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False AccusationDoneDrinkingPoison/r/MensRights29/09/20 12:31 AM
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DoneDrinkingPoison/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 12:31 AM
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I guess I'd ask OP why a guy would want to fuck her? What is she offering him other than a substitute for his hand? This post couldn't have been phrased in a more grotesque and condescending way. Men aren't here to impress you or dance like monkeys for your entertainment. Why should a guy change who he is and "up his game" for a woman? What's in it for him? If he's happy gaming and rubbing one out it seems like he's found a way to enjoy himself sans a woman. Is that what pisses you off?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 02:17 PM
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You obviously haven’t read this thread. Probably an incel, too. If so, I’m sorry about that.
/r/MensRights02/10/20 02:07 AM
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It’s surgery like circumcision. Gotta get consent. Maybe they want the body that they’ll feel that god gave them.
/r/MensRights01/10/20 10:30 PM
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What if they’re born with a cleft lip/palate? Just let them grow up and deal with it themselves as an adult?
/r/MensRights01/10/20 10:20 PM
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So, if you have a baby born with a cleft lip we need to let them grow up with it and then deal with it themselves when they’re an adult?
/r/MensRights01/10/20 10:04 PM
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How have you “been mutilated?”
/r/MensRights01/10/20 09:49 PM
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Wow. I guess we shouldn’t be able to change their diapers or give them baths without consent. That would be sexual assault, right? Just stop already. It’s embarrassing. I can tell you’re not a parent.
/r/MensRights01/10/20 09:29 PM
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Well, I guess we shouldn’t pierce our daughter’s ears then either.
/r/MensRights01/10/20 09:14 PM
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His comments about sensory loss are funny. I can be sitting on my couch and just move a few inches and get an erection from rubbing on my shorts. In my 40s I still get spontaneous erections. This guy is just spitting out bullshit he’s read about the “movement” he’s decided to get on board with. I doubt he has much, if any, sexual experience with an actual human being that isn’t himself. I can appreciate a lot of points this sub is advocating for. But, circumcision isn’t one of them. It’s nothing…
/r/MensRights01/10/20 04:19 PM
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Exactly. So you have no idea.
/r/MensRights01/10/20 03:37 PM
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Well, people sure seem to be concerned about a scar I must have.
/r/MensRights01/10/20 06:37 AM
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Universal for me. Anyway, I’m happy with my unit and sex life. Not sure why everyone else is so concerned about my unit and orgasms.
/r/MensRights01/10/20 06:24 AM
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I’ve never ejaculated without an orgasm. And, I’ve never had an orgasm where I didn’t ejaculate.
/r/MensRights01/10/20 05:53 AM
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Well, an orgasm’s function is to ejaculate the semen.
/r/MensRights01/10/20 05:18 AM
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Are you circumcised? If not, then how the hell do you know?
/r/MensRights01/10/20 04:02 AM
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BJs are the best. I can’t see a scar at all. Scars fade especially if they’re not exposed to the sun, which dicks typically are not. And, if I have a scar, apparently a lot of women love it.
/r/MensRights01/10/20 03:58 AM
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Well, I guess the foreskin makes your balls produce more cum then, too, right? And, it make zero sense why it would affect duration.
/r/MensRights01/10/20 02:54 AM
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An orgasm is a reflex. So, they aren’t shorter. Perhaps it takes longer to “get there.” But, that just means I have 20-30 minutes, sometimes an hour if I’ve been drinking, sex instead of 3-7 minutes. And, yes, a cut dick gets more tongue.... at least here in the US and especially when you’re younger. Maybe that will change as men stop getting cut and all a girl knows is an uncut dick. But, even so, I’ve had more than my share of sex. I’m not complaining a bit. There’s a reason why porn uses men …
/r/MensRights01/10/20 02:25 AM
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I’m glad I’m circumcised. I’ve been with around 80 women so it hasn’t affected my sex life. Pretty sure having a dog dick would have though. It definitely would have meant a lot, lot less oral sex.
/r/MensRights01/10/20 02:18 AM
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It was almost exactly tied. But, 100k women left and went to FDS because feminism wasn’t extreme enough for them.
/r/MensRights29/09/20 12:19 AM
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Fine. Put the baby up for adoption at birth and send her ass to prison.
/r/MensRights25/09/20 06:13 PM
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My ex accused me, falsely, of DV. It was dismissed. But, I still have to explain it whenever i date a new person.
/r/MensRights22/09/20 03:02 AM
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Don’t worry. The guy on top is actually the bottom and will get his beating later that night.
/r/MensRights19/09/20 11:22 PM
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Beautiful woman inside and out.
/r/MensRights19/09/20 11:01 PM
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Nailed it. But, but, but, tHe pAtRiArChY!
/r/MensRights19/09/20 01:48 PM
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I had a similar experience. So, I’m sure it’s more common than you want to believe. Anyway, you were debating fairly up until this unfortunate ad hominem attack which does nothing to add to the discussion but make you look empty for a response. Besides, some cultures don’t put up with women’s ills hit. https://www.reddit.com/r/JusticeServed/comments/iuchdc/nobody_likes_you_karen/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/MensRights17/09/20 08:44 PM
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Not only did he not hit her back. But, she’ll get let off easy, too.
/r/MensRights17/09/20 08:32 PM
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Doubling down on an ad hominem argument, after being called out on it, is essentially doubling down on being a dolt with a mind that can’t think of a proper retort or counter-argument. Now, most of us stopped playing “is not, is too” in the 2nd grade. Give some convincing examples of why it’s “garbage” if you want us to believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 02:11 AM
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A elaborate on how and why? No ad hominem attacks, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 01:18 AM
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Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results. Right? TRP is about doing something different as we’ve found the prior activity didn’t reap the intended results. Please let the discussion continue. Just because you haven’t experienced it personally doesn’t mean it’s “insane.” That would be quite naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 01:05 AM
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You need to do more than say “dumb” to convey a positive point that can be commented or debated on. Do some reading here for an idea of how argumentation works. You don’t need to know all of it. But, some would help. I’m sure that many men here will resonate with this allegory.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 01:01 AM
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That’s an ad hominem attack. Let’s debate merits or truth or falsehood.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 12:53 AM
