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REMINDER 👑Dolphin_Moon/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 04:06 PM
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Not necessarily but did ask what I was doing at the end of April to take a possible trip together. And he said he wasn’t looking for a situationship. A lot of non answers though which took a bit for me to realize.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 02:14 AM
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????
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 02:08 AM
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Wow that was actually really helpful. Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 12:40 AM
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The last text I sent was when I got home on Friday night after he told me to text him and I said I had a really nice time thanks again blah blah blah I haven’t sent anything since but figured he would have texted me first by now
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 11:49 PM
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i never enjoyed casual sex for one, I definitely enjoy feeling sexual and desired and want to share physically intimacy with someone im getting to know which is all normal in my eyes The dudes who pump and dump? Make no sense to me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 11:37 PM
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i am assuming everyone reads my posts by now and points and laugh which is honestly ok, i have trouble making a decisive decision which i am working on. anyways, its been 4 days now and have not heard from the guy i slept with on date 4. typical and expected ngl. my friends (including guys) are saying to text him and ask him how he is doing for clarification but in my gut i don’t think this is the right thing to do. Do i really need him to spell out he isn’t interested? and he clearly doesn’t re…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 10:57 PM
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Thanks for the input! Good questions
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 08:04 PM
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only had sex once. prior was just a lot of kissing and grinding with clothes on. and thanks for the input, i agree. i am not going to push it further, and i am assuming now he got some post nut clarity at least lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:52 PM
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exactly. i don't get it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:42 PM
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Typed this as I woke up so will try to be more clear. sorry if this is long. We were intermittently kissing and getting a bit frisky throughout the evening and he was like "do we have to wait until you're done your shift to finally do this" bc I got him so riled up. This was way before clothes got taken off. I then tried to start the conversation of sex and what not and I am taking sex a bit more seriously after taking a year off blah blah blah. He kept saying "I get that" after I talked about i…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:39 PM
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nope thats me. that never happened. this is a different guy (so for clarification: im just seeing one man right now)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:13 PM
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No I said this before we had sex
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:05 PM
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Who wants to decode manspeak!!! Had a 4th date w a guy yesterday, and we were at his apartment. More of a chiller date which was fine w me, and after much back n forth we finally had sex. I wanted to do it and theres only so much making out/heavy petting you can do before you’re like AHHH!!! Before we had it I told him I am trying to take who I have sex w a bit more seriously and am not looking for just super casual. I said I’m looking for something a bit more substantial and can grow a bit. He …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 05:29 PM
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I just don’t wanna fuck right away, I would like to get to know him more. I don’t mind physical touch I just don’t want to get naked yet 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:04 PM
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A honest answer. Thanks lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:39 PM
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No I barely know him
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:22 PM
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Yeah unfortunately I was excited about this one a bit - time to let that go lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:10 PM
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Sucks bc I would like to spend time w him but ya its pretty obvious ugh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:03 PM
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Here i am again Its been a bit but, guy is inviting me to his place for takeout and a movie for a 2nd date. The weather outside is gonna be awful, like major snow storm so I understood but..He just wants to have sex right??? I plan on texting him prior saying I don’t want funny business to escalate to set a clear boundary beforehand but sigh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:59 PM
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No romantic spark unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 03:32 AM
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Its a diff guy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 11:01 PM
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Nope and I paid for the last date we were on actually!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 10:33 PM
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He replied and said hope I feel better and asked what works for me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 09:29 PM
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I expect to not hear from him but I’m being truthful 🤷‍♀️ Told him first round on me if we get to a day that works. Life just does this to me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 07:59 PM
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This is a great response! Thank you, I appreciate it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 07:37 PM
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This is why I hate posting in here. I have offered other days
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 07:36 PM
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I have tried rescheduling with this guy twice now for a date and I got food poisoning last night and feel bad about canceling and rescheduling again but I fr feel like garbage so I think I may have to take the L with this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 07:09 PM
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I said yes to the second date bc I wanted to go on it!!!! Good lord
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 12:03 AM
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He paid for two beers good lord do I owe him my life??
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 11:58 PM
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I just am not in the mindset of schmoozing around atm
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 11:57 PM
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We went on one date…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 11:57 PM
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I hate leading people on. And exerting myself on dates. I genuinely liked getting to know him and just want to see if any other spark hits. If not I have to send him a I’m not feeling it text unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 11:50 PM
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Yes essentially unfortunately. I took a break around xmas and its just time for another one
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 11:42 PM
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We had a nice enough first date last week I think I needed a second date to just make a better assessment if we have chemistry
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 11:42 PM
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i have a date tonight that i am absolutely dreading and i think after tonight im officially deleting my apps and gonna try to volunteer, go out when i can solo, and clean up my life a little. Having that great first date ghost on me after i told him when i was free and he completely dodged me made me wanna slither back into my cave and not get flirty again unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 11:22 PM
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Not my best moments but they were fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 08:42 PM
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No comment 🤐
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 08:42 PM
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I almost got into a car accident driving on a major highway driving to a dick appointment. And I walked alone out of his apartment at 3am he didn’t even walk me to my car lol in a major city. Had sex underneath a mounted deer head in his bedroom…that he hunted
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 06:33 PM
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I have been in too many situations where I shot my shot and the guy was just saying yes to go through the motions. For the second date its too early for me to ask and initiate plans, the 3rd date would be good for that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 06:31 PM
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Sooo the date on Wednesday went really good, we spent six hours together and he kept wanting the night to keep going which was super nice. There was a small smooch at the end but we were in a subway station and I kept laughing how we were kissing in a subway station lol. The conversation flowed very well and I honestly have not had that good of a date in years He said he wants to do it again and we have texted consistently but I’m only free Mon or Tues next week and unsure when to bring this up?…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 06:07 PM
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Big assumption there
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 06:23 PM
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i have a date tomorrow! And very nervous!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 07:04 AM
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Love island
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:21 AM
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Its been 3 years I finally got covid Im fucking delirious rn
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:21 AM
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“Hey” is so low effort. Good for you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 07:42 AM
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its so tough not to let it get to ya. i fr have felt confident lately and it just plummeted. i didn't even recognize myself, i have been upset now this whole night lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:55 AM
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for the fitness people here (cause i see yall talking about body fat, cardio a lot here) i am prolly the healthiest i've been since i was 16 and rowing. i run 2-3 miles everyday, strength train and have a good balanced diet. i do have some fat on me (thighs, stomach) but just part of being a woman. i am not overweight. i still have so much cellulite in the dressing room today, the lighting made me wanna die. literally all over my thighs and ass. everyone in my life considers me the healthiest pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:39 AM
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Got it now in the group chat! Ty🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 11:09 PM
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Whats the link 😭 Feel free to DM me it I may have missed it 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:41 PM
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This is a true point. He also oddly reminded me of my first college boyfriend which i think triggered the warning signs but i kept looking over it as i found him attractive. i knew in my gut it was getting toxic but i kept thinking it would change which still bothers me. I knew it was unhealthy and reached a point of no fun anymore but i had some hope Also thought it could have ended without fading out each other bc we spent literally four months talking every day. But he just blew up my phone c…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:34 PM
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you know its been like 3 months since i last heard from the dude who i stupidly got attached to from the summer i still think about him from time to time yet i really didn’t like him all that much. he had v bad qualities as a person. Yet idk why it still makes me upset as to why it ended so weird. Ugh i guess bc in the good moments it was really good, but the bad moments were REALLY bad
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:23 PM
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My peak horny time is like 2pm. Just has always been like this 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:11 PM
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Lmaoooo
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:10 PM
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Coffee fr just makes me sweat and get insanely horny in the morning. SOMEONE EXPLAIN
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 06:13 PM
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I think the issue with r/seduction is that its a game to get women in bed and how many you can “pull” is the overarching theme. I have actually read thru that sub and in some posts they have decent advice on how to amp up sexual tension and all that but it gets creepy at some points and some dudes keep continuing trying to “game” when its clear the girl isn’t interested
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 06:12 PM
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I think this will be the first year I don’t get random “merry Christmas” texts from men from my past. Very happy about that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 02:35 AM
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24f, 11 including two who were just oral. (They went down on me, I didn’t go down on them). Oral sex is more intimate to me so I always included it and some guys I have slept with we didn’t do oral just PIV
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 12:55 AM
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merry xmas to yall. been a weird year but hope you all enjoy your time
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 08:15 PM
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Only if we were genuine friends outside of sex. I think for a situationship then something small
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 08:11 PM
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Ur fr the first person who has had positive things to say about this 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:58 AM
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Q4M: if yall really liked a gal, and she had a non 9-5 work schedule, and worked weekends, would you still try to make it work? Or would that be a dealbreaker
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:25 AM
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I am a nyc woman😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 12:44 AM
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Yeah I do wanna try going out solo but not dressing slutty. It too cold.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 12:33 AM
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pause my account more and focus on only a handful of guys at a time. Try to meet up within 1-2 weeks, asking them upfront what they are looking for, and the moment they get douchey or creepy i delete them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 12:11 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 12:08 AM
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dating apps have officially overwhelmed me. time to take a break and try again in the new year and approach it differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 12:08 AM
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Damn really?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 05:04 AM
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24f, straight. People aren’t really clear if N count is just PIV or oral, w oral my count is 11. Have had PIV sex with 9 men, and the other two just went down on me. Not all men I have slept with have I done oral with so its a mixed bag. I consider mine higher in my friend group but then out and about I realize mine is low. Its weird. I consider high to be like 20+ people by age 25. Triple digits is insane to me and I think thats a dealbreaker. I would probably wanna date a man around the same a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 05:58 PM
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In a handful of my previous flings/relationships its always been me pouncing on him more for sex. I have a high sex drive and for a romantic relationship/dynamic to blossom in my eyes I wanna be sexually attracted to him. Once I am comfortable with someone I can relax and get super turned on easily. I don’t do hookups and have to resort to sexual frustration when I am single 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 06:50 PM
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not at all lol. i am not good at dodgeball either! so i wouldn't expect someone to be super good at it. i signed up for the intermediate level, so hoping its a good mix of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 01:44 AM
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feel the need to update. (Yes, no one asked) Single in a new city. I signed up for a dodgeball co-ed league for this winter. I honestly hope to meet friends and get outside my comfort zone more. Also still tryna muster up courage to go sit at a bar alone😭
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 12:25 AM
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im 24 and i agree w this statement
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 07:42 PM
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I don’t really have a nice family and I like reflecting on the year but it overall feels sad these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 07:14 PM
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anyone else hate the holidays? I hate xmas and NYE. Overrated imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 07:11 PM
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Shes just being nice dude calm down
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:24 AM
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I plan to get into volunteering but I do miss like going out and mingling at bars and stuff:/. I feel like my youth is being wasted inside 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 01:53 AM
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I sleep until noon to 1. I exercise, run errands. Its really tough especially as I work friday- Saturday nights
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 01:41 AM
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Working from home (someone else mentioned this in the thread) is kinda driving me insane. I miss socializing. I wanna bring my work laptop to a bar but i think i may feel weird im 24…work 6pm to 2am…its weird
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 12:59 AM
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Yes. He smelled good, had a deep voice and I wanted to pounce on him 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 03:33 AM
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Salted caramel 🙌🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 06:47 AM
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You have the same pfp as someone else here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 06:29 AM
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hm maybe i confused you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 04:45 AM
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Aren’t you the one who would say im for the streets 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 04:41 AM
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Haven’t been here in a few days. How is everyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 04:10 AM
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It depends on your connection to the person. My ex and I had mindblowing connecting sex and it isn’t comparable to the animalistic one night stand I had years ago. Different guys 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 12:05 AM
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Worried i may come across as clingy or something but maybe might send another one if i feel up to it later this week but sick of feeling silly :/
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 03:28 AM
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thought to reach out again but ik if he felt better and was interested he would def say something
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 03:18 AM
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my friends told me to say like “hey just checking in” along those lines but idk feels weird to do that when im the one that threw the ball back in his court. U would think a smooch means ya im into this girl but idk 🤷‍♀️ part of me wants to do it but also ik im gonna look like a FOOL
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 03:18 AM
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so the guy i smooched after a good date two weeks ago kinda lost momentum from the holiday. i told him last Tuesday im back in the area if he is still down to get together and he said he is down but he is sick and he said might be recovered by the weekend and to be determined. (then i got sick smh). i said feel better and of course just let me know when you are up to it. its been almost a week. Nothing since. i dont wanna double text as no answer is an answer but ngl im kinda bummed. He told me …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 03:10 AM
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Yeah no i def agree. Trying to be more specific with my analysis has helped so far
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 12:11 AM
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so far most of the answers are something along the lines of me having some type of low self esteem, scared to speak up on boundaries, and thinking I can’t do better
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 12:11 AM
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trying this new thing instead of thinking “what did i do wrong” i think “why did i put up with this for so long” and so far. Really learning a lot lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 12:07 AM
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Brrruuuuuuutaaalll
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:51 PM
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I have a headcold. Hate it here
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 06:09 AM
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Yeah pipe down dude
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:18 AM
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I think a lot of the comments about her got super weird and creepy and gross. Wasn’t just shes a pretty gal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:15 AM
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We were on the beach like 30 feet away still. Pretty harmless. Men stare and oogle at women all the time and then have the audacity to catcall
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 09:53 PM
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Pretty much exactly how I felt staring at him swimming
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 09:30 PM
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Let me procrastinate
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 09:25 PM
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I would have never have a chance anyways lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 09:23 PM
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just remembered in summer of 2020 my friend and i saw a literal 10/10 specimen. This dude was a greek god chiseled on the jersey shore beach like every woman including us was just standing and oogling at him swimming in the ocean. This dude was blonde hair blue eyes, abs, deep v, lean- literally a swimmers body. My friend and I pretended to chat just to get closer to the ocean to watch him swim. Wtf was he doing at the JERSEY SHORE You don’t run into a 10/10 like that everyday😭 I need to go lay …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 09:16 PM
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Cornhole, soccer, bowling, football and dodgeball
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 06:38 PM
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Thinking volleyball
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 06:20 PM
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Planning to join a co-ed sports league and I am a little nervous
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 06:19 PM
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Its interesting to think these guys might be in the top 20% bc I just don’t think they are insanely hot Chris Evans level. One of them definitely can get girls but he rides on the fact he is liberal and well, the bar is low so I don’t blame that at all. Also really depends on area, some of these guys in NYC terms are not that top tier while I think compared to middle of nowhere they would be 10/10. Ok now I am rambling this is how PPD affected me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 06:17 PM
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Yeah they are above average but definitely no chads. I am well aware of a decent good looking man definitely has pussy thrown at him
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 05:51 PM
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Definitely not chads. But I think its hard for me to make an assumption as I need to get to know them more so unsure. I am open to a second date w all of them though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 10:18 PM
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Not really no. No significant difference
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 10:09 PM
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Yes. Helps a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 07:36 PM
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U got a point
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 07:26 PM
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haven’t really heard a peep from any of the men i went out w last week. assuming they are traveling, seeing old friends, its a major holiday weekend. gonna text one of them tomorrow i think since the ball was left in my court. (its my first friday night off in 3 months and wanna not look at my phone). one dude on bumble has messaged me FOUR times. Like spanned out over days. Like dude. Cmon now
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 07:09 PM
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I use an mp3 player still for running. I love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 07:05 PM
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I understand but literally every situation is different. Also I bet 1000% these guys are planning other dates w different women as well. That’s literally the point of dating
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 06:51 AM
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LOL here I am 👋 These were all first dates and I don’t have any more planned atm. Just chatting. I offered to split the bill and they insisted to pay. I am single young and hot and wanna get to know people. Sue me 🤷‍♀️ Now sex? I plan on only sleeping w one man at a time when it gets to that point. I also do not have any fwb on the side smh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 06:39 AM
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He said to let him know when I am back in the area after thanksgiving this week so fingers crossed 🤞
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:56 AM
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Date went really well last night or better than expected. He was more nervous than me and I didn’t know if he was gonna make a move or not at the end and I turned to give him a hug and then he kissed me and I was like OH lmao. Then I laughed and said let’s try that again and it was a lot better. I genuinely had no idea he wanted to kiss me he was giving no hints at all. And I had alcohol and kept giggling in between kissing 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:32 AM
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This was a first time meeting/date situation. I truly had no expectations and I doubt he did either. He knew my age prior and still asked me out so 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 07:29 PM
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He doesn’t model anymore (or as much according to him). Mostly side gigs every now and then. His job life seemed more unstable
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 07:27 PM
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I have a full time salaried job and his job is definitely more unstable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 07:27 PM
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He definitely wasn’t flexing. Idk the vibe I got was I felt waaaay too straight edge for him. We were able to have good conversation but I also felt insanely insecure since the four years and he modeled. Don’t know if it was a bit much
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 07:13 PM
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Is 28 to 24 really that bad. Also he knew my age before asking me out 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 07:06 PM
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Very possible. I consider myself mature for 24 and was honestly surprised he asked me out on another date considering he mentioned it like 4 times about how theres a generational difference
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 07:06 PM
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Came back to say that the 28 year old I went out with yesterday mentioned the age difference more than me and it made me …a bit uncomfy. All of yall told me “men don’t care” and he asked me out for a second date but it was evident he felt like “much” older than me even tho I am only four years younger. Food for thought
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 07:00 PM
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This is not a good sign imo. Any guy that flexes like this is a walking red flag. Plenty of other guys to give your time too. I would be 100% put off by this
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 06:56 PM
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enemies becoming..friends??😳
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 03:13 AM
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might come back after a sippy sip 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:13 AM
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Possibly. Right now I am in a much better spot than July thru September though. So until then I am going to try to enjoy things lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:07 AM
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been working out more and i am moved officially & have dates/hangouts planned and realizing this sub is incredibly toxic. i will check in every now and then since i enjoyed some of yall and would like to keep in touch🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:51 PM
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Ik one girl with like 50+ funko pops I graduated college with. She is batshit crazy and complains why men don’t wanna sleep with her (she is unfortunately overweight and a horrible personality) So as I would think its a bit weird, if its a few it doesn’t matter. Not a dealbreaker tho
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:00 AM
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borderline by tame impala😩
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:55 PM
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Not checking this thread for a few days has done wonders for my self esteem and mindset
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:26 PM
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im 24f, two years outta college now and in a major city so tryna revive my dating life as it died during covid in college lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:40 AM
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I was trying to keep it short & sweet! All of them are from OLD so I think they are vetting me just as much as I am vetting them. I am not planning on sleeping w anyone until I feel serious and good about it so they are all truly getting a fair chance. I definitely just don’t wanna mix up any info but I think I am ok w that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:31 AM
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might have 3 dates planned for this weekend…am i mentally prepared? Not at all but I think it’ll be good for me to chit chat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:20 AM
2

