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Wow, this is all groundbreaking stuff. Didn't you star on a tv show not too long ago....the Mentalist I think it was? Thank you for imparting such deep, sure-to-work tips about controlling the minds of others. Pink elephants for everyone! Btw, didn't inception require...you know...hacking into people's dreams and stuff a little more advanced than saying 'don't (insert verbal garbage here)'
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 07:59 PM
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Life is better after college, and life can be amazing in college. A person who has an amazing time in college can also have a better life after its completion. I consider myself one of those people. I agree that for the sake of the interwebz it's easier to paint the picture that in college you're either A) a frat/stoner/party douche that is taking out 100k+ of loans and doesn't study or B) you're hitting the books nonstop on the way to a prosperous career. What you fail to emphasize is balance a…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 06:09 PM
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This is a sexual strategy sub. Not a happiness sub.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 01:45 AM
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If you don't think that would be reality you have clearly not read the sidebar and are even more clearly not RP. Women will do anything for a man of high SMV.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 12:43 AM
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You put them on a pedestal by choosing platonic relationships with them over sexual relationships with willing women.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 12:39 AM
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If you are in bed with a girl who thinks you're alpha and wants to fuck you she will. You were in bed with two women who had no interest in fucking you. They do not think you're alpha and their perspective has not changed.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 12:36 AM
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Excuse me if I'm comprehending the story wrong, but: You go to club with 2 girls who never would have contemplated fucking you, you kiss hot women on the cheek that would likely fuck you and push them away, only to go back to the 2 girls (who are likely wasted at this point) that wouldn't sleep with you, then think you're totally Alpha since they made a drunk remark. Oh, and you proceeded to have a slumber party and cooking fest with them that didn't involve sex. You are literally the gay friend…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 12:25 AM
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I have different feelings towards this. Surely you had fun, but you didn't fuck the girl? Maybe you had more fun just being alive and in the moment than you would have if you went home with the girl earlier in the night?
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 07:14 PM
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Or you could be a man and let her know you're interested in fucking her, instead of orbiting around hoping one day she will magically make a move.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 06:28 PM
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This is easily countered by abundance mentality, even in LTRs. As your success and wealth increases, in theory so should the threshold of women you're able to pull on any given night/week. A doctor and a business man? (although 'business man' is nebulous) - assuming you make >500k a year would be pretty reasonable. With that level of wealth and the slightest bit of physical features, you always should have a target market/pool of women to pick from. Women may view you as an Alpha-esque provider,…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 06:11 PM
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lol don't ask her out to bang. Was just making a joke.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 02:39 PM
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Anthony Weiner also left a digital paper trail. It's much easier to assume doubt when it's coming from powerful men like JFK and Clinton. When the proof is right there in front of you, it's a whole different ball game.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 12:10 AM
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So many red flags here. I don't doubt it, but I'd be damn sure to do my homework and probe a bit - she's obviously a bit crazy, and I'm always cautious about sticking my dick in crazy. Make sure she has no STDs, and even then wrap your shit up! Ask a few qualifiers; normally this would seem like a stretch, but this is all a bit a strange, so is there any chance you walk into this chick's home and you're mugged by a group of dudes? Do you work with this girl? I'd hope not, at least if it's a corp…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 12:07 AM
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Marriage is a contract, a legal process meant to underpin one's relationship with another with financial and social repercussions. Marriage quite literally frames the husband and spouse (or husband and husband/spouse and spouse) as goods, in addition to what they jointly produce (children, resources, etc). Sure, there are romantic and flowery things involved with the process, like a nice service, reception, and loving vowels....but that's not what marriage actually is. Those things can exist wit…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 09:58 PM
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Make sure you ask her out to bang via text message.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 08:54 PM
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Adoption is a wonderful thing.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 06:46 PM
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Your post resonated deeply with me because it touches on a bunch of things I care about - education, molding young minds, the archaic nature of marriage, and being honest. I'll try to get my thoughts out coherently :) First off, marriage was invented when the average life span was about 55 years old. People are living WELL into their 80s and 90s. That means we have the same process for a society with almost 2x the lifespan. To think anyone should sleep with one person for upwards of 60 years is …
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 06:11 PM
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The way you talk in general wreaks of "I peaked in High School".
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 04:32 AM
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I'm not arguing that point - I agree everything is inherently worthless. But that doesn't mean you can't personally assign value to things. When my sport's team wins the championship I experience a great deal of happiness, one that you apparently don't feel. The fact that they don't win every year makes me very happy when they do win. I mean sure, you can be detached about everything. But that seems like a lazy way to go about life: 'I don't care about anything therefore I will always be happy'.…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 02:31 AM
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Do you not believe that meaning (in anything one values, let's use knitting as an example) is imperative for happiness? 'Just being' is a little too hippie for me.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 02:24 AM
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Your third "lessons learned" point is dangerous. I'll look towards some classic literature to counter the point: "Gatsby believed in the green light, the orgastic future that year by year recedes before us. It eluded us then, but that's no matter. Tomorrow we will run faster, stretch out our arms further..." "One must imagine Sisyphus happy.” Given what we know, happiness is linked to a process - deriving happiness from "permanent things" is therefore in conflict....in fact, the only permanent t…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 02:12 AM
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I've always found relative SMV to be most important, with respect to both your age cohort and geographic cohort. Out of college I was making 85k and drove a brand new BMW. Back in my hometown, where the only guys my age (22) were ones who didn't go to college after high school, I could pull virtually any girl - bartenders, cashiers, girls from high school class that never left the area....and I was far from model status. When I moved to New York after a small promotion, making 100k in center cit…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 01:13 AM
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I would have to recommend psychiatric help if you believe that by not wacking your meat your IQ increases by 5-6 points.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/16 08:33 PM
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Just as a complete side note, when I was getting an MBA I was still 2 years into a great job making 100k+ and moderately attractive to most people....you know, if we're going to lay the cards on the table here.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 03:16 PM
