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You kinda have to give her the impression of letting her know that you're not going to settle for boring text or nagging. It's a shit test when she says that.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 01:17 AM
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It depends. She knows i am usually busy. Full time job plus gym plus meal prepping and an hour to get to work and back so she doesn't get too upset about it. She did bring it up recently in a bitch rant she was giving me. We had plans to come over for sex and then she told me she was on her period. Later on the day she sent me a rant that i only make time for her when it's sex and that i never see her when she's on her period blah blah and she said 'just leave me alone don't talk to me, that sho…
/r/askTRP26/08/16 01:15 AM
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I wouldn't say always. For example if I've been trying to lead my gf to going to the gym and clean eating and then she cheats and says 'i just got ice cream!' I'll say 'good for you' or some nonchalant reply
/r/askTRP26/08/16 01:06 AM
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'AHH'
/r/askTRP25/08/16 08:31 PM
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Check out the front page of The Red Pill, someone posted a good guide on improving the power of your voice.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 08:30 PM
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I'm in a LTR and it's very powerful to just stay silent with text. Whenever my girlfriend is texting boring or she says something that I don't really like, i just put my phone away and resume my day. Hours later I'll either ignore her text and just be like 'hey what's up' or depending on what she said, I'll just reply 'good for you'. Lately she's been apologizing a lot for things I really didn't care about and saying how much she appreciates me. Feels good.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 08:24 PM
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same
/r/askTRP25/08/16 07:52 PM
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stop trying to plan shit last minute. plan 5 days ahead. tell her, meet me at 'x' next 'y' at 'z' o'clock. If she says no, then let it go.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 10:03 PM
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It would be smart to befriend them. It'll probably help you in knowing what about them makes them attractive and it'll be easier for you to obtain your physical goals.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 10:01 PM
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Seems quite depressing.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 09:46 PM
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Question, Mr Retspihi. Once you get to this level, currently are you happy / satisfied with it? Is it worth it?
/r/askTRP23/08/16 08:48 PM
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"What are you more hungry for? Am I more hungry to be Mr. Olympia, or to eat what I want and look like everyone else?" -Arnold Schwarnegger No becoming Mr. Olympia is not one of my personal goals, but you have to ask yourself, what are you more hungry for? To eat whatever you want? Or to have the body of your dreams?
/r/askTRP23/08/16 08:30 PM
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I wouldn't tolerate that. I would dump her because I don't tolerate disrespect in my relationship
/r/askTRP23/08/16 08:25 PM
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This story reminds me of 'Dancing with the Devil' by Immortal Technique 'And listen cause the story that I'm telling is true, Cause I was there with Billy Jacobs and I raped his mom too'
/r/TheRedPill22/08/16 11:51 PM
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It would help a lot talking to / knowing people. I studied graphic design. While I was in school, my mom's boss would give me easy freelance work. After I graduated, it took me over a year to finally land my first job in my field. I busted my ass for that year updating my resume and sending dozens of applications online every day. Worked a minimum wage warehouse job during that time and I had to come up with lies ("My grandma is sick", "I have an important doctors appointment") just so I could l…
/r/askTRP22/08/16 11:23 PM
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I love this. In a broken relationship, the woman would hamster away why she should stay with Brad, and the man would hamster away why he shouldn't break up with her.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/16 11:42 PM
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Men, because our looks are only a fraction of what we have to offer. That's why there's fake boobs, fake butts, fake eye lashes, fake hair extensions, make-up. Women know their looks is pretty much all they have so they have to amplify that shit as best as possible.
/r/askTRP19/08/16 11:24 PM
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Use that pain for positive improvement. If you're lying in bed thinking non stop about her, go for a run. Hit the gym hard. Talk to other girls, it'll help you realize that there's better girls that her out there. Channel that pain. Channel that energy into building the life of your dreams. Most importantly, believe it in your heart that with time you will get over her. I dated this chick whom I was madly in love with. She ended up pregnant and I was planning on proposing to her. Long story shor…
/r/askTRP19/08/16 11:15 PM
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What time of day do you workout? What is your schedule like? If your time to workout is at the end of your day, like after dinner, then it's understandable that you can't focus and want to be lazy after your workout since your brain has been working all day. I workout at the butt crack of dawn. I shower at the gym and then head to work. When I get to work early I'll read a book and don't have any trouble. Maybe the books you're reading aren't really the books you want to read. Maybe you don't ha…
/r/askTRP19/08/16 10:49 PM
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Yes, I plan on logging my journey for this particular goal. If I find it beneficial, I will buy another journal and log more personal feelings like how I feel before and after I meditate.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/16 10:15 PM