Some were back to back for sure others were more spaced out
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 10:31 PM
2

This was very informative thank you 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:43 PM
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Like 5 mins? I had 10 within a hour once 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:16 PM
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Not one bit. Been down that road before in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:09 PM
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I did that ish over the summer and still recovering
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 07:11 AM
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back on the night grind: overthinking all my flings & why i didn’t cut things off sooner 😇
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:44 AM
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idk the statistics 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:34 AM
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i just think im not at the same spot in life as a 28 year old and makes me wonder why he doesn’t date someone closer to his age
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:17 AM
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Ill have you know plenty of men have told me I am a great conversationalist 💅🏻 even AFTER the pumping and dumping
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:16 AM
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idk i do not feel mature at all compared to a 28 year old i had a 33 year old hit on me directly in front of my 31 year old sister and i felt mighty uncomfortable knowing he was older than my siblings
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:13 AM
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the age difference isn’t much but making me feel…Concerned
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:10 AM
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damn was it you 😳 he seems normal i am open to it i just think all late 20s dudes see gals in their mid 20s as expendable lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:08 AM
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i never said that. i just think the age difference is ..A little diff and concerned. Esp after 7 weeks of silence. This is not coming from a place of ego my man
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:06 AM
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im 24f and 28m just texted me out of the blue to get a drink this week…im assuming he just wants to smash? We have never met before so this would be a first date, texted briefly in sept but life got busy and he re-texted me again he is pretty good looking so idk why else hes hitting up a 24 year old again from hinge
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:03 AM
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Sounds like she is being friendly, keep chatting w her normally see how she responds then maybe ask her out
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:04 PM
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I didn’t bleed at all which surprised me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:03 PM
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University of Virginia
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 05:50 AM
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Shooting at UVA :/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 05:40 AM
1

Then I have been doing it very wrong for quite some time 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:56 AM
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I do have some cellulite and would like to get rid of that. I enjoy running but trying to run is exerting half my energy that I could be using more for resistance training. Do you think doing a 20 min cardio warm up is good to mix in with weights?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:33 AM
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Feels like it would be very strategic recomping but I don’t wanna do that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 01:32 AM
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Yes oop
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:47 AM
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yall is it easier to lose weight than gain muscle or try to gain muscle while losing weight...i've always lost the weight first then gained muscle but the weight never stayed off also checking this sub and i only recognize like 3 usernames now wtf WHERE DID EVERYONE GO
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:28 AM
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😐
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 12:34 AM
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Took some photos today and i swear i truly do not know what i look like
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 12:04 AM
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Sounds like the girls you sleep with are kinda dumb lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 06:02 AM
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Y do i have a feeling ik who this is🤨🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 03:47 AM
2

Incredibly embarrassing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 02:55 AM
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Funny how someone said 8 and you said 40 lmfao. Like the range is big here. I think 30+ is high but depends on age
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 01:13 AM
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Noted
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 01:10 AM
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Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 01:08 AM
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What do yall even consider a “high body count” here
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 01:05 AM
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My first thought would be questioning his intentions for sure but I believe people can turn around. Now tho I would be thinking in a relationship he would just continually pay for hookers vs just a dude w a high ass body count Also just proves he has zero game to land a lady
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 12:36 AM
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24f here, been told I am a 7 (whatever that means). I am only counting guys that I saw for longer than a month here but think I have dated down more-so. Gave some fugly dudes a chance and they still went on and on about how women ain’t shit blah blah blah. The super hot guys I have dated we just didn’t mesh personalities well and it was like talking to a wall. Theres a few guys tho where I think we have been on the same level. Guess it comes down to what is important
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 12:23 AM
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Bc I want emotional intimacy to grow lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 02:34 AM
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Im 5’4 and wish i was a bit taller, like 5’6. This is what i get for hitting puberty at age 10
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 11:57 PM
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It felt like more I was being punished when I was in the mood and even when I wasn’t. It was only ok to fuck when these guys were horny - not me. Just bad communication all around ig
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 11:03 PM
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As much as I have been a sex forward woman in about 4 flings/relationships. I feel like most of the guys I’ve talked to lose interest once I wanna jump their bones and then only wanna fuck when they are in the mood and if I’m not in the mood at the rare occasion they say I’m “no fun”. They tell me I get turned on too easy yet the few times I have said I have had a long day and don’t wanna fool around I get a pouty face from them. Or if I start escalating sex they stop and say a comment about how…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 10:52 PM
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where are you studying? I feel like medschool students judge the shit out of one another
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 10:46 PM
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I wanna know if I give off a casual vibe and if my prompts could be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 07:19 AM
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Oh I completely agree. I plan on joining some activities but think its ok to keep the apps on, just not doing it all the time. I still think its a decent tool to meet people
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 01:19 AM
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yeah not sharing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 12:41 AM
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nah im not lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 12:41 AM
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thank you! didnt even think of that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 12:37 AM
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anyone on here who isn’t a creeper wanna give me honest feedback about my dating app profile😭 feel like yall would keep it real at least even tho most of you kinda are meanies edit: it has been decided I ain’t doin it here! Thank you 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 12:35 AM
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Link to the post?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 07:10 PM
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I don’t cut things off when it’s evident I am being treated with disrespect or men start projecting things onto me. I stand my ground for their “potential”. And I get more and more upset as I realize I become disappointed their potential isn’t real and it becomes super hard for me to walk away. I need to communicate my boundaries more as I let people walk all over me. I have slept w men who don’t care about me and hoped they would change and when it doesn’t I ruminate about it and think it was m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 06:59 PM
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then we must duel 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 04:43 AM
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can’t we be friends 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 04:32 AM
6

SHAPIRO BABY
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 04:17 AM
1

Anyone got any reccs for movies to watch
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 11:09 PM
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ik when i feel ready to try to date again vs when im not. Now this doesn’t include if a relationship pops out nowhere obvs
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 09:45 PM
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Nah I am definitely well aware of my attachment style lol I luckily have never been needy tho w guys upfront…if i get a signal something isn’t working im able to back off. My freakouts happen behind the scenes in the girls groupchat 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:51 PM
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you know me too well 💔😔
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:38 PM
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i think of myself as a reasonable catch of a gal yet i sometimes just think i will be much better off not in a relationship as i still have self esteem issues. sooo plan is therapy then try to date and not feel so beaten down
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:33 PM
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I am a woman lmfao and believe me my guy friends all the time tell me “fr you can get dick easy you’re hot” but i want something more emotionally satisfying than just boinking Men take sex bc they don’t know when they won’t get it again meanwhile I am not actively seeking it smh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:33 PM
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i wanna fuck but don’t wanna …become emotional 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:30 PM
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another day of being a whore but only in theory 💔💔💔😔😔😔😔 ( horny midday is a crime )
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:26 PM
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I need the birth control to stop my uterus from literally killing me so, if this happens I will leave the country
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 12:46 PM
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Will Sharpe is half Japanese wtf u talking about 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:47 AM
1

Anyone watching white lotus The dude who is aubrey plaza’s husband …wowowowwieiiwiwieowowowieiowown🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:31 AM
1

***never gonna slap it AGAIN 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:30 AM
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last night i didnt't overeat dinner and woke up feeling a lot better. goal to be down 5lbs in a month is a-go that said i work a 10 hour shift tomorrow and nothing makes ya lose ur appetite more like stress!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 12:58 AM
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u must be a real winner w da ladies ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 05:29 PM
1

what do yall do for hobbies
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 05:24 PM
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What about my personality 😩😩😩
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 03:27 AM
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this is on a lot of dating advice subs too tho
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 03:26 AM
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Ok if u say so
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 02:49 AM
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Bread & dairy free ben & jerrys 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 01:58 AM
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I exercise for awhile per day but overeat. I can easily binge unfortunately. Need to do less carbs at least
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 01:25 AM
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5’4 and 140
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 01:15 AM
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im very comfortable in my body and like how i have ass & thighs but wanna work on losing some tummy. So i think only like 7lbs? But I am bound to lose some weight around my thighs too bc thats how it goes. That is my goal this winter. And that means no more sweet stuff 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 01:12 AM
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I had sex on the beach w another local in the beach town. I was 18, he was 19. It was a nice first time tbh. We talked, then got down to business at like 2am under a full moon the beach. Nice memory. Purely only a hookup situation. I remember thinking “thats it?” As he put it in lol. Then he got to nervous people would catch us after like 5 mins and he just fingered me He tried hitting me up this past spring funnily enough five years later.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 01:08 AM
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140, 24, 11
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 01:06 AM
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What lol if anything she gave me a compliment 😭 i just was so tired
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:34 PM
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No, I would be more interested if he just uses the same toys on a bunch of different women. I prefer to just bring my toys into the bedroom
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:22 PM
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i don't wanna check this thread until later, later Virgins
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:41 PM
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i am very burnt out and getting annoyed by everything. i had to work an extra hour last night bc of the fucking daylight savings and then had to do a phonecall at 3am and the person started asking me what college i went to and how young i look in my slack photo lol ma'am i am 24!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:40 PM
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Nah I think everyone just has differences in what’s important to them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:51 PM
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I think it comes down on how we all view sex. Some of my friends just don’t care for it and it isn’t important in their relationship. I think for me its the biggest thing to wanna rip off someones pants but im probs not a good example bc i have been w guys i like in bed but then out in public i am like “what do i see in him”. Soooooo im working on this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:13 AM
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my sex drive is decently high for a gal compared to my friends at least, im only 24 so i hope it lasts for many years tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:53 AM
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Its up there which doesn’t make sense bc I am exhausted
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:39 AM
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less overwhelmed but more exhausted and still just as horny :/ 24 and spending my sat night working 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:29 AM
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Hm yeah time for a diff friend group
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 12:27 AM
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Wait so you fucked one of them yet are friends still? Did it end amicably? Hopefully you can find your group
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 12:25 AM
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Im 24 my man
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 12:17 AM
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stressed horny & overwhelmed 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 11:07 PM
5

You need to change instructors
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 11:05 PM
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i know im making a bad eh decisions but then i go thru with it anyways and regret it so im not one to talk <3
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 06:35 PM
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I know thats why im concerned for my friend😭
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 05:57 PM
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yall know me i have bad taste in dudes but this just got outta hand like
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 04:12 PM
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Yeah its just becoming a horrible echo chamber when its like theres a difference between men that suck and men who are full blown crazy cheaters. Like. Also some grown ass women post EVERY dude they start texting and are like “ladies any tea??” Im like just text and meet up w him first girly😭
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 04:11 PM
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im part of the “are we sharing boyfriends” fb page/groups and this proves to me men and women both suck horribly. it was created to warn about cheaters and abusers and now its becoming women sharing dating app convos that aren’t that bad and being like “GIRLS stay away 🛑” and then half the comments are women saying he didn’t do anything wrong and the others are “girl you are a QUEEN!”. And the funny thing is, these women haven’t met these guys? It makes me mad bc it was created to warn about rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 04:06 PM
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All the time. She loves him for who he is, and likes taking care of everything
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 03:30 PM
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Man i just woke up and im rambling
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 03:29 PM
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Shes my best friend of 20+ years? And I am concerned he’s gonna break up w her once he moves to the opposite end of the country and seems like they are both deeply frustrated as she has cried to me multiple times on the phone about how he isn’t affectionate
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 03:20 PM
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LEMME ENJOY MY THING
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 03:19 PM
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most of my friends boyfriends are not hot which is one thing but they also don’t bring anything else to the table… hence confusion. Nice dudes but nothing special. One of my best friends been with this guy for four years and idk why she gains out of it.they barely fuck and they wished they fucked more, she doesn’t even know if he watches porn, would never bring a toy into the bedroom w him and he is riddled w catholic guilt. he also doesn’t pay rent as he stays w her a lot and she is teaching hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 03:15 PM
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have to do the good ole classic mud wrestling like they do on seasons of the bachelor😭
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 03:09 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 06:38 AM
1

i dont give off this vibe tf
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 05:51 AM
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had a glass of wine!!! feeling a bit outta pocket!!!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 02:47 AM
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Makes us feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 02:46 AM
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say “sorry who is this?” Gets em riled up! Jk i only had to do this once after someone apologized to me a year + later and i fr had no idea who it was <3 probs just not reply tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 02:45 AM
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30+ imo
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 01:06 AM
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the amount of men i have cried over that couldnt give if a shit if i lived or died 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 12:04 AM
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this is literally my life 😔😩🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 11:44 PM
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So everyone from my department is going in on election day yet i know two workers with covid and the flu and feel like this is gonna be a super spreader event…i got the option to work from home but unsure if im missing out on something big
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 11:43 PM
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:/
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 11:20 PM
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thank you 😭 I do 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 09:37 PM
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it really kinda bums me out one guy i dated for half a year would make jokes about me on reddit probably hitting up Two X chromosomes and probably constantly on “askwomen” and im like where are you even suggesting this info. It made 0 sense. Felt like he projected a lot onto me during our relationship and even kept telling me how women aint shit and was worried i was gonna cheat? yet literally after i sat on his face he told me he missed tinder. wow typing this out i cannot believe i stuck w him…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 09:27 PM
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i went a year + with no sex april 2021 to aug 2022, i am not a Hoe 💔 Voluntary celibacy baby❤️😤
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 12:55 AM
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thought it was like 30+ wtf lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 12:50 AM
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girly don’t 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 12:09 AM
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Nah he was a piece of work And I still let him hit 💔
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 12:09 AM
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i am a loyal hoe i would never crawl back to that dude lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 12:09 AM
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he had a gf the whole time too and continues to text me randomly “Hey” smh
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 11:21 PM
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the last guy i had sex with he constantly shared stories of previous escapades yet he told me i had more experience than him when he got defensive, yet he slipped he only had sex with 10 women. we both were each others 11th, yet he made hoe jokes all the time at me. Why??????!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 11:14 PM
1

😞😞😞
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 11:07 PM
1

I cry after like every situation I have w a man end poorly. I wear my emotions on my sleeve ig
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:46 PM
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No but I haven’t been in a relationship in like 3 years so
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:05 PM
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who knew a random tinder hookup would be memorable smh
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 08:52 PM
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it was most memorable in terms of physical chemistry think the others i associate heartbreak with
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 08:26 PM
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one time a dude asked me what i think about when masturbating and what was i supposed to say??? The dude i had sex with once four years ago?? 😭 Yes that was the truth but hell naw to saying that aloud
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 08:04 PM
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ok this makes me feel a lil bit better
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:41 PM
2

is “chad” a term you think most people know what it means? Some dude said it to me recently like out n about, casually and im like..does he read this sub…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:38 PM
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I work insane hours in news & on top of moving twice and my dad being sick I fr hate listing these as excuses but its been crazy. Imma try to be communicative w this at least and hate ghosting so hopefully they give me another shot but i have low hopes. Hopefully she texts you!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 05:40 AM
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I am still interested but just its been insane w moving twice. I figured I will hit them up in a week or so once I am settled a bit and then they can make a decision
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 05:32 AM
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you really wanna know what i look like after all my rants huh 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 03:58 AM
1

work and moving and horny 💔😔
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 03:57 AM
1

😭
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 03:55 AM
1

Only one or two people here know 😩😩😩
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 03:55 AM
1

I wish
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 03:15 AM
1

my brain is MUDDLED
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 03:11 AM
1

Who is reporting me to the reddit cares people. Show urself
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 03:09 AM
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I feel so bad. I gave my number out to 3 different dudes but I am so busy between moving and jobs. Idk how to tell them I am interested but will let them know when I am free and settled? Feel like will turn them off regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 11:43 PM
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I really wanna transform my body but I beat myself up if I lose my butt gains while losing weight or I beat myself up if I am gaining too much muscle but feel stronger 😭 I cannot win 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 09:42 PM
2

Yes ^
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 09:38 PM
0

i am 💔
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:26 AM
0

Do i have no hope 💔😩
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:25 AM
1

I have some salty feelings left over for sure but thats life
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:19 AM
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Saw the girl my ex moved on with. She literally could be my twin except she has lighter hair color and less stretch marks. She also is training for a body building competition? I think? Good for her thats tough
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:04 AM
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this is me 💔😔
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 07:28 PM
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I did not peak at 19 for sure, i lost a lot of weight since then smh Ik u are joking but this sub is not good lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 03:02 PM
1

I do not have a boyfriend 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 03:00 PM
1

3 of my early 20s years were fucked due to covid so this triggers an emotional spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:59 PM
1

Im 24 😭😭😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:59 PM
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Just read a thread on here that said 24 is hitting the Wall. I just turned 24. If my peak was 22, im gonna kms. Time to get off this sub for the day 👋
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:44 PM
1

we went to the same college and im brand new to the team so I think its def her being welcoming 🤝
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 03:48 AM
1

