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| 2 | "Just got out of relationship and too soon to start dating", Next??"Hey no worries. Thanks for being upfront. Take care" Then talk to other girls. Don't text her again unless she initiates. | /r/seduction | 08/05/19 01:01 AM |
| 6 | What if the girl is older than you?You don't have to be super upfront and you don't have to hide it either. What's the best way to get her to think that the age difference isn't a big deal? Answer: Don't treat it like it's a big deal. If she asks, you tell her your age and roll with it. But don't go blurting it out in the first conversation you have with her just to seem "upfront" | /r/seduction | 21/06/17 01:58 AM |
| 14 | Using the word "date" when asking a girl outMake yiur intentions known and say the word date. It's not taboo. Unless you're still in high school or something. I don't think that saying "hang out" relieves any pressure. Instead she'll either not realize it's a date which makes you creepy, or she'll be wondering "is this a date or not?" Just say date. Adults date each other. It's not a big deal. | /r/seduction | 10/06/17 10:16 AM |
| 14 | Peacocking in my 40sThis has to be satire. | /r/seduction | 08/06/17 12:20 PM |
| 1 | Magic and pickuphttps://youtu.be/l2JQEJ5mAWo | /r/seduction | 29/04/17 02:16 PM |
| 1 | An epiphany I just hadThis post is just rambling and drivel with some common pieces of advice thrown in along with some blatantly false advice and ego bullshit. You make it seem like you've got it all figured out but you've got a long way to go. | /r/seduction | 28/04/17 02:43 AM |
| 1 | When a girl says she likes your face, what does that mean exactly?What a stupid question. Just ask her out you piece of shit. Don't be a fucking pudd about it. | /r/seduction | 28/04/17 02:34 AM |
| 1 | How to flirt with women as an introvertToo many people focus on labeling themselves an introvert or an extrovert. Chances are you have both an introverted side and an extroverted side. Try not to neglect your extroverted side just because it's comfortable to say "oh I'm an introvert that's why I'm like this" | /r/seduction | 19/04/17 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Going to a third date - this time a kiss for sure, any tips?If you know she wants to kiss you, nothing wrong with grabbing her attention (and maybe also her waist) and saying give me a kiss. It's all situation dependent though. | /r/seduction | 16/04/17 07:56 PM |
| 2 | Going to a third date - this time a kiss for sure, any tips?You don't really ask someone to kiss you man. You just kiss them when the moment is right. Or if you need to say something you can say something like "hey give me a kiss". But you don't say "hi I'd like to kiss you now is that okay with you? " it just makes you seem like she's doing you a favor with the kiss. A kiss isn't a favor from one person to another. It's something both people enjoy. | /r/seduction | 15/04/17 05:48 PM |
| 2 | Going to a third date - this time a kiss for sure, any tips?Or during a lull in conversation, a simple "hey, give me a kiss" | /r/seduction | 15/04/17 02:32 PM |
| 1 | How should I progress with this girl?I hate when people say not to use the word "date". He's been hanging out with this girl for a while now. If he just says he wants to see her, she will assume it's just like their past hangouts. You want to be open with your intentions, not hide them. | /r/seduction | 15/04/17 02:30 PM |
| 4 | [FR] The girl I was trying to game for a week was throwing herself to my 6'3 tall, robust buddy.Apparently you forgot about it, since you have your lazy ass slacking off frequenting internet forums. Haha wow someone got his feelings hurt. You talk about how much time you've spent studying game. How much time have you spent improving yourself and your attitude? The world doesn't owe you shit. You have a garbage attitude. It shows in your post and I bet the girls you talk to can smell it too. | /r/seduction | 06/04/17 10:56 PM |
| 3 | I suddenly found myself having lost completely my original frame and core beliefUgh this is so well stated. Great reply. OP, please read his comment and take it to heart. You can pretend to be grounded all you want, but anyone can see right through this facade. | /r/seduction | 06/04/17 10:02 PM |