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I ordered a whiteboard from amazon 2 days ago and it should arrive today. i plan on hanging it up on my room and writing like 3 big goals and a few smaller goals. I also ordered a journal because I got offered an opportunity to create a website and I want to log my experience.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/16 09:38 PM
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This may help and keep a peace of mind, but just keep your undies on and pull your dick out from the hole, put condom on, and leave your balls covered inside. You're gonna get your undies covered in vag juice, but you'll greatly reduce that 50%
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 06:48 PM
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Nice! I read most of the sidebar while reading no more mr nice guy and pretty much everything is red pill theory. Wonderful book, I'll probably re read it in a few weeks
/r/askTRP17/08/16 02:49 AM
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email sent
/r/askTRP16/08/16 11:23 PM
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thanks a bunch mate
/r/askTRP16/08/16 05:41 PM
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Lifting can be used to burn fat and build muscle, but you should focus more on your nutrition. Look up HIIT cardio and cardio acceleration.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 10:32 PM
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Practice practice practice. Trial and error. You have the tools, now go build something
/r/askTRP13/08/16 12:43 AM
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The ones who were changed are the ones who hit rock bottom and were looking for answers. The ones who were divorced raped or cheated on etc. It may be a side effect that you have a shit memory that you only remember 95% of the shit you read. But i remember almost everything and by studying my mother and sisters at home and reviewing the skeletons in the closet from my past and failed relationships and oneitis whom i orbited for years i testify that what i learn here is true
/r/askTRP13/08/16 12:29 AM
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I'm 22 and was somewhat in the same boat as you, but not for that long. Either way, I have some suggestions. • Education: It's cool that you want to do honors and stuff, but keep it simple. Give yourself the simple goal of 'I'm going to graduate from computer science'. Because then if you don't get honors, you're going to be getting your diploma and not enjoy and feel proud because you're just gonna beat yourself up about not getting honors. And if you do get honors, it's a BONUS, not a necessit…
/r/askTRP13/08/16 12:00 AM
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If i don't shower daily i smell like ass sweat. Although i don't use shampoo anymore. Only time my hair gets cleaned is when i get a haircut which is like every 3 weeks
/r/askTRP12/08/16 01:21 AM
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Talk and flirt with other girls Abundance mentality Lay some boundaries dude. Tell her your rules or walk away you don't have to put up with that shit Don't try to control her even if you feel like something is up. If she wants to cheat she'll do it regardless of how careful you are. If you really don't trust her just walk
/r/askTRP12/08/16 01:18 AM
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I'm 22 and have a younger sister who's turning 15. She's in that funky attitude stage, but with trp i can use it to my advantage because i can learn how to treat other girls like teenagers or practice the father figure. Plus it's a bonus that I'm looking out for her by displaying a 'healthy' male
/r/askTRP12/08/16 01:07 AM
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I'm doing Jim Stoppani's shortcut to size, with the nutrition plan (you can check it out on bodybuilding.com) so all the healthy shit every day. I have an LTR, but I'm beginning to learn to talk to everyone I see including women. But what I meant from 'what's next?' is that after I read the sidebar on TRP and go out to the world and implement it, what can I learn next?
/r/askTRP11/08/16 10:09 PM
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I guess I feel a little flattered that my LTR has been gaining a few pounds if this is the case.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/16 10:02 PM
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Add a 3rd upper body day, or do some HIIT cardio. Yes HIIT is useful for bulking don't worry. Me personally I do 2 days workout 1 day rest / HIIT, 2 days workout 2 days rest / HIIT If you're trying to do something full body, I recommend looking into the 5th day workout of Shortcut to strength by Jim Stoppani. He has you do the 3 big lifts (squat, bench, and deadlifts) plus rocket squats, clap pushups, and a back workout. It's meant to help with your explosiveness on your lifts. It's a full body …
/r/askTRP11/08/16 05:50 PM
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I don't find it a necessity to read more right now, but I do want to know what's next?
/r/askTRP11/08/16 05:22 PM
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It may be, but at least it gives you the importance of 'feeling good' to get what you want.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 03:45 PM
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Have her come see you
/r/askTRP11/08/16 12:01 AM
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I guess it depends on the circumstances. How long have you been with her? Why does she find the need to go to his funeral? Is it because they hooked up and were neighbors as kids or their families were friends? Or because he fucked her brains out that good? My girlfriend wouldn't go that far for the funeral of a friend, for sure not an ex. Only for family. But if it was someone she grew up with since pre school or her family is close with his family and she wants to pay respects to his family, t…
/r/askTRP10/08/16 11:58 PM
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okay, have you been doing that for years until your adult years? Are you still doing that now? And if you are doing that now, have you tried stopping for a few days?