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I provide fully for myself. I’ve had my children. A woman has never offered anything other than sex and companionship to me. She’s never contributed financially. And, by this I don’t mean she didn’t chip in. It’s just that she took out much more than she put in. always. Women always drain men financially. You yourself admit that you want to find a man that you can drain.... that’s why he has to make money. And, if he makes less then you then he has “to compensate (e.g. be drained) in other ways.…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 10:03 PM
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Yeah, good luck finding that guy. I want you to reread your post. Everything about it was about you and what he’d need to do for you. No consideration was spoken of regarding the things that will concern him. So, he has to focus on your career, he has to enable you stay home for 1-2 years with the kids.(a strange concept if you’re wanting him to focus on your career), etc. This is the problem with feminism. You want a man to be a woman so that you can be a man. My ex wife stayed home until our y…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 09:10 PM
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Hear you. What if a guy made half what you do. Would that still be okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 08:42 PM
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It’s been a pattern. I’m in my 40s and it’s what I also see in the relationships of my friends. The men are all successful and the women are there for the ride. And, that’s all fine and well. Men don’t care so much about a woman’s job or income unless it poorly correlates to her lifestyle choices. For example, don’t go $50k into debt, and spend 6 years in college, for a career that doesn’t pay a living wage. If you do choose that then you don’t get to chose the other parts of life that don’t com…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 08:32 PM
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I don’t have disdain for women at all. If so I’d go gay. I love women. But, every major financial problem I found myself in was due to women. And, I guess myself for allowing my decision-making to be influenced by their continual pressure. My ex wife drove us into bankruptcy. My ex girlfriend, as much as I loved her, was terrible with money. She had a masters degree in social services and earned less than $30k a year while having $50k in student loan debt and 2 kids she couldn’t afford because h…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 07:07 PM
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Well, power in the same sense that 22 year old girls in college have power. Their power is in their looks, and their looks only. That’s why it fades with time. Nobody wants a woman for her “success or wise counsel.” Men know how to do that themselves. I wasn’t referring to “power” as in force or authority. But, trust me, when that 22 year old girl hits 35, is divorced with 2 kids and $50k in student loans she’ll see the guy in his 40s who owns his house, cars, and is debt-free as being “powerful…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 06:53 PM
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Also, I didn’t mention incel. Incels are indeed part of the Manosphere. For whatever reason, they don’t have what it takes to compete in the sexual marketplace today so they’ve been left behind. I know the term “incel” is thrown around as an insult to people in an argument. But, it’s actually a real place a lot of guys are. And, that is highly sad and unfortunate. I do not shame guys who are incel. They are incel because they’re largely victims of the current gynocentric world. A lot of them wer…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 04:33 PM
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Those guys are probably young, impressionable, and use “RP” and “Manosphere” interchangeably. In the “Manosphere” there are many different schools of thought. RP (kind of an umbrella term), MGTOW, black pill, PUA, etc. RP doesn’t mean anything other than that you are aware and have taken steps to avoid danger. That could be any of those previous groups I mentioned, I guess, since you wouldn’t even be MGTOW unless you’ve taken the RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 04:15 PM
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“The pill (RP)” has zero to do with getting laid. It’s solely about protecting yourself from the consequences of a bad breakup or bad woman (false domestic violence charges, paternity fraud, her poking a hole in your condom to get pregnant which traps you forever, losing everything every 7 years in a divorce, etc.” RP guys like sex just like BP guys. We’re just not gonna be weak beta cucks for women to get it. Again, I love women. Everything about them except for their crazy. So, I enjoy the goo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 04:01 PM
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I don’t follow your meaning. Is it sarcastic? If so, being an asshole does get you laid. Ask women why that’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 03:50 PM
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I wasn’t accused of child abuse. She thankfully didn’t stoop that low. She alleged DV against her... which ever happened. I don’t want to go into all of the details. Essentially, my young children got to see me get handcuffed and hauled away in a police car. There’s more she did after that with NCOs and other legal maneuvers that were so simple for her to pull. No evidence, testimony, nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 02:45 AM
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Well, if you read that DV article it shows how the attorney answering it refers to the plaintiff as a woman and says “she” want to spend time with “her boyfriend in the house” while wanting “the husband’s paycheck.” He doesn’t leave the Plaintiff’s gender up for grabs. He assumes it’s the woman making the claims and filing for divorce because that is the norm overall. So, I’m guessing that is the norm in his region. Not just with his clients, because he states that other attorney-colleagues with…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 02:21 AM
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Well, the problem is that the female judges didn’t act like a neutral arbiter on the bench. They acted like they were my ex’s co-counsel. I think a lot of that was based on that false DV charge (later reduced to disturbing the peace and then ultimately dismissed altogether). I was always viewed as an abuser even though it was based on lies. I’ve been able to salvage time with my kids which is the important part. I’ll never get a chance to retire now though which is the shitty part. And, there’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 02:11 AM
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PV = probation violation. Yes, I have a soft-spot for my kids and value then more than money. I guess you’d have to experience your young kids going through that. So, I essentially sacrificed myself at the altar for them. In hindsight it was a mistake. I should have sat them down and explained that that what their mom said was silly and not true. But, with all of the emotions and stress involved I wasn’t thinking clearly. Had I done that I think things would have been a lot different going forwa…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 02:05 AM
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The Contempt Order had teeth in it. My attorney drafted it. She violated the order and we filed a Motion for PV where she was looking at 5 days jail time. Once she got served with the PV motion she started crying and telling our children, all 11 and under, that “your dad is sending me to jail and I’m going to get stabbed.” So, the kids would come home running and crying to me. So, I dismissed the PV. She gloated afterwards in her successful manipulation of the kids for her own benefit... again, …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 01:54 AM
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Ad hominem. Blocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 01:39 AM
