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1

Been there. One time way back when I was with a super hot girl and I was so nervous that I couldn't get hard. Still pushed through though, always got to keep going.
/r/seduction31/10/22 06:01 PM
0

In my personal experience and others', no guy really verbally "asks" for consent. If she is in your room with just you and her, she is consenting to being alone with you; if you can read the vibe and her body language and take things slow and communicate then you can escalate appropriately without having to pause and be like "hey, can I get you naked and have sex with you?" It kills the vibe. You think Brad Pitt or Leo ask women what they can do? And since this is Reddit I know some idiot is goi…
/r/seduction31/10/22 06:01 PM
1

No, I've been exactly where you were and I don't know why but it was always in my mind. Her only physical flaws were a nose that kind of stuck out of that the bridge a bit (could only see it from the side profile) and one other minor physical flaw that was hardly noticeable, YET despite everything else being great I couldn't get them out of my mind. Maybe there were other issues that were preventing me from fully committing because damn I know I'm not perfect either
/r/seduction31/10/22 05:52 PM
66

"Yeah no worries, I'm just vibing / happy to be here"
/r/seduction31/10/22 05:48 PM
11

Most common pre-intercourse test
/r/seduction31/10/22 05:48 PM
3

It’s their built-in biological imperative to test a man to make sure he is the real deal, a competent boss and not some fraud. Don’t hate the player hate the game bro
/r/seduction28/10/22 01:52 PM
6

Dude 1000%. Gotta keep it simple. Drinks at 2-3 bars with good logistics back to the pad. Save the activities for when you know you actually kind of like the girl and don’t need alcohol to stand being around her lol
/r/seduction27/10/22 09:01 PM
61

All of these are on point. Nice to see someone putting some real value out on this sub
/r/seduction27/10/22 04:55 PM
1

Lmao why’d you delete the post, pussy?
/r/seduction27/10/22 03:57 AM
2

Glad I could help 👍🏻
/r/seduction27/10/22 01:13 AM
4

She’s playing games with you
/r/seduction27/10/22 12:34 AM
28

Dude you’re trying to do too much too soon after. You’re making yourself way too available and not leaving any mystery. A simple follow up text a few hours after is all you need, then you can go from there. If you keep this up she’s going to lose interest fast
/r/seduction26/10/22 08:44 PM
20

You’ll be fine. Drop some good anti aging tips on us. I have a good base but I’ve been slacking in this regard
/r/seduction25/10/22 11:22 PM
7

You can do a lot of good shit with money. Pussy will make you feel good temporarily but can come with a whole set of issues and drama
/r/seduction25/10/22 02:31 PM
13

I’m guessing you’re trolling, congrats
/r/seduction24/10/22 04:00 PM
15

Bro this is a seduction forum. It’s sexual by nature. I can’t with some of you guys lol
/r/seduction24/10/22 03:59 PM
20

Dude seriously? The end game of a date is hooking up if the vibe is right and it goes well. If I want to have some causal fun I’ll kick it with my boys
/r/seduction24/10/22 03:50 PM
24

So, what? If you hesitate to escalate you will masturbate. Why go through all the bullshit of planning and executing a date to not shoot your shot? I stg some guys on this sub are actually braindead, makes sense why some of you need help with basic shit like this. Applies to the guy below as well
/r/seduction24/10/22 03:12 PM
15

I was speaking in general terms, retard. If you actually had experience with women you would know this is a common trend
/r/seduction24/10/22 03:11 PM
7

Bro if you have to ask on this sub then you should absolutely not attempt this at all
/r/seduction24/10/22 03:08 PM
2

Same here
/r/seduction24/10/22 01:32 PM
39

You don’t have to but girls will think you’re weird if you don’t at least try
/r/seduction24/10/22 11:38 AM
2

S’all good man, I didn’t mean it as a personal attack. I apply everything I initially said to myself as well, it’s hard out there for guys, we just gotta grind and get that cash
/r/seduction24/10/22 11:05 AM
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Just skimmed your post history out of curiosity and now I feel empathy for you and regret that I worded the last part of my original comment poorly. You’ve still got time, good luck out there.
/r/seduction24/10/22 10:38 AM
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Delete
/r/seduction24/10/22 10:33 AM
0

