100K from him and called him abusive? A guy which fails so miserably in his own relationship should really keep his mouth shut when it comes to relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 01:36 PM
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I guess this makes us horny... Top 100 Hottest Actors Of All Time So... if you are fat, you can get into shape. If you are short... most women do want a partner which is taller then them, so your chances are shittier. But I do know short mini-Chads, so not all is lost. If you have a receding jaw... save yourself the trouble and give up. Or earn lots of money so golddigers will act like they want to have sex. Feeling bitter about this will just hold you back.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:08 PM
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Well when you open PornHub do you search for... nice women with good personalities? I'm guessing no, because that doesn't really make you horny, does it? You need to see some nice tits, ass, maybe even something kinky. And I'm not going to shame you for that, because that's perfectly normal. Guess what, women are like that too! If you want us to want to have sex with you... you have to make us horny. Don't even try to shame us for being like you. The big difference is, men's T levels are much hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:40 PM
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Because personality isn't everything. If you are just being nice to me... you are a friend material. If you are being nice to me, and I find you hot, you are a boyfriend material. If you are hot but an asshole, some women (not me) will just have sex with you. If you are an asshole, and ugly... I don't even see you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:41 PM
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Social norms are not the same as laws. We do not have a homogenous set of social norms. Some people find older men pursuing 18yo women to be disgusting, some don't. Some people find 18yo OF models disgusting, some don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:46 PM
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There was also a study about money and happiness, and money does increase happiness (duh) up to a point. Once you have enough money to not worry about money... pay your bills, afford a vacation whatever, more money doesn't increase happiness. When looking for a guy, some women are gold diggers (again duh). But most women look for a guy which is in the "comfort zone" with his earnings, and more doesn't matter as much. I preferred boyfriends which were average (comfortable) with their earnings, ov…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:41 PM
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Like fuck it does, it just has diminishing returns. Try dating while you are living with your parents and don't own a car, and you see a huge difference. But difference between average and rich is not so big... diminishing returns.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 02:30 PM
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And another research "Our observations provide compelling evidence that the absence or excess of an X chromosome distinctly affects cognition and behaviors associated with ADHD." Women XX are predominantly diagnosed with inattentive ADHD. They are not hyperactive, have inhibitions, and are lower on the spectrum. Easier to mask, harder to diagnose. Men XY are predominantly diagnosed with hyperactive ADHD, have lower inhibitions, are higher on the spectrum. Harder to mask, easier to diagnose. Wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:10 PM
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X-chromosome variants help explain autism’s sex bias It's similar to hemophilia which is caused by defective gene on chromosome X. Since men have only one chromosome X, if they get the defective gene... they do not have gene for clothing blood protein. They become hemophilic. Women have two X chromosomes. If they get one defective and one healthy gene, women do not become hemophilic. Only if both X chromosomes are defective do women become hemophilic, which is a rare occurrence. Genetic variatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:41 PM
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It's undecided if this is a biological difference like a brain development stage or hormone effected. It could also be the way we handle children boy vs girl. Probably both, but it would be nice if sociology actually got some funding to find out how much is due to biological difference, and how much due to the way we handle children. Finland did some research, implemented some simple changes and they ended up with one of the best educational systems in the world. While we are spending billions o…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:21 PM
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You should see what our Narcissistic Personality Disorder mother did to my younger brother. I was a wildchild so she couldn't control me, but him... no amount of therapy can save him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 05:59 PM
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Pretty pathetic It's not productive to use this kind of language.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 05:00 PM
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They are being emotionally, socially stunned. And I can get their frustration for feeling like they were lied to. What I can't get is them being persistent about some evil conspiracy to cuck them... while it is blatantly obvious they weren't being properly socialized from early age. Sitcoms are not meant as educational program!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:39 PM
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And I disagree because: Early childhood development specialists say that girls seem to be better at social awareness and picking up on context clues in social environments or in language. So the ability to “read the room” this way and act accordingly might make them come off as “more mature.” If new generations are being raised increasingly emotionally, socially stunned, the results will be more obvious with the boys. From personal experience I am seeing that millennial women and men are not bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:34 PM
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It takes 18 years for a baby boom to start hitting work market, and politicians are focused on their own term.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:04 PM
