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If you're here for us to tell you what you know you need to do, that's just you avoiding taking responsibility for yourself. Stop the bullshit and move on. Anything else is just attention seeking. Peace
/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:35 PM
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Do some basic sex research.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 06:33 AM
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sense of humor I think it might have been sarcasm.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/19 05:04 AM
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only text for logistics. Completely nonsensical TL;DR: It's not nonsense. But how you apply it makes all the difference. I've said this logistics thing and stand by it, but you also have to use common sense and balance. For a person that's trying to meet women, too much text between 1st contact and meeting with result in a much higher number of ghosts. If you are trying to get to that first date, the familiarity that comes from having emotionally stilted convos, without the context of body langu…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/19 09:11 PM
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TRT You were more relaxed before you started taking it. Now, your vocal cords are more taunt. Go have a 90-minute or 2-hour massage and your vocal cords will relax and your voice will drop, temporarily. I've heard that certain stretching exercises help to relax and elongate them, which also drops your voice more long-term. Your mileage may very.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/19 03:54 AM
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what's the upside of this strategy?
/r/TheRedPill24/05/19 07:51 AM
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Read #3, above. The whole section is focusing on woman. Nothing was said about your mission. Is he talking a mission, like starting a business or is he talking about self improvement? No, he isn't talking about mission at all. So neither you nor I know what he means by mission. It's a clear example of what he's saying not-to-do. It just sounds like resentment or regret. Let's talk about Mission!
/r/TheRedPill11/05/19 06:41 AM
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make your mission, not your woman, your priority Your general self-improvement should take priority over your mission. IMHO
/r/TheRedPill11/05/19 05:41 AM
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This is going to come across as contradiction or confrontational. That is not the intent. Here are some things I KNOW, from repeated experience. I have responded using the word, "you". I mean, "you, whoever you are reading this". I agree 100%, with the things you've said, because they make "logical" sense. They are "reasoned" interpretations of what you are experiencing. Men and women think differently. Both are logical and reasoned. However men usually think "factual". Women usually think "situ…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/19 04:08 AM
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pushing the back of the tongue up Like, right in the area before you aspirate to say, "do", "this", "today". Try saying, "do this", slowly, a few times.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/19 07:45 AM
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The Rabbit Hole Discussion Dropping the Veil - A cross-sub, cross-philosophy, free-for-all. Are we really all that similar? - Thoughts on Thots, open discussion. This event has been a Thoughts-on-Thots production. Sub-v-Sub - "The Real Approach" Anxiety Dawn of the Banned
/r/TheRedPill06/02/19 10:15 PM
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People complain about lifting not = tinder matches. Lifting = commitment, strength, confidence, physical appearance, self improvement, healthy living, having your shit together. There is so much more than just an improvement in your looks. Those things that don't improve your looks-based-success in getting Tinder matches, are so much more important, long term, in managing your relationships and frame. <sup>[edit: typo]</sup>
/r/TheRedPill31/12/18 11:53 PM
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never being called an ass hole Start early, build your frame and you may never get to the point where that label applies. If you set the expectations from the start, and delay-and-moderate the amount of times you operate from someone else's frame, your behaviour will become expected and accepted. It's when you decide to "change" yourself for the better, suddenly, as a new behaviour, that people really start to freak and fight your change/stance. After 20+ years, I've just decided to start fresh.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/18 04:56 PM
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If only, to drill into your head that there are always options. You have abundance even though you aren't taking advantage of it.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/18 04:51 PM
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RTFM, man! <sup>(hook-line-and-sinker. nice test.</sup>)
/r/TheRedPill30/12/18 02:20 PM
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I came here to say this, slightly differently. You aren't focused on you. Your goal is not the woman. Your goal, always, is to improve yourself. Setting goals of doing things you are passionate about, that venture that you keep thinking about (the one where you kept that drawing from two years ago)... Go do it. Set it as one of your goals. Work toward it passionately. Take risks as appropriate. Learn new things. Lift. Your goal, in the context of women is to stop reading all these resources, and…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/18 12:42 PM
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Maybe frame can help... Frame is not a technique. Frame is maintaining self control, which includes how you react, or more likely, how you don't react to provocations because of your deep self confidence and the attitudes of abundance and DGAF... You act according to your will. Not as a response to another. ​ How really do we go about...? TRP is not PUA. You'll find that kind of advice on a PUA site. I mean you will find it here, in the context of a RP mindset and actions. ​ too smv based... TRP…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/18 12:33 PM
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My opinion is that you (a 5, 2, 7, whatever), be open to approaching a nine or even 10; whoever. If your ego can handle the worst she can throw out, you still might learn something. I'm an old guy in decent shape. A 3, maybe. I approach anyone, if the impulse is there. I just "throw shit against the wall, to see what sticks", and try all sorts of approaches. If one seems to make some positive impression, I'll try it again, and again [edit: not on the same person] , to refine it and test its limi…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/18 10:17 AM
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should display They don't operate by the same rules. There is no "should". It's what they do, that should be the litmus test. The part of RP that deals with women, is based on observations, not conjecture. Thousands and thousands and thousands of observations and situations. It often doesn't work the way "it should work".
