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ConversationDonjiDonji/r/seduction01/05/22 01:33 AM
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Everyone has it hard because of game theory. Women need to compete with other women. Men need to compete with other men. This means for both parties it’s extremely difficult. It’s not society’s expectations of men that makes things difficult, it’s that you need to compete with 4 billion other men to meet someone of high value.
/r/seduction05/05/22 04:35 PM
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I expect a lot out of my girlfriend, way more than just looking good. If looking good was the only thing I liked about her, I would’ve just had a one night stand. Have you been having trouble with women?
/r/seduction05/05/22 04:24 PM
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Wut lol. It goes both ways, men evolutionary also want a woman who lives a long life because they are fit. In a relationship both a man and a woman need to be the provider, This is dependent on your culture for how that split up, and every relationship is different.
/r/seduction05/05/22 04:06 PM
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I guess I feel a bit better about myself knowing I was always an alpha haha
/r/seduction04/05/22 07:17 PM
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I don’t think so
/r/seduction04/05/22 12:47 AM
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That’s actually a cool idea, I will say though, at least at my bjj dojo, leg locks were forbidden until late blue belt. Might have to try that myself
/r/seduction03/05/22 01:14 AM
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California
/r/seduction02/05/22 11:10 PM
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Yeah, it’s normal I think, happens to me too at least. You hands get stronger though.
/r/seduction02/05/22 07:51 PM
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Yes, an incredible boost, ask anyone else who does bjj. I think someone else in the comments also mentioned this. At a white belt you learn guard position, side guard, arm bars, triangle chokes, how to control the opponents neck, how to escape from someone on top of you in a multitude of ways, grappling, takedowns. It’s also great for building muscle. Just think about your opponent as a resistance machine, but for every part of your body. With bjj specifically, you can take down people twice you…
/r/seduction02/05/22 05:53 PM
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Most people don't know how to pose, thats why in photoshoots you always see the stereotypical photographer taking like 1000 photos. They throw out 99% of them. Just try different things and see what works. There are so many bad ones I threw out. It's important to get a friend to take the photo, and to pick a good location. One photographer trick is taking one from about 15 feet away. Lenses distort the image when the subject is closer to the lens.
/r/seduction02/05/22 04:03 PM
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It sounds like you just need to get your self out there in more social settings in general. You're not going to be able to skip the date step, its part of the process. No guy walks up to women, and their like "omg, you're so sexy, fuck me right here on the spot" Try joining some social classes that also build up your physical attributes, like a jiu-jitsu class. You'll see a huge boost in confidence. Try meeting some women as friends and take them out to lunch, and just get comfortable conversati…
/r/seduction02/05/22 03:46 PM
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This is a bad strategy imo. Its best to be direct imo and say "hey, sorry to bother you, but I find you really pretty and I'd love to take you out some time, could I get your number?". I've seen my friend use this cold open probably 30 different times, and he just gets an enormous amount of numbers from really beautiful women. About half the time, the women say, "wow, that is really brave of you, and are really impressed." ​ It's kind of awkward to ask for directions in some cases because it can…
/r/seduction02/05/22 03:38 PM
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I mean it is funny to get hit on in public. If a woman walked up to me and randomly asked me out in front of my friends, I guarantee we would be laughing after. Don't take it personally. Can't you see the humor in it from their side? Instead of focusing on cold approaches, maybe work on making yourself more desirable by working out and doing something like Jiu-jitsu which is fantastic for your mental state and confidence. If you have budging muscles through your shirt, you're definitely going to…
/r/seduction02/05/22 03:32 PM
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Hot/typical hot girl ≠ bland/ dull personality (in my experience), At least for my definition, hot includes personality Didn't mean for it to come off this way. For me it was more about getting rid of variables that could have possibly been getting in my way, because my situation was desperate, something needed to change. Simplifying my wardrobe just meant women could focus more on who I am as a person, but by all means keep whatever personal styles you have (as long as it isn't the grandpa styl…
/r/seduction02/05/22 03:19 PM
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https://imgur.com/6z5pYrG thats the one that my gf liked. That is the one where my friends and I went to the park near our house. Full body pics are good because they know they aren't getting cat-fished. I also got a haircut that same day, and trimmed my beard. I don't normally wear that shirt because it is kind of tight, but it was appropriate for this photo. Slim fit clothes show off your physic more, if you have baggy clothes, its hard for girls to tell what you are like underneath, that that…
/r/seduction02/05/22 03:11 PM
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Only did it for a year, just a white belt. I would have done more but it can get pricey. That being said, that year was totally worth it for about any price.