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Because even without the AI we are already driving our society down said road. A study published on DatePsychology reports that almost 50% of young men between the ages of 18-25 said they have never approached women for dates in person. More then half of young men are single, and apparently not even trying. I don't see any politician tackling these problems, suggesting changes... nothing. We just use immigration to fix the problem by replacing population. So why regulate AI?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:56 PM
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Yeah but... you already have a bunch of people which are asocial. Just taking AI away from them doesn't really fix anything, it just serves to make them more miserable. You would have to have nation-wide programs to socialize people, and so far governments have shown 0 initiative to tackle that problem. And even if they do make children... broken people raising even more broken children. Seems better to salvage the healthy part of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 08:54 PM
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Wanna hear the good part. If you like your AI BF/GF who gives a fuck what society thinks? You don't need them anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:54 PM
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This so much. People know that romantic movies and porn are not real, yet they still experience pleasure consuming them. And I would argue that in the world where self centered people are in majority, most people will experience greater romance and sex by consuming media then in interacting with real people. Who cares if it's AI if you know that you would never be able to experience those things in real life? Also video games? We know they aren't real... but in game I get to slay the dragon and …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:52 PM
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Would seem like extremely shitty move because loneliness epidemics, housing crisis and other things contributing to failing birth rates remain unaddressed for decades. When lonely people actually find some (artificial) company... regulations?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:35 PM
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Yeah, on average, women will take longer to find out their relationship value, because they also have a sex value and those two differ and can only be distinguished by asking for relationship and getting rejected. Exactly. Physically attractive men will also often contribute their romantic success to their skill. Trust fund kids will also often contribute their financial success to their skill. Dumb luck is also often contributed to personal skill. But failure is usually contributed to bad luck.…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 02:52 PM
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Women are rejected for commitment by the men above their league. They learn that some men just seem them as sex partners but not as relationship partners. This is rejection and it does help women to narrow down their relationship value on the mating market. Yeah but, men get rejected right away, so it doesn't take much time to learn your league right? Women get approached by men which do not see them as relationship material, they can spend even years being a "forever girlfriend". The shitty par…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 02:04 PM
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It obviously is not that way. Why are men able to lower their standards to a point where they find a partner, but women apparently are not, in your view? Because people lower their standards after being rejected. Since men are doing most of the approaching, they face more rejection, it doesn't get long for them to adopt realistic standards. It's very easy to have inflated standards when you don't have to approach and risk rejection. How many people think they are 10's... how many people would ap…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 12:37 PM
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Keep yourself safe by being of low value 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 09:54 AM
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My step brother is doing this. He used his (inflated) wealth and status to attract women, so he attracted women which were... SUPRISE interested in wealth and status, not him. He married one such woman. 10 years into marriage they openly negotiate and trade with money, chores, sex. Now in social circles he will openly share his huge experience with women, by saying that all women are like that. While all of these other men just roll their eyes so far back they can see their brains. Which really …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 06:03 PM
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Oh my bad. I thought you were talking about postponing FIRST sex 😐 Well still, it's a bit more complicated. If your wife sometimes want's to have sex, and sometimes doesn't, then YES. When she doesn't want to have sex, she doesn't feel like it... as simple as that. If your relationship is transactional one, and your wife is using sex as a currency... why the hell did you start a transactional relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:38 PM
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This so much! Our town also has a couple of very hyperactive creeps, that every woman knows of because of how much energy they spend on giving women bad experiences. All of them are stalk women in alternative communities, all of them act nice. One of them is now in his 30's and he still dresses as a teenager and approaches young girls. I think something similar is happening to men here in a way with their perception of women, but that's a whole different can of worms. I'm almost certain it does,…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:25 PM
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Disagree. Women will withhold sex due to social norms, not wanting to come out as easy. If woman goes all the way to sex, with passion, then stops. She most likely wants to have sex. If woman doesn't show any passion for physical intimacy, and postpones it just leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:01 PM
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Oh I know, children are super sweet and deserving of all the love we can give. But I just couldn't pass the opportunity to make that joke 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 10:34 PM
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Not sure if very loving person. Or a pedo... 😐