/r/TheRedPill29/12/18 08:29 PM
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There are no unicorns. (imho)
/r/TheRedPill29/12/18 08:18 PM
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providing You are still using beta-mindset words here. providing, bringing. It is seems like you are still focusing on what you can bring to the relationship (with your choice of words). You do the best you and let her come to you, bringing her best. Just the thoughts that cross my mind.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/18 08:16 PM
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You can break your ego, but that isn't the only expression of this. When you have built your core values and embraced them, so that they are so strong, outside onslaught has minimal or no impact. You don't even go through the step of rejecting attack. You already know that their opinion has no value, doesn't need to be analyzed for validity, because you are self-assured. You are in your frame and it is unbreakable.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/18 12:52 AM
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If you disagree with it, you've misunderstood. I love this line. I reread, ALL THE TIME! A weird interaction and I came back to re-read some posts, and like yours, I now understand. ​
/r/TheRedPill23/12/18 12:46 AM
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proof TRP does not work I've screwdriver scars from damaged goods, that I treated with the most blue, well-mannered, courtesy, kindness, generosity of my time, talent, and treasure. There was not a TRP moment in the whole 4 months and 2 moves of my appartment, that it took to get away from that crazy. I've been given the most-graceful, kind, gentle brush-off, and goodbye, from a young woman who was very mature and stable. I've been used by the sweetest thing who was so messed up by her parents d…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/18 12:57 AM
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*For me*, having a generic default-plan that I can work with in any situation. Having a specific goal and plan for a specific situation. I'm pathetic, so I lay it out for myself. I think it bumps my low SMV up by at least 1. ​ The Plan: How far do I want this to go? Set my goal. What are the generic or specific logistics? Where to move the conversation (new venue)? Where to go after that? (Hotel, her place, my place, the back woods, etc) Transportation. Set the goal in the front of my mind and m…
/r/askTRP17/11/18 02:41 AM
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he gave love away for free and I would add... If a woman thinks that me loving lots of people and telling them I love them, is somehow wrong or gross, then that is not a woman, but a child. Run.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 04:00 AM
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Different creatures with different lived experience. I think we are on the same page with this. But, I've been re-reading to make sure I understood you. I would directly answer your question, with this, "People fuck who they want to. Not because, 'someone worked for it'." Peace
/r/askTRP14/11/18 03:58 AM
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I know different people with think this sounds wrong. I'm okay with that. It has worked 100%, 100% of the 2 times I have done this. Don't talk. Add more kino. Pick a movement that you can maintain a few bars or more, put your hand on her side, just above or on the hip, or if you're more bold, in the small of her back and start your dance movement. Make it something she can follow. Keep dancing until she follows. Continue for a bit and imagine your dance directions, your desires, your heat; imagi…
/r/askTRP14/11/18 03:31 AM
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Women and men are not the same. Do not try to apply your way of thinking to their words. Do not allow them to put their expectations, of how to think, on you.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 03:20 AM
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It's about mindset. Your job is to be genuine, not placate. She is totally freaked out because you are percolating her hormones. Just focus on the outcome you want. Plan the goal. Do you just want a conversation, a marriage, or something in between. Plan your goal, your logistics, how much stoicism you want, what kinds of topics you want to avoid, etc. When you know the goal, and work towards it, a lot of doubts will fall away.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 08:13 PM
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And this is about knowing yourself. It is NOT to suggest that you SHOULD worry about what others think. Maintain that IDGAF.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 02:59 PM
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Nothing to be won or had by hanging around them, with this cloud. If you are earnest in the work part of it, that event will soon be history. When you talk about having a DGAF about outcome, it applies to everyday life and that mantra about picking your battles. An event, even in a group setting only holds you back if you let it. Hard next on that concern.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 03:49 AM
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OP already has it. I would imagine you could find it on the author's website, on Amazon, or on google.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 01:49 AM
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"don't harsh my buzz"
/r/askTRP03/11/18 09:48 PM
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Who knows She's in it for the feelz. She can have mouth sex with her BF, and brain sex by watching your reaction. She's hungry for emotional stimuli.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 09:47 PM
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Huh You heard him.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 09:29 PM
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A NEUTRAL girl, with male fashion sense. (Neutral being one that doesn't gain from influencing you.)
