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Thanks man, I'm not gonna engage that guy. But yeah I'm trying to figure out what the difference is in being a cuck and being in an open relationship with a girl best friend. I honestly think she might want to help me explore with other girls, help me with the social scene, meeting more people. We've talked about it, and I trust her intentions in that. They may be changing. I feel like the fact that I'm not contacting her is making her feel like I'm being a bitch about the situation, but I'm jus…
/r/askTRP30/01/19 01:55 AM
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Something I didn't mention, someone asked below, why I'm not fucking other women. The thing is, is that I think she would support me in fucking other women, we've talked about it recently. She wants to include me in her social journey. She said she wanted to wait for me to get back from abroad to start being social with me "as a team". That may have changed after this guy, but I do kind of think it's her exploring her freedom, and preparing herself for me to explore mine. Obviously I need to wor…
/r/askTRP30/01/19 01:48 AM
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Honestly because I've been dealing with depression, I let this girl take all my time and energy because I enjoyed being around her. I agree, you're right, I wouldn't have made this post if I had been. I have few friends and no social circle, like is said this is all my fault. I'm just trying to figure out where to go from here. If I keep her as a friend, or FWB, I may have the potential to have an open LTR and meet more people through her. I think she would support me fucking other women, we've …
/r/askTRP30/01/19 01:43 AM
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Yeah you're right that it's my fault. 100%. I wasn't congruent with what I want my values to be. I talked but I didn't walk. I'm trying to figure out what my walk should be. Trying to figure out what I want. I don't want to worry about her and keep her at the center of my universe. I don't want pitiful affection (which is aptly put, I think you're right). I'll be honest, it's been a struggle for me, but it was also a kick in the nuts to get my shit together and focus on myself. But yeah I'm stil…
/r/askTRP30/01/19 01:36 AM
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I'm just trying to look at this from a different paradigm. I watched an RSDMax video saying you should internally thank your ex for cheating on you, if that pushes you to be better. She didn't cheat, because of the understanding, but made me realize I'm all kinds of fucked up and need to get my shit together, and also work on finding other girls and people. I feel like I can let this go if I have to. I feel like I'm on an edge of having the mentality of "Cool, do what you want, I'll do what I wa…
/r/askTRP30/01/19 01:01 AM
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You're absolutely right. I shouldn't claim to be on the red pill journey and post this. I've made a little progress in my Nice Guy syndrome, but I have a lot of work to do. In the past I would have been groveling to her, apologizing for being a loser, begging her back, etc. But yes this post comes off that way. A lot of it was me just getting my thoughts out, and sounds like vomit. I've read about many men who have successful LTR's, open relationships, having multiple plates. I'm fucked up and i…
/r/askTRP30/01/19 12:47 AM
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This is exactly what I needed at this moment, thanks
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 09:37 PM
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Sorry for the late reply, hopefully your issue wasn't pressing. I had never heard of Fort Belvoir until you mentioned it. I worked for the NSA as part of the military component. We worked alongside NGA employees. I'm gonna preface this by saying is a generalization from my experience. Exceptions always apply. I've worked with people from all of the services and all different types of jobs in the military, but mostly Intel. In my opinion a lot of the military is filled with people with beta attri…
/r/askTRP10/10/15 09:59 AM
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I think NMMNG is a great start because it describes the faults and causes at the core level. It's relatable to every BP. I swallowed the pill way before reading that book, but I never truly understood why I was like that in the first place until I read it. Understanding is key, after that, if they're ready, the evolution will follow.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 10:17 AM
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Setting boundaries is one of the core tenets of TRP philosophy. Everyone here is at a different point in their journey, and for him and I'm sure many other lurkers, this was a big step and the FR provides valuable insight into the core of TRP. Whether it's basic or not, everyone starts from a different place. I didn't read the whole thing, got too long for the content for me, but that doesn't mean it's not valuable to someone. A good reminder for others. In this post it wasn't about what happene…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 10:03 AM
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Intelligence can be useful if you want to continue working in intelligence for the rest of your life, otherwise it kinda sucks. Being an NGA analyst is really easy, I learned how to do it on my own when I was working as a linguist. The NGA skills will only open doors for more NGA type stuff. It's a cush, easy job with incredible benefits. There is opportunity for advancement but not much because there are so few spots available, no opportunity for your own business. As an NGA analyst you'll be s…