It’s a cold competitive dog eat dog world out there, shit isn’t fair and nature is brutal. You’re a guy so the world won’t give a fuck about your problems and most guys won’t either because with an attitude like that you’re just one less man to compete with. Quit crying on the internet and get rich.
/r/seduction24/10/22 09:47 AM
3

I like the “Are you single?” My buddy does that in all his approaches. Good qualifier, shows confidence/intent, and saves time if she isn’t
/r/seduction23/10/22 11:56 PM
10

Yeah. Even with girls I like I’ll give them an easy out so they can just thumbs up it or leave it on read, sometimes the pressure to keep a convo going all day is so annoying
/r/seduction23/10/22 11:49 PM
1

Yeah I feel you. But it’s probably just going to lead to hurt and pain the longer you keep it. She even said that you guys aren’t dating, girls love keeping a guy in orbit for attention/venting/chatting and as soon as some Chad crosses her path you’ll be tossed aside
/r/seduction23/10/22 10:39 PM
1

LDR’s aren’t worth the hassle man. Cmon this is common sense
/r/seduction23/10/22 10:13 PM
1

The US
/r/seduction23/10/22 06:42 PM
1

Sounds like you were in the friend zone. Forget about it and work on yourself
/r/seduction23/10/22 06:04 PM
1

I would only wait past the first date if she obviously is a high quality good girl with her innocence still intact or if she said she was religious. To be fair most women I have dated since I’ve been single have been city girl sluts (don’t mean that in a bad way) so all I had to do was not fuck it up
/r/seduction23/10/22 03:03 PM
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Stupid ass rule. Take charge and escalate as far as you can if there is a good vibe. It’s 2022 and girls fuck these days. If she isn’t down she’ll let you know with her vibe or by telling you no
/r/seduction23/10/22 02:53 PM
2

You didn’t really elaborate on the nature of your relationship or why in 2022 you “lost contact.” Sounds like a friend zone type deal
/r/seduction23/10/22 02:52 PM
1

Hard to say. Never hurts to shoot the shot though.
/r/seduction22/10/22 07:54 PM
6

“Let me know” - putting the decision in her hands. Plan a date and tell her when you’re going to hang out. Be assertive, don’t be passive. Women want to be led “Be cool” - sounds cringe and kind of dismissive. Like “yeah I don’t care enough to make plan, be cool tho.” I’d cut this out or only use it with your friends
/r/seduction22/10/22 07:02 PM
3

Not that abnormal. I used to be like this when I was young
/r/seduction22/10/22 06:43 PM
135

Bro you posted this same shit a week ago
/r/seduction21/10/22 10:44 PM
1

Depends on a lot of different factors
/r/seduction21/10/22 04:44 AM
1

Give her space and get busy. Be out of your place as much as possible. Hit the gym, go out with friends, come home late, as much as you can. Don’t text her, be cordial when you cross paths at your place, “how was your day, ok cool well I’m tired, good night” type stuff. She’ll get curious and come around, or you’ll meet other girls by virtue of being out and about and improving yourself. Win win Also, I’m regards to your text game: no question marks, no smileys…that’s teen girl shit. A better te…
/r/seduction21/10/22 04:39 AM
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1000%. Always gotta play the numbers game. That’s all it is to me. Can’t meet girls by staying in. Honestly I don’t really have any other reason to go out than to be where all the hot girls are, I’d be content to entertain myself at home 😂😂
/r/seduction21/10/22 04:34 AM
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Mine was right place right time. At a bar with two friends, they both dipped with girls. I was like well shit. And then this girl motioned me over and asked if I wanted to fuck her and her friend. I was like “ok sure lol”
/r/seduction21/10/22 03:51 AM
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Sounds like you guys had something real. I’ve kind of been going through something similar but not as extreme in your case. Broke up with gf because things were falling apart long distance, I wasn’t sure about long term compatibility in some regards. That was a year ago, have banged like 10 chicks, some I kept around for a bit. Still miss her a bit and think about her a ton. To be fair though most of them have been pretty mid quality, I need to work on myself and quit fucking around
/r/seduction21/10/22 03:35 AM
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My buddy had a few therapy sessions after he broke up with gf and then was going through it. Said it helped a ton
/r/seduction21/10/22 03:33 AM
2