/r/seduction02/05/22 03:09 PM
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Will do!
/r/seduction02/05/22 03:07 AM
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It is a big deal to me, though her being hot is not what makes our relationship great. We both put in a lot of effort for making the relationship great for each other. Exercising together has been a cornerstone of our relationship along with exploring kink and other fun aspects of sex. We also make ice cream together as a hobby. I've had hot girlfriends in the past, but the relationships weren't great. In my first one, we didn't communicate, like at all. In my second one, she was a stoner and we…
/r/seduction02/05/22 12:06 AM
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We didn’t go on hikes or go on runs, or play tennis, or pickleball, or go surfing. We just sat on her bed, smoked weed an fucked and watched netflix, occasionally we’d walk around the city. She also liked to drink with her friends every weekend, which isn’t bad, but that means the next day, you’re definitely not going to want to do any physical activities.
/r/seduction01/05/22 09:25 PM
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I trained bjj for a year, and I think it was like $100 or $200 a month. A year was all it took for me to learn the basics to become extremely confident in myself. I’m thinking about going back. Idk about mma, but I can assure you it’s worth every penny. Who knows, maybe you’ll get jumped and they’ll beat you up till they make you give you your crypto keys and you’ve lost 1m haha. If you can’t defend yourself, it’s nerve wracking.
/r/seduction01/05/22 09:21 PM
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Freshman year of college I started learning the game, did pretty well at hooking up with college girls. Mid twenties, was struggling with moving on from hookups into getting a stable relationships. At 26 I landed my first hot gf, but the relationship wasn’t good. She was a stoner, which isn’t bad, but she never worked out and we didn’t do physical activities together, so eventually I got over it. Then it took a while to find someone who I found attractive + could have a healthy, productive relat…
/r/seduction01/05/22 09:16 PM
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I’m 30
/r/seduction01/05/22 09:01 PM
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LMAO, oh no
/r/seduction01/05/22 08:35 PM
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Lmao, what are the chances you were already someone I dm’d because you were attacking nano during r/place 😂
/r/seduction01/05/22 04:52 PM
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Check your dm
/r/seduction01/05/22 04:51 PM
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My core advice for those individuals is learn shibari + do whatever your partner wants without shame.
/r/seduction01/05/22 03:34 PM
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This is true! Lesbian, dude with 3inch dick, same difference. They have to rely on the same strategies to pleasure their partner. Why shame someone for who they are. Be happy that they are being the best version they can be, and have fun having sex.
/r/seduction01/05/22 03:19 PM
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Many prison dudes get buff without anything. If you don’t have heavy weights available, it just means you’ll need to do more reps. Chances are you could hurt yourself if you jump to heavy weights in the gym, without trying to get fit at home anyways. So get yourself in good shape for when you can go back into they gym. If you want to get buff at home, do 100 push-ups a day, and do 3 reps of 8 pull-ups a day. If you can’t do that, do 50 pushups, then to figure out your pull-ups, try to max out yo…
/r/seduction01/05/22 03:16 PM
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Hell yeah. When people say, “you just have to be more confident, and girls will like you” they say it as if you can manifest confidence out of no where. I would not have the confidence I have in my daily life if it wasn’t for bjj.
/r/seduction01/05/22 02:59 PM
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Shave it all off and keep it that way, or if you are really attached to having hair, get a modern toupee: https://youtu.be/_p8vVTc-QGo Or: https://youtu.be/B45_q2iHY2Y If you do have bad balding, don’t try to keep the hair in a half assed way. It will just look patchy. Just rep the bald look and wear it like a boss.