/r/askTRP30/09/15 05:18 AM
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You should seriously just say random sentences in an accent and when they react, act like you have no idea what they're talking about. I have a Brazilian friend who will start talking in Portuguese in the middle of an English sentence and he has no idea he does it.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 12:43 AM
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I'm a redhead, thought about learning a Scottish/Irish accent just for fun, to fuck with people. People always think I'm Irish anyways.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 12:40 AM
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I used to be a pretty good writer and I've been aspiring to do a lot more. I'm about to travel abroad to SE Asia and then work in Australia, so it'd be a great time to do some writing.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 12:33 AM
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Great response. Every time I have intention or expectations about something it takes me out of the present moment, so this is the mindset I hope to develop. I have some abundance mentality, and I'm surprisingly charismatic, but flirting and escalating I have a hard time with, when sober. This will help me practice, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 03:35 PM
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This is really true. Even small improvements in body language can make a big difference. I've tested it on myself a few times. I'm always very aware of other people, especially when they're attention is on me. I would mostly test it at work (at a restaurant with a few sexy girls and a lot of semi-alphas. One day I would go in walking tall and making eye contact with everyone. It made me feel more confident instantly. I had always been very shy and reserved, but just doing that made a big differe…
/r/askTRP23/08/15 04:56 PM
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Yeah she looks kinda like Randy Marsh
/r/askTRP28/07/15 08:55 AM
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Wow, this is kind of how I was raised, but never heard it like that before. I've gotten a bit better but it's still something I'm working on.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 01:03 PM
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Did you start to open up more to her after you said that? Or was it only the fact that you said it, or continued to say it? And what's your usual response to sidestep an "I love you"?
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 12:36 PM
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Exactly. I just think if you cheat and you're dishonest then you're just making life more difficult for yourself. Holding in lies is taxing on the mind. Why would you waste your time and energy keeping your life divided when it would be better spent fucking plates who "don't care" if you're fucking around. It's just immature and outside of your frame, only making things more difficult for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 07:10 PM
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Do you ever use polyamory to your plates to describe your situation? Maybe not in the beginning, but I would think talking about "free love" and polyamory might be a good way of describing your "relationship status". Any ideas?
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 11:01 AM
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I'm new to TRP, but I've been a Dom for years. Personally, I love to make a girl cum. It gives me more sexual energy, makes us more connected, and makes sex better for both of us. I take a little pride in getting into their head and making them cum harder than they ever have. They get addicted to it. I've cum made a girl cum just whispering into her ear, no touching, it makes me feel like I'm good at something. I don't know how other guys feel, but I think if they don't enjoy making a girl cum t…
/r/askTRP17/07/15 04:28 AM
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I could use some advice related to this, but I think it's too late anyways. A random hottie cat-called me as I walk out of the bar I was at by myself. She was with a couple big, muscular guys, but wasn't interested. Said she saw something in my eyes. She ensured I had her number by showing me she got my call. Anyways I kinda failed at the text game and haven't heard back in 4 days, only texted once after my last text 4 days ago, which I said I was inbetween jobs (and tried to qualify myself, whi…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 10:48 PM
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Thank you, I'll try to check this out. I've been into eastern philosophy all my life, even lived in China to study tai chi, and that would have been the best time to quit, but didn't realize I was addicted then. Thanks, it helps me remember to delve back into it. Yeah I think it's more direct and enlightening, but I haven't read much philosophy.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 02:30 AM
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I really like this quote, thanks for posting it. It really speaks to me at where I am in life.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 04:55 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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