Glad I could offer some value 😊👍🏻
/r/seduction20/10/22 11:57 PM
1

Yeah, it’s his fault for bringing her around the squad without kissing her first or establishing if they have some kind of relationship. If they haven’t done anything or discussed any arrangement then she’s still a free agent and is free game. However if this guy is a good friend I’d probably give him a heads up first like “hey bro, she’s giving me good signals, I’m gonna shoot my shot, just letting you know”
/r/seduction20/10/22 10:29 PM
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Always happy to help someone who seems like they genuinely want to improve. You seem like you know what’s up and you’re on the right track. The Coolidge effect in a nutshell is basically that men get bored banging the same woman over time. It’s just physical thing and has nothing to do with their love for the woman. It can be mitigated by staying healthy/in good shape (a big one), trying new things in the bedroom (role play, outfits, sex in different places (dressing room at store, etc), and I t…
/r/seduction20/10/22 08:14 PM
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Especially with men, we were designed to desire sexual variety. I know it’s difficult for women to understand and this can lead to a lot of relationship issues I.e. the man cheating but still being in love with his SO
/r/seduction20/10/22 08:04 PM
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That’s great that you care enough to ask for advice and work on it. Unfortunately an SO gaining weight is a big attraction killer for men (source: friends, personal exp, psych major, personal research, common sense, etc). Look up the Coolidge effect. Men will unfortunately overtime become “bored” or less interested by repeated sexual stimuli. This is a part of male biology and human nature, and can happen with women as well although to a lesser degree looks-wise. Gaining weight can speed the Coo…
/r/seduction20/10/22 08:01 PM
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That’s great actually. So you’ve been in this relationship for 4 years, are saying that sex is happening less frequently or more of you/him/both going through the motions a bit, or is it another issue? Just wanted to clarify since you said “downwards trend.” Have you and he maintained good physical shape throughout the relationship? Unfortunately the common trend is that both parties tend to let themselves go a bit through a long relationship which can lower desire, sexual stamina, etc. I’m not …
/r/seduction20/10/22 07:46 PM
12

Enthusiastic blow jobs go a long way
/r/seduction20/10/22 07:42 PM
1

Somewhat. If you want a high quality woman you need to be high quality.
/r/seduction20/10/22 04:39 PM
3

I don’t think this post turned out how OP thought it would. Woman moment lol. But I say this with compassion, because after my first comment it seems like you’ve been (somewhat deservedly) dunked on a bit. Take some time to yourself to start to eat better and get in shape, even if it’s only walking a mile a day. If you can manage your diet well fall/winter are a perfect time for this because you won’t be going to the beach/pool. Then when spring/summer hits you’ll be in significantly better shap…
/r/seduction20/10/22 03:36 PM
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Well if you don’t want them to comment on it, don’t bring it up. Sounds like a lot of talk about losing weight and no action
/r/seduction20/10/22 02:43 AM
1

Dude, you got farther than 99% of guys on this sub/IRL. This is a big win, learn from where you messed up and keep it moving.
/r/seduction20/10/22 01:56 AM
4

No. This type of shit is overplayed and used by socially-unsavvy dorks in bars all the time, I’ve seen it happen right in front of me. Women aren’t dumb and if you use some shit like this it basically says “I’m not confident enough to give an authentic approach,” they’ll see right through it
/r/seduction19/10/22 01:39 PM
2

Fuck no. Girls love that raw sexual energy. Why why you empty your gas tank before going on a drive
/r/seduction19/10/22 01:36 PM
1

Dude you said in another comment that you’re 30 and have been on one date. You don’t have the experience to offer me any advice of value and your moralizing on a seduction forum about compassion for a girl I had a one night stand with, treated nicely and drove home is honestly kind of ridiculous.
/r/seduction18/10/22 10:22 PM
1

She doesn’t have my number, so she can’t reach out. And I treated her well and was nice to her, I do have compassion. I’ve been ghosted before and I just accept it as part of the modern dating landscape. But of course I don’t want shit to bite me in the ass, being compassionate and not wanting shit to bite you in the ass down the line don’t have to be mutually exclusive
/r/seduction18/10/22 07:41 PM
1

Yeah that was where I fucked up
/r/seduction18/10/22 06:25 PM
0

Seems like it would be better than ghosting, or by being honest with “hey I’m kind of repulsed by the fact that I fornicated with you while heavily intoxicated, that’s the reason why I’ll never reach out or make an effort to never see you again” like cmon man. Women lie all the time, some would say all is fair in love and war
/r/seduction18/10/22 06:25 PM
1