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I’m a man who had primary-physical/joint-legal custody for 2-3 years after the divorce. My ex was off partying, not showing up for her every-other-weekends, Mother’s Day, holidays, etc. She paid zero support. When she came back she petitioned for custody and support. Judge gave her 50/50. Then , she relocated the kids schools behind my back. She was held in contempt for this and put on probation.... but, NO PUNISHMENT. AND, she got to keep the kids in the new school. This was far from me so I wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 01:38 AM
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That’s where you’re getting into black pill and MGTOW. MGTOW doesn’t hate women just like RP doesn’t. Black pill does. To me, that’s a toxic ideology. MGTOW just avoids romantic relationship with women altogether. RP tends to just recalibrate what they are willing to give in exchange for how much risk they are willing to take.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 01:25 AM
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Divorce Statistics In the US The idea half of marriages end in divorce was vaunted in the 1980s but research shows a decline in the rate of divorce in the ensuing decades. Not including those who get legally separated, the statistical breakdown is thus: First Marriages: 42-45 percent will terminate with a divorce as the result. Second Marriages: 60 percent will terminate with a divorce as the result. Third Marriages: 73 percent will terminate with a divorce as the result. In over eighty percent …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 01:08 AM
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No, no, no. You’re referring to PUA (pickup artists). Those guys are lying dickbags. Yes, they lie and scam women into sex. FDS isn’t about scamming men into relationships. It’s about scamming men for benefits (money, trips, gifts, etc). The relationship is just a ticket to those benefits. Red Pill is simply awareness of the current system. Think back to Neo in the Matrix. When he took TRP his eyes were just opened. Then, he got to decide how to comport himself accordingly to his newfound knowle…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 01:01 AM
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Those guys will remain happy until the divorce and child custody/support machine is weaponized against them. But, at that point it’ll be too late to get out from under it. And, if it never happens to them then great. But, the odds are greater than 50/50 that it will.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 12:53 AM
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There is a price to be paid for it. We don’t allow ourselves to get too close to women. Fair enough. But, that’s a necessary sacrifice to avoid the potential (likely) pitfalls. It’s like a football helmet. Yeah, it sucks to wear because it slows you down, hinders your field of view, etc. But, it’s a necessary part of the game to avoid a catastrophe.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 12:46 AM
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You are either not understanding logic or you’re sidestepping it. Again, TRP avoids abuse while FDS seeks to maximize it. Pretend this is the situation... as a guy you plot with others how to to avoid speed traps on the road while police sit around and plot with each other on how to catch drivers to write big tickets to. That’s a much better example than your “two sides of the same coin.” So, if you mean that in Star Wars The Empire and Rebellion are “two sides of the same coin” then okay. But, …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 12:41 AM
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I, unfortunately, married young out of religious pressure. You know, the ancient custom that was established long before gynocentric courts and laws? It took me a nasty divorce and hundreds of thousands of dollars, coupled with time lost with my children, before I started being receptive to TRP. So, essentially, my first-hand experience is what made me start listening. Too little, too late for me. But, I can keep it from happening again. You know the saying, “fool me once shame on you. For me tw…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 12:25 AM
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Every guy I know of in “the manosphere” is happier, more at peace, more wealthy, and spends their time on their own pursuits rather than trying to keep a continually-needy person happy. And, they avoid ”the 7-year payout (aka divorce)” where you lose half of your shit. If you had kids with them then it’s an 18+ year payout. *after giving them half of your shirt.** Yeah, no thanks. I’m not signing up for that deal knowing the rules of the game beforehand.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 12:11 AM
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“The RP’s existence harms more than it helps.” —- unless you’re a man. I’m sure that men waking up to reality and choosing to not play a game that’s rigged against them worse than Powerball is very, very good for men inasmuch as a guy being oblivious to the rigged system is very, very good for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 12:08 AM
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No. Not mainstream or normal. It means “unaware of the current reality.” Unless of course being unaware is normal. I think being aware is becoming more and more normal by the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 12:04 AM
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I agree with that. Most people live in, and congregate around, people who are similar to themselves. And, why wouldn’t they? They speak the same language, share the same worldview, etc. it just makes sense. In the animal kingdom it’s the same way. They stick to herds and packs and compete against each other. They don’t have one big universal community of lions or hyenas, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 06:14 PM
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I’m white and I don’t hate any specific race. I dislike specific behavior that is culturally-associated with certain races. But, I don’t have a blanket dislike for any group of people. I find good and bad in most groups just like there’s good and bad in my own group.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 06:09 PM
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Okay, let’s address the outsiders argument. So, do asians hate whites? Do Latinos hate asians? Etc, etc... You made it sound like black peoples are universally hated worldwide rather than “people just don’t like outsiders (which would apply to everyone). I don’t think it’s about skin tone at all. It’s about culture rather than race.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 06:04 PM
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I’ll sleep with the girl who works at the corner store. But, I’m not making her my girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 05:55 PM
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They’re now realizing that companionship actually matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 05:53 PM
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r/datingoverthirty r/datingoverforty
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 05:53 PM
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I don’t know if that’s true. But, if it is then why is it like that? Remember the old saying, “if one person tells you your breath smells you might ignore them. If a second person tells you then you can become suspicious. If a third person tells you then it’s time to brush your teeth.” If the whole world hates them, as you allege, what is the reason for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 05:51 PM
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Guys, your money will go so much farther if you stay single. Every relationship I’ve been in has been like putting a sucker fish (plecostomus) inside my wallet. You always have to take them out for dates, buy them surprise flowers (while they never buy you surprise gifts), pay for the delivered dinner when they don’t want to cook, pay for a maid if they don’t want to clean, etc. If you cohabitate then you’ll have to get a bigger home for which they will contribute an unfair amount to, etc. You’l…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 05:46 PM
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It was a response to another post. So, wrongly placed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 11:39 PM
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Sexless in Japan — BBC Documentary