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 09:23 PM
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Oh, I know members of both gender which nurture this idea of receiving unconditional love. And all of them gave off a narcissistic vibe. Never met anyone exhilarated by the idea of providing unconditional love though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 06:14 PM
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This so much. You can love someone but refuse to be their doormat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 06:12 PM
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These aren’t exclusively conservative qualities All of these are traditional values, so they are by default conservative. The bizarre part is people conservatives are conservative on every value, while progressives are progressive on every value. If that was the case, progressives would always want to completely rearrange everything, never stopping. While conservatives would completely stop every progress to conserve old way of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:48 PM
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In these plots loser usually gets something that makes him Powerful, yet still a social cripple unable to openly ask a girl to date him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 11:35 AM
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Oh so... Disney makes these movies to make people angry. Then Tate, Fresh and Fit collects all these billions. You should sell all your possessions right this moment, get indebted and start your own company. I'm sure that with your sense of business you will be the next Elon Musk next year.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 11:32 AM
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Fine, I'm taking it back. Women do not have a safety net. If you want to disapprove me, you have to prove me you have to prove safety net doesn't exist. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 11:26 AM
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Nice guys on the bottom see our safety net and they protest about life being unfair to men. Yet they don't see our glass ceiling. You only see privilege's you don't have.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 09:39 AM
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Yep. And there lies the underlying problem. What makes some boys see James Bond (as an example) and say "I need to become like that motherfucker to become successful". While some people watch Scott Pilgrim (again example) and say "I just have to be myself!". My money lies on the whole attachment theory thingy, people being shaped by their family more then anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 09:00 AM
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The good example is infamous Andrew Tate - this guy is a pimp and gangster, due to pure luck his yt channel succeeded, but usually guys like him end up dead or sucking dicks in prison. Yup. But you blue pillers will only call out example from the red side. Then perform mental gymnastics to ignore all the B.S. created by your side.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 08:50 AM
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You get to be assholes openly though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 08:24 AM
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Do not make me start listing movies in which shy unattractive guy ends up with a hot girl. Which is my point. We didn't had just such blue pilled movies. We had all kind of movies, including a shitload of them where attractive confident guy "get's the princess". People chose to watch what they like. Some men are eating those anime when loser gathers a whole harem of hot girls. Other men feel sick watching them. Some women were going crazy about 50 shades of grey. Other were rolling they eyes so …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 08:09 AM
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They sure as hell made a shitload of money so far. Apparently 'people got tired of Hollywood regurgitating old ideas and making reboots.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 08:04 AM
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Oh so people take influencers seriously, but don't take media seriously... because you decided so. Newsflash some people take media and influencers seriously, some don't. The thing is even if you know something is fake, it can still influence you. As an example did you ever feel bad because your favorite character died? While being fully aware it's just a movie character? You know how many people felt depressed after watching Avatar? A lot! How about being afraid while watching a horror movie...…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 08:03 AM
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The way I see it society always (I guess?) had a blue pill layer on top, but was red pilled below the surface. The blue pill being... cuddling, comforting. It's like women tell for all of their girlfriends they are a 10. Men agreeing it doesn't mater who the father is, telling their gf's they do not look fat in that dress. Mom's telling their sons they are beautiful. That sort of thing. But when it comes to the action. We know that whalezilla is not a 10, GF should really lose some weight, men s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:57 AM
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Oh so your take is that media isn't motivated by money? Wow you are so smart! You should write a book or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:13 AM
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Yeah, but that's a different subject. And what you have described is a double edged sword. Men are shallow and women are wonderful and deep. - Puts women in golden cage. Men do not get the safety net for being nice, but they also get to be assholes with minimal consequences, because... boys will be boys. Women get that safety net because we are all nice and bubbly, but we also get a glass ceiling, creating a "golden cage" When we start behaving like assholes, we get far more critique then men do…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:09 AM
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Why the hell would you ask internet women on when to approach?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:32 PM