/r/askTRP10/08/16 11:46 PM
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edging is good. jizzing into your hand multiple times a day everyday is one of the worst things you can do to yourself
/r/askTRP10/08/16 11:35 PM
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Yes, I'm over 90 days on my first try. I'd love to give you the whole 'these are all the amazing benefits' post, but truth is, I've made so many positive productive choices these past 3 months that I have no idea which ones are because of NoFap or other reasons. I began meditation, discovered the red pill, studied law of attraction, read no more mr nice guy and other books, started a strength workout program. Only legit benefits I can give is that it will teach you self discipline and you won't …
/r/askTRP10/08/16 11:33 PM
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check the out the sidebar on TRP the one that says 'how to manage bitches'. That should answer your question, I read it today.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 11:25 PM
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I didn't watch the video, and i don't know how to fight, and never been in a fight.. but my way goes like if anybody really tries to fight me or attack me then I'll just fight back and do my best. For sure protect my head and try to take him down (did wrestling in high school). I'll never mess with crazy though or anybody on hard drugs. You don't know if these people have a knife or try to bite off your jugular. Could happen. I also work in an office and meet with clients daily, so even if i kic…
/r/askTRP10/08/16 01:09 AM
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Read no more Mr nice guy. You should lead the relationship. Live your life and invite her with you.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 01:29 AM
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That bitch just walked your dog. You should've nuked that chick for disrespecting you, especially in front of your girl. And next time your girl asks a question like that, you don't say 'i don't know'. Alpha is having that shit planned out already. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 01:26 AM
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Seriously. It's embarrassing seeing the huge upper body guys at the gym with their baby chicken legs even through their sweat pants that they wear every day, wonder why.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 11:54 PM
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Fucking Asians lucky bastards with their huge beautiful calves.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 11:53 PM
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I like to call it 'Hank Hill ass'
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 11:36 PM
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When I was lifting in high school with the football players, one of the star players told me, "If you want to be a good football player, you need strong legs". Of course my young ignorant mind was like 'wouldn't you need strong arms and chest? why legs?' I'm a little disappointed that it had to learn 2 years later how right he was. I don't play football now but I do know how important it is to train legs. Something that might convince you vagina lifters who still aren't convinced is that strong …
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 11:33 PM
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I understand, but if you bring another chick in that's as cute or cuter than the waitress, they will both get jealous and you'll have a better chance of fucking both. Preselection.
/r/askTRP06/08/16 10:22 PM
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Try working out before work. Use your lunch breaks to read a book
/r/askTRP05/08/16 11:03 PM
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In the opposite order for sure.
/r/askTRP05/08/16 10:58 PM
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Give some examples
/r/askTRP05/08/16 10:57 PM
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OP picked the time, the girl changed the time, OP is so busy that he can only give 10 minutes to the girl if it's on her terms.
/r/askTRP05/08/16 10:56 PM
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Honestly if it's somewhere you go often, it's much more beneficial to just flirt with her when you go and leave it at that. Don't go as far as to ask her out because then you'll ruin that flirtish relationship you'll share unless she's giving you obvious IOI's like jb_trp said then sure you can make a move. If I were in your shoes, I would try to maintain a friendly / flirty relationship with her, and then that can be a go to spot when you ask other girls out. Now you bring these other girls to …
/r/askTRP05/08/16 10:42 PM
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• Go NoFap for 90 days. No Pornography, no masturbation. Sex is okay but no binging. Besides the scientific biological mental and physical benefits of giving up PMO, it's probably one of the most difficult / disciplinary things I've been through. • Cold Showers • Meditation for 10 minutes daily. • Lifting weights / exercise • Dieting teaches huge discipline. Limiting your choices of food takes huge willpower, fighting off the urges to order pizza / drink Pepsi teaches willpower and discipline. P…
/r/askTRP05/08/16 10:33 PM
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Or that she becomes his new drug.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 09:47 PM
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There's much more better reasons to give up porn besides the 3 that you gave, but my favorite is that you stop trying to re-enact the shit you see in those videos. We see the guys last 20 minutes and the girls scream dirty things at him pretending to enjoy everything. It's completely unrealistic and exaggerated. Watching that shit every night brainwashes and manipulates your brain into thinking that that's how well you have to perform and that that's the reaction you should receive from the girl…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 09:33 PM
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10/10
/r/askTRP04/08/16 03:40 PM
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You people can't say nigga
/r/askTRP04/08/16 12:34 AM
2