Its my coworker 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 03:28 AM
2

Guy apologized to me after I explained the situation with my dads chemo more. He said he felt like an ass. Appreciated it but he admitted to not listening to me days prior when I first mentioned this. Also just got invited to my first work party on a NYC rooftop. Very rad
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:56 AM
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I don’t even like mentioning my dad has cancer cause I just get their pity but he has put it off for 9 months and I had no idea he was starting this week. My dad and I are not close but like I have to be there yk I get the point but like, if this is an “excuse” when he told me last week at 7pm he was “too tired” this doesn’t add up.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:58 PM
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lines like saying my dad is restarting chemo? And i have shown interest prior with asking how hes doing and work?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 09:44 PM
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i fr was so mad. like shit happens and i was nice to him last week for canceling
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 09:42 PM
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We haven’t met yet it was from hinge. Our text conversations were normal prior then he said this
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 09:39 PM
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I was very transparent with everything thats been going on and yet when he canceled on me for being too tired I was ok w it. I mention two huge things and he comes for my throat
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 09:35 PM
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Yes I told him I am very much still interested and its just been a really weird week
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 09:33 PM
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Told this guy my dad restarted chemo and I am still moving in so have to reschedule and he said “seems like you’re not interested”. Yet he flaked on me last week for being too tired. Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 09:31 PM
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when i was at my skinniest in HS i got like bullied for losing weight ( i dropped 50lbs in 3 months when i was 15) 180 to 130 like much healthier. i regained some muscle/fat over the years since HS obvs, 24 now and the same dudes who bullied me just sent me a like on hinge in a completely different city than our hometown…three of them over the span of a week. why do i have a feeling they have no idea who i am lmao also maybe the hinge algorithm is fucking w me
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 05:25 PM
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just trying to have a bit of fun 😭💔
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 06:33 AM
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Can i ask what defines a 6 or 7???
/r/seduction31/10/22 05:46 AM
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who wants to be Pokémon Go friends!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 05:10 AM
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im a very self aware person and know when im being picky vs flexible. my laughing emoji hatred is very picky lol. i see that emoji and my pussy shrivels up. all guys i texted that used that emoji it never ended well lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 05:09 AM
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i literally never said i was Not being picky or not dismissive …….
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 02:44 AM
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i just am not interested in him lmao, and he coulda been a bit smoother than use the laughing emoji in every sentence he sent me 🤷‍♀️ Hes just a stranger it doesn’t matter lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 02:40 AM
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i don’t know him at all hes just a stranger online i can have the ick for whatever reason
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 02:39 AM
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Yeah I gotta get over it probs
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 02:38 AM
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I don’t even know his height 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 02:37 AM
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So if a random girl you never met slid into your dms you wouldn’t be a lil suspicious? Should i be on my knees beggin this random man thank you??? Like huh lol I replied nicely to him and thats that
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 01:06 AM
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Laughing emoji is major red flag for me 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 01:06 AM
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I never met him IRL and we live nowhere near each other. Im allowed to feel ick from a strange man
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 01:05 AM
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Nah for the laughing emoji
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 01:00 AM
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just had a friend of a friend slide into my DMs complimenting me on how I take my nature pics then 7 hours later he double messages me how I am “cute as fuck😂”. Bro the laughing emoji makes this 10x worse, cmon now! Major ick vibes edit: this triggered a lot of comments, I don’t know this dude at all and am not interested as he is a stranger good god lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 12:57 AM
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I think it was more like if I am a fan of her. It was just a weird random question. I guess her stans are crazy? Or to see if I was gonna get defensive? Also get asked if I like Hillary Clinton and they are always shocked to hear when I said absolutely not. I am liberal but Clinton sucks ass
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:36 PM
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Some dude randomly asked me what I thought about Lizzo and it seemed like…a test? Now I keep seeing Lizzo mentioned in here and I think I get it now smh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:32 PM
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Every day I wanna post a pic of myself in here to get an honest rating bc to me idk the difference between a 6.5/10 and a 7/10
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 07:14 AM
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Yes. Emotional connection first
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 05:18 AM
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Sorry then I don’t understand your question. Thats what I meant above about the “hot” dude, like its not the #1 thing I’m after here. Maybe I phrased it wrong from the beginning And no not really
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:36 AM
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I mean as long as emotional connection is there and I find him cute then I believe sexual attraction can grow. I don’t need a Chad. As long as he is hot in my mind 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:24 AM
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Whats the stereotype 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 03:19 AM
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He was pretty considerate in bed and asked me twice what I liked and how I liked things done. When I asked him to do something he did it. Were we in love? Nope. Did we enjoy the sex? Yeah 🤷‍♀️ Funny bc once I told him to go slower he shut his eyes to focus on going slower as I turned around from behind lmfao. I think I put dudes in different categories I guess 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 03:18 AM
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Did you meet her online or irl???
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 03:15 AM
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I haven’t really put myself back out there to give it a honest shot 🤷‍♀️ i have had opportunities but been keeping to myself Guy I broke my dry spell with we talked for 3 months and had a bit more of a personal connection even tho it ended up being a slow fade situation. He came close to this dude looks wise imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 03:08 AM
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Yeah and that makes the most sense tbh. i broke a dry spell recently and the guy was just very rough which in moments were great but others he tried going slower like I told him and he like…couldn’t lol. I get it he was horny and we wanted to fuck each others brains out but like I need slow even when it gets.. rough. Which for me depends on the person. Anyways my point is that I can’t really compare dude A with dude C, each experience was different and I was attracted to them for different reaso…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 03:06 AM
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I mean its possible. The best sex I had was that ONS and 4 years later he still texts me once a month to get together 😐 lmfao This isn’t to say some of the fuckboys and even ugly ones hurt me bc I gave it an honest shot but I have been picky w who I sleep with since 2019.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 02:57 AM
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Most of the guys i have had sex with were not hot lmfao. Only two were really memorable: one with a guy i was seriously dating and the other was a ONS when I was 19. I don’t wanna end up w a “hot” guy anyways. Wanna end up w a fun personality 😭 I still got time!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 02:51 AM
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one of them we were in a bunk bed and he went for it (we were 18) and both super drunk and i said i didn’t wanna have sex the other guy we were in a car in my parents driveway and he wanted to fuck so bad but i kept saying no. He offered to just go down on me and he got pretty aggressive tbh and i wanted to stop
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 02:44 AM
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I don’t think so tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 02:42 AM
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idc to admit my n-count is 11 people (two weren’t PIV just was oral on me lol) and sometimes i do rank who was better than others but imo all of them weren’t comparable idk. My ex and i were able to have decent companionship and the sex was loving/rough mixed - more intimate. Two guys were dominating and was pretty memorable, i found them insanely good looking, but it was just fucking not like intimate sex. Idk good sex differs for me, i feel like men just rate it from good to bad. Sometimes I w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 02:22 AM
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Do you just wanna have sex? Or are you looking to date?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 02:14 AM
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Is this someone you’re sleeping with?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 09:56 PM
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moving to nyc 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:47 PM
30

How many men will have sex with women they don’t actually like
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 04:46 PM
1

Moving day part 1 😮‍💨
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 04:44 PM
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I’ve always been self conscious about this so this was oddly nice to hear for once
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 04:42 PM
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like…the girl just standing there emotionless. No expression on her face
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 07:08 AM
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I think maybe one or two people here know what I look like 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 07:08 AM
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One day PPD will see a pic of me and thats the day I leave this earth
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:58 AM
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Ive sent sexy pics before even meeting in person 💀 coming for my THROAT
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:56 AM
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I fr question what men can jerk off too like it amazes me. Men have admitted to me when they jerked off to my Instagram pictures and they are all pretty PG maybe like one bathing suit pic where you can see a bit of my butt cheek hanging out. Its fr not that revealing 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:22 AM
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I don’t have them they were on over snapchat in like 2018 bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 03:36 AM
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thinking about the dude when i was 19 who screenshotted my grainy ass android nude on snapchat. wonder if he still looks at it. Literally like 6 pixels
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 02:50 AM
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depends. i know tons of women comfortable with it, just not my style. i will grind on you in a bed type of thing when we are alone but not in public
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 02:49 AM
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Some people do kiss in clubs. I know that I am a person who will get freaky in private but not in the middle of the dance floor
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:31 AM
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I guess since I never personally heard it I have no comment but it all is in the same icky department for me I like to think I haven’t been discussed in intimate detail but I know I have 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:20 AM
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yeah I completely agree with this ^ its not a good look, have more respect for sure!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:18 AM
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Yeah you don’t need to put up with this just leave
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:58 AM
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yes 😐
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:57 AM
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Nah I have slept with a few dudes who said this 💀 But wasn’t my point- just think its eh, rubs me the wrong way thats all 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:21 AM
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Men want a virgin but will fuck many women until said virgin comes along smh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:14 AM
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Men who use the word “pulling” when talking about getting women grosses me out a bit ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:08 AM
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Have fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 10:06 PM
1

Is anyone going out tonight i need to live vicariously thru someone
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 09:45 PM
1

This thread is a lot more active than usual
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:26 PM
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Yes it is bc I don’t wanna ruin our friendship and I always had a soft spot for him. Even if we casually hooked up I think it would end BADLY
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 05:05 PM
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Not meaning to sound tragic. I just don’t wanna make it awkward and ruin the friendship
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:16 PM
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we have told each other about our love sex lives multiple times and he gives me advice, yes not a smart decision but this situation I was specifically telling him about - it was just a sex scenario I had no emotional attachment to him and he liked giving me advice. All confusing. I am not going to mention other men to him again tho lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:09 PM
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I wish tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:08 PM
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Men: would you open up a car door and pay for food for a relationship that is platonic??? My guy friend told me I looked sexy as fuck on my birthday and he has done these things before when we last saw each other. He also drove around in a circle for a hour and a half just to talk to me on the phone bc he didn’t want his parents to hear our conversation and he told me how much he loves to talk to me. Now during that conversation I was telling him about a guy situation and he was trying to give m…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:05 PM
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Don’t know how to tell my fellow 24 year old friends that I don’t wanna drive two hours to the middle of PA and sit in their basement on Halloween and drink. Should I just offer another activity to do with them where we can meet halfway? I feel so bad but like, we are not 17 anymore and I am in the process of a move as well. I wanna go OUT TO A MF BAR
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:01 PM
5

you just wanna see my ass 💔😔
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:04 PM
3

If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be???
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:30 PM
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How tho, like, don’t I need to eat very specifically to do so
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:04 AM
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In a constant state of do I wanna lose weight or get more toned 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:53 AM
1

24, parents 62/61
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:52 AM
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??? This man was sending tinder matches her nudes and sex videos. Don’t think thats dramatic like ..huh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:15 AM
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So sorry. Hugs. Keep the emotions flowing for a bit. But don’t wallow to much.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:33 AM
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He is fully arrogant and crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:00 AM
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Update on sister stuff: her and another one of the guy’s ex emailed Tinder and they got his account removed and blocked. Praise be
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:53 AM
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Not the time man
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 11:54 PM
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He fucking sucks. Like beyond asshole. Scum of the earth
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 11:50 PM
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Oh 100%, but sometimes you’re in the moment and wanna feel sexy so I don’t blame anyone for doing it 🤷‍♀️ This man has had red flags since day one tho like he is a full on abuser and I told her to block him but she wouldn’t until she found out he had HPV while they were fucking. All around a bad situation
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 11:45 PM
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my sister dated to this AWFUL AWFUL abuser man for 7 months this year. She just found out he has been messaging his tinder matches their sex videos post their breakup (she had to block him from multiple accounts he was getting bonkers, hit her and manipulative). I am so mad. No woman deserves that. I hope karma comes to bit him back in the ass and he rots in hell. If a woman gives you sexy pics or you record sexy videos with a woman and share it….You never deserve to speak or be in the same room…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 11:39 PM
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🥲🥲🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:11 PM
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3 guys have asked me out on a date for this weekend and I am moving. Ugh Think while my brother is putting the Ikea bed together I can run down and meet these dudes 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:59 PM
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Yeah I definitely kept having sex w men I found insanely attractive but kept wishing their personality would change. Bad!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:58 PM
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Say what lull said ^
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:56 PM
1

Every white mans favorite movie in their early 20s is this movie
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:43 AM
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Such bro movies LMAO 13 hours is an interesting pick though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:20 AM
1

Its a well edited movie!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:19 AM
1

Alright. Whats everyone’s favorite movie. I’m done complaining today!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:06 AM
2

That was NOT me lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:28 AM
2

Gotta download tinder or something
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:04 AM
1

Yeah it threw me. Wouldn’t mind doing an activity but not so sure what
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:46 AM
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This is right outside of NYC so there’s def quirky things to do but need to look. Thank you for the input ✨
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:45 AM
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😔
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:38 AM
1

Brunch and we walked in a park
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:36 AM
1

Im new to the area i know nothing 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:36 AM
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We got brunch for a first date and walked around afterwards,used to dinner being a second date…coffee seems like he is testing out the vibe more?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:35 AM
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Got asked out for coffee as a 2nd date..? This doesn’t seem like a good escalation imo
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:32 AM
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Even a year+ later when I don’t think about them at all and the text makes me go wtf? Triggered by this bc the guy who DM slid messaged me today. He seems harmless but im like why bother dude, so it triggered me sensing a pattern
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:39 AM
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ya know every now and then i get the same dude in my DMs for two years now, flirting on and off and asking to take me out on a date 9 months from now (yes june of 2023) when we are in the same city. dude who i had sex with once four years ago during college after blocking me post sex bc he had a gf, slid back into my dms last fall and been tryin to meet up for the past year, texting “hey” or “Obviously we connected a while ago lets do it again” once a month, finally I asked him why he is doing t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:33 AM
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I sent a handful of my face in them to a guy this summer and …now worried…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:17 AM
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This is fr my worst nightmare. I am going to delete every nude now Goodbye
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:09 AM
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I haven’t done the bunny thing yet lemme have it 😡
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 11:33 PM
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3 years since I had a halloween party plans (pre covid). I went as Britney Spears as the schoolgirl and it was FUN. Now feels like my early 20s have passed and I have no halloween plans besides sitting in my friends basement like we are 17 😫 I wanna do the playboy bunny but def would need to go to a club 😮‍💨
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 11:23 PM
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I think I’m pretty level headed and rational, have a good sense of humor and caring/upfront.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 07:55 PM
1

I didn’t even mention tinder at all. Like
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 06:51 PM
1

Personality 😭???
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 06:51 PM
2

I did tease then he got so defensive 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 06:32 PM
1

Yeah pretty much. You nailed it!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 06:19 PM
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He was NOT my SO. But yes I understand where you’re coming from. I think it was the fact this all happened after we had sex. And he continually mentioned other gals. So. It was a little like “huh”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 06:18 PM
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Yes but a lot of guys just like me for my body and it gets old quickly just fulfilling a fantasy of not being with a petite girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 06:06 PM
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Idk its just my body 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 05:46 PM
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I mean its based on the algorithm but also i do think the apps love to promote the ladies lowkey too Idk I follow fitness influencers and see some stuff there but thats it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 05:44 PM
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i got a big butt i think, pear shaped been called thicc before 😬 which i lowkey hate. Weird to talk about my body like this. Yes i can shake my ass and just call it a day in an ideal world
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 05:37 PM
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I can twerk I just have to like..mind body connection it a bit prior but I get very shy about it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 05:31 PM
1

Post a stupid tiktok dance and make 10,000 dollars
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 05:31 PM
1

How did you get from point A to point Z bruh Has nothing to do with women having sex with other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 05:23 PM
1

Wow theres a whole sub dedicated to it. Every day i wake up and think i could just shake my ass on tiktok it would be so much easier
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 05:23 PM
1

Oh yeah for sure. But why pretend you don’t like it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 05:22 PM
1

If i was on tiktok and super chad-y type dudes were all in my feed
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 05:21 PM
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I do think tiktok promotes it a BIT but like its so obvious. I was like thinking ok hes being honest but i don’t think i wanna be constantly compared to some “hoes” on tiktok (his words smh). i just genuinely didn’t know how to reply
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:46 PM
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Guy I saw was showing me tiktoks and every time a 17-18 year old came on his feed shaking their ass or something he acted so surprised and said “I don’t even like this stuff” and he was like “I liked one video of a girl twerking once and it always pops up now”. And I didn’t know how to reply. Forever regret I didn’t say “you clearly enjoy this stuff so I think imma go” He was being honest but like. Imagine situation was reversed. Like cmon
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:41 PM
1

Ha ha ha ha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:38 PM
1

I did that before and the poor boy got so sick lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:14 PM
1

Scheduled another date for tonight and woke up with a semi sore throat. Don’t know what to do 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:06 PM
1

I dont blame ya, philly sports always surprise me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:40 AM
0

LETS GOOOO PHILLIES BABYYYYY
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:25 AM
0

I work weekend nights!!! Ultra depressing and I am close to NY
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 04:42 PM
1

Another halloween approaching and can’t go out to the club in a sexy loincloth type esque costume. Devastating 💔
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 04:39 PM
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Is 24 still considered prime time in terms of physical attractiveness? Everyone keeps telling me to enjoy my age, and I am so beautiful but yet I just saw a video of me doing karaoke on the night my wallet was stolen (I decided to go all out) and I … was wearing such the wrong things. My jeans are too low, my hair was flat, I looked like I was having a BALL but my god. I was a mess from the wallet so I am cutting myself some slack but oof I never know how I look anymore, obviously what I listed …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 03:45 AM
1

If you need a gander still Ill take a look but agree if you have to ask, you shouldn’t bother
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 03:42 AM
1

I keep count but not sure what counts as a number, like some people I only did oral with no PIV, others just PIV.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:28 PM
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I think I am gonna try to take a break from this thread. Some of you guys are cool and I enjoy the banter but the others are making my brain hurt lol. Gonna try to give it a few days🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:11 PM
2

alcoholic neglectful father baby 🥳 great mom tho! im in therapy ❤️🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:09 AM
2