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If we didn't have laws against it, would it be ok to kill people who didn't attack you? You would have people literally stealing houses at gunpoint. Nobody would bother building houses, because... you just steal them. And if you build a house then somebody just steals one from you. I would rather feel like a piece of shit in a warm home, then tap my shoulder for being moral, while freezing my ass outside. My point is, you can't say the system we live in is unjust, so I'll treat all individuals l…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:42 PM
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There are huge differences between different social circles, it would be extremely dishonest for me to tell you what's wrong and what isn't... because you really have to weight in all the pro's and con's on your own. In some social circles you get nothing for being nice, and you get no consequences for being an asshole. So being nice = shooting your self in the foot. In some social circles it's the other way around. And then there is everything in between. So don't ask internet strangers for the…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:53 PM
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Can you handle the social stigma of not playing fair? If the answer is yes, then by all means do knock yourself out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:30 PM
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But we do have laws dealing with murders, robberies and there are very clear consequences for breaking those laws. There is no law prohibiting lying, being manipulative... etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:26 PM
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Send some pics via message, let me take a look.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 02:52 PM
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lets say your rent is $300 per week So they can't take your home can they? They can only take your drivers licence. Since you are so poor that you can't pay child support, you obviously don't have a car, don't need a drivers licence. If you are professional driver judge won't take it away. Seeing how much money you earn and spend on rent. Trying to live in London on a shitty wage? Then can't support your kids because of it? Find roomates or move to somewhere where you can support your lifestyle,…
/r/MensRights11/02/24 09:27 PM
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Men do feel same emotions, although they are more emotionally numbed down (50% higher brain serotonin levels on average)... which in itself is not bad. The bad part is that men are often taught to repress their emotions, so a lot of them end up not being able to identify their own emotions. A man which has trouble identifying emotions is both unaware why these emotions emerge and can't really put a label on them. They can't say to themselves or others "hey this is making me feel X, because of Y,…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 07:28 PM
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Once you work with these people, you realize Intergenerational trauma has more to do with it then genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 07:10 PM
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You rarely have couples where one partner is problematic, and the other one is not. In social center, there is a wide chasm between single parents due to death of other parent. These people are usually caring parents, that do raise stable children with some "quirks". While divorcees usually had unhealthy relationship with their ex partners, and they go on to have unhealthy relationship with their children. When children grow up it shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 05:49 PM
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The big difference here is that men raising kids on their own are usually crème de la crème in terms of being a parent. And men usually become single parent because their wife died So girls and boys raised by single fathers usually are lacking on the emotional side, they seem cold, emotionally distant, they have trouble identifying their own emotions. But they also grow up to be self reliant, confident, masculine. While women usually become single moms due to divorce, where one or more usually b…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 04:44 PM
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PARENTS who REFUSE to pay.
/r/MensRights11/02/24 03:58 PM
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OR maybe you just have some curious physical deformity that women like to stare at. And you suck at reading body language. Who knows?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 10:24 AM
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72 hymens.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 12:35 PM
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i literally said "men aren't pigs" did you read? I did and a I agreed. They are not pigs. Well atleast most of them arent. most women never do either of these things Most women are not pigs either? i thought men were leaders? They were. Like a hundred years ago. you're saying they follow women? There are more women and we vote more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 11:46 PM
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Overused on the internet. If 9/10 doctors want to prescribe you antibiotics, and one doctors recommends healing crystals. Then doctors overuse antibiotics... because they actually work. Men are not wired to have sex with as many people as possible, nor are women wired for "muh hypergamy". Humans are higher order beings who don't operate on base instincts. Human behavior is spectrum. You sure as hell can find humans being driven mainly by their basic instincts, and humans being driven mainly by h…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 03:41 PM
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Young people vote less. Gen Z voted more then previous generations when they were young.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 01:25 PM
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In my experience (early millennial) women still paid social capital, just not as much as men. On the outside almost everyone was playing along with the "women are wonderful narrative". But in private... What will a mother say to her son when he starts dating a high N woman? If men don't care who the father is, how come there are so many single mothers on the dating market? People which actually sucked on this surface narrative that everyone was playing along got burned.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 12:21 PM