Yes i agree. My girlfriend likes to go on top first. I have no problem with this i play with her breasts and spank her and just lay back and relax while watching her face fill with so much pleasure. She gets tired quickly so i tell her 'my turn' and flip her over and take control for the rest of the sex. She's already had hers and now i can fuck her aggressively
/r/TheRedPill30/07/16 04:54 PM
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I also get offered to be paid for and treated. Friends buy me drinks or food. My best guess is that they have to try and 'show off' to catch up with your alphaness.
/r/askTRP29/07/16 11:47 PM
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Good Post. I wake up at sunrise to hit the gym before work and I agree that getting to work after demolishing a heavy working is the best feeling. I definitely look at the big guys at the gym and I think 'Don't get too comfortable buddy, because I'm going to be like you soon'.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 10:27 PM
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It's not selfless if I get pleasure from giving pleasure. I get pleasure from being dominant and her being submissive to me. then I get pleasure in a different way when I orgasm at the end
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 07:00 PM
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I agree, cuming together is 5 seconds of pure magic and ecstacy.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 06:44 PM
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aye I agree! I care so much more about pleasuring her and hearing her screams than having an orgasm. For me, when I orgasm the only thing it means to me is that 'sex is over' if that makes sense.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 04:17 PM
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It can have some benefits. I have a female friend who is very athletic and we are currently doing a fitness challenge to see who can have the biggest transformation. So it's fun being competitive with her and she also sings and i play guitar so we cover songs and she's pretty hot so it helps with preselection. If you benefit from it 50/50 and it helps you reach your goals it's a good thing. But if they try to tell you their problems or take advantage of you i would avoid them
/r/askTRP28/07/16 09:09 PM
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Look up carb cycling. In just 6 weeks I dropped a lot of fat and got great strength and muscle size.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/16 12:00 AM
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Me personally I would go hangout with other girls, make sure she knows you're hanging out with other girls, then you can text her to meet up with you, escalate etc. If you get let down, hard next.
/r/askTRP23/07/16 12:01 AM
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If you have a choice, don't do it.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 11:57 PM
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In fact, don't even be afraid of talking about your neighbor to your girlfriend. Don't go saying you got her number, but just let your girlfriend know you made a friend and that you want to help her out because she seems lost or whatever. Your girlfriend will probably get a little weird at first (shit test) but she'll give you a lot of attention after.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 11:40 PM
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Dude it's perfectly fine. I was also like you, afraid of talking to girls in front of my girlfriend or just in general. But after I heard of TRP I talk to my female friends more and don't care about how my girlfriend feels about me hanging with girls. Of course I don't take it too far, I don't flirt or get touchy.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 11:38 PM
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Damn dude you sound like such a pus and she sounds like a fucking baby. Read the sidebar and leave that woman.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 10:04 PM
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Talk to a therapist. You need professional help. And read the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 08:39 PM
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This sounds like something I'd read over at NoFap. You have major oneitis. Read the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 08:38 PM
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I super agree with you. Although I do like to teach my friends about it once in a while, somewhat for their benefit, but also because when you teach someone something it helps you remember it and then it turns to a 'practice what you preach' thing.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 06:33 PM
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Currently reading it. Never realized how much growing up with a single mom affected me.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 06:20 PM
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Go to 21+ places