This guy very evidently rated women intensely
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 05:47 AM
1

I think he was being realistic but yes I agree. Hence why I cried lol. Idk what I was expecting at the time I was tired and in pain
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 05:40 AM
1

Idk I think its all subjective 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 05:32 AM
1

Wait sorry I am confused, I don’t understand how 7 is an insult
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 05:22 AM
2

Thats what I said bc women kinda think like that too, but he was like nah. I cannot imagine sitting around rating people like objects lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 05:17 AM
1

He jerked off to my ass pics and we sexted before so idk I don’t see why he would lie
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 05:15 AM
1

Some dude told me its a 1-10 scale rating of face chest ass, Then they add it up? So its a combined number. Abysmal imo
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 05:00 AM
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I sometimes go from “yeah my self esteem is going ok!” To “wow what the hell is my rating from 1-10” Never forget in 2020 during a medical crisis I asked a guy this in my pain med haze and he told me 7-7.5 and I cried lol I fr thought it was so bad then I looked it up and realized its above average. Don’t some dudes use the 30 scale too? Or is that some ridiculous scale
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:56 AM
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Might be a mix of the league thing and also the fact I have gotten involved with guys who don’t want anything serious or there’s too many outside factors affecting the dynamic (distance, religious differences, etc). Like I said this weird dude I put up with over the summer was the first guy I dated/smooched even in a year +. I had prior opportunities and turned them down as I wasn’t in a good spot mentally or physically. So this is me trying to dip back in and since I am rusty I resorted to my 1…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:28 AM
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ive been asked about threesomes twice, think its better for me in a fantasy tbh too much sensory overload
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:44 AM
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I essentially told myself for a bit I am ok with casual and I don’t walk away soon enough when it isn’t what I want which I am trying ti fix: more boundaries. And this tends to be the reply most people in PPD say lol. I have been told before I am a 7 so idk what that really means tho
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:39 AM
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I stuck out with talking to guys for longer than I should have 🤷‍♀️ doesn’t mean I slept with all of them, just bc I think something will change but it doesn’t Took a year + off of dating and having sex I just have previously overthought casual relationships, my n count isn’t even over 10 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:26 AM
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Yeah I mean. Why would I lie lol theres not much to spill
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:19 AM
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I didn’t say I made a good decision lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:47 PM
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Its a turn off either way. I don’t care nor need to know how many options someone gets that I am having sex with. It reeks of insecurity
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:38 PM
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I know plenty of guys who would flex on this too
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:36 PM
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9
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:10 PM
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Men will always be having these threesome fantasies
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:34 PM
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I am trying to change my ways!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:31 PM
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He is up there. But no not #1
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:06 PM
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He was my type to a T. Also was quite dominant and non creepy about sexual stuff in the beginning- we were able to have open conversations about sex and fantasies before it got weird on his end. We sexted as well which amped up the desire to wanting to fuck. Spent like 18 hours split up chatting on the phone too regularly with a mix of being horny. I was comfortable. He was imo, a 8.5/10 physically. No abs or anything. He had muscles and was very handsome. Just whenever he spoke I was appalled a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 09:39 PM
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So I am moving close to NYC in about two weeks. I am incredibly worried about making friends and need to put myself out there. Working 6pm to 2am wed thru sun is rough for social life. Doesn’t help that a few nice guys are asking me out but I feel no sexual attraction to them, yet I know the men I am attracted to couldnt care less if I lived or died 🥲 Wish I had fun pre halloween plans tonight instead of working. Daily ramble
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 09:24 PM
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Honest answer as I just did this this summer: I felt comfortable enough after talking for so long JUST go have sex with him and was very physically attracted. I have placed guys into “good candidates for sex” category if I just find them with physical attributes I like -sometimes its been awhile since I have had sex and wanna have some fun (this is where my irrational brain takes over and then I cry about it afterwards bc I know he doesn’t respect me lol) -Dickmatized!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 04:35 PM
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Nope I slept w an incredibly socially inept dude, riddled with red flags just bc I thought he was hot. I made the post yesterday as I was so confused lmaoooo Learned my lesson tho!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 04:31 PM
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Hey! Its me!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 04:30 PM
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Im the most unintentionally funniest person they know four years since we had sex, he texted me how i “rocked” his world and he thinks about it a lot lol two different compliments from two different people but they prolly impacted me the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 06:44 AM
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Today I noticed more guys were noticing me in the gym but that was def because I was the only woman in the workout room with 10 dudes. Still repping the sweaty gremlin frizzy ponytail look so
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 03:15 AM
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30% of the time we did. the other times it was me going "did he really just say that out loud"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 05:10 PM
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Yes I won’t even lie I slept w him bc I found him insanely attractive and we got along well in the small moments that didn’t make me go WTF. Once his real personality started to shine thru I got the ick, thought it coulda ended a bit more amicable tho. Believe me I don’t know why I didn’t delete his number after the first time we talked, I wanted to have fun then it didn’t get fun anymore pretty quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 03:33 PM
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This dude GOT the ladies tho evidently. I just sat there like 😐 whenever he told me stories
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 03:25 PM
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It is
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 03:23 PM
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From a psychological stand point it throws me for a fucking LOOP - I guess some things you just can’t make sense of 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 03:21 PM
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Every damn day I wonder why the f a guy would take time to say how he takes PIV so seriously and he can’t do hookups and needs an emotional attachment yet, proceed to tell me multiple hooking up stories. This is what he told me over the time we were “talking” how he had sex in the woods with 2 different girls and POINTED them out to me while walking around going to a dorm for a hookup -using massage oil during sex w someone never ended up fucking a girl he was talking to bc she could only fit 4 …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 03:10 PM
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Its amazing what doing my hair and makeup does. I got complimented twice out on the street today 😭 As someone who has been mighty insecure lately this was nice😮‍💨 Edit: this was supposed to go into another thread. But alas. Its too late 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 03:31 AM
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Either or
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 05:25 PM
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I guess I should use “highly dislike”. I just hear stories of men having sex with women they simply do not like at the end of the day
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:41 PM
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Q4men: would you keep having sex with a girl if you hated her personality? From my experience of talking to men, y’all put up with a lot just to keep having sex with a woman you hate. Ex: four guys told me they kept going back to a toxic ex bc the sex was good, one guy kept sleeping with a girl he absolutely hated bc all she talked about was instagram, another kept sleeping with a woman even tho she cried whenever he made a joke even outside in public and he knew it was a red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:16 PM
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I would prefer us both to be clean. I think most guys I have been with washed up prior before clothes were taken off
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:09 PM
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This is true i do wear ratty clothes on purpose but i can’t run in a teeny tiny sports bra and butt scrunch leggings 😭 and my hair gets frizzy Time for an update tho fr
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:07 AM
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Was this you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:06 AM
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Leggings its so much easier to move in
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:06 AM
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Imma lil on the short side w big thighs i feel like these might swallow me 😭 but i do like how its less chaffing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:05 AM
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face fucking -anal without lube -fingering my ass without a warning wanting to cum on my face w my glasses on jackhammering rough sex -pussy slapping I like to be man handled and have rough sex but i do NOT like for my cervix to be bruised. The last guy i had sex with made me spot a bit and he was so rough. It was good at times but one time was so rough I had to tell him to stop as he was hurting me. He immediately did and apologized as he can get rough (he told me before girls called him daddy …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:04 AM
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My workout leggings had a semi large rip in them on the side and my thong was almost revealed while doing squats jesus christ I cannot catch a break
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:45 PM
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You calling me fat???? Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:33 PM
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We just have more focus 💅🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:32 PM
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I am a woman LMAO i just wanna make friends not talkin about picking up dudes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:52 PM
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on the treadmill right now I CANNOT FIND A SONG!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:34 PM
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Update: I am currently at the gym and no one looks like they wanna talk i shall do my lil workout and hope for maybe next time 👍🏻 So many bros lifting
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:31 PM
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Afraid imma do something wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 09:11 PM
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I think this is from more people living at home with the parents due to inflation and crazy prices
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 08:56 PM
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Where the hell were you tryna flirt with these women lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 08:54 PM
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I fr don’t know how to use any of the equipment and I get so intimidated as a woman 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 08:54 PM
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I know I wanna focus on my workout too but also think it could be a place to possibly make buddies 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 08:53 PM
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I joined a new gym in the area I moved to & theres so many more people my age but I look like a sweaty gremlin and not sure how to make friends 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 08:03 PM
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I think it was the fact I was out w my sister who is 31, and I felt mighty weird talking to someone while out who was older than my sibling who was close by on the dance floor. I think if I was out alone it would’ve been fine and I would have probably gone back to his place Also he wanted to grind and that wasn’t my thing lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 06:27 PM
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I haven’t seen one woman on this thread say they don’t get butthurt if men like younger women??? 24 here and a 33 year old hit on me a few weeks ago and I gave him so much crap for it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 06:14 PM
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I didn’t disagree with a CMV (?)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 05:16 PM
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Am i finally unbanned Edit: yes,hello everyone 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 05:14 PM
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You can definitely figure it out through conversations
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:16 PM
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I know for damn sure my radar is working but I put up with nonsense! Smh
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:15 PM
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I would 1000% respect him more for being upfront. I would possibly entertain it if I enjoyed his company and such, but would be hesitant on being super sexually active.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:13 PM
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As someone who has dated a few men who were incredibly misogynistic …..and I stayed too long bc the sex was good…. This is wrong lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:11 PM
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isn’t that what i do every other day in this thread 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:06 PM
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Men b like “women can’t smell out fuckboys” meanwhile while girl A is complaining about Tom or something another girl can easily pop in being like “girl he sucks!” And thats that Women have a fuckboy radar but we usually just ignore it. But we know its there
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:04 PM
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What country are you in? This reads like a copypasta
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:02 PM
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U making insane judgments
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 03:59 PM
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?????
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 03:58 PM
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Went to a tinder hookup house when i was 19. He had a lazy eye. I felt bad so I had sex with him anyways. In at his at 4:10pm out of his house at 4:38pm. Weirdest sex ever. Midday too. He tried choking me and said “do you like that” and i said “no” lmfaooooo His dick was HUGE and it was too much to handle as a 19 year old. No idea what i was doing. I couldn’t even get wet i was that turned off Another dude when i was 19, he came too quickly into the condom and pretended he was hard and kept goin…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:45 AM
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Why you playin dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 02:38 AM
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Yall i think someone from this thread is spamming me LMAO i keep getting tagged in stuff (?)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 12:31 AM
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This is a good definition. Appreciate the clarification
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 12:26 AM
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had a date this evening. no immediate sparks but the conversation was good, if I don’t hear a reply I don’t hear a reply 😮‍💨
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 12:20 AM
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??? Would I be her friend? Absolutely. Looks like a bad ass
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 12:18 AM
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Do they get a notification?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 10:49 PM
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He saved them in the chat, I can’t delete them or I guess unsave them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 06:32 PM
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Its very obviously me LOL idk about that Its really the nudes that bothers me not the lingerie pictures
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 03:32 PM
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Yep. Lesson learned.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 03:12 PM
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I do not have names
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 03:11 PM
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Dude still had like 25 sexy photos of me (with my face in them) saved. Its just on snapchat but thinking I am going to message him asking him to unsave them all. I have a few pics from him to saved on my end but his face is NOT in his dick pics. I am deathly afraid of something getting hacked or something. I haven’t heard anything from him in 2+ weeks and Ik he probably has nudes from other women now in his rotation. He told me early on he doesn’t look at the pics once he stops talking to girls …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 03:08 PM
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Really? All ive seen was a frat comparison
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 03:02 PM
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Just curious whats the difference between “talking” and “dating” for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 02:54 PM
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Its funny seeing people complain about stereotypes of Chad but from my experience the “chads” ive dealt with and seen are dudes who like anime and video games. Not frat guys. The pussy is just thrown at these nerdy types
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 02:50 PM
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My friend is asexual and now she says she is “demisexual” so
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 02:41 PM
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I do not handle rejection well - I know he thinks I am attractive but I also know he is NOT looking for a relationship and wants to screw around with the hot crazy chicks. I am not one of those lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 04:46 PM
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I wouldn’t also wanna lose him as a friend
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 04:32 PM
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Nah he 1000% has to make the move. If he rejects me I don’t think our friendship will ever recover and I will take it very personally
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 04:15 PM
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I don’t think he will ever see me super romantically- he did tell me I looked sexy as fuck once🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 04:13 PM
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I scheduled a date today but I am fr so not in the mood and I have to drive and idk if I just wanna cancel bc I am scared of trying again or if I just don’t wanna. So easy to just lay in bed and be depressed yk
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 04:08 PM
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Some dude told me that guys purposely go after the low self esteem one in the group and uses their hot friends to lure. I thought he was joking 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 04:01 PM
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A lot of them were receptive to me bringing a toy into the bedroom. They just always had to make a comment of how horny I am and it came off negative not positive, at least from my interpretation
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 12:31 PM
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I never had sex on the first date. This was after 1 month + of dating and getting to know each other
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 12:29 PM
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He was a virgin but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 06:40 AM
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Even if some of these dudes are BOYFRIENDS??? Like in a committed full ass relationship??? I don’t wanna also feel bad for wanting to fuck the dude I am in a monogamous dynamic with like???
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 06:14 AM
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The guy who called me too easy was my own boyfriend at the time. Not a dude I was just “talking” to. He was being just plain mean. I don’t just sleep with random dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 06:13 AM
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Men are always complaining how women aren’t horny enough and I consider myself a pretty high sex drive gal. This obviously excites the men I have talked to…yet the guys end up telling me I am “too easy” by how wet I get, “too horny” when I tell them I like to try new sex toys if given the chance and “all it takes is a slice of pizza and the clothes come right off”. I just fully believe men truly don’t want a horny woman who wants to blow and have sex with them. I don’t get it. I hate casual hook…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 05:54 AM
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The times I have done this and talked for so long online, the irl connection didn’t live up to the hype. I hope it works out!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 05:49 AM
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You look great!! You can def see the improvements. Keep it up 🎉
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 05:44 AM
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Ok. Negging does not work. Playful roasting can only be done well by certain people. A lot of men take it too far and jump waaay too into it. I had one guy constantly make fun of me and say how I had no hobbies after one date and it hurt my feelings and made me think he didn’t like me and I backed off. Then he bugged me about why I wasn’t texting him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 05:31 AM
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No noooo I meant 6/7 in general. Idk at my “lowest” or “highest”. I definitely am not narcissistic LOL I wish I was a lil bit more into my appearance I can get lazy (makeup, hair wise not physical - I workout every day)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:35 AM
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I feel like PPD is the worst place possible to show your face and body lmfaooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:10 AM
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Yeah I just be rambling in here. Today was a bad self esteem day. Can you try talking to him after? Like while you guys are dressed?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:09 AM
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Men have called me hot before but I really don’t believe I am. I feel like I am a solid 6/7 out of 10 but I really don’t know? I feel like I look better naked than in clothes??? I also have a bit of cellulite on my thighs and stretch marks on my waist. But I absolutely despise my right side profile. Idk I feel like men don’t go out of their way to tell you you’re hot if they didn’t mean it? Yes I have waves of low self esteem sometimes 😪
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:00 AM
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I did this. I thought it would grow. The first time I saw his penis he said “it doesn’t even seem like you wanna touch it”. And I was like ehhhh. Anyways the attraction did grow a bit and our sex life was pretty good but I didn’t like his personality. I liked the companionship tho
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 12:34 AM
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Try getting to know them before getting physical
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:25 PM
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I wish I could answer this question, 21 was a solid age but also 22-now I have gotten a lot of attention? Idk tbh Ill answer this in 20 years
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:17 AM
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My hometown of 15 years is quite sad tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 02:17 AM
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Yeah I spent all day crying when I officially moved out. 15 years of growing up there. I had such beef with the town but it was home ya know.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:58 PM
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Moving is so weird I am in a new town and know nothing around me I feel uneasy. I miss the comfort of my home 😭 Edit: yes i am sad. 🫡🤌🏻❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:24 PM
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Moved out of my hometown. Just overall depressed about it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:40 PM
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I hope tomorrow is better
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 06:09 AM
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How are we “intriguing” lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:44 AM
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I get so much attention on apps and get overwhelmed then delete them. I need to just play the field but I get so tired lol That gonna change!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:20 PM
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You are a dick
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 12:45 AM
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Why are you choosing to be an asshole wtf Like why the fuck would you plan this lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 12:07 AM
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He wasn’t a fuckboy, nor was he super hot. He just had a great personality and I fell hard 😪 He ended it once I threw him a bone and handled it pretty well. Hope he is doing well, no hard feelings. I just wish he communicated better at the time
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 09:18 PM
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Dating apps 😭 Believe me I much have rather be with a guy who has no intense death grip. I wanna make my partner cum But at the same time ive had a few who came super quickly and i was annoyed bc they were a whole lotta TALK
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 09:04 PM
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We were drinking so I think the alcohol affected him
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 08:56 PM
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He had death grip and then we were drinking so I think it just wasn’t gonna happen. I was quite determined though The last guy I slept with he was very upfront about his death grip and we had sex 4 times in a 24 hour period but neither of us came and I didn’t feel as bad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 08:55 PM
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LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:56 PM
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My neck and arms were so tired fr 😭 Think he had whiskey dick tho
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:52 PM
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Lemme complain
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:52 PM
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That person just had no regards to basic human respect. Fuck dat
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:46 PM
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Some women just like to moan and be vocal. I tell men beforehand I am pretty vocal when I am enjoying myself. I don’t fake pleasure sounds but sometimes making sound is all I can do to react to something. For instance, direct clit stimulation, I will be screaming. Its too intense. Some guys like to watch it though. Others thought it was too much
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:45 PM
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I was burned pretty bad 3 years ago by a guy who took me to meet his family during xmas then slow faded me for 3 weeks. And the relationship was only about two months yet that made me incredibly cynical in regards to dating and made me question if I was bad at giving blowjobs (it took him 40 mins to cum). This still haunts me lmfao and this was 2019 HOW DO I GET THE FUCK OVER THIS Edit: yall gonna come after me on my bj skill: every man is different and most have told me im good at it but. Men d…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:42 PM
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Fellas is it bad if a woman enjoys having sex with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:28 PM
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Just thrust at that point like cmon
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 05:50 AM
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Im not hating on them at all. More of an observation
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 05:05 AM
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I thought being catholic was bad but being a mormon is fr a whole other level Have you seen Under the Banner of Heaven? (Was a miniseries)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 04:45 AM
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I would love to talk to some of them and have an in depth conversation on their views. Utah also just seems like an interesting state to live in
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 04:22 AM
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Mormons absolutely terrify me ngl Imagine being that brainwashed
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:54 AM
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No one. Its all on me. I’m trying to catch myself though. Working from home makes it difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 11:25 PM
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I agree. Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 11:19 PM
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I really don’t feel good after checking Instagram- its turning into a chore
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 11:02 PM
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Instagram is so dumb every day I am in shock I still check that stupid app
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:21 PM
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Mostly through OLD. And fell for most of them because we had great chemistry. Or the sex was good. And I was afraid to cut it off even tho some of them treated me pretty crappily Theres a good half where it was just a sexual dynamic and I wanted more and kept getting upset after awhile (hence the situations where I should’ve just cut my losses) The other half we dated and had great chemistry but they didn’t want to pursue a romantic relationship (I should have said what I’m looking for or at lea…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 07:30 PM
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Yes my father was insanely verbally abusive
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 07:18 PM
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Don’t know if this is awful or kind of endearing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 07:03 PM
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😭
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 07:02 PM
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today I decided to wake up and go through each of my failed flings/ relationships and see what went wrong. Horrible for the self esteem but realized i 1) don’t cut it off quick enough once they show their true selves and red flags and 2) just as much as they didn’t communicate, I didn’t communicate and shoulda spoke up So basically it all goes back to speaking up and communicating. Jesus christ
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 06:50 PM
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My wand is fr a weapon that thing is HEAVY
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 06:36 AM
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24
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:30 AM
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Idk where I would go nye though everyone I know is scattered 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 11:59 PM
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My friends are all in different states. I fr don’t even know how that would work ugh. Unless I go out by myself
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 10:45 PM
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All my friends will be in different states. The only real option I have is to spend it with my sister and not sure I wanna 100% do that in Philadelphia sigh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 10:39 PM
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Im in desperate need of an opinion and none of my friends are really replyin I have to submit my holiday time off now and the calendar did me so dirty. Holidays on all the weekends. Should i ask off for nye even if i dont have definite plans now? Like? Would you rather have thanksgiving or christmas or nye off? For help i am 24 and worked all the major holidays last year too 😭 Edit: leaning towards thanksgiving but wanna try to ask for nye or at least maybe friday? Idk man!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 10:18 PM
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This ^
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:20 PM
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Yeah I’m not a hyper slut. And I have done casual instances with men who have options. I have had two recurring situationships where we slept together more than once but they didn’t like me at all romantically- we had no emotional connection and it made me feel like crap. I unfortunately am not the hot crazy chick
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:18 PM