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men aren't pigs for wanting intimacy with women No they are not. Men basic biological drive is to have sex with as many women as they can. Men are not pigs for having said drive, they are pigs for following it. How do we call men that driven with said drive cheat, pump and dump, leave family for a younger woman, dodge paying child support... pigs, we call them pigs. Women basic biological drive is to have sex with most attractive guy, and secure resources from richest guy. What do men feel about…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 11:37 AM
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Yes! It's a part of body language, a very powerful communication method that some people are oblivious to. Looking people into eyes signals that you are giving them attention, and that you are confident. As for coming out as a creep or not, this man is looking at you, and this man is looking at you. Second man is hot, only because when I google "flirty gaze" all I get is hot guys. But look at all the nuances. Flirty guy is keeping his face at an angle, doesn't open his eyes too much, is giving a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 11:13 AM
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That's just the point dummy. There are only subtle differences when women are doing it to signal attraction. Plausible deniability.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 10:19 AM
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Men were considered "pigs" for following their basic biological drives. Which is what kept men's behavior in check. Women were immune to it, when women followed their basic biological drive... they could simply shift guilt on a man. Woman cheating on her husband could say it's because she didn't receive the attention she deserved. Now women are being held to same standards as men, which some present as tyranny but... don't want to be seen as a pig, don't act like one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 09:16 PM
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I thought he was the dumbest man alive at the time (still loved him) but down the line I understood him. I can't write what I did, but trust me, you would understand. Both of us are in happy relationships. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:59 PM
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I don't want to get married. The institution of marriage doesn't really mean anything anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:23 PM
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YES! I had a friend which was also very attractive, but humble, down to earth. She wanted a normal relationship, with a normal guy. Both of us were approached by narcissists, rich old guys, guys which were entirely thinking with their dicks, superficial men... I was so jealous of less attractive girls finding normal guys, having wholesome relationships. And at the same time too dumb to... get out in a pair of sweater pants. I had a crush for a friend, we really clicked personality wise. So I sig…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:12 PM
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Works on guys as well, although guys can't really apply all these nice colors we can. Actors, models, singers... they all wear a shit ton of makeup, but are made to look "natural".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:50 PM
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I think it's hard to interpret and a poor quality signal. That's the whole point. If I approach you and straight up ask you to be my boyfriend, you reject me... I can't take it back, can I. If I glance at you, let you see me glancing at you. I'm not really taking any risk at getting rejected am I. You could tell your buddies "that chick is crazy for me" and I could say "you wish, I keep looking at that ugly shirt you are wearing". Shitty part is, some women will do this to get guys to approach t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:48 PM
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Signaling attraction is looking at a guy then looking away? By that criteria, I have numerous women interested in me lol. It's going to have to be much more obvious for me to be honest. Doing this! Most women are very subtle when signaling attraction, so they can easily "take it back". They essentially signal men to approach them. I agree with women not approaching guys out of their league though. Even men don't approach insanely attractive women. Back when I was in college, I was very attractiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:03 PM
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No they wouldn't. Men are already doing the majority of approaching because women are super afraid of being rejected. Women way to signal attraction is to look at guy, and when guy looks back they look away... they signal the guy to approach them, while reducing the social cost of being rejected to bare minimum. If women were to approach they would avoid approaching men which are out of their league, out of fear of being rejected. OLD data shows, women having their standards sky high... except w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:15 PM
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the vast majority of men think they're perfectly average when really they're well below average. How can a vast majority of men be below average looking, if all physical attributes are divided by gaussian distribution?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 10:19 AM
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I had waaaaay more sex (and orgasms) with my boyfriend then women having hookups and one night stands. It seems easy for a woman to find sex by going to bars, and using dating apps. But... they have to go out, and every time it's a different guy, that shit is risky and shit. I have a dick at home. It initiates almost every day. I get to do kinky stuff. I got dicked down by my boyfriend more then Samantha Jones did. So what would you prefer? A woman which had TONS of sex with her boyfriend. Or a …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 03:51 PM
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different dicks of course. Has it ever occurred to you that maybe lot's of dicks do not make woman a bad relationship material. But bad relationship material ends up getting a lot of dicks? Because women tell me...? Most of the slutiest peers I had went on to become devoted Christian prunes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 03:42 PM
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Is it how much dick we had, or how many different dicks we had? Also how do you know how much dick we had?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 09:19 AM