People tell white lies all the time. A harmless white lie to end the interaction on a good note doesn’t seem like a big deal to me. That said I strive for honesty in all my personal dealings but this seemed like the best option for being gentle, a “it’s me not you” type deal
/r/seduction18/10/22 03:22 PM
1

It definitely helps logistically. No roommates to worry about coming in and interrupting the vibe. I live in an expensive city and women are definitely impressed when I tell them I don’t have any roommates (probably so they can be sluts without anyone else witnessing it)
/r/seduction18/10/22 02:16 PM
6

Lmao true. Even when the bullshit is annoying I try to remember that
/r/seduction15/10/22 02:03 AM
5

Was def physically attracted to her 100%. But also saw hotter girls that could get with. But I hear you 100%, I dealt with that shit today
/r/seduction15/10/22 02:02 AM
10

I’ve been there. Maybe could’ve been happy with her but because of a few things we didn’t align on + me betting on myself to get better in life and pull hotter girls, I broke up with her. But it seems in a lot of healthy relationships the man is “settling” a bit while the woman is reaching. A relationship in which the man is reaching for the woman inevitably puts her on a pedestal and could lead to trouble
/r/seduction15/10/22 01:29 AM
20

Being slightly higher status than your woman and having a woman want you more than you want her isn’t necessarily a bad thing
/r/seduction15/10/22 12:58 AM
3

Dude I feel this 1000%. I was going through that today, picked up an old girl i used to bang at the airport for a layover in my city so we could kick it for a few hours i.e. hook up. Since I’ve been on a no-fap/retention wave I came super fast but figured I’d bounce back after a little while. What actually happened was that right after I came I reverted from a massive cumbrain to my normal self and was pretty horrified that I had to hang out with this girl for 2 more hours. She was cute enough t…
/r/seduction15/10/22 12:56 AM
2

Mods deleted it. But yeah makes sense to me form personal observation
/r/seduction14/10/22 02:30 PM
6

Do you have pets/roommates
/r/seduction12/10/22 10:08 PM
3

Weeknights are the best. She won’t have plans, and if you’re a cool guy with shit going on then you already have cool engagements on Friday and Saturday
/r/seduction12/10/22 06:07 PM
5

Dude focus on girls within a 25 mile radius of you, you don’t need a fucking female pen pal
/r/seduction12/10/22 05:31 PM
5

Lmao sounds like she was using you to make her ex jealous. Should’ve left after that point and worked on a better prospect
/r/seduction12/10/22 02:49 PM
20

Talked to her for a year? Never kissed her or made a move? You gotta be kidding me. Tell her something came up. Geez
/r/seduction10/10/22 03:14 AM
2

Yeah, you guys must not look like a couple if that many guys are approaching her. I think most guys are decent and won’t hit on an obviously taken woman, or at least would want the path of least resistance (a single girl)
/r/seduction10/10/22 02:19 AM
17

If you have to ask then chances are you’re gonna fuck it up
/r/seduction09/10/22 03:37 AM
2

No movie. Several bars, vibe, escalate.
/r/seduction05/10/22 02:25 AM
1

Well you’re probably going to have a hard time then
/r/seduction04/10/22 04:06 AM
1

If you preferred girls of your own race you’d have a way easier time
/r/seduction04/10/22 02:43 AM
5

Ok I personally wouldn’t feel too much regret over that situation
/r/seduction02/10/22 07:01 PM
51

Use that regret to approach the next girl. Dude I still feel regret from girls I didn’t approach years ago…it’s always worse then whatever rejection you could get from approaching
/r/seduction02/10/22 04:32 PM
1

Unfortunately because of technology and social media even average woman can hold out for the most top tier man that their female psyche selects for. Guys with less than ideal genetics are going to have a hard time. IMO they’d be better off trying to pair off with a women that matches their looks instead of pining for women that would never give them a second glance
/r/seduction29/09/22 04:31 PM
2

This. Also never ask a girl if she's into you...If you have to ask then you're already screwed
/r/seduction28/09/22 08:31 PM
1

I think it most cases women don’t notice men visually they men notice women unless you’re in the top 1% of height/looks/muscles. Tbh it’s pretty rare to get approached by a hot girl, it’s only happened once in my life. You have to approach and demonstrate confidence and competence and make them feel something to really get their attention.
/r/seduction28/09/22 04:04 PM
1