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The people that follow rules should be following rules. It's the same story as "if you have to ask, you'll never know". Your post is fundamentally useful, and I'm sure it will spur a few newbies to wear more colorful pieces of clothing or get a risky haircut. But consciously breaking a rule for the hell of it (essentially, does it gel with your own being? Answer being no) will result in appearing like a try hard. Hence the reason why we make fun of Tumblrinas and every overweight girl with blue …
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 11:34 PM
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I feel really bad you went out of your way to write all of that. All of that crap. What's it like to have so much time on your hands?
/r/TheRedPill07/10/16 09:09 PM
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1) I hope you are still in high school, because any adult male going in depth how high school girls act is fuckin weird, to say the least. 2) If you're in high school, the only advice you should ever listen to is: Don't give a fuck about women, study first and foremost, start lifting, develop discipline, and plan to go to a good college or trade school. Every hot girl I went to high school with is now fat and awful looking. Every guy that 'balled' out and didn't develop any useful life prospects…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/16 07:38 PM
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Oh my god these posts get gradually worse
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 03:34 AM
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Standard New to TRP / is Beta in Real Life / Unnecessarily Says 'Fuck You' and other curse words Shit Post I am assuming you don't go out often, considering girls don't ask people they just meet at a bar or party if they're allowed to get a drink of water. Also assuming that while you have this script all planned out in your mind, to show the world just how Alpha you are, the real life situation would go like this: Girl: "I'm thirsty"....proceeds to go get water You (Flustered by the deviation o…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 02:06 AM
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"don't do skype" should have been the only thing written
/r/TheRedPill04/10/16 05:13 AM
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Lol who tf cares about punk
/r/TheRedPill04/10/16 02:59 AM
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Great post, especially for anyone who is looking to work and rise up in corporate America. Completely agree with the sentiment: to make more money, switch companies. My two cents: I've been in the consulting industry for almost a decade now. The industry is incredibly young (average age at top firms is well under 30). While partners at these firms can rake in well over 3/400k, the end game for most consultants is to move into high management roles in industry specific firms: think finance, tech,…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/16 01:28 AM
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At the end of the day the girl was willing to put out for him -- all that matters here. You got it for free, but your definition of free and his definition of free are worlds apart.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 08:23 PM
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Amidst a metric fuck ton of shit posts these past few days, your summary is a golden nugget that everyone should read.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 01:53 AM
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My goal isn't to change your opinion; I didn't make the post. If this is what you think, I accept that - I also accept that your thinking is wrong. There is too much written here on the sidebar by the forum's best posters that I don't need to try to criticize you...it's already been done 100x over.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 01:15 AM
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yeah we get that. that's why it's a shitty post.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 01:02 AM
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I genuinely feel bad for you because - despite the fact you should know better - you're young, and it sucks feeling left out of a friend group. Take it from personal experience, which I'm sure everyone here can attest to: these guys obviously don't consider you very much of a friend. Now you must ask yourself, why would you want to be a leader of a group of people that don't care for you much. Trust me, if people want you around, you will be invited. The fact that these guys continually snub you…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 12:06 AM
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Can we please find a way to bottleneck these shit posts? For everyone who just skips to the comments, especially newbies: Is it worth being Alpha? Fuck yes. What about a nice guy? A genuinely nice guy and the socially constructed nice guy are two totally different things. You can be alpha and be nice - in fact, I'd say a large majority of alphas are nicer people overall than beta guys. Being nice means treating humans - not men, not women - with respect and kindness, without expecting anything (…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/16 11:12 PM
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I'd say the opposite. Losing weight does more for the face than any other physical feature - a good body is a product of building muscle. A good face is a product of eating clean and not looking bloated.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/16 10:23 PM
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Step 1: Burn more calories than you consume in a single day. Step 2: Repeat Step 3: Get paid attention to by women Sound too simple? I'm sure many would disagree with me, but I am a firm believer in the idea that 99.9% of people (both men and women) would be fuckable if they lost weight. Show me an in shape girl and there has to be some serious facial fuck ups to prevent me from smashing. Talk with many attractive girls...most feel the same about guys.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/16 09:45 PM
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In my opinion it will never be possible. The majority of men will always be desperate enough for sex and female attention that the TRP doesn't stand a chance of going mainstream. Furthermore, it's best for RP men to realize that we are better off with having beta men. Women like Alpha men because beta men exist. In theory, if every man becomes alpha, something else must become attractive to women...perhaps super alpha? Idk, that phrase sounds stupid but it's the best I could come up with.. Not c…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/16 06:50 PM
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"Here's the real secret to being a man" ----> Talks about spending time on Omegle. Lol good try buddy.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/16 02:58 AM
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Stop texting like you're a 5th grader would be a good starting point
/r/TheRedPill02/10/16 01:55 AM
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Christ your texting is cringe-worthy. Maybe I'm in the minority, but I escalate only minimally through text - unless it's a quick Tinder fuck. Texting serves one purpose for guys: logistics that lead to a meet up. Texting serves two purposes for women: logistics and attention. Saying shit about grabbing her hair and kissing not only looks stupid as fuck through text messaging, but when the moment is over (assuming the girl is even turned on to begin with) it's just awkward.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/16 01:52 AM
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The delusion is so strong with this one. All this rationalizing sounds like the people who defend those school shooters - "yeah he went in and shot up the place and killed a bunch of innocent people, BUT BUT BUT xyz reason why it wasn't totally awful" Sorry bruh - I'm not in your head so I will never know if you're being true to yourself, but all this sounds to me is you liked both the idea of marriage and TRP...two conflicting ideas. It's like you fully bought into TRP, but for some reason (per…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 07:39 PM
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I'm sorry but I wouldn't be caught dead saying any of your "best" lines. Tons of stuff sounds great in a theory, but imagine yourself telling a woman you've been banging "I can't get in a serious relationship because of personal goals and promises I've made to myself" - it's almost comical. You have such little self control and discipline that a relationship would disable you from reaching your goals? You would legitimately be comfortable saying to someone: "i made a promise to myself" and not f…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 06:37 PM
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This post seems like one fell swoop of rationalized greatness before an even greater psychotic breakdown.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 05:04 AM
