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| 2 | Something I do not understandYeah nothing creepy about that but maybe don’t mention explicitly about making together on profile before you speak to matches. But mention a great drink you can make. You can also suggest this when pitching the date. ‘’Do you like Mojitos?’’. ‘’Cool, i make a great cocktail, we can make together and chill on my patio’’. Also you can mention this during a public date then say something like when moving back to your place ‘’I really fancy that cocktail right now, lets make one together’’ and lead… | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 01:19 PM |
| 2 | Something I do not understandIf inviting directly off an app then you will insert some activity for you to do as plausible deniability such as chill on your patio and drink wine etc. Then handle the objections. If it’s a public date then arrange close to your place. Then spend like 30-45 vibiing and seed the pull during the date by mentioning something at your place to see or do then move it there. | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 11:08 PM |
| 18 | Why is there so much jealousy on this sub?What’s worse is that guys are so discouraging and fight back against advice that will actually improve their dating lives. Unfortunately vague empty platitudes are prominent on this sub and not actually advice/encouragement that actually pertain to seduction. | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 07:17 PM |
| 0 | Something I do not understandYeah, don’t say it straight up as this will put women off even if they are up for a hookup/casual. Just keep it vague such as ‘’someone I have chemistry with and see from there’’. Then your game plan should be to get them to your place to vibe, escalate then have sex. | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Not interested in average women. Hot women out of my leaguePussy isn’t going to fall into your lap. You have to decide if getting women is worth the effort to you. Many people do things they don’t like to get the results they want. Why haven’t you made dating profiles on multiple platforms? You should probably have sex with her anyway, it can be helpful if you’re on a dry spell. | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 12:27 PM |
| 2 | Not interested in average women. Hot women out of my leagueYou need to work on your mentality. You should probably stop reading too much of Reddit as there is a prevalent loser mentality when it comes to women. You need to do things that help develop a masculine and confident mentality such as lifting, sports and taking action to become the man you want to be. Women will mirror your behavior, if you go up to them believing you're not good enough then you will have bad results. If you go up believing you're the man and you want to see if you're intereste… | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 11:58 AM |
| 4 | Made out with a girl, connected with her for 2 hours, the next few days she gives me half ass answers when I invite herIt seems you made it harder for yourself instead of going in a straight line for sex. Other posters have said to just give up but I wouldn't advise giving up leads so easily. A woman's mood can vary greatly between the times you talk. It doesn't really take much effort to send a text to try and set up a meet. You should try and get her to a place where you can have sex with some plausible deniability chucked in (some activity or something to see at your place). Also, avoid unmatching/blocking po… | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 11:45 AM |
| 0 | Not interested in average women. Hot women out of my leagueAnd why do you think hot women are out of your league? Looks don't matter as much as many guys on Reddit believe as long as you're not on the extreme end of the scale. There's also many things you can do to improve. Have you actually made an effort to do this? | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 11:31 AM |
| 1 | The worst dating advice I’ve ever received was to focus on having fun and not getting womenYeah it's bad advice along with similar advice about building a cool lifestyle/interesting hobbies. Taking massive action whilst refining and developing your approach is what gets you results. | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 11:27 AM |
| 1 | Whats her intention?Stop worrying about a girls intentions or indicators of interest. Take action and move things in the direction that you want it to go. | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 05:31 PM |
| 1 | escalating advice brosFirstly break the physical contact barrier by giving her a proper hug when you meet. Continue touching throughout the date such as playing with her hand, running your fingers down her back and placing your hand on her thigh. When you go for the kiss make sure she’s in a good position and either move her hair to the side or place your finger and thumb under her chin. Kiss for a bit then continue escalating by removing her clothes and eventually fucking. | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 05:29 PM |
| 1 | I have a pretty nice physique but I am lean, so I look just normal in clothes. Is there anything I can do about this to improve my chances with women?It’s tricky because a lot of brands seem to have made their clothes larger. You just have to try different brands with different fits. You can also fold your the sleeves on your arms to make them look bigger. | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Being a woman destroyed my chance for happiness and made me in a permanently depressive state.These types of people you see on Reddit and in the media aren’t representative of how most women feel in real life. Live your own life and stop concerning yourself with all this nonsense. | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 04:00 PM |
| 15 | What to do next?You could have simply asked who she is and proceeded from there. You should always be taking the girls number instead of giving yours. Most women are very passive when it comes to dating even if they’re interested in meeting. | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 03:57 PM |
| 0 | Where is a good place for a guy to approach women?They can be for you with some work and effort. Have you tried all apps or just Tinder? | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 03:53 PM |
| 3 | Where is a good place for a guy to approach women?You're clueless. Stop giving out bad advice to guys who actually want to improve. | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 07:47 PM |
| 3 | Where is a good place for a guy to approach women?Wanting to talk and sleep with women are perfectly healthy and normal intentions. Women love it too. | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 06:14 PM |