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No it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 01:19 AM
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Nope. Believe it or not, being touched by a dick doesn't ruin you. I mean you guys wank your dicks all the time. The problem is women lose time with such men, and end up with emotional baggage. Just like men which were strung alone do... I mean, just look at guys in the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 12:36 AM
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...things get complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 09:02 PM
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Yeah bit in real estate market you still have regulations, laws, protections. Dating market is almost completely unregulated, no laws, no protections. So imagine a housing market in which you sell/rent a house, people move in, spend a couple of months living in your house while not paying anything. You kick them out but can't sue them for money. You could set the price of your house at one gazillion dollars, and people would still want to buy it. All of them would be scammers though... but good …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 07:57 PM
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New research provides the first empirical evidence that repeated experiences of rejection over time decrease people’s ideal standards for their romantic partners. Both genders lower their standards after being rejected. So if people want to have realistic standards, their best bet is to approach... after getting rejected they can figure out where they fit in this world. Reading this, it is not surprising that young women, and men which do not approach have higher and often overblown standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 07:04 PM
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After he said that cute femboy > fat girl He reached the pike of red pill and there is nothing left to be said really.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:28 PM
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A lot of online people are obviously mentally ill because they think women and men are two collectives of hiveminded clones. While they consider themselves to be a unique and special individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:26 PM
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​ But your definition of a confident man is just someone who drinks and gets high all the time so he can fake charisma, not someone who respects himself and his body. Never said that. Confident man is just... confident. The definition of confident man is... man with confidence. As I said confident man can be: - They got all of their shit figured out, which is great. But also... They lack the foresight. Either due to being downright delusional, or not giving a fuck abut what happens the day after…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:19 PM
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No dummy. Women find confident men attractive. For dumb women that's all it takes, smart woman will shit test. Same goes for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 03:00 PM
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Pains me to say this, but he is not wrong. Women feel attracted to secure, confident guys. Men can feel secure and confident if... - They got all of their shit figured out, which is great. - They lack the foresight. Either due to being downright delusional, or not giving a fuck abut what happens the day after tomorrow. Ironically guy which smokes in warehouse filled with explosives is more attractive. Until women figure out guy is just incredibly dumb, or warehouse explodes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 02:35 PM
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Unless we get the standard deviations, errors, sample size, and statistical significance calculation for these survey results, i will treat 16% (zoomers) vs 13% (boomers) as no statistically significant difference. Even 16% pales in comparison to number of people thinking "Done more good than harm". Also, you need to keep in mind that those surveyed people also voted for BREXIT, because they thought being in the EU has done more bad than good :) Younger generations voted to stay though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 11:19 AM
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I am amused that my niece went through the same path as I did. She was a devoted Christian up until around 12 then got all into science and became atheist while keeping the more noble Christian values. Then she turned agnostic, believing in something she doesn't bother to specify.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:44 PM
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It is. Men which love women unconditionally are the ones which actually love this ideal of simple, pure, innocent women. Of women being essentially puppies. And once we inevitably do not live up to this incredibly high standard they end up being butthurt. And no, it's not the media. Media displays women anywhere from pure innocent puppies to nasty bitches... men simply chose to watch media which fits their narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:17 AM
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Sometimes i think the internet is bad because we know too much about eachother now🤣 For me it was good, because before the internet I thought I was the weird one trying to pass off as normie. Now I know everybody is "weird" and trying to pass of as "normie"... but weird is actually normie.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 11:04 PM
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By learning to filter them out, and not letting them have a part in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 10:00 PM
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He lied about being a successful con-man, which ironically made him a successful con-man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 09:55 PM
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A lot of women claiming that wall isn't real would also lose their shit reading the dating over 30 sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 09:53 PM
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Only if we can't paint miniatures together.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 09:52 PM
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One guy had these very long hanging balls. Yeah we were making fun of it, but it wasn't a deal breaker .