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Treat her like just another dude except with the implication that you would fuck her - at least that's what I do, and it seems to work.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 01:25 AM
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Shitting where you eat is such an excuse - I think back to my college days and I've had plenty of classes and team projects with women I slept with. Short answer: yes, you should pursue. You need to bolster up the social skills at all time, and a woman gave you an opportunity while putting ZERO EFFORT in. That's a good ROI if I've ever heard one. Meaning even if you go to get coffee and it leads nowhere you are still at the baseline. Longer answer: This forum, while very accurate, can sometimes …
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 01:23 AM
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I have a salary; I don't work on wage. Many people who make much more than me in the same firm work much shorter days. It's a lifestyle I am perfectly fine with - have fun with your life, however.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 01:11 AM
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Maybe I'm an anomaly, but I'm 27, work at a nice consulting firm, make 200k+, work 13 hours a day, and still party a fuck ton in my free time - spending $$$, getting wasted, waking up hungover, the whole 9 yards. My point being that anyone who falls on either side of the spectrum's extremes - partying all the time versus no partying and gaining a "marketable" skill - AND believes their ideology is "right", is simply misguided. I really do believe that most people don't understand how much time 2…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 11:38 PM
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I think asking yourself why internet memes make you so angry in the first place is the first order of business in becoming a better man.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/16 04:29 PM
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No doubt. I was going to post that as well but I didn't want to make assumptions, lol. But I've found the super wealthy and their social circle tend to be a lot more liberal regarding their desires. All teases.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/16 11:10 PM
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I deliberately used the word alone. Men who promote women to LTR that are not even close to being worthy do indeed believe that one can avoid being alone. If I wanted to write lonely I would have, Hemingway.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/16 11:09 PM
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I think you greatly underestimate the extent to which people - including men - will go to to not feel alone in the world. LTR = significance in life and guaranteed camaraderie for at least some portion of time. I'm not saying your post is incorrect, but for some people, feeling like life has meaning, even if that manifests itself in the form of getting a girlfriend, provides a ton of value. Of course that's stupid thinking, but whatever...to each their own.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/16 11:00 PM
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Meh. The only lesson I see here is AWALT. You quickly assumed this guy to be Beta (which may very well be true) but provided no proof. All I got from your story is that he is super wealthy, has a smoking hot wife, and gets great sex all the time, including blow jobs, anal, and god knows what other dirty things. If the wife is as explicit as you say, and reaches that level of explicitness so quickly, I'd wager that the husband knows of her behavior on some level. The question becomes whether or n…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/16 10:56 PM
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Absolutely not - the duality behind dating apps is this: women have the pick of the field and are looking for 10/10 Chad who makes >$150,00/year, looks like Cristiano Ronaldo, and is also willing to settle down. Even 7s will pass on objectively good guys because they have a larger shot at matching with Chad. Unfortunately for them, 10/10 Chad doesn't need a dating app to get into a LTR, and is only using the app for frequent and meaningless sex. An unhappy cycle results. My advice is to use dati…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/16 05:17 PM
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Watch house of cards and emulate Frank Underwood. With your new found power in life, backstabbers and moochers are at every corner! Should you let your guard down just once, a chaotic bout of hysteria will fall into your lap, manifesting itself in leaches trying to extract your worth for all its value. Best of luck, new prince of the social underworld.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 02:33 AM
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TRP isn't about revenge...revenge is associated with people shooting up schools and not mentally being able to move on from people in their past.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 01:46 AM
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Lol mods, please delete this.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 01:41 AM
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You spent money, albeit just for you and at a slightly reduced rate than usual, for a kiss from a post-wall girl, and didn't fuck. Entertaining, but not red pill, nor a "massive success". Just a revenge fantasy post 75% realized and 10 weeks into training post...
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 01:37 AM
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lol, didn't think of it that way. cheers.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 06:05 PM
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Listen to OP. As someone who has made my career in business and have done quite well, I believe it is sound advice. Don't listen to the commenters preaching "fuck the system" or "invest in gold and silver". For all you bullion fanatics: every god damn year lunatics talk about gold and silver prices rising. Precious medals have fallen by nearly 50% since 2012, especially silver, and every societal rebel thinks they are the second coming of Warren Buffet by talking about how cool it is to invest i…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 01:30 AM
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"The #1 thing that defines an alpha male is how strong the attraction he instills in hot women" I do feel bad for you if that is your outlook on life
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 06:29 PM
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"Guys like OP pretend they're above approaching but magically get laid all the time without it." Thanks for the psychoanalysis, but I didn't say that at all. There is a worldly difference between how PUA define "approaching" and how normal guys define "approaching". There is also a worldly difference between how PUA (and I suppose you) define "game" and how normal guys define "game". PUA rely on high fives and gesturing at girls like a stop sign to approach - if you take yourself seriously and t…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 06:07 PM
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You preach of a man who is in the top 5% of all males in the history of the world and has zero self esteem, and you call us extreme?
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 06:34 AM
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I see you edited your post: And sure, it's frustrating for Ted. But even then, life doesn't sound horrible. He will certainly have a lot of distractions and mind-numbing pleasures to distract him from the beta complex. The premise of this forum is to leverage sexual strategy against women. As sure as day, you just admitted he will get bitches. Tbh you sound like you secretly envy Ted on some level and need to rationalize yourself relative to him.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 04:54 AM
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Despite this happening every day in the world does not make it a likely scenario. Your one friend's situation hardly equates to empirical evidence, and I am willing to bet my left nut it is statistically unlikely. Sure, it's a nice warning post and will get a bunch of love from the forum, while I get downvoted....but I'd rather be a realist in my assessment of the world, rather than using a personal anecdote as a vehicle for making a blanket statement that "this happens all the time", or even "T…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 04:45 AM
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I don't like these posts because they paint unrealistic scenarios - maybe it's my naivety, maybe not. But someone who is making Mitt Romney money, is in the top 10% physically, and is also apparently a mental titan, would not likely act like a beta bux. Very few people get to the top of the mountain - dominating every aspect, as hypothetical Ted does - without learning a few lessons about women and life. Your point remains the same and in my opinion true, however. So why my previous paragraph? B…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 04:37 AM