/r/askTRP22/07/16 05:56 PM
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Next time don't apologize. And huge mistake trying to hook up with one of your wife's best friends. She might throw it in her face one day when they get in a cat fight. risk is super duper not worth the reward.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 05:42 PM
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Are you a virgin? Get to 2nd base with a girl with a girl before you start worrying.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 10:40 PM
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You've probably been following the same routine for a while. Switch things up a bit, if life is really that boring, make a major life change.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 10:36 PM
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I had the same problem when I was in college. Met like 2 cool dudes. One of them got his chick pregnant and dropped out, the other one had financial aid issues and dropped out. Everyone else was pretty boring
/r/askTRP21/07/16 10:35 PM
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Dude $100 is more than enough. I was doing a bulk diet and i was spending MAX $80
/r/askTRP20/07/16 02:34 AM
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Just do some research on it. There's articles on bodybuilding.com. i saved so much money doing meal prep. I was spending like $5 on breakfast /coffee. Then $7-8 for lunch plus another $7-8 on dinner. That's like $20 a day. Plus weekends going out for dinner and ordering pizza. Yes occasionally i would take home cooked meals or snacks when i was running low on money. Now i spend like $50 a week average.
/r/askTRP20/07/16 02:32 AM
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Agreed. It really is super easy. Especially foods that seem hard to make (steak, salmon, shrimp) are really simple. You can legit just watch an 8 minute video on youtube on how to cook any dish.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 11:20 PM
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I'm currently reading no more mr nice guy.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 11:10 PM
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Wow man thank you so much. I'm still starting out and am still unsure about which route I want to take, but I'll take your advice thanks a lot! I plan on learning some coding (java, C+) so I can have a wider set of skills
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 04:11 PM
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If i were in your shoes i would take it as a challenge and 'catch up' with the rest of the men.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 12:25 AM
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Awesome thanks!
/r/askTRP17/07/16 12:18 AM
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I'm beginning to change the text game with my gf. Now, i don't text back immediately. If she replies with something interesting, I'll read it, wait a few minutes, then text her back. If she replies with something boring, I'll wait put my phone away and do something else, and then text her later. I feel like in ltr this is like a reward system. Of course me and my gf have been dating for 4 years, so ignoring her for 2 days isn't beneficial or anything. But my point, if she is flirting / saying so…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/16 07:30 PM
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I also clock in at 8:30, and I'm hitting leg day heavy ass squats at 6:30 in the morning on Mondays and i clock in to work fucking pumped like a truck.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/16 07:03 PM
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I know bro. I just got confident as fuck because work has been slow so I'm basically on the red pill 8 hours a day. That's a lot of fucking reading. But you're right, i need more real life experience and test the waters myself. One night isn't going to make me into Chad
/r/askTRP16/07/16 04:17 PM
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Alright i will continue to keep moving and improving.
/r/askTRP16/07/16 03:29 PM
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So your advice is to just dump her and go monk mode?
/r/askTRP16/07/16 03:27 PM
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Yeah i was really about to take off but i saw her sprint from the car to her house to get ready. In other words i was understanding of her lack of control
/r/askTRP16/07/16 03:22 PM
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Yea true. I was just trying to seem awesome and exciting. I could've invited her over but it just seemed boring and usual. I wanted to give her the impression of 'damn who's this awesome guy? I want to be all over him' but it was too unrealistic
/r/askTRP16/07/16 03:19 PM
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Okay i will continue to learn and take some more time
/r/askTRP16/07/16 03:15 PM