| 10 | Asked for a date got "Im going out with my friend if you want to bring a friend and join us"Wow buddy tell us how you really feel This is terrible advice by the way | /r/seduction | 06/04/17 05:36 PM |
| 7 | Any tips on how to be a very good kisser?Hands can go anywhere. Thighs butt hips side chest upper arms lower back shoulders neck back of head under chin. Seriously wherever. It's not where they go it's how they get there. | /r/seduction | 04/04/17 11:10 PM |
| 13 | Came across ex-girlfriend for the first time after 2 years of self-improvementQuit being a pussy you fag | /r/seduction | 10/03/17 10:18 PM |
| 3 | Best response when girls call me good looking?Cringy as fuck | /r/seduction | 05/03/17 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls lead me on, then find someone else and ignore me?This is a great comment as well | /r/seduction | 02/03/17 11:46 PM |
| 2 | Why do girls lead me on, then find someone else and ignore me?This is honestly one of the best comments I have read on here in a while. You really nailed it. | /r/seduction | 02/03/17 11:41 PM |
| 1 | What to write on a gift card to a date?This is an absolutely horrendous idea. You don't buy a girl flowers for the first date unless you're sure you can pull it off. And you DEFINITELY don't write "don't friend zone me" even if you're joking (which honestly.... no matter how much of a joke it may be, there is definitely some truth to it. And even if it is a joke, it's not a funny one) Jesus christ Edit: ok I'm being harsh but seriously, there's a huge chance you just come off looking like a pudd Just focus on your own words and how y… | /r/seduction | 15/02/17 09:35 PM |
| 10 | Should you openly tell a girl that you are a player, and discuss your magic number?Stop humble bragging. Of course you don't tell them that shit. You want to look like a dude who can fuck any girl, not talk like it | /r/seduction | 13/02/17 11:07 PM |
| 3 | How to tell women you already attached to someone else without them losing interest?Just because there's no rules to seduction doesn't make it okay to be a douchebag You don't need to justify yourself to me, but I also don't need to respect you. He can man up and tell a girl he's seeing other women and wants something non-exclusive. But instead he ropes some chick into a relationship then cheats on her behind her back. I.e. he's a coward | /r/seduction | 11/02/17 03:22 PM |
| 1 | How to tell women you already attached to someone else without them losing interest?He isn't a player bro he is dating a girl to get "relationship experience" What kind of "relationship experience" do you think he'll get when dating someone he doesn't care about and cheats on all the time You want easy pussy, find a FWB He's not a player he's a pudd | /r/seduction | 11/02/17 02:47 PM |
| 5 | How to tell women you already attached to someone else without them losing interest?You're only in a relationship so you can get experience in a relationship???? Pathetic. AND you cheat on your gf??? You are a piece of shit my friend | /r/seduction | 11/02/17 10:46 AM |
| 1 | "I value myself and I give you an opportunity to experience me but if for some reason you choose that worthless guy over me, then it's your problem."Lol OK buddy believe what you want | /r/seduction | 29/01/17 08:38 PM |
| 1 | "I value myself and I give you an opportunity to experience me but if for some reason you choose that worthless guy over me, then it's your problem."This is the definition of outcome-dependence. If some girl goes for another guy, you write her off as only being interested in worthless men. Maybe she's just not into you... don't let it bruise your ego too much. | /r/seduction | 29/01/17 03:38 PM |
| 1 | What are quick and short ways to improve confidence every day?Working out is the most obvious answer. Results are slow and steady but if you stick with it long enough to start seeing results then you get hooked. Even if you only do it 30 mins a day 3 times a week | /r/seduction | 20/01/17 02:26 AM |
| 1 | I think the ideas like "be high energy" and "bring the fun" are fucking awful. Try "just feel good and be comfortable". This shift had caused girls to start approaching me.27 but I realized I enjoy being an extrovert a few years ago. Now I'm finally getting the point where my extroverted side is no longer being neglected. Confidence is something it takes time to build. It doesn't happen overnight. You can "fake the confidence" and it helps, but it's better if you build real confidence through good grooming/dressing/exercise/hobbies. Take care of yourself. Do things you love that make you an interesting and confident person to be around. | /r/seduction | 13/01/17 09:13 PM |