Hah so true. I’ve seen a few chicks totally change it up once they kinda figure out how I lean. Soy boys that can’t pull will downvote the truth into oblivion
/r/seduction26/09/22 01:33 AM
6

Jesus dude. Down bad
/r/seduction25/09/22 08:54 PM
20

If a girl was texting me stupid ass shit like that I’d drop her like a bad habit. She sounds lame
/r/seduction25/09/22 05:16 PM
1

Ok so no. It’s a lame line
/r/seduction25/09/22 05:14 PM
1

Have you ever had any success with this opener? Yes or No?
/r/seduction25/09/22 01:39 PM
6

Liberal girls love conservative guy dick, see it all the time through my friends and personal exp. If they wanna talk politics, fine, I’m not gonna say shit and I don’t care anyway because they’re just parroting what they get from social media/what’s deemed acceptable by society to believe
/r/seduction25/09/22 01:22 PM
3

Bro unless you’ve had any success with this I don’t see the point in even posting about it. If you actually used this on someone IRL you would come off as autistic at best and creepy at worst, because there is literally no prior context to the questions of asking “when are we going to get that drink.” For all you know maybe she doesn’t even drink.
/r/seduction25/09/22 03:12 AM
2

Bro I saw your “roast me” post, I know all I need to know about you. Go jack off and quit replying to me
/r/seduction24/09/22 03:23 AM
2

You look pretty normal to me, someone I’d pass in a crowd with looking twice (as opposed to being like whoa that guy is fucking ugly) I saw a post on Twitter where a guy quit porn, quit jacking off, only ate whole foods and learned boxing. He posted pictures of his face before and then 4-5 after adopting these habits and the changes to his face were subtle yet also staggering. Look up soldier face change, these guys who went through basic training in Europe turned from doughy faced recruits to h…
/r/seduction23/09/22 01:37 PM
1

Why not stack mad money and then go to India to scoop up a Pubjabi beauty?
/r/seduction23/09/22 01:24 PM
2

Whoa bro you called me in an incel! Nice burn. I literally had sex last night because apparently unlike you I don’t have to have to cruise tinder for 3’s, I talk to girls in real life. I just like lashing out on Reddit when I see people say something exceptionally stupid because I have to act civil on every other social media app. Good luck on your journey to acquire baseline reading comprehension skills my guy
/r/seduction23/09/22 01:19 PM
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Hey you moronic fuck, did you not see where I said “escalate”…? Obviously gauging the vibe and body language is part of the whole date, thought that stuff went without saying. Pompous autists like you make it hard to want to add any value to this sub.
/r/seduction22/09/22 01:36 AM
31

Sounds like you let her lead the date which probably made you less attractive to her. You need to plan the date and lead it. Little food, no movies (movies are a time sink, you can’t get to know someone during a movie), hit a couple of bars, escalate and kiss her. If you don’t try to kiss on the first date girls think you’re a pussy and/or that they aren’t that attractive to you. Quit blowing up her phone and move on to the next one
/r/seduction21/09/22 05:57 PM
1

Yeah man, grab life by the fucking balls and approach women at the gym. If you do it with some tact then it’s not a big deal at all
/r/seduction21/09/22 12:20 PM
1

Always
/r/seduction21/09/22 12:19 PM
35

Def a win. Now when OP crosses paths with her he can smile and causally be like “hey [name] how’s it going?” quick and in passing and keep it moving since he already introduced himself, they aren’t strangers anymore. Nice job OP
/r/seduction21/09/22 04:39 AM
4

Right you are, however modern society as we know it is fairly recent in terms of human evolution. Our biological firmware remains the same
/r/seduction20/09/22 05:16 PM
7

In a way it is a competition though. We are all competing against each other for resources and mates, such is the nature of man since the dawn of humanity
/r/seduction20/09/22 04:08 PM
1

Bro just jack off, you are not ready for the dating world. In the meantime you need to hit the gym like your life depends on it, and get a trainer if you need to. Work on skills that will offer a lot of value to people. Sales, videography (huge now), photography, anything
/r/seduction18/09/22 08:27 PM
1

Fucks same man drop her like a bad habit. Life is too short to be wasting time on hoes like that
/r/seduction18/09/22 06:57 PM
2