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Nofap is really effective if it's become a huge problem in your life. It was for me. I was wacking it every single night, i was watching hardcore porn. Stuff so extreme that i was always disappointed with sex every time. Going no fap definitely fixed a lot of issues in my life. Now i can appreciate regular sex, now i don't have an easy weak escape every night, it's helped me face my problems head on etc. If you feel like it's a problem look it up and try it out.
/r/seduction16/07/16 08:00 AM
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n.n
/r/seduction16/07/16 03:47 AM
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Mkay, well yeah based on the stuff I've read on the sidebar, you're correct. Woman date up, Men date down.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 11:27 PM
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Why are you studying algebra about a former oneitis? Get over it, who cares. Plate her or move on.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 11:16 PM
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No No No. 800 calories a day is way too little. You're going to lose all your muscle and necessary water stores plus your body will not react nicely. Just take it nice and slow. Summer bodies are created in the winter.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 11:13 PM
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I made a mistake after high school, I had this girl who was cute and her boyfriend cheated so I saw this as my opportunity to close, I was almost there, but I was also trying to plate her best friend (lived in a different city, had a huge crush on her in high school (oneitis)) and I guess one day they talked about me and boom, the girl with the cheating boyfriend ghosted me and the other flipped out through text disrespecting me and I lost both. Personally I'd recommend going after just one, if …
/r/askTRP15/07/16 11:09 PM
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From the looks of it, the only thing that a woman can give you that a man can not is sex and a child. If you are not getting what you want, walk away. Me personally, some female friends would be good to have, female friends have more female friends, and you can use a female as a wingman, you are more attractive when you are with another female 'Preselection'
/r/askTRP15/07/16 11:01 PM
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Yeah I just swallowed the pill this week on Monday when my gf was disrespecting me and threatening to dump me (which lead me here). It's super tough looking back at all the blue pill mistakes we've made and wising we knew better. There's definitely rage, anger, sadness, but besides that there's this fucking FIRE in me now. Stop listening to beta music.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 10:46 PM
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Next time she does something flirtatious just say "You know what I'm not interested"
/r/askTRP15/07/16 10:42 PM
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I fixed this by improving myself. I have been going to the gym consistently since the beginning of the year, following my diet, (SEEING RESULTS!) I started reading on my lunch breaks at work, also started a little at home, I saved up and bought the guitar of my dreams, I have been meditating daily, I started NoFap, cut off negative people from my life, etc etc. The trick is to learn to accept yourself how you are TODAY. Stop and ACCEPT all your imperfections. No matter what. Understand that who …
/r/seduction15/07/16 08:58 PM
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She's trying to get back into your life because you have cut contact and she misses the attention you gave from orbitting her. My advice is to let her approach you, let her make the move.
/r/seduction15/07/16 08:47 PM
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I was also very confused by this. By my understanding, when you live your own amazing exciting under control life, by having her join you in your life, you are leading right? So, Her joining you in your bad ass life = Leading her?
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 06:41 PM
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I'm a graphic designer, goal is to become a web designer (most $$ in this field) and would love to be a full time freelancer.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 08:41 PM
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yes we still use the term 'chill' but that can apply to almost anyone. I'd say you're probably good looking and very stable, your own place and nice car, etc. If age is your only downfall then you just need to go for the girls who can see past that, and i'm sure some will.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 11:35 PM
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Lifting weights, meditation, reading.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 11:22 PM
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thanks! I made it up but I thought it was self explanatory. but yea tofu date, tofu sex, tofu personality. let's trend this shit
/r/askTRP11/07/16 11:19 PM
1