| 1 | I think the ideas like "be high energy" and "bring the fun" are fucking awful. Try "just feel good and be comfortable". This shift had caused girls to start approaching me.Getting a haircut that looks good, getting clothes that fit better, going to the gym, less smoking weed, trying harder at my career, eating better, meditating, etc. You'd be amazed how awesome you feel when you get a good haircut and wear some clothes that fit well. It's much easier to be yourself when you know you look good. | /r/seduction | 13/01/17 02:14 PM |
| 7 | I think the ideas like "be high energy" and "bring the fun" are fucking awful. Try "just feel good and be comfortable". This shift had caused girls to start approaching me.Yea I used to think I was an introvert but I realized I was pretty fucking depressed and actually very much an extrovert. But I just didn't have the social confidence to enjoy it. Now I enjoy both sides of me equally. Social situations are awesome and so is being alone. | /r/seduction | 13/01/17 02:34 AM |
| 1 | I fucked up on the texting, any way to fix this?No I'd leave off the last bit about promising to call her and try again. It's not terrible but it's a little needy and has no purpose. She knows you're interested and you'll hit her up again. A basic "No worries. Feel better!" is fine. Then hit her up again in a few days | /r/seduction | 07/01/17 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Is being a genuinely nice person a bad thing?Yup it's perfectly fine to be a nice person for the sake of being a nice person. But if you're being nice just to get laid then you're a 'nice guy'. | /r/seduction | 07/01/17 04:18 PM |
| 1 | I fucked up on the texting, any way to fix this?Why ask her to coffee that night if she told you she's sick and will be spending the day recovering? Kinda strange but not much of a fuck up. She asked for a raincheck. Give her a few days to recover then ask her out again. | /r/seduction | 07/01/17 04:16 PM |
| 3 | Why you should never hire a female dating coachLol OK buddy if you really feel the twitch of banning me for a comment like that then go ahead. The point of the metaphor is not to compare woman to fish... the point is to show why men who have success with women are a better source of advice than most women would be. | /r/seduction | 07/01/17 04:38 AM |
| 5 | Why you should never hire a female dating coachThe metaphor you were looking for is this. If you want to become great at fishing, would you ask a fish or would you ask a fisherman? | /r/seduction | 07/01/17 02:38 AM |
| 7 | The charismatic are not silentLol rambling will get make her interested? No. Conversation is a two way street | /r/seduction | 04/01/17 02:57 PM |
| 3 | Irritated at how girls rejects most guys so easely and how they treat it so lightly.Good comment | /r/seduction | 26/12/16 04:05 PM |
| 1 | What I learned from an acid trip at a club partyI agree fully | /r/seduction | 26/12/16 03:56 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys build up the courage to do some things?Man I was with you there for the first half but that last half... | /r/seduction | 17/11/16 02:47 AM |
| 1 | I feel like I have more negatives than positives in terms of value/thread | /r/seduction | 30/07/16 08:27 PM |
| 20 | for beginners: the first baby step to get out into the new world of being your best version possibleALPHAbet soup | /r/seduction | 31/01/16 02:59 PM |
| 2 | Would you comment on a girl's pic with this?You post on /r/seduction for advice about her, yet you claim you're not interested? You're lying to yourself man. It sounds like you're afraid of getting rejected so you're telling yourself that you're not interested in her. It's clear she's not "just a friend" and the longer you keep telling yourself that the harder it will be. It's fine to hit on a girl. Worst case scenario is that she's not interested in you. Just don't hit on her with memes.... | /r/seduction | 28/01/16 08:29 AM |
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