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ive done fwb and situationships a few times and it left me just wanting more. if i like you enough to fuck me raw and i enjoy spending time with you- i just want to date you at that point. fwb has gotten me just thinking i can do casual but i really can’t. i learned my lesson i don’t regret the casual stuff ive done, i have learned a lot about myself in the process, but casual sex has always ended up making me 1) want more and 2) cry afterwards as the dude doesn’t show politeness. then its on me…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 03:06 AM
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She sounds like she wants to play games. Up to you if you wanna play along think she is worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:12 AM
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Shockingly have gotten nothing weird
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:11 AM
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Let a gal be horny on the tl!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:02 AM
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Dudes always groan in here how they are horny lmfao I ain’t lookin for simps I just wanna ramble smh
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:55 PM
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I heard about that!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:49 PM
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I have & it makes me have zero hope I can let a man inside me again lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:11 PM
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My sex drive has been insane lately another day of wanting to be a whore but only in theory 😔😔😔💔💔💔💔😔😔
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 10:53 PM
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Yeah this is how I feel. The sense of community is nice but I can’t get behind the hogwash
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:45 AM
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I consider myself agnostic but thinking maybe to try a church route to meet people but i think im just desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:12 AM
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i love it tbh its fun
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:17 PM
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How serious do you guys view religion? Like are you looking for someone with like minded faith? I could never date someone who attends Church every Sunday, unless he is ok with me not attending.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:10 PM
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Hitting a massive depression wall and unsure how to move forward. Anyone got tips?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:27 PM
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I have had a few one night stands of me driving to the man. When I say few I mean two lol, and it was the best sex of my life. It was adventurous, but I knew it wasn’t anything serious. Made it more fun. But it made me realize I am looking for something emotionally satisfying. Those guys were hot but kinda jerks and if I were to run into them I would say hello but Ik they would wanna go down memory lane 🫣 and I would say no and good luck. Why did I do it? Insanely horny and felt trapped in my ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 11:02 PM
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Even with mutual followers I’m like why does this random dude wanna follow me. I have 35 follow requests sitting in my ig profile as we speak lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 10:26 PM
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Each woman is different 🤷‍♀️ I am very picky who I give a blowjob too. I find putting my mouth on someones dick and letting them face fuck me much more intimate than sex sometimes. Sex sometimes is just bumping uglies. Blowjobs- I really have to be in the mindset of “oh yes I WANT to give this guy a blowjob”. Again I am more of a intimate person so also sex could be the same for me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 10:25 PM
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But… where on Instagram
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:45 PM
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I guess that makes sense, not entirely unusual. I just would think the dude might be creepy. Depends on the gal Ig
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:23 PM
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thats what i figured but also seems just sorta creepy, like where did the guy even come across her profile or something. Makes no sense. Unless he’s following random girls from dating apps? But idk what girl gives out the social media that quick anymore. Lots of questions
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:16 PM
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Genuine question for men: Do you just randomly follow women on social media? And hope they follow you back? And like some of their pics? Idk what girl would be comfortable with this unless she met the man prior. But cold following like that is really creepy imo - unless the girl is young so maybe she doesn’t see it as a red flag?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:05 PM
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They sat on their high horse thinking they are so cool for not being “Chad”. Turns out its actually worse than Chad imo
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:04 PM
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I thought introverts for awhile but the men I have dated like that turned out to be insufferable. Extroverts are my type of dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 08:59 PM
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Shockingly checking this thread out of boredom too but Instagram is being way worse. Especially checking like certain peoples Instagrams. Hate it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:07 PM
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i fr need a social media break. i be on it way too much checking things that i like, should not be checking. its getting so boring and mundane
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 06:53 PM
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Im not enjoying checking instagram or twitter or reddit anymore and its hurting my brain. Makes me feel more anxious. Going cold turkey will be hard tho
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 03:17 AM
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Really wanna take a week off from social media. Yall think it’s possible? (This includes reddit)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 02:42 AM
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Hell Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 02:39 AM
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I would be a little put off. But depends on the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 02:37 AM
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I just felt like such a generational difference 😭 He was overall nice tho
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 08:32 PM
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33 year old hit on me and bought me a drink as a fresh 24 year old. Fantastic ego boost but when I told him I don’t like to grind he left to dance w another girl and then came back when he failed again and asked me for my number. I even said to him doesnt it bother you I was born in 98 and you were born in 89? And he said no lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 08:06 PM
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I deleted his number too and still got swindled
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 05:06 PM
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Idk about that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 05:01 PM
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Why come out of the woodwork to say this!!!!!! Sending it EARLY too wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 03:52 PM
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Thank you 🙏🎉🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 03:52 PM
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Person who ghosts sent a happy birthday message??!?! Huh?!?!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 03:40 PM
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My type to a T physically 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 03:27 AM
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part of me wants to say something to someone but i know deep down its so dumb to speak up idk u can just feel when someones energy is uninterested and off and its like ‘do i have some goddamn self respect here folks!!!!’ cause apparently!!! only sometimes!!! i was a fool to think i can do casual fun when it wasn’t even fun anymore big dumb lady here
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 01:14 AM
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24😵‍💫
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 06:10 PM
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Nothing, I just feel dumb today w my previous choices Maybe I’m having a breakthrough
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 05:32 PM
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Typically very conventionally good looking. Has muscle definition and a niche talent or hobby that makes them interesting. Also ability to read social cues
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 05:31 PM
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Feeling dumb and sad again errghhggghdjfjdjfudififiscuxis **its my birthday this weekend lemme be sad
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 05:30 PM
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Nah, was nice!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 01:54 AM
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I ain’t got nothin to say Hope u are all doing well
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 01:50 AM
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Yeah I mean I agree to not sleep with conservative men, but I know a lot of men who just lie and say they are not political at all. I notice a lot of dudes too just don’t bring up politics unless the woman does, and then they are honest. Or they just lie. Guys who don’t put their political affiliation on their app profile I’m calling out 😑
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 01:41 AM
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Believe me idk either. He has called me hot before. I don’t call my friends hot 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 06:23 PM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 04:56 PM
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Me and him have insane sexual tension. But he views me as a sister I think. Also if were to ever hookup it would ruin our friendship. And I would not wanna lose him as a friend
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 04:50 PM
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You dodged a bullet imo. She clearly wanted to brag about it from what it sounds like. Idk the one guy who I told my number too it ruined our relationship and it was below 5. He slut shamed me and resented the fact I had prior relationships before him, especially bc he was a virgin. Getting downvoted 🫶🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 04:46 PM
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I was very depressed lol wanted to not think about it. Learned a lot tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 02:08 PM
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Like 18-19. I had my phase, acted out when my dad was diagnosed with cancer. Didn’t feel good! Lesson learned. Kept sleeping with the same crappy guy for a year
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 01:49 PM
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Nah it would be too much work, we wouldn’t even have a place to do it. Also I am not a hookup lady those days are gone
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 01:40 PM
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Yeah abysmal game
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 01:38 PM
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Hes a pretty good looking dude so idk about that. I see how he gets girls. He just thinks I have a nice body or something cause thats all he mentions when I ask why is he still hitting me up. Pretty lame - I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 04:53 AM
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I pull in these crude dudes. I think its bc I am open regarding sex in general but it turns into dudes talking about their adventures smh. He admits he has a rotation which meant he was being honest, but I have told him numerous times I have no interest yet he will still try to get together. I feel like if he can get this many ladies, one saying no to him would not make him chase still after I said no? But who knows Him using the “maybe you’ll make me want something serious” pisses me off bc its…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 04:19 AM
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im amazed by how some men have a rotation of women. like just doing anal with girls on first date. i called this guy out saying that fr didn't happen but he told me a story of how he took this other girl out and she found out he had anal with someone else on a date and threw a drink in his face. like what lmao anyways he's been tryna hookup with me since june and even said "if we have sex maybe i want something more after idk" and im like my man we are 24/25 years old. that line doesn't work the…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 04:06 AM
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Dont be getting more of my hopes up
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 04:02 AM
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i blame da movies ok
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 03:57 AM
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i've gotten compared to Alexis Texas a few times by guys. It was very obvious they liked me for one and one thing only. even some dudes have asked me "do all guys talk about is your ass" and im like...ur putting me into a corner here. if i said yes its bad if i say no its a lie. my body is just my body and i used to get called fat when i was a chubby kid. now i am deemed sexy be society standards. sexy enough to finally get all those dudes who bullied me in HS to try to DM me on instagram. i hat…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 03:53 AM
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You can still experience intense emotions at any point I feel like, like at any age
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 10:55 PM
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U may be looking at the wrong people
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 10:53 PM
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Flexing about you hobbies is ok - flexing about other dates you have had? Weird
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 04:49 PM
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Talking about how hot other women are (celebrities), telling me details of their previous sexual escapades. I think also bc I am open to discussing sex they thought I would be ok with hearing past stories yet I am not at all. Huge red flag in my mind, like they are trying to flex. And making comments about hitting women/not listening to anything I say
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 04:35 PM
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good solid point
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 04:31 PM
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Honestly I am looking for such a niche personality a good mix of humor and wittiness but when I felt a spark it was ripped down because they were sorta cocky. So I am trying to change that up a bit. Probably like 4, I really liked were like this. Then they started to say some outta pocket shit
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 04:23 PM
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Im in a horrible funk and its my birthday week im so upset lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 03:54 PM
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He’s not my type but has a nice face and skin is nice too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 03:50 PM
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Its def enjoyable but also kinda gets to be a bummer after awhile cause its like I would WANT to make him cum. Sure he could get himself off in front of me but the act of making a guy cum is so rewarding after you wanna work for it a bit. Idk my mindset is if I am letting you inside me, usually means I wanna make you cum. Not the biggest deal in the world but I don’t think I could constantly see someone who never cums
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 03:45 AM
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So many dudes I know have death grip issues. It takes me awhile to relax to cum as a woman and to feel comfortable with who I am having sex with but I can def reach climax. Some of these dudes cannot cum from anything you do no matter how hard ya try. Its a little disheartening
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 03:25 AM
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Nah I just thought he was not interested
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:06 AM
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I think its just my type, trying to switch that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 11:28 PM
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We never met up so I didn’t consider it ghosting just naturally fizzling out. Figured why not give it a shot if he was willing to drive to me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 11:28 PM
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No I am moving into a new city so it wouldn’t make sense. He sounds really confused so I hope it works out for him but nah this door is closed
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 11:23 PM
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He overall seems like a decent guy, idk if I’ll give him a third chance though
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 11:20 PM
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I actually spent the whole year not dating taking a break, recently hopping back into it lol. Maybe its time for another break 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 11:20 PM
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This one was from college, thru mutual friends
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 10:49 PM
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Yes, if we were in a exclusive dynamic (exclusive fwb or relationship)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 10:19 PM
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He was straightforward at least. And he reached out to me! And asked me out! Lol I just was open to it 🤷‍♀️ just was confused why he even bothered tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 10:16 PM
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Lol guy who took the time to unghost himself and ask me out on a date tonight just canceled a hour before saying he just got out of a breakup and isn’t in the right headspace. I appreciated his honesty but a lil bummed ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 10:06 PM
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You from a big town I hope? Small town feels like word gets around easier. Anyways, good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 08:08 PM
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Very true.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 08:00 PM
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Ah ok in PA/NJ its the same too. Its def interesting to hear how some people go about it, I have no interest in it but I get the appeal
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 08:00 PM
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When does that begin? What part of the country you in?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 07:55 PM
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Classes may be more difficult if you shit where you eat. I would stick to bars for casual scenarios
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 07:54 PM
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I keep forgetting hunting season began omg
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 07:53 PM
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Are you looking on apps or somewhere in public? Gym? Classes? Clubs? Bars?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 07:42 PM
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Depends on where are you looking?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 07:35 PM
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That seems like a lotta work ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 06:56 PM
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How is everyones day going yall
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 06:41 PM
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When a guy tells me he isn’t political that just means he is ignorant
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 06:41 PM
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I thought it could change a bit (which is why I feel dumb)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 06:21 PM
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Nah I would def admit to that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 06:21 PM
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Bc I am upset at myself lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 06:11 PM
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We both got very little sleep prior. And I had to keep asking him what time we were meeting. Didn’t feel like he had real interest
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 05:37 PM
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Idk we didn’t have much of an emotional connection so it didn’t even get to this point level of fantasy lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 05:35 PM
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We both said we were looking for a connection with some emotional intimacy and not a hookup. It ended up being a situationship with no labels (not even a discussion of casual). And it could have ended nicer than just a fizzle. He kept texting me and I realized he was only doing it when he was bored cause when I would be able to reply hours later in some cases, he just left me on read. I tried to keep it fun and light w texting w good energy but it was just crumbs lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 05:34 PM
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Lemme feel my stupidity in peace (i shoulda ended it after the first date went bad)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 05:04 PM
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Eh he expressed to me early on he would never seriously date a 19 year old I think he just wants to fuck around and I was looking for something a bit more serious
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 04:50 PM
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Boy I wish
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 04:48 PM
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I feel so dumb for entertaining somethin I knew could never work out. Idk why I let it go on for so long. Also he is def hitting on 19 year olds at school while he is 24 and it makes me feel worse lmfao Hitting my wall in my mid 20s goddamn I have over hundreds of likes on a dating app and yet I am upset over this fool I think bc it could’ve ended nicer
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 04:45 PM
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But how does the Instagram algorithm work in your favor for that? I am Gen Z and I agree but not everyone is like this. Ik if I got a strange DM asking me out from a guy idk I would tell him to F off
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 03:45 AM
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I almost did this to someone recently but I realize I can only do it in a relationship lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 01:55 AM
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What does “being freaky” in bed mean to you? (General question for all here). I feel like spanking, hair pulling, face fucking is all pretty standard stuff now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 01:47 AM
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I think triple digits is insane but I stand by the don’t ask don’t need to know 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 12:54 AM
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I can’t date men that have my brother’s or fathers name
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 12:33 AM
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LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 12:32 AM
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Idk I see lots of dudes snapping their bros back and forth about video games and stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 12:28 AM
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When I see this I always just think..maybe he treats her nicely?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 12:14 AM
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Congrats congrats
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 11:22 PM
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I get how its safer it def has its perks. I check snapchat to briefly send funny things to people but I def only check it once a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 11:22 PM
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I understand this but idk my first thought is to text ig? Snap just gets annoying. But to each their own
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 11:09 PM
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Yeah I don’t see why guys can’t just ask for numbers
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 11:08 PM
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I am almost 24 and use it to check my memories sometimes but thats like it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 11:08 PM
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yeah..ok cool. i thought it was just me thinking weird. like if any guy asks me for my snap i just say i don’t have one lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:58 PM
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Does anyone above the age of 23 actually use snapchat. I think if you’re out of college still using snapchat its like..a red flag lmfao. Just text me fool
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:55 PM
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Like I could either fall asleep or have sex rn Its ok I uhhhhhh took care of bsns🤌🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 08:40 PM
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Horny tired and a mess
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 08:15 PM
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She told me shes fine w it, I think I do still feel uncomfy but I think just chatting is ok for rn
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 02:02 AM
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Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 01:31 AM
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Think I may have a date Tuesday. But he hooked up with one of my friends like over a year ago. She told me he was boring lol. But! I don’t see the harm in grabbing a drink and chatting
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 01:28 AM
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Thats what im saying so im just …lost lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 07:07 AM
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Yeah I get awful depression and anxiety but I would never string someone along even if I was feeling super down.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 06:25 AM
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Hm yeah youre right
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 06:24 AM
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I wasn’t it was a sweet photo of me on a beach😔
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 05:58 AM
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Yeah thats what i thought so too
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 05:43 AM
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Yall think someone saying they have mental health issues is an excuse for them to keep stringing you along? I personally don’t understand the pipeline
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 05:41 AM
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Some dude who ghosted me in the spring texted me yesterday and asked me out on a date. Right after I posted a bikini pic on Instagram. Ok dude Also I seemingly attract the depressed sad boys….jk this is what feels comfortable lol another thing i gotta fix
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 04:24 AM
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Ugh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 04:12 AM
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He just hit me up on social media too jfc
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 01:57 AM
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The sex was good but I had to do most of the work of planning to get together so like I know he won’t lift a finger unfortunately. Drafted a message to cut it off but I don’t really wanna reply to him rn lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 01:28 AM
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I guess I just don’t understand why he sent a text at all? Like it was nothing that warrants a reply. He could have just fully slithered away. Its been obvious he hasn’t been interested since after the first date. My only thought was that he didn’t wanna seem like a dick to ghost? So he is taking the breadcrumbing route? Or hell, he prolly isn’t realizing what he is doing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 01:25 AM
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We talked for the entire summer. A few dates then we had sex. Had sex over a month ago tho. Used to text every day/ check in how each other was doing. Now its once a week, a random rant. Not even talking regularly. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 01:04 AM
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Idk he could just text another lady
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:50 AM
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I think hes more just bored if anything. The text he sent doesn’t warrant a response
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:49 AM
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No I didn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:48 AM
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I wish I could sneak into his man brain and know why he be doing this. We ain’t even close enough to fuck. Makes no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:22 PM
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i think if i sent that type of texting i might vomit
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:21 PM
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Its been a week and a half of silence. And in the wee hours of the night I woke up to a text from this man. Wtf!!!!! I fr stopped thinking about it. Is it even worth to call his ass out
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:03 PM
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Im not denying theres leagues all im saying is you can fuck someone out of your league and not be an ass
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:23 PM
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I think people are just insanely fickle all around imo. I completely agree tho. I assume men at bars and clubs just wanna fuck when they approach me so I don’t take it seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:13 PM
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Its one thing to go for people out of your league but another for them to be an asshole. Just bc someone is out if your league it doesn’t gives them permission to be cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:12 PM
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Oh I wasn’t talking me, but yes I have ghosted him. My friend is dealing with something similar but he led her on even MORE so.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:11 PM
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No, my friend is complaining to me about the shitty hookup situation she has. This ain’t about me for once
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:11 PM
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Girls you have gone on dates with? If so that’s immature. Girls at a bar? Expected lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 04:59 PM
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So sad to witness low level interest I hate it fr. I don’t think I ever breadcrumbed someone. My friends fwb is fr doing the bare minimum and she is a few years younger and she asked me if it gets better and I’m like lol nah
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 04:57 PM
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I don’t kiss men I don’t like lmao. I need to like them in some capacity even if its just “ok he seems cool and hes hot”. Thats the bare minimum though. I have smooched men I have never seen again but that how it goes sometimes in life
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 04:52 PM
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Not on and off for five years thats for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:26 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:11 AM
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Who are these men sliding into DMs? I would feel so odd if a guy did that to me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:09 AM
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I thought about this for awhile too but I met a super nice guy in 2019 who respected me and I fell for him. We were not compatible long term but it proved its capable for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 11:51 PM
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I appreciate this response. You’re hitting onto something with me liking the dysfunctional dynamic rather than the person. I bounce back and forth to being emotionally unavailable but deep down I want a relationship and for something to grow so I take the fun route but don’t cut it off. Instead I let it get to a point where the guy starts to act rude and disrespectful and I hang on hoping for more companionship since I feel “confortable” - even tho I know I am accepting breadcrumbs and not at al…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 11:49 PM
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I guess since it was on and off and I wanted to have sex I would go through the motions of wanting casual then end up wanting more. And then I just take what I can get. Even tho I deserve better. Awful
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 11:47 PM
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Not yet. I plan to address this
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 09:40 PM
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He called it “fwb” but it was purely a bootycall. I let it go on for too long bc I liked the sex and companionship and didn’t know how to end it even tho after we had sex I would cry bc I wasn’t being emotionally satisfied. So yep. Thats on me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 09:37 PM
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These situations were specifically to just enjoy companionship not even an orgasm but it lost its fun and momentum very quickly by how they treated me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 08:41 PM
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On and off for five years.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 08:35 PM
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If you’re questioning if I am out of their “league” I do not think its that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 08:24 PM
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I think these guys put me into “shes cool and easy to get along with” bucket and therefore put in 0 type of effort. I just turn into the fuckbuddy status. I thought it was out of my league for a bit but my friends think these dudes are average looking lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 07:51 PM
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Here it is folks! The first insult lmfao. Never once did I say “feel bad” for me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 07:26 PM