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 09:50 PM
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I don't think it has anything to do with MeeToo movement, because the gender divide in the support of the movement was small. It's not like conservative men support rape and abuse of women. I think the divide is happening because left is focused on supporting women, minorities, LGBT. Making men feel alienated. As a leftist man you only get to be ally for other people causes. And right is focused on men. Gendered politics are causing greater and greater gender divide.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 01:34 PM
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I love it when people do this. Obvious ad hominem that you think you are subtle about, but you really aren't. I can do that as well. Why would I use an ad hominem attack, when we are not even arguing here. I genuinely asked, because there are lots of autistic men in this sub, and if you were one I would take that into consideration when writing my response. I don't mean this as an offense, but.. are you a moron? "Looks at my MENSA card" No. Let me try to summarize your logic on this topic from y…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 12:06 AM
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I don't mean this as an offense, but... are you autistic? You are making me write a rather long reply about something which should be obvious. People can describe you as a genuinely nice person, if they think you are. Offcourse you can be a deceitful little shit, can't you. In which case they will call you out as a "nice guy" only after you show your true colors. Being called a nice guy doesn't make you de facto a nice guy. Only you can tell your true inner motivations, and that is if you are be…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 11:35 PM
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Not what I'm implying either. Only you can know if you are doing something genuinely nice, or you are trying to indebt a person expecting a payback later.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 10:50 AM
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Good luck using my feelings to keep me a hostage. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:27 AM
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Not what I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:18 AM
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If that situation happens and the man leaves the kid behind because of it, he's totally an asshole. Totally not an asshole. Ditch the chick and go to court to keep custody of the kid you raised. Or just ditch the chick and let her keep her kid. If you dump the kid and the woman over the woman's mistakes, you're only making yourself look worse and making that kid the only victim in the situation. Nope, cuck simply stops being a victim from that day on. The faith of the child is now in it's biolog…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 10:27 PM
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Genuinely nice/kind guys generally do not describe themselves as such. Other people describe them as such. People which label themselves as nice, kind, empathic... and push that as their main trait are usually "nice guys".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 08:57 PM
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Tricked him into going outside. WIN!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:22 PM
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The fuck did I just read?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:21 AM
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Never. What's the point of dating when you have constant "post nut clarity" and can't fall for a guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:53 PM
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I go out and get various stds Gotta catch em all !!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 01:42 PM
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Criminal obviously. Due to all the butsek he get's in prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 11:48 AM
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Didn't even knew about Promise Keepers until just now. From a surface level understanding, I don't see anything wrong with them. They do not claim some God given right, they do not tell women what to do and how to behave. If men want to be chivalrous, heads of family... traditional, that's their right.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 03:39 PM
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A man which is better then women doesn't need laws to put him above women. He will climb to that position with his own capabilities. A man which is not better then women will try to use his own gender as a God given privilege to secure himself a position above women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 02:09 PM
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That would be my first cousin, which inherited dad's business, bought himself three far-too-expensive cars and reimagined his business into dumpster fire. Then instead of selling some of his assets and using the money to restart his life on more humble grounds. He spent the next two years hiding the cars and whining to everybody how life isn't fair. He couldn't even register them, so he had two luxurious cars hidden in rural barns while indebted and using a bus. To top it off one of the cars got…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 12:17 AM
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I actually like watching those post-apocalyptic movies because they make me feel comfortable. Just you, your friends and a bunch of really slow zombies which destroyed the exploitative economic system so you can't help but feel gratitude for their existence. I think modern horror movies should be about, getting fired, missing bill payments, having your utilities shut off, unplanned pregnancies, foreclosures, bankruptcy, hiding assets from repo men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 11:50 PM
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Men don’t get horny for purely nice women either though. They don't. Our raw uninhibited sexuality is actually quite simple and animalistic, however (most) humans have so many layers, different opposing needs, and we unconsciously compromise between them. Men and women do this. Red Pillers whine because our raw sexuality prefers best men, and they use most superficial women as proof that all women are like that. However male raw sexuality want's to fuck all women, and there sure as fuck are exam…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 11:45 PM