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 11:27 PM
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Exactly... if they don’t want the child they can kill it without any input from the man. If she wants to keep it she can financially rape the man for 18 years with no input from the man. Enjoy the cats and boxed wine....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 11:14 PM
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Yes, OnlyFans will stick forever to a woman’s reputation. They’re just too young to understand it when they’re in their early 20s. The money they made will be blown on frivolous stuff and they will be marked almost with a scarlet letter as they hit their 30s. Truly sad for this generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 07:34 PM
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It’s called “sex-positive.” I heard a funny quote and it rings true. Any time there’s a xyz-positive movement it’s trying to normalize something that previously was understood to not be good. Body-positivity is really fat-positivity. Sex-positivity is really just promiscuous-positivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 12:48 PM
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In a way, yeah, because that’s where the credit card is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 05:02 PM
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This is not true at all and I’m a pretty red pill aware guy, myself. But, I do not fit any of the 4 points you listed above. Those 4 points describe assholes. Not RP aware men. I just had 5+ year LTR, didn’t cheat, valued her for the awesome person she is, etc. The only thing that even remotely rings true for me is the “scanning” other women. Well, shit, that’s like getting mad at the radio because the antenna picked up a new station. It doesn’t mean I’m automatically making it my #1 preset.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 04:11 PM
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I’m not bitter at all. I’m just aware of the new reality that exists and am playing accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 02:41 PM
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Homemade
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 12:39 AM
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Porn is essentially a replacement for women now. Men have sexual urges/needs. It used to be that we had to find a woman to satisfy these. But, now a guy can get a quick and easy release without the drama of having to engage with women. So, yeah. It’s been great for guys and probably bad for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 12:34 AM
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This is why a lot of men won’t commit long term, marry, or have kids. There’s nothing in it for men anymore. Women have seemingly found a way to survive without men. So, let’s just let them do it. Us guys know we’re totally fine being single. It’s just more time for hobbies, outdoors,recreation, etc. No more “we need to go to Sally’s wedding and then Susie’s baby shower. Once we’re done with that we’re going to have cake and coffee. Ehhhhhhhhhh.”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 12:21 AM
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Men are free to choose any career they want. There’s nothing wrong with male school teachers. They are becoming fewer and fewer. But, teaching is a noble profession. I’m just sorry that it’s so underpaid. I personally wouldn’t do it because the lifestyle I want needs more money than they are paid. My ex was a school teacher and was eternally broke. I was constantly picking up the slack for her. Plus, her ex, although a really nice guy, was flaky and never chipped in for their kids school stuff (…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 07:15 PM
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I corrected the link. That documentary was still on my clipboard.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 06:42 PM
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I just got out of a 6 year LTR, myself. I’m not against them although some RP guys are. You just have to be very, very selective on the type of woman it is. She needs to be kind and have a good heart. For me, that usually means I avoid “corporate career women” and instead prefer school teachers and other women in the helping professions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 06:39 PM
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Here’s a guy i watch online. What I like about him is he’s not angry, a hater, etc. And, in every video all he does is break down articles and videos by women themselves. They’re informative and fun videos at the same time. Edit: Corrected link
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 06:37 PM
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It doesn’t. Once a man gets married he has forfeited all independence and self-agency. At that point he’s at the mercy of his wife and better keep her happy or else....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 06:34 PM
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This is all easily discoverable info online.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 06:25 PM
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TRP teaches you how to avoid the broken system while still enjoying the things you want out of life. My belief is that women will fix the system themselves once they realize why guys aren’t getting married, committing, and having kids anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 06:25 PM
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Well, I’ve given you my opinion like you asked for. I hope you at least have a better understanding of what TRP is. It’s not the toxic poison the media portrays. It’s simply understanding the rules of the game and playing accordingly to them for the best outcome for yourself. I hope you don’t look back in 10 years at this conversation we had and say to yourself, “I wish I would have listened.” Good luck, my man. Godspeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 06:21 PM
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Nobody said it automatically makes them a bad partner. But, it does affect their response to intimacy. We’ve already agreed the prostitute with 5,000 guys under her belt is not desired. So, we agree that numbers matter greatly. Now we’re just discussing “how much is too much.”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 06:17 PM
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Well, imagine now that you married her and had 2-3 kids. You wouldn’t have been able to just break up with her and walk away. If she was toxic she’d probably have taken the kids and milked you dry for the next 18 years while you didn’t get to see your kids except for every other weekend. So, ask yourself if the risk is worth it. It’s back to that coin flip. The only reason you didn’t get burned by her is because 1) you weren’t married, and 2) you didn’t have kids with her to use as leverage agai…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 06:15 PM
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Dude, you are already a victim merely by the fact that you have been conditioned already to play identity politics. Let’s pretend your house was on fire and the firefighters that showed up to put out the fire were red pill or “MRA.” Would you tell them to go away and rather let your house burn down instead of accept their help? That’s kind of what you’re saying right now. But, it’s not your house we’re talking about. It’s your life. I’m not here to convince you. You asked me questions and I’ve a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 06:12 PM
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I’m not going to tell you what to do. You’re your own person. I would just say to start learning about what the rules are. What the divorce and child custody statistics are for men. Once you know the rules and stats, then you can decide for yourself if it s a smart gamble. Some people go to the horse track and bet on the 200-1 long shot hoping for a big payout even though it’s highly unlikely to happen. Others play the “favorites” which are the horses most likely to win, but winning on those hor…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 05:54 PM
1