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Noooooooo not at all. This dude was years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 07:17 PM
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Congrats
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 07:17 PM
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The first dude the FWB situation went on for too long. It should have been a 2-3 month fling tops but I was too scared to cut it off bc I was so sucked in, and well, dumb and 19. The other guy - same ordeal. Except now I am older and know the warning signs. But those of these guys were not nice people either once we got passed the brief “getting to know” one another part. Both made odd jokes about hitting women, and started talking about how hot other women are right in front of me. Both of them…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 07:14 PM
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I am loyal to my partner
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 07:09 PM
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Attraction that is built is more worthwhile and lasts longer imo. The fucking quick gets burned out and loses momentum
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 07:06 PM
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Idk im pretty freaky once i like and comfortable with the right person. Consider myself a sexual person overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 07:05 PM
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Yeah. Usually though it takes me more time to wanna rip the good partners pants off. Thats really the only difference. The immediate sexual spark also just isn’t healthy either. The few nice guys I have dated it took me a bit but I ended up wanting to jump their bones just the same so. Takes time 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 07:02 PM
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Oh im prepared. But i needed to ramble this into the void. Cause it basically is what everyone talks about. I have fucked the chads and didnt give the nice guys a chance. Actually i have dated one really nice guy but he broke my heart lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 07:01 PM
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Ok this is long. so I am realizing I have enabled my own toxic behavior by continuing to speak/ talk/ have sex with guys who literally could give a shit if I live or die and know absolutely nothing about me. Everyone is always like “why you still talking to him” over the years and its like ..because I had this insane sexual attraction to him even tho whenever he would open up his mouth I’m like holy shit he’s a piece of shit lol and we have nothing in common & no chemistry. Yet I kept wanting to…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 06:54 PM
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So many dudes I know their tiktok FYP is just 17-22 year old girls dancing in their dorm room in see thru shirts. And these guys are like 24-27. Its gross as hell. That said, many women FYP I know its literally what they are into. Hobbies, cooking, nature, traveling etc. very rare do women follow these men on social media. All I got is that I follow Sebastian Stan. That man 😵‍💫 But women are picky with who they follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:07 PM
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The goofy pics pulls in the dudes who aren’t my type 😭😭😭 might keep the bikini one and still throw in the goofy one at the end smh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:26 AM
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Not that anyone cares but I tried taking the “goofy” pics out of my profile and put a bikini photo…its not super revealing tbh but skin do be showing. Its just a lot of me smiling🥹 Edit: the bikini pic is getting the most likes 😐 lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:21 AM
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I think this just is case by case. Ik I look forward to foreplay and wanna get into a position of begging for it. The teasing and buildup of tension is more fun. But everyones diff! My one friend is into sex right away and i just don’t understand it. Sometimes too if my head isn’t into it, I can’t get wet down there. Maybe the girls youre fucking just get wet immediately?? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:26 AM
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I cannot imagine having sex w someone for 9 months in a fwb situation omg. Where did you guys meet?? Thats nice he pays though, he seems like a good dude
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:23 AM
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Nah I haven’t known for months personally but now I know lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:48 PM
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We had sex so I don’t think its that lmao, this is more like multiple opportunities for him to let it fizzle and I get a text out of the blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:32 PM
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I have been! Deleted the number
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:30 PM
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I tried the nice route! At least 😓
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:41 PM
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This is my ranting void 😡
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:40 PM
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Dude creeps back then just to disappear again. Literally what is there to salvage. Usually just have had guys ghost fully or they send a text after a week of silence. Idk whats worse this dude who would text me his life to life updates talking at me clearly just bored for 2 months or not getting anything until I get a random “My bad I’ve been in a funk” text once every two weeks. Dude cmon. Its ok lol If I do get one of those texts next I think imma just not reply this shit getting so old, ive b…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:24 PM
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Ive done it but was bummed when it didn’t at least become consistent. Either one of us wasn’t into it or the sex was just bad. Bad sex sometimes just means the physical chemistry isn’t all there and thats ok. Some of them were douchebags the others were fine guys I just felt nothing towards them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:46 AM
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Sir I ain’t got no booty pics on my profile
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:11 AM
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Nope. One is a headshot. Other is a selfie, a pic of me smiling on the beach, a pic of me in a bathing suit on a balcony, a goofy photo of me, and a meme lol. Thinking to either make it more “sexy” or add in a photo of me w friends🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:10 AM
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yeah but i also wanna know if i should change one of them out or something my friends are being too nice i need a real critique
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:02 AM
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Want to ask someone for their genuine review of my dating app profile but I don’t trust putting my pics on reddit at ALL
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 12:58 AM
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Who said I want a Chad wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 04:32 PM
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I have one of me in a bathing suit but could pick the sexier one ig
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 04:06 PM
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Looking for something with a chance to grow so a relationship. I think i made my prompts too goofy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 04:03 PM
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What if you get called thicc 😐
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 03:57 PM
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Made a dating app profile. Getting likes from guys who are not my type at all. I fr feel like I need a switch up in my pics and prompts. Like what am I doing wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 03:56 PM
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My uterus wants to kill me so. Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 03:48 AM
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Kinda worried about this apartments building management reviews. Someone said they saw roaches but then disappeared. And never saw them again in the 2 years they lived there. Not sure if I’m making right decision. Pests are one thing - dealing with a sus building management is another Also dude decided to amp up communication randomly yesterday. But thru snapchat. I am almost 24. And snapchat. Is still being used. Bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:43 PM
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Thank u thank u. This is def noted
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 11:55 PM
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Alright yall its official im moving to mf jersey city. Scared of the dating scene but excited to start a new chapter. NYC HERE I COMMMEEEEEEEE
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 11:50 PM
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I prefer rough sex thats passionate. Like animalistic. The jackhammering gets old after a bit it has to be in a mix of hand holding and slow strokes too. If its so rough I’m just seeing stars constantly it doesn’t get to be fun. Aggressive can be tasteful but you have to build up to it. Immediately pounding isn’t. Yeah I liked to be spanked, bent over, sometimes choked but doesn’t mean I want it all the time. If all the guy can do is be rough and its hard for him to be slow imo it means he watch…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 02:10 PM
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This was refreshing to hear. Appreciate your input!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 11:12 PM
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Who is Dr K
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 09:59 PM
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My friend came up with a good point asking me if its even feasible to find a good relationship off of an app. And I am not sure. I have seen it happen but feel like those people are compromising something.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 09:27 PM
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I get roasting is fun and banter is needed in a romantic relationship but holy shit. I never experienced negging until this past summer. And its hurtful goddamn.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 06:08 AM
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God like stroke game but no tongue
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 05:52 AM
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Hm solid point. Just seemed like a good opportunity for him to let it naturally fade. We have barely seen each other so just seems like a waste of him even trying to pop up 🤷‍♀️ Been strung along since July technically I guess lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 11:47 PM
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My friend was freshly 19 when she slept with a 38 year old man with a 10 year old kid. I thought it was disgusting how he approached her. She still talks to him now and then while she has been in a relationship for 4 years now w another guy. Yeah me and her view things differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 09:58 PM
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This wasn’t even about anyone specific this time 🥹✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 07:34 PM
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Thats fine - but why unghost? Why not let the thing naturally fizzle out if he has multiple choices?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 07:15 PM
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Neutral vs mean doesn’t seem like much of a difference tbh. Its either they like ya or they don’t ya know
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 07:13 PM
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Girl does most of the work in the dynamic, knows its wrong but finds him hot. Guy goes silent after sex. Girl accepts it. Guy comes back and apologizes for being silent. Girl is confused. Ive been in this situation and many of my friends have been. Seems like these type of dudes like keeping girls on the backburner for when they are bored? Or girl in their top choice is busy? Never understood why to keep orbiting if something has a chance to fizzle out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 06:59 PM
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Is this how guys think 💀 yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 04:08 PM
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Got catcalled twice in a Walmart, some dude whistled and some lady told me I got the “sexy legs” out today. The lady was less threatening but made me feel shy all of a sudden. I just am wearing shorts 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 04:06 PM
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How do u even turn a ons into a fwb
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 04:04 PM
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Dude popped back up last night after a week of silence and apologized. I was so tired from work I replied. Gave a recc of some movies. Bad. He had his shot of going poof!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 04:04 PM
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I did 11pm to 7am for a whole year so this is glorious
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 08:50 PM
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Anyone got any tips for working 6pm to 2am 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 07:59 PM
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Yall all told me I was in the “fuck zone” with a situation and now I do be thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 07:54 PM
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Yeah odd I know…. Him and I spoke for quite some time tho. We weren’t much of anything but I refuse to be the asshole regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:59 PM
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Yeah like he hasn’t been the nicest person in the world to me and honestly been pretty rude but I am not going to be cruel just bc he has. If he goes poof then he goes poof. I just know I didn’t ghost lol. I even apologized for not being talkative for a few days lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:49 PM
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I really tried but I am not that type of person, he can def be that type of person, but I cannot do it so was def more for me than him
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:48 PM
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So I said how I can’t ghost and I just can’t- its not in my blood unfortunately and I didn’t but now he definitely is lol I don’t mind fr, this is how I think it should go, overall feels weird that tho u can talk to someone everyday for the entire summer and they really just go poof. Half of me wants to go off on him saying how it’s evident he didn’t really like me, and we want two very different things but its not my job to do dat
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:40 PM
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thinking im finally making the move near nyc within the month and am absolutely frightened of the dating scene. i think its been bad now w that one dude….think its gonna get 10x worse lol i would say i think im overall a catch, but the men i go goo goo ga ga over happen to want the hot crazy gals, and i need to change it up and maybe not fall for these men anymore lolz
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:38 AM
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LMFAO
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:58 PM
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Flaky guy still got my goddamn shorts!!!! Smh but its done lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:42 PM
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Here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:41 PM
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this is kind of oddly comforting
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:41 PM
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Don’t know why I enjoy ranting in here. Just wanted to say thanks to whoever takes the time to read them and put input on my stupid rants 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:59 PM
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Feeling very overwhelmed 😐
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:41 PM
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it didn't feel like that though. it felt like he was just texting me for entertainment, and when i contributed he just glossed over what i said - as if he just liked hearing himself talk. we have some distance so i understood, but going 5 weeks in between dates wasn't what i was looking for (no matter how casual), and then we slept together (which we both wanted) but now its just felt like purgatory. hence why i am not even sure to say something cause i don't need the words spelled out. its been…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:52 PM
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It became really sporadic. Moments of utter silence and then random rants out of the blue. At first I thought the sharing was nice but I realized he just did it whenever he was bored. I wanted to see him more in July and Aug but he didn’t put in effort so I lost hope for anything more than a fling awhile ago lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:54 PM
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I genuinely enjoyed talking to him for awhile and I believed we had chemistry. But he made some rude level comments that made me think he just plainly didn’t like me. A lot of negging. So no I guess it was just the physical thing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:36 PM
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Thats the thing idek what to say tbh, and if its ACTUALLY needed. Like things can just naturally fizzle out
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:34 PM
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His communication extremely dwindled after we had sex. It was more of him just him talking at me. And we have no plans to see each other again and I had to do most of the heavy lifting to get things planned when we did. He would talk to girls while we were talking bc he would confuse information up and I would have to be like “wrong person lol”. we are and were not exclusive so I didn’t care. Then he would tell me about girls in his classes tryna to slide into his dms. So 🤷‍♀️ I would be more in…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:33 PM
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No I wouldn’t consider us friends at all. I guess on a basis of like care if something bad happens since we did talk every day for a bit and slept together. He double texted me last week but then our last transaction was I sent 4 texts from the convo and he replied with such a 1 dry text that didn’t need an immediate reply. So I haven’t texted him since then.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:27 PM
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Nah I guess I should definitely send a text formally cutting it off but imo its already been done so idk
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:25 PM
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Yes and we slept together. Talked everyday for 3 months practically
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:18 PM
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I think he gave a shit on a friend level esque, but we have no emotional depth, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:18 PM
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So I’m not that dumb in regards to men and I can pick up when someone is into me or not, but I feel very weird going silent on clothing dude but it was so obvious he was uninterested tho in his last few texts. Insanely dry and did a 360. My gut tells me he was tryna not to be the asshole so he still “replied” but it was just goddamn obvious he didn’t wanna text me. Yet then he snapchats me the next day. I haven’t felt like any type of priority in two months, and its either he rambles texts to me…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:13 PM
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I have a diagnosis of adenomyosis but usually that goes hand in hand with endo. Please see a gynecologist. They will throw bc at you but its good to get the ball rolling. I got my period at the age of 10 and should have been on bc since I was 16 tbh, but I didn’t start till it was too late. I am planning on seeing an endo specialist tho bc gynecologists wanna preserve my fertility and i wanna yeet my uterus lol, if u have any more questions always down to talk too !
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:47 AM
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Yeah he was just being polite which was fine, genuinely no harm done, not picking on him at all. I just wish I didn’t notice the vibes so much
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:16 AM
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Im glad he was receptive to it. I think with the right guy it wouldn’t scare him off which is something I keep reminding myself. Its a big part of me now, and I am very much involved in multiple communities of women who also have this disease and like to be vocal about it but when it comes to dating unless it affects sex, I don’t think I plan to bring it up with any man unless I know he is serious unfortunately. Its a lot of trauma and it overall has impacted who I am to my core as a woman espec…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:14 AM
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Have yall ever experienced trying to talk and connect with someone and when they ask you “whats wrong” or something along those lines, you know they’re just asking to be polite, not actually cause they care? Example: connected with guy for 3 months, when I have had a bad day I refrain from going into it since I knew he genuinely just does not care or will offer help. I have a reproductive gynecological issue (endometriosis and adenomyosis) and its done a lot of medical trauma to me tbh. I don’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:41 AM
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I’m tan, feel good about myself and in result probably put out more good vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:57 PM
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Do yall think its a good idea to jump back on an app before I move? Its my peak time of year physically and I miss dating / socializing but I also have to really focus on packing and moving and locking down an apartment so I have no idea what to do lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:25 PM
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I put on makeup a hot top and jeans and did my hair and I am ready to fucking boogie smh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 01:52 AM
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Yeah like, I have close friends who have only slept with 1 guy for sure. But other girlfriends who are in a similar range like me. I would think unless the girl is asexual, most women have had sex with at least 3 guys by 25. And there’s nothing wrong with that. All I hear is how I “can get dick easy” for petes sake lol and ik my number could probably be higher but I don’t actively look for sex. I just had sex for the first time in a year and a half and guys my age were shocked by that like. Its …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:26 AM
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23f chiming in, mine is in the 10-15 range. Yall do be guessing weird ranges. Every woman is different. Why does this matter. I have friends who have only stayed with 1 and some with already 15+. Let it go
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:25 AM
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No im in the process of moving to the city and onboarding for a new job 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 05:16 PM
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Nah we used to text very well. Its been super obvious he isn’t into me. Idek why he even replied to my text tho, so dry yet he is the one who double texted me. Thought he was a straight forward dude and could cut it off but it’s obvious he doesn’t wanna seem like a dick and I just don’t wanna reply anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 03:54 PM
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Getting one dry ass response to me writing out 4 texts yet I get two memes from him DMed on Instagram. Idk what this is becoming and don’t know what is there to salvage this is a rant I do not need advice I just wanna rant into the void
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 03:31 PM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:20 PM
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Men do this all the time. I prefer focusing on one person at a time but if Yall don’t have the exclusive talk everyone can do what they want. I would just hope one of these people would have the respect of the other person to end it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:19 PM
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I don’t wanna bring it up since I know the answer, I think bc we slept together he doesn’t wanna seem like a dick. So him breadcrumbing means “oh I didn’t pump and dump her” even tho him not speaking up ruins the point of that at all. So he is def tryna make me ghost even tho he double texted me yesterday smh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:01 PM
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Yes, just trying to think of the most mature way to do it but I also don’t think he deserves like a “bye” scenario yk hence why I’m at a stalemate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:00 PM
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Yeah I get that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:45 PM
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Wdym
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:44 PM
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Lol I get it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:36 PM
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He isn’t into me so I think I need some self respect here
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:31 PM
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This was confusing- I think it would just happen naturally anyways ? But either one of us has to make a point not to reply yk
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:30 PM
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being breadcrumbed is so weird its like ok Do I ghost…or does he ghost…or do we both say something about it….. like half of me wants to take the hint to just move on as it’s obvious he doesn’t respect me and there’s nothing to salvage but the other half is like …should I say something….
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:26 PM
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I tried dating in 2020 and got burned pretty bad (after a 2019 one went wrong too) and needed a break. Then I was working from home overnights on the weekend and had no social life
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:53 PM
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I think I have finally made a choice that I wanna date to actually try to get into a relationship this year and open to dating again and lets see how long this lasts lol. Its been 3 years, I gotta put myself back out there for something serious to grow
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:44 AM
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U good dude
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:42 AM
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Yes I got toys 😩😩
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:09 PM
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That has not worked for me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:08 PM
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My friend and I tried Bar A in late Aug and it was DEAD lmao Asbury Park seems like an older overall crowd too which is nice, I can’t stand the bad DJing at some places anymore with every remix My fam had a place in oc for years its just stuck in the year 1982
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:08 PM
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Did I say before how I am from philly omg And yep! Actually closer to Belmar and such. Where I live at least. Asbury Park was probs packed this weekend too 😭 For many years it was ocnj tho
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:26 PM
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Sometimes I’m truly like “yes I can do casual sex” then other times I’m like “””…I think I just want a boyfriend”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:14 PM
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I can only have sex with good looking guys if I feel absolutely positively that we have no romantic connection. And that even if we tried, it would never work. And I can only sleep with him once. Trying to have sex multiple times with hot people will make me think I actually like them when I don’t. But its very rare. Usually the men I wanna have sex with I wanna keep having sex with along with an emotional connection so.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:11 PM
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Ur above average!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:07 PM
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Aw this is kind of sweet
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:05 PM
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Not a fan of how they talk about women and feel like they do not consider my feelings at all
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:27 PM
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Yeah good point. Appreciate it. Just kinda has felt like “what are we trying to salvage here”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:31 PM
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He goes MIA all the time w me and only reaches out when hes bored so. I plan on texting a bit later this afternoon
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:07 PM
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Mid convo..but like… not really idk. I didn’t hear from them for 2 days so
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:04 PM
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I just randomly stopped mid convo (that didn’t need a response)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:56 PM
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we got to know each other a bit, texted and called for a bit too. we had sex once yes. so idk what to call it. wasn't romantic tho
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:49 PM
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it was a situationship. dating sounds weird to say cause it def was not dating
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:45 PM
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i think its a bit of both. and we talked for 3 months. so.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:42 PM
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Why do I feel bad lowkey ghosting someone who was rude to me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:35 PM
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Being slow faded is such a weird concept to me. Its for the best in this scenario, but imagine not wanting to be perceived as a dick to just leave breadcrumbs then poof! Isn’t it easier to send a text? I remember all the times I was non-confrontational with a guy but I usually made it pretty clear thru texting with crappy replies. This one would keep asking me questions even tho, it’s obvious he has no interest. To be fair, I’ve been getting breadcrumbs for two months now, and still texted me ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 02:49 PM
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i think everyone has different boundaries for porn in a relationship. i personally don't care if my partner watches porn but i don't need to hear about it. i've been with a guy tho who never came with any woman he's been with (even while wearing no condom, including me) and it was bc he has death grip while jerking off. I appreciated his honesty about it, but I don't think I could be with someone long term who never got off during sex with their partner. He seemed to be working on it, so I gave …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 04:26 PM
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Brutal response lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 01:10 AM
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Ive thought about this but when reflecting back on guys I’ve dated I think we were all decently in the same league. Honestly, most of my friends told me I was out of THEIR league too 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 10:57 PM
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This dude just keeps talking at me instead of talking to me. Never understood the point of breadcrumbing. not looking for advice just wanted to rant *
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 10:55 PM
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I’m definitely an active gal, I like to be athletic so sports stuff was already on my list to try anyways. Into comedy, movies/tv, artsy scene I guess. Ideally sports seems like the easiest ice breaker cause I consider myself pretty fit and would wanna bond with someone through that. Book clubs would be nice too but unsure if that would just be for an older crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 07:40 PM
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This was a helpful response to prep for! Thank you I appreciate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 07:38 PM
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Very interesting. Those girlies are playing with fire. I recently was with someone but we discussed prior about being tested and both admitted to trusting one another. He has a horrible personality but I trusted him not to lie oddly enough. So I def think its case by case.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 07:35 PM
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Where do yall think single mid 20s gals can meet decent guys in a city? Sports leagues? Dance classes? I want to really try to mingle more but I feel like guys from dating apps put me in a “shes cool, shes now on the backburner” category and stop putting in any effort, and guys I have met irl gave me more of a priority. (Weird observation I know)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 07:30 PM
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When I was 19 I played with fire and had unprotected sex with two guys who I knew were definitely having sex with other women. I’ve learned my lesson. Those two instances and hearing my friends - makes me definitely feel like men could care less where they put their dick and STDs / STIs. For sure a lot of men probably DO care but they aren’t the ones sleeping around like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 07:24 PM
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stop hooking up with younger girls!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 06:48 PM
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i would consider myself pretty average for my age group rn (23f 10-15 partners), but the guys i have met who have a high n count. They are always the same. I feel like you can never truly guess a womans number but a guy ....u can def guess quickly by his vibe. I notice that men who even BRING up n count either 1) have a high number themselves or 2) judge women harshly by their number (too low...the woman is a prude...too high the woman is a hoe). I don't think it ever needs to be brought up when…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 06:48 PM
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I’m covered with them all over my waist 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:33 PM
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Damn I didn’t know coconut oil decreases them i have had them since I was 14.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:15 PM
2