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Perhaps one of my larger flaws is that I tend to empathize with parents more so than other figures in life, but I think this is still worth mentioning: You're only given a very small group of people in life that are obligated to care about you...in most cases that is mom and dad. What most people don't realize, however, is that obligation of care, on their end, stems from self-interest rather than pure altruism. This is much more evident in moms than in it dads, but certainly not exclusive to fe…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 03:21 PM
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Good post - only point I'd challenge you on is: "We are living in a ruthless world. We are living in a world that will crush you at the second you stop trying." I don't believe that to be true. The world is indifferent to action versus non-action. The world only crushes you when you try something. A man could sit in his room all day eating a crappy (but not horrid) diet, watching tv, browsing the internet, engaging in no real useful endeavor, and be perfectly content with himself. Our minds are …
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 06:02 AM
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I agree, you are correct. I have little hope for humanity and people in general, and don't trust people to understand why certain traits are worthwhile to learn; rather, I assume most people see Draper ordering an old fashioned and just blindly do so the next time they're at a bar, even if it is a dive.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 11:40 PM
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The fact that good film is indeed art says nothing about its real world application. Michael Corleone, Frank Lucas, and Don Draper all act the way they do with scripted responses from everyone else; in real life conversation is real time with a multitude of responses. Additionally, the point of all these movies is to not be like these guys. Don Draper, Corleone, and Frank Lucas all end up unquestionably unhappy, documented by both the directors and critics. Their personalities are cool and sexy …
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 10:59 PM
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I agree with the first portion of your post. I specifically wrote "fictional characters" because I do see the value of studying Napoleon, Alexander, Caesar, etc. Fictional movies though are by definition entirely scripted and very little of them should be applied to real life.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 04:57 PM
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lmao I would rather hang myself or than become a meth head arguer like you + Trump + Hitler. But hey man, aspire to whomever you want to be like...best of luck on the whole Hitler thing too! I'm Jewish so if you ever need my address to come find me don't hesitate to reach out via PM!!!!
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 12:48 AM
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lol thx will def. check out and hopefully be like u 1 day :) EDIT: Also, "fucking idiot" isn't a metaphor. Relating to your article, it is even a simile. So the same logic I applied to the OP applies to you now - I don't take you seriously. You can have your day in the sun with your social frame empire mumbo jumbo and I'll just chill with my basic working knowledge of the language.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 12:37 AM
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By non-ironically using the verb "dethroned", as if your social group walks with the significance of ancient Rome, you lost any chance of me taking you seriously.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/16 10:14 PM
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I went back and read your posts and therefore have some things to say about your philosophy. In an older post you write that women truly want "unconditional love and learning experiences". After that I stopped taking you seriously. Why? Nothing in life is unconditional. Just because you are a woman and have a vagina does not entitle you to unconditional love. You are not magic, nor special, nor deserving of anything simply because you are a woman. Moreover, what do you define as love? Because th…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/16 10:04 PM
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I strongly urge you to read about Sisyphus if you have not already. The synopsis: a greek king was punished to push a boulder up a hill for the rest of eternity. Upon reaching the top, the boulder would fall back to the bottom and he would have to repeat the process again...for eternity. The famous quote following the passage is..I'd like to believe that Sisyphus was happy, which - according to scholars - he was. The lesson being that man and the brain are capable of being satisfied with anythin…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/16 04:09 AM
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He's 55. You're 19. Those facts alone make you automatically the winner and bigger man immediately after the phrase "as the argument escalated"...
/r/TheRedPill24/07/16 03:11 AM
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Of course intellect doesn't equate with alphaness, but I'm going to give guys like Spiegel and Zuckerberg the benefit of the doubt and say: their marriages are likely more calculated than what's led to believe by the public. No matter your feelings towards Facebook and social media in general, it is arguably one of the top 5 most impactful inventions in the past 100 years. Zuckerberg, along with Musk, will likely be seen as the modern day Edisons of the world. With that image and business to uph…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/16 02:48 AM
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There's a reason the sidebar says not to reference fictional movies because they are just that...fiction. While based on a true story, the distilled version of the Cinderella Man that we are accustomed to is still 50% part fantasy. Braddock took the fight because even as the loser he would get a pay day much greater than a month's worth of shifts at the docks, which were not guaranteed. His kid was extremely ill and without the money, they would basically be on the street on and off. Also, it's …
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 01:07 AM
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Thinking that any political impact we have is going to effect the future of mankind is greatly overvaluing ourselves.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 10:26 PM
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No - what we don't need are more newcomers hellbent on becoming like Frank Underwood. Politics is a game run by people far more powerful and wealthier than 99% of TRP audience.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 09:29 PM
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"The universe is indifferent" - Don Draper The universe, at least our interpretation of it, is not shit testing you. It is completely independent of your existence. To say life is shit testing us is to associate it with manipulation and other negative thoughts. Equating life with shit tests is a great way to become delusional. Your desires and your thoughts are a function of you being a flawed human being. The fundamentals of life have nothing to do with our personal flaws.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 04:31 PM
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Some other tips for all your soon-to-be freshman: When going to parties, limit your group for the love of God; especially when it's predominantly guys. There is nothing more embarrassing and detrimental to your capacity to have fun than walking into a party with a group of 9 dudes and 1 girl. You will get kicked out immediately by the frat brothers, or whoever is throwing down. Girls are currency in college for social life. There are only 3 reasons to ever be with girls. 1 - you are fucking them…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 04:07 AM
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You mean a platform for discussion has turned into people relentlessly trying to impose and validate their own world beliefs on/from others? But..but..but...people are usually so open to perception-altering lessons. At the end of the day, the people that want to put in the work will come out of here successful. If I make a shit post, I'll respond to the commenters and admit when they make a good point. It's what you make of it, as is everything in life.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/16 04:05 AM
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Sure, a conservative number that he inherited as a net worth upon his father's death would be 1.6 billion in 1999. Plug that into any basic financial calculator, with 16 time periods, assuming his money was sitting in either A) a mattress or B) a bank with world-standard interest rates, and the future value from 1999 would be approximately 3 billion. Take into account the inflation that worked against him from his current net worth of approx. 4.5 billion, and assuming the absolute minimum of dep…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/16 01:59 AM
1