Well, that helps. You’re young and inexperienced. When a woman has a child her natural instinct is to nest and care for the child. Men don’t have the same drive. If we’re wanting a family then our drive is to work in order to support the family. But, lots of men just walk away, unfortunately for those kids. And, since the 60s, women are doing the same thing with abortion. That’s their version of walking away. Anyway, I didn’t realize you were in HS. My advice to you is to learn the rules of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 05:49 PM
1

Are you a real doctor or is that just your handle? If you are, what is your field?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 05:39 PM
1

Well, she definitely wasn’t a virgin. But, please explain to me how a woman being a virgin is worse than a woman who had 20 ONS.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 05:39 PM
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Hey, as a guy you can take the blue pill and stay asleep and hope for the best. If you find a faithful and loyal woman then it may work out great for you. Each guy has free agency to decide how to behave in the gynocentric world. Personally, I want to win at the game. And p, that doesn’t mean I’m looking to make someone lose. It just means I don’t want to lose, myself. It can be a win-win. But, with the divorce and child custody stats, and the laws surrounding them highly favoring women, the sma…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 05:37 PM
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I understand that. That is why we seek out women who are not promiscuous. You just proved, yourself, why a person’s sexual history matters. You’re saying that having 7 partners is better than 100 partners. And, I agree. You don’t realize that in your own mind you are agreeing with everything we’re saying. Partner count matters. Risky coin flips with no upside is a stupid gamble that you wouldn’t take. So far we’re in full agreement.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 05:28 PM
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As a woman I can see how you feel that way. But, you already answered the coin flip question. You wouldn’t do it. And, men aren’t doing it anymore either. Men can get sex and companionship now without marriage. I lost everything in my divorce. I Vowed not to let that happen again. So, my last partner was not my wife. We were together for 6 years and lived together. When we broke up she took her stuff and moved out. I kept my stuff. See how much better that is for men than it is to lose half of e…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 05:26 PM
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Reading articles penned by women themselves. This isn’t the 50s anymore. Women are treating sex like a sport. Are you telling me that the women on dating apps have only been with 7 guys in their lives? Yeah, maybe by the time they’re 18-19.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 05:20 PM
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Even if so, would you take a 42% chance of losing everything on a coin flip if there was nothing to win from the game?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 05:18 PM
1