Drop her. Hooked up with a girl who didn’t like being touched, I guess she had been through a lot trauma in her past or whatever. It was horrible. Trying to show a little bit of affection would lead to her having a mini meltdown
/r/seduction15/09/22 05:24 PM
1

Dude if that was the case you would plate this girl and it wouldn’t even be an issue bc you’d have options. The fact that you made this post says it all
/r/seduction11/09/22 02:53 AM
1

You’re already way more into her than she is into you, sorry bud but you’re already screwed. Which isn’t a bad thing, you won’t want to wife this type of girl up. Take it from me, don’t fall in love with a slut
/r/seduction11/09/22 02:42 AM
10

Lmao imagine simping on a girl that has a bf. Get your shit together OP
/r/seduction10/09/22 03:57 PM
15

No dude. Are you fucking serious?
/r/seduction09/09/22 06:55 PM
2

Don’t ask if you can see her again…schedule a date and tell her. Don’t go to the game like a simp. Learn your lesson and move on
/r/seduction09/09/22 03:51 AM
-2

Sheesh that sounds rough! I don’t know how these guys that have these hot ass young au pairs living with them handle it. Like dangling a steak in front of a hungry lion. My buddy is dating a sexy au pair and apparently the wife is a bitch to her because she is young and hot and the husband is all nice to her. But yeah…jus try now out bro. Don’t skeet where ya eat
/r/seduction07/09/22 04:39 PM
0

Yes, I call it my Fuck-It List. On it so far: -super fine Asian chick -super fine light-skin/mixed black girl -busty red head -hot Brazilian
/r/seduction05/09/22 03:00 AM
1

When I was in a relationship I wanted to be able to chase pussy. When I was single I wanted a solid girl to love. There is no solution, only compromises.
/r/seduction05/09/22 02:58 AM
1

Good write up, I really need to get on my cold approach game. My good friend loves to push himself with this kind of stuff (he is the one that made me aware of cold approach waaaay back in like 2015) and he has had some insane success from just casually chatting up random girls
/r/seduction02/09/22 01:58 PM
6

Why did this even come up in conversation? Take her out on a multi stage date and charm the pants off of her. You don’t “negotiate” sex with a woman. Ghost her
/r/seduction01/09/22 11:41 PM
8

Yikes. Judging from your vibe in the post you’re already in trouble. Why don’t you have a gym membership already? Just because you’re in a relationship doesn’t mean you don’t have to work out
/r/seduction01/09/22 02:33 PM
-2

Message her and be like “hey you’re great, but something about your friend really grabbed my attention” and then message the friend and ask her out. No need for subterfuge
/r/seduction01/09/22 12:50 PM
2

Lmao. If he didn’t smash then this whole thing is a moot point
/r/seduction29/08/22 08:32 PM
2

Great post. Love the confidence and I feel all of these points.
/r/seduction29/08/22 03:54 AM
57

“Enough to know that you hoes ain’t shit”
/r/seduction28/08/22 02:34 AM
2

People recommend going to the gym because it greatly increases inner confidence which can lead to more charisma
/r/seduction22/08/22 01:40 PM
0

Women chase commitment, men chase sex. Keep doing your thing and let her bring it up. Otherwise she is going to know she’s got you hooked.
/r/seduction18/08/22 11:15 PM
21

Dumbest shit I’ve ever heard. Be authentic and real and you don’t like yourself, work on yourself until you can. Pretending to be anything much less gay to get pussy is lame
/r/seduction05/08/22 07:12 PM
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Female version of flexing: “I’m always getting taken out to nice spots, I’m so desirable”
/r/seduction04/08/22 01:34 PM
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Good for you man, way to take charge and pay it forward. Great to see some positivity on this sub. Super actionable points, always good to be reminded of this stuff
/r/seduction02/08/22 05:49 PM
1

Loser mindset. You need to fix that bro. My buddy called me 2 nights ago telling me about an amazing night with a girl he met because he saw her looking at him and he struck up a casual conversation. What some here might find crazy is that while he’s not short by any means, he is under 6 feet tall
/r/seduction02/08/22 05:48 PM
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I know guys write about this and guys do it and it works for them but I’ve never been one to get sexual via text before I’ve had a sex with a girl. Not my style, I guess I don’t want to “scare the cat” before getting a chance to charm them in person. For me I try to stay neutral via text, keep it light, maybe throw a joke in if it’s an absolute lay-up that has no chance of being misinterpreted but texting should be used for logistics and planning a date. Once you’ve had sex with a girl then it’s…
/r/seduction31/07/22 07:14 PM
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If you’ve taken care of yourself and put the work in to improve yourself it should get easier, that’s been my experience. Also I’m more used to women’s bullshit and I won’t be arsed out of a night of quality sleep to play along with a girl’s games
/r/seduction30/07/22 05:56 PM
5