There is nothing alpha about not having a single unique thought, or word you're willing to stand by. If you want to flip flop your opinions and promises on a minute-by-minute basis to gain the admiration of primarily low-lower middle class, unintelligent people (most of whom who still have confederate flags), feel free to do so. Also, a little research would shed light on the fact that Donald Trump is in the running for the worst business man of this generation -- taking into consideration infla…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 11:04 PM
9

It absolutely baffles me the number of guys who value independence, self-fulfillment, being powerful, getting girls, and ultimately being Alpha, but refuse to read. Abso-fuckin-lutely baffles me. Television and radio has been around for 150 years. Civilization has been around for thousands of years. Surely there is a benefit to being able to think on your own. But in books we literally have a repository of the greatest minds to ever live to access easily. Nearly every word that has ever been wri…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 10:57 PM
1

Of course, I'm not saying it's good decision making. But it definitely happens.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 07:55 PM
3

I agree with a lot of what you're saying, but I'm of the mindset that suffering and pain is a bit overrated. Red Pill aside (which I know is a statement begging for downvotes), a majority of people will encounter some form of tragedy or hardships in their lives. I hate whiners, bitchers, tumblrinas, etc, etc, but I'm not ignorant enough to turn a blind eye on the fact that most everyone you meet does have, in the most cliched terms, "a story" (god I hate saying that shit). My point being, though…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 05:04 PM
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I've been best friends with a guy for ongoing 10 years now. Despite living in different cities, and him being a doctor and me being in business, we get together once a month. Primarily to hang out, added benefit of getting away from the women in our lives. People always ask how we sustain a happy, optimal friendship that is somewhat similar to how it was in college, and we always point out that, "good friendships aren't the default state of friendships". As you pointed out with happiness, any su…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 02:29 PM
3