Because that’s the marriage gamble for men. We don’t gain anything from marriage anymore. And, there’s a 50+% chance of us losing half or more in a divorce. So, we’re choosing to just keep ours, too, just like you did. Do you see how when I pose the issue to you personally in terms you can understand then you choose to not play a rigged game either? That’s what TRP is all about. That one little experiment about the coin-flip proved the entire premise of TRP. You just unwittingly agreed that TRP …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 05:09 PM
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I was making a point. And, no, no, no.... 7 partners? Are you kidding? Most women today graduate college and have slept with 20 or more just by graduation not to mention high school and then their 20-something years after college.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 05:05 PM
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Okay, let me ask you this. Let’s say you had $100,000 in your pocket right now. I pull out a coin and say, “if it’s heads you keep your money. If it’s tails you lose half or more.” Would you want to flip that coin with me? You have no chance to win money... on,y keep it or lose it. What is in that game for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 05:04 PM
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Also, you’re confusing two separate things.... enjoyment of sex and being a good partner. Nobody said you can’t do both. But, answer my question about the prostitute. Will a guy want to be with a prostitute who was with 5,000 guys? If numbers don’t count then it shouldn’t matter, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 05:00 PM
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No. It validates it. Women were not designed to give it away to anyone and everyone. That’s why they feel dirty and used. It’s ingrained in them biologically. Do they have fun during the sex itself? Sure. I have fun when I get an 8 ball of coke for NYE. But, I feel like shit when it’s over, haha. Kind of the same thing. Just because something’s fun doesn’t mean it’s god for you. I don’t drink much any,ore because it just started making me feel like shit for days afterwards. So, the pleasurable f…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 04:58 PM
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And, some women enjoy gangbangs. Those are the women we avoid.... women who use sex purely for recreation without regard to how it affects them emotionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 04:53 PM
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No. Men and women are biologically wired differently than men. Men are wired to spread their seed to propagate their DNA. Look at the animal kingdom. It’s no different. Women are wired to mate and then seek protection for her and her offspring from other rivals so that her offspring can grow and reproduce themselves. There are huge biological differences between men and women when it comes to sex. Now, we are not apes and have implemented societal mores and standards to abide by for a healthy so…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 04:50 PM
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Mine went to trial because I’m a fighter and don’t give up easily, haha. In hindsight I wouldn’t do that again. But, once someone brings a fight to me I finish it if I think I’m in the right. I thought because of her abusive past and adultery the court would rule in my favor. Nope.... I have a dick between my legs and I didn’t understand how much of a handicap that would be to me in family court.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 04:45 PM
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It’s not that they’re after our money and kids when they get married at 21. It’s that they can promise to be your wife and love you forever and then 20 years later change their mind because they started screwing the neighbor and they think you’re boring now. And, then they file divorce and are rewarded for doing so. They get half of your stuff, probably the house, kids, and 18 years of child support. The man is ruined instantly because the wife decided to break the contract unilaterally. Family …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 04:41 PM
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Alright, I didn’t watch the last 5 minutes because he kept rambling on too much about the “you’ll know what to do because you’re doing it” thing. But,here’s my opinion. I probably won’t be watching this guy because he references the Bible and his Christian faith and I don’t enjoy his delivery. It’s not bad or negative at all. There’s just other people that get to the point better and don’t talk in circles as much. But, he’s right about a woman’s sexual past. It matters. A guy doesn’t want to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 04:29 PM
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First off, TRP isn’t “a culture.” It’s simply awareness of the culture that feminism and women’s lib has brought about. It’s about surviving and thriving as a man in your culture. Feminism and women’s lib have been responsible for many laws changing that benefit women and that hurt men. The current society and legal framework as it relates to romantic partnerships and children is what is called “gynocentric.” Meaning, it’s centered on the protection of women. That’s not a bad thing if it wasn’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 06:32 AM
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Send me a link of a vid of his that you don’t like and I’ll check it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 06:11 AM
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I have no desire to be a”an alpha.” I’m a fun-loving and jovial guy. I’m also a trained fighter and tally/athletic. Maybe others see alpha. I don’t because I don’t act that way or think that way. I’m not trying to dominate anyone. As far as money goes... we all need it to survive. The more we have the more freedom and options we have. Not sure how getting some is a bad thing. Sex... I don’t need sex. I like it. My ex and I had an amazing sex life. But, I’ve been single for a year now and haven’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 06:10 AM
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Well, I’m watching a video now. Doesn’t seem unreasonable or outrageous at all. Keep in mind I’m 4 minutes in to one of his hundreds of videos so I have no idea what his broad views or attitudes are. But, so far so good.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 06:03 AM
1