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OR men embrace media which fits their worldview, just like women do. We do have lots of old media in which women are depicted as being very selfish and cruel, plenty of female villains. We do have media in which "bad boys" are abusive as fuck. However men with anxious attachment embrace media in which beautiful women are wonderful. If she is behaving like a cold bitch, that's just her outside, inside she is a wonderful misunderstood person, and he can fix her. Women with anxious attachment embra…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 09:47 PM
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Healthy relationships are transactional in their nature. But we are doing it on subconscious level, we trade in emotions, we are shit with math, and we forget "debts". Take two friends as an example. They are having fun together, they make each other smile, they are willing to "borrow", they do not keep tabs, unless relationship starts becoming more and more one-sided. If your friend starts behaving more and more selfish, you will start drifting apart, and eventually you will leave them. They do…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 09:40 PM
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You are conflating needs and wants. So what? If all of your needs are taken cared of, but you can't even reach your wants... you will be more depressed then that kid in Africa that has to walk 20 miles each day just to grab water.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 09:30 PM
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I believe this has to do with the whole attachment theory thing. People with anxious attachment style are pre-dispositioned to become blue pilled simps. They are emotionally needy, they see other people in positive light, themselves in negative light. They will put (beautiful) women on the pedestal, project everything great on them. They will end up disappointed and burned. People with avoidant attachment style are opposite, they are pre-dispositioned to become red pilled fuck boys. They see the…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 09:23 PM
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Because they eat 8,000 calories a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 09:12 PM
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Eeeeew 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 09:10 PM
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The pills are supposed to be some uncomfortable truth. Some world shattering thing you need to accept, but it strikes me as a lot more comfortable than the alternative. No, this is what Red Pills are supposed to be. And it's not just limited to dating. I would argue that blue pilled people sure as fuck do take a red pill when they find out women don't get horny for nice personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 09:09 PM
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I'm also sick of conventional super hero movies. But can't wait for Deadpool 3, Joker: Folie à Deux and new season of The Boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 09:05 PM
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If you don't need nobody why be in a relationship to begin with? Because it's enjoyable? Because it's fun? Because it has many benefits? So you need somebody to have fun, enjoy yourself, have benefits? What a simp! /s I disagree that people need each other. It's a dangerous belief that breeds neediness and fear of loss. It's the single most unattractive quality person can have and it affects men disproportionately. A needy woman can still get a guy to at least fuck get and treat her as a placeho…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 09:03 PM
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For a woman having your own income is more important. Because if I find myself in a situation where my partner turns out to... not be a nice person. If I can sustain myself, finding another man is an afterthought. For men it seems to be their SMV, being able to find another women is the difference between a man which can establish healthy boundaries, and dump a GF if needed, and a doormat.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 08:50 PM
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The basis of all non-family relationships is that people need each other. Every good, stable relationship is in it's essence a transitional one. And I am a bit angry that modern society describes these relationships as something bad. Transitional relationships are described as two sterile accountants which play zero sum game and keep tabs on each other. This is not how humans with fully functioning brains work. Codependency is described as toxic relationship, because obviously one of the partner…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 08:24 PM
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I think BIG part of the problem is that our age of searching for a serious relationship and getting married has moved to late 20's And in late 20's we have less casual intersex socialization where we could get to know each other, become friends, organically grow into a relationship. All of which turns worse and worse as we age. When I was in my early 20's, I went to college and I was working. I was socializing a lot with people around my age, around 50-50 split between genders, and most of them …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:43 PM
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"One man's trash is another man's treasure" and vice versa. "Beauty is in the eyes of beholder" Men often complain that women skip them in order to chase after a man which is less valuable then they are. They see themselves more valuable then another man. But she sees that other man more valuable. Her perception is more important when it comes to her choosing a man. So the guy that sees himself as more valuable can just shrug or complain on PPD about it. Same goes for women. We can see ourselves…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:06 PM
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