Buying a new car to impress your male neighbors is like a huge societal trope...
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 02:24 PM
16

Women act this way because you're literally being paid to clean up after them and cater to their desires. Although I don't see the connection between men and clothes entirely. Clothes require the woman to spend money. That's why they act like lunatics at sales. Women certainly don't want the guys equivalent to a sale item, and it rarely takes effort/money for women to get guys. A bit of an aside now: in my experience, women who are less attractive often spend more time buying clothes and tinkeri…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 05:41 AM
3

Agree with your analysis, but T.S. Eliot was also highly dependent on women, and desperately longed for public appraisal of his work to prove to his family and females that he was a great writer. "I am very dependent upon women (I mean female society)." - he wrote at 26. His writing is incredible. If you haven't read the Four Quartets, set aside a month and read it. Absurdly dense, subtle, and symbolic, but groundbreaking stuff. It's a shame he spent his entire writing career trying to prove tha…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 04:53 AM
1

Also good point! Balance, combination of both maybe. As stated in other reply, will incorporate into the framework of my theory.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 07:38 PM
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Good point! Will incorporate into the framework of my post.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 07:38 PM
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Lol, it sounds so beta, but I'm increasingly becoming a bigger fan of "whoops". Especially in scenarios like you mentioned, bumping into people on the street. It's my way of saying, "yeah, something happened. I recognize it. But I take no responsibility." Try saying "whoops" to a girl when she's heated about something, and that'll really get her going. (Take this slightly satirical paragraph with a grain of salt)
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 07:11 PM
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May seem obvious, but I apologize sincerely only to men whom I consider my closest friends. For anyone else, maybe excluding very senior people I work for, the benefit I gain from apologizing unequivocally does not outweigh the cost of doing so.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 06:52 PM
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Not worth it yet. Ok, maybe so :) But don't get comfortable. Why do people who lose 80% of their weight goal balloon back up? Because people are fuckin pathetic and not disciplined. Keep going, mate. Cheers on the progress though.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 02:03 AM
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You're hopeless and on the way to becoming helpless. In no other arena of life outside of women would you continue to give the benefit of the doubt. If a grizzly bear all of a sudden showed up in your yard one day, and was chill for the first week, then attacked the shit out of you, you wouldn't say "oh, I spent a week with this bear and it was fine. Despite the fact it nearly killed me, I'm going to keep it around." You just don't fuckin do that. You don't want to read the sidebar? Fine, you wo…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 01:37 AM
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Nowhere in the post is any indication of her having fun. I don't give a shit if she had fun or not. I just wanted to articulate that you weren't being alpha, TRP, or anything that warrants a positive descriptor. Fortunately this is just a ballroom dancing class. Some friendly advice: when you graduate and get a job, for the love of christ do not apply that mindset to how you work with females. You will get fired and/or hammered with an abuse charge in <1 week.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 09:19 PM
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Lol are you kidding me with this post? This woman is paying money to take the class, and learn how to properly ballroom dance, which I'm assuming entails both leading and following. You weren't being an alpha, you were being an adult bully and a prick. Obviously she wasn't going to lead when you asked her...you already said no to her before twice. You think because you "crushed her soul" that makes you alpha? Let's apply this to a work scenario. A female coworker and I have to present in front o…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 09:02 PM
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I agree with lessons 1 and 2. The sad thing is that people's dreams rarely change; people would rather just adjust their expectations to align with their shitty habits and lifestyles. I doubt any master video gamer who is overweight truly believes he is fulfilled. Most people who go to undergrad with the goal of becoming a doctor drop off the pre med path and then become a nurse or physicians assistant, spewing bullshit about how those jobs better cater to their natural talents. In reality, they…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 06:54 AM
3

Your post might seem obvious, but I really agree with it. For context, I am not the strongest guy out there. Not even close to it. I have a good amount of muscle, but for the most part am lean, and I'm also 5'8. In college I actually was told quite frequently I had a boy band look. Aka metrosexual and not someone in position to fight in the rare case shit goes down. Since then I've put on muscle, and am still working on it. BUT, back to your post: I've always had success in my life when it came …
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 10:09 PM
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Everything is pointless if you want to be a dick about it. TRP and dominating life in general is about assigning value to things on your own volition. I don't envy the guy who plays the philosophical bullshit card "nothing has meaning". I envy the guy who pinpoints the things from which he truly derives pleasure from - working out, puzzles, reading, sand castle building for christ sake - and masters them without giving into the rhetoric of society and more specifically, women. Call me a cynic, b…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 09:53 PM
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I'd say what you're saying may be true for 90% of bars in cities. But my point is that if you are going to top establishments, there is no way as an employee - especially a premier bartender - you will get away with lying about tips. Highly-acclaimed bars not only track every dollar that is spent on both the bill and tips, but they have undercover employees going around to ensure that records are properly kept and service is up to par. A group of guys decided to do some blow in the bathroom of a…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 06:39 AM
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I respect your career history so I'm not going to tell you that you're incorrect. All my bartender friends, at least at the top bars in major cities, would never have the opportunity to "estimate at the end of the night" what they're owed. The best bars are cash cows and operated like efficient, strategic businesses...every dollar is tracked and no bartender is taking untraceable money; at least one that wants to keep their job. A bar in Kenmore requires you to be a busser for 16 months before b…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 03:30 AM
2