/r/askTRP03/11/18 09:22 PM
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This sounds blue pill to me but, "Talk to her about it"? I see downsides in every choice except, hope.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 09:17 PM
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Do not get introduced. Do it yourself. She's not the goal. She's the bi-product. You are the prize. All those mindsets.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 08:26 PM
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have protection
/r/askTRP03/11/18 07:00 PM
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If it comes up with her again, verbally dismiss him as jealous and don't mention it again.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 06:57 PM
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Don't shit where you eat. ++
/r/askTRP03/11/18 06:46 PM
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"consider myself" You need to base this in reality. If you aren't getting the results you expect, you need to re-evaluate the assumptions. Not everyone sees you, the way you see yourself. Peace.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 06:43 PM
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In, "Sex God Method^(1)", in, "The four principles of sexuality", take a look at, "1) Psychological Over Physical Stimulation". Peace "Sex God Method" is a book, written by Daniel Rose. ^((It can be downloaded as PDF. The author encourages you to purchase a copy, if you find it useful.))
/r/askTRP03/11/18 06:32 PM
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I hadn't thought of actual fires. grin Thanks I also appreciate the "Just do it" Thx
/r/askTRP30/10/18 07:51 PM
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Takk! Thanks!
/r/askTRP30/10/18 07:28 PM
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a practical tool Yes. This. It is not your emotional tampon.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/18 07:25 PM
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I agree, that for many women, height is important and I think it does improve your game. Agreed, That said, I made a change to my profile once and got flooded; only to realize later that college was back in session. Random, external events and planetary alignments, can give you false feedback on profile-manipulation. Peace. [edit typo]
/r/TheRedPill29/10/18 01:47 PM
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“the hots?” the hots - plural noun (informal) strong feelings of sexual attraction (for someone) She has the hots for that guy. [www_merriam-webster_com]
/r/TheRedPill28/10/18 02:41 AM
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TLDR: Rise from your ashes. Make the effort. Have hope that the difficult-to-see, incremental changes and improvements will accumulate. One day you won't recognize your old self anymore. There are still challenges, but to you it will just be the normal routine. You have changed. You're the man you want to be.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/18 03:08 PM
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if you don't put yourself in situations Your new self just will put you into situations. More than that, future man will see more possibilities, all around him. Because his SMV has increased, his self-defined pool of available women will change and shift. All this stuff will come out of his becoming self-confident, which comes from fitness (mentally, spiritually and physically). This comes from the physical and metaphysical exercise/practice; lifting.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/18 09:16 AM
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keep up with the industry If something isn't making you a better person, which is fundamental, it is holding you back. If you need to kill some time or relax, have an activity that teaches you a new skill or stretches you in a real-world fashion. Unless you are going to be a drone pilot or unless you are getting paid to game, it's hard to see it improving a person. ​ If a person is going to embrace RP, it means improving themselves and that means spending the time. I think this all comes down to…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/18 12:36 AM
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Read more. Schedule regular outings to challenge yourself, be it comfort zone stuff, or just practicing a behaviour, or observe people. Try and identify the subcontext of your and the interactions around you. Make plans, smash the shit out of them, keep quiet about them and pat your own damn self. (I found an image with that on a TShirt.) I've been practicing That, every day. Search for situations where you can apply what you've learned. Most importantly, live out of the confidence and skillset …
/r/TheRedPill15/10/18 12:29 AM
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Why are people putting comments here instead of where it is posted? If something gets posted with a link to it's new home, should comments, here, be locked?