Never heard of him. But, I’ll watch a video of him now and give you feedback.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 05:56 AM
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We are creating a new ideal. That’s what TRP is all about. Independence. Awareness of the changing dynamic so each man can choose how he wants to respond to it. Some are going way crazy like black pill. And, some are doing nothing and praying for women’s mercy if they break up. That’s called the blue pill. Others are just modifying how they interact with women and what they aim for in a relationship in order to protect themselves. That’s where I am. It’s the sunscreen analogy I gave you. I still…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 05:54 AM
1

Well, do you have an example of a website or YouTube channel?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 05:48 AM
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Based on her mocking and condescending attitude towards men I have zero interest in hearing her ideas of who or what I should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 05:47 AM
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Give me an example of “the other side.”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 05:45 AM
1

Nah. If she means for this information to be consumed by men then speaking condescendingly and rudely about, and to, men isn’t the way. How can she expect men to watch this video? If you have someone a bit more straight and professional then I’m open to it. But, I’m not giving her channel any watch time. Sorry. This is the kind of woman we avoid at all costs. I don’t watch or listen to any guys online who sit there and condescend to, or mock, women like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 05:35 AM
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Yikes. I got through about 4 minutes. She’s annoying, condescending, and not funny at all even though she’s trying to be. Is this really who you’re learning from? Also, the Rational Male is written by Rollo Tomassi. Not Rollo Calliente. She should at least cite author’s names correctly as a sign of respect. It would be like calling Oprah Winfrey “Oprah Babushka.”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 05:28 AM
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Try the link again. I’m on mobile and can’t click because there’s no space between the prior word.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 05:19 AM
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Those are bordering on what is called black pill. They have learned to hate women instead of just adjusting to the new realities that TRP makes you aware of. Remember, TRP is just awareness of the new dynamic. We aren’t in the 1950s anymore. It’s a natural response to the massive social changes due to the 1960s women’s lib and feminist movement. The birth control pill, working outside the home, abortion on demand, all of these have radically changed traditional gender norms. Fine, we’re here now…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 05:10 AM
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Meaning, some guys with no intention of having a LTR due to fear of suffering negative consequences may lie to women that they are wanting a LTR just so she’ll have sex with him. This is unethical.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 04:59 AM
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I agree with this.... up until a woman is around 35. Then , her options begin to slowly diminish with each passing year. Men, on the other hand, if they’ve done well for themselves in life, start to gain the advantage with each passing year. There’s an inverse relationship between the sexes. Women have the “power” in their 20s-early 30s. Men have the power after 35 as a woman’s youthful beauty fades and a man’s income and success increases.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 04:52 AM
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TRP is just an understanding of the social and legal dynamic of dating and relationships in western nations as a result of modern feminism. It isn’t toxic ideology. It’s just awareness. Though, some people may exploit that awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 04:42 AM
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It is a double standard. But, the sexes are not the same no matter what you say. An ugly and obese woman can go to a bar any night at 2am and go home with someone to get laid. Nobody wants a woman that does that even if she’s attractive. My point was that even unattractive women can do that.p and women who freely give their bodies to others are not desirable. A woman’s beauty and sexuality is the primary desire of a man. So, why would a man want it if you bump into someone everyday while out and…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 03:57 AM
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Sounds like you’re explaining regret. I would advise not to do it. Nobody wants to be with someone who doesn’t really want to be with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 03:22 AM
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This is why marriage makes no sense today. None at all. How can you commit to someone for the rest of your life if you’re love for hem is conditional? Yo can’t because you don’t know what the future holds. And, men overwhelmingly are the losers in a divorce. We lose the house, kids, even our damn paycheck/livelihood for 18 more years. Divorce is a raw deal for men today. And, since you can’t have divorce without marriage the best way to avoid it is to not even go there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 03:20 AM
1

Height is part of how you look.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 03:18 AM
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If a person drops their standards low enough, then sure, they’ll find someone to bite.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 03:17 AM
2

That’s a little rough. Women are more than just their looks. Sure, their looks get them the first date. But, their personality gets them the second date. If they are hot and have a shit personality then it’s a no-go. If they’re a 6-7 and fun/kind/sweet then that, to me, warrants further dating. Either way, I’m in my 40s and I’ve spent my life dating, and being married, the old fashioned way... chivalrous. With all of the new attitudes women have due to feminism I now expect them to carry their o…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 03:17 AM
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I think, in a way, we all settle no matter how happy we are. There are always things you compromise on when you select someone. Always. And, “settling” is just another word for compromising your ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 03:02 AM
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I agree. That’s BS. If something has been freely given away to every other guy then you getting it isn’t special at all. The quote I heard that made sense, while women may not find it fair, is “men are the key and women are the lock. The key that opens all the locks is the master key. A lock that opens to any key is just a shitty lock.”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 03:00 AM
1

Yeah, they got that foodie call and it’s onto the next sucker. This is why smart guys never do dinner on a first date unless it’s something cheap.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 12:03 AM
1

Adultery is still illegal, thought not enforced, in many states.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 10:46 PM
2

Only if lying to get dates and free meals is also. I think dating involves a lot of early deception to begin with. For example, makeup deceives a man into thinking a woman is more attractive than she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 10:45 PM
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Agreed. $50 is a top budget for a first date. 90% of them are wastes of time anyway and, despite all of this equality, women never pay. And, that’s only if we’ve hit it off on a phone call or two. If not then a quick drink and 30 minutes tops is all I plan for.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 03:05 AM
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Yes, it helps. But, I met a chick on a hiking meetup that I banged for a few weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 05:56 PM
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Even with online dating over half of the women have zero info in their bio. That means they are selling themselves strictly as a warm body.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 05:07 PM
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We don’t objectify them. They objectify themselves. We just play along.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 04:27 PM
1

Your body your choice.
/r/MensRights29/08/20 08:35 PM
1

Let them all cannibalize each other.
/r/MensRights27/08/20 04:59 AM
5

I went through 8 years of family court.
/r/MensRights27/08/20 04:58 AM
3

I’ve been in communal places where you shower with others as a group. Lots of them are uncircumcised. I think you’re way too invested in what a guy’s dick looks like. As an adult nobody cares what your dick looks like. Some women may still not blow it. But, that’s about it. Guys don’t care.
/r/MensRights26/08/20 05:32 PM
1

You think I feel privileged because I’m circumcised?
/r/MensRights26/08/20 05:24 PM
1