Hibiki 12 is my favorite whiskey...I don't order it out so much because it's 18 - 23 bucks for 1.5 ounces in Boston and NYC, with the exception of Benihanas lol (13 for it on the rocks). It's so good. But I'd rather see someone get a vodka cranberry because they genuinely enjoy it for 9 dollars, rather than drop 20 bones on a drink they dislike and/or know nothing about.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 01:49 AM
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Definitely is - but bartenders immediately look at the receipt to A) make sure it's signed and B) to enter confirmation on the computer it was paid. They will instantaneously see how much you tipped. Tipping in cash does nothing but prove to everyone else in the bar how much of a high roller you are.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 08:59 PM
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Sorry, but some of this stuff is so try hard and derived from how movie alphas, aka fictional characters that could never be applied to the real world, act in scene. Buddies with owners of 3 of the top bars in Boston. There is absolutely no difference between tipping in cash and tipping with card in 2016. In fact, it's often easier for bartenders and owners to divvy up extra compensation at the end of a shift or week if the tips are written on a credit card receipt. Bartenders also have to enter…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 08:37 PM
2

Yeah, AWALT. But I sense you're throwing in the white flag like a pansy. Voice your concerns, pose some objections, lay down some potential consequences, hell, if you want to and can afford to travel the world, offer to do it. But to criticize this woman for something she has yet to do (however likely) and basically exercising free will make you seem a little maniacal. If it makes you feel uncomfortable, tell her, and then explain how you're going to handle the situation from your perspective. D…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 06:09 PM
1

Agree with your post. Important to note, though, that I think a majority of guys that consider themselves funny aren't actually funny at all. It's common courtesy in this bullshit day and age to laugh at attempts of humor out of common courtesy. Additionally, maybe being hysterically funny does get you laid, but only if you're literally one of the top 10 funniest people in the world, like a primetime comedians: Carlin, Louis CK, Bill Burr. Being funny is like any other character trait: there is …
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 05:54 PM
1

I think this is a fictitious song he created with the intention of making millions of dollars, and not a documentary on the alpha-ness of his life...
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 05:49 PM
2

Giving a fuck and not giving a fuck is always about following through. Weak people who don't get the results they want either give a fuck and don't do anything, essentially coming off as whiners, or don't give a fuck at first, then flip. Not the greatest or most applicable example for real life, but I'm currently watching the Sopranos series again; them getting upset and getting what they want from it only happens because the characters are literally willing to kill you for the results they desi…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 02:07 AM
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lmao Yahoo Groups...I remember those things. good times.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 07:12 PM
2

AWALT is just a kind way of saying that internally, all humans are savages. Think of it from a man's perspective: if a girl is 300 pounds and therefore not fuckable, her buying me a 100 dollar dinner isn't going to suddenly make me hard. The bare bones savagery of women gets blurred when they are considering other things than just hooking up with you (how long they want to keep you around, etc), but on hookup apps, attractiveness and only attractiveness will get you laid.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 07:08 PM
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Saying that the sex isn't going to be good is a rather large assumption. And you're conflicting with a major Red Pill principle: Don't give a flying rats ass about how women think. Focus on yourself. If the sex isn't good, fuckin tell her to improve or don't have sex with her again.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 06:46 PM
2

That's assuming I'm consciously engaging in prostitution? Your logic is not matching up. If a non-prostitute woman is expecting meals and compliments from me, not only do I have no obligation to give them, I'm most definitely not. If for some reason I venture off into prostitution, that's a whole different universe than what your original post described. If I don't pay I'm getting beat up and potentially killed by her pimp.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 06:37 PM
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Who cares what they are plotting and scheming for, or expecting? Yeah, AWALT. AWALT applies to girls who say "not looking for a hookup" and girls who say "I take it in the butt". Regardless of what they say, if you're hot, they'll fuck you. Fuck and leave.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 06:31 PM
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That's why I said, "outside of girlfriends and already fucked plates". After that, sure, woman use sex as a bargaining chip. But if a woman meets you for the first time, online or in person, and she wants to fuck you, she will....no meals or favors required.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 06:25 PM
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I don't think anyone here is whiteknighting them. And any girl that says, "not looking for a hookup" is lying. Girls on tinder or dating sites are either looking for a loser to buy her meals and pay for adventures, with no intention of fucking him. Or she's looking to get fucked by a handsome, 10/10 CEO. There is no in between, unless the woman is <4 out of 10. A woman who isn't ugly gets approached by men every damn day. If she really wanted a relationship, she'd be in one. On the flipside, a 1…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 06:15 PM
1

The title of your post included the phrase, "how financial success is beta". Not "how even with financial success you can still be beta".
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 04:27 PM
3

Hot girl enters elevator. I think to myself, "I'd like to fuck her". I have at maximum 8 seconds to either secure her number or open up the possibility for another engagement. Oh, and I'm in the elevator with my relatives and other total strangers, making all of this a lot of work for a girl I met 5 fuckin seconds ago. If I do, great. If I don't I think to myself, "there are millions of other hot girls". I most certainly DO NOT call her "wifey material" simply because she's holding a fuckin text…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 04:25 PM
2