| 0 | Where can a guy with no friends or social circle go to meet new and potentially single womenThe first thing you should do is make profiles on multiple dating platforms. Generate as many leads as possible then invite them directly to your place. You should also be approaching women wherever you like. There’s an unlimited amount of women on the street everyday. You don’t need to be a social butterfly or a list of hobbies to get results but you need the right mindset and to be taking massive action. | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Where is a good place for a guy to approach women?The first thing you should do is make profiles on multiple dating platforms. Generate as many leads as possible then invite them directly to your place. You should also be approaching women where ever you like. There’s an unlimited amount of women on the street everyday. You don’t need to be a social butterfly to get results but you need the right mindset and massive action. | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 03:38 PM |
| 3 | Where is a good place for a guy to approach women?This is bad advice. He absolutely should be approaching in malls, on the street and grocery stores. He shouldn’t be giving up tons of potential opportunities to meet women. You stop being creepy with the right mindset and experience. | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 03:36 PM |
| 0 | Am I naïve?Yes, you are being naive. Pussy isn’t going to just fall into your lap. If you want to sleep with lots of women then you have to be taking massive action generating and developing leads and moving things in the direction you want. | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 08:52 PM |
| 2 | Dealing With RejectionIt’s part of the game. With more experience you even think about it as rejection any more. This is why you should always be generating new leads, rejection will be like water off a Duck’s back. | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 08:49 PM |
| 5 | Getting GhostedOf course you should keep trying or you won’t be getting any pussy at all. However, you need to address any problem areas and improve those. | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Did I mess up this date at the end?Don't worry too much about her reciprocating/interest levels. Just try and move things in the right direction and handle the objections. For example the time constraint, just say something like ''yeah, I have to get up early too, we'll just go back for a bit and (insert activity for plausible deniability)''. Don't give up so easily. | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 07:52 PM |
| 2 | Would a Girl Want to Date a Guy Who is Good Looking but Doesn’t Have a Car?Money, car or career doesn’t mean much when it comes to success with women. What’s required is: Massive action, being reasonably in shape and presentable, generating and developing leads and the right mentality. If you go up to these girls expecting rejection and feeling you’re not good enough then those are the results you will get. Improve your mentality and make the effort to make things happen and you can succeed. | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Did I mess up this date at the end?Being afraid of being too physical or escalating is how you end up with the girl losing interest. You need to run the date in a way that increases your likelihood of sex. If you can’t get her directly to your place then arrange it somewhere close and seed the pull back to your place. | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 01:01 AM |
| 2 | She tried to reschedule then ghosted meDeveloping new opportunities to meet and have sex with girls. Approaching girls you see, matching on apps. You should be continuously adding more girls to your funnel and have multiple girls in various stages of texting when setting up dates. | /r/seduction | 24/06/22 12:36 PM |
| 3 | She tried to reschedule then ghosted meDid you text too much before the date? That can often cause a loss of interest. Some girls are just fickle and flakey which is why you should always be generating and developing new leads. Then you wouldn’t care about one girl flaking, it’s part of the game. | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 05:22 PM |
| 1 | How do I proceed with this girl who lives in another townIf you just give up, that’s pretty much 0% chance of getting laid rather than trying something. Also, this is why you need to be generating and developing multiple leads, girls are fickle and flakey before you’ve had sex with them. Suggest a specific date and insert some cool thing you can do at your place - drink wine, enjoy your balcony, chill on your patio etc. | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 04:28 PM |
| 1 | How do I proceed with this girl who lives in another townYou should try and set the date ASAP and ideally to your place. Stop worrying about when she is in town next and suggest a day that’s good for you. If you keep texting without meeting there’s a good chance she’ll lose interest. | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 04:29 PM |
| 3 | My friends now have girlfriends, and I'm supposed to be happy for them. but I'm not. Am I an idiot for feeling that way?https://www.playingfire.com/category/tinder-guides/tinder-profile-setup/ Read these articles. If you don't have someone to take pictures of you then use a tripod and bluetooth clicker and get creative. When texting these girls you want to be grabbing their number quite quickly within six messages or so. Don't get lost in the shuffle. There's also an unlimited supply of women on the street everyday that you can approach. | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 02:18 PM |
| 3 | My friends now have girlfriends, and I'm supposed to be happy for them. but I'm not. Am I an idiot for feeling that way?It doesn’t make you an idiot but what changes are you going to make to get girls into your life? You need to start taking action to get the success you want. Start by generating leads. Make dating profiles on multiple platforms, start approaching girls you see. | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 01:52 PM |
| 2 | What is the right and healthy mindset to adopt if you’ve never had success with women before?Abundance mindset who could care less about rejection. You do not seek permission or signs from a women to make a move. You believe you are a stud who’s talking to women to find out if you want to take them to bed. You move things in the direction that you want to go and handle objections accordingly. | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 02:29 PM |
| 3 | Giving a girl your number?You should always go for their number. Women are very passive and most likely won’t contact you even if they want to meet. | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 08:53 AM |
| 2 | How does one know if they are being checked out?Why do you ask? You shouldn't concern yourself with indicators of interest as they're not very important overall. Just approach the girls you find attractive. | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 03:09 PM |
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