We like our dicks cut in the US. We have a huge immigrant population and that’s what’s skewing the circumcision numbers.
/r/MensRights26/08/20 05:14 PM
1

Dude, where are you coming from? How old are you?
/r/MensRights26/08/20 05:09 PM
3

So, the founder of the Kellogg company popularized circumcision in the US?
/r/MensRights26/08/20 05:04 PM
3

I’ll agree with you. It has benefits and it’s natural. We were born with it. Here’s a question.... why did it even become “a thing” at all?
/r/MensRights26/08/20 04:58 PM
2

How’s your sex life?
/r/MensRights26/08/20 04:42 PM
3

Are you upset that your parents circumcised you?
/r/MensRights26/08/20 04:28 PM
1

Did you watch Shameless? They have a whole circumcision plot.
/r/MensRights26/08/20 04:20 PM
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Reddit is largely a woke leftist hub. Don’t expect to be on a level playing field here. Earlier this morning a woman made a comment that finding a MRA book in a guy’s bookshelf would be disturbing to her and mean they didn’t have the same values and were thus incompatible. So, I blocked her. I know who I am. If a woman has a hard and fast rule about guys actually giving a shit about their place in society then I have zero desire to interact with that woman. Guys aren’t allowed to look out for th…
/r/MensRights26/08/20 03:46 PM
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Feminism isn’t about equality. It’s about superiority. The problem is, most women still think they’re treated inferior because that’s what the media tells them. But, things have flipped so hard that men are actually the ones treated inferior today. For example, there are almost 300 college scholarships for women and only about 60 for men. The result has been that now there are 4 female college graduates for every 3 males. The wage gap is a farce. Women work fewer hours and choose to do less dang…
/r/MensRights26/08/20 03:35 PM
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Yeah, the disparities on how men are treated vs women is disgusting.
/r/MensRights24/08/20 04:45 AM
0

They used anesthesia on my sons. Even this video documenting it in Sudan shows them using it. Not sure if they used it on me as a baby or not cause I don’t remember obviously. I do know that in Jewish custom the rabbi soaks a rag with wine and give it to the baby beforehand. But, my sons received local anesthesia.
/r/MensRights24/08/20 03:05 AM
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Sorry, my man. That sounds terrible. Reminds me of that scene on Roots where they take all the 13-15 year old men to have it done together in a ceremony. It originated in Jewish culture and they circumcise them on the 8th day. They soak a rag with wine so the baby gets. A little anesthesia. Been doing that for thousands of years. FGM is a discriminatory practice against women whereas male circumcision isn’t all for that purpose. It’s become purely cosmetic in most western nations. But, there is …
/r/MensRights24/08/20 02:50 AM
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I Think she was the maiden voyage of the female teacher predators.
/r/MensRights24/08/20 02:36 AM
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Well, that’s one opinion. And, yes, it’s helpful to know if I’m arguing with a 14 year old who doesn’t know shit about the world. Anyway, there’s a lot of anger on this sub. With all of the criticism against men I’d think you’d want to try and prove them wrong rather than confirm their claims. And, I didn’t lose an argument at all. I clearly demonstrated from historical text thousands of years old where male circumcision originated. That’s a fact. So, until that’s debunked (impossible to do) I’m…
/r/MensRights24/08/20 02:19 AM
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Ha! I just realized you participate in r/teenagers and I don’t argue with kids. There’s a difference between choosing a certain way of life and being forced into it. Maybe that explains your anger. I didn’t say anything aggressive or offensive to anyone. I provided a contextual history of male circumcision. Disagree with it all you want. But, it was initially an aesthetic procedure to differentiate one group of people from the others. Today, it’s still aesthetic and cosmetic because most people …
/r/MensRights24/08/20 01:01 AM
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I never said I was mad about being corrected. Reading comprehension is indeed a lost art. We know why you’re here...
/r/MensRights24/08/20 12:49 AM
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Maybe not. But, I’m not an asshole like you to people on the internet.
/r/MensRights23/08/20 10:30 PM
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Actually, male circumcision historically was a religious practice. In the Old Testament God told the Hebrews to cut the foreskin as a mark to make them separate from the heathen nations around them and to be part of God’s covenant. So, it’s a specifically Jewish practice. Somehow, Christianity adopted it as well even though there’s nothing in the Bible telling them to do it. There’s also nothing specifically in the Bible that forbids masturbation.
/r/MensRights23/08/20 08:23 PM
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I hear you and those are valid point. Yes, I’ve read that the glans can lose some sensitivity due to being exposed and, say, rubbing on your jeans all day, etc. Sometimes I don’t mind just sitting on the couch and getting hard due to friction from my clothing. Still, male circumcision is not on par with FGM.
/r/MensRights23/08/20 07:40 PM
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Please elaborate.
/r/MensRights23/08/20 07:26 PM
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Yeah, this is BS. I’m not concerned with rejection or body count. Cheating is always a problem and I’m sure the women are concerned about that, too. As far as paying the bill on dates... if women want equality then they should demonstrate it. Equality isn’t a salad bar where you get to pick and choose. It seems like they want all of the opportunities and benefits of being a man, while not having to also deal with the downsides of being men. Also, I’m not really on board with the “male genital mu…
/r/MensRights23/08/20 07:02 PM
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