Do men really care if women have stretch marks?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 02:33 PM
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Mid 20s. 10-15.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 01:31 AM
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I need to gage emotional compatibility first and that usually takes 1-2 dates. Date 3 and onwards is fair game to amp up the physical if the emotional connection is there imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 09:12 PM
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I’m definitely not dumb and know when a guy is not into me and showing me signs of disrespect by now. I haven’t even had sex in over a year or dated anyone and yet I saw all the warning signs. Most women can smell a douchebag or fuckboy, but if we can just put them in the casual box then it does us better. Now a 20 year old? Yeah no idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 05:09 PM
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I think it just comes down to maturity levels. Idk I think someone out of college shouldn't be dating someone in college unless they met during. Like 22-26 seems perfectly ok to me, but if you're 24 out of college going after 20 year olds IN school I think that's weird. But again, he is back in school now, so I guess its normal. Even my other 23/24 guy friends cannot imagine dating a 20/19 year old, so its not just me thinking its odd. This guy flexes to me whenever a girl hits on him. We alread…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 05:03 PM
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Lmao its all good
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 03:41 PM
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Genuinely cannot tell if this supportive or not. I knew what I was getting into to be fair, and amongst his weirdness I trusted him sexually at least. Would I have sex with him again? Hell no. His personality has diminished his looks. Just was mad at myself for leaving something there more than anything 😡 I knew after we would have sex it would just fade anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 03:09 PM
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Alright, update on the clothing fiasco. I asked. And he said he would definitely mail it. He doesn’t seem like the mailing type so. I’m officially letting it go and just glad I asked ✨ Also he’s my age right (24) yet lowkey flexing about how 20 year olds are trying to hit on him to me? And he is also following 19 year olds. Idk what zone he is putting me in but I want out of it. He still semi flirts, yet I’m being plopped into this fuckbuddy disrespect zone lol. Idk I’m 24 and I could simply not…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 02:15 PM
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As I have dealt with guys who would do this to me, and I always pondered about this - this most likely means she just likes your attention and is maybe definitely busy and you’re just simply not on her mind. You’ve been pretty cool about it so just take a step back. Since she had a chance to exit freely multiple times she’s probably still a lil interested (but this could also mean she enjoys the ego boost)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 02:09 PM
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Actually not in the city rn ill be there in Oct 😭 but I appreciate the offer for sure. Feel free to message me whenever or something
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 01:50 PM
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Ill have you know I’ve been told I’m a 7!!! (Kills me writing this out as a defense mechanism)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 01:49 PM
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The thought of dating in NYC terrifies me and excites me (I am 24f, believe I am reasonably attractive). But I just like to usually stick to talking to one guy at a time. But Ik that is a recipe for disaster. Wouldn’t mind casually dating 3 men at a time and then make a choice. But that seems so exhausting 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 04:28 AM
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Dude maybe you shouldn’t talk to 21 year olds then lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 04:24 AM
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Men really be out here thinking they are shooting their shot by liking your Instagram stories
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:45 AM
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This is good! Thank u
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 11:32 PM
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He has been breadcrumbing me for months and I wanna let it fade, but I want the clothing back too 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 11:13 PM
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The saga continues: Whats the best way to ask someone to mail you something you left behind at their house when its evident you both are trying to slowly ghost one another??? Or at least some type of slow fade?? Even tho doesn’t seem like the mailing type 😠
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 10:55 PM
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LMAO, appreciate the analogy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 10:18 PM
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Yeah this has been the case
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 10:17 PM
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Brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 10:17 PM
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Is getting called thicc by men actually a good thing. Cause to me it feels like I’m just being incredibly sexualized all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 10:00 PM
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Yes unfortunately. I don’t regret sending them in the moment cause I felt sexy and wanted too but it feels weird if I stop talking to him and he still has these photos on snapchat yk? Also we aren’t even bf or gf 😭 its just a situationship smh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 02:59 PM
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I tried and it won’t unsave since he saved them. I can fully ask and he will remove them but I just was trying to avoid doing that cause I don’t wanna speak to him
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 02:53 PM
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Honestly just gonna pipe in here and say another obnoxious thing this dude has told me. I don’t even like offer or ask for any type of this info. This mf always tells me how hot other actresses are it makes me feel like crap All my friends telling me to ghost him but he has sexy pics saved on mf snapchat!!! Honestly just putting off the inevitable. But I will say. I am glad I am seeing his true personality shine thru here so I can yeet this
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 11:42 PM
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Which I don’t get cause I am not supplying any real validation for him. He’s just bored. But yes I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:52 PM
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Idk what this has to do with anything but he says I am hot and very attractive. I think he is very physically attractive as well. His personality is starting to damper on me tho
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:48 PM
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I expressed how I was flexible with the distance but I think he just enjoys the entertainment of texting me, and actually will not lift a finger to see me again lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 09:50 PM
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LMAO yeah idk that feels empty 😭 I also just don’t have the energy for it rn and hate leading people on and get overwhelmed by the replies
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 09:45 PM
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I hope the effort will change but I know it won’t. I def have not tried to change anything but I just know the warning signs
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 09:44 PM
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I graduated two years ago. He’s in grad school. We are about a hour and 30 away from one another
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 09:43 PM
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I’m having trouble cutting something off cause I guess a glimmer in me hopes something will change. Tells me about school, and keeps saying how he wants to meet people. I genuinely don’t know how to reply to it. To me this screams I wanna meet other women and make friends, and meanwhile I’m standing here like uhhhhhhhhhhhh. Like I’m in some weird fuckbuddy zone? But not entirely? Any tips?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 09:30 PM
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I am a woman and from this story it seems like she’s slightly into you. I wouldn’t do that to a guy I had no interest in. Do you think it’s possible she has a boyfriend? Maybe she does flirt with you out of boredom?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 09:26 PM
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Idk about that, still is a weird observation to make either way when I didn’t ask about it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:37 PM
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Autocorrect from what 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:29 PM
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Hmmm idk I don’t think this guy likes me that much like that LOL. I think he’s just saying the first thing in his head. It doesn’t make me feel good at all. Also its just the first week, and we had sex less than a week ago. I just don’t get it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:18 PM
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I think it was his weird fucked up way to “assure” me he isn’t attracted to anyone in his classes? I genuinely have no idea. I didn’t ask nor cared and I replied with “I truly don’t know how to reply to that lmao” and he said “Felt like a needed update on my college experience” I got no idea
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:10 PM
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He was randomly rambling about his college classes cause they started this week and telling me about them when texting me and he threw that in there. I didn’t even ask him anything about his classes I have no idea what he meant. The “assure” thing throws me tf off
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:03 PM
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Dude randomly told me “can assure 0 bitches” in his classes. I didn’t even ask 🥴 What tf
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 02:33 PM
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Its weird bc I consider my partners in different categories. My ex we made love a lot but the best sex I still remember was a one night stand 4 years ago where our bodies just meshed well. We had no chemistry tho outside of the bedroom lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 05:20 PM
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Yeah I definitely think he has insecurities but it’s coming out so sideways. I thought we at least had a lil bit of a romantic element but its just me getting frustrated and feeling bad. I don’t think he respects me much at all
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:33 PM
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I’ve tried fr
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:32 PM
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He did this AFTER we had sex to be clear. My coochie grew teeth in that moment he said that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:31 PM
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It sucks bc we have had moments where it felt like everything flowed well and we vibed but then he says shit like this which absolutely ruins it. I don’t even know if he deserves a text to say bye so ghosting may be smart
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:10 PM
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What does this mean 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:09 PM
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He does not give off player vibes though. Like even afterwards I said “Ok mr ladies here” and he goes “it was with the same girls” im like 👍🏻. Maybe you’re right though. He did tell me he hasn’t had sex since February and I don’t take him as a liar at least. Half of this is def on me for not disclosing what I fully want too. Been going with the flow. Bad on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:02 PM
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Imma get hate for this but I am stressed and confused. Slept over a guys house we had sex 4 times. I trust him sexually so I thought it wasn’t a big deal. The next morning he doesn’t make breakfast and we don’t eat until 5pm (I felt weird and rude trying to cook in his own kitchen) then makes roasting comments about how we could’ve had a cute romantic date and makes me feel bad after he drives me around and points out places where he has had sex with other women. Then I say to him after sex, som…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 02:55 PM
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My childhood home is sold and we have to move out in 60 days and no idea where my parents are going and they should separate. I got a new job in NYC at the same time and need to be there by October. I didn’t expect this much change at once. And I just had sex for the first time in over a year with someone who I felt comfortable with and trusted but I know we will never see each other again due to life changing factors. Just stressed and upset
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 05:07 AM
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Really off topic but I feel very lost rn and need to scream into a void that is all
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 05:03 AM
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I was frustrated cause it made it so awkward
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:52 PM
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I was not interested in this dude and we were dancing near each other for a hour but I always appreciate effort and woulda gave him a shot if he genuinely approached me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:52 PM
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Had a 26/27 year old dude have his BUDDY tell me that he thought I was cute at a bar. I was so mad. I said thank you for the compliment but why can’t he tell me himself. Maybe I was too harsh but I have gone up to guys to just give genuine compliments on how I think they were good looking (I wasn’t expecting anything else). I feel bad but like I need a MAN HERE
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:37 PM
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Yes and he is putting in absolutely 0 effort 🤩🤩🤩
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 09:36 PM
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LOL I appreciate the honesty!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 08:17 PM
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Hmmm yes. If the guy was bonkers and or we both didn’t feel a spark Rn I’m just being strung along for absolutely no purpose imo
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 08:00 PM
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Smh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 07:59 PM
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hmmmmm do y’all think there is ever a situation for people to ghost. like one that is acceptable (i rlly wanna ghost someone since im being absolutely breadcrumbed but he has some sexy pics of me)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 07:55 PM
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The thing is tho he has never even once asked me when I am free lol and our last date was a month ago, I def think I am not his number one pick yet he is texting consistently every day and asking how was your day questions and telling me about his. I think its definitely a validation thing and I am bored of it. When I made a light joke about seeing him he said “I wanted to today but I had work” and since then I just stopped trying. Maybe he is waiting for me to pull the plug
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:57 PM
1