You're probably just really stable and can hold your own
/r/askTRP11/07/16 11:17 PM
1

got it
/r/askTRP11/07/16 11:10 PM
1

thank you this is really good advice!
/r/askTRP11/07/16 10:48 PM
1

Lol, that's quite a large lie. She might have gotten over the age thing and got that age is just a number mentality. good luck
/r/askTRP11/07/16 10:45 PM
1

Me 22 her 20
/r/askTRP11/07/16 10:43 PM
1

Mkay I see
/r/askTRP11/07/16 10:29 PM
1

You're right. I've been very weak about this whole thing. I thought I was being strong but I've still gotten myself in her frame.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 09:56 PM
1

I will learn to have that approach next time
/r/askTRP11/07/16 09:43 PM
1

Yeah I was having a great day. and that is exactly the attitude I have, I made a mistake, everyone makes mistakes
/r/askTRP11/07/16 09:36 PM
1

Okay, so it is okay if I lose her. Okay I got it. It just don't feel right that I'm the one that lied, yet I'm expecting her to apologize. Is that what red pill is all about?
/r/askTRP11/07/16 09:31 PM
1

I know i know. It was just this one time. I know now what I should've done, but I need to know what do I do now?
/r/askTRP11/07/16 09:26 PM
1

she's never been like this, it's been 4 years and she's never flipped out on me like this.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 09:25 PM
1

you think so? I mean, she asked me who I went with, and I said me and my guy friend (excluding the chick friend) and she seemed cool and normal after that. I feel like if she did know, and she asked me and she caught me lying, she would've called me out on it on the spot or not have been so normal.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 09:22 PM
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honest and unapologetic? Okay got it. It's just that it's about to be 4 years with this girl. It's not so easy to have that 'I can get another one' attitude ya know
/r/askTRP11/07/16 09:20 PM
1

what is standard protocol?
/r/askTRP11/07/16 09:17 PM
7

tofu date. Meaning she was being bland and boring
/r/askTRP11/07/16 08:29 PM
1

She's never gotten mad like this before to be honest.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 06:36 PM
1

Dang man you're so right. I just felt guilty about it personally so that's why I felt so soft. What should my next approach be?
/r/askTRP11/07/16 06:35 PM
1

I know my man. I rarely lie, to anyone. I have a weak conscious so I like to be straight up anything and be real. It was just this one time I felt like it wasn't a big deal and that I could get away with it. But I learned my lesson for myself and I don't want to be a liar
/r/askTRP11/07/16 06:33 PM
1

It's been 4 years with this chick though. Is this really something to break up about?
/r/askTRP11/07/16 06:30 PM
1

We haven't broken up. And I still don't know for sure if she did see the snapchat or what is even on the snapchat. I don't have one so I'm not for certain but I just remember my friend recording all 3 of us for a bit.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 06:30 PM
1

Okay, thank you man.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 06:10 PM
1

Oh I see. Okay thanks for your response my man
/r/askTRP11/07/16 06:10 PM
1

what is A&A? You're right, I'll just use this chance to focus on myself and wait until she gets over it.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 05:57 PM
1

why would she apologize though?
/r/askTRP11/07/16 05:55 PM
2

Yeah I actually did send her something like that. I told her, I made a mistake, just like you make mistakes, just like everyone in the world makes mistakes. If you want to break up with me you can. And I will avoid lying, for my own reason. I personally don't like that kind of burden on my consciousness. She was just being a tofu date last night I didn't want to make it any worse.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 05:55 PM
2

You think I did nothing wrong? The only thing I feel like I did wrong was pretty much lying to her face. But I don't care that I hungout with that girl because the reason she don't like her is BS. 'gave her a weird look and gave a bad vibe'? Yeah i'm not begging or kissing her ass. I'm just telling her that I understand.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 05:41 PM
1

ah I see! And I totally agree. Often when I worry about the future or think about the past I always end up feeling negative / nervous / anxious / etc. negative emotions. Thinking about the present and making the best out of it is truly the secret to happiness or in your case, being alpha.
/r/seduction08/07/16 09:27 PM
2

What do you mean by 'The future is mental masturbation'?
/r/seduction08/07/16 08:55 PM
1

She's probably focusing about something coming up. Usually the people that observe and look around at their surroundings are the ones who are living in the present.
/r/seduction08/07/16 08:46 PM
2

Next time you go in and she asks how your day is going (or you ask her, and she asks you back) tell her how your day went at your chef job, tell her something that makes you look awesome, "I got a huge compliment from a customer on the salmon I cooked for them". Ask her what her favorite dish is, then, this is very important, tell her, "I'd like to make that for you some time" (smile). Then based off her answer, you can see if you actually have a shot or not, good luck!
/r/seduction08/07/16 08:09 PM
2

food is definitely a money drainer if you're constantly eating out. I meal prep for the gym and spend like $50 a week, that's less than $10 a day, I also only drink water so that saves me a ton of money. I recently joined my mothers phone family plan and I only pay $10 a month. unfortunately I do drive like about an hour to and from work, but my car is very reliable, I've had it for about a year and a half and have not had it break down or nothing. Only spend around $30 on gas weekly. Attire is …
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 09:43 PM
1