The first rule this forum is to read the sidebar. You're not even allowed to post until you do. You clearly did not. And as a result, make the worst post in TRP history.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 04:19 PM
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Definitely don't rely on financial success alone. But I never think making a cautionary post warning others not to become super successful is a good idea. Also, if you're into the money and success for pussy, you're going to have a very miserable life.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 04:08 PM
1

Claim you own apartment building elevator, spend entire post talking about how much of a unicorn girl is, impressed with your ability to not let girl you didn't come remotely close to banging ruin your weekend with free agents. Didn't fuck. Nailed it :) TRP clearly states that you should inform her of your control over the elevator, and next time charge her upon entry in either blowjobs or cash money.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 03:59 PM
1

Hey, what works for you works for you. The underlying principle of being Alpha is to better yourself within the context of your own life. I personally don't derive that much satisfaction from getting guys who are standing on the wall to dance and have a good time. I mean that non-sarcastically. If that's something that genuinely makes you happy, then go for it. Did you get them to let loose because their capacity to have fun truly fulfilled you, or because you thought it would make the girls you…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 05:18 AM
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I agree with your statement from your perspective. I think, though, I'm sure there are a lot of guys who say to themselves, "I'm going to go to a club that is clearly too expensive for me to be in, and show a girl I belong here and am successful by buying drinks". Maybe I just think dudes are that bad.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 05:11 AM
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I sorta beg to differ. You're at a night club that sells drinks for $14 a pop. You can just as equally express interest by talking to the girl, touching her arm, asking her to dance. Buying her a nice cocktail doesn't only show her you have a capacity to earn - of course it's meant to show you have game and advanced interest - but it definitely shows you are careless enough about your funds that you're willing to pay 400% markup on 75% of a shot. Buying a girl anything, in my opinion, is about f…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 05:05 AM
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My response is two parts: silence is only effective if you have the communication skills and intelligence to pull off a high impact remark. The other element being that you do need to look engaged. If you sit in the back of the bar, or away from a table of guys, only to come over once every hour to muster out some incoherent babble, your silence is going to look like a defense mechanism for being socially inept. Second part of my response: ask yourself, do others really consider you a friend by …
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 04:59 AM
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You should only acquire wealth because it gives you the freedom to live your life how you want, the power to support the people you truly care about, and - if used correctly - respect from people who actually matter: other important men. Acquiring wealth, or showing off your capacity to earn wealth for the sake of scoring chicks gets you buried in life, both internally and externally. A prick comes up to a girl at a bar and is beta as fuck, but happens to be wealthy, and buys her a round: screw …
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 04:40 AM
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This guy sounds like he is equating being an alpha with attracting women. All the subcategories listed out - money, sex, power - are pretty closely tied to women. Which is why I don't completely agree with him. Being Alpha is about mastering yourself and fulfilling the lifestyle you want to achieve. By this definition, lots of other things outside the scope of women and sex need to be considered. I enjoy golfing, a game built on trust and the enjoyment of other guy friends. I don't know about yo…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 04:30 AM
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Honestly think I would have hated that girl. I also don't value putting down people much in conversation. Wit is good, but you come off just as much of a prick if you look like you're just staying silent, waiting for the first moment to expose someone. Of course people are going to be idiots in casual conversation. That's the reason we call it conversation rather than a formal debate. A genuine, "I see what you're saying, but I think this" is my go to move whenever I feel the need to counter som…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 04:22 AM
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TRP is about mastering yourself. From first hand experience: the absolute only way to overcome anxiety and depression is to truly understand who you are as a person. Anxiety stems from potential ambiguity - uncertainty about the future, uncertainty about others, uncertainty about the outcomes of certain situations. Life, as TRP is unpredictable and at times horrid. Why? Because people are self-serving maniacs who at the end of the day do things with the sole intention of making themselves happy,…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/16 09:45 PM
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Silence is powerful in any situation. I get attention from both guys and girls for it all the time. So many guys are trying to one up each other's presence, even in a friendly manner. Who can counter a person's the point the best? Who can make the funnier joke? All with the intention of drawing attention from females. How do we know it's with the intention of getting female attention? Because hang out with a group of dudes on any given afternoon - they are all sitting with each other, dead silen…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/16 05:41 PM
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Sort of a unique situation for me. My mother has always been the main earner of my family (made >500k as a partner in a consulting firm. Retired now). My father did alright, but nowhere near that well. He died when I was a teenager, and since then my mother has been head of the family. She confronted her brother and sister about needing to step their game up and take care of my sick grandmother, and has always told me to look out for myself. Since my father passed and I formed my own successful …
/r/TheRedPill10/07/16 03:33 PM
1

I take the giving no fucks = attractive mindset with a grain of salt. Alphas who don't give a fuck likely have other priorities, which are impressive to women - career, gym, hobbies - that rank higher on the totem poll than getting pussy, which is why they don't give a fuck. These things in and of themselves are attractive. What girl would't want an in shape, wealthy, interesting man to fuck? I don't think a guy who sits on the couch playing COD all day not giving a fuck about women would be fou…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/16 03:18 PM
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Buddy's dad is a big time investment banker. Married a 10/no job. She cheated on him. They have three kids he fully supports. Openly tells him and I never to even consider getting married. It's a shit deal.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/16 04:04 PM
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