I have asked him his schedule lol I’ve been pretty straightforward imo
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:52 PM
1

I have - he comes up with an excuse
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:51 PM
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Here I am again asking a silly question on this forum into the void Why would a guy continue to text me but not ask me out? Makes zero sense I think its time to start ignoring his messages. And for starters, I have hinted and asked him his schedule 3 times now. He just lists some excuse. Assuming now I am fulfilling some weird ego text boost and he is dating others
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:06 PM
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19-22. I have taken a break from dating for a bit and noticed I am sorta falling into semi same patterns but am MUCH more aware of it and cut off the relationship which isn’t actually giving me anything. Realize its just a high I am after. Not an actual relationship so its gotten a lot better realizing that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:25 AM
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This is unhealthy mechanisms girls do. I used to do this all the time. It wasn’t healthy and I pushed away great guys for a guy who had little to no respect for me. This is all mind games. Unless you’re into that and ready, this is not a sign of a healthy relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 09:32 PM
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Old fling asked, I didn’t feel like dodging it and answered honestly 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 01:14 PM
2

Yep learned my lesson. Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 01:13 PM
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One example, it came up in conversation as an old fling tried to hit me up to hookup but we were in different cities. He asked me how long its been and I answered honestly 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 01:11 PM
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This is a tiny rant but as a gal in her early 20s who has not had sex in over a year due to personal choices, nothing irks me more than telling a man this and he is surprised. Like shocked. And then proceeds to ask me why, and that “fr you can get dick easy”. Like. Can’t men realize maybe I just don’t want dick here. I want something with substance AND then the dick 😐
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 04:43 AM
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Judging you based off your answer
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 02:57 PM
1

I did not ask. At all. He completely went full TMI
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 01:45 PM
2

Yeah I wanted to have sex with him lol he was good looking and funny then it just got odd and lost any momentum/fun due to how he is making zero effort and keeps making weird comments
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 01:44 PM
2

Highly leaning towards it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 01:26 PM
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I should’ve told him how I don’t wanna hear these graphic details but I rather just let people show me who they are so I just let it slide. But now the one story I told he keeps waving it in front of my face making me feel like, horrible lol. I don’t get it. I think he’s just bored at this rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 01:25 PM
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guy im talking to has told me 7-8 stories about previous girls he has talked to or dated or had sex with in pretty decent detail. Its been a huge turn off. I never speak in intimate detail about what I have done w another person or if someone was great in bed. i have told him One, ONLY ONE, funny date story that got semi sexual and he keeps bringing it up. Every time I have mentioned a guy friend he thinks its him. Its really annoying me and I wonder if any other girl he has talked to got annoye…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 01:14 PM
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I have 0 reason to lie cause men who mention body count immediately means they have an agenda
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 01:06 PM
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Men, lets say 4 years ago you had a one night stand w a lady. Now you reach out to her out of the blue asking to meet up. And he tells you how you “rocked” his world back then. This is for sex, no? This dude lives in nyc with 2 million single women and he has tried to get together with me 7 times in the past 9 months. Should i take this as an ego boost for being memorable in bed?? (It was memorable for me as well so its nice to know its mutual)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 11:11 AM
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Men do you actually think you could wife up a woman has a high sex drive. Feels like yall say this but when presented with a woman who wants sex Yall get scared tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 10:57 PM
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Oh i was 100% turned off after. Its one thing to say it as amping up sexy talk but to say it while hes inside of me already naked made no goddamn sense
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:40 PM
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I am all for sexting if I feel like there’s trust and open communication and it can be very fun, but I have noticed with some dudes the moment sexting starts thats all they have interest with. Nothing in person. It sucks. I feel like I get put into this weird porn fetish box instead of actually just wanting to fuck in real time. Guys who I have had flings with have even point blank said to me in the middle of sex “you should send me pictures to masturbate too” and I just am like..I am on top of …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:12 PM
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I will forever stand by that a man who actually has respect for you and likes you will not tell you what he has done with other women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 06:55 PM
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As a 23F, I am always concerned if I come across as relationship material. I have had casual sex in the past but not super into it anymore. I need some type of romantic/trust/comfort factor (doesn’t have to be SO serious ya know, but need some dates to see if I wanna have sex w him). I have had dates w guys that say I am a catch yet they still cut it off (and they usually say its bc they cannot give me what I want, which is something serious, and they want a FWB/casual thing). Basically - I am u…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 11:52 PM
1

This thread gave me a migraine and just solidified all my fears lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 11:47 PM
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I don’t think anything is wrong w it I just feel immense pressure to make sure I sound “sexy” or something when Ik deep down men just don’t care lol Its definitely a me thing, need to just relax and not think of being pressured
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 10:54 AM
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Do men really care what womens orgasm faces look like lmfao I really would like to be more relaxed in the bedroom and I keep getting in my head about it and feel immense pressure. Definitely a me thing but my insecurities rear its head every now and then. I think bc when I was 19 a guy I was hooking up w laughed as I made a weird moan sound lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 12:03 AM
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Completely correct. For me chemistry falls a little bit into compatibility. I feel like you can’t have chemistry unless you two mesh a bit. Spark though? Spark doesn’t mean chemistry or compatibility at all. I think it just means sex
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:34 PM
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Kinda been thinking that the spark is overrated. The one guy I really fell head over heels for we didn’t have a spark immediately. I honestly felt meh about his physical attraction. But we had good conversation and he was polite so I gave it a chance and low and behold by the 3rd date I was wondering why we haven’t kissed yet and I wanted to jump his bones. By the 6th date we spent 3 hours making out and having sweaty sex lol. Spark for me immediately means I want this guy to fuck me. I’ve had t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:28 PM
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Do you think it would come off as needy if I said “Btw just seeing if you’re still interested for another get together at some point?”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:17 PM
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He’s been communicative about ending it w previous girls explaining how their was “no spark”, so it just seems odd to me for him to drag this out. He is a very straightforward dude never got non confrontational vibes. I could be wrong ig and he is waiting for me to exit politely
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 04:49 PM
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Shockingly a ..different one lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 04:46 PM
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Noted. Thank you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 04:46 PM
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Probably backup for now
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 04:45 PM
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Feels like it takes two seconds to say hey not interested idk thats just me 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 01:04 PM
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Really? Idk he just didn’t give me that vibe. And he can easily put other women in his rotation. We also live kinda far. Makes no sense. My one guy friend said its for easy sex…but idk how easy that can be
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:58 PM
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Over a week
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:41 PM
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But why keep up w the constant contact then
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:40 PM
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Speaking in general terms here- Men, why do you keep texting and remain in contact with a woman even though you don’t get another date set up? And she seems down? I am assuming its for the possibility of easy sex? Why not cut it off?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:38 PM
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Every goddamn day I wish I had a man’s ego. I could rule the world if I did lmfao For real, need to date like a man. Get dudes in rotation. I wear my heart on my sleeve and need to stop. Yall can separate sex from romance so well. Congrats
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 10:24 AM
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I am 24 currently and all these dudes just wanna bang cause I have curvy hips. U telling me I’m gonna lose this in my 40s?!? (This is a joke btw) BUT all jokes aside, I have been told I am “above average” and could “get dick easy” but I do not want easy dick. It feels awful to have casual sex but I keep pulling dudes like this in. They just think I have an amazing body. Yet I am horny. But wanna have sex with a lil bit more than a hookup. Idk, I clearly don’t know what I want. I also cry after e…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 11:26 PM
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Omg
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 10:29 AM
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Incredibly horny and wanna have sex w this dude but know its a bad idea. I need some sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 10:15 AM
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Think the guy I’m talking to who is 24, is talking to 18/19 year olds. This is giving me the ick lol. Like I am 24 too and NOT gonna compete against a 18 year old 😵‍💫
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 10:13 AM
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Gen Z here sigh. Honestly chose to be celibate for a year and now I am begging to get fucked so.lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 10:11 AM
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i honestly haven't explicitly said "i don't wanna hear this" - i thought me making a joke about he seems to be a player would make him calm down but i don't think it did. if we get to a second date and if he makes another comment then ill mention it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 07:07 PM
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Re entering the dating scene after a year. Just tryna trust my gut intuition, and he was funny and goofy during the date yet I can’t help but feel off when he mentions this other stuff. He said he’s open to a second date but no plans. And I ain’t gonna force it. I was open to having sex w him but if he does the bare minimum now and mentions these other girls idk anymore lol. Sigh. I appreciate the input.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:53 PM
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We did not have sex yet. All we did was makeout. He did say when making out how much he wanted to fuck me but we didn’t escalate
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:46 PM
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When men mention previous escapades to the woman they are on a date with and maybe trying to sleep with…why? I’ve had one guy go into TMI details of how him and this one girl didn’t have sex immediately and gave each other massages, how one girl couldn’t handle how big his dick was so they just did oral sex all the time. It’s getting on my nerves. I never talk about these sexual details with a man I’m getting to know EVEN if it was just for sex or super casual?! Talks about other dates he has be…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:32 PM
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Guy said he’s down for a second date. Why am I overanalyzing this lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 12:34 AM
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I have flirted back. Its been like this for three years now since we met at college. But apparently he is also just a flirty character who does it w everyone but I am not sure. He also recently paid a meal for me when we went out to catch up in the winter and made a comment on my appearance how I looked nice and etc even open the car door for me. Yet he texts me how he wants to talk to girls!!!! Makes no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:04 AM
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Cannot for the life of me tell if my close guy friend is into me. He made a joke about my sex appeal last night how is this NOT flirting at this point. Also p sure the guy I am seeing just wants to get me naked. He’s talked to me for a bit though so idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:50 AM
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Idk when I mentioned therapist but Ok lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:03 PM
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Appreciate the input. I have a feeling I will know more as time goes on to gage it better. Right now it’s going ok though. Just wanna be prepared lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:02 PM
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Might be dangerous to post in here but this is geared towards men: if y’all really liked spending time with a woman would you drive a hour+ to see her? If the answer is yes, and you liked her, would you ever go into detail about previous sexual relationships? Like out of the blue. Normal back n forth convo about what two people like is ok, but I feel like I am in the danger zone of being led on just for a hookup
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:56 PM
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Most of the guys I’ve been with were able to pick me up, I workout everyday so this description you gave definitely is my WORST CASE nightmare scenario lmao. Which I guess is good? Lol. Thanks for the input!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:56 PM
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Thanks, this makes more sense!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:12 PM
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No, they both told me they were looking for a connection. Never distinguished casual or serious though as they both didn’t know what they wanted. To be fair this was over a break from college at the time and car sex was something neither of us wanted to do lmao. If anything I was the slight aggressor with having sex since I was the one who brought it up
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:11 PM
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This may be the wrong thread and I might be inviting bad comments, but how much do men actually care about weight? I am not super tall but been called above average, hot, sexy etc and can get guys, but part of me still think its because im fulfilling some silly fantasy guys have of having sex or getting with a “thicc” girl (I am pretty significantly pear shaped) and don’t actually like me. I say this as I have really tried not letting physical things develop with the past couple guys I’ve went o…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:05 PM
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Looks off first bat. Intense physical attraction. Didn’t really care so much about his personality unless he had no emotion or charisma like at ALL. As long as there is a little mutual flirtation and a physical spark, and I feel safe, it usually went well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 10:40 PM
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What made do one night stands? I wanted to have sex and have fun and knew nothing would come of it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 10:35 PM
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What I want: someone who actually respects me and my boundaries/ and know what THEY want. No more mystery type of thing.even if its casual, I want to hear a strong statement about it ya know? What I did wrong: I kept getting myself involved with guys who either lovebombed me or did not care if I lived or die lmao. And I never put my foot down and let it happen. I kept giving my attention to people who weren’t worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 12:02 PM
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I know that my issue is that I choose the wrong dudes. And I don’t know what I want: hence why I have not been on a date in 6 months 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:24 PM
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This is actually borderline hysterical but extremely concerning. Never talk to this dude again. But please, use him for comedy bits. What a loser. God forbid a woman ever gets her period around him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 03:03 PM
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Girl retweet!!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 02:57 AM
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an ex felt threatened by my job opportunities. Now i know to always filter out if a man is intimidated by a woman's success went out with a handful of dudes who liked titty twitch streamers. never again weirdly made jokes about getting me pregnant on the first date
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 04:37 PM
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Honestly these past two years deciding who is worthy to enter my body and touch me has changed me for the better. Its a lot of filtering and vetting but feeling confident in my choice to who i have sex with definitely helps me feel better. That being said I have only had sex twice within the past year lmao. Dildos and vibrators for the win!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 10:17 PM
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This is….true
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:07 PM
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Lmao i said this joke to my dad and he flipped the fuck out. (My dad is an asshole)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 02:50 PM
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Definitely a funny joke about hookup culture but you cannot find a serious boyfriend with this. People that fuck on the first date it ain’t happenin folks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 03:41 AM
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I feel like most men in this thread need just to get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 03:26 PM
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22 here and this thread makes me wanna burst into flames
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 05:41 AM
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jesus christ i am...actually laughing. who is this guy lmao. glad he showed his true colors
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 01:41 AM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 03:47 AM
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Damn even if i meant their parents and it went fantastically????? Dating is just BSSSSSS
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 12:35 AM
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Can i ask a question without being punished hopefully? Guys tell me all the time how much of “a fucking catch” I am yet no one wants to level up to commit? But will continue to “hanging out”? Or just end things as there was no “final spark”. But it ends not due to “something i did and or said”and they tell me how fun I am. What am I doing wrong here?? Im being myself, have a high sex drive, have strong career ambitions, exercise daily... I literally am in awe. It could very well be I am talking …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 11:31 PM
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It takes awhile for a woman to get properly wet moreso than a man it takes to get hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 03:51 AM
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Men like crazy. Crazy girls are typically hot in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 09:06 PM
3

I am just recently getting more into the Madonna Whore complex.. I am realizing that with most of my relationships this is what has occurred. I have mostly fallen into the Madonna because the men i have seen I haven’t been their type at all yet they said how amazing, how much they liked me, etc, but what was always troubling was the sex. I like my skinny lanky men and do believe it takes two to tango. Everyone likes being chased but that can’t be held on for so long
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 03:29 PM
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The first one Goddamn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 10:18 PM
5

This thread is giving me a headache lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 03:02 AM
7

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 08:26 PM
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Simple. Guy A i am attracted to and I don’t think is relationship material and I don’t care if he calls me back afterwards. Guy B: I feel all ooey gooey about and wanna wait to get naked cause I think he is relationship material and wanna build an emotional connection first
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 08:24 PM
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I needed to read this. Guy and I saw each other over winter break (now 3 months ago!!) and we go to different colleges. I am graduating in two months and he is a year younger. He said “i wanna keep in touch and pick this back up when we can” and i FELL FOR THIS. I actually was blaming myself for him not texting me being like “am i not showing interest?” And HELL NO. If men Want to see you THEY WILL MAKE IT HAPPEN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 04:21 PM
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Yeah I agree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 09:50 PM
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This seems to be the question nowadays. I think it goes back to niche hobbies? Bars seem to be dead too now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 05:50 PM
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This happened to me recently as well too— I was blaming girls I found out a guy I was interested in was talking with, and then I am like whooaaa back up. I have no idea who these girls are. Its time for me to dump HIM and quit being led on, rather than shit on other girls who are simply just existing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:28 PM
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Damn. You right. Very interesting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 10:34 AM
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Lmao the dude i somewhat liked i checked his following and its like three older skinny brunette moms just alllll half naked and twerking. I actually laughed. I am blonde and VERY pear shaped and the exact opposite of what this dude likes why the hell is he talking to me still? So i backed way off lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 04:48 AM
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