I see. Well good luck with finding the perfect job. Me personally if i hate my job I'll look for another job while i have my current job so i always have work. And the thing about parties, why don't you tell your friends first that you like a girl. That way maybe if they know her they'll tell you if you have a chance or not. Also, if you tell your friends first, and then the girl rejects you, and if she tries telling your friends about it you won't look stupid because she is the one who looks li…
/r/seduction02/07/16 01:53 AM
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Great ok. Good luck with your A+ strategy
/r/seduction02/07/16 01:45 AM
1

Yes, at the bar and there should be some tables for sure. Touching: let's say you're dancing and you see someone trying to walk through, you can put your hand on her lower back and lead her and look at the person trying to get through so she can see what you're doing. dang, I just read the rest of your question, you seem really clueless. You really just need to have game and know when the time is right to do things. You learn from experience
/r/seduction01/07/16 11:38 PM
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If it doesn't attract you then it's not for you. For some guys it's the best ego booster. Telling all their bros 'I got a hottie to come home with me last night'. Or you can just talk to a girl at a club / bar just for fun and ask for her number and then you guys can go on dates later / etc.
/r/seduction01/07/16 10:15 PM
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Never been to a night club, but if I saw a girl, I'd ask her to dance, while we were dancing and I saw that she wanted to sit down, I'd follow her and ask to buy her a drink. While we were dancing, I'd try to make eye contact / touch her / see if she's into me.
/r/seduction01/07/16 10:03 PM
3

America
/r/seduction01/07/16 07:36 PM
3

I'm free this weekend, let's grab some lunch?
/r/seduction01/07/16 06:56 PM
1

Lol yes. I have the 9 to 5 job so going to the gym after work is almost pointless because it is really packed. Going to the gym before work, it's a lot more empty, and I get to work pumped and awake. But yea probably insecurities. me personally I just think that they want guys to be checking them out or approaching them. Girls lifting weights are already the center of attention, they probably want to add that boost to their self esteem
/r/seduction30/06/16 10:06 PM
1

Exactly. If it's in the evening then I don't care or mind. Because it's just their makeup from work or school or whatever. But I workout at 6am. There should be no reason why a girl should wear a ton of makeup at 6am.
/r/seduction30/06/16 09:33 PM
1

Exactly. If it's in the evening then I don't care or mind. Because it's just their makeup from work or school or whatever. But I workout at 6am. There should be no reason why a girl should wear a ton of makeup at 6am.
/r/seduction30/06/16 09:32 PM
2

Exactly. If it's in the evening then I don't care or mind. Because it's just their makeup from work or school or whatever. But I workout at 6am. There should be no reason why a girl should wear a ton of makeup at 6am.
/r/seduction30/06/16 09:31 PM
15

TL;DR Don't break eye contact.
/r/seduction30/06/16 08:38 PM
1

Maybe she's seeing other guys and she wants to see which one of you impresses her more. If I were you I would try to be straight out with her and ask if she wants to be a little more serious.
/r/seduction30/06/16 08:35 PM
1

Yeah I agree about the girls wanting to feel like they have options. Which is why there's girls with a ton of make up at the gym.
/r/seduction30/06/16 08:31 PM
2

It depends what you want at the end of the day. Are you looking for someone to settle down with? Or are you just trying to have some friends with benefits? If you're just talking with women and going out with them because that's what you think men are supposed to do, you're not going to be into it or see a point to it. Figure out exactly what you want and take that road.
/r/seduction30/06/16 08:29 PM
2

Learn to love yourself and respect yourself.
/r/seduction30/06/16 12:00 AM
1

I'd probably say 'You guys are lame' and walk away and give them a 'wtf' look.
/r/seduction29/06/16 11:43 PM
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