Can’t believe some of the comments on here. You really want to roll the dice and go on a date with her friends, I.e. adding potential roadblocks/objections to getting to know her/intimacy? She’s going to be preoccupied with her friends, you’re going to be the odd man out, she might even just be bringing you out as some “look at how desirable I am” arm candy to impress her friends and that she has no intention of doing anything with. I would not recommend doing this unless you have excellent soci…
/r/seduction30/07/22 04:01 PM
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Probably was doing bumps in the bathroom, having a great time with OP, then ran out of blow, started feeling the come down, and bounced to kick it with her dealer/some dude she fucks that has drugs
/r/seduction30/07/22 02:10 PM
3

Quit jacking off and save your juice for when you have a woman in front of you, you will never have this problem again
/r/seduction29/07/22 08:25 PM
2

Welcome to real life bud. Look at how far you’ve come, would you rather be the sexless loser you used to be or who you are now? You gotta take the good with the bad
/r/seduction29/07/22 05:57 PM
1

I’ve pulled on every cruise I’ve ever been on. If you dress well, look decent, and have good social skills (most important) it’s easy, it just comes down to prospecting and finding the cute single girls, of which there probably won’t be ton of depending on what kind of cruise you’re on. Hang out at the bars/clubs and shoot your shot, girls are out there trying to have a fun vacation too and probably want a sweet cruise romance to go back and tell their friends about
/r/seduction28/07/22 06:42 PM
1

Never said I didn’t like dogs. They’re just way more annoying to deal with if you’re trying to pull
/r/seduction27/07/22 02:56 PM
2

Dogs can be so annoying when you’re about to seal the deal, trust me I’ve been there. I like girls with cats way better
/r/seduction26/07/22 07:48 PM
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Agreed, it doesn’t cost anything to treat an unattractive woman/person decently. People should be treating anyone decently regardless of how attractive they are
/r/seduction24/07/22 09:15 PM
3

Supposedly diet, comfort of the modern world, sedentary lifestyles, chemicals in food/products we put on our bodies, micro plastics, society being so tame that men can’t go out and conquer to name a few
/r/seduction11/07/22 03:29 AM
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I felt the same way in my last relationship. Dumped her bc of other issues, fucked several girls, and now I miss the connection I had with her. The grass is aaaaaaaalways greener man
/r/seduction11/07/22 03:11 AM
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Yeah man. I’m glad I came up before all the “you’re bad because you’re male” programming became so ubiquitous in society. Not that I would’ve listened to it anyway ¯_(ツ)_/¯
/r/seduction11/07/22 12:59 AM
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This. Men in the past were more masculine and had higher T levels, women acted like women back then and chivalry came from a place of of the duty of protecting the fairer sex
/r/seduction10/07/22 11:16 PM
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The less people that do it, the better for the people that can pull it off. This shit was never meant to be easy otherwise everyone would do it. And that’s how I like it
/r/seduction10/07/22 09:18 PM
2

Been there. If it’s too good to be true, it usually is. Are the videos conversing with you specifically or are they pretty generic/able to be sent to multiple people
/r/seduction10/07/22 05:24 PM
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No I don’t think that counts, I think that’s normal. Double/triple texting to me is sending a message, then sending another after an hour+, repeating that
/r/seduction10/07/22 05:06 PM
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Was gonna say literally this
/r/seduction10/07/22 05:03 AM
5

Pretty bad, doesn’t inspire awe or give off confidence. Redo
/r/seduction10/07/22 02:34 AM
1

Great. I don’t really consider the bar and pool a straight cold approach because both were party/drinking scenarios. But I banged both of those girls. First gym girl was married but the other one went great, she was mad hot and got her number, haven’t texted yet bc I’ve been busy
/r/seduction10/07/22 01:21 AM
1

I’ve cold approached 4 girls so far this month. 1 at a bar (if that counts), 1 at a pool, and 2 at the gym.
/r/seduction10/07/22 12:55 AM
10