/r/seduction01/05/22 02:33 PM
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Do this: https://youtu.be/bDjeRqqQu2A And this: https://youtu.be/Yrv4HMJCklI Every day, and you’ll have abs + a good physique overall without spending any money. If you have $100, buy a pull up bar and a 20lb weight.
/r/seduction01/05/22 01:30 PM
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Do Brazilian Jiu-jitsu and don’t focus on working out yet. It’s just fun, and you’ll get the best workout possible without even realizing it.
/r/seduction01/05/22 01:28 PM
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Also, if you don’t know what to get, the default haircut you should get is an undercut. I didn’t know what it was called for the longest time. If you want to be ultra trendy, it’s called a double undercut.
/r/seduction01/05/22 01:13 PM
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Once every month or two, but if I was dating I’d do at least once a month.
/r/seduction01/05/22 12:48 PM
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Make a separate account and set your profile to men, then you can see what the competition does. It becomes obvious after that. That’s what I did. You need at least one full body pic, or upper body at least. Want one pic where you are having our with people looking like you are all having fun.
/r/seduction01/05/22 10:50 AM
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We went on a run and then got boba after. Both of us talked while running. We went to the Stanford campus to run, so kind of like being in a museum, there was a lot of things to stop and look at. It was slightly longer, but kind of like I said, it was easier for her to justify because she was going to exercise anyways.
/r/seduction01/05/22 10:30 AM
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100%! But for the 4 inch and lower, I’ll say this, yes the member it’s self isn’t satisfying anyone, but having a normal sized dick isn’t a prerequisite to having a hot girlfriend. Lesbians have fantastic sex. You can wear a strap on, penis extensions, just use a dildo on her. Not to mention just eating her out. From being in the kink scene, there are a lot of tools at your disposal. I’m fairly confident I’d be able to land a hot girlfriend with a 3 inch dick. If I became an expert in shibari, t…
/r/seduction01/05/22 10:20 AM
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Do a one time thing where you pay more to go to a really good barber, like a super cool one. They’ll know what to do with your head. Then if you like it, take a bunch of close up picture, and show someone cheaper the next time.
/r/seduction01/05/22 10:07 AM
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Agree on all points! I count walking in a museum an “activity date”. Something she might have done on her own anyways! Also agree with the sex on any date, but it can’t feel forced, so I never set the expectation for myself to have sex on the first date.
/r/seduction01/05/22 10:06 AM
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Yep! I mean his type is different than my type, but to him yeah.
/r/seduction01/05/22 05:13 AM
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Google shane brucaw. He is an extremely disabled man with a hot gf. Listen to the way he talks with her. This dude is a total chad personality wise. That have a lot of videos, it’s quite interesting. You can be negative 100 in the looks department and there is still hope.
/r/seduction01/05/22 04:25 AM
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My friend is 5’8” and doesn’t have issues finding people to go out with. He does lift, and he does swipe a lot on tinder. He is one of my friends who we went to the park to take photos. It’s a numbers game.
/r/seduction01/05/22 04:17 AM
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You’d be surprised how fast you can go from ugly to hot if you work out and wear slim fitting clothes. A six pack is a six pack. 1/3 women have been abused at one point. There are plenty of hot women who are just looking for someone healthy who treats them well.
/r/seduction01/05/22 04:11 AM
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5’10” 5”
/r/seduction01/05/22 04:04 AM
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I make sure I have the basics covered. A Jean jacket + a zip up hoodie to wear under it. A grey shirt, white shirt, black shirt, blue shirt Light jeans, dark jeans Get a couple statement pieces with color to throw in there, if you have some basics, you can make most things work. Generally just look at the pictures in a store like Uniclo, and you’ll see kind of what I wear. (The slim fit photos. I like that style better)
/r/seduction01/05/22 03:15 AM
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If your referring to the 5sum, it’s actually really easy to make those happen if you have a hot girl who is bi. There is this app called Feeld which we use where you can match with other couples. We are also really into kink, and if you go to kink events, you’ll meet a lot of polyamorous couples. These couples are more interested in my gf than myself tbh. If I was lying, I would have gave myself a much bigger dick hahaha
/r/seduction01/05/22 02:34 AM
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