/r/TheRedPill12/10/18 11:12 PM
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He might have the bad rep, around her circle, from being the "mostly fucked".
/r/TheRedPill12/10/18 10:43 PM
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See all those links on the right? I've read 70% and working on the remainder.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/18 12:06 AM
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AMUSED MASTERY Read up. When you reach the point of naturally responding with AMUSED MASTERY, those games get easier. They don't go away.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/18 11:56 PM
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"But are you a listener?" "You don't need to talk. Bread?" "Oh, that's cool, cause I've got other ideas for that mouth."
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 03:34 PM
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Being called cute is validation validation is anything that makes her feel "valid"; to be worth considering. Asking her out is validation. Calling her cute is validation. As soon as you start giving validation, the dynamic changes. You may certainly get good responses. This is an example where you can move outside of strict RP rules. But understand that you are making a compromise that psycologically changes your frame and limits your path-forward. The more that you use validation, early, the mo…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 03:07 PM
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What industry?
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 02:02 AM
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Someone always can pull the plug. How is physical security done. This doesn't sound like the eutopia described.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/18 05:17 PM
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No, male, father figure.
/r/askTRP23/09/18 03:31 AM
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I think they call it swinging dick, lifting and maintaining frame.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/18 06:34 PM
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Club - You don't socialize. You dance your ass off like IDGAF. Because, you aren't supposed to give one. If you don't go alone, you go with a wingman/woman, who knows your goal and knows how to get out-of-the-way. Going with a group imposes a sort of group SMV average, which inludes your best and worst mate/friend. ​ The club, itself, can increase your SMV. Always treat every club employee like a real person, with respect; even the guy handing out towels in the powder-room. Use your manners with…
/r/askTRP19/09/18 07:42 PM
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He's not looking at HER... But his pocket is. She's looking at the photo, in her mind, and it looks good.
/r/MGTOW18/09/18 05:07 AM
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I don't think I can pull the sit on my lap thing and kiss her at the same time since she's slightly taller than me lol Depends what you are kissing
/r/TheRedPill12/09/18 02:14 AM
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I "feel" he handled it correctly. My guess is that first, she was confused and indignant that he didn't actually buy the drink, and then she got angry that she couldn't play him more, and then to top it off, he rejected her, for the friend. "I sure as hell not gunna let him have his way" with the friend. "We don't like him" is code for, "He pissed me off and if you don't want to hear about it all the way home, you better back me up" He might have been able to steer it and score. The fact he didn…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/18 07:42 AM
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Field Report: TLDR. 3-year RP, games women using direct, short-term hypergamy methods, in the bar of his hotel. Context: Late-30s, 3-year RP - 6’ 185 sixpack, lifts, good sense-of-style. OP was, previously, boyfriend material beta serial monogamist. Frame and game have been weak areas. Set 1. Lobby bar::DJ::high energy. OP uses RP idea of self-importance to combat anxiety. Set 2. Sees 2 women at bar, but they're accompanied. Self-awarness of anxiety and in order to treat the whole bar as an enco…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/18 02:11 AM
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A local library let's people "work off" their late fees by spending time reading in the library.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/18 09:07 PM
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And that each time you start at the bottom, you build more (mental) muscle-memory of getting through those longer efforts that require a long term plan, focus and goals. It ipitimizes many fundamentals of TRP.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/18 12:03 PM
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You're right. "Emotions" are a physical response. You are emoting. ​ They happen before you have a chance to think about them. When you notice, usually unconsciously, that you are experiencing emotions. your brain kicks-in, to decide how you "feel" about your emotions. ​ Reveling that inner dialog, that inner evaluation of things or people or situations, reveals your inner wiring. This leaves you wide open to manipulation. But, the great thing is, you don't HAVE to go around, vomitting everythin…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/18 01:41 AM
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