Super high value post
/r/seduction10/07/22 12:48 AM
1

Epic transformation. Way to put in the work
/r/seduction09/07/22 07:04 PM
2

Speaking from experience or? Curious if you can elaborate
/r/seduction09/07/22 04:12 AM
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Straight up. A lot of these girls are so used to having their asses kissed by guys who want nothing more than to fuck them, being authentic and treating them decently goes a long way
/r/seduction09/07/22 04:11 AM
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Sounds awful
/r/seduction09/07/22 04:10 AM
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Yeah, sounds like she was negging OP.
/r/seduction09/07/22 12:41 AM
1

Too true
/r/seduction07/07/22 08:31 PM
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100%, preciate it. I don’t even want to flex like that. I was going to avoid going completely but it’s such a great date spot within spitting distance of my pad, still might pick some other place
/r/seduction07/07/22 08:03 PM
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Lame. Are you 15?
/r/seduction07/07/22 06:38 PM
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Negging is so lame, I’ve never understood the appeal of it or done it. Light teasing/not giving direct answers right away is the way to go
/r/seduction07/07/22 01:09 PM
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It’s that simple
/r/seduction06/07/22 05:11 AM
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Sounds like a lot of good lessons from this experience. You’ll be better prepared next time. Keep shooting shots
/r/seduction05/07/22 11:18 PM
8

Girls will rarely straight up tell you no because they love having some orbiters on deck for if they need a does of attention. Go radio silent
/r/seduction05/07/22 11:07 PM
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Lol ok sure bud. Random add, high interest at first, no FaceTime. Unless she snapped you doing something that you specifically requested (peace sign, thumbs up, etc.) then it’s a catfish until proven real.
/r/seduction27/06/22 08:58 PM
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Probably a catfish
/r/seduction27/06/22 08:53 PM
3

Who cares? That’s a great position to be in. Men chase sex, women chase commitment. If you’re having sex with her then you have the power
/r/seduction24/06/22 06:17 AM
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A rare good post on here for once
/r/seduction21/06/22 11:13 PM
5

One of the greatest pics on the net
/r/seduction17/06/22 10:02 PM
3

Biological clock as mentioned by the other commenter: women have to move on quickly because they have a much smaller window to have children. The older they get the more risks can come up not too long ago in human history a woman actually depended on their man for survival; if he died while hunting or in battle she would have to get over it quickly to find a replacement fast as her life would likely depend on it. This is a trait that was passed on as these women who could move on fast survived t…
/r/seduction15/06/22 03:31 PM
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And biology
/r/seduction15/06/22 03:41 AM
2

No, their developing female brains just get super excited for men with fame and status
/r/seduction13/06/22 07:44 PM
6

This whole sub is retarded questions
/r/seduction12/06/22 07:12 AM
3

Bro you’re just an orbiter/someone for her to vent to and get attention from. Drop her
/r/seduction12/06/22 04:08 AM
13

Don’t do that
/r/seduction11/06/22 03:30 AM
1

No need to even bring it up lol. Just roll with it until she brings it up or you move
/r/seduction10/06/22 11:01 PM
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Keep it light and non-sexual: “to be honest I hadn’t thought that far ahead” “Not really, I’m cool with whatever though” - change subject. If a girl says this she’s already thought about having sex with you. It’s a massive test
/r/seduction09/06/22 10:15 PM
1

Someone posts this shit every day
/r/seduction09/06/22 02:58 AM
2

Yup
/r/seduction09/06/22 02:06 AM
2

I feel you, it’s Reddit man. I thought this sub would be people who actually get laid discussing tips and tricks but people post the stupidest shit/questions all the time, a lot of these people are bored and or hopeless. “I’ve been talking to this girl for 6 months, I think I’m in the friend zone, am I in the friend zone?” Yes ding dong, if you have to ask, you probably are
/r/seduction08/06/22 06:02 AM
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Good stuff for sure
/r/seduction07/06/22 11:08 PM
2

Agreed to some extent. None of us are going to be the next Leonardo Dicaprio (probably) but it’s still worth it strive and make it to the 20% at least
/r/seduction07/06/22 05:32 AM
0

Rough mindset to go through life with. I interact with hundreds of strangers weekly (bc of work) and most people are decent just trying to get by
/r/seduction05/06/22 11:35 PM
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